How To Sound Confident In English (Even When You’re Not!)

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  • Опубликовано: 27 янв 2025

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  • @azizali5193
    @azizali5193 4 года назад +55

    this woman is epic, I mean all her videos that I've watched so far, describe the exact experience that I'm going through, these videos just relieve me and make me feel that I'm not the only one, thanks a lot for all the efforts and the experiences you're sharing with us, this is exactly what an English learner should watch and follow. I gotta say that even though most of other channels and videos of English learning made by native speakers are so helpful, they're irrelevant compared to this channel. good job Hadar I really appreciate this and good luck

    • @ewanfuentes215
      @ewanfuentes215 2 года назад +1

      Im 110% agree Aziz Ali, aside from being energetic all the time her positivity is so contengious. You’ll feel encougrage because she feel you as a non-American speaker. She’s amazing 🤩

  • @-flabber6663
    @-flabber6663 4 года назад +22

    Hadar, my confident to speak English is much higher than the criticism of the native speakers, coz I'm speaking two languages and he or she just one. Doesn't matter if my English is good or bad, I try my best!

  • @davidm.8299
    @davidm.8299 4 года назад +13

    I have been studying and practicing English for almost 20 years now but this is the first time I will pay attention to my intonation and rhythm, this couch is amazing and I am pretty sure that following her advise in a year I will speak in a totally different way more confident and eloquent, Thank you for helping us in a way nobody ever did !!!! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻✨

  • @SoulAndGarden
    @SoulAndGarden 2 года назад +5

    I had a trauma in public speaking 3 decades ago. Until now I'm still struggling with my nervous voice when talking to people. Thank you Hadar, it's never too late for me to find my true voice and be as confident as I'm supposed to be. I'm practicing with you everyday. Cheers from the Philippines 🇵🇭.

  • @stepha-e7
    @stepha-e7 3 года назад +1

    I love the way she explain, because I'm pretty sure that all of us have those problems with the confidence.
    And she is like: Common! Just Speak even if you make mistakes.

  • @anyangthiep8802
    @anyangthiep8802 4 года назад +3

    My one take away is I want to talk like I know what I'm talking about. Because I do know what I'm talking about. Speak with confidence and self assurance. My second take away is for me to know every situation I have to use the words that will empower me and not diminish what I'm trying to say. Good attitude and authority matters. Thank you so much💐💓🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

  • @ngoctrucnguyenhoang5431
    @ngoctrucnguyenhoang5431 3 года назад

    I used to like Rachel English but I love you now. The way your teaching pronunciation is a light for my studying speaking English. thank you so much. love you Hadar.

  • @lalalanding234
    @lalalanding234 Месяц назад

    My takeaway, is that, you have to prepare!!! Thank you...
    My first language is English but I wanted to inform general sound confident, and key to that is preparing

  • @Georgiana400k
    @Georgiana400k 4 года назад +58

    Dude you almost solved my entire life with this. 🙌🏼

  • @edwindilag4470
    @edwindilag4470 4 года назад

    I will do the preparation. Because in preparing, I'll be able to adjust my voice, intonation, find the suitable words, watch my attitude or myself in the mirror, and correct my pace in a voice recorder. All these things are necessary to boost my confidence.

  • @lpasgsni522
    @lpasgsni522 Год назад +1

    My admiration for your incredible skills as an educator. Your ability to teach the complexities of the English language clearly and engagingly is truly impressive. You have a natural talent for inspiring learners and igniting a passion for learning within them. Thank you for all that you do and for sharing your gift with the world.

  • @zeeshanfarooq7180
    @zeeshanfarooq7180 3 года назад

    Pace ...is the most imoprtant thing i want to focus on ..
    I was literally confused about it and never thought about it ..
    But you directly told me how to work on it...

  • @shumailashahzad1456
    @shumailashahzad1456 3 года назад

    I don't know how you can understand and read the minds of people and I like your way of teaching and I really wish I can speak like you ❤

  • @sha6267
    @sha6267 4 года назад +17

    Watching Hadar is one of the best things I do in this lockdown!!

  • @mamymimma
    @mamymimma 4 года назад +3

    True, and if you keep smiling, you'll end up feeling happier ♡

  • @anadefatimasilva1930
    @anadefatimasilva1930 4 года назад

    You are talking exactly how I am feeling. I usually say in a conversation ":sorry I don't speak English so well"" now I will remember you,.
    Thanks a looottt!!

