Things Arielle should know: 1. The way society sees you is relevant, but it doesn't change who you are 2. If a trans individual doesn't pass, that doesn't mean you can misgender them on purpose 3. There isn't a certain way to "be"/ "look" non-binary, you just are
@@skurinski if u consider life and reality "bollocks," well idk how ur going to handle the rest of your life then... everything exists on a spectrum, idk why that's hard for u, it doesn't do anything to u.... why u gotta create problems that don't exist bro?
She claimed that she left it out because of her mental health. I get that she struggles with anxiety and depression and stuff but it’s not cool to blame stuff on that just because you don’t want to talk about it and have those discussions.
I'm a cisgender Latin American "man". The problem is that I'm gay. In my culture, gays aren't men. Society doesn't view us as men. Therefore, according to Scarcella, I'm not a man? What am I? An E.T.?
"Your gender is about how other people see you?" Okay, so was I not actually bisexual when I was closeted and nobody knew? Or am I not really bisexual if i haven't had sex with either gender I'm attracted to?? these people sound the same way homophobes did 10-20 years ago... "you're not gay until you've had sex with the same gender". Exactly the same.
She not great representation for her own community (lesbians) let alone the trans community. She needs to get off of her high horse and stop letting the internet fame go to head.
If I recall correctly she defended 'gold star' concept before so she would probably think exactly like that and is also very likely to be bi-phobic in general.
L Raven what on hell are you talking about lmao? I never said she had to answer all her comments? I simply said that she shouldn’t block people who disagree with her
It doesn’t feel like Arielle’s opinions are even always hers. It seems like she’s desperately attempting for conservative points, she’s a bit like a cis Blair White
@@rowaneditspeppa3361 "Republicans have different views on how they believe the government should work." Yeah...conservative views. Even "moderate" republicans are conservative. Hell, moderate DEMS are conservative.
They're all grifters. They all make the same points because they share the same target audience. I don't think I'm making a hot take to say I'm sure the majority of thier audience isn't LGBT. But all thier content is.
Does she not realize that for many trans people, it's not SAFE for them to present as their gender in certain areas of their life? Like seriously. It's not entitled to want people to respect your identity, regardless of presentation. It IS entitled for a cis woman to say trans issues affect her.
Yes!!And some people just present differently. Trans women don't owe them femininity. Trans men don't owe them masculinity and non-binary people don't owe them androgyny. It's that simple! They wouldn't go up to a cis woman/man and tell them they're actually a man/woman because they present different from gender, so why to trans people?
Not only that, the statement comes off also as both classist and potentially ableist: not everyone has the resources to change theor wardrobe, let alone (depending on the country and the the healthcare offered) go through medical and surgical transition; that does not invalidate their identity in any way or form! At the same time, you may have *adults* who are not completely independent due to health/legal reason (let's think about the guradianship scheme you have in the US: you may be someone who is non-cisgender but without indepence in terms of medical and economical decisions) or that can't possibly access to some specific treatments due to underlying medical conditions, or have liited mobility and can't travel to where gender clinics are.
I 100% agree with you. I hate the way she thinks that just because she has some trans friends she can't be called transphobic. And I'm happy that even her trans friends are calling her out lmao
Dumbaai Right!? At this point even Kalvin Garrah is saying he thinks she’s being transphobic ahah and if that’s not a sign that you’ve gone too far I don’t know what is.
Saying "I am not racist because I have friends of a different race" or "I am not transphobic because I have friends who are trans" or "I am not homophobic because I have friends in the LGBT+ community" is simply reading as "I can't be any of those things because I filled my quota on that type of person!! Just because you "filled your trans, gay or racist quota" in your mind doesn't make you any less of a racist, homophobe or transphobe!! (I hope that made as much sense in writing as it does in my head.) Hugs and Love Moe, keep telling your truth. BTW I am a straight cis woman and anyone who knows me knows my character, I don't have to say "I am not this that or the other" because people already know, I don't have to say it out loud!!!!
Also saying you have friends from minority groups and then being homophobic/transphobic/racist is saying that you don’t care about whether or not the people you consider friends deserve basic human rights
@@erin8432 Totally agree. It is so beyond me why people can't mind their own business. Why do you care who someone else is? That's their life. I choose my friends on their character, point blank period!!
CopsHateMoe i agree with what they said and also agree with you that that’s a huge compliment y’all are both very kind and wholesome and mean well with what you say and it’s genuinely comforting to watch yalls videos cause they feel genuine and somehow even in videos like this kinda wholesome
As another person named Arielle, I want to wish all trans people, every single one of you, a wonderful day, and remind you that you are valid and worthy and deserving of love! Your identity is valid and deserves to be respected! 🤗
I think you speak very well. You're quite reasonable and provide your perspective without being hateful. If you're this charming at 18, I can't imagine where you will be at 25-30-40, etc. If this is really your only social commentary video, you may want to include more!
@@CopsHateMoe you're very welcome. I'm a member of the LGBTQ+ community, as is my sister and son. I watch a lot of what's out there and I totally believe you have a very valuable voice. Continue to share it and let that great personality shine!
Julie ElSan ah thank you so much, this video is gandering more attention than I anticipated, a lot of it being negative too (it was literally shared on a TERF page lmao) so anyway this is really nice
@@CopsHateMoe Listen, this kind of discourse will always receive both criticisms and praise. People can disagree with you while respecting your approach. You aren't hateful or aggressive, this is the way to discuss issues such as these. I, myself, am watching videos on both sides to consider the arguments. I find the respectful, intelligent, informed ones the most valuable. Your first vid out of the gates fits in here, which I believe makes you a valuable voice for both those who agree with you and those who don't to consider. 😊
@@Rainbowztars nah I'm just making fun of her. People will say that when someone supports gay, bi, etc people and act like a big ally, or are gay, bi, etc themselves...but are also transphobic. Like Arielle basically
@@Rainbowztars There's a transphobic "activist" group called the LGB Alliance (which Arielle actually supports and/or is a part of, I believe... but don't quote me on it). There are even trans people who are supporters of this group, and it doesn't make a whole lot of sense. Jamie (Jammidodger) has done at least one video about them. I actually think Noah has also made a video about them. If you feel like getting infuriated (and learning more about it), I recommend watching their videos on the topic. So, while Julie's comment may have been a joke, that type of mentality (read: "LGB community") is 100% real. In terms of the queer community and queer activism, there is little worse than discrimination within the community itself; it's so damaging, especially when we're all fundamentally fighting for the same thing. It's just so disheartening and disappointing on so many levels. There's enough discrimination and misinformation thrown at queer communities from cishets; the last thing we need is to throw it at each other.
