Best Dating Tips, Sex, Shame, Waiting for Marriage & More! SINGLENESS Q&A part 2

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  • Опубликовано: 3 дек 2024

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  • @ToriAndChad
    @ToriAndChad  2 года назад +24

    Post your favorite quotes from this video in the comments!

    • @SamuelJayakumar
      @SamuelJayakumar 2 года назад +11

      The gifts of the spirit and fruits of the spirit 🔥🔥🔥

    • @SamuelJayakumar
      @SamuelJayakumar 2 года назад +11

      Put patterns over potential!
      Holy flip that’s good!!! Preach it Riley

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 года назад +2

      hahahah right?!?

    • @SamuelJayakumar
      @SamuelJayakumar 2 года назад +12

      Marriage is not about happiness it’s about holiness 😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 года назад +4

      quotes for days!

  • @ciaraliane2751
    @ciaraliane2751 2 года назад +102

    I am SO thankful for women like you both who proclaim truth that God will wash you truly white as snow!!!! I could have been held back by shame BUT GOD! He makes all things new!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 года назад +5

      Amen to that!!!

    • @lianmontano4990
      @lianmontano4990 2 года назад +4

      YES!! amazing. lies can seem louder but truth is ALWAYS loudest!!!

  • @aricampo5901
    @aricampo5901 2 года назад +58

    "Put patterns over potential" fireeee 🔥.
    God is good, this little girls talk was just what i needed, grateful for you girls... (I felt like I was just chatting with my besties and I loved that)

  • @sarahnevax0
    @sarahnevax0 2 года назад +18

    Oh ladies, I have been waiting for this! I’m entering into a season of waiting for engagement and marriage, and I thank you for your Godly wisdom and experience in this topic. It’s so easy to get roped into the desire of it, and I’ve been struggling with its distraction. Needing the Lord for patience and self-control right now. So good! ❤️

  • @SamuelJayakumar
    @SamuelJayakumar 2 года назад +29

    Chad my man. That description was just what I needed. Something happened in line to what you a shared a few mins ago and it got to me but after reading this, I’m definitely going to change my strategy.
    Look at God speak through! Wow 🤩

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 года назад +3

      love it! Thanks for sharing my man!

  • @sarahwood2518
    @sarahwood2518 2 года назад +17

    Gosh, these are so good! This is exactly what I’ve been dealing with currently. Perfect timing! Thank you Riley and Tori!

  • @Lynchevelyn
    @Lynchevelyn 2 года назад +2

    Tori, I just want to let you know that your example of waiting for the Lord on the dreams of your heart has guided me so much in my waiting as well. I want to thank you for making all this videos that help not only me but hundreds of people that can get bitter on not having yet what their hearts desire. Don’t give up on faith, have joy in knowing that this period has a bigger purpose for your family and the amazing influence it has for all of your subscribers!

  • @carolwilliamsblog
    @carolwilliamsblog 2 года назад +7

    Dang! That description Chad!! "To not let what other people say or think about you change what God says and you think about yourself." The comment from today's podcast that this thought was inspired by, was one that I noted in my journal this morning, although I'm not too sure how it will impact me yet. Also been happily single and pure for 6 years now 😀

  • @ChrissyChrissyChrissy333
    @ChrissyChrissyChrissy333 2 года назад +3

    This is by far my favorite video yet Tori!! You and Riley nailed it!! God always brings things at the right time, and I know He needed me to be reminded of this message. It never hurts to have loving reminders. I never thought I'd be in this certain season of my life, but this video renewed my vigor for the wonderful things God has planned for me. Thank you truly

  • @tressajones2403
    @tressajones2403 2 года назад +3

    No words can describe how much I appreciated both of these videos. Thank you thank you thank you!

  • @solidumelizabeth
    @solidumelizabeth 2 года назад +1

    "Your marriage is not about your happines, it's about your holiness" wowwwww 🔥🔥🔥 yaaaaaas!!!

  • @chukwudicharles7916
    @chukwudicharles7916 2 года назад +3

    I'm so grateful for part 1 and 2. Thank you so much for letting God speak through you!

  • @jillwalker4980
    @jillwalker4980 2 года назад

    As someone who is currently battling shame- thank you Tori, thank you for sharing your story and giving hope and the encouragement. God is good!

