36. Never married. No "mini-me." It just came natural to me. Staying single was very easy for me. As RM said back in 2018, "I don't like answering questions and spending money on things I don't need." I think the ones who go overseas and lose their freedom are the kinda guys who want that 1940s, bluepilled lifestyle.
This is your most important lecture. It may not be your best, but it's the most important. If bachelors don't follow this advice, none of your other advice can be practiced. You can be a Ronin if you're free. I laugh so hard at husbands who try to be "free" after saying, "I do."
A lot of men are hopeless romantics while too many women are hopeless opportunists. Was however funny I heard the passage "I thought only peasants fell in love" in some audiobook I happened to be listening to before watching this video
one of Ronins best vids for young men. My dad put a fear in me about sex and freedom,B/C he had to get marriied at 19, I was in a relationship every year since 17 now Im 62. Been on break from that for the last 7 years . The method he describes here works . I never came in a woman and never got stuck with one or got one pregnant. I too had some that pepole thought I was crazy for leaving , I never met a woman more beautiful than my freedom. There is no such thing as a accidental pregnancy. Its crazy that a man would cum in woman and not worry about his future. I guess its the safety net by the tax payer that leades to irresponsibility. If you want kids then pay for it yourself. And Ronin is right, she will never love you the way you want her to. Yes enjoy women ( a wonderful creation) but with extreme caution if you value your future and freedom. Great vid Ronin.
A few days ago I met an Uber driver here in the states. And the guy is over here talking about his recent divorce from his Philippino wife of 15 years. He told me in the end do not bring them over here. He's in his 50s.
Most guys believe that their marriages didn't work out due to one point of failure. A move, job, her friend, etc. They dream that if that hadn't have happened, it would have been perfect. They almost had the perfect strategy but missed one detail. They can, and will likely, believe that till the day they die. Good for them. However, if you watch expat videos on the Philippines you will see many guys whose marriage failed. (even if they can't get legally divorced due to Catholic laws).
Men throw away women who are in love for women who are in business. You create the market, then you cry about it. Truth is you follow your peens regardless of what your mouth say and that's the number one rule to understanding a man and why he never does what he says he will or why he does things that seem against character.
How not to get married. Let's refrain from splitting the infinitive. Women must change their focus from him to their children. Hence, "men love women and women love their children."
Why must women change their focus from him to their children? 1 Corinthians 11:3 says, “But I want you to realize that the head of every man is Christ, and the head of the woman is man, and the head of Christ is God.”
What type of moron doesn’t love his children, assuming they’re his? 😂I’d shift my focus from entertaining her to the wellbeing of my kids too lmao. Strange adage.
Ronin, you’re content is so underrated. I’m legit lucky I found this channel when it was only at 16K subs. This channel should be bare minimum at 100k subs.
42 male never married/divorced, no kids being unattractive, living ascetic and have very anti-female hobbies like warhammer 40k, motorcycling, stocks and videogames is my ultimate recipe not only not getting married but also not getting laid but getting wealthy
For sure that works for some guys. I assume you mean acting broke but still getting pussy. Young women, 18-21 usually aren't thinking of the future so will sleep with a guy who is broke but cool. That is a great demographic for that strategy. Same for dating apps and hook ups too. Girls of all ages will meet and hook up with someone who is physically what they want as it's private and doesn't hurt their outward persona. As you know, this works for guys are top tier in demand types. However for the vast majority of guys, this is a losing strategy. The reason being that the way they present themselves to women is synonymous with the way they are at work, with friends, socially, etc. Poor, broke and undesirable.This leads to a cycle which naturally bleeds into a mans concept of himself. It's the opposite for a guy who is attractive, he glories in the fact that he doesn't have to do the work other do, he's proud of the way he breaks the rules. However, even with this type Chad Tyrone, it's not a good long term strategy. Every man will lose attractiveness as he ages. Cuba Mark Gooding Jr, Charlie Sheen etc. But there are other examples of guys who became more attractive over time. Those guys worked at it. Didn't accept the crumbs society offered to them. Didn't take the easy road. And the combo of keeping themselves physically fit and striving for success, they end up winning.
@@RoninMan Your premise that Evolution is a Fact is erroneous. There is factual DEVOLUTION, not anything like the MYTHEORY of Evolution (evilution). Darwin's Chart is flowing backwards AND missing the taller blackskinned Giants. The rest of your presentation is ok. Read 'THE ICEMAN INHERITANCE' and catch up.
I think you missed the point. You see, in the states, I act poor and dress poor so ilI dont get attention. But when I travel, I get all G'd up. Im ok with not getting attention from chicks in the states. I get mine when I travel. @RoninMan
@hannobaalii_makendalii Facts. Now, in RMs defense, this only works in the West. Overseas, the chicks will oftentimes verify if you're really poor or if you're just frugal.
