ARE BRITTANY DAWN AND MILENA CICIOTTI TWO PEAS IN A POD? | Reaction
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My win for the week is successfully having my rainbow baby
I love this!! 🥰🥰🥰
Congratulations!!
Congratulations!!!
omg congratulations ❤️
Congratulations! Mine is due in 6w! ❤
Love the "Some people are convicted of Botox while others are not." Like lol Brit, trying to defend yourself there at the end.
Exactly! She didn’t get into an actual conversation with Milena about that but had to throw it in at the end.
@@BHaneyShe has never responded to my messages on RUclips . I unfollowed after at least 6 years ago.
Being so “concerned” about not being modest because she’s “so good looking and will make people lust” is just as prideful as wearing short shorts for attention. It’s all about the mindset. It’s not wrong to Wear comfy tight clothes so you can move in an athletic way
I used to try this whole modesty thing and prayed about it and realized I felt more shamed sitting there anxious about what to wear in public rather than just trusting that gospel saves me rather I wear tight clothes or not. Milena and Brittany still can’t get over themselves or how good they wanna look that’s the root of this whole thing.
Yesss that was soooo awkward!😬
Yessss this podcast was full of vanity!!
THIS!!!👍👏👍
I agree with this comment. They still care A LOT about how they look, even if they are dressing modestly. Like I really wanna see these big Christian influencers do something that involves their community (outside of church) that doesn't benefit them...at all!! I think I'll be impressed when that happens
I think it’s difficult to make a statement like that when we don’t know Milenas heart. Only her and the Lord do. She doesn’t have to think she is good-looking, she may just feel that tight clothing draws attention to her body. I say this lovingly because I have been there, but we should be careful not to let jealousy of other people make us judge them. You are just as beautiful and stunning as Milena, and so am I. God created us all. If God convicts someone’s heart (he has mine!) about certain clothing, it’s not our responsibility to judge that. I hope this made sense and God bless you🙏🏻
The way brittany says “yeahhhh” every time sounds like Julia Fox when she’s being interviewed about her makeup and she says “I actually did it myself, yeahhhhh” and I can’t unhear it
only cool when queen Julia does it
When they say convicted I always think they mean a crime, which I guess for Brittney is true lol
Hi B! My win for the week was Wednesday I celebrated 9 years & 6 months sober!!!!
That’s amazing, congratulations!! 🎉
Wow! So proud of you!
I just dont see how this conversation is any different from “worldly” girls obsessed with fashion. It’s just hard to see this as anything other than a shift in aesthetic, rather than a genuine shift in perspective. They’re still micro-analyzing their appearance and making it a focal point of their identity.
EXACTLY! They are still obsessing about what to wear, what to purge, what to buy new. It's consumerism with a gloss of 'god'.
Plus, B-Dawg retroactively saying she never truly felt confident wearing tight/revealing clothes before she was a Christian reads as very convenient (for the sake of her new brand) to me. She has a history of an ED - OF COURSE she didn't always feel confident while out in public, wearing revealing clothing - she had/has a mental disorder that makes her obsess about her body image and what others think of her. Maybe that has more to do with any lack of confidence she felt that whether she was wearing a crop top.
Something about this whole modesty discussion is just so boring. I'm not religious but I dress quite modestly. Partly because I don't feel super comfortable in my body and partly due to sensory issues from autism, and billowy robe type garments just make me feel nice :) I've never even really thought about it, it's just what I feel comfortable with. Nobody has ever said anything, I'm not getting weird looks or comments, it's just a complete non-issue. It boggles my mind how these women can talk about this for hours and pretend like it's this big thing. Wear what you want, who cares?
Also, when Milena was explaining her "journey" all I could think of was "girl, you got radicalised". Perhaps it's an extreme term but that's what it sounded like to me.
Well said.🎉 I was feeling bored also. I was feeling as if the things they said were taking women back to a more powerless time. As if clothes have anything to do with what creepy men think or look at.
Lol i joined a ifb church and got immediately radicalized by the other women there . The first things brought up were about my clothing and appearance. The obsession with appearances and a false show of humility in these legalistic churches is so offputting and unchristlike. Left the institutional churches 2 years ago, and never looked back. Theyre really no different than the secular world they hate, they just believe theyre the righteous ones.
