Texting that Kills Attraction and Pushes Women Away

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  • Опубликовано: 7 ноя 2024

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  • @TheItYo
    @TheItYo Год назад +183

    Men put too much value into women. If they don’t want to be bothered leave them alone. If she likes you you’ll hear from her. If you don’t hear from her that’s fine too. Love yourself more than you can love anybody.

    • @Luigi-xg7hx
      @Luigi-xg7hx Год назад +10

      Indeed bro.

    • @ianerickson2210
      @ianerickson2210 Год назад +12

      Completely agree. We as men need to let other men know that self-love is beyond all else important.
      You hear so many guys talk about girls, and center their lives on a girl and it's disgusting. Every one of those relationships will fail if the man does not love himself more.
      Cheers men.

    • @ZacharyBrand
      @ZacharyBrand Год назад +4

      Factos

    • @Prince_Unknown1
      @Prince_Unknown1 Год назад +4

      Amen to that.

    • @johndavis6719
      @johndavis6719 Год назад +3

      Fax

  • @mrdee2454
    @mrdee2454 Год назад +88

    I texted many women out of attraction as a teen. Now texting for me is strictly setting dates

  • @averagestudent4358
    @averagestudent4358 Год назад +62

    Attraction grows in space
    Less is more

  • @mrcool665
    @mrcool665 Год назад +40

    When you want them, they will not want you. When you don't want them, then they'll want you.

  • @blair5475
    @blair5475 Год назад +69

    I only use texting when I want to set dates. Keep conversations brief and get to the point

    • @blair5475
      @blair5475 Год назад

      @@JoeCool-u6u Thank you generic user

    • @AR-xl6ym
      @AR-xl6ym Год назад +8

      This is okay in the beginning or for hook ups. The relationship will never go any further though. Women want to feel safe and connected and the reality is that it is done by texting these days. It's better to just mirror and not be too responsive and let her do most of the heavy lifting by text.

    • @usercs_2682
      @usercs_2682 Год назад +3

      This only works in the beginning

    • @Rob-nl5ge
      @Rob-nl5ge Год назад +5

      Only works in the beginning. You have to stay in contact to build the relationship

  • @naturalbornkiller361
    @naturalbornkiller361 Год назад +23

    As they say, opposite attracts. Women are talkative, responsive and submissive by nature. That's why if you text a lot or reach out to her often by other means, it mirrors their dominant traits, and gives off feminine energy. Masculine men are supposed to be mysterious, less responsive, and busy with their daily hustle. Not busy chasing women.

  • @TheRmm1976
    @TheRmm1976 Год назад +17

    This is especially tough when you meet a girl that you really like, and are really into, who is a 9 or 10 to you... Makes it hard NOT to respond and keep the texting going if she wants to text. Because you have fear of chasing her off if you're too non-responsive. If you're only doing this with a girl who's a 7 or 8, it's much easier to not respond.

    • @norswil8763
      @norswil8763 7 месяцев назад

      My ex was a 10… my phone was hot from over use🙃

  • @beyuwallace
    @beyuwallace Год назад +9

    Mystery is so important, it seems there’s always a unseen battle when dealing with women and that’s the interesting part and it keeps you on your toes even when things are good you have to think ahead

  • @derrickjordan5969
    @derrickjordan5969 Год назад +8

    I call a girl before the first date (ams advice). It definitely works! Gotta it keep the phone call light on topics, quick 10-15min & you have to be the one to get off the phone!
    She needs to talk to you on the phone first, it’s a great indicator if the date will go well or not.
    After the first date use texting only to set up dates. YOU NEED TO STAND OUT FROM ALL THE OTHER MEN WHO ARE TO SCARED TO CALL!

  • @maxdanielstrauss7735
    @maxdanielstrauss7735 Год назад +16

    Been listening to him for years and I swear we all need to hear this from time to time. Love your work

  • @rodneytorres1410
    @rodneytorres1410 8 месяцев назад +2

    This guy helps us men so much, many thanks from Puerto Rico. 🙏🏼

  • @brianwaite6070
    @brianwaite6070 Год назад +7

    I learned this hard lesson years ago.

  • @brown_recidivist
    @brown_recidivist Год назад +14

    Broads need to know that you have a life outside of them. When you're readily available, it shows that you have nothing better to do but be talking to her all day. Plus, you will eventually have nothing to talk about. The conversation is gonna drag on painfully and slowly and next thing you know you achieved next level simp status and you're texting her, "What are we" lol

  • @jacobs3031
    @jacobs3031 Год назад +5

    Just stay single dont bother not worth the hassle. Im 30 and no interest in women anymore. When i was teenager and early twenties I was but the desire has gone.