Today, after 6 years of not seeing my friends (I moved overseas), we got to all hangout today. One of the biggest differences I noticed is that my married friend shops and spends like W M N. We used to be very to the point when we shopped. Now they spend hours in stores looking for ONE shirt. Also, they spend like W M N. They we're wasting a bunch of money on useless things they had no need for. Like 40 dollar candles, 25 dollar body wash, 5 dollar bottled water. 7 dollar candy bars, etc....
Interesting observation. I noticed that men back home talk in feminine ways. Not that it's a terrible thing but just that I believe they are unaware of how they act and how men used to talk. There is a lack of awareness on top of a feminization of society.
@@nsformation5107 If you are doing the meetup at Lake Nojiri then I'm in! LoL pic from Saturday night up here at Lake Nojiri ruclips.net/user/postUgkxXkqNIkYt8Fd5ni-KGnmy8iZsGg2Tqs97
Thanks JD! Good to have you at any age! I see guys in their 70's and 80's marrying working girls in Bangkok ! Never too late for us to ruin our lives! LoL
As a consequence of my profession (photographer/DJ) and my parents' profession (caterers), I have been to about 300-400 weddings in the past 35 years. It amazing me how the couples generally "met." Most of the time, the bride just came into the grooms life and stayed. I don't think you understood what I said. In layman language, the groom was living a happy, free life and the bride just walked into the grooms life and decided to drop an anchor. The biggest issue with guys is their tendency to let life "happen" to them. Its like most guys are ready and willing to marry the first chick who'll ask.
So true. It's the same when a guy goes into a strip club. 99% of guys will pay for drinks for the girl who won't leave them alone. Usually older, haggier but very sticky. They feel bad blowing her off even though she's a pro! Learning to say no is. key skill. Choosing your own future. Great topic
*"Their tendency to let life happen to them"* Boom! Badda! Bing! Fam, this sentence literally explains the life of most guys. It's as if most guys don't understand that we only get one attempt at life; and when it's over, it's over. Ladies, even if delusional, always have a plan. But it's like most dudes just let the tides of life take them take them to whatever shore it wants to. I met a friend in Chang Mai who now lives in Iowa and works at Walmart. Wanna know how this happened? My friend met someone in Manila who had family in Iowa and took him there. Just like that, a young, free, lead gen entrepreneur traveling the world became a Walmart deli manager in Iowa.
Ronin, back in 2018, you convinced me to move overseas. I've moved to Portugal initially, then CZR for 2 years. After that, I spent the rest of my time in Georgia (the country). Right now, I'm back home in DC until May. The first thing I noticed here in the states is that all the in shape guys holding hands with linebackers. Any idea of what and when this started? I've been gone since April of 2018, so I'm very lost. Like..... please tell me what happened, RONIN! AM I DREAMING?! I'm seeing 6-2, long hair in shape guys walking around with 5-4, 175 lbs GFs. This can't be real. Tell me I'm dreaming, ronin
I know. It's a shocker with no known precedent. An imbalance that defies logic. Every guy on this channel should be over here in Japan getting ready for Pink Bikini Summer Ronin Summit with me now. Cutie pies a dime a dozen. Friendly. Young. Healthy. Cute. Interested. No guys stay in North America, The UK, EU, New Zealand and Australia if they knew what they're missing. It's madness
I think it was Ronin's deepest lecture because it addresses the core structure of our society- the nuclear family unit. It has many different variations and permutations, but it still ends up underpinning our society. I would like to ask you, Ronin, does it matter to you that you were raised in an intact family unit?
Mother Nature is always speaking. She speaks in a language understood within the peaceful mind of the sincere observer. Leopards, cobras, monkeys, rivers and trees; they all served as my teachers when I lived as a wanderer in the Himalayan foothills. Radhanath Swami
Thank you ronin man. This is powerful. Pure and true. Please never stop making these videos. I’m learning a lot. I’m witnessing everything you say about women and sometimes it’s very hard to stomach. But I have learned to accept the truth and embrace it.
you communicate incredibly how one can see past 'annoyed' or 'resentful' feelings toward women, and appreciate them for who they are and what they are designed to do. It is very easy to stop halfway through the understanding of how they are and have those negative feelings. The key for me was understanding women aren't intentionally (most of the time, wink) behaving to hurt men. men who are in love with being in love, like myself, need to understand the phases of the relationship are temporary.
Just caught up with a friend, married a far left feminist 6 years ago. The man was completely broken, a shell of a man (his words) You saved me from that life Ronin. I owe you so much.
amazing video, simple logic that gets repeated over and over and jet nobody things about it. I think we fit in the 1 percent knowing and realising this stuff.
