Sadly have to join this way of thinking as well as of recently. That is insanely fucked up. Seems like the best way to go about it is just have 0 feelings... act unavalable, try to have sex when you meet if not whatever if yes great - go next. Im done hearing about how there are no good guys left.. yeah no shit men are learning to not give a fuck about you thats why.
hot/cold behavior from a broad will definitely throw you off. This is where you need to be strong because then your going to end up chasing her and become inadvertently clingy. If someone likes you it shouldn't be so difficult.
I had this happen to me recently . It’s about keeping your composure and being strong fellas . Be INDIFFERENT & do not react . Be in control of the situation .
I applied everything and this sometimes happens. Its normal not many dating coaches are brave enough to admit some women will be impossible to get. You need to be able to move on, there will be better out there. Great advice!
If she doesn't make it easy for you, is a sign disrespect, be quick to get rid if her, as soon as she see's you don't tolerate disrespect she will come clean and prove herself to you
I met this woman a week ago at a wedding , she was vibing, showed interest ( mind you she was the one who initiated ) - then two days later , did a complete 180 out of nowhere and completely ghosted ( even unfollowed me on ig ) . What did I do ? walk away . I Csme to realize Nothing really you can do .Canwell is right . Walk away and do not pursue . Otherwise chasing will get you nowhere plus you’ll look like an imbecile . Moving forward , take it as a lesson that These kind people are out there fellas . Don’t keep your hearts on the sleeves and VET THOSE PEOPLE before you put eggs in your basket ! You’re going to be fine.
There's a line from Star Trek TNG that really sums it up. Picard is giving Data some wisdom after Data lost confidence in his abilities. "It is possible to commit no mistakes and still lose"
Great vid Chris. I had a mentally unstable girlfriend too. Chris helped me with understanding my difficult ex girlfriend who was just crazy, we evaluated what went wrong in the relationship, and how I should respond to her insane behavior. She was just a crazy women, very anxious, needy, and sometimes agressive, just very chaotic. blocking, unblocking 30 times, sometimes calling 10 times a day, creating a fake account with bought followers to stalk me etc. I haven’t had this kind of stuff with women before, and I have quite much experience. I was confused, and I started accepting her psycho behavior, my fault, and then she thought she could get away with it. After we evaluated the situation I started to respond different to her crazy behavior, and it went better and she became obsessive with me again. Greetings Juliën
Some girls just are in hookup culture and are emotionally unavailable. Do yourself a favor and don't chase or double text or embarrass yourself and lose respect, it's not worth it. Just accept it and move on. You don't need to embarrass yourself or your self respect
I think the deal is to find your own happiness as a man and don't let it be dependent on some thing you cannot control like a woman or other stuffs. Let it be dependent soley on yourself. With this, you are not moved an inch emotionally about how some woman treats you. Just put in the hard work on building yourself for yourself and your purpose. And let women just be an icing on the cake. It can be there or not! The cake which is yourself still remains unmoved!
Hopefully, you're just a very good match for her, but "too easy" can be the needy/clingy or even narcissistic personality disorder girl. Just keep your eyes open and guard your heart.
@@wolfman231 that's my problem. Too many online dating coaches talk about how you should go for a woman who makes it easy but any man with experience knows that too easy can be a turn off.
Personality disorders are very common. I heard much more than 30 %, the only question being which one it is and how strong it is. A personality disorder is less severe than a mental illness. It's just a twist in the way of relating to others, but can cause quite some havoc, too. Someone with a mental illness is partly disconnected with reality, whereas a personality disorder are still fully connected.
The main mistake that men do in the redpill community is to think that all the information, all the stuff, everithing about dating are LAWS. Guys human behaviour is not 100 percent predictable, is complex, all this information it must be used as a foundation, like a guide but you always remember, even though you do everything "right" there are always lots of wxceptions. Thanks Chris.
if a women truly desires and loves you, she will move mountains for the rs to happen my gf learning turkish just for us, i never said to her she should learn my native language, but a simple: jeah you wouldn't be able to communicate with my grandma/dad was enough for her to decide thats she gonna learn a new language.... imagine that, a year past since, and she is fluent in turkish
Hey Chris, I met this girl three weeks ago. She seemed to be very interested right from the start. She paid attention to me when I was talking, accepted me touching her and even initiated touching herself. We went on a date, had a really great time and at the end of the date we kissed. When I sent her a message two days later to set up another date, she left me on read, and has not responded for a week. Wtf dude these bitches are crazy. Stay stay strong brothers. Thank you Chris for all the excellent advice.