  • @colonelquakers
    @colonelquakers 2 года назад +5

    Love this video even though I’m already married. I always tell my single friends that there’s always going to be that next thing that to believe God for so we all might as well get used to living with a spirit of rest and trust in Him. And absolutely I loved Riley’s advice on jealousy; process it with the Holy Spirit and then move on! 👏🏽❤️

  • @juniaestola3684
    @juniaestola3684 2 года назад

    So thankful you decided to bring these girl talks back! At least this one! I was thinking back to when you started your chanel and how your goal was to be a big sister/friend to people and just realized how true that been in my life. You don’t know me whatsoever but God has really used you to impact my life. I’m the only girl in my family so I’ve loved being able to listen to all of the wisdom you share 🤍 I love how proverbs reminds us over and over to actually listen and take to heart wisdom and I’ve really tried to apply that by learning from others! Anyways just wanted to remind you that what you are doing is impacting more lives then you know and every little thing matters! Love you guys 🤍

  • @christiannaloos6866
    @christiannaloos6866 2 года назад +3

    This was so encouraging!!! Your guys both have so much wisdom, thank you for sharing it! Also Riley has the cutest slight accent ;P

  • @JGTFAMILY
    @JGTFAMILY 2 года назад +1

    This was a blessing, keep on helping and encouraging others with the videos you bring ❤

  • @luanagonzalez5441
    @luanagonzalez5441 2 года назад +5

    So happy to watch!! And I love the description, Sending love!! ❤️

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 года назад +1

      Thanks for reading it sweet Luana!!!

  • @iuliaturcas4348
    @iuliaturcas4348 2 года назад +3

    I am so excited to watch the part 2 of this video! ♥️ Your advice is priceless and I feel so encouraged by your words of wisdom! I hope that Riley will make an appearance on this channel more often! 🤗 Thank you for being open and vulnerable and may God bless you abundantly!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 года назад +1

      Awww yay! We love sharing things that we hope will actually help and encourage our audience, especially you sweetLulia!

    • @iuliaturcas4348
      @iuliaturcas4348 2 года назад

      @@ToriAndChad 😍😊🤗

  • @gathonimwangi6758
    @gathonimwangi6758 2 года назад +1

    this was so much fun to watch. i was truly staring at riley's hair the whole time😍

  • @Miracleshappentv
    @Miracleshappentv 2 года назад +3

    Sending this video to people who are single. Another great topic. Have a wonderful day full of his presence and his love. Love you both

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 года назад +1

      You're too kind to help support by sharing the video! THank you!

  • @Emilyrosepears
    @Emilyrosepears 2 года назад

    Woah that Hannah story/perspective ! That shook me to the core, thanks for your wisdom ❤️

  • @creezhan
    @creezhan 2 года назад +1

    i watched the OG singleness series over 3 times already so i'm so happy there are going to be new episodes!!!

  • @ciaraliane2751
    @ciaraliane2751 2 года назад +5

    Two women on fire for the Lord sharing straight fire facts!!! Let’s goooooo

  • @ayounk4202
    @ayounk4202 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for sharing your wisdom. I really need to hear this today.

  • @jimtaylor2443
    @jimtaylor2443 2 года назад

    Thank you so much. This is so good and I'm a 74-year-old non-virgin, but I will share this with the college kids I spend time with.

  • @SamuelJayakumar
    @SamuelJayakumar 2 года назад

    These last two videos have been really really good !! So much takeaways! all pointing to God and his hand of Grace. Now, I have to process this before I can go out sharing it to those who need to hear and there’s a lot who need to hear this!

  • @aanuoluwapoakingbemi4276
    @aanuoluwapoakingbemi4276 2 года назад

    So thankful for you both! May God bless you for sharing

  • @camillaneuner7308
    @camillaneuner7308 2 года назад +3

    I‘d love to see a video of you talking explicitly about a women after God‘s, which qualities are desirable etc. not depending on your marital status. And respectively a video of you talking about men after God‘s heart. In my opinion you both are one of the most suitable people to talk about this topic!!

  • @taynacarvalho6471
    @taynacarvalho6471 2 года назад +3

    I'm actually watching the part 1 right now 😂 and I'm so happy to see there's a part 2! yaaay🥳❤️

  • @Greg_Orr
    @Greg_Orr 2 года назад

    Soooo good! Such incredible advice Tori and Riley! And that description Chad is super encouraging! (As always). Also congrats on your 3 year anniversary Tori and Chad! Hope you have the best rest of the week!

  • @natashapinerostachita9755
    @natashapinerostachita9755 2 года назад

    Y’ALL 🔥🔥🔥 love your intentionality- you always go above and beyond.