True. It's so rare. Knowing to me means being fluent and that knowledge used effortlessly by your body. Being able to say or explain a concept is a good first step to it being hardwired into your hands, eyes and brain. Your reaction should be as fast as the an electrical signal through the spinal cord and nerves to your muscles, causing them to contract. One of the biggest problems guys have is they underestimate the variety of situations they will encounter and the subtleness of each such situation. That's why I highly recommend top guys to come to summits. That's where you see, hear, act ideas. And often guys realize they "didn't really have it" (the entire concept along with all the iterations and your potential reactions)
too late with this vid Ronin, got married a year and a half ago. SHe is from Central America, younger, beautiful, sweet and with an amazing heart. We just had twin girls and Im very happy, despite lack of sleep and all of the other sacrifices. Ive travelled the world, partied seven days a week, dated close to 10 women at a time and wanted more at almost the age of 50. Some people want to remain nomads and vagabonds for all their days, and some need a pivot to work off of.
I m not a winner yet.. but I m alone, struggling. I am not sure if I will win in this life, I think I will again be alone. Coz Once I have money, I will pursue my hobbies. I m my own friend. Videos like these calm me during my days of struggle. Thank you for making this video. 🎉🎉
"I found that some women are worse than death and are as dangerous as traps. Their love is like a net, and their arms hold men like chains ...I found one upright man among a thousand, but not one upright woman among them all." -Book ef Ecclesiastes
Haven't listened to a Ronin rant in a while, always great to listen to the man that set me on my current path. My first trip to Japan was incredible this year, but no sexcapades to speak of. Was more enamored with the country. Right now it's still looking like MGTOW for life, but there are times when I'm on trips where I sure would appreciate a girl with me. Marriage? Out of the question, forget about it.
Off topic: I know you're a SF fan so I have a question. Last week, Christian McCaffery got married. From your experience, why do guys with options get married? You don't need to be married to start a family, look at Floyd Mayweather. You don't have to be married to become successful, look at Bill Maher. You don't have to get married to be accepted, look at Leonardo Dicaprio. So what's the point? The reason I'm asking you is because I know that you know very many highly attracted, high earner gentleman. I'm pretty sure you at least have a slight idea about why they do certain things.
Ronin if you sit infront of the camera show your face and talk this channel will blow up in no time. Unless you dont want to show your identity thats different
I started this channel of ideas. It's not about my face or me. The ideas are the focus. You can see this when guys gather at Summits. All types of guys from a bewildering array of backgrounds. You might be right about the channel blowing up if I start using my face but I doubt it. RUclips shadow bans the channel and limits subscribers. It was skyrocketing prior to one complaint. If they hadn't clamped down this channel would have well over 100k subscribers. So the reason isn't what I do but what they did to sabotage the channel. If I start a new channel I might take that strategy
@RoninMan i know its not about your face, i just think if you made videos sitting down thw channel is more likely to blow up. Ive seen shitty channels on this topic with 300k- 500k subs because of the syle of vids they make. Your channel in this genre is by far rhe best ive ever found no channels compare.
Good video but Ronin has some things wrong. Especially the part where ppl only lived to 20. The average age went down significantly in stats because infant deaths were higher so they were included. Lets say you have someone whos 80 years old and dies and someone who lives 1 day. Of course just looking at stats you will be deceived and think ppl only lived to 20. Otherwise 90% I agree with
These are very astute observations. Thank you. It seems like the acceptance of impermanence is what makes this choice possible. Marriage cannot contain or perpetuate the emotion that caused a man to choose it.
I dunno...I had kids via donation, so I had that covered but I still feel like I missed out on adultery and divorce. Maybe I am just not humiliation material.
I am not sure I get your situation. You mean that you had kids via IVF and with a surrogate mother? You stayed single and now have sole custody of your children?
@@RoninMan I felt an unexpectedly strong paternal bond with both my son and my daughter, who were both in their 30's when we first met. My son got my math skill (perfect SAT) and my daughter got my chemistry and writing skills. I could brag on my kids endlessly. And the three grandkids. I met my son's mother for the first at his wedding (on 2/20/2020 right before the coof lockdowns). Think about that for a moment: How many times in all human history has daddy met mommy FOR THE FIRST TIME at their son's wedding? I am betting the answer is: just once.
