Keep Laughing The *Pain* is really not that much different from going to the gym and tearing yourself up a bit. You went to the gym of your own accord. Don’t be surprised if you felt some pain in a deliberate effort to get *Stronger.*
Just putting this out there. This man is definitely right. Coming from someone who went from confident and relaxed in the interaction (generally speaking) to anxious about what she is thinking at all times (me and my gf have been together for 1.5 years now ) - not of me necessarily, rather whether something upsets her, something is wrong or whatever. Regardless, giving her so much attention screams "neediness", and I can see how this has affected our relationship, the intimacy between us had to suffer a lot. Girls really don't want you to be in touch with their emotions all day long or "be genuinely interested in what they are doing". Sure you might ask a few things here and there, it gives them the chance to talk about themselves and brag to you in order to get your attention, helps you to bond with each other, but it is nothing you should be doing too frequently. In the end, if you really want to provide for her in terms of your relationship, you need to be working on your goals and whatever makes you a man. You can't fill anybody's tea cup as long your pot is empty. So make sure to make a damned good tea first.
The one that cares the least controls the relationship. She must always chase and choose you! Men are programmed to be the pursuers, this is why most relationships fail because we’ve been tricked to please women when we should be focusing on ourselves. Think about celebrities, they are focused on pursuing their passion. Women flock to them. Always focus on SELF improvement. It will drive you crazy when you only think of her. You must always remain unattached. They believe that’s masculine behavior. You realize the girls that loved you the most you didn’t care about em. The ones you chased didn’t want you at all. That’s because women want to know if you value yourself more than them. They can EASILY get other guys that are gonna cater to their needs, but you must be Godlike. It’s harsh but that’s what women respect
I have made all the mistakes you talk about. You're 100% right in every single thing you say. Thanks Chris for helping me to be aware of my insecure behavior
Same here dude, this channel has helped me realized I've been doing this whole dating thing wrong. My gf recently pulled away and I'm guilty of everything that Chris described. Wish I had discovered this channel way sooner!
This video came too late for my ex but on the right time for my actual beginning of new gf. I think the best is TO NOT CARE about relationship. When you DO CARE is like you give all power to the other side...
Ana, just to check do you mean the words and idea that he is speaking about is the sickness? Or more agreeing with his idea on the anxiety in a relationship?
I just suffer in silence. I messed up 2 relationships with my anxiety and needy behavior. Girl I'm dating now I'm starting to get those old insecure feelings back but the good thing is I don't show her. I just play it cool like nothing bothers me all though deep down inside, it's killing me.
I used to be like that, and you can't hide it forever my dude. She already smells it and if she's a good looking gal, she will already have her backup options ready. To them, we are always replaceable, but once you learn to see them in the same way, you will no longer suffer from the same type of relationship anxiety. It is your worrying that will turn her off you, so the sooner you can let go of your attachment to her the better. If you adopt the attitude that nothing she does matters that much, because you can always find another girl, then she will not leave you.
Make sure first that it’s a girl who’s worth to be in your life, let alone feel anxious about, be careful with who you share energy with, you are the prize not her
Every bits of what he says is true no wasted time on the videos always direct to the point. Best relationship coach I’ve ever encountered! More power Chris!
The Lord used you, brother. Just what I needed to hear. Keep your great and straight forward content coming! Don't stop! Your channel will grow fast if you do so. Thank you.
Thank you for the advice. But sometimes I feel like I cant hold my insecurity down. Like when I meet up with her again I just start to feel weak and insecure. I try to deal with it behind closed doors. But when I see her again, she can tell there's something off with me. She doesn't really feel that Im insecure, but I do come off as numb with a lack of emotion and she can feel it. I give off this vibe because in my head Im still fighting off insecurity. Im looking for ways to deal with this.
I have Major Depression. Whenever I fell into insecurity, she realized that it was the illness, not my basic personality. It acts like a pass since it's not your fault.
