Entitled Woman DEMANDS Chinese Takeout At A Wedding
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- Опубликовано: 9 май 2024
- Today we're gonna be taking a look at a case of main character syndrome of an entitled person who demands Chinese takeout food at a wedding
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She’s that family member everyone else hopes doesn’t show up to family functions….100%
"Obligatory Invite"😮😂 im sure she brings a lot to the table..the wedding wouldn't be the same without her..😂😂
@@kason89😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
This “ women “ is tripping. She doesn’t even understand wedding etiquette. Her child was born out of wedlock obviously. She thinks the wedding is all about her.
Just a heads up there won’t be any vegan Chinese food
Please don’t come, please don’t come
That family member that all family members warn the “new” family members about.
NO, Your relationship is not TRANSACTIONAL at a family wedding. Your attendance is NOT a gift princess.
Well said.
This is the type of woman that will always be AT a wedding and not IN one.
💯💯💯💯👏👏👏
📠 Sick burn🙌🏾
Lol
Congratulations to the bride and groom from living five hours away from this toilet of a person.
I think her family is exhausted by her narcissism. That's why they don't cater to her, they're tired of it.
I don't blame her family one bit. She is unbelievable.
Fat people always talking about they don't eat meat 🍖🥓 it doesn't looks like she's vegan 🤔
I love her response video.. she started blaming trauma for the responses. But started talking about her issues with her sister. Couldn't help but notice the brother getting married, while she showed up with a child and no husband or even boyfriend... am I the only one surprised she's alone?
She's such an embarrassment to her family. She gives bitter baby mama vibes.
If you don't eat what I serve at MY WEDDING, then you go hungry
Bringing your own food if you have inconveniences is just giving respect to your host . The groom is her brother and the wedding planner is her sister. She's the worst of the worst.
She's so toxic that i'd cut ties with her if she was in my family. Trying to ruin her sister's business is the last straw !
Yes ! I couldn't stand people like her. She's the worst
Or stay home
She could miss a few meals…. Fat vegans…. Wow
She just made herself look like a fool in front of all her colleagues and potential business partners. She probably jeopardized her career
Knowing now that the groom was her brother and the coordinator was her sister makes her look worse. The audacity.
Über entitled
Really?? What a terrible person to trash your siblings publicly. Gross.
The fact that it was her BROTHER'S wedding and her SISTER was the wedding coordinator didn't help...it actually made her behaviour 1000 times worse!!! Was a spoiled and entitled brat she is.
She told her sister before hand that she's vegan and the sister refused to have a vegan meal ready, seems like the sister is mean!
@@sachinnair91 Not what I heard. They ordered her a meal but asked her to pick it up on her way since she passed the place...she said no.
@@michelleanderson8370 why couldn't they have told the caterer to prepare a vegan meal?
@@sachinnair91 The caterer didn't do vegan meals...did you not watch the video?
@@michelleanderson8370 then they picked the wrong caterer, I mean the caterer can't even whip up some pasta in a tomato sauce?
“I drove 14 hours my attendance was my gift.”
No exaggeration, that is the most narcissistic thing I’ve ever heard come out of someone’s mouth.
And it was her brother’s wedding. It’s not like she’s some 2nd cousin they hardly know.
Too bad it’s a gift they can’t return. I’d never speak to her again.
I thought she told the wedding planner she was only 15-20 minutes from the venue. Did I hear that right?
Looking for a return on a gift is not a gift... she's talking about investing. It's not 100% her fault, though... she was just born in modern-day America. Sad thing is she has a child and has no idea of how childish she sounds. Good thing about her posting this is she's about to learn consequences and "might" end up becoming a better person.
@@MrLandolph171 That soo not gonna happen.. she is a narcissist.. it's all about her.. it takes effort to address that problem and she is not taking any..
The fact that she only feels like giving a gift if there's a return on her "investment" tells you everything you need to know.
You’re telling us there was no salad available. I’m calling BS.
She strikes me as the kind of person who gives Christmas presents with expectation of getting something of equal or greater monitary value instead of giving a present to be kind and generous
YEAH 👍... One of those picayune Virgos 😂😂😂
She is entitled and obnoxious, no doubt. That being said, the wedding organizers (her own brother was getting married and asked her what she wanted to eat and her sister was the coordinator) should have arranged for different dietary choices such as vegans. She even told her sister that she's vegan and the sister still refused to have a vegan meal available for her own sister! That's mean!