Spetnez died recently, got hit by a speeding vehicle whilst overseas. He was posting videos after a long hiatus as recent as a few months ago with footage of Thailand and BKK as the back drop ala RM style. Im a fellow Aussie and a fan of his work
Rest in Peace. Thanks for sharing that Cole. I didn't know he passed in Thailand. This is why I'm so adamant about not taking taxis or driving motorcycles at night here. Hence we all took the bus to Pattaya. Short term visitors don't understand why I'm cautious but it's simply because I've been here longer. Many friends have died. I was almost killed in a bus accident back in 1989. The best way to honor his legacy is to not take long distance taxi rides between cities, ride motorcycles in the mountains above Phuket and after dark. If you're in Bangkok, live in Sukhumvit, Lumpini or another area where you can use the MRT and BTS. Drunk drivers everywhere. Trucks who don't care. Endless, avoidable tragedies.
@@RoninManwise words RM, they echo in my head every time I’m out and about in BKK or any where else for that matter. I’m not certain it was Thailand that he met his end, seems that way, feasting on his latest stuff, what a legend, RIP Ps, he breaks down the Thai culture and how the people think here from a western man’s POV, it’s very helpful in understanding the Thai’s way of life and philosophy which I’m fascinated by. Explains how Thais can read a person accurately within minutes of interacting with them.
Ronin just one thing, you mentioned multiple times in your previous videos that you would have married your fist high school sweet heart if she didn't have such strong religious biases (if I recall correctly). What if there is a man out there who prefer having a monogamous relationship and finds a woman who is like that high school sweet heart? Would you still say don't get married? And remember that in Europe in some countries divorce is not a crazy bad deal for men. There are quite few cases where "the she" in the couple comes from a way wealthier background than him (like me and my gf)
I don't know your girl or your relationship so can't speculate on the best course of action. It sounds like you want to marry her and you feel it's relatively risk free given your nationality and even advantageous given her family's wealth.
GF from soi 11? She's not like that!? LOL Even the women working in the GErman Beer House are like that!! Good women are way out in Sam Wrong, not in the Nana/ Sukhumvit area. In the end almost all of them want to lock down a dude and lock in his provision.
Once she’s pregnant your work is done? This is why marriages fail and women want divorces! How can you make a baby with someone and then not help out? You are a true bozo.
@@hannobaali_makendalikeep fooling yourself! *REAL MEN*, who you will never measure to be because you’re a failure, have successful marriages all the time and actually have emotional aptitude to be in a successful relationship. You men are the absolute lower than the bottom of the barrel. You believing this poison is only masking the bitterness in your mind and heart. Get therapy, and solid men around you, ASAP.
@@RoninMan you literally said that in your video…that once you get a woman pregnant your work is essentially done. I didn’t pull that out my ass. You said it!
36. Never married. No "mini-me." It just came natural to me. Staying single was very easy for me. As RM said back in 2018, "I don't like answering questions and spending money on things I don't need."
I think the ones who go overseas and lose their freedom are the kinda guys who want that 1940s, bluepilled lifestyle.
Amen, well said. I share the exact sentiment.
They are looking to be a slave on the cheap! LoL
@@RoninMan
"My family gives me purpose" 😆 🤣
This is your most important lecture. It may not be your best, but it's the most important. If bachelors don't follow this advice, none of your other advice can be practiced. You can be a Ronin if you're free. I laugh so hard at husbands who try to be "free" after saying, "I do."
Facts 💯
A lot of men are hopeless romantics while too many women are hopeless opportunists. Was however funny I heard the passage "I thought only peasants fell in love" in some audiobook I happened to be listening to before watching this video
@davidglad
"Guys are in love, chicks are in business." -CGA
Yep!
ii'm a CONCUBINER now.
(keep them always on Probation)
one of Ronins best vids for young men. My dad put a fear in me about sex and freedom,B/C he had to get marriied at 19, I was in a relationship every year since 17 now Im 62. Been on break from that for the last 7 years . The method he describes here works . I never came in a woman and never got stuck with one or got one pregnant. I too had some that pepole thought I was crazy for leaving , I never met a woman more beautiful than my freedom. There is no such thing as a accidental pregnancy. Its crazy that a man would cum in woman and not worry about his future.
I guess its the safety net by the tax payer that leades to irresponsibility. If you want kids then pay for it yourself. And Ronin is right, she will never love you the way you want her to. Yes enjoy women ( a wonderful creation) but with extreme caution if you value your future and freedom. Great vid Ronin.
Thanks for sharing your wisdom NorthlandFarmer
@@RoninMan thank you Ronin. Keep up the good work. If you or I save one young man from the many pitfalls , its worth it.
100% This one tied many of the Ronim knowledge pieces together for me. Been listening since year 1.
Moving in together or worse, getting married is a good way to ruin a great relationship 😄
A few days ago I met an Uber driver here in the states. And the guy is over here talking about his recent divorce from his Philippino wife of 15 years. He told me in the end do not bring them over here. He's in his 50s.
Correct. The contrast is too extreme and they will quickly turn into a regular Western woman.