Yesterday I was with a girl I am dating for 2 and a half months now. I was nervous a bit and she noticed it. I calmed down after some time, but still... Called her today and she did not answer. I have this urge to text/call her again, but I will not. Hopefully it is nothing serious. I mean, this never happened before so I am worried. Damn it, I hate when I feel this way and I hate when I feel anxious. I feel like weakling and it really angers me...
You are the man! Ur videos r super helpful! Its sad to see so many guys out there struggling with their insecurities and anxiety about the relationship and think talking to the girl about it is the way to go.. Keep it up 💪
If ur trying to get with someone and ur insecure here’s my advice. Let them know ur insecure, people are people and if they’re decent enough human beings they’ll understand. Not everyone is acts on their primal instincts. If u talk openly and honestly and confidently about your insecurities, than ur significant other will probably understand and if they don’t, fuck them. You don’t need someone like that in ur life anyway. Let me empathize something, women are not the dumb primal animals you can just manipulate that most of these gurus and coaches will have you believe. Everyone is their own person and they’ll do whatever they’d like. Focus on urself most of all and never lose sight of what truly matters to you.
well said! i appreciate this coaching for males...however I too, thought, well where is the anxious mans mate? a woman who will NOT shame or condemn a man for developing his emotions for her/with her. talk with her about YOU! and how/what you feel! bond with your partner! love! live!
Hands down this dude will be recognized as a goat.. this dude has literally saved my life..listening to his work and job I can relate to it.. *minslegend* keep it up and thank you for your talent... 💯.
Thank you for the content. What I'm curious about is how anxiety, insecurities and neediness manifest themselves in even the strongest men. I was recently blindsided by my neediness. Even after all these years of self-improvement. Is it a primitive and Primal instinct in men or societies brainwashing? Thank you
Almost every man will experience anxiousness or neediness at some point in a relationship. If youre talking about being told that it isn't okay or natural to have these feelings sometimes (especially due to how some men are brought up) then its societal brainwashing
Men are natural sacrificial creatures... women naturally think about themselves... at least until their maternal instinct kicks in or their looks began to fade away
My confidence is always scraping the floor when I hear my gf talking about any guys she's ever found attractive. I know she loves me and it's totally fine but I cant help but think that I'm not as muscular or as good looking or as alpha as these other guys she talks about. I do push ups until I cant think anymore but my god the more unconfident I realize I am behind all my exterior, the less of a man i feel.
@@hyzcagulada3559 it's still going, we have bumps and hurdles to overcome just like anybody else, but I'm not one to easily give up and neither is she.
Hey I wanna be a secure man, but I don’t wanna do it to get girls or to keep girls. I want to do it for myself, but any time I’m doing something to better myself, there’s a voice in my head and a feeling in my gut that’s saying I’m just doing what I’m doing to improve for girls. That’s a bit of a shallow motive and I want to feel like I’m doing what I’m doing for myself.
*Honestly, just owning it and not trying to hide it is partially why I watch you. It's the honorable thing to do and it make the rest of the jobs much more believe when you are call out of the spots like that, so thank you minslegend*
I was always alpha and never insecure and it worked for a long time - but then my wife in mid life crisis felt like I didmt love her and she fell for affair at work- shensaid she didn’t think I really Loved her.. So looking back I had to be more careful and re assure Her. It’s so sad.
This is not 100% sure. My partner dealing with anxiety and he just told me now after 3 months of relationship and I didn’t run away of him. I’m here with him to support to get through this mental issue cos I like him so much and I want him to be better and I’m sure he will get well.
@@anamihaelaflorescu9895 Thanks for answer. I have the same problem, I am not so much clingy and needy to blow up the phone every day, but still I have my problems with anxious attachment style. My GF left me 2 days ago after only 4 months. Have to work on myself. Good luck.
