To be seen, to have others want to see you, to accept a compliment, to accept yourself, to begin see yourself as the beautiful thing you are, what a challenge! Thank you for this 💖
I’m struggle with this too, girl. I feel so much freedom alone. I feel like it’s the only time I have permission to be myself fully, to dress and act like I want, do what I want, feel how I feel without apology. When I’m around people, when I feel perceived, I feel like I have to be someone else. I have to blend in, be quiet, be like everyone else, so I’m not judged or put down. I know it’s a childhood wound from rejection from family and friends. But now that I’m an adult and provide my own safety, it’s something I have not been able to shake. My apartment is still my sanctuary.
My deepest wound as well. It feels like hell, living with severe fear and anxiety, that is especially triggered by being seen. I've been trying to do subconscious work to heal it. Life experience with this wound is exhausting.
Literally this. I struggle to go out in public sometimes and this is a big reason why. I feel the other reason why is my ability to feel others energy so clearly, and it makes having this wound nearly unbearable sometimes. Feeling like I need to mask in front of others, I've always felt that I had to be my bubbly work persona ALL of the time but maybe that's just not who I really am. Yeah wow this video really helped me realize a lot of things about myself.
@@Lauralign 👀😳 I thought I was reading my twin. Yes, I've been sensing that I feel other's energies as well, and so I feel that double impact like you do. I've been told that I am an empath, and that I am able to feel other people's energy (or sponge it), and there is information that points to it being true. But for whatever reason, I am still not convinced 🤷🏿♂️🙂. However, the unbearableness and masking you speak of, is my direct experience. Also, I am experiencing an odd social phase, a mix of feeling social exhaustion & burnout. With that being said, I feel a nudge to connect with you. Would you be interested in that?
this is definitely a sign that if i want to get better at something or accomplish the goals i wish to accomplish that i have to get rid of my fear of being perceived, specifically being perceived while failing or messing up. i’ve realized, specifically while playing viola (unrelated), that the more cautious of being seen failing that i am, the more i mess up.
Just found you and watched a few videos I really needed, your authentic spirit made me feel safe and the videos gave me what I needed more than I ever expected. Thank you.
I’ve never heard anyone else besides myself who has this fear and I just happened upon your video. Either the universe brought me here or the algorithm is listening to my conversations because I was trying to explain this fear to my partner the other day.
Pausing halfway through to comment. I saw this video on my homepage a while ago, I knew very wel this was something I struggled with but I refused to click on it 😂🙈 Long story short, this video hasn't left my timeline for one second, the algorithm (the unverse's algorithm) has just kept this right here. "You can't avoid it forever and you know you don't even want to avoid it, so whenever you're ready, it's right here for you". Today I said fine, let's watch this vid. A few seconds in my energy started shifting, I subscribed immediately as something felt just so so right about being here, in the space that you create and hold. I knew, I know I have to be here. The full body chills I got when you started the session was unparalleled. In the first part where you're introducing the topic, I felt so grateful for you being here, on my screen. I am grateful, for you showing up on this platform. Thank you. You are so beautiful and so powerful. Your work is needed. Thank you, thank you, thank you. 💚
I got your video randomly recommended but it was truly meant for me to see - being seen, being perceived by others is so unbearable to me I literally can't hold my tears. Thank you for this video, I'll sure follow the daily affirmations
Wow wow wow. This is truly my deepest wound as well, I am currently job hunting and feeling so on display and its been hurting and i have had complications on trying to explain my pain with this process and this appeared on my feed out of no where. Amazing
Your experience really resonates with me, and this is also one of those wounds I'm working on, too. Thank you for putting this out there to share in that feeling.
