Men put too much value into women. If they don’t want to be bothered leave them alone. If she likes you you’ll hear from her. If you don’t hear from her that’s fine too. Love yourself more than you can love anybody.
Completely agree. We as men need to let other men know that self-love is beyond all else important. You hear so many guys talk about girls, and center their lives on a girl and it's disgusting. Every one of those relationships will fail if the man does not love himself more. Cheers men.
This is okay in the beginning or for hook ups. The relationship will never go any further though. Women want to feel safe and connected and the reality is that it is done by texting these days. It's better to just mirror and not be too responsive and let her do most of the heavy lifting by text.
As they say, opposite attracts. Women are talkative, responsive and submissive by nature. That's why if you text a lot or reach out to her often by other means, it mirrors their dominant traits, and gives off feminine energy. Masculine men are supposed to be mysterious, less responsive, and busy with their daily hustle. Not busy chasing women.
This is especially tough when you meet a girl that you really like, and are really into, who is a 9 or 10 to you... Makes it hard NOT to respond and keep the texting going if she wants to text. Because you have fear of chasing her off if you're too non-responsive. If you're only doing this with a girl who's a 7 or 8, it's much easier to not respond.
Mystery is so important, it seems there’s always a unseen battle when dealing with women and that’s the interesting part and it keeps you on your toes even when things are good you have to think ahead
I call a girl before the first date (ams advice). It definitely works! Gotta it keep the phone call light on topics, quick 10-15min & you have to be the one to get off the phone! She needs to talk to you on the phone first, it’s a great indicator if the date will go well or not. After the first date use texting only to set up dates. YOU NEED TO STAND OUT FROM ALL THE OTHER MEN WHO ARE TO SCARED TO CALL!
Broads need to know that you have a life outside of them. When you're readily available, it shows that you have nothing better to do but be talking to her all day. Plus, you will eventually have nothing to talk about. The conversation is gonna drag on painfully and slowly and next thing you know you achieved next level simp status and you're texting her, "What are we" lol
Just stay single dont bother not worth the hassle. Im 30 and no interest in women anymore. When i was teenager and early twenties I was but the desire has gone.
All you have to do is mirror and don't text back straight away. Its that simple. You cant just set dates and ignore a girl anymore. It isnt 1957 anymore and they don't like it.
She would text me throughout the day & send memes through IG. She would get upset that I didn’t respond for hours. I’m working woman! She would get upset that I never text her first or text asking her about her day. She broke up & said I never tried & never cared! wtf???!!! 😳 😡
@@ryanp7918 she is emotionally unhealthy because she wants her partner to at least ask her how her day was? Bro c'mon... you gonna be single for life lol
If a lady likes you she will never be bothered by how much you text her .. If she doesn't like you,she will never even bother herself talking to you It's either she likes you or she doesn't;it ends there
You've never been in a relationship. If you were, you would've known that it doesn't matter how much she likes, frequent texting kills attraction. You're subconsciously conveying to her that you have no life and that makes her dryer than Sahara desert my friend.
@@eppsislike lol I've been in a 4years relationship before and I understand what I'm talking about . You re basically talking about things that happen at the beginning of a relationship,that's where it applies but with time she doesn't really care .. how many times you text her or how long you talk to her in a phone call
I bag every single women when I call them lol. Calling them is my goal. After we get on a call, they know what and who to expect adn they just get comfier.
We had been chatting ever since 2022 and yesterday I was told that she doesn't want to be selfish but would like to let me free. That hurt so much,as I'm deeply inlove with her😢. Buy I will be okay.
if you text a girl too much she is not going to reply to your texts or she might even leave you unread and she will start cancelling dates she will say things like im really tired or i don't really feel like meeting up. if you text your girlfriend too much she will dump you she will say something like im not ready for a relationship or i need some space. really it happens don't text a girl you like too much
I don’t know - my wife said to me she feels more lonely since I have cut my texting basically to zero in order to outplay another guy she have tried to monkey brunch 3 year ago, I think I’ve slightly overdone it, my verdict - there is need for balance to be in place or she will think you have gotten too cold
@@carpentryprince wouldn’t even bother to save our relationship if we didn’t have a child together, my son - is the only person who gave me strength to fight on, other wise it’s not really worth it
My method 1, get her off tinder video call straight away. 2, don't set up any dates put her on edge at the end of the vid call just say. It was nice chatting I have a busy week. 3, after day 5 of no contact with her just say it was nice chatting on vid call are you free ....to meet. You have to leave her in the dark so she doesn't know if you like her or not folks.