? Then, my follow up question is: What happens 2 years+ into the relationship and you've lost your job or some other setback, can you then trust that same woman to be there for you during a few weeks/months of vulnerability? From your videos and the lessons you are conveying, it seems like women are more like short term propositions instead of long term investments.
5:04 .. with the rise on mental illness awareness.. what is wrong with communication within a relationship. Open ended question Im curious on peoples thoughts, both male and female if possible!
I personally believe that if you are in a long term relationship you should be able to talk about your insecurities and general problems without her losing interest. If she truly loves you then she is most likely to help you overcome this insecurity and not pull back instead : )
@@stefanstankovic5324 ehh... Wrong. My relationnship has been going on for yrs. I made the mistake of believing i cud let my guard down and show my insecurities...now im here alone, looking at these videos.
I know right ? Women are so quick to judge men in relationships its F'ed up. We are supposed to find our women just as attractive, whether or not she makes more than us, whether or not she gains weight. But the moment you hit trouble and start making less than your woman, or you become comfortable and start showing her your vulnerability ....she IMMEDIATELY changes her attitude towards you. Can you imagine if men used to drop women that easily ? We could be called shallow and sexist etc
Bro your channel is excellent and a lot of your vids are helping me out right now, I hope you keep uploading brother, I’m gonna do what you said and go the other way when I feel like txting her, it’s been 3 weeks and nothing lol
I'm having a hard time thinking if my girlfriend really wants to be with me after yrs of dealing with my insecurities,at one point she she that she felt better if we broke up and each head our on ways but we both stay and talk and keep trying to work it out,do you have any advice to help me stop thinking so negative.
Hmmmm, if I am attracted to a woman and I like her and she gets clingy then I don’t care because I like her lol I think it is okay to be bit clingy or attached except when your doing it with someone who does not dig you that much. I think that is the problem. Find someone who is as needy and weak as you lol
nope. Eventually she'll be repulsed by the clinginess and availability, and how you're always available. Your idea seems logical but it's just not the truth. If you ever have a girl pull back when you've been too clingy you have to pull back as well for a little bit. She'll start chasing after you and after that just keep a balance going. that's it Also don't ever be too much of a pleaser and a nice guy all the fucking time. Girls like that at first but after a while they feel uncomfortable, you have to keep your value High by not chasing.
I used to be bullied by an Indian girl at work, used like a laughing stalk on a fake relationship that made me have my first relationship which is with an asian gf in 2017 to 2018. But my asian gf left me for a rich non-asian with money, house and car. I am still a 29 year old virgin Chinese guy but friends in 2021 encouraged to look for girls again. But this time before girl is going to use me like a laughing stalk and money-minded again, I have spoke to many Chinese, Indian or any Asian girl but have to pervert-talk them to no matter what coz I still believe pickups lines won't always work with girls that could use me only as laughing stalk or money-minded. That is my anxiety, due to past, pervert-talk and agreeing to future sex as 29 year old virgin is best test for women needed.
I know what most of men can't really tolerate is a cheating girlfriend or a girl who is betrothed to and later after cheating the same woman comes back to him my question is what if she pulls away in expense of taking advantage of you she goes cheating on you? What do you do? I have seen this happen to someone
Hi, sir what about your ex is in a relation with her co worker after u and her broke up ur LDR relation 8yrs is there a changes u can re unite with her,,
Do it in a mature way. Its okay to express your feelings. Just tell her I feel x and I can’t help it and it doesn’t have to do with you. Then you explain your thoughts and ask: Can you give me some reassurance? Just talk about it like a real man
Brother Canwell or other brothers please help me. GF broke up with me. I handled it in a strong way, didnt cry or plead but said "ok, let me know if you change your mind" but 28 days no contact. My anxiety is off the chats. Will she be back? I'm having such a bad time! I feel like a drug addict
Hey chris. 28 days of no contact is a long time. work on yourself and get your head clear. keep the no contact going and do whatever you love doing. DONT DISPLAY ANY WEAKNESS. if you need more help just reply here
?Well I feel like I've already displayed extreme insecurity. Is all hope lost or can I change my ways and start to build my own perceived strength back up?
