Are African American Women being Targeted in Africa??
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- Опубликовано: 2 мар 2024
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I'm in Egypt not experiencing any of that. I'm out apartment hunting looking for a new view out of my window. I go to the ATM at nite or shopping for food alone. Nobody bothers me. I wear full jewelry and I dress really nice. It's sad to hear some of the stories coming out of W. Africa, another sister, confirmed that black women are getting attacked by Ghanaian women.
Wish you a very happy living. So Egypt is that cool?
@hasheemyusuf6904 If you have the golden parachute passport, the blue one.
@@hybridinfodesk409 got me thinking...
@@hasheemyusuf6904 Thank you!!
it is sad because back in ancient its was very safe for women they could be decked out with the finest silk linen and jewelry and be safe asf. now its not like that anymore so many hungry for money and hate black Americans and don't want them there
Wherever you move. Don't over share with people you don't know. People become overjoyed and over share information that is used against them.
Excellent video. Thank you for sharing.
2 Timothy 1:7 God does not give us the Spirit of fear...
Love your energy and discussion about African American safety. Thank you
There is many aspects to this issue. The country, the quality of law enforcement and policing, the culture and honesty of the locals, your ability to blend in, the people who you socialise with and do business with and the socioeconomic status relative to yours. Your ability to keep your life details, plans and projects secret from those who do not need to know.
Are single black women targeted for exploitation and even deletion? Yes they could be if they allow themselves to be by not taking into account the factors listed above.
The truth is that even a man who does not take these factors into account could invite the risk of deletion and exploitation to himself.
People should stop over sharing information with strangers that is almost always used against them
Powerful, really powerful intellect! A great presentation.
It more or less depends on how you carry yourself for if you come out dressed in silver and gold that will make you a target, but if you come out wearing sack cloth people will go out of their way to avoid you. Thus you must strike the way you carry yourself in the middle as note what I just said goes for women and men. Live a modest life and don't go around flaunting your wealth as that attracts unwanted attention. I heard stories where a man would marry a Filipina woman and almost as soon as everything is settled her family would kill the man so that she could get the life insurance from the government for those that were in the military which was $250K. In America that might not sound like a lot of money but in other places around the world it is.
It's a sad truth that life is cheap to people whom find themselves poor with dreams of making it big by any means necessary. But that is also the case of those that are very rich in that they feel that they can simply buy people and treat them as disposable people that are to be desugared after use. It's a tough world we live in for sure but it's practically bad all over not just Africa as the West and EU countries would have you to believe. As Sandra Bland is dead due to the color of her skin and there are a whole lot more like her that died at the hands of the police in the USA.
So my advice to everyone is just be mindful of how you carry yourself for if you look like pure gold and silver someone will want a piece of you and may even hatch out a plan to take everything from you to include your life so that they can live the dream too.
Responsible commentary.Outstanding.
Brilliant 💫
amazing video...I love the eloquence, spiritual awareness, and fluidity in your voice. I am looking to move to Johannesburg by the grace of God in early 2025 and would love to connect with you. stay safe and continue to put God first sis.
yes, I also think that by 2025 I will have residence in South Africa, certainly in Cape Town, I am leaving Europe and before that the Americas
Correct by faith we will overcome ❤😊
I believe you are entitled to your opinion but only Until you open your mouth and I hear your accent I wouldn’t think you look different or stand out we have 🇿🇦 women who look exactly like you
Im new to your channel What African country where you in before south Africa
Its all in your mind.. have you seen the quality and beauty of whats coming out of Africa... I'm AA and let me tell you... sistas in Africa are super fine..
Always love your content ❤
Glad you enjoy it!
This was great. Stay strong peeps 💛💛💛 it isn’t going to be easy
I dt like this thang a bit
@ashley once more thank you for putting together this wonderful video. We appreciate you. ❤❤
Thanks for watching!