Most guys believe that their marriages didn't work out due to one point of failure. A move, job, her friend, etc. They dream that if that hadn't have happened, it would have been perfect. They almost had the perfect strategy but missed one detail. They can, and will likely, believe that till the day they die. Good for them. However, if you watch expat videos on the Philippines you will see many guys whose marriage failed. (even if they can't get legally divorced due to Catholic laws).
@@RoninMan So what is your recommendation? Just curious.
Women are in business. Men are in love.
Sad but mostly true.
CGA
Do you even what true love is ?
It's not what you interpret it as.
@@rabbychan would be interested to hear your definition of “true love”, please explain?
Men throw away women who are in love for women who are in business. You create the market, then you cry about it. Truth is you follow your peens regardless of what your mouth say and that's the number one rule to understanding a man and why he never does what he says he will or why he does things that seem against character.
How not to get married.
Let's refrain from splitting the infinitive.
Women must change their focus from him to their children.
Hence, "men love women and women love their children."
Why must women change their focus from him to their children? 1 Corinthians 11:3 says, “But I want you to realize that the head of every man is Christ, and the head of the woman is man, and the head of Christ is God.”
What type of moron doesn’t love his children, assuming they’re his? 😂I’d shift my focus from entertaining her to the wellbeing of my kids too lmao. Strange adage.
Ronin, you’re content is so underrated. I’m legit lucky I found this channel when it was only at 16K subs. This channel should be bare minimum at 100k subs.
I appreciate that! Thank you
Ronin Man saved my life. I wouldn't be here if I wasn't lucky to find his content. I am always thankful and be indebted to Paul. ❤
Yep!
ii'm a CONCUBINER now.
(keep them always on Probation)
42 male never married/divorced, no kids
being unattractive, living ascetic and have very anti-female hobbies like warhammer 40k, motorcycling, stocks and videogames is my ultimate recipe not only not getting married but also not getting laid but getting wealthy
Exactly. That's the dilemma. A man needs to choose a path and that path includes all areas of his life. See my reply to
@kanagawa85
Yep!
ii'm a CONCUBINER now.
(keep them always on Probation)
Easy!! Dress poor and act broke
For sure that works for some guys. I assume you mean acting broke but still getting pussy. Young women, 18-21 usually aren't thinking of the future so will sleep with a guy who is broke but cool. That is a great demographic for that strategy. Same for dating apps and hook ups too. Girls of all ages will meet and hook up with someone who is physically what they want as it's private and doesn't hurt their outward persona. As you know, this works for guys are top tier in demand types.
However for the vast majority of guys, this is a losing strategy. The reason being that the way they present themselves to women is synonymous with the way they are at work, with friends, socially, etc. Poor, broke and undesirable.This leads to a cycle which naturally bleeds into a mans concept of himself.
It's the opposite for a guy who is attractive, he glories in the fact that he doesn't have to do the work other do, he's proud of the way he breaks the rules. However, even with this type Chad Tyrone, it's not a good long term strategy. Every man will lose attractiveness as he ages. Cuba Mark Gooding Jr, Charlie Sheen etc. But there are other examples of guys who became more attractive over time. Those guys worked at it. Didn't accept the crumbs society offered to them. Didn't take the easy road. And the combo of keeping themselves physically fit and striving for success, they end up winning.
@@RoninMan Your premise that Evolution is a Fact is erroneous. There is factual DEVOLUTION, not anything like the MYTHEORY of Evolution (evilution).
Darwin's Chart is flowing backwards AND missing the taller blackskinned Giants.
The rest of your presentation is ok.
Read 'THE ICEMAN INHERITANCE' and catch up.
I think you missed the point. You see, in the states, I act poor and dress poor so ilI dont get attention. But when I travel, I get all G'd up. Im ok with not getting attention from chicks in the states. I get mine when I travel. @RoninMan
@@kanagawa85 Bait your hook for the type of fish you wish to catch.
@hannobaalii_makendalii
Facts. Now, in RMs defense, this only works in the West. Overseas, the chicks will oftentimes verify if you're really poor or if you're just frugal.
Today, after 6 years of not seeing my friends (I moved overseas), we got to all hangout today. One of the biggest differences I noticed is that my married friend shops and spends like W M N. We used to be very to the point when we shopped. Now they spend hours in stores looking for ONE shirt. Also, they spend like W M N. They we're wasting a bunch of money on useless things they had no need for. Like 40 dollar candles, 25 dollar body wash, 5 dollar bottled water. 7 dollar candy bars, etc....
Interesting observation. I noticed that men back home talk in feminine ways. Not that it's a terrible thing but just that I believe they are unaware of how they act and how men used to talk. There is a lack of awareness on top of a feminization of society.
@@RoninMan
"Hey Paul, we are getting together to watch Grey's Anatomy later. Wanna come?"