“I’m not your assistant!”
THEIR ASSISTANT? Ma’am it’s YOUR food at that point they’re asking YOU to assist yourself. Amazing just wow 🤦🏾♂️
@@sachinnair91 she's the only one with that dietary restriction from what it sounds like, so she'd be picking up her own meal. 🤷♂️ IDK if she wanted to make sure her kid ate she would've picked up her own food
@@sachinnair91so instead of that day being about the bride and groom, it's all about her. She shouldn't be complaining. You'd probably do this too.
"Relationships are transactional"
Lady, you must be a great mom.
No wonder I don't have relationships, I don't transact 😂😂😂
Twerkeisha is the BEST strong single mama to all her keedz, her baby daddies don’t even help 💅🏿
@@ruckusbeblack sLaY QuEeN
@@mumlife22 😂😂 I know das right 👱🏿♀️
Seriously
I’m in the wedding business and she’s lucky someone even called her and placed an order.
‘Chinese food’ is super specific! Why didn’t she say exactly what on the menu she wanted???
That would have been a million times easier!
And….she could NOT pick up her own food? That’s already paid for??
She’s absolutely looking for things to be upset about!!!
She wanted the day to be all about her, not the bride.
I'm vegan, but I'll take the mushu pork, and sweet and sour chicken, and brocolli and beef, and chickenpot stickers, and kung pao chicken, and orange chicken, and BBQ pork ribs." Looks to me as if she could live a month with no food and be just fine.
Her behavior screams "I'm envious of the bride because I never got married and I had kids with a deadbeat dad" Envy is a hell of a drug
I was thinking the same thing. 🤔
Facts.
They don't know wedding etiquette because most black women don't get married
This lady is crazy
👀
She's lying... There were NO VEGETABLES at the wedding? I don't believe it. Lol
Exactly what I was about to comment. They had SOMETHING for her to eat. Look at her…she’s just picky and probably one of those vegans who don’t like vegetables or healthy things. They eat nothing but junk food but just not of animal products. I’ve met them. Lol
EVERY wedding ive been to has never had salad, rice or hot veggies 😝
@@ReleaseTheBatzWhat kind of junk food is vegan, fake cheese on veggies ?
@@mamouilletten1562 fried stuff, Oreos, chips. Lots of simple carbs.
@@mamouilletten1562Little Debbies crap is vegan if I remember correctly 🤣
She'll never be invited to another wedding.
imagine a wedding reception where a woman and her kid are the only ones eating chinese takeout
Its NOT HER OR HER CHILDS DAY! She’s beyond selfish DAMN…
The fact that she did this at her brother’s wedding and tried to treat her sister as a servant is absolutely insane. Entitled is an understatement.
Right! She's talking about she's not a servant or doing extra work and blaming colonialism but has no issue treating others poorly
@@CrustyUgg Great Point!
@@CrustyUgg And talking to the wedding planner saying " Ma'am " then we learned she was talking to her SISTER ! What the actual f???
Why the heck does she think she is so special, she is the most selfish thing I have ever seen!
I’m a vegan and almost all catered weddings have a vegan option these days. For the rare occasions when they don’t, I just bring Cliff Bars and eat a salad. Expecting the people putting on the wedding to go get you food from another restaurant is totally crazy.
Right, I find it very hard to believe there was no salad. Really? Not one thing she could eat?
It's like she's mad/jealous that this wedding is happening and just wants to cause some problems.
Exactly, a classic hater
She is trying to be the center of attention on her sister in law's bridal day. 🎉
@@colleenpeck6347 I think you're right. Well said.
Probably right. When I went to my sister's house to show her my ring, her face got really forlorn and 2 weeks later she finally said yes to a dude that's been asking her to marry him for 20 years. I'm like OH so NOW you wanna say yes to him. Not cuz you want to but because you didn't want to be the last of the 6 of us to be married.
I 100%agree!
It's a gift, not a trade off.
The bride and groom have very little to do with this situation and this woman is disgusting.
Absolutely agree
What would you care to wager that this woman was *ONLY* invited because of an obligation, otherwise this invitation does not go out.