Athens Georgia where the University of Georgia is located is considered one of the safest places in the U.S. But last week one of the female students was brutally murdered while jogging during the day. This did not happen at night. She was murdered during the day!!! They have arrested the suspect who was an illegal migrant from Venezuela. Classes had been suspended but they are now telling all female students from now on to travel in groups and report their whereabouts at all times to the campus security app. And that is in one of the safest towns in the U.S. full of CCTV cameras and lots of security! So please my Sisters you can come here. INCIDENTS CAN HAPPEN ANYWHERE!!! The Gambia is safe. AND YOU DO NOT HAVE TO COME WITH A MAN!! But if you are undecided, you can stay in the Senegambia tourist area which is safe beyond safe. Come for a visit and see for yourself. In the Senegambia area hundreds of women, if not thousands come here alone every year. It is even safer than Athens Georgia!!!
The lady killed was latina by a illegal alien she knew from Mexico
Great content! Love your hair!
Yes they are...😮
Why targeting our own?i am an African and will like to help the Africans in diaspora repatriating back to the continent as much as i can.
Come on Ashley the problem with Africa America Women they try to bring that American negative attitude to Africa, and it’s not going to work. You have to leave that mentally there. Africa is totally difference and yes there are going to be targeted and yes it can be life threaten because you have no protections. I guess they will learned the hard ways. In South African a man can marry up to 4 wives that there custom, a African woman cannot. Oh by the way I will be in JOHANNESBURY later on this year. The young woman I met in Cape Town she going to University of JOHANNESBURY I told her I will come visit her. Peace
Thanks for giving us your perspective and insight on this.
My pleasure!
97 thousand sounds high for America, maybe she means worldwide?
I said it correctly. 97,000 Black women in America.
@@AshleyinAfrika just wanted to be sure, thanks.
Ashley, Thank you for your fearless positivity! It is of extreme importance for us to keep this mindset. I could go on at how fear has stymied our growth as a people. In addition, there must be a mindset of vigilance in diagnosing the minutiae of exactly what’s transpiring in The Gambia (or anywhere), for awareness also combats fear. “… be as wise as serpents but as harmless as doves.”
You are so welcome!
I contend, as a black woman in America we are targeted from all angles. We should not have to experience the nonsense we do at any costs.
How do you handle the flights to/from South Africa?
Watch a couple of movies, eat good, and stretch in between. ✈️
I booked my non-stop flight to South Africa for the night time so that I could sleep. It worked out perfectly. I had no jetlag.
Your videos are well thought out, educational and very much needed. I have followed your experience of Africa as an African leaving in 🇺🇸 and contemplating moving back we should do more to bring together our people and live together harmoniously. And to our AA brothers and sisters, just because you trace your lineage to a specific part of Africa don’t limit yourself. Africa never had borders before colonizers and any one of the 54 countries you should feel welcome and visit or relocate. I have lived with my AA brothers in 🇺🇸 and have come to understand the struggle, educate myself and see very little differences between us. We all should rise together. Please keep u the good work 🫡
You are so beautiful ❤❤
BE CAUTIOUS JUST DONT BE PARANOID.
Big facts a person who is not cautious to a certain degree is a fool
Ashley, it would be great if you could have a forum with investors because many of us want to believe and invest in Africa.
It's always a pleasure to hear you speak.
God bless you and your family.
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Thanks Ashley, we've been hearing about this, so I am happy for the video. I will share it with my friends who are interested in the topic.
Thanks for sharing!!
Hi Ashley, I’m on my way there in 2 weeks to live.
Love you sister
Welcome home dear, I'm from South Africa in Jozi. Wish you nothing but the best of luck ❤️
Amazing, i can't wait to comment the same lol I wish you much joy and happiness ❤ i'm very excited to move.
Welcome home 😊
@@lotus___freedomyou mean from the states?
Excellent breakdown and advice Ashley. Thanks for always being nuanced and balanced in your explanations.
Glad it was helpful!
You have a great business, black South Africans need entrepreneurial skills and stop waiting for government to create jobs. Yeah government has to create jobs but it must be the last thing in the minds of South Africans.
We do not need karanala hariis or any women or cokor ..take it as a warning
Your greatest strength is having the ability to assimilate and understanding different cultures without wanting to change the people but understand where you fit!
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Ashley,you're a prove and example of how safe the continent is,the continent contains everything....the good,the bad,and the ugly.
Every human being have frailty in them,Africans are not exceptional!
Ok i just heard you was in Tanzania which you got alot of more for your dollar
what happened in the gambia? can someone link the story please?