I watched this one yesterday and immediately felt like I stepped into my power when I was around people right after. I am watching this again now and as often as i feel i need to in the future. I very much needed this and I'm so glad you were guided to send this message. Love to all. We are all connected 💖
I also have a wound that often feels uncomfortable when I’m being Seen. But I understand that being seen is a beautiful thing that I absolutely strive towards, I’ve always felt a pull to it. Thank you for this video, for the messages. ❤
This is something I've struggled with being extremely tall and mixed raced. It's two faceted sense I'm so tall I feel like everywhere I go I'm noticed, I learned not to like that attention due to my feelings of self identity what I see myself as people may not see me as that. Feeling as if your never "enough" weather that be white enough or black enough etc to fit in is no fun.
I have a vision of a bad spirit when I engage with my fear of being seen Thank you for your healing session, and your presence, may you live in authenticity as well my dear 💕🕊️🕊️
This is a big issue for me as well. If you believe in past lives (and I do) it tends to be from persecution. I got a nice boost in my solar plexus from this-thank you!
Was asking myself. How do you put myself out there. How do I express when I feel so much doubt taking space. This is the work. It came to me at the right time, the right space, in the right tone and energy. Thank you. I am so greatful.
I appreciate this so much.❤️ It made me feel... different? In a good way. I have been struggling with being perceived for so long. Yet...I also long for connection. That fear of rejection and perceived inadequacy I had I now see had a tight grip on my heart. These exercises seem super important now to me.
this came at the exact right time for me.. I'm finally starting to share my music ideas but it's still so scary, and i dont have much of an audience right now but i know i will so i need to become comfortable with it
Thank you love the healing part 1rst And the rest totally resonates and so true and right on point even for the correction of not using both prayers at the same time❤
My brother has this fear also. Really bad anxiety, it started getting bad when he was at least 18.. I'd say. He's now 22 and still never comes out of his room unless we're all gone to work.
This resonates. Even after healing so much, I still fear being seen. I want to succeed in my career and I am well surrounded, but it's as though tnere are blockages, probably from a subconscious false belief. I can write tons of fiction, but if people read it, maybe they'll hate it, but if I never publish, the person who'll love it will never find it. And what I have learnt is putting my fiction out there, is a vulnerable act. I want to let go lf that fear, of those blockages.
It hurts to see others going through the pain that I felt isolated in feeling. In my case, it’s family trauma and being bullied and lonely in school that has finally caught up to me in high school, this year is my last year. And I’m done with being perceived. I’m going to make active changes now
to be honest i cant be understood without talking about myself alot because most people dont relate, and the people who do have the same difficulties understanding others as i do
Hello! This is the first reiki video I’m seeing from you and I just want to say I feel so seen in your videos!! Is there any-way you’d be able to do reiki on topics such as self-esteem, self-image, and potentially healing inner child beliefs and wounds :)
I really want to watch this all the way through and i appreciate that this content is out there because this really resonates. For some reason any mouth related asmr is like nails on a chalkboard for me. I can hear the saliva in peoples mouths when they do this, and it makes my body cringe. It's the same when i hear people chew. I can't stand it, and i really want to accept the healing... 😢 what's wrong with me.
There are so many times I end up not getting to the store because I don’t want to interact or get wrapped up in a conversation. I’m hungry right now and just can’t deal with being in public to go and get eggs.
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To be seen, to have others want to see you, to accept a compliment, to accept yourself, to begin see yourself as the beautiful thing you are, what a challenge! Thank you for this 💖
Thank you as well for this
I’m struggle with this too, girl. I feel so much freedom alone. I feel like it’s the only time I have permission to be myself fully, to dress and act like I want, do what I want, feel how I feel without apology. When I’m around people, when I feel perceived, I feel like I have to be someone else. I have to blend in, be quiet, be like everyone else, so I’m not judged or put down. I know it’s a childhood wound from rejection from family and friends. But now that I’m an adult and provide my own safety, it’s something I have not been able to shake. My apartment is still my sanctuary.
My deepest wound as well. It feels like hell, living with severe fear and anxiety, that is especially triggered by being seen. I've been trying to do subconscious work to heal it. Life experience with this wound is exhausting.