  • @danialmr5960
    @danialmr5960 Год назад +1

    Chris keep up the great work

  • @AR-xl6ym
    @AR-xl6ym Год назад +9

    All you have to do is mirror and don't text back straight away. Its that simple. You cant just set dates and ignore a girl anymore. It isnt 1957 anymore and they don't like it.

  • @italiancapo7
    @italiancapo7 Год назад +7

    She would text me throughout the day & send memes through IG. She would get upset that I didn’t respond for hours. I’m working woman! She would get upset that I never text her first or text asking her about her day. She broke up & said I never tried & never cared! wtf???!!! 😳 😡

    • @Anth_D
      @Anth_D Год назад +4

      She’s insecure, red flag. Next!

    • @AR-xl6ym
      @AR-xl6ym Год назад +14

      80/20 rule. You can't be distant all the time. You overdosed on red pill lol

    • @NeoZeta
      @NeoZeta Год назад

      @@AR-xl6ym He said he's working...

    • @ryanp7918
      @ryanp7918 Год назад

      Super insecure. An emotionally healthy woman would never do this.

    • @AR-xl6ym
      @AR-xl6ym Год назад +2

      @@ryanp7918 she is emotionally unhealthy because she wants her partner to at least ask her how her day was? Bro c'mon... you gonna be single for life lol

  • @sandrewmukhim108
    @sandrewmukhim108 Год назад +1

    Thanks Chris 😊

  • @Anth_D
    @Anth_D Год назад +3

    Not sure about this one Chris! Surprising girls and throwing them off what is the norm can come through a phone call.

  • @tlamelokgosimalebe3119
    @tlamelokgosimalebe3119 Год назад +35

    If a lady likes you she will never be bothered by how much you text her ..
    If she doesn't like you,she will never even bother herself talking to you
    It's either she likes you or she doesn't;it ends there

    • @eppsislike
      @eppsislike Год назад +17

      You've never been in a relationship. If you were, you would've known that it doesn't matter how much she likes, frequent texting kills attraction. You're subconsciously conveying to her that you have no life and that makes her dryer than Sahara desert my friend.

    • @tlamelokgosimalebe3119
      @tlamelokgosimalebe3119 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@eppsislike lol I've been in a 4years relationship before and I understand what I'm talking about .
      You re basically talking about things that happen at the beginning of a relationship,that's where it applies but with time she doesn't really care .. how many times you text her or how long you talk to her in a phone call

  • @jimmoefoe1471
    @jimmoefoe1471 Год назад +7

    I bag every single women when I call them lol. Calling them is my goal. After we get on a call, they know what and who to expect adn they just get comfier.

  • @necrolord5101
    @necrolord5101 Год назад +2

    Thank you

  • @maxtechmax
    @maxtechmax Год назад +1

    Chris is THE MAN!!!!!!

  • @hifikepunyemichael2891
    @hifikepunyemichael2891 Год назад +2

    We had been chatting ever since 2022 and yesterday I was told that she doesn't want to be selfish but would like to let me free. That hurt so much,as I'm deeply inlove with her😢. Buy I will be okay.

  • @lovehealth-je6co
    @lovehealth-je6co Месяц назад

    Text ONCE. Call ONCE.

  • @miltonpowell9520
    @miltonpowell9520 Год назад +1

    Facts 🔥🔥🔥

  • @سيف-ت2غ8ظ
    @سيف-ت2غ8ظ Год назад +8

    2:23
    you mentioned a country never exist

  • @Tommy-mh3jd
    @Tommy-mh3jd Год назад +1

    if you text a girl too much she is not going to reply to your texts or she might even leave you unread and she will start cancelling dates she will say things like im really tired or i don't really feel like meeting up. if you text your girlfriend too much she will dump you she will say something like im not ready for a relationship or i need some space. really it happens don't text a girl you like too much

  • @marcomarin6563
    @marcomarin6563 Год назад +1

    How do i get this book in Nigeria?

  • @FANNYclNADYN
    @FANNYclNADYN Год назад +3

    I don’t know - my wife said to me she feels more lonely since I have cut my texting basically to zero in order to outplay another guy she have tried to monkey brunch 3 year ago, I think I’ve slightly overdone it, my verdict - there is need for balance to be in place or she will think you have gotten too cold

    • @Anth_D
      @Anth_D Год назад +2

      The courtship never ends bro!