RUclips channel videos titled
Goback2 Africa
He has video of two ladies posing by Africa man younger lovers
They stole her land and house
Happened to five different ladies and men too
But
Even in the USA bad things happen to good people
Peace 🙏
Was it 7 or 6 women? Either way may they all rest in peace. It's all sad and a bit scary
Greeting Ashley, I'm in the Gambia I Love the way you said don't walk in fear but walk fearless. It is true we do stand out . Use it in a positive way the law of attraction is true . One of my friends show me one of the videos about Black women being targeted. My first thought was ok and we come from a country full of crime ever second somebody lose their life . If 6 death happen in 6 month so do you still feel safe.Yes I do because at home 6 death can happen in 6 second. I have been coming back and forth to theGambia since 2021 but last year just like you move from ATL . I have been here for 1 year with my two daughters and I love it. I also do retreat here in Gambia to put that fear behind people mind with the negative things they hear about Africa . My last retreat I did in 10/23 a Mother and daughter come and they bought land and start a garden. A party boat business and register their business so they can do export to the USA . I have assistant many people and encouraging them to think pass fear . Fear whole our people back for many years. When I go to the beach and I see all these white couple on the beach. I wish I see our grandma's and grandpa's feeling fearless. Enjoying life . The media always keep us in fear. Gambia right now is just now getting standard road we all know when they are fixing road and sidewalk. They are coming to steal. We know African American dollar can move things make shit happen. People let think dont get distracted. We are here for a real reason to start school, jobs and business.To reconnect us . To put value back in us with our pride. Stop letting these people trick you out ur spot. Thank You
Thank you so much my Sister. I love it here as well! People, everyone has heard of Affirmations. Your subconscious is in control and projects what we call REALITY on the screen we call LIFE. Affirmations can program your Subconscious, and create your REALITY. If you haven't, please read about NLP ( Neuro-Linguistic Programming ). Our REALITY is programmed not only by the words we hear and see but also by the words we utter. Why do you think the Powers that Be call the shows you see on T.V... PROGRAMS? T.V. PROGRAMS PROGRAM YOU!!! Their is a Myth today that when we talk about something we have to have Balance and mention both the Good, the Bad, and the Ugly. NO, NO, NO NO NO!!! DON'T DO THAT!!! The Secret to Life is simple. If you want to bring down your Heaven on Earth, then follow this WISE old adage, "IF YOU DON'T HAVE ANYTHING GOOD TO SAY, IT IS BETTER YOU SAY NOTHING!!!" PEACE...
Thank you so much my Sister. I love it here as well! People, everyone has heard of Affirmations. Your subconscious is in control and projects what we call REALITY on the screen we call LIFE. Affirmations can program your Subconscious, and create your REALITY. This is NLP ( Neuro-Linguistic Programming ). Our REALITY is programmed not only by the words we hear and see but also by the words we utter. Why do you think the Powers that Be call the shows you see on T.V... PROGRAMS? BECAUSE T.V. PROGRAMS PROGRAM YOU!!! There is a Myth today that when we talk about something we have to have Balance and mention both the Good, the Bad, and the Ugly. NO, NO, NO NO NO!!! DON'T DO THAT!!! When you talk about the Bad in a place or person, you are helping to MANIFEST IT! The Secret to Life is Simple. If you want to bring down your Heaven on Earth, then follow this WISE old adage, "IF YOU DON'T HAVE ANYTHING GOOD TO SAY, IT IS BETTER TO SAY NOTHING!!!" PEACE...
Well said Sister. Keep going!
You stand out because you are American . No matter where you go , Americans are targeted because they think you are rich and get get them to the American dream . But sadly American dream no longer exists.
Exactly this
Common sister you serious😂? But it's true though.
@@hasheemyusuf6904 Why do you think though passport bro things it’s easy to find a traditional wife in other countries. Because of the American dollar and the possibility of them coming back to the US.
@@Goddess_Infinity I won't say no. But about the passport bro thing, it's not every culture that's open to foreigners. For example like mine, you gotta have some certain standards, principles and morals for someone to be qualified for marriage especially how African Americans are portrayed. And for those ones that are gravitated towards foreigners, they are view as gold diggers.
As someone who migrated from Africa to the US…… I encourage people to make well informed decisions.