She literally failed to mention it was her own family who was the groom and the coordinator. This is family drama and she made it out to be something way different. She had to know that story would blow up. Very calculated.
@@LivBlanksI thought the same thing. She just trying to rage bait everyone.
Maybe she deserves a break. It's obvious she doesn't know wedding etiquette, probably because she doesnt attend many of these kind of events. Likely the only wedding she ever gotten invited to is from her brother. Gosh, I wonder why?
She wasn’t going to buy a gift. She just needed an excuse for not bringing one.
Her apology makes her behavior even worse. Despicable.
So many levels to this. First of all, I have literally never heard of a wedding accommodating individuals like that? Like, if you can't or won't eat anything on the menu provided you're supposed to bring your own lunch, no?
You never met my mother. When my sister got married, her wedding was done in a Chinese theme including the food. As the server passed out the various dishes, my obnoxious mother started complaining about the food. She didn’t want one of the dishes and started complaining to her husband (her 2nd marriage) that the server gave it to her on purpose. The sad part is, it was all caught on the wedding video forever memorialized! 🤦🏻♀️
lol...she's probably ruined a few holidays and birthdays at this point
She was attending her own brother's wedding and her own sister was the coordinator. She told her sister that she's vegan and still the sister refused to have a vegan meal ready and told her to pick up her own food. That's mean!
@@edzhead22 omg the stories I could tell you! Here’s 2 of the best. My grandparents (father’s parents) bought a double house. They lived upstairs, we were downstairs. Sometime around when I was 10, my grandparents GAVE them the house free and clear. Didn’t charge them a dime. My mother turned around and wanted to charge them rent! My father said absolutely not. I still have trouble wrapping my head around that one.
When I was 17, in my senior year of HS, she pulled me outta school to get a job to pay rent. She couldn’t wait till the end of the school year. I put myself back in, dropped my electives, changed my schedule, went to school in the morning and worked in the afternoon so I could graduate with my class. Here’s the kicker. They had no mortgage and no car payment - my father sold cars and got a new car every year from the dealer - didn’t pay for so much as an oil change. Those are your 2 biggest expenses. House and car. They didn’t need the money but she always acted like we had one foot in the poor house. She did so much more…When she died, I never shed a tear.
@sachinnair91 Wtf? She's the wedding co-ordinator. She's *a little bit busy* on the ****ing *wedding day* Are you a real person? 🥴
She's just mad because she'll never have a wedding herself.
I noticed a little jealousy. What else could it be? Oh! She is a Virgo.😂
@@1115asmararight trying to make this woman’s wedding about her !?
You give a gift to the newlywed couple from your heart as a celebration of their marriage.
I once went to the wedding of my husband's, childhood friend. They invited a lot of people but only provided one bowl of punch and some a small assortment of sandwiches. The food was gone in about 10 minutes with less than half the guests fed. I didn't get upset or mention anything to the bride groom and I certainly didn't bitch about it online to strangers. When I got too thirsty, I left to get something to drink and a little food. When I returned 30 minutes later, the entire venue was cleared out. Shortest wedding reception I've ever been too.😂
She sounds like someone who was jealous from the beginning and wanted to find an excuse to complain about something and ruin their special day.....
Bingo.
Her child didn’t have anything to eat because of her refusal to pick up the food and her forcing her ideologies onto her kid. She should be pointing the finger at herself
Yup she’s a selfish mother
The fact it was her brother getting married and her sister coordinating it makes it 100 times worse that she wouldn't make that one stop to help out.
Also, the fact she announces so proudly that her attendance was the gift screams that she was either planning to give no gift at all or was looking for a reason not to give the gift to them which is exactly why she wouldnt pick up the food. She created her own excuse.
Also, if the sister coordinating the wedding was at fault, why punish the couple? Because no gift was the plan all along!
She creates her own problems and then blames those problems for being a problem. She lives her life in a vicious circle of self sabotage she then blames that, for being so unpleasant.