    • @mvsa9681
      @mvsa9681 Год назад

      why the fuck are you still married to a woman who tried to leave you for another man

    • @carpentryprince
      @carpentryprince 9 месяцев назад +1

      You'll have to reward her when she puts the effort in. Though it's weird you're still with the woman who was contemplating cheating on you.

    • @FANNYclNADYN
      @FANNYclNADYN 9 месяцев назад

      @@carpentryprince wouldn’t even bother to save our relationship if we didn’t have a child together, my son - is the only person who gave me strength to fight on, other wise it’s not really worth it

    • @Rob-nl5ge
      @Rob-nl5ge 8 месяцев назад

      Match and mirror. If you feel her behaviour changing for the worse, pull back

  • @escamoteur
    @escamoteur 3 месяца назад

    Does this also apply to Brazil?

  • @gaipontiff2
    @gaipontiff2 Год назад

    Remember, less is always more.

  • @15heartz
    @15heartz Год назад

    Only set dates through texting

  • @Vibethelife
    @Vibethelife 2 месяца назад

    My method
    1, get her off tinder video call straight away.
    2, don't set up any dates put her on edge at the end of the vid call just say. It was nice chatting I have a busy week.
    3, after day 5 of no contact with her just say it was nice chatting on vid call are you free ....to meet.
    You have to leave her in the dark so she doesn't know if you like her or not folks.

  • @SDRockman
    @SDRockman Год назад

    You can't sit there when you meet face to face and not say anything....

  • @robbie73vespa
    @robbie73vespa 4 месяца назад

    I let her know my interest playfully though text if she doesn't play ball I'm gone & i mean gone forever 😎 🦆 this he say's ...brilliant 😂

  • @andywatson8225
    @andywatson8225 Год назад

    💯

  • @qp4367
    @qp4367 7 месяцев назад

    Did you give in and take her back is what I would like to know? He's a G either way

  • @ingrained2train
    @ingrained2train Год назад +5

    Crazy how women respond when we’re indifferent
    I told my girlfriend last week that I dont need her
    And it turned her on like crazy

  • @nvn__
    @nvn__ 9 месяцев назад

    ¡🔥!

  • @JoseLopez-wf6bx
    @JoseLopez-wf6bx Год назад +1

    Hey Chris. Can you get a girl back after she found out that I cheated ? I messed up big time and I want her back

  • @Vnp99
    @Vnp99 Год назад +1

    My girlfriend, now ex...
    She once told me "dont pretend like you care"
    And it hurt me and i did cry cuz i did care abt her a lot...
    And recently i texted, sent some voice messages. Been 5days and she didnt reply.
    So i texted back and argued abt other things. Hoping that she comes back. Or atleast that she shud feel she lost me...
    What do i do?

    • @mazharhussain5824
      @mazharhussain5824 Год назад +4

      Exactly how Chris has said, apologise for your bitch behaviour, find your purpose and goal, work towards them if she care she will be a part of not then something better will come but your purpose and goals are important

    • @eppsislike
      @eppsislike Год назад +1

      You fucced up dawg. You're being needy and should've just walked away. Focus on loving yourself and heal, goddamnit.

    • @roshanyadav2078
      @roshanyadav2078 Год назад +3

      I have been through all this, just don't reply to her and do some other sports which you like, and be busy, don't go for her now, and try for another one, if she texts you after few weeks then just say that you are busy now and will talk later, but always reply her lately. Using this way chances are that she may come, but if you try any other things like apologies and other things 100% she will not come. Telling this from my experience

    • @afonsodeportugal
      @afonsodeportugal Год назад +14

      Here's the rule, man: you only send one text message. Maybe two at most, but only in very exceptional situations.
      If she doesn't reply, you don't send another message. You message another girl.
      Only reward those women who engage with you. Ignore all others. You should be disgusted by a woman who doesn't want you, not chase her.

    • @roshanyadav2078
      @roshanyadav2078 Год назад +1

      @@afonsodeportugal brother, i have one query, next week I will meet my ex in a function, she broke up with me, I was hurt very much she knows, how shall I behave in front of her or when she will try to talk to me in person alone?

  • @boubakobayse7929
    @boubakobayse7929 8 месяцев назад +1

    Goofy .there's no such thing as israel .there's only palestine

    • @DevelopAttraction
      @DevelopAttraction  8 месяцев назад +6

      It’s healthier if you don’t try to make an enemy of reality. No matter how much you disagree with reality.

    • @vfunkeraable
      @vfunkeraable 5 месяцев назад

      Free Palestine