How do you like it thus far?
@@Bambi7ish been good. 10yrs and still counting.
I think it'll benefit other Africans moving out of their country , not us south Africans
@@princedzambukirado you invest back into Africa even doe you live in USA
@@sherwindlamini5995well south Africa is a little more stable far as pay
You make me want to go back to tru love Africa
VERY FRUITFUL INFO SIS
Interesting.
Ashley, my take on it is that LAND is a huge issue in Africa. It is the "last line of defence". Land issues are extremely sensitive. I would have advised them to concentrate on building schools , hospitals etc.
Advise who? African diaspora or African governments?
@@felixmakinda7689 advice anybody who has intentions of buying land in Africa.
In Japan Tokyo a square meter of land will cost you a million bucks.
@@felixmakinda7689you sound like you are the government or working with them
@@ZaharaImole I asked a question. I needed clarification.
Romantically speaking,definitely 1000% true,I don't think there's any man on the continent who wouldn't shot their shoot at a beautiful African American woman lol.But in terms of people trying to harm you guys,I don't think that's necessarily true,I doubt those women were harmed because they were African American,they were just in the wrong place at the wrong time,anyone can fall victim to something like that if they're not careful. Please don't fear for your life or anything,the majority of men on the continent are good people,it's just a few bad apples here and there,as long as you have a good circle that cares about you you got nothing to worry about.
Independent women not just African Americans will always be targeted especially in rural Africa. In towns or cities, you can live peacefully without the person next door knowing what you own or how you live. Our societies are patriarchal and there are some practices which should be outdated but are still practiced especially by the uneducated members of the community. Those create room for exploitation and targeting of women. The concept of independent single woman is relatively new in African societies. Even widows were supposed to be inherited by brothers or close relatives of the late husband for “security”. Men want to own you, but this isn’t the case around Nairobi because the dominant community is matriarchal and single independent women isn’t a foreign concept here. Other towns in Kenya are improving in that dimension. Thanks for sharing your experiences.
@@CoderCoder-px4bd you're right. For someone without a solid financial background, climbing the social and economic ladder in Africa isn't easy. However, I believe that if you have money, it's much easier to build an empire in Africa because there are many opportunities to be explored. I am talking about Kenya especially. Africa is diverse. Kenya is equally diverse but Nairobi is quite open to "outsiders". Life will even be easier when one moves here with their spouse rather than expecting to find a spouse here. Our men are easily intimidated by more educated, empowered or moneyed women. Intimidation means that such men will tend to be violent and insecure in relationships. However, I really encourage you to visit Kenya as a tourist. You may love some aspects.
I think part of getting integrated into a new society is figuring out where you stand, your caste (for lack of better word). When we are in the US, no matter how much we earn, we are still associated with a particular caste. And so we tend to find comfort in those circles. When we move to the African continent, the community places us in another class. Some of us reject it and others are completely unaware. This is where some of us are having trouble. For example, some of us go for renting that house for $200 per month. But we don't realize how that is like Oprah renting an apartment in the projects and complaining that people keep scamming her and asking for money 😂. It's not that extreme, but a similar concept. I've learned to accept my new caste and learn from the locals and from foreigners who have been here long term how to stay safe.
What's the religion you were required to change to in Tanzania
Because of recent history in Tanzania. The first question you will be asked is are you a Christian or Muslim? Almost equally dominant , but they live in peace.
Muslim is Dominant Religion.....
In Gambia or ather countries not in S.A. Ashly your are a good example because with us in S.A. all women are the same and our goverment does not tolerate mishandling of children, lesbians and gays and including women.
South Africa has one of the highest rates of Sx Asslt on the continent, does it not?
@@jj51424 I agree with you becouse other countries hide those statistics but we report them but other countries don't . Other coutries hide their statistic .
But our goverment has famulated a law against the LGBT .
I worked as a Saps member and they usually happens at taverns or at home between two lovers especialy when they are drunk.
I was trying to say we South Africans are trying to combat this. Gambia targets African American women. Maybe you don't know what happents in Gambia.
The U.S. is worse than here. Please do research first before writing an article.
Thank you Ashley you are the daughter the soil. Well come home.We South Africans love you and we follow you on u tube.