7:59 really got me because i’m a trans guy that can’t medically transition. financially i probably could but i have so many undiagnosable and therefore untreated health issues (one of them respiratory so i can’t bind either) that medically transitioning is a genuine risk to my health and as someone with really severe chest dysphoria that makes me very sad but i’m seeing what i can do but instead of wallowing in misery i’m letting myself be my femboy self because that’s who i am and i’m not gonna make myself miserable over the fact that i can’t transition or break my body binding anyway just because she thinks that we all have to fit her idea of being trans. she has no idea what it’s like and doesn’t give a shit about health she just wants us to bend over backward to be her perfect idea of a trans person. on another note luckily my voice is naturally very very low so i could probably pass in public not to everyone but to most people and i had a real high voice when i met my boyfriend and i’ve always without question been a guy to him and he’s cis so i don’t see why she sees the need to make such a big deal over it. she’s just making herself tired cause i’m not gonna make my life less happy for a person i’ve never met. i’m julian and that’s that and that makes me very happy.💛
I'm really sorry about your health issues stopping you from transitioning, but you're right, there's no wrong way to be trans and you don't have to fit into any kind of box for your identity to be valid. Your health is so important and it's good to hear you're taking it seriously, I feel we are/were in a culture that promoted destroying yourself to please cis people and match their ideas of how a trans person should be (a mindset that was unfortunately promoted by other trans people as well) Take care of yourself, you got this
Not everyone is safe to present as their gender identity. Doesn't change that their gender is part of them. You can't jump into a discussion that doesn't involve you, without including the voices of those who ARE involved. It sounds like Arielle is the kind of person who considers only her own opinion and those who agree with her as valid. She sounds like the people who say to lesbians, "you just haven't met the right guy yet."
She blocks any unpopular trans people /LGBT person that criticizes her shitty opinions.. . I'm glad the Trans people she puppeteer are leaving her and calling her out ❤️❤️❤️
I agree with everything you said. The main thing that got under MY skin in Arielles video was her basically saying around 7:00 that trans women shouldn't have a voice in the community of womanhood if they do not "pass" because they won't experience "sexism." This is ridiculous! Non-Passing trans women will literally experience transmisogyn which is more deadly than just sexism imo. >.< She just really doesn't have much logic to anything in her video. I support Noah, and the whole trans community.
Sara Couvillon ay thank you! And definitely, her point about “having to experience sex based oppression” in order to be considered the gender you identify was ridiculous. I could make a whole video on that concept alone ahaha
I feel like her response has offended so many people because she misunderstood Noah's points and is genuinely a bit ignorant despite having trans friends. I do agree with a handful of her points however. Saying TERF is a slur is an overreaction in my opinion as it is just an ideology and the fact that she put that TERF website link in her description just solidifies my belief that she is one since it was just a bunch of our of context tweets saying that TERFs should die. She got defensive about Josh's video and just used it to talk about her views while making noah seem like the bad guy. I agree with views displayed by both noah and Arielle (don't worry I'm not a terf) and by you so I'm not really in anyone's side. All in all I found your video intriguing.
99% of her trans friends have made videos about her saying that they no longer support her and her views. They’ve apologized to everyone for even being associated with her.
I honestly think she doesn't view herself as someome who hates trans people. She however shares misinformation and regularly does things that hurt trans people. She is not as extreme as those terfs that literally call all trans women "sick" and "perverted" but the fact that she's more palatable is what makes her so much more dangerous to the trans community. Because there are a few things she says that many people will agree with, she'll warm people up to transphobic talking points which is really bad. It's kind of like things are with the alt right. Most of them can behave and are respected because they don't outright say they hate lgbtq+ people/ muslims/ non white foreigners/ jewish people / POC but they still get their audience into a headspace that opens them up to hateful talking points. (And who would have thought Arielle made a video with the manager of Candis Owens' charity - that might do some good work here and there - but also spreads misinformation about BLM and generally reinforces negative stereotypes about black people)
Arielle blocked me just because I responded one time that autogynephilia wasn't a real thing or based in any factual data. Yet she still goes on to say that no one wants to talk to her or have a conversation with her.
I'm a trans guy and Arielle would think I'm a girl. I try my hardest to pass but I'm not able to transition yet. When I can, I'm definitely going to transition. But her brain is like "no she's a girl until she transitions" like wtf?! also i want to go by he/him but i don't have support in my family and with covid they're the one ones i can be around!!
*my pronouns aren't preferred, they're required* my pronouns aren't preferred, they're required even when I'm not around, you should get used to the sound of using he/him as my pronouns because IM A GUY
I think you all are crazy. In ten years or less you will change to something else, like what ever is in fashion. You are all very young and I hope you don't damage your bodies in the name of transgender "fashion" trends!!
Arielle has let all of the internet fame go to her head. She has become more conservative and right leaning. She needs to get off of her high horse and give the YT career a rest.
right leaning is an understatement.... she's like specifically catering her content to right wing trump-loving men, like girl wtf... there must be some complicated comphet going on in this rebranding idk
I mean she's the same person that said Jamie is a lesbian bc he's a trans man dating a cis woman and that they're only "straight", called pre-transition straight trans men butch lesbians, and that trans women aren't women bc they "don't know what it's like to be a woman"(when y'know they are a woman) all in the sense of "ThATs HoW SocIEtY SEes YOu!!"
Haven’t finished the video yet but just wanted to say I totally agree with the point you made about being bi at the beginning! If my sexuality was defined by how other people viewed me, I would be straight because of bi-erasing people I’ve encountered 😂
I enjoy hearing "I only have 200 subscibers" then look at the date or early last year, then look at you now having 43.5k subscribers since this was posted! Great work! Stoked for you!
this is from this year!? whoa Moe’s channel has grown so much and they are so much more comfortable with talking about their identity as well it’s in a way fascinating to watch this video for the first time now.
Another problem with Arielle's "You're not trans until you medically transition" is what constitutes medical transition? I mean, Buck Angel and Chaz Bono have both had top surgery but not bottom surgery. Are Buck and Chaz women in Arielle's eyes? What Arielle is *really* saying is, "You're only trans if you are binary and can pass."
Lol don't worry she did it to me too. Except I recommend you report her Patreon (As they don't allow hate speech and she legitimately posted a anti Islam video on her twitter) As well as report her Twitter. I have only 17 followers but apparently I'm a "BIG" threat.