Literally this. I struggle to go out in public sometimes and this is a big reason why. I feel the other reason why is my ability to feel others energy so clearly, and it makes having this wound nearly unbearable sometimes. Feeling like I need to mask in front of others, I've always felt that I had to be my bubbly work persona ALL of the time but maybe that's just not who I really am. Yeah wow this video really helped me realize a lot of things about myself.
@@Lauralign 👀😳 I thought I was reading my twin. Yes, I've been sensing that I feel other's energies as well, and so I feel that double impact like you do.
I've been told that I am an empath, and that I am able to feel other people's energy (or sponge it), and there is information that points to it being true. But for whatever reason, I am still not convinced 🤷🏿♂️🙂. However, the unbearableness and masking you speak of, is my direct experience.
Also, I am experiencing an odd social phase, a mix of feeling social exhaustion & burnout. With that being said, I feel a nudge to connect with you. Would you be interested in that?
@@MERCERENiTY I'd love to connect. It seems we are going through the same thing, friend. We are not alone 💖
@@Lauraligngirls what the hell I feel like I was the one who wrote this, there’s no way. I feel so validated rn 😭🙏
@@Mia-ge1eu 💖 you are seen, heard, and valued. And so am i. We gotta start claiming that shit, sis. Let's get it 🔥
this is definitely a sign that if i want to get better at something or accomplish the goals i wish to accomplish that i have to get rid of my fear of being perceived, specifically being perceived while failing or messing up. i’ve realized, specifically while playing viola (unrelated), that the more cautious of being seen failing that i am, the more i mess up.
“Fear of being perceived” is a great way to put it - as it takes it to a place beyond, simply, “being seen.”
Just found you and watched a few videos I really needed, your authentic spirit made me feel safe and the videos gave me what I needed more than I ever expected. Thank you.
I’ve never heard anyone else besides myself who has this fear and I just happened upon your video. Either the universe brought me here or the algorithm is listening to my conversations because I was trying to explain this fear to my partner the other day.
I'm trying for a job that requires a lot of Being Seen and I can't stop thinking about people seeing when i mess up my job. i like this premise a lot!
Pausing halfway through to comment. I saw this video on my homepage a while ago, I knew very wel this was something I struggled with but I refused to click on it 😂🙈 Long story short, this video hasn't left my timeline for one second, the algorithm (the unverse's algorithm) has just kept this right here. "You can't avoid it forever and you know you don't even want to avoid it, so whenever you're ready, it's right here for you".
Today I said fine, let's watch this vid. A few seconds in my energy started shifting, I subscribed immediately as something felt just so so right about being here, in the space that you create and hold. I knew, I know I have to be here. The full body chills I got when you started the session was unparalleled.
In the first part where you're introducing the topic, I felt so grateful for you being here, on my screen. I am grateful, for you showing up on this platform. Thank you. You are so beautiful and so powerful. Your work is needed. Thank you, thank you, thank you. 💚
I got your video randomly recommended but it was truly meant for me to see - being seen, being perceived by others is so unbearable to me I literally can't hold my tears.
Thank you for this video, I'll sure follow the daily affirmations
It amazes me how everytime I need my spirits lifted it aligns perfectly when these videos drop ❤ shes beautiful inside and out
I just woke up from a nap where i had a dream relating to this topic. I love synchronicities. 😊
😂 our phones are listening to our dreams now too
Wow wow wow. This is truly my deepest wound as well, I am currently job hunting and feeling so on display and its been hurting and i have had complications on trying to explain my pain with this process and this appeared on my feed out of no where. Amazing
„The way I understand myself“ is a great way to describe self perception. Thank you ❤❤❤
"try not to run away from it" 🥴 called out lol 🩷
This is my biggest fear too! Being judged and criticized. Props for diving in to the exposure therapy. You’re beautiful and seem like a natural on YT
Your experience really resonates with me, and this is also one of those wounds I'm working on, too. Thank you for putting this out there to share in that feeling.