Women reward strength and punish weakness. Burn that into your mind.
Powerful statement
Who cares?
Yes I will 😊
Very true 👍
Tell me that when your 90 years old and can't wipe your ass.
Mosy underated coach ever. This guy is a legend
true
It's better that less people know
damn it hurts 💔
Yea real talk
Keep Laughing The *Pain* is really not that much different from going to the gym and tearing yourself up a bit. You went to the gym of your own accord. Don’t be surprised if you felt some pain in a deliberate effort to get *Stronger.*
Just putting this out there. This man is definitely right. Coming from someone who went from confident and relaxed in the interaction (generally speaking) to anxious about what she is thinking at all times (me and my gf have been together for 1.5 years now ) - not of me necessarily, rather whether something upsets her, something is wrong or whatever. Regardless, giving her so much attention screams "neediness", and I can see how this has affected our relationship, the intimacy between us had to suffer a lot. Girls really don't want you to be in touch with their emotions all day long or "be genuinely interested in what they are doing". Sure you might ask a few things here and there, it gives them the chance to talk about themselves and brag to you in order to get your attention, helps you to bond with each other, but it is nothing you should be doing too frequently. In the end, if you really want to provide for her in terms of your relationship, you need to be working on your goals and whatever makes you a man. You can't fill anybody's tea cup as long your pot is empty. So make sure to make a damned good tea first.
The one that cares the least controls the relationship. She must always chase and choose you! Men are programmed to be the pursuers, this is why most relationships fail because we’ve been tricked to please women when we should be focusing on ourselves. Think about celebrities, they are focused on pursuing their passion. Women flock to them. Always focus on SELF improvement. It will drive you crazy when you only think of her. You must always remain unattached. They believe that’s masculine behavior. You realize the girls that loved you the most you didn’t care about em. The ones you chased didn’t want you at all. That’s because women want to know if you value yourself more than them. They can EASILY get other guys that are gonna cater to their needs, but you must be Godlike. It’s harsh but that’s what women respect
I have made all the mistakes you talk about. You're 100% right in every single thing you say. Thanks Chris for helping me to be aware of my insecure behavior
We've ALL done these things, my friend. You're not alone.
@@danthomas2146 same here. Been there and did it.
Another here...Rehab in progress.
Oh trust me about this... We all found this stuff due to all of our mistakes!
Same here dude, this channel has helped me realized I've been doing this whole dating thing wrong. My gf recently pulled away and I'm guilty of everything that Chris described. Wish I had discovered this channel way sooner!
I like it when you say: Dont show anxiety instead of dont be it. Because sometimes we men are just insecure. Realizing it is a big first step.
Listen up, young men! This guy is spot on! Take his advice and avoid a world of heartache. I wish I'd known this stuff when I was a younger man...
Yes 100% right.. I backed of and she came back. I need to work on myself more and she is willing to help me with my anxiety issues.
How exactly is she helping you?
NEVER! Never let her help you with anything!!! She'll remind you tomorrow.
This video came too late for my ex but on the right time for my actual beginning of new gf. I think the best is TO NOT CARE about relationship. When you DO CARE is like you give all power to the other side...
Facts
Doing the things he says not only helps the situation, it makes you a better you!
Women smell weakness like a shark smells blood.😂
keep at it. Great videos.
Yes, it's true. A good comparison.
This words comes from an big ego place which in my opinion is sickness.
Ana, just to check do you mean the words and idea that he is speaking about is the sickness? Or more agreeing with his idea on the anxiety in a relationship?