  • @lyublyuisusa
    @lyublyuisusa 2 года назад

    Thank you ladies. May God bless you❤️ this couldn’t have come at a better time for me. Thank you for being obedient to Gods voice

  • @gwenking6983
    @gwenking6983 2 года назад

    FAV EVER DYNAMIC DUO💕💕💕💕💕💕you guys are my actual favorites so so faithful and my role models. thank you both so much

  • @daniellefaucher3347
    @daniellefaucher3347 2 года назад +2

    CHEERS FOR PURITY!!!! And Romans 12:2! I don’t know about y’all but I WANT to look different 😊

  • @shwetav
    @shwetav 2 года назад +1

    A big thank you for this Godly wisdom!!This is exactly what was needed. Thanks a ton you two!! :)

  • @Annie-zh1oz
    @Annie-zh1oz 2 года назад

    Aahhh this video was such a good reminder!! 🥰🥰

  • @ToriAndChad
    @ToriAndChad  2 года назад +3

    Also give this video a like if you liked it!

  • @Sybil28520
    @Sybil28520 2 года назад

    So needed this at this moment. Thank you 💜

  • @kaleiyamato
    @kaleiyamato 2 года назад

    The Lord is so good. How are all these videos such perfect timing!!!?!!!!!❤️

  • @lydiaw7343
    @lydiaw7343 2 года назад

    "Patterns over potential”
    and
    “If they’re not on the vine, they not going to produce fruit”

  • @annajansz6017
    @annajansz6017 2 года назад +2

    Riley and Tori, I just have a question about what you guys said about thanking God in advance for your husband. What if it is not God's plan to give you a husband?
    Also, the story of Hannah in the Bible, I looked it up and she did pray for a son and commit him to God if she received one, but she never started thanking him for giving her one in advance. At least, it's not recorded that I saw...could you explain that further?
    Thanks!!

  • @Songwritersbehindthecurtain
    @Songwritersbehindthecurtain 2 года назад

    Congratulations 🍾🎊🎈🎉 on 108k subscribers.

  • @oliviaholness7409
    @oliviaholness7409 2 года назад

    The random “mmmhmm” are killing me😂😂😂

  • @AuthenticallyC
    @AuthenticallyC 2 года назад

    Paterns over potential! Amenn

  • @bareheartpod
    @bareheartpod 2 года назад +1

    PLSSSSS DO A PART 3🥰🥰

  • @daniellefaucher3347
    @daniellefaucher3347 2 года назад

    Love every word!!!!! Love you girls so much!!! It’s wild to look at how much I’ve grown in between y’all’s first videos and now these!!! God is so good!! I was thinking about when you guys were talking about “rules” we have as Christians and how the world looks at it in a negative way. But think about a kid or if you have multiple children with you, are you just going to let them do whatever they want with NO rules?! You learn real fast that it’s not actually helpful for anyone! 😂 God is our Father and He truly looks our for us with an undying love. ❤️

  • @myfanwygeorge-veale7314
    @myfanwygeorge-veale7314 2 года назад

    God bless you both. Wonderful video ❤️

  • @peteysrib
    @peteysrib 2 года назад +1

    Yay for part 2!!

  • @Greg_Orr
    @Greg_Orr 2 года назад +1

    Yesss! Part 2!

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 года назад +1

      someone was refreshing haha

  • @netanya8059
    @netanya8059 2 года назад

    WOWW!!! SO GOOD & ENCOURAGING ❤️

  • @JessicaMichelleVids
    @JessicaMichelleVids 2 года назад

    So good!! Needed to hear so much of this

  • @claubit32
    @claubit32 2 года назад

    Riley had so much wisdom!!!😊

  • @luisawebster
    @luisawebster 2 года назад

    this was so good! thank you! ❤

  • @PatiPreczewska
    @PatiPreczewska 2 года назад

    “Be thankful for your future” ❤️🎶🌻

    • @PatiPreczewska
      @PatiPreczewska 2 года назад

      And Tori haha! You are such a YEA person ❤️😎

  • @Sylwiah17
    @Sylwiah17 2 года назад

    That’s sooo gooooooooooood !!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🙌🏼

  • @_xBrokenxDreamsx_
    @_xBrokenxDreamsx_ Год назад

    present over potential - if they treat you like crap now loving them more isn't going to help them realize their 'potential'. true love doesn't require sacrifice.

  • @sierragarza2174
    @sierragarza2174 2 года назад

    Such great advice!

  • @isaac_f88
    @isaac_f88 2 года назад +1

    Yes!!! Part two!!!

  • @JMKrech
    @JMKrech 2 года назад

    Love this video!!!

  • @nicoleyoshihara4011
    @nicoleyoshihara4011 2 года назад

    I really appreciate both of your advice ^_^

  • @angelavanoosten1
    @angelavanoosten1 2 года назад +6

    Riley is SO awesome I always get her tiktoks on my fyp and she speaks fire

  • @SamuelJayakumar
    @SamuelJayakumar 2 года назад +1

    This gonna be straight Fire 🔥🔥🔥

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 года назад +1

      You're voice in that music video was straight fire lol

    • @SamuelJayakumar
      @SamuelJayakumar 2 года назад +1

      @@ToriAndChad thank you ver much!!! Sending you a different version of the song soon

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 года назад +1

      acoustic?