Evidently this video got more attention than you probably initially thought so I just want to say you are so brave and I’m proud of you for putting your thoughts out there. I spent my young teen years arguing about marriage equality online and now in my late twenties I argue with transphobes online all the time. And the transphobes are a lot more hostile and personal. The fact that I’m not trans doesn’t matter the fact that I disagree with them and I’m a proxy in a culture war they’re having matters. At least the marriage is Adam and Eve crowd mainly quoted scripture at me just left. So for any hate you may be getting even if it is just in the margins and overshadowed by love and support just know you’re brave and I admire you putting your voice out there at 18.
I've been struggling a lot with dysphoria, and I wanted to say - thank you for this video. I'm desperately trying to get to the point I pass, but it's been a long and really difficult process, and you reminded me that I'm still valid.
Wait a minute. Wait a damn minute. "I have like 200 subscribers, you can't really even call that a channel" first of all, you're putting a lot of effort in, so untrue, but also wow your channel blew up rather quickly. Nearly 40k in a few months. Awesome job haha
@@namine_273 It truly is ridiculous. At least there's a good example of someone putting in the work and getting their desserts. Although it's not like the youtube algorithm doesn't just promote fluff usually -.- I imagine having a channel growing this quickly would be rather overwhelming honestly.
Oh this is that grown woman who does armchair psych analysis of teenagers and people who have disabilities, mental health issues, and lgbtq+ identities... She is so beyond having a valid opinion on these things hon, don't pay her no mind. But thank you for this video, what you said was far more enlightening, intelligent, and empathetic than what I hear from older generations. As a trans woman who wasn't able to find the courage to come out and transition until I was 32, 3 years ago - this content is always helpful to hear
Watching this over a year after you posted it, it's amazing to see how far you've come with your confidence and acceptance of yourself. You're doing such important work!
''I dont know what type of mental gymnastics she's doing but she must have solid abs of steel'' XD thats a great line and im going to use it. I don't know the other peaple your referencing just found this on reddit but its a really nice video. i tend to relate questions of gender identity to quantum mechanics because a lot of peaple don't understand it and unless they go looking for it it's not (visibly) impacting their lives much. but your explaining it a little better and for that i thank you.
the sound you made when you started trying to do an american accent sounds like me when i try to imitate/make fun of a southern accent LMAO . anyway, there really is no "american" accent unless i guess you went for the plainest articulate english, but america is so big that different parts of the states have different accents, like i'm from new england (massachusetts/boston personally, and the little group of states in the northeastern-most corner) and there is a distinct Boston accent as well as a general new england accent which is similar but not as strong, then anything below maryland usually has some variation of a southern accent, theres a texas and midwestern accent which is similar to a southern accent in a lot of ways and then theres..... i dont know... whatever they do in california and the west coast (which i guess is what most people would consider a general american accent except i just picture surfer-dude voices and vocal fry like "du-uuuude, raaadical, those were some EPIC waves, braah!" "yah, totally bro, totally" ;)
Mo: I love this video. You are so articulate, even through the frustration :) If I could offer you one peice of advice it would be to stay the hell off twitter! It is mind-bogglingly toxic.
If gender really was about how you're perceived that would mean a whole bunch of weird things. When I was 12-13 I had long hair and super feminine features, to the point where I was REGULARLY mistaken for a cis girl despite being a dude. Cis gay dudes or anyone who doesn't conform get bullied in a way that removes masculinity from them, in the minds of the bullies, to prevent them from it threatening their own masculinity. But when a trans woman relinquishes masculinity of her own volition, suddenly the table is flipped and her masculine traits are suddenly recognised as a way to bully or shame her. Bigotry isn't logical, it just serves to further human suffering, plain and simple. Arielle doesn't even understand what she wants, because her personality seems to be entirely based on being transphobic for clout.
yeah she's pretty ...enthusiastic about avoiding people telling her what's up. she wants to talk about all this serious issues, but cant take the heat herself. btw... i like your outfit. that coat/jacket hoodie is pretty nice :D
Poo to the haters. This is a good response. I used to watch Arielle when I started college while I was still figuring myself out (I’m a cisgendered bi lady). It’s sad to see she’s of the mindset that trans people need to be a certain way, and has pretty transphobic opinions. :( Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts.
Hi, I'm a non binary person with just a small little channel about talking about my feelings. You, Noah Finnce and Jammidoger really inspired me to do that. And I hope I'll be as popular and seen as you guys
When she said (paraphrasing) "I believe it's a very entitled way of being to think people should respect your gender identity without you having to prove it first" yeah human beings are entitled to certain things!!! It's not hard!! We are entitled to basic respect from each other. That statement realllly rubbed me the wrong way. It's not even hard to remember pronouns omg. You know what's hard? Having to learn 12 different subjects for GCSE and 16 year olds do that! You can remember a lil she/her, they /them lol
I have seen where Noah did say shut up, and it is hilariously innocuous. "Like shut up... what are you doing?" He said that in a typical British "well, that's just silly" tone, not being remotely mean in his voice. I can kinda see why she didn't include that; he's such a nice bloke that he if she provided context, we'd see his intent. He also explains the video would be the same if it was a man saying that; he's not sexist. That is true, I don't notice him using any sexist terms, only using her pronouns.
Wow Ive only seen the beginning of this but I just watched your How to Tell if Youre Nonbinary video right before this and its so nice to see how much you grew into your identity. Such a stark contrast from this time here 💜
Moe addressing Noah caught me off guard because I zoned out for a sec to look back at Moe saying howdy to Noah and thought i has gone crazy because Moe was speaking to me through the screen. thankfully realized they were talking abt NoahFinnce tho hahahha
Aww you're so adorable! I'm so happy that I came across your channel, I'm still young but have been discovering myself. It's nice to know somebody can relate to how I feel. Thank you!
I used to identify as a trans man, but realized that I wasn't taking it seriously and only liked dressing up like a guy. I still identify as being nonbinary and female, because I feel like it fits better than being male. There was a voice that said I was a guy, but I don't know where it came from. I decided to stop pretending and just be me. I'm AFAB and my pronouns are She/They. It used to be He/They before then. I still like being androgynous and dress up occasionally. I'm also panromantic, but also quoiaromantic/sexual. But I don't want Arielle, even as a friend, if she's shitting on trans people and GNC women.