Thank GOD im saved by the blood of Christ and not any attempts of my own at being good or modest lol😅
Did she just say “crop tops croppy croppy croppy tops top.” 😂😂😂😂😂
Their narrative about fitness clothes bothers me on multiple levels. First, I fully agree with you that it’s on other people to control themselves. They’re setting up people to believe it’s their fault for wearing leggings or whatever item that they were harassed or assaulted or even just stared at. Secondly, work out clothes are tight for a reason, it’s not just to look good. Wearing baggy clothes to the gym is a hazard.
I agree. I did this whole modesty thing and tried to work out and realized it was more shaming to conceal and I was overheating from all the layers. Girl just wear a shirt and shorts and work out. That’s healthier than sitting there so anxious about what you wear
Plus staying so concerned about how much you “trap” people with your looks if you don’t dress modest is just as prideful as wearing short shorts to get attention. It’s from the mindset
Yes! 👏 people can wear whatever they want, as long as its safe for them and others. I wore my martial arts uniforms for years even in my non martial arts workout because I was so self conscious, guess what? actual workout clothes work so much better!! Easier movement, cooler, can keep a eye on better form. Ten years of martial arts and gabrage push-ups cause I could never see my crappy form, tight clothes have their place!
You can work out in baggy clothes, though. Guys do it all the time and I have no issues either. I disagree with Brit’s framing of “tHeRe’S nO eXcUsE” and people should wear what they are comfortable with. But the second half of statement isn’t completely true either.
I think this is a naive take. Leggings with your whole bum out are sexual in nature because your sexual stuff is visible. Modesty is for your own protection. You couldn't imagine what type of thoughts go through mens minds when they see your peach. It's not your fault but why would you want to Subject yourself to a random gross man's imagination. Why are you giving him visual access to the intimate details of your body?
Milena talking about her "consumerism going down" was funny, but Brittany saying "that's so real" was INSANE. Brittany posts amazon links to things she doesn't even own, using photos from the website rather than actually trying it for herself. Pleaaaase.
Plus how all the things she sells through her "Boutique" are clearly bought from AliExpress, Alibaba, etc. She doesn't think twice about the consequences of what she does if it means she will get paid.
My win for the week is seeing my favorite composer (Rachmaninoff) performed by the NY Philharmonic! It was a bucket list experience ❤
That’s amazing!! What a cool experience to be able to enjoy 💛
I’m jealous! Glad you got to rock (rach?) out to some Rachmaninoff 😊
@@wolski2609 haha agreed! It was an exceptional performance!
I agree with the showing skin to get a man’s attention being a high school mindset. My peers (women in their 20s+) are more concerned with how can I wear what I want and get men to leave me alone
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My win for the week is the fact that I traveled down to Texas to be in the path of totality and got to see the total solar eclipse which has been a bucket list item for me for 30 years
Brittany never really seems like she’s actually listening, she’s always waiting for her turn to talk. Also the Botox part was just ridiculous. Brittany does not think aging is beautiful at all.
i also loved how brittany tried to sound like she was agreeing with mileana when mileana is very clearly against botox and filler
Can we address how cringey and eye-roll-inducing the name "Chiseled and Called" is? For someone so concerned with vanity, she sure is obsessed with her body.
I got the same vibes, "chiseled" as in muscular 😂
No one needs to follow Dear Sister - she believes that not having sex with your husband is "stealing" from him.
This is how you start with a Milena or a Brittany, and end up at The Transformed Wife. 🤦♀️
Holy cow, really?? Yeah that’s a dangerous mindset.
@@BHaney I've done 3 videos on her content so far (the most recent being: ruclips.net/video/eFiS4v31KE4/видео.htmlsi=PcPtes5OABOXS4G7) and though she's not The Transformed Wife... she's really not far behind.
I think a lot of people are taken in by folks like Milena and Brittany (who are plenty harmful, but at least pleasant and seem to have some sort of line) and they fall in deeper and deeper until they find people like TTW, Sister, and Isa.
