Truly fantastic video. I’m 43 now, and I am in the best position of my entire life physically and financially. Socially, well, I’m happy being a private person with just two friends. I guess the lowest periods of my life, from 25-37, were my finest hours. However, I believe that having no big expenditure in life really important. I graduated from a public school, my university was in full scholarship, and I was never married nor was in a sort of relationship that will invite the court to my home. That has saved me building my own nest and making me financially independent at least till the age of 85.
I used to be a model, runway and print. Then I got married and did 20 years with my ex-wife, let myself go, got divorced and my style was crap. Had to do all the things you talk about to get my shit together to get back on the dating scene. I started at a zero, was dating 3s then over time got my looks and confidence back and leveled up to 9s and 10s (to me). Then found my dream girl. I’m helping my best bro get back out there after a long marriage. Everything you say is spot on, John! 👏🏾👊🏾
Another well thought out video John, there just getting better and better, your a good guy it comes across in your videos, looking forward to seeing some more car videos and updates on your wine business
Hi John good to see you and some more great thoughts and good suggestions have a great day and let us know how the wine business is progressing as you know new things can take a little longer to get going but keep the good work up . Regards C Barker
Plenty of good advice John and much appreciated. My no1 is dressing to be smart. Never want to be seen as 'looking dowdy' but both parents were in the fashion trade so it kinda rubbed off! All the best.
Lemme say this. You don't need to buy Tiege Hanley to have decent facial skin. Wash your face with a face cleanser or mild soap every day and then moisturize with some kind of naturally occurring oil like black castor oil. It couldn't get any simpler.
Set the example, you start taking better care of yourself and dressing better. Take her to places where other women will be better dressed, nice dinners and social events, when you are with her and you see a nicely dressed woman say something descrete like, "you would look beautiful in that dress."
@@carlosblack773 thanks for the reply. I’m debating if it’s even something I have any business worrying about. At the end of the day, how people dress is a matter of their own taste and comfort. Just, still… smh lol
@@carlosblack773I like your idea but can I suggest a minor change? Instead, say “that dress would look great on you.” It takes away any possible defensiveness where she could say “what? You don’t think I look great now?!?” I was out to dinner last Friday and saw so many couples where the woman was dressed great but the guy was dressed in a hoodie, old jeans, and dirty sneakers. The women looked even more elevated next to those guys. So I would say don’t worry about it. Don’t try to change someone. Do you, see the best in people, and they’ll sometimes rise to your expectations. And ask yourself if the roles were reversed and you genuinely hated dressing “uncomfortably,” how would you prefer to be nudged without feeling judged?
"Tough love" is what 90% of men need. Simply look around and see what classifies as man; they are weak, soft, and hurt by the slightest insult or uncomfortable situation. As you said, it's not f''in hard - lift weights, do HIIT cardio, read, dress like a G-damned adult, and learn some social acuity. Be better gentlemen...
Just remember, this is what I do for a living. Also remember that you’re complaining about roughly 90 seconds in a full length video that’s providing value for a lot of people. Happy new year.
@@pensivepenguin3000 I was happily married too until 5yrs ago when she became a fence jumper. I started back in the gym and changed jobs. Leveled up in all aspects of my life.
Truly fantastic video. I’m 43 now, and I am in the best position of my entire life physically and financially. Socially, well, I’m happy being a private person with just two friends. I guess the lowest periods of my life, from 25-37, were my finest hours. However, I believe that having no big expenditure in life really important. I graduated from a public school, my university was in full scholarship, and I was never married nor was in a sort of relationship that will invite the court to my home. That has saved me building my own nest and making me financially independent at least till the age of 85.
I used to be a model, runway and print. Then I got married and did 20 years with my ex-wife, let myself go, got divorced and my style was crap. Had to do all the things you talk about to get my shit together to get back on the dating scene. I started at a zero, was dating 3s then over time got my looks and confidence back and leveled up to 9s and 10s (to me). Then found my dream girl. I’m helping my best bro get back out there after a long marriage. Everything you say is spot on, John! 👏🏾👊🏾
Appreciate the comment!
I believe the financial thing is the most tricky and also the number one fundamental to become the man you want to be
Another well thought out video John, there just getting better and better, your a good guy it comes across in your videos, looking forward to seeing some more car videos and updates on your wine business
Thank you very much!