This is the first and only video I've seen of yours so far, I just think you're cool, dude. I get that admitting to being LGBT+ can be scary, but it's less scary when you realise you're not alone. P.s: I use 'dude' as a gender neutral term. Hope I don't offend anyone :)
My partner is nonbinary. They can't ever transition physically because of a medical condition. So they're stuck presenting masculinly, and they use they them pronouns and just try to get by. It's painful for them never getting to transition. They don't need to dress androgynously to be who they are. Arielle is just really gross.
They can't dress more femininly without medically transitioning. It's not safe where we live. It's not safe for my person to ever be who they are publically, and that's a lot for them to deal with.
I don't understand people like Arielle who aren't trans, yet dedicate so many videos about their opinions on trans people... that's kind of a proof that she has an issue with them, not gonna lie.
If im not medically transitioning, and that means i can’t be considered trans, can you give me a good $5,000 so I can go on hormones and get my breasts removed?? 🥴
I’m currently watching a RUclipsr a fraction of my age and with more logic than the oldest people I know! This is a great well thought out video pointing out real world facts and scenarios and I greatly appreciate watching this. Thank you for using common sense, unlike the majority of society. Keep up the good work.
Thank you for that eloquent breakdown & rebuttal. She needs a therapist & honestly talks more about trans folks, & hating us, than anyone I've seen, on here.
I just subscribed, you speak so well and maturely about the situation. She seriously needs to sort her priorities out. You seem like a really nice person and give me serious Peter Parker energy lol 😂 and I mean that in the best way possible
Ok I've watched a couple of (recent) videos from you and the algorithm blessed me putting this in my homepage and oh wow you came such a long way in just a year! So so happy for you 💕 (I'm referring to the beginning when you said you were uncomfortable talking about your identity, there weren't going to be more videos about this ect) Also that "Hello, my name is Moe" was so effin cute tbh
So basically if I say she doesn't look like a lesbian she's not a lesbian because who you are is how others perceive you... Alright that sounds super logical :)
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Things Arielle should know:
1. The way society sees you is relevant, but it doesn't change who you are
2. If a trans individual doesn't pass, that doesn't mean you can misgender them on purpose
3. There isn't a certain way to "be"/ "look" non-binary, you just are
Farofa Biladeira YES couldn’t have put it better myself
MANO KKKKKKK só pelo seu usuário ser "farofa biladeira" já é uma completa piada
non binary doesnt exist.
skurinski according to psychologists it does though. And you’re dumb as hell if you’re going to try and argue against trained professionals.
@@skurinski damn bro you got the whole squad laughing, did you come up with that yourself
She literally purposely left out Noah answering questions she asked. “We need to define nonbinary” Noah defined it in his video lmao.
Wanted__Fun /DaDdY/ innit? It’s so stupid it’s almost funny (almost)
except what he defined is absolute bollocks
skurinski it’s really not,, if you can’t understand it that is your problem
@@skurinski if u consider life and reality "bollocks," well idk how ur going to handle the rest of your life then... everything exists on a spectrum, idk why that's hard for u, it doesn't do anything to u.... why u gotta create problems that don't exist bro?
She claimed that she left it out because of her mental health. I get that she struggles with anxiety and depression and stuff but it’s not cool to blame stuff on that just because you don’t want to talk about it and have those discussions.
I'm a cisgender Latin American "man". The problem is that I'm gay. In my culture, gays aren't men. Society doesn't view us as men. Therefore, according to Scarcella, I'm not a man? What am I? An E.T.?
LOL
I hope ypu can find somewhere you can be safe and live life fully and happily.
Saludos desde Argentina
Same thing in the middle east they call all gays "third gender"
Well, if you enter america, yes
I’m a Latin America bisexual chick and there’s a lot of homophobia in our culture
"There's not gonna be lots of videos like this anyways!"
Little did Moe know...
ahahahahah whoops
Seems to have turned out pretty well :D
As a older transgender woman how will never pass I thank you for this good for you for doing this video
Alex Roberts no worries, and thank you honestly, comments like this really mean a lot me
@@CopsHateMoe sometime we have to have r say ever if people don't understand
You pass. You are valid.
@@RandomPerson-nn7mj thank you fun iam or a intersex
Everyone worth your time will accept you as a woman ❤️ fuck the haters babes
"Your gender is about how other people see you?"
Okay, so was I not actually bisexual when I was closeted and nobody knew? Or am I not really bisexual if i haven't had sex with either gender I'm attracted to??
these people sound the same way homophobes did 10-20 years ago... "you're not gay until you've had sex with the same gender". Exactly the same.
She not great representation for her own community (lesbians) let alone the trans community. She needs to get off of her high horse and stop letting the internet fame go to head.
If I recall correctly she defended 'gold star' concept before so she would probably think exactly like that and is also very likely to be bi-phobic in general.
@@lora5030 of course she did lol ;(
kinda reminds me of those people who are like "oh, no you're not you just haven't met the right girl/guy" 🙄
And that last quote completely neglects the existence of asexual people.
Also funny how she asks for people to tell what exactly she's doing wrong, and then when she gets her answers she just blocks them lmao
Mev innit?! She honestly contradicts herself ALL the time
L Raven what on hell are you talking about lmao? I never said she had to answer all her comments? I simply said that she shouldn’t block people who disagree with her
@@RavenL1337 that wasn't exactly what i'm trying to say
@@CopsHateMoe that.. XD
It doesn’t feel like Arielle’s opinions are even always hers. It seems like she’s desperately attempting for conservative points, she’s a bit like a cis Blair White
@@rowaneditspeppa3361 "Republicans have different views on how they believe the government should work." Yeah...conservative views. Even "moderate" republicans are conservative. Hell, moderate DEMS are conservative.
"pick me. _choose me._ *_love me._* "
They're all grifters. They all make the same points because they share the same target audience. I don't think I'm making a hot take to say I'm sure the majority of thier audience isn't LGBT. But all thier content is.
Lol this! Apparently she even pulled the "Im not transphobic I have a trans friend" and of course the friend was Blaire lol.
Does she not realize that for many trans people, it's not SAFE for them to present as their gender in certain areas of their life?
Like seriously. It's not entitled to want people to respect your identity, regardless of presentation. It IS entitled for a cis woman to say trans issues affect her.
@Jamie. A trans rights!
Yes!!And some people just present differently. Trans women don't owe them femininity. Trans men don't owe them masculinity and non-binary people don't owe them androgyny. It's that simple! They wouldn't go up to a cis woman/man and tell them they're actually a man/woman because they present different from gender, so why to trans people?