My girlfriend, now ex... She once told me "dont pretend like you care" And it hurt me and i did cry cuz i did care abt her a lot... And recently i texted, sent some voice messages. Been 5days and she didnt reply. So i texted back and argued abt other things. Hoping that she comes back. Or atleast that she shud feel she lost me... What do i do?
Exactly how Chris has said, apologise for your bitch behaviour, find your purpose and goal, work towards them if she care she will be a part of not then something better will come but your purpose and goals are important
I have been through all this, just don't reply to her and do some other sports which you like, and be busy, don't go for her now, and try for another one, if she texts you after few weeks then just say that you are busy now and will talk later, but always reply her lately. Using this way chances are that she may come, but if you try any other things like apologies and other things 100% she will not come. Telling this from my experience
Here's the rule, man: you only send one text message. Maybe two at most, but only in very exceptional situations. If she doesn't reply, you don't send another message. You message another girl. Only reward those women who engage with you. Ignore all others. You should be disgusted by a woman who doesn't want you, not chase her.
@@afonsodeportugal brother, i have one query, next week I will meet my ex in a function, she broke up with me, I was hurt very much she knows, how shall I behave in front of her or when she will try to talk to me in person alone?
Men put too much value into women. If they don’t want to be bothered leave them alone. If she likes you you’ll hear from her. If you don’t hear from her that’s fine too. Love yourself more than you can love anybody.
Indeed bro.
Completely agree. We as men need to let other men know that self-love is beyond all else important.
You hear so many guys talk about girls, and center their lives on a girl and it's disgusting. Every one of those relationships will fail if the man does not love himself more.
Cheers men.
Factos
Amen to that.
Fax
I texted many women out of attraction as a teen. Now texting for me is strictly setting dates
we all did!! live and learn bro!!
Attraction grows in space
Less is more
When you want them, they will not want you. When you don't want them, then they'll want you.
It's sad isn't it
Rejection breeds obsession
I only use texting when I want to set dates. Keep conversations brief and get to the point
@@JoeCool-u6u Thank you generic user
This is okay in the beginning or for hook ups. The relationship will never go any further though. Women want to feel safe and connected and the reality is that it is done by texting these days. It's better to just mirror and not be too responsive and let her do most of the heavy lifting by text.
This only works in the beginning
Only works in the beginning. You have to stay in contact to build the relationship
As they say, opposite attracts. Women are talkative, responsive and submissive by nature. That's why if you text a lot or reach out to her often by other means, it mirrors their dominant traits, and gives off feminine energy. Masculine men are supposed to be mysterious, less responsive, and busy with their daily hustle. Not busy chasing women.
This is especially tough when you meet a girl that you really like, and are really into, who is a 9 or 10 to you... Makes it hard NOT to respond and keep the texting going if she wants to text. Because you have fear of chasing her off if you're too non-responsive. If you're only doing this with a girl who's a 7 or 8, it's much easier to not respond.
My ex was a 10… my phone was hot from over use🙃
Mystery is so important, it seems there’s always a unseen battle when dealing with women and that’s the interesting part and it keeps you on your toes even when things are good you have to think ahead
I call a girl before the first date (ams advice). It definitely works! Gotta it keep the phone call light on topics, quick 10-15min & you have to be the one to get off the phone!
She needs to talk to you on the phone first, it’s a great indicator if the date will go well or not.
After the first date use texting only to set up dates. YOU NEED TO STAND OUT FROM ALL THE OTHER MEN WHO ARE TO SCARED TO CALL!
Been listening to him for years and I swear we all need to hear this from time to time. Love your work
This guy helps us men so much, many thanks from Puerto Rico. 🙏🏼
I learned this hard lesson years ago.
Broads need to know that you have a life outside of them. When you're readily available, it shows that you have nothing better to do but be talking to her all day. Plus, you will eventually have nothing to talk about. The conversation is gonna drag on painfully and slowly and next thing you know you achieved next level simp status and you're texting her, "What are we" lol
Just stay single dont bother not worth the hassle. Im 30 and no interest in women anymore. When i was teenager and early twenties I was but the desire has gone.
Chris keep up the great work
All you have to do is mirror and don't text back straight away. Its that simple. You cant just set dates and ignore a girl anymore. It isnt 1957 anymore and they don't like it.
She would text me throughout the day & send memes through IG. She would get upset that I didn’t respond for hours. I’m working woman! She would get upset that I never text her first or text asking her about her day. She broke up & said I never tried & never cared! wtf???!!! 😳 😡
She’s insecure, red flag. Next!
80/20 rule. You can't be distant all the time. You overdosed on red pill lol
@@AR-xl6ym He said he's working...