Yes 😂🥰😂
I laugh but I'm hurt
i just killed my marriage getting anxiety . 23 years gone because i didnt realise what i was doing.
i did all of this ,omg the pain ,when u see all the shit u have done ,and u know how u can fix it ,but u cant anymore ,couse she is already gone
Damn just damn
I just suffer in silence. I messed up 2 relationships with my anxiety and needy behavior. Girl I'm dating now I'm starting to get those old insecure feelings back but the good thing is I don't show her. I just play it cool like nothing bothers me all though deep down inside, it's killing me.
Bruh ikr
Friends and Focus on You is what i try to do but damn this little feeling of insecurity hate it!
I used to be like that, and you can't hide it forever my dude. She already smells it and if she's a good looking gal, she will already have her backup options ready. To them, we are always replaceable, but once you learn to see them in the same way, you will no longer suffer from the same type of relationship anxiety. It is your worrying that will turn her off you, so the sooner you can let go of your attachment to her the better. If you adopt the attitude that nothing she does matters that much, because you can always find another girl, then she will not leave you.
Make sure first that it’s a girl who’s worth to be in your life, let alone feel anxious about, be careful with who you share energy with, you are the prize not her
@@mayorofthenonsense damn you're right AF, .. I'll take a screenshot of this comment
Every bits of what he says is true no wasted time on the videos always direct to the point. Best relationship coach I’ve ever encountered! More power Chris!
The Lord used you, brother. Just what I needed to hear.
Keep your great and straight forward content coming! Don't stop! Your channel will grow fast if you do so.
Thank you.
Cristiano Sacramento I agree, this guy is a legend. Hats off. 👏
You are awesome
What are you talking about, that man is an atheist.. He doesnt believe in your imaginary lord
@@iyancasulla8867 *,
@@diseasedsavior2747 The Lord can use any tool as long as its what you need.
Legend is back.
Basically what I’m getting is that when you start getting needy or gut feel she’s losing interest go ghost
No but nice to recognise a narc so quickly.
Your advice is practical and straight to the point.
Many thanks.
I immediately liked the video even before viewing it. I knew it has to be good.
i did the same
Thank you for the advice. But sometimes I feel like I cant hold my insecurity down. Like when I meet up with her again I just start to feel weak and insecure. I try to deal with it behind closed doors. But when I see her again, she can tell there's something off with me. She doesn't really feel that Im insecure, but I do come off as numb with a lack of emotion and she can feel it. I give off this vibe because in my head Im still fighting off insecurity. Im looking for ways to deal with this.
Bro ikr
Found anything bro? Me feeling this shit all the time now
This is spot on
I have Major Depression. Whenever I fell into insecurity, she realized that it was the illness, not my basic personality. It acts like a pass since it's not your fault.
Talk to a professional, it will help yu to get a perspective,IF its the right kind. of person.
they call themselves partners, as soon as one gets weak. they leave. you're supposed to help and not leave them miserable.
100%
They’re helping you to grow stronger and not be a weak little man
I must say.. I love the way you articulate and make everything sound simple about attraction .. you are a genius.. great job!
He is copying anther coaches material. its obvious
Erik Myers don't be mistaken it tells the way he talk that make u believe from experience...he is great guy listen to him
@@ErikMyersComedy who would that be?
Yesterday I was with a girl I am dating for 2 and a half months now. I was nervous a bit and she noticed it. I calmed down after some time, but still... Called her today and she did not answer. I have this urge to text/call her again, but I will not. Hopefully it is nothing serious. I mean, this never happened before so I am worried. Damn it, I hate when I feel this way and I hate when I feel anxious. I feel like weakling and it really angers me...
Best way is to talk to other girls when she doesn't respond
The dude is just not fakeing . The finishes of the goals. Beautiful. Magisterial. Love you *Minslegend!.* .🙏🏼
You are the man! Ur videos r super helpful!
Its sad to see so many guys out there struggling with their insecurities and anxiety about the relationship and think talking to the girl about it is the way to go..
Keep it up 💪
This guy deserves an award
I love ur voice man its so calm.