I'm not sure why you would say targeted. You stand out and the men may want or love the difference. My goodness, just enjoy the attention unless it's feels unsafe.
The definition of targeted: select as an object of attention or attack. I don't love the word either, but it is being used in this context
@@AshleyinAfrikayep . That's the word used by people who are sharing these videos. You were addressing the notion.
I think if a person doesn't feel safe, feels harassed, or made to feel uneasy, or uncomfortable then that word would apply. You did not say the above in your narrative. Which led me to think less intrusive behavior occurred: If it's flirtation, maybe be overeager, constantly giving compliments or asking you out a lot I wouldn't use the word targeted.
@@Seeta_sa_gauta I was addressing the definition. It has a very direct negative connotation.
@@jenetwaldenmills8643 . The blame should be laid at the door of RUclipsrs, especially brothers from the States and African brothers. They pay no attention to the words they use or , what they say . Toy soldiers .
Do you feel it is more challenging for an older (anything above 30) "colored" (or considered colored) woman in South Africa to find a husband that doesn't prefer "White" to marry? To me it seems like there's an obsession with romanticizing the idea of "colored" children.
South Africa is a black majority country. The majority of marriages are between black people themselves. The coloured people came about as a result of miscegenation between whites and other races; blacks, Asians and others. To avoid intergrating them with black people and also not wanting them to be part of white society, they declared them a separate race. A race that has evolved with it's own culture and language.
Is there intermarriage between the races? Yes there is, but is their an obsession for coloured babies? Far from it, black South Africans love themselves and are beautiful as they are without wanting to be coloured or have coloured babies.
Maybe i have not experienced that yet. Especially in Western Cape town. @@josephshonga178
2:02 i guess women were safer in the past than currently times 😳
Please change that thumbnail picture, it makes it seem like you take this as a joke.
Don’t tell others what to do with their channels please 😮
Great video, I'll say that a deficit comes into play, for many men, that in spite of your outer appearance, we ask questions: Where is there father(s), why didn't things work out? They'll also wonder if your mindset is "boss or wife". Most of us don't want to deal with it. Sleeping with you and keeping you ARE different things. These aren't digs against any women in the situation, just a counterpoint.
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Lady, there's a whole community in South Africa that looks like you. So no, you don't stand out, its only until you speak that we would know youre not local. Americans living in SA often blend in, its not a new phenomenon and certainly not a novelty to a point where men would target you. Come-on lady, this is an unfair narrative and a dangerous one.
Thanks for sharing your perspective
She actually looks darker than some black South Africans.
@@AshleyinAfrikahe or she sound like a mad person I'm a BLK American staying in Nigeria and we are definitely rare here but places like Kenya,Ghana,south Africa is more common to have blk Americans then other countries I think you stood out more in Tanzania then SA
Africa is not safe long term. Got to have a strong military
M sure you aware Africa is not a country
@thokomalangcobo1824 none of the states have any strong military
Please read a book
@@Goddess_Infinity u read a book
Of the 54 countries in Africa none have a decent military can't protect their own borders
I understand what you are saying, but I think you lost the argument when you started talking about "victim shaming". You stopped whatever you wanted to say just to appeal to them.
She can't compare Black American women to living in Africa and the death rates. There are more Blck Americans in USA so of course the statistics will be higher. Blck American people must understand that the continent of Africa is an entirely different culture and they may as well move to Spain or Germany. The motherland is a myth......
what a silly comment
@@AshleyinAfrika Yes...your comment is quite silly. You can't compare Blck American women being targeted in America with Africa. The only similarity is that the targeting is being done primarily by Blck men. You're in a country and on a continent where women have very little rights. i.e. If a man beats his wife the likely outcome will be that the woman will be asked "what did you do to upset him." African countries are the majority of the Top 10 list of countries where women have very little rights if any rights at all and I don't mean women's lib or feminism either. Just basic rights. The chances of the perpetrator being arrested if he harms a woman in Africa is slim that's if they go after him at all. A single blck woman living in Africa makes it much worse for them. IMHO....it's foolish for a single woman with children to immigrate to a country in Africa where women have even less protection or rights.
How do your children father or fathers feel about your move to Africa and how will he have a role in their lives?
Be careful cuz y'all can't be actin' brand new like y'all do in the States.😂