Super insecure. An emotionally healthy woman would never do this.
@@ryanp7918 she is emotionally unhealthy because she wants her partner to at least ask her how her day was? Bro c'mon... you gonna be single for life lol
Thanks Chris 😊
Not sure about this one Chris! Surprising girls and throwing them off what is the norm can come through a phone call.
If a lady likes you she will never be bothered by how much you text her ..
If she doesn't like you,she will never even bother herself talking to you
It's either she likes you or she doesn't;it ends there
You've never been in a relationship. If you were, you would've known that it doesn't matter how much she likes, frequent texting kills attraction. You're subconsciously conveying to her that you have no life and that makes her dryer than Sahara desert my friend.
@@eppsislike lol I've been in a 4years relationship before and I understand what I'm talking about .
You re basically talking about things that happen at the beginning of a relationship,that's where it applies but with time she doesn't really care .. how many times you text her or how long you talk to her in a phone call
I bag every single women when I call them lol. Calling them is my goal. After we get on a call, they know what and who to expect adn they just get comfier.
Thank you
Chris is THE MAN!!!!!!
We had been chatting ever since 2022 and yesterday I was told that she doesn't want to be selfish but would like to let me free. That hurt so much,as I'm deeply inlove with her😢. Buy I will be okay.
Text ONCE. Call ONCE.
Facts 🔥🔥🔥
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you mentioned a country never exist
Literally. Is not real
if you text a girl too much she is not going to reply to your texts or she might even leave you unread and she will start cancelling dates she will say things like im really tired or i don't really feel like meeting up. if you text your girlfriend too much she will dump you she will say something like im not ready for a relationship or i need some space. really it happens don't text a girl you like too much
How do i get this book in Nigeria?
I don’t know - my wife said to me she feels more lonely since I have cut my texting basically to zero in order to outplay another guy she have tried to monkey brunch 3 year ago, I think I’ve slightly overdone it, my verdict - there is need for balance to be in place or she will think you have gotten too cold
The courtship never ends bro!
why the fuck are you still married to a woman who tried to leave you for another man
You'll have to reward her when she puts the effort in. Though it's weird you're still with the woman who was contemplating cheating on you.
@@carpentryprince wouldn’t even bother to save our relationship if we didn’t have a child together, my son - is the only person who gave me strength to fight on, other wise it’s not really worth it
Match and mirror. If you feel her behaviour changing for the worse, pull back
Does this also apply to Brazil?
Yes it’s human nature
Remember, less is always more.
Only set dates through texting
My method
1, get her off tinder video call straight away.
2, don't set up any dates put her on edge at the end of the vid call just say. It was nice chatting I have a busy week.
3, after day 5 of no contact with her just say it was nice chatting on vid call are you free ....to meet.
You have to leave her in the dark so she doesn't know if you like her or not folks.
You can't sit there when you meet face to face and not say anything....
I let her know my interest playfully though text if she doesn't play ball I'm gone & i mean gone forever 😎 🦆 this he say's ...brilliant 😂
💯
Did you give in and take her back is what I would like to know? He's a G either way
Crazy how women respond when we’re indifferent
I told my girlfriend last week that I dont need her
And it turned her on like crazy
¡🔥!
Hey Chris. Can you get a girl back after she found out that I cheated ? I messed up big time and I want her back
My girlfriend, now ex...
She once told me "dont pretend like you care"
And it hurt me and i did cry cuz i did care abt her a lot...
And recently i texted, sent some voice messages. Been 5days and she didnt reply.
So i texted back and argued abt other things. Hoping that she comes back. Or atleast that she shud feel she lost me...
What do i do?
Exactly how Chris has said, apologise for your bitch behaviour, find your purpose and goal, work towards them if she care she will be a part of not then something better will come but your purpose and goals are important
You fucced up dawg. You're being needy and should've just walked away. Focus on loving yourself and heal, goddamnit.
I have been through all this, just don't reply to her and do some other sports which you like, and be busy, don't go for her now, and try for another one, if she texts you after few weeks then just say that you are busy now and will talk later, but always reply her lately. Using this way chances are that she may come, but if you try any other things like apologies and other things 100% she will not come. Telling this from my experience
Here's the rule, man: you only send one text message. Maybe two at most, but only in very exceptional situations.
If she doesn't reply, you don't send another message. You message another girl.
Only reward those women who engage with you. Ignore all others. You should be disgusted by a woman who doesn't want you, not chase her.
@@afonsodeportugal brother, i have one query, next week I will meet my ex in a function, she broke up with me, I was hurt very much she knows, how shall I behave in front of her or when she will try to talk to me in person alone?
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