Your gift to the couple is that they will never have to deal with you again
Her invite should have been rescinded IMMEDIATELY
Sis would have been hungry lol
yep, family or not, agree! her behavior is horrid
My son has an eating disorder (Sensory Food Aversion). He is limited to about 7 things he can eat...without violently vomiting. He's 24 and never had a burger, chicken, pizza...NOTHING. Whenever he is invited somewhere..like a wedding, he will advise people NOT to pay for a plate for him because he will not be able to eat it and he doesn't want their money or the food wasted. He most certainly would NOT demand they serve him buttered popcorn rice cakes for him. (That's one of the few things he can eat). He will flat out say..hey don't order me a plate, I am coming to celebrate with you. How entitled this woman is!!!! Rude af too!!. My son also doesn't want people feeling like they have to do anything special for him.
As for the gift issue....omg
She obviously has no idea what a gift is!! A gift is something you give..with zero conditions.
I am a Virgo...and I cannot even with this twatwaffle.
there's one silver lining here, your son must be lean and in good health, lucky him!
I know I was completely dumbfounded when she was talking about the gift!
@@sachinnair91 He is 6', 215lbs, offensive lineman in football..lol. If I told you what he eats EVERYDAY..you would be shocked. He never even was able to eat a piece of his own birthday cake as a child. Now he can eat yellow cake..no frosting. He eats peanut butter, honey nut cheerios..dry. milk on the side, saltine crackers, buttered popcorn rice cakes. His dinner is gerber 2nd foods turkey and rice, squash, green beans. He has tried to eat "real food" since he was a baby but if he doesn't vomit from the smell, he will from the texture as soon as it hits his mouth. He eats some fruits..apples, banana and peanuts. You are right..he's been healthy for all of his life. He drinks a lot of milk, water and he's recently found he likes green tea. We were at a loss when he was little and we tried introducing solid foods. He was formally diagnosed at age 5 and took part in a study at Children's Hospital of the DC area. His siblings don't have the disorder, in fact my younger son eats anything that doesn't eat him first.
twatwaffle...i love that, im using that! hahahaha God Bless!
@@IDontKnow-pf6enI was just going to say the exact same thing…twatwaffle…😂 🤣 that killed me, still laughing!!
I'm sorry that I invited you " !
She was shady from the first video she posted by not mentioning that they were her siblings. She was deceiving and concealed info.
"Why would I do that that doesn't even make sense to me." Well making someone order you Chinese food at someone else's wedding doesn't make sense to me so there you go.
Yup, that's insane. Imagine if multiple people had similar "restrictions" and just randomly requested some specific ethnic cuisine. What wedding coordinator is going to have time to go pick up an order from a Chinese restaurant, Italian restaurant, sushi restaurant, middle eastern restaurant, etc. That's insane. If you're vegan, just eat the vegetables that are available, because I'm sure there were some vegetables served.
The coordination is her job
@@user-nd3tg5zn1b nah, her scope of responsibility is not endless. This issue is between the marrying couple and their caterer. Generally, the caterer would be the one to just whip up something to satisfy any guest with dietary restrictions. If the caterer is unwilling to do that, it doesn't somehow become the coordinator's responsibility to act as a doordash driver to go pick up a bunch of food from random restaurants because certain guest just feel like eating something different than everyone else.
"my presence is your gift" - her
"You got a receipt so i can return it, because your gift sucks" - me
Lol great comment!
Heeeeee😁 Her siblings have been dealing with this her whole life. To bring in colonization is wild
@@taunyaharmony2938 Apparently, colonialism didn't include manners.
oh my goodness - folks, this is how a generation of kids raised on CRT thinks - that her brother's wedding, with her sister being the wedding coordinator - calls anyone who thinks her demands are ridiculous "rooted in patriarchy" and "colonialism".
These key phrases they've been taught don't make sense in most settings - in this setting it's just ridiculousness.
She has so little self awareness that she is clueless about how entitled she is behaving. There is ZERO personal accountability, ZERO humility, ZERO empathy in her thought process.
Typical lame shaming tactics, then they use of identity politics, so she doesn’t appear like a sister whose butt hurt that her brother got married before her. Your presence at a wedding is not a gift. Plus she kept talking about how her meal would’ve only cost 20 bucks. so she would’ve only given a $20 gift?? She doesn’t celebrate him. She wanted to be treated special at her brothers wedding. Like it was her day. Very self-centered, and entitled. This is what privilege looks like.
When my son was younger he had some dietary restrictions so, if we were invited out to something, I took food for him with me. Simple.