Dude is spitting truths here, his style is so easy to digest as well 👌
If ur trying to get with someone and ur insecure here’s my advice. Let them know ur insecure, people are people and if they’re decent enough human beings they’ll understand. Not everyone is acts on their primal instincts. If u talk openly and honestly and confidently about your insecurities, than ur significant other will probably understand and if they don’t, fuck them. You don’t need someone like that in ur life anyway.
Let me empathize something, women are not the dumb primal animals you can just manipulate that most of these gurus and coaches will have you believe. Everyone is their own person and they’ll do whatever they’d like. Focus on urself most of all and never lose sight of what truly matters to you.
well said! i appreciate this coaching for males...however I too, thought, well where is the anxious mans mate? a woman who will NOT shame or condemn a man for developing his emotions for her/with her.
talk with her about YOU! and how/what you feel!
bond with your partner! love! live!
Hands down this dude will be recognized as a goat.. this dude has literally saved my life..listening to his work and job I can relate to it.. *minslegend* keep it up and thank you for your talent... 💯.
I have a problem with anxious attachment style, but you halped me a lot. Thank you very much, really.
Desperately needed this!!!
Brooo. Finally met a Sri Lankan here. Hi5! 😍
200% true, the stronger and more alpha you are, less affected by your emotions, the more women will respect you
this just happened with me 😂
now i am laughing at my own mistakes because i feel like that is good to my career
Thank you for the content. What I'm curious about is how anxiety, insecurities and neediness manifest themselves in even the strongest men. I was recently blindsided by my neediness. Even after all these years of self-improvement. Is it a primitive and Primal instinct in men or societies brainwashing? Thank you
jay left I think it’s primal
Almost every man will experience anxiousness or neediness at some point in a relationship. If youre talking about being told that it isn't okay or natural to have these feelings sometimes (especially due to how some men are brought up) then its societal brainwashing
It is good to find a solution to alleviate these feelings in a healthy way so the problems don't arise in a relationship though.
Yes it’s natural
Men are natural sacrificial creatures... women naturally think about themselves... at least until their maternal instinct kicks in or their looks began to fade away
wow dude your videos have infinite value. Props
My confidence is always scraping the floor when I hear my gf talking about any guys she's ever found attractive. I know she loves me and it's totally fine but I cant help but think that I'm not as muscular or as good looking or as alpha as these other guys she talks about. I do push ups until I cant think anymore but my god the more unconfident I realize I am behind all my exterior, the less of a man i feel.
how's your lovelife bro?
@@hyzcagulada3559 it's still going, we have bumps and hurdles to overcome just like anybody else, but I'm not one to easily give up and neither is she.
I know what you mean man
When she talks about other guys, talk about other girls... If there were only 2, make it 20
Dump her for being disrespectful
"Chew yoour fingernails until its dripping with blood" 😂😂got me
They can have my sweat and tears but no way my 'blood! ' 😁
I'm still working on my anxiety and security
Whenever I have that feeling can you just whisper in my ear "do the opposite"
IFKR 🥺😣
Spot on- do the opposite almost every time
Hey I wanna be a secure man, but I don’t wanna do it to get girls or to keep girls. I want to do it for myself, but any time I’m doing something to better myself, there’s a voice in my head and a feeling in my gut that’s saying I’m just doing what I’m doing to improve for girls. That’s a bit of a shallow motive and I want to feel like I’m doing what I’m doing for myself.
How to convey the things that u want out of a relationship and also about things that bother you without making things awkward...
I went through that and you saved me thank you
5:28 is the best sentence
I bought your book.
It's a tremendous book I ever bought.
Thank you very much for teaching us
Tradition has messed up the psychology of attraction. It’s so sad these days
Did you know being in a toxic relationship is worse than being single?
Would you want a woman to blow up your phone if you didn't reply do a few days?
Thomas Truth
A few days? Damn. Did you lose your phone?