“I see you” is so powerful saying this to the mirror, my art, my whole self. Thank you so mic for helping us heal as a collective💫
I subbed to your channel recently and love your content SO much! Thank you for being willing to be seen ❤
Thank you for your beautiful vulnerability and sharing this healing. 🥰🙏
This video is a gift and I appreciate your vulnerability so much ❤ I feel this fear of being seen so much as well and loved your thoughts
I watched this one yesterday and immediately felt like I stepped into my power when I was around people right after. I am watching this again now and as often as i feel i need to in the future. I very much needed this and I'm so glad you were guided to send this message. Love to all. We are all connected 💖
I also have a wound that often feels uncomfortable when I’m being Seen. But I understand that being seen is a beautiful thing that I absolutely strive towards, I’ve always felt a pull to it. Thank you for this video, for the messages. ❤
This is something I've struggled with being extremely tall and mixed raced. It's two faceted sense I'm so tall I feel like everywhere I go I'm noticed, I learned not to like that attention due to my feelings of self identity what I see myself as people may not see me as that. Feeling as if your never "enough" weather that be white enough or black enough etc to fit in is no fun.
I have a vision of a bad spirit when I engage with my fear of being seen
Thank you for your healing session, and your presence, may you live in authenticity as well my dear 💕🕊️🕊️
Wow, I really needed this. You always come on time.
I just have to say before watching, I love the shirt you're wearing, it's so cool!
Girl you are so beautiful and strong and bubbly!!! Thank you so much for sharing ❤️ love and light!!
to be seen is to be loved.
I take notes on this person's channel. Thank you 🥨🦉🦇
you have a very calm and healing energy. thank you for being vulnerable and sharing this ❤️
the font used on the thumbnail is filosofia ‼️ (i have a problem and must share when i recognize a font on sight)
Not a problem! Cute and fun !
Keeping this on loop the whole night while I sleep. I’m happy you found me ❤
I appreciate you sharing your story at the beginning. Stay safe 💙
This reiki really touched my heart. Thank you 💗
Your channel came to me out of nowhere
I’m so grateful for your wisdom, thank you ❤
This is a big issue for me as well. If you believe in past lives (and I do) it tends to be from persecution. I got a nice boost in my solar plexus from this-thank you!
You tapped into a part of myself that’s been hiding for so long. I am ready to break free ⛓️💥
Thank you! From the bottom of my heart for this video and this channel, you shone light on my day 💫⭐️ I felt seen and I was at peace
This is beautiful. Thank you ❤
Was asking myself. How do you put myself out there. How do I express when I feel so much doubt taking space. This is the work. It came to me at the right time, the right space, in the right tone and energy. Thank you. I am so greatful.
So happy I found you channel. I thought this video was so geninuine, so affirming, and so comforting. Thank you!!! :)
I love your dragon shirt. Thank you for your vulnerable and authentic share.🐉❤
Thank you so much for this. I felt like you were seeing right through me, and I felt such a warm feeling in my chest ❤️ thank you
i developed agoraphobia partially from my fear of being seen. its crazy
I appreciate this so much.❤️
It made me feel... different? In a good way.
I have been struggling with being perceived for so long.
Yet...I also long for connection.
That fear of rejection and perceived inadequacy I had I now see had a tight grip on my heart.
These exercises seem super important now to me.
I see you and I get it. I feel the same! Thank you so much for your vulnerability and encouragement. I'm working on mine and appreciate you so much!
Thank you for the time and energy that you have shared, take care too 😊
this came at the exact right time for me.. I'm finally starting to share my music ideas but it's still so scary, and i dont have much of an audience right now but i know i will so i need to become comfortable with it
Thank you for being vulnerable and making this. It came up in my suggested at a moment I really needed to hear it. ❤
Thank you love the healing part 1rst
And the rest totally resonates and so true and right on point even for the correction of not using both prayers at the same time❤
My brother has this fear also. Really bad anxiety, it started getting bad when he was at least 18.. I'd say. He's now 22 and still never comes out of his room unless we're all gone to work.