I just had this happen. No evidence of lost attraction leading up to it. I would see her just once every week or two on average for about 6 months, did not commit, we had sex every time we met up, she was always wanting more, I also only came over to see her when she reached out and only texted when texted first and kept the conversation short and was usually too busy to respond quickly anyway. She was 100% feminine and submissive to me every time we met. No passive aggressive behavior and always initiated physical contact. Then sudden radio silence after my birthday. I heard through a mutual friend that she's upset I haven't contacted her in the 6 weeks since she started this. I'm not going to either.
Hi Chris when your girlfriend is breaking up with you and she ask to have a discussion about it will you hv to do it immediately or just doing the no contact rule? Thanks
This video level was slightly higher than previous videos. Perfect Chris 🙌 - still I am questioning that can we change this broken, unloyal women/girl into a loyal, good trustworthy girl; it will not gonna be impossible can we guys?
Low interest isn't very enthusiastic from the start. (Interest doesn't usually fall if you're doing everything right and passing her tests.) Difficult often swings from low interest to high and back to low, over and over. Then there is structured, which has rules which can be the opposite of how she feels about you.
Pay attentions to these things: 1. What she is doing in her free time? 2. What is she spending most of her money for? 3. Who are her friends? These will summed up who she is.
Visited a woman far away and we agreed im coming as just a friend (i said so) when i was there she came on to me hard, we had sex the third day (i think) and all the way until the rest of the week. Felt like she is completely in love with me. When i left i think i saw tears in her eyes aswell. The next weekened was amazing lots of phone sex and sexy flirting messaging. On Monday we tell each other how we feel. I told her i have started growing feeling for her. Since then, absolutely no time for mel, its like a swtich flipped. She said she is sick, but she has time to hang out with friends. Doesnt have energy to watch series with me (we did that all the time before). Never tell a woman how you feel, ever. Even if it seems like a done deal and she also shares the same feelings to you. Thinking about going no contact, needless to say i very rarely texted first (only if i really needed to ask something) she chased since starting as friends. Thats how fucked up this is.
So the question is when she pulls back is this a test or she has another dude in background? Because in every pull back video he says its a test but in this one she has another dude
It mainly comes down to the girl. You have to listen carefully what she says and she will sometimes hint her true nature. If you sit back and just listen she’ll give away clues as to who she really is. Women will test always but no woman that actually cares is gonna test you so much to stress you out or slash hang out with a bunch guys if she values you.
The point is all of that dating advice is the best way to get women, therefore if the best way still can't get the woman you want then it is what it is. learn how to respect yourself
Prolly first the time, Chris went soft on men. Admitted things not always Our Fault. Women are, not just 30%, they grossly wrong way more then we men tend to 😅
If you are sensing attraction, you've been on a date, it went great, even got a kiss.. and then she gets flaky on you.. . guarantied theres another dude on the scene. Delete her number.. move on.
God is not a man named Jesus Christ who was a 5'2” Jew that was killed because of the Romans. God is higher than any pathetic human man. Men are absolutely nothing compared to the Lord of All
Women are ruined today, too many boyfriends, too many options. Past traumas, etc. Just enjoy your turn without falling in love
Don’t waste your time!
The juice isn't worth the squeeze
Sadly have to join this way of thinking as well as of recently. That is insanely fucked up. Seems like the best way to go about it is just have 0 feelings... act unavalable, try to have sex when you meet if not whatever if yes great - go next.
Im done hearing about how there are no good guys left.. yeah no shit men are learning to not give a fuck about you thats why.
Thing is they don’t care about how much you like them they only care about how they feel about you
That's every human even as a guy I at the end care about how I feel towards a girl
hot/cold behavior from a broad will definitely throw you off. This is where you need to be strong because then your going to end up chasing her and become inadvertently clingy. If someone likes you it shouldn't be so difficult.
Be the one who is hot and cold.
I had this happen to me recently . It’s about keeping your composure and being strong fellas . Be INDIFFERENT & do not react .
Be in control of the situation .
I applied everything and this sometimes happens. Its normal not many dating coaches are brave enough to admit some women will be impossible to get. You need to be able to move on, there will be better out there. Great advice!
If she doesn't make it easy for you, is a sign disrespect, be quick to get rid if her, as soon as she see's you don't tolerate disrespect she will come clean and prove herself to you
That’s why you throw them back and keep on fishing 🎣
Yes, i agree, but i decided to give one a chance and at the moment she's come correct and being extra careful with her attitude
Not always, she may be testing you to see your strengths and capabilities.
@@oscargonza2748
I'm glad it worked.
Good luck. I hope it last. 👍🏼
You're right, Chris. The problem these days is there are substantially more "headache" women out there than "peace of mind" ladies.