  • @bilkang2437
    @bilkang2437 4 года назад

    Thanks you so much Hadar, daughter of Tsion, I'm really grateful to you all the time. You're best teacher

  • @anyangthiep8802
    @anyangthiep8802 4 года назад +1

    My take away is I'm gonna start paying attention to my voice, intonation the words that I choose, I will definitely pay attention to my attitude, as well of pace I use and preparation is a key as well.

  • @rebecapadilla8261
    @rebecapadilla8261 3 года назад

    Thanks Hadar, you are my English Teacher now and then. I have been learned more topics in English since I see your videos

  • @ivomoreira42
    @ivomoreira42 4 года назад +16

    btw, another outstanding and absolutely worthwhile video, as always. Thank you, Hadar! You're such an adorable person with an admirable talent for teaching!

  • @Mudda33
    @Mudda33 4 года назад

    Hadar, I really appreciate your help.
    definitely you have the point "fake it until you make it"

  • @ASha-di1zt
    @ASha-di1zt 2 года назад

    Many great points here, especially on intonation, language, preparing.

  • @Jorgealbertorincon
    @Jorgealbertorincon Год назад

    Awe! Hadar, you are pretty amazing. I discovered your channel one week ago and I felt... inspired and motivated by your content.

  • @ravindradhumal8201
    @ravindradhumal8201 4 года назад

    preparation is the key. thanks

  • @dorotheap.8306
    @dorotheap.8306 2 года назад

    The intonation of the sentences.. and my attitude. Thank you this is helping a lot

  • @supplychainsants
    @supplychainsants 3 года назад

    Vocabulary! I have realised and learned that vocabulary is a powerful ingredient to speak and express feelings. You do magic in your presentations b'coz of selection of effective words.

  • @fernandomilicich8160
    @fernandomilicich8160 4 года назад +1

    Being as a foreingner, You are a really american woman. Thanks a lot Hadar. Greetings from Argentina

  • @johnpaulbalanquit7893
    @johnpaulbalanquit7893 2 года назад

    I have been in Aphasia that I may help in this, Ma'am Hadar. God bless you all.

  • @zahoorahmadkhan5067
    @zahoorahmadkhan5067 4 года назад

    The complete video is excellent but for me the real takeaway is the power of words. I just learned that how by choosing powerful words, one can feel confident and show confidence.

  • @maried.1831
    @maried.1831 2 года назад

    Attitude and Preparation.

  • @Hoorubb
    @Hoorubb 3 года назад +2

    I so want you to see this comment! I'm an English Literature student, we read books, watch documentaries, in short everything that helps improve one's English speaking skills.But I've started noticing something. Whenever I'm communicating with other people, my brain stops putting words into sentences, things that could have been said in one or two lines, it takes me a whole paragraph to explain them. I can watch films without subtitles, I'm good at vocabulary too but this thing this fear just won't go away! Please help 😭😭

  • @SunshineSurfsup1
    @SunshineSurfsup1 4 года назад

    You're the best on YT for V/Os for ESL or otherwise! Stellar coaching. I watch daily at least once a day. (Side Note: Your hair is amazing! Part genetics for sure, but you clearly know how to make curly/wavy hair look great every time. Hard to do! :)

  • @patriciaaguilerajb007
    @patriciaaguilerajb007 4 года назад +1

    Teacher: I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!!! Words alone cannot convey how grateful I'm for your helpful channel!
    May God bless you! Hugs from Brazil!

    • @hadar.shemesh
      @hadar.shemesh  4 года назад

      You just conveyed all those emotions! Love♥️🙌

  • @DJJLA
    @DJJLA 4 года назад

    Hello, I am Latin and I have been trying to learn English for a long time, when I see your videos I look very carefully at the articulation of your mouth and it allows me to imitate what you say, although sometimes because of the speed I don't know what it means. I'm watching a lot of videos and they look great.

  • @yooj2004
    @yooj2004 3 года назад

    voice
    intonation
    vocabulary
    attitude
    pace
    preparation

  • @markcovas2577
    @markcovas2577 4 года назад

    The best teacher in the internet! Congratulations!!

  • @CarlosGarridoSv
    @CarlosGarridoSv 4 года назад +1

    Thank you ! Your videos are helping me so much!!!!!!

  • @den9009
    @den9009 2 года назад

    Had,Hey!!!This is Fabulous Lesson!!! Gratitude 🙋🤝✊💎

  • @vt1370
    @vt1370 3 года назад

    It is obvious you have worked so hard to become who you become , you are beautiful , strong and you give us that strengt !!!🙏🙏 thank you ,,,,,that was awsome 😎👍

  • @csat2710
    @csat2710 2 года назад

    Am gonna work on my intonation and pace these two thing I need to improve. Very importantly thanks for your valuable suggestions. Thank you ma'am.