Such a great topic and video, also you’re beautiful and your hair is absolutely stunning
This resonates. Even after healing so much, I still fear being seen. I want to succeed in my career and I am well surrounded, but it's as though tnere are blockages, probably from a subconscious false belief. I can write tons of fiction, but if people read it, maybe they'll hate it, but if I never publish, the person who'll love it will never find it. And what I have learnt is putting my fiction out there, is a vulnerable act. I want to let go lf that fear, of those blockages.
It’s also one of my deepest wounds…whew! thank you so much for this you have such a calming presence 😊
thank you. I see you. 🐞
WOW that was truly special. Thank you! Greetings from Poland
This touched me in my soul
thank you for this ❤️
Thank you 🙏🏽✨💜
11k views, 11 days ago 1k likes. I see you universe… and I see myself, thank you for this video.
Thank you for reminding of this. ❤
this one really hit the spot 😭😭💗💗💗🔥
thank you!! ❣️
It hurts to see others going through the pain that I felt isolated in feeling. In my case, it’s family trauma and being bullied and lonely in school that has finally caught up to me in high school, this year is my last year. And I’m done with being perceived. I’m going to make active changes now
Love this so much, thank you!
love love love this video
I believe in being seen! Thank you for this healing! 😇🤍
😭 🔮 🕯 Thank you for this powerful transmission...sending love from Philly! 💖
Your Beautiful with a loving light that shines Bright I see you thank you
I love you & Bless you. Thank you to the Universe, and to you of course
Thank you
I have been having the WORST relationship with my needs and my weaknesses
and I got the wound that you have ...
for me,it comes from perfectionism...
Gracias gracias gracias ❤
to be honest i cant be understood without talking about myself alot because most people dont relate, and the people who do have the same difficulties understanding others as i do
Grazie.
13:23 Powerful Affirmation
Thank you🫶
I have guides too… and It has been a lot nicer ❤ the whole thing after I started listening to them ❤
I feel attacked by my RUclips suggestions. I'm constantly telling my husband "I do not wish to be perceived"
Thank you lovely 💕
Hello! This is the first reiki video I’m seeing from you and I just want to say I feel so seen in your videos!! Is there any-way you’d be able to do reiki on topics such as self-esteem, self-image, and potentially healing inner child beliefs and wounds :)
you should consider putting some of your asmr on spotify ! it would be so clutch
I really want to watch this all the way through and i appreciate that this content is out there because this really resonates. For some reason any mouth related asmr is like nails on a chalkboard for me. I can hear the saliva in peoples mouths when they do this, and it makes my body cringe. It's the same when i hear people chew. I can't stand it, and i really want to accept the healing... 😢 what's wrong with me.
There are so many times I end up not getting to the store because I don’t want to interact or get wrapped up in a conversation. I’m hungry right now and just can’t deal with being in public to go and get eggs.
You are so fine, twin. I love seeing you shineeeee 🤩🤩🤩
Me too ❤
You are so beautiful ‼️‼️‼️‼️
Hella relevant
You're a beautiful girl ❤
What language do you speak here 03:55 ? It sounds so calming. ❤️
I believe it is light language.
You're so beautiful!
J'ai vécu de la violence et être vu c'était risque d'être frappé. Mais dès années plus tard être absent c'est mourir à ptit feu.
Why do i hate being perceived? What's the psychology??!
past life trauma, maybe. witch burnings. being killed for who you really are. that's what it is for me, maybe you relate?
❤❤❤
Hello 👋
Yes I didn’t wanna be seen
🥺🤍
It's a bit quiet
Grazie.
❤