@@nsformation5107 If you are doing the meetup at Lake Nojiri then I'm in! LoL pic from Saturday night up here at Lake Nojiri ruclips.net/user/postUgkxXkqNIkYt8Fd5ni-KGnmy8iZsGg2Tqs97
Your long form videos are like nothing else out there. Wish I had known you and has this knotwhen I was a young man Paul!
Thanks JD! Good to have you at any age! I see guys in their 70's and 80's marrying working girls in Bangkok ! Never too late for us to ruin our lives! LoL
@@RoninManYep!
ii'm a CONCUBINER now.
(keep them always on Probation)
As a consequence of my profession (photographer/DJ) and my parents' profession (caterers), I have been to about 300-400 weddings in the past 35 years. It amazing me how the couples generally "met." Most of the time, the bride just came into the grooms life and stayed. I don't think you understood what I said. In layman language, the groom was living a happy, free life and the bride just walked into the grooms life and decided to drop an anchor. The biggest issue with guys is their tendency to let life "happen" to them. Its like most guys are ready and willing to marry the first chick who'll ask.
So true. It's the same when a guy goes into a strip club. 99% of guys will pay for drinks for the girl who won't leave them alone. Usually older, haggier but very sticky. They feel bad blowing her off even though she's a pro! Learning to say no is. key skill. Choosing your own future. Great topic
You might like this one ruclips.net/video/IALy6zFlvt0/видео.html
*"Their tendency to let life happen to them"*
Boom! Badda! Bing! Fam, this sentence literally explains the life of most guys. It's as if most guys don't understand that we only get one attempt at life; and when it's over, it's over. Ladies, even if delusional, always have a plan. But it's like most dudes just let the tides of life take them take them to whatever shore it wants to. I met a friend in Chang Mai who now lives in Iowa and works at Walmart. Wanna know how this happened? My friend met someone in Manila who had family in Iowa and took him there. Just like that, a young, free, lead gen entrepreneur traveling the world became a Walmart deli manager in Iowa.
@RoninMan 😆 You should do stand up. That wedding industry joint was too funny. OMG my stomach is hurting!
@@RoninMan "Choosing Your Own Future" would be a great topic for your next lecture .
Ronin, back in 2018, you convinced me to move overseas. I've moved to Portugal initially, then CZR for 2 years. After that, I spent the rest of my time in Georgia (the country). Right now, I'm back home in DC until May. The first thing I noticed here in the states is that all the in shape guys holding hands with linebackers. Any idea of what and when this started? I've been gone since April of 2018, so I'm very lost. Like..... please tell me what happened, RONIN! AM I DREAMING?! I'm seeing 6-2, long hair in shape guys walking around with 5-4, 175 lbs GFs. This can't be real. Tell me I'm dreaming, ronin
I know. It's a shocker with no known precedent. An imbalance that defies logic. Every guy on this channel should be over here in Japan getting ready for Pink Bikini Summer Ronin Summit with me now. Cutie pies a dime a dozen. Friendly. Young. Healthy. Cute. Interested. No guys stay in North America, The UK, EU, New Zealand and Australia if they knew what they're missing. It's madness
A hundredth of a second and you're toast!😂😂🍞
good stuff ronin
40 and still strong!!!
That was some deep stuff! Thanks for your deep insight into that!
Excellent info, Roninman. Thank you. Bangkok looks so beautiful - I want to see this place!
I think it was Ronin's deepest lecture because it addresses the core structure of our society- the nuclear family unit. It has many different variations and permutations, but it still ends up underpinning our society. I would like to ask you, Ronin, does it matter to you that you were raised in an intact family unit?
I'll talk about how I was raised in depth when the time is right.
Old School Ronin right there!
Mother Nature is always speaking. She speaks in a language understood within the peaceful mind of the sincere observer. Leopards, cobras, monkeys, rivers and trees; they all served as my teachers when I lived as a wanderer in the Himalayan foothills.
Radhanath Swami
I love it.
Thank you ronin man. This is powerful. Pure and true. Please never stop making these videos. I’m learning a lot. I’m witnessing everything you say about women and sometimes it’s very hard to stomach. But I have learned to accept the truth and embrace it.
you communicate incredibly how one can see past 'annoyed' or 'resentful' feelings toward women, and appreciate them for who they are and what they are designed to do. It is very easy to stop halfway through the understanding of how they are and have those negative feelings. The key for me was understanding women aren't intentionally (most of the time, wink) behaving to hurt men. men who are in love with being in love, like myself, need to understand the phases of the relationship are temporary.
Just caught up with a friend, married a far left feminist 6 years ago. The man was completely broken, a shell of a man (his words) You saved me from that life Ronin. I owe you so much.