By the way not giving your husband sex is like stealing from him as said in the bible we are not to deny our husbands of pleasure and vise versa (1 Corinthians 7:2-5) This is so that they may not struggle, that is the reason we are here for, to help them and for them to help us, obviously sex isn’t everything, we are also to help them spiritually, mentally, emotionally etc. but it does play a big role in a marriage. When we said yes at the altar, it is saying yes to no longer being selfish, a true women of God won’t be forced to do this but will willingly be gladly to be a good wife for her husband. If for some reason you don’t want to have sex at one point, you’re not forced to either, as long as it’s a mutual agreement. I just don’t understand when women/men aren’t intimate with their partners and then wonder why they feel like there is no love in the marriage , or wonder why they got cheated on. However if sex is all your husband wants and is a constant issue, that is a big problem that he has to fix and the wife is not obligated to support him on that.
So in other words: instead of handling it like rational, mature adult, your partner should give into your tantrums because your parents never taught you impulse control.
When you say yes at the alter for not being selfish, that includes imposing your will onto your partner. If you made your partner buy you a drink, your partner isn’t being selfish by telling you no. It’s you expecting them to give in to your hedonistic wishes. You can’t twist words to mean something they don’t.
I just don’t when understand men/women neglect their partner’s personal and emotional needs and expect them to cater to their every selfish whim, yet get surprised when their partner can no muster the will to be intimate or wonder why they divorced them.
@@hanatemonstas4485 exactly you are saying exactly what I said if in a unreasonable situation you are being forced to ofc that is different. However we are to give to our husbands and to us it’s not just “giving away” that’s the opposite of what marriage is.That is how our love grows by being there for them in every way
It must be so exhausting to live this way. Always analysing every little piece of clothing you wear, and subconsciously what everyone else wears too. Even if there is 'no shame' as they say, she still wants people to pray for others.
It was exhausting, fustrating and infuriating all at the same time. The way they obsess about how they present to the world is so self centered. I feel stupid having listened to them.
I went to a church that forbade pants for women, or tight clothes, or anything above the knee. They even had a rule that shirts cant go lower than 2 fingers below the collar bone.
I got radicalized and folliwed it too and th3 sense of self righteousness and pride that comes with it is very real you start looking at other people how they dress and assume they are "probably not saved"
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 so funny in hindsight but
It was trult exhausting .
I don’t usually have anything to leave for win for the week, but a have a little one this time. I’ve been doing my own nails and have been learning to do some fun patterns. A woman from my weekly crafting group was so impressed with my work she asked if she could pay me to do her nails. ❤😊🎉
That’s awesome!! For legal reasons you are doing her nails for free and any money you receive was a tip 😉
The "men like dresses" as a modest choice is so funny to me because it reminds me of a Reddit post where someone asked "what clothes men like on women" and many of guys said sundresses. When asked why, the replies were because its flowy and feminine but also how you can "see the silhouette of her curves in the right light" , how "ease of access" it is , "its modest yet titillating" , "hides but leaves to the imagination", "when it's windy", etc. It was treated as cute and innocent in the original post but in another post about that post, a lot of women were creeped out how s*xualizing those responses were, especially for a comfy piece of clothing that is generally so modest and what a lot women usually wear not to be deliberately s*xy (and yet guys still do it anyways).
Obviously not shaming Milena for her preference in clothing (the onus is still on the guys' thoughts), but between the "wearing a long white dress while shopping at Rona and getting male attention", and the "wearing modest clothes all day makes the guy hot and bother so when they have s*x, it's like unwrapping a present", it goes to show it doesn't matter what a woman wears, guys will still s*xualize women and modest clothing can still draw male attention. The flowy multiple layers and "unwrapping a present" in particular feels like it hits on the "women should conceal their heart by her clothes so that man can find God with her" ergo "women like to be chased, men like to chase" which can slip into power dynamics. That is the closest reasoning I can see how guys find modest feminine clothes "s*xy", paradoxically enough. Not to say flowy feminine fashion is bad, but it truly feels like a lose lose situation.
Yesss exactly! It’s wild how they almost walk right into the point but then somehow miss it.
Brittany &/or Milena: I don’t want to wear yoga pants bc men like them and keep looking at my body in them.
Brittany &/or Milena: I wear cottage core now bc men love dresses 😏
Well said 🎉🎉🎉
well put
Listening to this I feel like Milena changed her style for practical reasons because she had to prioritize her time with three kids, and Brittany changed her style because she gets to shop and buy new clothes all the time. And then both of them are pretending to make it a faith issue for their brand.
Yes, I agree!
My win for the week is our 7 month old has started sleeping through the night!! My husband and I have no idea how he learnt to sleep through but we are really enjoying it!