@@Wren796 exactly exactly exactly .
Not only that, the statement comes off also as both classist and potentially ableist: not everyone has the resources to change theor wardrobe, let alone (depending on the country and the the healthcare offered) go through medical and surgical transition; that does not invalidate their identity in any way or form!
At the same time, you may have *adults* who are not completely independent due to health/legal reason (let's think about the guradianship scheme you have in the US: you may be someone who is non-cisgender but without indepence in terms of medical and economical decisions) or that can't possibly access to some specific treatments due to underlying medical conditions, or have liited mobility and can't travel to where gender clinics are.
@@franknstein5376 yup
Being a TERF is a CHOICE so it can't be a slur. The homophobe analogy is spot on.
Being a hoe is a choice too but it's still a slur.
MY gender is how i am, because it’s MINE, other people can’t know what i am because they aren’t ME. only i know what MY gender is, because it’s MINE
Exactly!!!
Gender is MINE *no one else can have it*
*Mom said it's my turn on the gender*
@@Snow-sx5ev you can have the gender, I don't want it
@@heroic_antagonist759 *laughs evily in agender*
I 100% agree with you. I hate the way she thinks that just because she has some trans friends she can't be called transphobic. And I'm happy that even her trans friends are calling her out lmao
Dumbaai Right!? At this point even Kalvin Garrah is saying he thinks she’s being transphobic ahah and if that’s not a sign that you’ve gone too far I don’t know what is.
Saying "I am not racist because I have friends of a different race" or "I am not transphobic because I have friends who are trans" or "I am not homophobic because I have friends in the LGBT+ community" is simply reading as "I can't be any of those things because I filled my quota on that type of person!! Just because you "filled your trans, gay or racist quota" in your mind doesn't make you any less of a racist, homophobe or transphobe!! (I hope that made as much sense in writing as it does in my head.) Hugs and Love Moe, keep telling your truth. BTW I am a straight cis woman and anyone who knows me knows my character, I don't have to say "I am not this that or the other" because people already know, I don't have to say it out loud!!!!
Also saying you have friends from minority groups and then being homophobic/transphobic/racist is saying that you don’t care about whether or not the people you consider friends deserve basic human rights
@@erin8432 Totally agree. It is so beyond me why people can't mind their own business. Why do you care who someone else is? That's their life. I choose my friends on their character, point blank period!!
Ikr? That's such a dumb argument and blaire white also proves that you can be both, trans and transphobic.
You kind of remind me of Jammidodger. You just have the same kind way of behaving. Subscribed
Parrot Does A Sploot DUDE thank you ! that is the BIGGEST compliment ever! I love Jamie!
Agreed, also subscribed.
I thought this as well!
Ikr??? They both have a chill, cheery and wholesome vibe.
CopsHateMoe i agree with what they said and also agree with you that that’s a huge compliment y’all are both very kind and wholesome and mean well with what you say and it’s genuinely comforting to watch yalls videos cause they feel genuine and somehow even in videos like this kinda wholesome
I also wanted to say Arielle has some serious Kaitlin Bennett energy...And that is a slur... 😅
Gay Green PAHAHA oh dear
There basically meant to be
ThX for the heart moe
And now she rebranded harself as a conservative :/
Are you joking?? I’m not sure
As another person named Arielle, I want to wish all trans people, every single one of you, a wonderful day, and remind you that you are valid and worthy and deserving of love! Your identity is valid and deserves to be respected! 🤗
You're the real Arielle, we're forgetting the other one 😆
Such a pretty name tbh
I think you speak very well. You're quite reasonable and provide your perspective without being hateful. If you're this charming at 18, I can't imagine where you will be at 25-30-40, etc. If this is really your only social commentary video, you may want to include more!
Julie ElSan woah thank you so much! Really appreciate that! (And after this video I am thinking about making more commentary ahah)
@@CopsHateMoe you're very welcome. I'm a member of the LGBTQ+ community, as is my sister and son. I watch a lot of what's out there and I totally believe you have a very valuable voice. Continue to share it and let that great personality shine!
Julie ElSan ah thank you so much, this video is gandering more attention than I anticipated, a lot of it being negative too (it was literally shared on a TERF page lmao) so anyway this is really nice
@@CopsHateMoe Listen, this kind of discourse will always receive both criticisms and praise. People can disagree with you while respecting your approach. You aren't hateful or aggressive, this is the way to discuss issues such as these. I, myself, am watching videos on both sides to consider the arguments. I find the respectful, intelligent, informed ones the most valuable. Your first vid out of the gates fits in here, which I believe makes you a valuable voice for both those who agree with you and those who don't to consider. 😊
Arielle does realise that the LGBT+ community isn't just about sexuality, right? Right?
she supports the LGB community
@@j_iris That's not real right...?
Also trans people were the one's who fought for our rights so she can stfu
@@Rainbowztars nah I'm just making fun of her. People will say that when someone supports gay, bi, etc people and act like a big ally, or are gay, bi, etc themselves...but are also transphobic. Like Arielle basically
@@Rainbowztars There's a transphobic "activist" group called the LGB Alliance (which Arielle actually supports and/or is a part of, I believe... but don't quote me on it). There are even trans people who are supporters of this group, and it doesn't make a whole lot of sense. Jamie (Jammidodger) has done at least one video about them. I actually think Noah has also made a video about them. If you feel like getting infuriated (and learning more about it), I recommend watching their videos on the topic.
So, while Julie's comment may have been a joke, that type of mentality (read: "LGB community") is 100% real. In terms of the queer community and queer activism, there is little worse than discrimination within the community itself; it's so damaging, especially when we're all fundamentally fighting for the same thing. It's just so disheartening and disappointing on so many levels. There's enough discrimination and misinformation thrown at queer communities from cishets; the last thing we need is to throw it at each other.
7:59 really got me because i’m a trans guy that can’t medically transition. financially i probably could but i have so many undiagnosable and therefore untreated health issues (one of them respiratory so i can’t bind either) that medically transitioning is a genuine risk to my health and as someone with really severe chest dysphoria that makes me very sad but i’m seeing what i can do but instead of wallowing in misery i’m letting myself be my femboy self because that’s who i am and i’m not gonna make myself miserable over the fact that i can’t transition or break my body binding anyway just because she thinks that we all have to fit her idea of being trans. she has no idea what it’s like and doesn’t give a shit about health she just wants us to bend over backward to be her perfect idea of a trans person. on another note luckily my voice is naturally very very low so i could probably pass in public not to everyone but to most people
and i had a real high voice when i met my boyfriend and i’ve always without question been a guy to him and he’s cis so i don’t see why she sees the need to make such a big deal over it. she’s just making herself tired cause i’m not gonna make my life less happy for a person i’ve never met. i’m julian and that’s that and that makes me very happy.💛
I'm really sorry about your health issues stopping you from transitioning, but you're right, there's no wrong way to be trans and you don't have to fit into any kind of box for your identity to be valid.