  • @ricardogalvan2202
    @ricardogalvan2202 4 года назад +2

    I have always wanted to sound more fluently speaking english, but I just realized that I'm not fluently even in my native language, so I will take your advices to be more fluently and confident in both languages. Thank you so much Hadar!

    • @lizgaby9761
      @lizgaby9761 Год назад

      You sound like me haha

    • @dmitriizheleznikov2949
      @dmitriizheleznikov2949 Год назад

      Speaking test is a nigthmare, I wouldn't pass it in my native language because I'm slow thinker. I tried to shadow characters in movies and once realized that I don't speak so fast in Russian, so how I can do it in any foreign language 😁 so I stopped caring... until IELTS... will see

  • @pattycandle3596
    @pattycandle3596 4 года назад

    Hello from France ! The most important thing for me right now is working on my voice and intonation.
    Thank you for this video!

  • @ademyildizlanguages
    @ademyildizlanguages 4 года назад

    I don't really remember what was the last time I apologized for my English. For now I'm really so busy on my own and I'll have to rewatch this video to leave a comment from where I should start first.
    Hadar you make me proud of my English !

  • @sheenamol.k3785
    @sheenamol.k3785 3 года назад

    I really loved the way of teaching. I ve to improve my fluency. After watching this video I feel very confident to speak English.

  • @fernandotriana7961
    @fernandotriana7961 2 года назад

    Very good advice, I'm shadowing you at the same pace as you are speaking and I've been improving a lot my pronunciation, intonation as well as the pace, and so many other things " hugs from Cali Colombia"

  • @azizaitait7911
    @azizaitait7911 3 года назад

    Your lessons are perfect foR My level.
    I started learning english before one year, but the problem it's that I didn't use it so I lose it, I was thinking because my level but I realize It's not, Now I trying everyday to speak like a native language by watching videos with normal why, so I feel comfortable and safe.
    Thank for You and the other coaches in RUclips 🙏🌹❤️

  • @mehriaalbert6263
    @mehriaalbert6263 4 года назад

    Excellent class...You are amazing. To answer your questions, all the above. 🌷

  • @stephaniet6114
    @stephaniet6114 4 года назад

    So many things you talk about in your videos resonate with me, especially the ones dealing with language insecurity. I think my choice of words and my negative self-perception as a non-native speaker of English sometimes get in the way of what would otherwise be a successful interaction. Still got a lot of work to do, but I'm glad I stumbled upon your channel, Hadar! :)

  • @gabylopez6990
    @gabylopez6990 3 года назад

    Each time I understand you more , thanks !!!!

  • @macmohanku
    @macmohanku 4 года назад

    Just found your channel today and I already feel like that I have changed my life. thanx, a lot.

  • @adrianarufinosiqueira829
    @adrianarufinosiqueira829 4 года назад

    You are my best inspiration!!!! Thank you so much!!!!

  • @rafaelatakami8019
    @rafaelatakami8019 4 года назад +19

    My biggest problem is speaking fast. Even in my native language, when I get nervous in a presentation, or talking to too many people, I get anxious and start speaking too fast. So in English, I speak too fast and make even more mistakes for that reason. I need to control myself, but it's sometimes really hard. Thank you for the video, you have the best tips! :)

    • @hadar.shemesh
      @hadar.shemesh  4 года назад +4

      I’m happy it helped! Yes, when we speak fast in our native language we can get away with it, but we can’t get away with it in English

    • @rafaelatakami8019
      @rafaelatakami8019 4 года назад

      @@hadar.shemesh yes, it's so hard, I get so ashamed

    • @linguamus
      @linguamus 4 года назад +1

      ​@@rafaelatakami8019 You should not ashamed never ever! 'cause you are learning another language it's a great job! You can watch my videos on my channel Linguamus and see how to speak with big confidence

    • @rafaelatakami8019
      @rafaelatakami8019 4 года назад

      @@linguamus oh great, I'll check your video. Thank you :)

    • @helenreigns4273
      @helenreigns4273 4 года назад +1

      You not alone sis ,very many people do it but you just need to be selective

  • @faraonahorus7923
    @faraonahorus7923 Год назад

    My teacher Hadar is the best teacher I have ever met. She is also the most beautiful because of her long hair and she looks like a diva.