I met this woman a week ago at a wedding , she was vibing, showed interest ( mind you she was the one who initiated ) - then two days later , did a complete 180 out of nowhere and completely ghosted ( even unfollowed me on ig ) . What did I do ? walk away . I Csme to realize Nothing really you can do .Canwell is right . Walk away and do not pursue . Otherwise chasing will get you nowhere plus you’ll look like an imbecile . Moving forward , take it as a lesson that These kind people are out there fellas . Don’t keep your hearts on the sleeves and VET THOSE PEOPLE before you put eggs in your basket !
You’re going to be fine.
That’s why the Easter 🐣 bunny 🐰 paints his eggs 🥚 blue preparing his sea 🌊 men for the long journey ahead!
Similar happened to me and many other guys. This is why you can't take them seriously.
It happened to me too unfortunately
There's a line from Star Trek TNG that really sums it up. Picard is giving Data some wisdom after Data lost confidence in his abilities.
"It is possible to commit no mistakes and still lose"
Never take a woman more seriously than she takes herself
here in Ukraine, we stop fighting & listen to your advice. Thank you Cris💯💯
When you got your shit together women are so easy to replace
Facts I’m gonna write this on my wall.
Everything is true in this video.
This point isn’t brought up enough. Cheers for your video
Exactly. She still left bc she’s frustrated & wanted me to chase. Wtf.
When she plays "hard to get" she should immediately become *HARD TO WANT!*
Why want something that’s used , those meat 🍖 curtains are over used and overpriced!
Great vid Chris. I had a mentally unstable girlfriend too. Chris helped me with understanding my difficult ex girlfriend who was just crazy, we evaluated what went wrong in the relationship, and how I should respond to her insane behavior. She was just a crazy women, very anxious, needy, and sometimes agressive, just very chaotic. blocking, unblocking 30 times, sometimes calling 10 times a day, creating a fake account with bought followers to stalk me etc. I haven’t had this kind of stuff with women before, and I have quite much experience. I was confused, and I started accepting her psycho behavior, my fault, and then she thought she could get away with it. After we evaluated the situation I started to respond different to her crazy behavior, and it went better and she became obsessive with me again. Greetings Juliën
wtf
Don’t fool yourself - best advice ever.
I can’t do this shit anymore bruh 😪
That’s why you build your empire!
Thanks for this Chris it’s one of the more unique videos that you’ve done
I have lived this & You are 100% on Point!
Some girls just are in hookup culture and are emotionally unavailable. Do yourself a favor and don't chase or double text or embarrass yourself and lose respect, it's not worth it. Just accept it and move on. You don't need to embarrass yourself or your self respect
yup she had a boyfriend and didn’t tell me 😂
Most do.
In one way or another, most do.
They have plenty of options, so it's not shocking, bruh
Very wise. Thank you.
I think the deal is to find your own happiness as a man and don't let it be dependent on some thing you cannot control like a woman or other stuffs. Let it be dependent soley on yourself. With this, you are not moved an inch emotionally about how some woman treats you. Just put in the hard work on building yourself for yourself and your purpose. And let women just be an icing on the cake. It can be there or not! The cake which is yourself still remains unmoved!
Very true indeed, never become emotionally attached to no one, women particularly
Great job bro
Women are NEVER single.
True, your content really work brother. 👌👌👌👌🔥
What if things are too easy? Women that are too into me too fast scare me away.
Hopefully, you're just a very good match for her, but "too easy" can be the needy/clingy or even narcissistic personality disorder girl. Just keep your eyes open and guard your heart.
@@wolfman231 that's my problem. Too many online dating coaches talk about how you should go for a woman who makes it easy but any man with experience knows that too easy can be a turn off.
Personality disorders are very common. I heard much more than 30 %, the only question being which one it is and how strong it is. A personality disorder is less severe than a mental illness. It's just a twist in the way of relating to others, but can cause quite some havoc, too. Someone with a mental illness is partly disconnected with reality, whereas a personality disorder are still fully connected.
If anybody is going to be that difficult, don't even entertain wasting time with them. Having to play these mental gymnastics
The main mistake that men do in the redpill community is to think that all the information, all the stuff, everithing about dating are LAWS. Guys human behaviour is not 100 percent predictable, is complex, all this information it must be used as a foundation, like a guide but you always remember, even though you do everything "right" there are always lots of wxceptions. Thanks Chris.
Great video, pull upp, keep dem coming Chris 🔥🔥🔥
if a women truly desires and loves you, she will move mountains for the rs to happen
my gf learning turkish just for us, i never said to her she should learn my native language, but a simple: jeah you wouldn't be able to communicate with my grandma/dad was enough for her to decide thats she gonna learn a new language....
imagine that, a year past since, and she is fluent in turkish
Yes it's fun, learn things, walk away.
Hey Chris, I met this girl three weeks ago. She seemed to be very interested right from the start.