Some venues don't allow outside food, but in your case many places will allow it if you call ahead and ask politely and offer to give them medical documents :)
Yeah but that's because you're a normal person
But there's a difference between a serious (sometimes even life-threatening) food allergy and a self-imposed diet like being vegan.
I was pescatarian for a few years and also following biblical dietary laws... my brother catered his own wedding because he owns a catering company so why not... the food he was serving was not food I ate. It wasn't "kosher". So I was told to pick up something I'd eat and his company would prepare it for me. So that's what I did. I stopped at Publix, picked up some salmon and brought it with me. They prepared it n I ate that. No big deal... 😊😊😊
@@AbsolutelyNoOne12 doesn't kosher food need to be prepared In a very specific way..
She wouldn't even get food for her own child? What a great mom.
Probably forcing her vegan ideology on her son and won't let him eat
Yea this bothered me too! And sounds like she’s imposing a vegan diet onto her child… children shouldn’t be vegan they need the nutrients from meat… and this is coming from a vegetarian lol 👋🏻 🌱 like what the hell.
if you're a vegeterian, you should know there is nutrients in vegetables... right? i agree in the first part though. @@M.e.g.a.n.
The truth of the matter is she is bitter. No one has ever proposed to her. She is a single mom, never married tossed around by low value men (that's all she can get). These kind of rejects end up getting very bitter.
It’s ok to admit seeing folks around you are getting married and you aren’t and it’s making you feels things
"I'm not the caretaker for my brother, asking me to do extra labor is absurd" I find that line so ironic as nobody asked her to do extra labor for anyone else except herself and it was actually her demanding others do the extra labor on her behalf.
Oh my Lord. I have a horrid wheat allergy--you know what I did for my brother's wedding? BROUGHT MY OWN FOOD in a sealed container. It was over an hour away and I had to do my own hair and makeup, get my mother and grandmother ready, and spend the entire day in high heels and be nice to people I hated. But I did it because I love my brother. NO, a wedding gift is not freaking transactional, especially for a sibling. The hell?! And what is she giving by being at his wedding exactly? Her glowing personality? *eyeroll* With family like that, who needs enemies is right.
The more videos of wedding guests acting like this, the more and more I'm convinced (when the time comes) I'm having a tiny little church wedding with as few people as possible and everyone else can stay the hell away. I'm not dealing with this crap. Oh my God.
I agree!!
Right?!?! This was so seriously ridiculous that I could only laugh at it…and do you have any idea what the hell “the patriarchy” or “colonialism” had to do with her dinner? LMAO!!!
For real! I landscaped my mom's yard for my sister's wedding.
There's no such thing as a gluten allergy
@@evandaqgibson Celiac disease
Google is free
This is what they mean by the future generations failing basic reading comprehension
Congrats you’re just as lazy as the rest of the Zoomers and Alphas
She gives me “I love the Velma series” vibes
What, the “I only watch crappy preachy series because I want everyone to think I’m woke” vibes? Or the “it isn’t bastardizing a beloved childhood show, you just aren’t smart or woke enough to get it” demeanor?
I didn't get to watch it yet. What was the problem? It had black people in?
@@cynthiaholland13 Actually, no. It sucked because the creator, rather than clean modernization of classic beloved cartoon characters, decided to go for tearing them to shreds and remaking them into pseudo-progressive bastardizations that may as well have no reference at all to the series they are from. A good portion of it is Velma not so subtly hating on Caucasians, men, and straight people. Why would the presence of black characters make it suck? Seriously asking. Cuz that’s a dumb reason to dislike a show.
I’m surprised she didn’t want the bride to personally go get her food
She's never getting invited to another wedding again. Even close family are going to ignore this type of crazy, it's not a good idea to invite this kinda drama to a wedding. Pampered, spoiled and completely insane.
The update makes her behavior even more selfish and narcissistic. No gift for her own brother’s wedding! The wedding coordinator aka her sister asked her to pick up the food on the way in and she couldn’t help. Yikes, she’s a pill.
Most places can accommodate a vegan diet, Chinese food is mostly NOT vegan.
If jealousy had a face.
Tacky as hell. Not just thinking you're the main character, but expecting something in return for giving a gift. C U Next Tuesday, Tacky Jacky.