  • @narayanasaamala4274
    @narayanasaamala4274 4 года назад

    Power of Process

  • @obensonjustin1440
    @obensonjustin1440 4 года назад

    My amazing teacher you are the best forever ,great lesson beautiful voice

  • @nlipskaya
    @nlipskaya Год назад

    You are so charismatic! Thank you so much for your vids❤

  • @parasverma2323
    @parasverma2323 4 года назад

    I saw your video for the first time cuz I found it so relevant...and this video is too good...I hope it would help me. I'll see all your videos now and recommend others to do so.... Thank you ma'am

  • @volodymyrlysianskyi2745
    @volodymyrlysianskyi2745 Год назад

    Thank you very much, Hadar. Probably the first thing I would better work on is voice.

  • @gopalchand4993
    @gopalchand4993 3 года назад

    Thanks so much Hadar for sharing such a valuable vedio.

  • @milagrosvirginiacastanedaa5065
    @milagrosvirginiacastanedaa5065 2 года назад

    Definitely my preparation

  • @sm.martin
    @sm.martin 4 года назад

    Transmitting the idea that you are trying to communicate and achieving it, is the most powerful strategy I ever experimented to get and feel confidence. Since then I know that focus in communicate with passion drives the complete strategy. Thanks.

  • @ravindradhumal8201
    @ravindradhumal8201 4 года назад

    Hadar u always understand our need.

  • @dianaqv9099
    @dianaqv9099 3 года назад

    Love this channel ❤❤❤
    I've recently found this channel. And it changed like almost completely my point of view. Love it

  • @orlandoandrade9829
    @orlandoandrade9829 4 года назад

    Hadar,You are a wonderful teacher. I loved this video.

  • @delriomaribel
    @delriomaribel 3 года назад

    This is a remarkable video, she speaks clearly and delivers her message in a successful way. Now its time to start practising her tips and slow down when I speak. I like her energy, glad I found her.
    Thank yous, Hadar.

  • @heloisaquirino8417
    @heloisaquirino8417 3 года назад

    The best teacher ever

  • @santodebiasi4341
    @santodebiasi4341 4 года назад

    Good Teacher, You are the best!

  • @johncano3972
    @johncano3972 2 года назад

    MY TAKE AWAY IS THAT YOU'RE AWESOME..!! THANKS FOR ALL YOUR USEFUL INFORMACION...

  • @mariadelosh1398
    @mariadelosh1398 4 года назад +1

    Hi Hada
    God Bless You. I’m so excited that you’re going to be part helping me to improve English. I wish I know how to express myself and tell you how great-full I’m.Next step is to improve my vocabulary and learned how to express myself. I need to slow down ,speak slowly
    I need to prepare to write beautiful things that’s coming next. I’ve good attitude. It’s going to take time it’s so many things that I need to improve and with your help and other teachers I feel confident. I’ve to practice diligently. I need to learn how to do videos I’ll ask my son

  • @777afsal433
    @777afsal433 4 года назад

    I have watched a lot of videos to learn the accent and proper pronunciation of words. Out of all, Hadar's videos have been the most helpful and worth keep watching through the accent betterment journey. Thank you so much Hadar.

  • @nicolaibecerrozki1724
    @nicolaibecerrozki1724 4 года назад +1

    Great video. Thanks once again. I'll share it.

  • @ElaineSantos-mm9ku
    @ElaineSantos-mm9ku Год назад

    After I saw your video I started to understand my situation 😔
    Thank you so much you are making a huge difference in my daily life from now 🙂

  • @trendtalker207
    @trendtalker207 Год назад

    Hi Haddar. Great content as usual 😉 For me the vocabulary is a point of honor I must improve and enrich.

  • @johannmerchan
    @johannmerchan 4 года назад

    Great Vídeo! When I'm relax my English is more fluent! thanks a lot Haddar! Greetings from Venezuela

  • @gabrielbadilla2191
    @gabrielbadilla2191 4 года назад +1

    I´ll work with my voice, intonation, and preparation because I feel my writing and listening are stronger than my grammar and speaking

  • @HerdyHutabarat
    @HerdyHutabarat 3 года назад +1

    Thank you very much that you always encouraging us to be more brave in trying something over and over again eventhough sometime we make mistakes.. The way you teach is inspiring..

  • @fernandamarques5691
    @fernandamarques5691 3 года назад

    I Loved this video!!!!! Because i have to stop apologize myself!!!! It is the first thing i say when i do the environment lecture for americans on board at a rig. I am braziilian. Thanks a lot!!!!

  • @muniraalharbi5513
    @muniraalharbi5513 4 года назад

    Thank you . I am working on my voice , attitude and the choice of the words.

  • @chanchan-rd2tg
    @chanchan-rd2tg 4 года назад

    Love you so much.watched all your Chanel and sooooo agreed with u!u r so nice. I always confuse about how to improve my English.but after ur video. Obviously I find the best way to learning English!