Dont think of girls as needy. Think of them as high interest
*Honestly, just owning it and not trying to hide it is partially why I watch you. It's the honorable thing to do and it make the rest of the jobs much more believe when you are call out of the spots like that, so thank you minslegend*
I was always alpha and never insecure and it worked for a long time - but then my wife in mid life crisis felt like I didmt love her and she fell for affair at work- shensaid she didn’t think I really
Loved her..
So looking back I had to be more careful and re assure
Her. It’s so sad.
Herakles stay strong brother
It's just an excuse to convince herself (and you) that she's a decent person while she's a piece of shit. Move on.
Unfortunately it's so very true what you are saying in this video.
This is not 100% sure. My partner dealing with anxiety and he just told me now after 3 months of relationship and I didn’t run away of him. I’m here with him to support to get through this mental issue cos I like him so much and I want him to be better and I’m sure he will get well.
Yeah...
Not 100%
Hmm.... So almost 100%
How it went ?
@@swczn4994 we broke up in the end. It was to much to deal with. Now I’m with someone else and very happy 😊
@@anamihaelaflorescu9895 Thanks for answer. I have the same problem, I am not so much clingy and needy to blow up the phone every day, but still I have my problems with anxious attachment style. My GF left me 2 days ago after only 4 months. Have to work on myself. Good luck.
You’re a legend 🔥
I can relate to most of this!
Thank you for making me feel better everytime she pulls away and test me. I still havent learned
crist, us men just gotta keep all our emotions in, and not let is shine through (to her that is).
Your a legend ill, always listen to your videos
? Then, my follow up question is: What happens 2 years+ into the relationship and you've lost your job or some other setback, can you then trust that same woman to be there for you during a few weeks/months of vulnerability? From your videos and the lessons you are conveying, it seems like women are more like short term propositions instead of long term investments.
Exactly!
Thank you. I needed this...
5:04 .. with the rise on mental illness awareness.. what is wrong with communication within a relationship. Open ended question Im curious on peoples thoughts, both male and female if possible!
I personally believe that if you are in a long term relationship you should be able to talk about your insecurities and general problems without her losing interest. If she truly loves you then she is most likely to help you overcome this insecurity and not pull back instead : )
@@stefanstankovic5324 ehh...
Wrong. My relationnship has been going on for yrs. I made the mistake of believing i cud let my guard down and show my insecurities...now im here alone, looking at these videos.
@@veemon9280 Sorry to hear that
I know right ? Women are so quick to judge men in relationships its F'ed up. We are supposed to find our women just as attractive, whether or not she makes more than us, whether or not she gains weight.
But the moment you hit trouble and start making less than your woman, or you become comfortable and start showing her your vulnerability ....she IMMEDIATELY changes her attitude towards you.
Can you imagine if men used to drop women that easily ? We could be called shallow and sexist etc
Bro your channel is excellent and a lot of your vids are helping me out right now, I hope you keep uploading brother, I’m gonna do what you said and go the other way when I feel like txting her, it’s been 3 weeks and nothing lol
That was some really good advice thanks🙏❤️
I'm having a hard time thinking if my girlfriend really wants to be with me after yrs of dealing with my insecurities,at one point she she that she felt better if we broke up and each head our on ways but we both stay and talk and keep trying to work it out,do you have any advice to help me stop thinking so negative.
Stop being a bitch basically. I feel bad for your girl, she wants a man not a bitch.
Hmmmm, if I am attracted to a woman and I like her and she gets clingy then I don’t care because I like her lol I think it is okay to be bit clingy or attached except when your doing it with someone who does not dig you that much. I think that is the problem. Find someone who is as needy and weak as you lol
nope. Eventually she'll be repulsed by the clinginess and availability, and how you're always available. Your idea seems logical but it's just not the truth. If you ever have a girl pull back when you've been too clingy you have to pull back as well for a little bit. She'll start chasing after you and after that just keep a balance going. that's it
Also don't ever be too much of a pleaser and a nice guy all the fucking time. Girls like that at first but after a while they feel uncomfortable, you have to keep your value High by not chasing.