Two words will make you happy when you're sad and sad when you're happy. Everything changes.
I hate lying to myself and others, so i guess i'm safe.
Great way to start the day thanks Rman
The book sperm wars, is a scientific breakdown of evaluationary psychology.
Explains a lot.
Excellent book! You might also like The Red Queen: Sex and the Evolution of Human Nature by Matt Ridley.
amazing video, simple logic that gets repeated over and over and jet nobody things about it. I think we fit in the 1 percent knowing and realising this stuff.
True. It's so rare. Knowing to me means being fluent and that knowledge used effortlessly by your body. Being able to say or explain a concept is a good first step to it being hardwired into your hands, eyes and brain. Your reaction should be as fast as the an electrical signal through the spinal cord and nerves to your muscles, causing them to contract. One of the biggest problems guys have is they underestimate the variety of situations they will encounter and the subtleness of each such situation. That's why I highly recommend top guys to come to summits. That's where you see, hear, act ideas. And often guys realize they "didn't really have it" (the entire concept along with all the iterations and your potential reactions)
too late with this vid Ronin, got married a year and a half ago. SHe is from Central America, younger, beautiful, sweet and with an amazing heart. We just had twin girls and Im very happy, despite lack of sleep and all of the other sacrifices. Ive travelled the world, partied seven days a week, dated close to 10 women at a time and wanted more at almost the age of 50. Some people want to remain nomads and vagabonds for all their days, and some need a pivot to work off of.
I hope it works out for you. Kids are the best.
@@RoninMan Thanks Paul. Appreciate your content. Always a breath of fresh air, when it comes to originality
I m not a winner yet.. but I m alone, struggling. I am not sure if I will win in this life, I think I will again be alone. Coz Once I have money, I will pursue my hobbies. I m my own friend. Videos like these calm me during my days of struggle. Thank you for making this video. 🎉🎉
"I found that some women are worse than death and are as dangerous as traps. Their love is like a net, and their arms hold men like chains
...I found one upright man among a thousand, but not one upright woman among them all."
-Book ef Ecclesiastes
Haven't listened to a Ronin rant in a while, always great to listen to the man that set me on my current path. My first trip to Japan was incredible this year, but no sexcapades to speak of. Was more enamored with the country. Right now it's still looking like MGTOW for life, but there are times when I'm on trips where I sure would appreciate a girl with me. Marriage? Out of the question, forget about it.
I'm so bad at pickup and good at Kegels, that if I ever get a woman pregnant I'd honestly think it's destiny.
Off topic:
I know you're a SF fan so I have a question. Last week, Christian McCaffery got married. From your experience, why do guys with options get married? You don't need to be married to start a family, look at Floyd Mayweather. You don't have to be married to become successful, look at Bill Maher. You don't have to get married to be accepted, look at Leonardo Dicaprio.
So what's the point? The reason I'm asking you is because I know that you know very many highly attracted, high earner gentleman. I'm pretty sure you at least have a slight idea about why they do certain things.
Ronin if you sit infront of the camera show your face and talk this channel will blow up in no time. Unless you dont want to show your identity thats different
I started this channel of ideas. It's not about my face or me. The ideas are the focus. You can see this when guys gather at Summits. All types of guys from a bewildering array of backgrounds. You might be right about the channel blowing up if I start using my face but I doubt it. RUclips shadow bans the channel and limits subscribers. It was skyrocketing prior to one complaint. If they hadn't clamped down this channel would have well over 100k subscribers. So the reason isn't what I do but what they did to sabotage the channel. If I start a new channel I might take that strategy
@RoninMan i know its not about your face, i just think if you made videos sitting down thw channel is more likely to blow up. Ive seen shitty channels on this topic with 300k- 500k subs because of the syle of vids they make. Your channel in this genre is by far rhe best ive ever found no channels compare.
By all means marry. If you get a good wife, you'll be happy. If you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher. - Socrates
By all means marry!
Good video but Ronin has some things wrong. Especially the part where ppl only lived to 20. The average age went down significantly in stats because infant deaths were higher so they were included. Lets say you have someone whos 80 years old and dies and someone who lives 1 day. Of course just looking at stats you will be deceived and think ppl only lived to 20. Otherwise 90% I agree with
These are very astute observations. Thank you.
It seems like the acceptance of impermanence is what makes this choice possible. Marriage cannot contain or perpetuate the emotion that caused a man to choose it.
which choice? the choice to marry? or the choice not to marry?? if you mean the choice not to marry then yes your statement makes perfect sense
@@paulthursonYes, I was referring to the choice not to marry.