  • @thesoumbakchannel8618
    @thesoumbakchannel8618 4 года назад

    Hadar, you are Amazing teacher and smart

  • @jordanalfaro9877
    @jordanalfaro9877 4 года назад +1

    I am so glad I found you! My problems, I believe, are intonation, the “z” sound (I don’t know the rules of when to use it with a word that is spelled with an s, like “was” and when to elongate a vowel, like I just noticed on one of your videos, for example”feel”. I will look to see if you have already cover that topic and if not, I would love to see a video on that subject. You give me hope! Thank you from the bottom of my 💜!

  • @ivomoreira42
    @ivomoreira42 4 года назад

    The intonation is absolutely important in my mother tongue. Actually, either a statement and a question both are written the same way, the difference lays in punctuation "!/?". In other words, the spoken language is all about intonation: rising-rising for questions; rising-falling for statements. Furthermore, the word order is pretty flexible in order to change the emphasis of the sentence, when the intonation get even stronger. That said, I'm gonna practice my English intonation skills.

  • @Eduardo_Music8560
    @Eduardo_Music8560 Год назад

    Hello Hadar, good afternoon! I greet you with a lot of pleasure on this Saturday. This is the first time I publish a comment in any of your videos, through my cell phone. I have seen your videos since 2020, first on my computer, but now in my cell phone I have account on RUclips to post in videos. Congratulations for this video, it's one of my favorite ones of your channel. Greetings from Sonora, México 🇲🇽 🥰 👍...

    • @hadar.shemesh
      @hadar.shemesh  Год назад

      Thank you, and thank you for the comment ❤️🥰

  • @LeandroGabriel79
    @LeandroGabriel79 4 года назад

    Great video.
    I'm currently struggling with lack of confidence. But, answering your final question, definitely preparation. But I also need to pay attention to pace and attitude...

  • @axelfoly9260
    @axelfoly9260 4 года назад

    Thanks a lot !! You are amazing teacher and coach-psychologist! Watching your videos for me is like meeting with an old good friend.

  • @Tatiana.11
    @Tatiana.11 4 года назад +2

    Thanks fot the tips!! They're really useful. Sometimes what use to practice my speaking skills is the shadowing technique with youtube videos, but the thing is that I feel very thirsty and I get tired while speaking, I don't know why, and it stops me from practicing :/

  • @Juniorsaxplayer
    @Juniorsaxplayer 4 года назад

    Hadar, you have NO IDEA about how inspiring and helpful you've been to me and my English students in Brazil!!!! YOU ARE AWESOME!!!! Thank you sooo much for such precious tips!

  • @andreadickinson3076
    @andreadickinson3076 4 года назад

    very good class thank you I will apply it !

  • @ahmedzahra2440
    @ahmedzahra2440 4 года назад

    Excellent coach , Hadar

  • @SwarBhati
    @SwarBhati 3 года назад

    Hi !! Thank U Hardar Your voice is so confident . I also want to be like that much of confident .🙏🙏From India Myself Swar

  • @lubbonkazotova4563
    @lubbonkazotova4563 3 года назад

    Stop apologising is a great tip

  • @capdevi2
    @capdevi2 4 года назад

    I think your are wonderful as a person,. as a woman and as a teacher.... I appreciate so much your lessons and I try to take the most of them.. By the way, you're very pretty.. don't worry for your height... It's a pleasure for the senses seeing and listening you

  • @haroldojoserodrigues3060
    @haroldojoserodrigues3060 Год назад

    RUclips recomended this chanell for me (june/2023), very good.
    From Brazil.

  • @suzi12blue
    @suzi12blue 4 года назад

    Thank you for all you do to help and encourage people like me who are not native English speakers.

  • @ZahraAsi
    @ZahraAsi 5 месяцев назад

    I enjoyed listening to you. Great points

  • @marymc6701
    @marymc6701 4 года назад

    Hi Hadar! You khow that you are actually (teaching)! Not like the other teachers in RUclips!
    You Rock! you really are.
    You give us a huge amount of information.
    Every single second of your videos is worthy. and I swear I've learnt a lot. I hope you are having a wonderful time !

  • @hernancordobab.4666
    @hernancordobab.4666 4 года назад

    Definitely, I'll stay with you, I love your point of view to teach. You're good-looking as well!

  • @Krishna-ts3pm
    @Krishna-ts3pm 4 года назад

    I believe this video will definitely help me to become more confident while speaking in english.

  • @Shivdas-nl5pk
    @Shivdas-nl5pk 4 года назад

    Thank you so much 😊 for the tips.

  • @FaressAlger
    @FaressAlger 4 года назад

    Thanks Hadar