Great video John!!!
Thanks for watching!
Thank you John, you are the best!!
You’re very welcome!
Thanks John.
Spot on, as usual. Thanks John!
Very welcome!
Great Advise for single and married men! A little effort goes a long way!!
Thank you?
The info in this video is on point and a good reminder. Thanks!
You’re very welcome! Thank you for watching!
Thanks again for the great video and the reminder of what we have to do as men.
You got it! Thanks for watching!
Motivation appreciated!
My pleasure! Thanks for watching!
Good morning! Let’s go!
😊Where we going?
Cheers!
I respect you and your work
Thank you very much!
Hi John good to see you and some more great thoughts and good suggestions have a great day and let us know how the wine business is progressing as you know new things can take a little longer to get going but keep the good work up .
Regards C Barker
Thank you!
Any thoughts on where to find pants with the side adjusters
I found some on Amazon that worked pretty well, but the ones I really enjoy are from Suit Supply.
Can you provide the amazon link?
Plenty of good advice John and much appreciated. My no1 is dressing to be smart. Never want to be seen as 'looking dowdy' but both parents were in the fashion trade so it kinda rubbed off! All the best.
Cheers!
Another great video!
Glad you enjoyed it!
Lemme say this. You don't need to buy Tiege Hanley to have decent facial skin. Wash your face with a face cleanser or mild soap every day and then moisturize with some kind of naturally occurring oil like black castor oil. It couldn't get any simpler.
Good video with good advice
Appreciate you! Thanks for watching!
Is not that hard, unless you are not even willing to try.
There you go!
What if your wife is the one who wears sweats and hoodies everywhere and says she no longer cares what people think? Mine since the pandemic 😂
Set the example, you start taking better care of yourself and dressing better. Take her to places where other women will be better dressed, nice dinners and social events, when you are with her and you see a nicely dressed woman say something descrete like, "you would look beautiful in that dress."
@@carlosblack773 thanks for the reply. I’m debating if it’s even something I have any business worrying about. At the end of the day, how people dress is a matter of their own taste and comfort. Just, still… smh lol
@@pensivepenguin3000 It's your business to be a leader.
This!!
@@carlosblack773I like your idea but can I suggest a minor change? Instead, say “that dress would look great on you.” It takes away any possible defensiveness where she could say “what? You don’t think I look great now?!?”
I was out to dinner last Friday and saw so many couples where the woman was dressed great but the guy was dressed in a hoodie, old jeans, and dirty sneakers. The women looked even more elevated next to those guys. So I would say don’t worry about it. Don’t try to change someone. Do you, see the best in people, and they’ll sometimes rise to your expectations. And ask yourself if the roles were reversed and you genuinely hated dressing “uncomfortably,” how would you prefer to be nudged without feeling judged?
Time to change the channel to 50 over fashion...
Haha!
Yes John, it's a good idea! We all evolved...
"Tough love" is what 90% of men need. Simply look around and see what classifies as man; they are weak, soft, and hurt by the slightest insult or uncomfortable situation.
As you said, it's not f''in hard - lift weights, do HIIT cardio, read, dress like a G-damned adult, and learn some social acuity.
Be better gentlemen...
I’m with you on that.
Very well said!! *Standing ovation*
You seem like someone who is more focused on what others are doing than on yourself
@@40OverFashion (((nods in thank you)))
Make content, not commercials
Just remember, this is what I do for a living. Also remember that you’re complaining about roughly 90 seconds in a full length video that’s providing value for a lot of people. Happy new year.
42 with a 28yr old girlfriend..life is good bro
Ha, I bet! Cheers!
45 year old with a 45 year old wife, happily married for 11 years
@@pensivepenguin3000 I was happily married too until 5yrs ago when she became a fence jumper. I started back in the gym and changed jobs. Leveled up in all aspects of my life.
@ sorry that didn’t work out, but sounds like you’re in a good place now. Congrats brother
Pimpin ain’t easy
When a man answers a text message with K? I believed that was kinda gay 😳?
No idea what you’re talking about bro.
John im 53..im tired. Out of shape.i dont wanna diet and work out.....i just wanna wake up tomorrow morning and have a Wolverine Hugh jackman body😮💨
😎 Tailoring is the most cost effective for looks. Quick and efective. Then, if you lose volume, take that to the tailor again.