Your health is so important and it's good to hear you're taking it seriously, I feel we are/were in a culture that promoted destroying yourself to please cis people and match their ideas of how a trans person should be (a mindset that was unfortunately promoted by other trans people as well)
Take care of yourself, you got this
I'm so disappointed with how Arielle turned out. I remember watching her way back in middle school, and am shocked that she's so full of hate
same! she was one of my first exposures to the lgbt community so i was pretty upset when i realized she doesn't believe in my rights
Not everyone is safe to present as their gender identity. Doesn't change that their gender is part of them.
You can't jump into a discussion that doesn't involve you, without including the voices of those who ARE involved.
It sounds like Arielle is the kind of person who considers only her own opinion and those who agree with her as valid. She sounds like the people who say to lesbians, "you just haven't met the right guy yet."
I'M BLOCKED BY HER TOO and all i did was explain why i found the term "gold star lesbian" hurtful/exclusionary as a bi person
LMAO
She blocks any unpopular trans people /LGBT person that criticizes her shitty opinions..
. I'm glad the Trans people she puppeteer are leaving her and calling her out ❤️❤️❤️
LGBT Hufflepuffs rights. Protect this baby at all cost.
Alba RW hehe thank you
Bruh you're so good-looking
Parrot Does A Sploot Awh man , my heart ! thank you !
Arielle is not a real feminist, she doesn't fight for all women's rights, just the rights of the women she approves of.
NO WAY MY NAME IS MO TOO!!! damn its so exciting finding other people called mo (moe)
also having actually watched the video now, duuude that was so well put like... good on ya for making that and doing it so well
Ahh thank you! And helll yeh! There are hardly any other Moe’s ( or Mo’s) out there! We gotta UNITE !
She needs to order another bale of hay, with all those strawmen she's making.
OOOOOOOOOOOOOHHHHHHHHHHHH DAMN
I agree with everything you said. The main thing that got under MY skin in Arielles video was her basically saying around 7:00 that trans women shouldn't have a voice in the community of womanhood if they do not "pass" because they won't experience "sexism." This is ridiculous! Non-Passing trans women will literally experience transmisogyn which is more deadly than just sexism imo. >.< She just really doesn't have much logic to anything in her video. I support Noah, and the whole trans community.
Sara Couvillon ay thank you! And definitely, her point about “having to experience sex based oppression” in order to be considered the gender you identify was ridiculous. I could make a whole video on that concept alone ahaha
transwomen who pass or not get sl*t shamed too or bullied too. I don't get where Arielle thinks she got her brains from lately...
Myrk Fælinn HAHA that is a big mood
She sounded like a homophobe," oh no I'm not a homophobe just for critiquing people right to exist peacefully"
I feel like her response has offended so many people because she misunderstood Noah's points and is genuinely a bit ignorant despite having trans friends. I do agree with a handful of her points however. Saying TERF is a slur is an overreaction in my opinion as it is just an ideology and the fact that she put that TERF website link in her description just solidifies my belief that she is one since it was just a bunch of our of context tweets saying that TERFs should die. She got defensive about Josh's video and just used it to talk about her views while making noah seem like the bad guy. I agree with views displayed by both noah and Arielle (don't worry I'm not a terf) and by you so I'm not really in anyone's side. All in all I found your video intriguing.
99% of her trans friends have made videos about her saying that they no longer support her and her views. They’ve apologized to everyone for even being associated with her.
I honestly think she doesn't view herself as someome who hates trans people. She however shares misinformation and regularly does things that hurt trans people. She is not as extreme as those terfs that literally call all trans women "sick" and "perverted" but the fact that she's more palatable is what makes her so much more dangerous to the trans community. Because there are a few things she says that many people will agree with, she'll warm people up to transphobic talking points which is really bad.
It's kind of like things are with the alt right. Most of them can behave and are respected because they don't outright say they hate lgbtq+ people/ muslims/ non white foreigners/ jewish people / POC but they still get their audience into a headspace that opens them up to hateful talking points.
(And who would have thought Arielle made a video with the manager of Candis Owens' charity - that might do some good work here and there - but also spreads misinformation about BLM and generally reinforces negative stereotypes about black people)
Arielle blocked me just because I responded one time that autogynephilia wasn't a real thing or based in any factual data. Yet she still goes on to say that no one wants to talk to her or have a conversation with her.
Oml the video she did on it annoyed me sooo much.
I'm a trans guy and Arielle would think I'm a girl. I try my hardest to pass but I'm not able to transition yet. When I can, I'm definitely going to transition. But her brain is like "no she's a girl until she transitions" like wtf?! also i want to go by he/him but i don't have support in my family and with covid they're the one ones i can be around!!
*my pronouns aren't preferred, they're required*
my pronouns aren't preferred, they're required
even when I'm not around, you should get used to the sound
of using he/him as my pronouns
because IM A GUY
I think you all are crazy. In ten years or less you will change to something else, like what ever is in fashion. You are all very young and I hope you don't damage your bodies in the name of transgender "fashion" trends!!
The point you made starting at 11:05 was one of the best arguments I've heard, and I almost started clapping.
chronically_mads ahhh thank you! Haha!
Arielle has let all of the internet fame go to her head. She has become more conservative and right leaning. She needs to get off of her high horse and give the YT career a rest.
right leaning is an understatement.... she's like specifically catering her content to right wing trump-loving men, like girl wtf... there must be some complicated comphet going on in this rebranding idk
Why is she like this? I just can't with her. She annoys me too much.
She's so OBNOXIOUS
I was expecting you to say, “Hello, I’m Moe, and cops hate me”
I mean she's the same person that said Jamie is a lesbian bc he's a trans man dating a cis woman and that they're only "straight", called pre-transition straight trans men butch lesbians, and that trans women aren't women bc they "don't know what it's like to be a woman"(when y'know they are a woman) all in the sense of "ThATs HoW SocIEtY SEes YOu!!"