Love your point of view on the topic, as always ❤
Congrats! The lack of sleep is no joke lol.
Holy cow, congrats! Thats a big milestone! Happy sleeping haha
That’s awesome! I’m sure it’s so nice for y’all as well to be able to get some more sleep 😂
And thank you 💛
my win might be leaving an abusive relationship, sitting in my driveway watching this to keep my mind off things, sobbing, trying not to go back to him.
Am wishing you safety and peace as you find yourself and gain the freedom and joy you deserve. While I can’t know what you are going through I’ve been in a similar place and my life was SO improved having left. ♥️ sending so much love and gentle hugs your way. All the best in the path ahead 🫂
I just did it! You can do! Call your local DV number pls! They’ll get you someone to help leave and talk to! 💕
So so Proud of you! Sending hugs, love and light!
You got this ❤ left mine 3 years ago… and God has redeemed EVERYTHING. Met my husband 6 months after leaving my ex. Keep pushing.
@@AliviaMiley goodness!! I have hid out in my apt! I don’t meet anyone …I’m about to start going to church again. I’m in cape cod and it’s dead here from like nov til May!
I'm wondering what the ancient Hebrew word for "crop-top" was. Or "acrylic nails."
MWftW is that I started playing a new RPG in "meatspace."
I’d love to see that translation 😂
And that’s awesome, I hope you’re having fun!!
Also they didn’t own anything except crop tops? Does it never get cold where they live?
Them saying “a man of God” is not going to be looking for immodest girls but they both got them dressing “worldly” 😂. Dude which one is it. In your line of thinking, make it make sense.
Hahaha 😂
They still want a HOT wife! Then you can start to be more modest once your married haha that’s what they should say
My win for the week is getting my eleven year sobriety chip on Monday.
Congratulations! That is a huge accomplishment 🎉
"You can wear a maxi dress with sneakers." Whaaaat. I can't even
Ngl a flowy midi/maxi dress with bright white sneakers or slip ons is my summer uniform at work 😂
Groundbreaking advice from them!! 🚨
"Shame should never be something that we feel.
.... Unless you're part of a group we don't like!"
I just don’t understand why you can’t simply have a preference or change of mind to not get nails or Botox. Why does it have to be a conviction?
Brit’s sexual moans legitimately make me uncomfortable. They’re so out of place in most convos
It's a pretty standard term in Christianese lol I always see convictions for big ticket items like corn or alcohol or modesty/natural beauty as a whole. Not little things like nails or botox.
This! I wish Brit would be "convicted" to stop moaning on her podcast.😂
Right? Not everything has to be this huge revelation of God calling you to stop doing something like Botox or drinking caffeine. You can decide to change a habit for like a million reasons lol
Currently remembering the time Milena said she stopped wearing sunscreen bc it was “vain”… like girl no. That’s not how that works
Sunscreen??? 😮
What?! Didn’t she do some kind of thousand hours outside challenge last year? If she doesn’t bring sunscreen back into the rotation…
@@BHaney that I’m not sure about, but I vividly remember her saying she wasn’t wearing sunscreen or considering not wearing sunscreen. People in the comments were calling her out but I stopped watching her soon after that so idk if she took them to heart or not
@@BHaney update, found the video it’s still up. The vanity is bondage video
Brittany pretending she relates while having fake hair, hair color, nails, tan, eyelashes, makeup, possible botox/fillers, new outfits every day, expensive car, etc etc etc
Ikr?!?😂
These modesty conversations between fundies are quite repetitive, aren't they?
My win for the week is I got to visit my grandmother for her 80th birthday in another state! It was a wonderful time.
I do like Milena’s focus on trying to minimize vanity when it comes to your clothes, but it seems like these conversations always come back to caring how men perceive them, and whether men think they’re being modest or not. Milena said that her dressing more modestly has her husband thinking about her body almost more than he did before - from lack of skin! So my takeaway from this is: no matter what women do, no matter how we dress or how much or how little skin we show, men will still think about our bodies. So with that said, shouldn’t we just be free of shame and remove men from the equation completely? Let them think what they think, we can’t change that!
100% agree with her on the limiting consumerism, being mindful and buying quality pieces, and trying to limit how much mental energy is focused on appearance and trends.