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you made a good loint
Are you one person? One guy? Speaking from his experiences with women? Or, more than one guy? I wonder this as I’m enjoying your videos lately…
One guy who was lucky enough to have slept with many hundreds of women
@@RoninMan Not one quality woman
Yep! ii'm a CONCUBINER now.
(keep them always on Probation)
No 50/50 nonsense.
I dunno...I had kids via donation, so I had that covered but I still feel like I missed out on adultery and divorce. Maybe I am just not humiliation material.
I am not sure I get your situation. You mean that you had kids via IVF and with a surrogate mother? You stayed single and now have sole custody of your children?
@@RoninMan I donated semen blind and my now adult kids found me via a DNA site. Their mums were married to infertile men. No child support from me. 🤣🤣
@@thebibosez7949 what was it like meeting them? How did you feel? Must be complicated
@@RoninMan I felt an unexpectedly strong paternal bond with both my son and my daughter, who were both in their 30's when we first met. My son got my math skill (perfect SAT) and my daughter got my chemistry and writing skills. I could brag on my kids endlessly. And the three grandkids.
I met my son's mother for the first at his wedding (on 2/20/2020 right before the coof lockdowns). Think about that for a moment: How many times in all human history has daddy met mommy FOR THE FIRST TIME at their son's wedding? I am betting the answer is: just once.
What’s the issue with getting married if she makes and/or has more money than you? Worst case, you benefit from the divorce.
false allegations , emasculation , no freedom .
Women don't marry men who make less than them...
Before watching it i laughed my ars off at the title
Would like to know your personal opinion on Rollo, barbarossa, spetsnaz, coltaine, proteus, archangel, stardusk.
All of them are quite different.
Spetnez died recently, got hit by a speeding vehicle whilst overseas. He was posting videos after a long hiatus as recent as a few months ago with footage of Thailand and BKK as the back drop ala RM style.
Im a fellow Aussie and a fan of his work
@@CDRFINANCE Spetsnaz was the deepest from all of them.
Rest in Peace. Thanks for sharing that Cole. I didn't know he passed in Thailand. This is why I'm so adamant about not taking taxis or driving motorcycles at night here. Hence we all took the bus to Pattaya. Short term visitors don't understand why I'm cautious but it's simply because I've been here longer. Many friends have died. I was almost killed in a bus accident back in 1989. The best way to honor his legacy is to not take long distance taxi rides between cities, ride motorcycles in the mountains above Phuket and after dark. If you're in Bangkok, live in Sukhumvit, Lumpini or another area where you can use the MRT and BTS. Drunk drivers everywhere. Trucks who don't care. Endless, avoidable tragedies.
@@RoninManwise words RM, they echo in my head every time I’m out and about in BKK or any where else for that matter.
I’m not certain it was Thailand that he met his end, seems that way, feasting on his latest stuff, what a legend, RIP
Ps, he breaks down the Thai culture and how the people think here from a western man’s POV, it’s very helpful in understanding the Thai’s way of life and philosophy which I’m fascinated by. Explains how Thais can read a person accurately within minutes of interacting with them.
Ronin just one thing, you mentioned multiple times in your previous videos that you would have married your fist high school sweet heart if she didn't have such strong religious biases (if I recall correctly). What if there is a man out there who prefer having a monogamous relationship and finds a woman who is like that high school sweet heart? Would you still say don't get married? And remember that in Europe in some countries divorce is not a crazy bad deal for men. There are quite few cases where "the she" in the couple comes from a way wealthier background than him (like me and my gf)
I don't know your girl or your relationship so can't speculate on the best course of action. It sounds like you want to marry her and you feel it's relatively risk free given your nationality and even advantageous given her family's wealth.
GOLD!!!
GF from soi 11? She's not like that!? LOL Even the women working in the GErman Beer House are like that!!
Good women are way out in Sam Wrong, not in the Nana/ Sukhumvit area.
In the end almost all of them want to lock down a dude and lock in his provision.
I guess as long as she was a working girl long ago enough and there's no video evidence, she's born again! Perfect and pure!
@@RoninMan LOL
24:40 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Once she’s pregnant your work is done? This is why marriages fail and women want divorces! How can you make a baby with someone and then not help out? You are a true bozo.
It's payback for their Trapping Tricks.
@@hannobaali_makendalikeep fooling yourself! *REAL MEN*, who you will never measure to be because you’re a failure, have successful marriages all the time and actually have emotional aptitude to be in a successful relationship. You men are the absolute lower than the bottom of the barrel. You believing this poison is only masking the bitterness in your mind and heart. Get therapy, and solid men around you, ASAP.
No one said that or believes that. You're making a straw man argument. I'm sure there is someone somewhere that believes that but I do not.
@@RoninMan you literally said that in your video…that once you get a woman pregnant your work is essentially done. I didn’t pull that out my ass. You said it!