I’m super glad I stumbled across your channel! I’m a trans man and every you’ve said here is very true. You just got your 600th subscriber :D
Awh thank you
Haven’t finished the video yet but just wanted to say I totally agree with the point you made about being bi at the beginning! If my sexuality was defined by how other people viewed me, I would be straight because of bi-erasing people I’ve encountered 😂
I enjoy hearing "I only have 200 subscibers" then look at the date or early last year, then look at you now having 43.5k subscribers since this was posted! Great work! Stoked for you!
I just watched 1min of her vid and now I'm ashamed that i could have not give her views just by watching yours😳
Great vid anyways
Pagan liminals hahah ayy thank you
Loll it can’t be a slur if it’s based on a choice you made and being a terf is a choice
periodt
I think she knows what is to be oppressed. But she choose to become an oppressor (bully) rather than be the better person
Arielle doesn't wear ugly plaid work shirts or docs. She's got longish hair. I bet she doesn't even play softball. Definitely not a lesbian.
this is from this year!? whoa Moe’s channel has grown so much and they are so much more comfortable with talking about their identity as well it’s in a way fascinating to watch this video for the first time now.
Another problem with Arielle's "You're not trans until you medically transition" is what constitutes medical transition? I mean, Buck Angel and Chaz Bono have both had top surgery but not bottom surgery. Are Buck and Chaz women in Arielle's eyes?
What Arielle is *really* saying is, "You're only trans if you are binary and can pass."
Lol don't worry she did it to me too. Except I recommend you report her Patreon (As they don't allow hate speech and she legitimately posted a anti Islam video on her twitter) As well as report her Twitter. I have only 17 followers but apparently I'm a "BIG" threat.
Evidently this video got more attention than you probably initially thought so I just want to say you are so brave and I’m proud of you for putting your thoughts out there. I spent my young teen years arguing about marriage equality online and now in my late twenties I argue with transphobes online all the time. And the transphobes are a lot more hostile and personal. The fact that I’m not trans doesn’t matter the fact that I disagree with them and I’m a proxy in a culture war they’re having matters. At least the marriage is Adam and Eve crowd mainly quoted scripture at me just left.
So for any hate you may be getting even if it is just in the margins and overshadowed by love and support just know you’re brave and I admire you putting your voice out there at 18.
If she doesn't want to be called a terf, maybe she should stop being one?
I've been struggling a lot with dysphoria, and I wanted to say - thank you for this video. I'm desperately trying to get to the point I pass, but it's been a long and really difficult process, and you reminded me that I'm still valid.
Wait a minute. Wait a damn minute. "I have like 200 subscribers, you can't really even call that a channel" first of all, you're putting a lot of effort in, so untrue, but also wow your channel blew up rather quickly. Nearly 40k in a few months. Awesome job haha
Only one more month and the number jumped to nearly 80k goddamn
@@namine_273 It truly is ridiculous. At least there's a good example of someone putting in the work and getting their desserts. Although it's not like the youtube algorithm doesn't just promote fluff usually -.- I imagine having a channel growing this quickly would be rather overwhelming honestly.
Oh this is that grown woman who does armchair psych analysis of teenagers and people who have disabilities, mental health issues, and lgbtq+ identities... She is so beyond having a valid opinion on these things hon, don't pay her no mind. But thank you for this video, what you said was far more enlightening, intelligent, and empathetic than what I hear from older generations. As a trans woman who wasn't able to find the courage to come out and transition until I was 32, 3 years ago - this content is always helpful to hear
Watching this over a year after you posted it, it's amazing to see how far you've come with your confidence and acceptance of yourself. You're doing such important work!
@Stripes You see 15 mins out of their whole process. And leaving one unhelpful RUclips comment isn’t work, and makes the world slightly worse. Peace.
'i only have like 200 subscribers' *chuckles in the future*
I'm non binary and 50 and it's too late for me to have any surgery, why should I be forced to present as female when it makes me shudder?
The trans and overall lgbtq+ community is blessed to have a legend like Moe on the team 🤟
I was looking for someone that will comment this situation and here I am.
Love your hairstyle.
''I dont know what type of mental gymnastics she's doing but she must have solid abs of steel'' XD thats a great line and im going to use it. I don't know the other peaple your referencing just found this on reddit but its a really nice video. i tend to relate questions of gender identity to quantum mechanics because a lot of peaple don't understand it and unless they go looking for it it's not (visibly) impacting their lives much. but your explaining it a little better and for that i thank you.
Aperture mich haha thank you so much! You’re welcome to use that line whenever ! And also I like that metaphor - I might use that myself!
why does she (a cis woman) have such strong opinions on a community she isn’t even a part of? why does she feel that her opinions are relevant at all?
the sound you made when you started trying to do an american accent sounds like me when i try to imitate/make fun of a southern accent LMAO . anyway, there really is no "american" accent unless i guess you went for the plainest articulate english, but america is so big that different parts of the states have different accents, like i'm from new england (massachusetts/boston personally, and the little group of states in the northeastern-most corner) and there is a distinct Boston accent as well as a general new england accent which is similar but not as strong, then anything below maryland usually has some variation of a southern accent, theres a texas and midwestern accent which is similar to a southern accent in a lot of ways and then theres..... i dont know... whatever they do in california and the west coast (which i guess is what most people would consider a general american accent except i just picture surfer-dude voices and vocal fry like "du-uuuude, raaadical, those were some EPIC waves, braah!" "yah, totally bro, totally" ;)
I agree with everything ur saying!!! I'm so glad u made this video! You also kinda remind me of Jamie and Noah. Btw I love ur hat/beanie.
Moonlit 926 ayy thanks!
Mo: I love this video. You are so articulate, even through the frustration :)
If I could offer you one peice of advice it would be to stay the hell off twitter! It is mind-bogglingly toxic.
peapotfairy ah thank you! Means a lot! And oh god yeah, Twitter is a cesspool haha
If gender really was about how you're perceived that would mean a whole bunch of weird things. When I was 12-13 I had long hair and super feminine features, to the point where I was REGULARLY mistaken for a cis girl despite being a dude. Cis gay dudes or anyone who doesn't conform get bullied in a way that removes masculinity from them, in the minds of the bullies, to prevent them from it threatening their own masculinity. But when a trans woman relinquishes masculinity of her own volition, suddenly the table is flipped and her masculine traits are suddenly recognised as a way to bully or shame her. Bigotry isn't logical, it just serves to further human suffering, plain and simple.
Arielle doesn't even understand what she wants, because her personality seems to be entirely based on being transphobic for clout.