We are speaking from experience ....you are speaking out of your knowledge just wait for the moment to come you will tell us which method you will use
It´s attractive when a girl does that but not then its a guy doing it
Thank you for the advice. This is just what I wanted
kwanin ni sisi wanaume kila siku..?
this helped A LOT
I used to be bullied by an Indian girl at work, used like a laughing stalk on a fake relationship that made me have my first relationship which is with an asian gf in 2017 to 2018. But my asian gf left me for a rich non-asian with money, house and car. I am still a 29 year old virgin Chinese guy but friends in 2021 encouraged to look for girls again. But this time before girl is going to use me like a laughing stalk and money-minded again, I have spoke to many Chinese, Indian or any Asian girl but have to pervert-talk them to no matter what coz I still believe pickups lines won't always work with girls that could use me only as laughing stalk or money-minded. That is my anxiety, due to past, pervert-talk and agreeing to future sex as 29 year old virgin is best test for women needed.
I know what most of men can't really tolerate is a cheating girlfriend or a girl who is betrothed to and later after cheating the same woman comes back to him my question is what if she pulls away in expense of taking advantage of you she goes cheating on you?
What do you do?
I have seen this happen to someone
Always have backups on the side, even paid ones... That's the only way if you don't, you are done.
I'm following all of his advice for my 4th ex but my 3rd ex is the one coming back. lol
Bruhhhh! Damn you're greaaat. Thanks mann
Can you suggest more books like yours? I’ve read all of Atomic Attraction and loved it. Looking for similar
Very good video thank you.
*Very easier said than done when you don't have have anxiety*
This was all too real..
Hi, sir what about your ex is in a relation with her co worker after u and her broke up ur LDR relation 8yrs is there a changes u can re unite with her,,
WTF- no man would ever chase a women that disrespected him that bad- sorry but true
Been there done that... Trust me....you need to move on from that shit brother
Thank you brother I respect you Chris you are the best I love your knowledge brother
My cousin sister's boyfriend is very possessive, how does she control him ? What to do ?
This man is a lifesaver...🌻🤘
If I pull her away too....n if she never come back? Then??? What should I do?
then you move on. waste time on a worthless investment? or you go for better?
These videos are the bomb
💯 needed this!
Great advice.
You are a god among men
Love Guru Chris
What do I do if ive already shown her that I'm insecure
Do it in a mature way. Its okay to express your feelings. Just tell her I feel x and I can’t help it and it doesn’t have to do with you. Then you explain your thoughts and ask: Can you give me some reassurance? Just talk about it like a real man
Chirish bhava tuch ek chava 🔥🔥
What if I have already done the wrong things half the way..
Brother Canwell or other brothers please help me. GF broke up with me. I handled it in a strong way, didnt cry or plead but said "ok, let me know if you change your mind" but
28 days no contact. My anxiety is off the chats. Will she be back? I'm having such a bad time! I feel like a drug addict
Hey chris. 28 days of no contact is a long time. work on yourself and get your head clear. keep the no contact going and do whatever you love doing. DONT DISPLAY ANY WEAKNESS. if you need more help just reply here
I am not showing any weakness brother. I am trying my best and will never give in!
How long were you guys together?
8 months man. I have a feeling it's not long enough for her to miss me :/
Chris Bryant better to hit up other girls and distract yourself
i love you coach much appreciated!
Mind blown 🤯
Thank you so much my friend
Just put down your boundaries in the very beginning. If that's, I expect replies to my texts, then that's what she needs to do
Subscribed !!
?Well I feel like I've already displayed extreme insecurity. Is all hope lost or can I change my ways and start to build my own perceived strength back up?
Appreciated 👍🏽
Why didn't I hear you 2 months ago..
So what I get from this...getting attached to any partner will push them away? Duly noted.
Thank you so much this
Is it even still a relationship if she’s no longer responding to your text?