One thing that has always frustrated me with Milena’s modesty message is that she will constantly say that modesty is her OWN personal conviction. But then she talks about other girls not being modest (according to her standard) and act as if that is the goal they should be wanting to achieve. At that point, it isn’t a personal conviction - it’s a guideline to faith. She ultimately wants women to feel shame for not having the same standard of modesty as her and thinks it should change.
Brittany seems fake per usual, and milena sounds brainwashed.
Oh! My WFTW is my son and I found 22 morel mushrooms yesterday! We're eating them tonight 😊
17:54 Funny Bunny is a very popular white nail polish by OPI! 😄
My win for the week is that my RUclips channel has hit 100 subscribers 😊
A win for the week is that I got to see John Green give a speech at my university ☺ but ngl other than that its been a rough week
B - I adore your videos. I have deconstructed from Christianity or - at least the southern baptist version I grew up with. It’s a delight to keep up with the wild fundies through you. so many of them nitpick out-of-context scripture and use it to spread hate (in the name of Jesus, no less!) so it’s always a delight to hear your take on things because of the way you use compassion, love, and some common sense. Fingers crossed Bdawn finishes the entire Bible this year and finally gets to the love, compassion, and kindness parts. 😉
So many thoughts…
Why are these Christian influencers never convicted by the verses that say it’s important to give your possessions away and live in poverty?
She wasn’t convicted after baby 1 or 2…but after 3 babies she felt the need to dress modest? As someone whose 3rd baby did my body in, this seems like awfully convenient timing… but maybe I’m reading into it.
Brittany has never said so little, and it’s cracking me up.
They tried to do it about consumerism in this podcast but it rang hollow coming from Brittany.
Does Brittney really think her "active listening" noises add anything to the podcast? Because they really bug the crap outta me. We don't need your "yeah" and "mhm"s girl. Maybe that's just me though
I love how you dance to the intro music every time
Me, too! Musicality is universal!
I was NOT expecting my youtube worlds to colide today with the Zachary Michael shout out! Love your videos B!
SAME 😂 that was such a pleasant surprise
"Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people."
So I just went and looked at her Instagram. Her outfits are really well put together, accessorized, cool boots - looks like it would take more time than I spend putting on jeans and a sweater. I’m not criticizing that at all - she looks great (not my style, but I can appreciate it).
I guess I just question the assertion that it’s to be quick and simple and to not get attention.
I would still look at her and think “cool shoes, nice outfit!” Modest, sure - but not for any attention? Eh….
(And if you’re putting your outfits on the internet - are you not worried about what people think?)
I dunno. Just be honest - I like dresses, they’re modest, I like how I look in the outfits…it’s not that deep
I think sometimes they equate feeling comfortable/confident in an outfit with trying to get attention and vanity/immodesty
This is an interesting point…the outfits look different than they did when she was dressing “immodestly” but these outfits may not be simpler and the desire there could still be to have her followers admire her outfits and use the links she posts so they can dress like her too
Yes! So it’s wrong to dress what she considers immodest (which changes by the month) bc it means you’re seeking attention but it’s not wrong to dress modestly (her interpretation) and show thousands of people how you look and literally have them comment and shop based off your looks..?
Milena talks about people seeing her butt-yet for the LONGEST time here recently she is all butt-bending over in front of the camera constantly. She did that on purpose and knew EXACTLY what she is doing. Her “modest” journey is fooling no one.
Britney talking about letting go of worldly things is hilarious. Especially in the beauty space, she wears alot of makeup (nothing wrong of that).
My win for the week is that the new cat has truly made himself at home and I love him and he is definitely my emotional support animal. ❤
1. Why does Brittany moan when she’s trying to show she’s listening? Like, I’m sorry, but girlie pop, try to come up with different feedback or engage in an actual conversation.
2. I’m genuinely not sure if some of those are “convictions” or if they’re just busy and not spending on luxuries.
3. Also…the Botox slander. While it IS used for cosmetic purposes, there are also medical uses. There’s success for using it with tension headaches and TMJ. I don’t know why you’d need to feel conviction over a medication…but I always had pretty out there ideas about medications for fundie circles, apparently.
win for the week: my 25th birthday! also had an amazing meeting with w scholar in my field which was so invigorating when i needed it most in grad school.