What you're saying is so perfect I could never do it myself
Ah thanks! (I’m sure you could :)
You're a pretty cool kid: kind, respectful, responsible, empathetic. The world needs people like you
Damn, Arielle is all about those oppression points.
This made me so happy, this is very entertaining 😂 the way she tries to be really nice and respectful but then the shade just slips away. Soo good
Roxana Burciu haha! Thank you !
The way you said "hello my name is moe " was so satisfying man
watching your videos is like having a guardian angel
@@CopsHateMoe
yeah she's pretty ...enthusiastic about avoiding people telling her what's up. she wants to talk about all this serious issues, but cant take the heat herself.
btw... i like your outfit. that coat/jacket hoodie is pretty nice :D
Poo to the haters. This is a good response.
I used to watch Arielle when I started college while I was still figuring myself out (I’m a cisgendered bi lady). It’s sad to see she’s of the mindset that trans people need to be a certain way, and has pretty transphobic opinions. :(
Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts.
“This bit tickled my trumpet”
Hi, I'm a non binary person with just a small little channel about talking about my feelings. You, Noah Finnce and Jammidoger really inspired me to do that. And I hope I'll be as popular and seen as you guys
Hey I'll check out your channel!
@@dreamybombstudios724 Thanx! I've not made vids talking about my disphoria yet, but I hope I have time to let it all out
@@dreamybombstudios724 the funny thing is, that when I started it; it was gonna be a cosplay channel. I'll probably still cosplay in it though😂
@@space_dog_zephyr your channel looks cute and you seem really cool! Subbed!
When she said (paraphrasing) "I believe it's a very entitled way of being to think people should respect your gender identity without you having to prove it first" yeah human beings are entitled to certain things!!! It's not hard!! We are entitled to basic respect from each other. That statement realllly rubbed me the wrong way. It's not even hard to remember pronouns omg. You know what's hard? Having to learn 12 different subjects for GCSE and 16 year olds do that! You can remember a lil she/her, they /them lol
I have seen where Noah did say shut up, and it is hilariously innocuous. "Like shut up... what are you doing?" He said that in a typical British "well, that's just silly" tone, not being remotely mean in his voice. I can kinda see why she didn't include that; he's such a nice bloke that he if she provided context, we'd see his intent. He also explains the video would be the same if it was a man saying that; he's not sexist. That is true, I don't notice him using any sexist terms, only using her pronouns.
Wow Ive only seen the beginning of this but I just watched your How to Tell if Youre Nonbinary video right before this and its so nice to see how much you grew into your identity. Such a stark contrast from this time here 💜
"literally no ones gonna see it or im gonna get hate" 110,000 view later we all agree with you
im so glad you made this video! thank you :)
Moe addressing Noah caught me off guard because I zoned out for a sec to look back at Moe saying howdy to Noah and thought i has gone crazy because Moe was speaking to me through the screen. thankfully realized they were talking abt NoahFinnce tho hahahha
You are adorable.
I love how you stuck to your points.
You should of becoming either a lawyer or a journalist.
I just think you did a really job!!
"In my opinion, saying trans men aren't men, and trans women aren't women if they haven't transitioned isn't transphobic."
HUH???
Wish i was this understanding of my own identity & able to stand up for it at 18- good on you!
ah thank you!
Aww you're so adorable! I'm so happy that I came across your channel, I'm still young but have been discovering myself. It's nice to know somebody can relate to how I feel. Thank you!
:: amy awhh thank you!!
I used to identify as a trans man, but realized that I wasn't taking it seriously and only liked dressing up like a guy. I still identify as being nonbinary and female, because I feel like it fits better than being male. There was a voice that said I was a guy, but I don't know where it came from. I decided to stop pretending and just be me. I'm AFAB and my pronouns are She/They. It used to be He/They before then. I still like being androgynous and dress up occasionally. I'm also panromantic, but also quoiaromantic/sexual. But I don't want Arielle, even as a friend, if she's shitting on trans people and GNC women.
This is the first and only video I've seen of yours so far, I just think you're cool, dude. I get that admitting to being LGBT+ can be scary, but it's less scary when you realise you're not alone.
P.s: I use 'dude' as a gender neutral term. Hope I don't offend anyone :)
Why does she have such an evil name lol
i hope you don't mind but you are my big sibling now
I just came back to watch this again and I'm so happy that you seem so much more comfortable talking about your identity now :)
Why does Arielle look so similar to Classically Abby??? Maybe it’s just me lol.
You and Noah are amazing and you're both kind people
My partner is nonbinary. They can't ever transition physically because of a medical condition. So they're stuck presenting masculinly, and they use they them pronouns and just try to get by. It's painful for them never getting to transition. They don't need to dress androgynously to be who they are. Arielle is just really gross.
They can't dress more femininly without medically transitioning. It's not safe where we live. It's not safe for my person to ever be who they are publically, and that's a lot for them to deal with.
I don't understand people like Arielle who aren't trans, yet dedicate so many videos about their opinions on trans people... that's kind of a proof that she has an issue with them, not gonna lie.
If im not medically transitioning, and that means i can’t be considered trans, can you give me a good $5,000 so I can go on hormones and get my breasts removed?? 🥴
As a nonbinary lesbian all of this.
I’m currently watching a RUclipsr a fraction of my age and with more logic than the oldest people I know! This is a great well thought out video pointing out real world facts and scenarios and I greatly appreciate watching this. Thank you for using common sense, unlike the majority of society. Keep up the good work.
I’m binge watching all of your videos. I’m addicted. Help.
Thank you for that eloquent breakdown & rebuttal. She needs a therapist & honestly talks more about trans folks, & hating us, than anyone I've seen, on here.
I just subscribed, you speak so well and maturely about the situation. She seriously needs to sort her priorities out. You seem like a really nice person and give me serious Peter Parker energy lol 😂 and I mean that in the best way possible
Watch your profanities Awh man thank you so much! That’s the biggest compliment hahah
The italian hands in the thumbnail makes me just... MAMMA MIA
Ok I've watched a couple of (recent) videos from you and the algorithm blessed me putting this in my homepage and oh wow you came such a long way in just a year! So so happy for you 💕
(I'm referring to the beginning when you said you were uncomfortable talking about your identity, there weren't going to be more videos about this ect)
Also that "Hello, my name is Moe" was so effin cute tbh
So basically if I say she doesn't look like a lesbian she's not a lesbian because who you are is how others perceive you... Alright that sounds super logical :)