Lol she ended up saying her coming to the wedding was her gift. That’s one I’d send back 😂
"We went somewhere and I think it's up to someone else to feed and take care of MY child"
I'm vegetarian and on holidays my family doesn't make sure to have enough options for me to eat well so I just make my own stuff and bring it for everyone to enjoy. I'm used to going out to eat with people and many times only ordering sides or an appetizer due to where I live not always having vegetarian options in places. It really isn't a big deal. Times like that aren't just about the food you're eating but mostly the time you're sharing with people and making memories with them. If you want to be included more then having any special sort of needs like that are your responsibility and it's just kind and polite whenever someone makes sure you are accommodated. She should have been grateful they were willing to order her something separately. I would have felt like a burden if it were me and would have happily picked it up myself. Also you give a gift because you want to make someone happy, not because you're going to get something out of it. What a brat. I wouldn't have a relationship with her if she were my family member.
"My present was my presence" Oh, she's one of those!
Although a mild inconvenience, she said herself that they are surrounded by Chinese food places, so getting it herself should not have been a big deal. I would have thought that making the day special for her brother and his new wife would take priority.
If I gta pick it up myself imma add some veggie spring rolls n a soda... put it on their tab... 😂😂😂 😅😅😅 🤪🤪🤪
The Bride, Groom, and Wedding Planner simply refused to respect that she is a Virgo! Outrageous.
She wasn't a part of the wedding and was only a guest and i think she just wanted to be an ahole Because her siblings all were "more important" to the occasion than she was
She certainly doesn't look vegan.
She looks like a McDonald’s double cheeseburger
😂
My baby toe is more vegan than her....😂
she looks hungry...lol
You do realize that vegan food has some of the most unhealthy food. French fries are vegan, and so are oreos. Almost all chips are vegan also. So the stigma that being vegan is healthy is very wrong.
"I'm a Virgo, you get it."
Also a Virgo, don't you put this on us! 😂
I totally agree! ✌️
Right, we do NOT claim her 💀
I agree. Lol not all virgos are like this. She's on her own. 🤷🏻♀️
I'm a Virgo, allergic to Garlic and tell people don't worry about it. I eat beforehand if needed.
@AliciaNash2013 exactly! I am a Virgo with Celiac and am always prepared to not be able to eat at events. I really just want everyone to enjoy themselves. It's my issue and not theirs to bother themselves with! Definitely MCS with that one! She must have some sketchy rising sign there!🤣✌️
Asks for feedback. Is mad when feedback is given.
The fact that she calls having to go pick up food “labor.” Like…she clearly hasn’t done any actual labor in her life 😂
Whenever someone starts to alibi their astrology sign for bad behavior I know they’re a kook.
Sooo... all of her siblings are involved in the wedding but she ... can't even pick up her own take out.. because she drove 5 hrs and blah blah blah... She's ridiculous. It's her siblings for fucking sakes.
Wonder why she’s the only one not helping.
@@amandamartin7020 Selfishness
Maybe she was adopted 😅
5 hours? Wherever she was traveling from, I guarantee you there was a Chinese restaurant nearby. And an extra 30 minutes or so to pick up YOUR food on a 5hr trip should be no biggie.
@@amandamartin7020I can think of a couple reasons.
If my brother or sister had asked me to pick up ANYTHING on my way to their wedding, especially my special order food, I would say “YES and do you need anything else from me?”
She’s a piece of work and I feel sorry for her brother and sister for having to deal with this narcissist all their lives.
And, girlfriend? Relationships are NOT transactional like you said. They run on mutual love and because of that love things tend to level out. I can’t imagine spending my life nickel and dime-ing my friends and family. Wow.
Just wow ! family wedding or friends wedding , I bet i can guess who won't be invited to the next wedding
Wait, it wasn't HER wedding? My god the entitlement is mind blowing
*God
That’s why she acting like that. She’s jealous it’s not her.
@@ijustchangedmyname7794 "My god"
She literally thinks she is gracing them with her entitled presence. Rude, petty and lazy! 🗑🚮
I would never have the guts to even think of asking for this.
Her attitude is exactly why she won’t have her own wedding.
Damn do you really need to eat at a wedding this badly? You can wait until you get home
Or eat on the way? Pack snacks?
She eats regularly..