New podcast name: Chisled and Yeeeea
My win for the week was my husband and I took a walk with our 11 month old. I’m in Alaska, so the streets are newly snow free. It was very nice to step outside and see/feel snow melting and spring starting
The story about Home Depot was the worst here. First it reinforces gender stereotypes that it’s hilarious women would be in Home Depot looking to do house projects. And if older men stopped me to talk about my clothing choices, even if it was supposed to be a compliment, I would walk away from them. That whole story bugged me, everything about it.
I'm convinced now that Brittany is trying to move into her "trad wife" era. I suspected it when she talked about getting a farm and all the animals she wants to have (which I hope she doesn't, given her track record with other living beings). I think she's going to migrate towards Milena's style so she can look the part and this is her way of introducing it to her audience and trying to convince herself that this is the direction she wants to go in.
A part of me doubts that she will fully embrace all aspects of tradwifery, because her life has been so different from a lot of what most trad wives present online. I also don't think she would enjoy all of it, but I'm curious to see how far she'll take it.
Noted, to find the older gentleman of my dreams I gotta get myself a modest white dress and head on down to Home Depot.
Some of the talk about modesty goes a little overboard. They seem to be talking about confidence while wearing some of these “immodest” clothes at times, but then attach vanity/shame to that.
Be comfortable, but not TOO comfortable, be secure, but not TOO confident, be feminine, but don't be sexual at all! So many invisible arbitrary lines.
I am a Christian woman and I love feeling sexy at the gym and I don’t wear nothing but I also don’t cover up completely. And I am a married woman and my husband does not care what I wear…
That episode of Brittany’s has to be one of the most misogynistic conversations I’ve heard in a long time….
MODESTY IS NOT ONLY HOW YOU DRESS!!!! And either way, Brittany still doesn’t dress modestly…
As someone with cerebral palsy, I can’t comprehend “bending over modestly”. Pamphlets at church growing up talked about bending over and that is just gross to me.
Yeah, that’s way too much! There are so many things going on in people’s everyday lives I can’t imagine spending my brain power on bending over modestly 🤯
This was so hard for me to listen to. I feel stupid somehow, because of the things they were saying. Those women spent a good chunk of time confusing themselves about clothes, men, and religion. As if what I wear has anything to do with my relationship with God. The world is not that simple, in my opinion that was exceptionally close minded. I could rant agaisnt what they said for a long time.
What gets me is how inconsistent they were all throughout... Like they went from "Thanks to my modest wardrobe I can just grab the first thing and go and not worry about what I look like" to "I have really developed my style and researched how to look good while still being modest, and I layer and this and that". Which, I have nothing against either of these, but they can't coexist!
Same with "if my butt looks good and Joe Random sees it it's bad" to "Dudes love dresses and I wear them all the time and that's good". WHICH IS IT?
She probably deleted everything cuz the dad challenge podcast called her out for vlogging her kids 😅
also the fact that you watch Zachary Michael is everything lol
Such an unexpected crossover lol
i love Zachary Michael i was like whaaa 🤣🤣
Literally these women are trying to make having a style change something religious and holy…..
That’s what i thought as I was listening, it just sounds like natural growing up and changing or shifting your style preferences.
I don't agree with everything that Milena says, but I do respect that she practices what she preaches and (from what I've seen of her) she doesn't say things in a condescending way. Both are unlike Brittany.
“When I wear dresses my husband loves it” “when I wear leggings my husband loves it” okay so …. Then how are dresses modest (if you follow that logic)
Doesn’t help the “white long dress in Rona” conv is still part of getting male attention (also by their same logic).
Wow they just love to talk about how fabulous they are… the white dress at Home Depot story literally made me roll my eyes 🤣
Win for the week: I have Monday off! ❤
And she said it! I was thinking that her wearing clothes that made her feel good in front of children was a good thing. She was telling that daughter her body is good and worthy. Then she said it, "if my husband is thinking about my butt then Joe...." That is the problem! Men can and should learn to control their selves. Women are not objects of lust. It is ridiculous and I am tired of this bs. Women can and should wear what they want, feel good in, and comfortable. I am tired of "r" culture. My young nieces deserve better!
There was so much contradiction in this conversation. They never actually defined what is and is not considered modest, and so many of their points were strictly personal issues rather than biblically based teachings.