She paid attention to me when I was talking, accepted me touching her and even initiated touching herself.
We went on a date, had a really great time and at the end of the date we kissed.
When I sent her a message two days later to set up another date, she left me on read, and has not responded for a week.
Wtf dude these bitches are crazy. Stay stay strong brothers. Thank you Chris for all the excellent advice.
I just had this happen. No evidence of lost attraction leading up to it. I would see her just once every week or two on average for about 6 months, did not commit, we had sex every time we met up, she was always wanting more, I also only came over to see her when she reached out and only texted when texted first and kept the conversation short and was usually too busy to respond quickly anyway. She was 100% feminine and submissive to me every time we met. No passive aggressive behavior and always initiated physical contact. Then sudden radio silence after my birthday. I heard through a mutual friend that she's upset I haven't contacted her in the 6 weeks since she started this. I'm not going to either.
All women have broken wires. Don’t fix it , it doesn’t want to be fixed!
She asked for commitment told me she “loved” me then pulled away and wouldn’t talk to me!
It happened it does not work, she is dating someone better
Someone better? Don’t think like that. There is no one better than you.
@@XavierY828 I know, that's what she said I believed her
@@cabelen2004doesn't make it true. It's just to make you feel bad.
It was just your time in the queue.
So much work and so many things outside of your control . Is the juice worth the squeeze??
Short answer - no
Hi Chris
when your girlfriend is breaking up with you and she ask to have a discussion about it will you hv to do it immediately or just doing the no contact rule?
Thanks
💯!
This video level was slightly higher than previous videos. Perfect Chris 🙌 - still I am questioning that can we change this broken, unloyal women/girl into a loyal, good trustworthy girl; it will not gonna be impossible can we guys?
Are they really difficult women ? Or is it women that have low interest?
Low interest isn't very enthusiastic from the start. (Interest doesn't usually fall if you're doing everything right and passing her tests.)
Difficult often swings from low interest to high and back to low, over and over. Then there is structured, which has rules which can be the opposite of how she feels about you.
@@wolfman231 a lady with low interest can still give you their number,just so that they can use you for your attention
Good. First comment from my side.
Pay attentions to these things:
1. What she is doing in her free time?
2. What is she spending most of her money for?
3. Who are her friends?
These will summed up who she is.
Visited a woman far away and we agreed im coming as just a friend (i said so) when i was there she came on to me hard, we had sex the third day (i think) and all the way until the rest of the week. Felt like she is completely in love with me. When i left i think i saw tears in her eyes aswell. The next weekened was amazing lots of phone sex and sexy flirting messaging. On Monday we tell each other how we feel. I told her i have started growing feeling for her. Since then, absolutely no time for mel, its like a swtich flipped. She said she is sick, but she has time to hang out with friends. Doesnt have energy to watch series with me (we did that all the time before).
Never tell a woman how you feel, ever. Even if it seems like a done deal and she also shares the same feelings to you. Thinking about going no contact, needless to say i very rarely texted first (only if i really needed to ask something) she chased since starting as friends.
Thats how fucked up this is.
You met a dismissive avoidant!
So the question is when she pulls back is this a test or she has another dude in background?
Because in every pull back video he says its a test but in this one she has another dude
It mainly comes down to the girl. You have to listen carefully what she says and she will sometimes hint her true nature. If you sit back and just listen she’ll give away clues as to who she really is. Women will test always but no woman that actually cares is gonna test you so much to stress you out or slash hang out with a bunch guys if she values you.
The point is all of that dating advice is the best way to get women, therefore if the best way still can't get the woman you want then it is what it is. learn how to respect yourself
Hey Chris what should I do because I have not meet my girlfriend parents yet
Maybe you should meet her other boyfriends first.
@TruthTV8556 2 almost 3 months
@@bogan-slayer7469💀💀
This is fucking true
Good.
Prolly first the time, Chris went soft on men. Admitted things not always Our Fault. Women are, not just 30%, they grossly wrong way more then we men tend to 😅
💯
Something ain’t working in her brain lol
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I am too picky, I don't need any woman...
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
answer is simple there are more guys like you in the picture ;)
If you are sensing attraction, you've been on a date, it went great, even got a kiss.. and then she gets flaky on you.. . guarantied theres another dude on the scene. Delete her number.. move on.
Mo
Put God 1st. Worship the Lord Most High God, Jesus Christ, and stop idolizing women. 🔥
God is not a man named Jesus Christ who was a 5'2” Jew that was killed because of the Romans. God is higher than any pathetic human man. Men are absolutely nothing compared to the Lord of All
Amen, Jesus deserves all worshp and all the glory not flawed imperfect women
Translation: “biches be crazy!”
Chris not only I bought your book, I also bought the audio book!!!!
Is it working for you?