They said “guest” and she heard “guest of honor”
She should’ve kept this to herself. She looks insane😂
Shoot they ordered & paid for the food they just didn't have the time to pick it up so they ask her to pick it up, probably because she hasn't lifted a finger to help plan the wedding, simply because it's beneath her to do so. She should've just picked up her free food and been done with it and above all else SHE SHOULD'VE KEPT HER MOUTH SHUT!
She should of stayed home or ate before she came
OMFGGG!!! She GENUINELY THINKS that the relationships with people you are SUPPOSED to LOVE are based on TRANSACTIONS!!! OK so, actually, this exact mindset is being sickeningly normalized in modern society. Seriously, girlfriend, get ready to LOSE *every single relationship* you EVER try to have in life!! 😵
That's how narcissists think ..
My son has a food allergy & I learned a long time ago that people can’t always accommodate his restrictions. We have had to bring or buy something that he can eat on several occasions. Planning a wedding can be overwhelming & it’s childish to expect the bride & groom to remember your food preference when they have so much to do.
That's the thing about being a kind, generous, loving, human human being. Relationships don't have to be transactional. Nor are they always balanced. Sometimes you carry the weight & other times the other person does. That's what you do in relationships. It isn't any wonder there is so much disconnectedness between people these days if this is the mentality of our newer generations. So very sad .....
IMHO it would have been no skin off her nose to stop & pick up her food on the way to the wedding, and it was the right and decent thing to do given EVERYONE ELSE WAS BUSY!!!!
Imagine being her kid and having to hear this on the way back from the wedding 😂😂 some people really do have it worse
The kid sat in the back with earphones in 🤣
Her presence is your gift? Well thanks princess…What a friend/sister lol but Uuuh does she know chicken broth etc are used in nearly every dish. How is Chinese food vegan? Anyone?
It also m s g which they're thinking causes dementia
Thank you.
To expect a chinese place to accommodate that your vegan diet is crazy.... definitely had fish sauce or oyster sauce, or chicken stock, and cooked in same wok..... with a diet so strict, it seems insane to expect the world to adjust to You..
I was waiting for someone to say this! Thank you! Made me think of my kosher father ordering Chinese food. Dad, there's pork in the dumplings and fried rice.
I am guessing she was really in the mood for mushroom tofu rice that wedding day
She wins the award for biggest narcissist. I'm sure that would actually make her happy. Her poor child had a mother that thinks love is transactional. There is no good outcome of that.
I'm convinced that she isn't being honest. Her issue has nothing to do with the wedding's accommodations but it's all about her relationship to her siblings.
She only mentions that she loves her brother. About her sister, 9:03 her tone becomes aggressive when she says *"the coordinator was MY SISTEEER"*
And then she proceeds claiming things that aren't nice, at all, like allegedly *"her brother already knew, which is why he didn't have complete faith in his sister coming through on everything."* And according to her *"She didn't. It was a fail. It was a lack of consideration."*
She must be exhausting as a person to deal with and she definitely sucks as a big sister. Usually, the toxic root is sheer jealousy, envy, unhealthy competition, but who knows.
9:42 *" If I'm giving you THE BEST, top-tier..."* 🤦🏽♂️ Who talks like that other than a self-absorbed, narcissistic individual?
She's absolutely awful!
Girl this aint about you. SIT DOWN
Underrated comment!
You’re just a guest at a wedding! Nobody owes you anything!
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You said you were 10 minutes from the Chinese place. Now you said you drove 5 hours.
A GIFT is when you give someone something and expect NOTHING on return.
A PRESENT, is when you give someone something and expect something back.
You drop off the gift before the dinner reception. This fool was already planning on not gifting the bride and groom.
They literally got all of her accommodations and she's still complaining.
If another wedding comes up send her an invitation to not show up…her child’s father got away from her and she’s going to the wedding alone…no surprise there
She is the gift that keeps on giving. Buy your own food.
As I told my small children, "take what you get and don't throw a fit"
My dad has a gluten allergy. You know what he does before events like this? He eats.
The rest of the family and friends should remember to not invite her to anything again.
The “that doesn’t even make sense to me”
And her face and audacity throughout the video is wild!
Constantly complaining is an addiction.
True! It's a lot easier to play victim than it is to be a grown up and take accountability.