They mentioned feeling uncomfortable in anything form fitting. Not everyone feels uncomfortable in form fitting clothing. They also implied that dresses are somehow the standard for modesty, yet they also said it’s all about personal style? And that every person has different convictions, but essentially it’s implied that their way is the right way, but no one is wrong? Which is it?
And it really bothered me when Brittany said form fitting workout sets are inappropriate, but she still wears them sometimes which is okay because she’s on a journey. Girl, stop it right now. That’s a load of excuses and hypocrisy. If it’s wrong, don’t wear it. End of story.
The comment about her husband wouldn’t stop touching her😅 Let me preface by saying I don’t mind being touched at all, and my husband knows that. But honestly my husband loves to always be touching me no matter what I wear, so that’s a not a fair assessment. He is also always complimentary even when I perceive myself as looking like a wreck. So by that logic I wouldn’t be able to leave the house in anything😅I mean sure there’s things he loves more, but what if it’s flattering? It’s just such a weird justification to not wear something.
“Convictions with leggings”!
A good band name
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YES! :D And their first songs will be "Crop Tops, Croppy Croppy Croppy Tops Top", "Joe is also seeing this", "The Lord Changed My Heart Pasture", "Veil lifted of vanity too" and "Yeah, Mmmmm, Yeah, Wow".
I love watching your videos, particularly the ones that cover Brittany Dawn. Your measured and thoughtful approach is always spot on!
My win for the week is that my debut novel is now also on audio book platforms! I'm an indie author and the book was published last April but the audio book production just wrapped.
My win for the week is that my boyfriend is coming home in 30 days when we weren’t expecting him to come home for another 90!!☺️☺️
No literally Brittany talking about how uncomfortable and insecure she was in her “un-modest” clothing it’s like…??? Not every woman is insecure in their body like sorry you were but that’s not everyone’s journey lol
I have had a very similar experience with modesty except none of it has been religiously inspired. I am an atheist and I also simplified after becoming a mother. I mostly wear dresses because they’re easy and you feel put together with minimal effort. At this point showing lots of skin feels uncomfortable to me. I haven’t bothered with getting my nails done, wearing makeup, or getting my hair done in years.
I listen to as for me and my house and she explained that in their podcast. We are all evolving and changing and growing, she did not want content that wasn’t who she was anymore. We are all not the same person that we were 7 years ago (at least I hope so). She said she put them on private because she felt like if the content didn’t bless someone or to have people say you said this but she could ha e said it….7 years ago and has changed or matured and she didn’t think that would be fruitful to someone’s life.
Omg I love that you also watch Zachary Michael. You have great taste!
My win for the week - I finally found a chest binder that is effective but not so tight that it worsens my POTS symptoms or restrict my breathing. I cried happy tears when taking pics w/it on. May be a weird WFTW but life has been really hard for me lately. Being able to see myself in a way that actually felt ‘right’ was really nice.
"Biblically, we are called to age" what? So if you are not biblical you won't age, what does that even mean???
My WFW is my mom had a successful knee surgery last Wed and she's doing great. :)
I appreciate Milena's point on the "anyone, girl or not, telling another girl something is immodest isn't advisable". She is right there is usually a misplaced sense of superiority and pride that you often see when people do that, and it can have the opposite effect in that people slow down or go the other direction (the '5 steps back instead of 3 steps forwards' analogy she used). Decisions feel more meaningful when done of your own will and not what Morgan at the gym thinks about how you are effecting her husband. That and her productive re-framing of "maybe if you add this, it will look more modest" rather than put down what they have, *if* someone does ask for advice on how to make something more modest.
In the gym lately I’ve been wearing giant (on me) sweats (2xl. My waist is about 30” for reference, so I mean it when I say these aren’t even “cute” baggy clothes. I am swimming in them.) I train on a body building split, and as I lean down this season I’m getting more and more attention. sometimes I just don’t have the bandwidth to talk to people who have questions etc (as they have seen my body change so “quickly” during this cut). People are curious and kind, and honestly very complimentary, but I’ve been going through a lot with life and need to decompress during training. Im introverted anyway AND on a time schedule at the gym, so wearing large clothing helps mitigate chatter. Anyway- I was wearing oversized sweats and a 2xl shirt as well. A guy came up to me and told me, well. Really obscene things about how I look like I need to be fxxxxx and what he wants to do me. 😩 I was so shocked. I had no clue what to say. I didn’t say anything!!! I was sick to my stomach. He walked away after being awkward for a minute and I turned around and kept training while I was disassociating.