    • @SamuelJayakumar
      @SamuelJayakumar 2 года назад +1

      @@ToriAndChad acoustic but one pitch higher

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 года назад +1

      oh dang it's about to get real!

  • @keana._
    @keana._ 2 года назад +1

    That description 🤌

  • @charnevonderbecke4403
    @charnevonderbecke4403 2 года назад

    Only 1:29 into this video and my entire life was summarised wow🥵🤣🤣

  • @angelavanoosten1
    @angelavanoosten1 2 года назад +2

    Oooo this will be fire I just know

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 года назад +1

      We loved how sweet you were in that video yall sent us yesterday!

    • @angelavanoosten1
      @angelavanoosten1 2 года назад +1

      @@ToriAndChad awww of course! So happy to played a small part. So so glad you loved it🥺 I'm genuinely obsessed with the songs

    • @vandaaltje
      @vandaaltje 2 года назад +1

      @@angelavanoosten1 I mean, who isn't obsessed with them 😍 The whole thing was so wholesome! 🥺

  • @shaughnsmit2076
    @shaughnsmit2076 2 года назад +1

    Yeahh part 2

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 года назад

      IRON MAN! I did not know your hair was that long lol

  • @Shainas_WRLD
    @Shainas_WRLD 2 года назад

    Great content ❤️how long were you pure for before you got married

  • @rachirach333
    @rachirach333 2 года назад

    THANK YOU!

  • @janwosegien7519
    @janwosegien7519 2 года назад +1

    I think Riley is awesome... Ohh and incognito british 😂

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 года назад

      hahah she is well traveled and has such a great and interesting accent!

  • @jazmynk1518
    @jazmynk1518 2 года назад

    Can I pray for a man that I have on my heart or do I put limits on God if I mention a name?

  • @byvictoriavalentina
    @byvictoriavalentina 2 года назад

    YAYYYYY MOREEEE🤩🤩🤩

  • @fj9206
    @fj9206 2 года назад +1

    Love u sooo much♥️♥️

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 года назад

      Aww thanks so much! Sending love to you too!

  • @Beleive-Christ-cares
    @Beleive-Christ-cares Год назад

    😂 good advice

  • @SamuelJayakumar
    @SamuelJayakumar 2 года назад +2

    Tori and Riley coming in hottt

  • @JGTFAMILY
    @JGTFAMILY 2 года назад

    Whenever you sin against God, just try to go back to Him and ask Him for forgiveness and He will forgive you...don't condemn yourself anymore for making a stupid decision, God will forgive you if you would just go to Him and ask Him to
    "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." ~1 John 1:9

  • @abigailboal4426
    @abigailboal4426 2 года назад +1

    Hey y'all

  • @lucyzg
    @lucyzg 2 года назад

    Thanks so much for this! :)

  • @SamuelJayakumar
    @SamuelJayakumar 2 года назад +2

    Fam jam

  • @nicoleyoshihara4011
    @nicoleyoshihara4011 2 года назад

    ❤💕

  • @keana._
    @keana._ 2 года назад +1

    holaaaaa amigos ✌️

    • @ToriAndChad
      @ToriAndChad  2 года назад +1

      HOLA KEEKS! I'm still dying over your "water those" comment lol

    • @keana._
      @keana._ 2 года назад +1

      hehe me too 😂

  • @JesusYeshuaismyeverything
    @JesusYeshuaismyeverything 2 года назад

    Theres only 1 person who will never break your heart.. and only 1 person whose love for you will never run dry and completely satisfy..
    It's not that cute or hot girl or guy...
    Maybe that can be fun and u may crave it a ton....and sure it can feel great with a mate... but you'll just need more and more for shore and it may bring u some guilt and shame and you'll have yourself to blame.
    So.. give Jesus the lover of your soul a chance.. He will fill you with peace joy love self esteem confidence.... that's divine romance... 🙂🙂🙂🙂

  • @lugm1034
    @lugm1034 2 года назад +1

    I kind of want to be there in the bedroom chatting with you guys as if you were my besties lol

  • @Guð
    @Guð 2 года назад

    It wont be cheating or a sin but will be naughty and goes against everything your religion has taught you

  • @billmcgoon9991
    @billmcgoon9991 2 года назад

    Galatians 5: 22 - 25
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  • @christinalembo4506
    @christinalembo4506 2 года назад

    Blessings to this good spell caster #Doctoruroko