So, NO Brittany and Milena, you (unfortunately) cannot control other people’s thoughts about your body. In my experience- I get harassed when I am dressed in oversized clothing WAY MORE than I ever am when I’m wearing flattering clothing.
I think it’s bc in oversized clothes people assume I have low self esteem and will tolerate harassment. When I’m dressed well I exude confidence- which isn’t a great target for those looking to assault.
Thanks for your commentary you’re the best!
Thank you so much! I hope you enjoyed the video 💛
Listen I wear crop tops because they’re cute and I feel more confident in them than if I’m wearing a baggy t-shirt that covers up everything lol.
Yes girl me too I maybe have 1-2 shirts that aren’t crop tops lmao
I think this modesty talk really ignores plus size women, and women with bigger boobs/butts. I’m plus size AND have the big butt- almost anything I wear is going to be tight/revealing. Even at my “thinnest” in the past five years, the butt did not go anywhere! So I’m not going to worry and fret about finding the baggiest, loosest pants/dresses to hide my figure. In fact, I don’t want to hide it! I’m finally learning to love my body where it’s at as I strive to take better care of it.
It does! When I was my biggest, I felt immodest constantly, even wearing “baggies” clothes!
You can’t wear baggy clothes there is no such thing when everything is tight. Or when you are pregnant and you grow.. and you can’t afford more clothes
I’m only halfway through, but I like Milena’s (sp?) take on this. She’s taking the same approach as the New Testament. The physical law PLUS the posture of the heart. The law isn’t just the physical act, but how your heart is set on keeping the law.
Then here comes BD, missing the point and bringing it back to the superficial.
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Brittany sounds very superficial. I just commented that something i respect about Milena is that she practices what she preaches.
I believe Funny Bunny is the name of a very popular shade of pink nail polish!
I have 2 kids but have been pregnant 3 times. I dont trip on it bc I am vocal of my miscarriage and abortion, and understand how it incorporates into my life.
Oh my gosh, I’ve been watching for a while but I love that you watch Zach too!!! 💛
Hey, B! What are your opinions on Arizonas extreme abortion ban? As an atheist and curious person, I’m wondering what your thoughts are. I value your voice as it’s quite unique in the religious/political community. TIA!
Love to hear it too!
I’ve heard it “to make people upset”
That’s politics sometimes, just to make people look one direction and distract from others.
Can one be a Christian and be ok with abortion? I don’t think so. I’m always curious where Christians stand on this.
WFTW: my garden is already looking good!
You mentioning Zachary Michael made me double take for a sec! I love it when my fav creators overlap
My win for the week was finally getting my induction date for my second rainbow baby! Congrats on the pregnancy praying all goes well and smooth. ❤
I too love a matching pajama set! With the new little one on the way, you should know that there are some really fun matching family pajamas out there. My husband and I have started a matching Christmas pajama tradition, and it makes for some very cute (and comfy) pictures. Congratulations!!
I think k it’s SUPER ironic Brittany is talking about this to the extent she is considering what she takes pictures of herself in all the time…
Milena's journey sounds a little more like a busy mom whose body changed, and wants a more simplistic wardrobe of things that suit her life and body. I think many of us experience it in one form of another. Not necessarily for the purpose of modestly, but you may go from a closest full of blouses and sweaters to a closet full of t-shirts and sweats that you don't have to think about, and it masks the shape you might not feel confident about. Same thing with nails and such. It's quite common to go more simplistic when you've got little kids to care for. I'm interested to see if her style or opinions change in 10 or 15 years as her kids age, and she may decide she does want more time for herself.
Yayyyy love your videos!
So her dresses have improved her sex life but her husband also finds leggings super sexy? It’s wonderful that her husband is attracted to her but it sounds like what she wears doesn’t matter in this situation. So many contradictions in one podcast.
Why do they say heart posture? Why not just heart. 😆
I thought they were saying “heart PASTURE” 😅😂
As someone who also uses that phase, I unfortunately have no explanation 😂
I think the “posture” part is where it is “pointed”
Pasture is hilarious
My win for the week: I made important phone calls and appointments for my health and mental health ❤
Girrrrl your hair is 🔥
My win: getting to see that amazing eclipse!!