Beware of Praise | Tricks of the Devil #2

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  • Опубликовано: 6 июл 2023
  • July 7th, 2023
    Father Josiah Trenham
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Комментарии • 53

  • @charlesnunno8377
    @charlesnunno8377 Год назад +38

    Whenever someone wants something they turn on praise.

    • @AlexLangley88
      @AlexLangley88 Год назад +4

      “Flattery will get you everywhere.”

  • @notinthegulag_3370
    @notinthegulag_3370 Год назад +9

    Thank you Father today I was chrismated and ask for prayers for my future. I am very happy to finally be part of the Church and being able to partake of the sacraments.

  • @katherine3486
    @katherine3486 Год назад +6

    Everyone loves praise bc it is meant to be for God alone, therefore we are elevated by praise into being God like, mostly without grace being in attendance ... we then we assume it is what God wants for us.
    This has been my experience. May God often bring the ways of being humbled. Amen XX

    • @normadaly7506
      @normadaly7506 2 месяца назад

      Thank you for that.. Jesus said to chose lowest place, not place of honour. I'm only baptised since Sept. I'm badly polluted by pentecostalism.... God help me and thank God for access to this tradition and teaching.

  • @shockey8313
    @shockey8313 Год назад +9

    Father I really appreciate these videos, thank you so much. You're a big reason why I want to become orthodox.

  • @Bobthe0strich
    @Bobthe0strich Год назад +2

    The word on humility was fantastic! Humility and gratitude works wonders

  • @Anthony.Mathai
    @Anthony.Mathai Год назад +19

    PLEASEEEEE CONTINUE this series!!! I love it.

  • @normadaly7506
    @normadaly7506 2 месяца назад

    Thank you father

  • @nakdag1617
    @nakdag1617 Год назад +5

    This is potentially life changing. Thank you.

  • @watermelon-nt2cu
    @watermelon-nt2cu Год назад +4

    Thank you Father Josiah Trenham ❤. I struggle with ‘insightful thoughts’.

  • @barbaravandriel1179
    @barbaravandriel1179 Год назад +4

    So full of wisdom ... blessings and thanks, Father!

  • @Morgoth_the_Tyrant
    @Morgoth_the_Tyrant Год назад +8

    Hey Father, God Bless You! Thank you for these reflections, God be With You ☦️

  • @meronmichael
    @meronmichael 5 месяцев назад

    Temesgen 🙏🏽

  • @Cobruh_Commander
    @Cobruh_Commander Год назад +3

    The irony is that vehemently avoiding praise can be a fruit of pride too. It's better to just take and let it wash off you like a duck's back than to play coy or be in denial of the good you've accomplished with God's blessing. The key is discernment and knowing when to act. May God grant us, myself especially, this ability.

    • @M-i-k-a-e-l
      @M-i-k-a-e-l Год назад +1

      Very, very, good point.
      The ego will use anything if allowed. Humility is a perfect mask to cover a multitude of sins.
      I believe a saint will recieve honest praise by sharing the joy of the giver - knowing it is all from, through and with God's Holy Spirit such can be possible. Celebration of holy moments of shared blessings, regardless who seems to be giver or reciever is a benediction in itself, rather than denying such joy.
      Yet, of course, the traps of Satan is many, but rightly used they will only increase God's light.

  • @Hospody-Pomylui
    @Hospody-Pomylui 10 месяцев назад +1

    From my personal notes after praying about my struggles with this subject. I hope it is helpful. (The more ministry opportunities the Lord gives me the more demons join the choir of praise. When I am alerted to it I utter under my breath "stupid logismoi". Please pray for me brothers and sisters).:
    I catch myself being proud. I confess my pride. Then I realize the confession is humility. Then I become proud of humility.
    Giving thanks is an expressing of love. Thanksgiving fulfills the law of love.
    Giving thanks draws our eyes out of our own head and dismantles the feedback loop that "fighting pride with humility" creates. Thanksgiving gives no attention to self and brings liberty. There's no limit to thanksgiving. There's nothing that comes to me except by God's hand, therefore, there's nothing I can't give thanks for. There's no restrictions on me to love others. I have every right as a Christian to love anyone I want to. This free flowing love of giving thanks for others empties myself of self- attention. Thanksgiving is kenotic love.

  • @TheTransfiguredLife
    @TheTransfiguredLife Год назад +9

    Yes! Thank you Father!! ☦️

  • @el_denk
    @el_denk Год назад +2

    Thank you Father. God bless you and your family.

  • @DanielR1989
    @DanielR1989 Год назад +1

    Thank you, father Josiah!

  • @TheDroc1990
    @TheDroc1990 Год назад +5

    Thank you, Father.

  • @user-om4gd5qc3i
    @user-om4gd5qc3i 11 месяцев назад +2

    God sent me this video to show me I’ve gone “off” again. I’m not in any danger being praised by others, it’s myself I have to be on guard against.

  • @davidcisneros1429
    @davidcisneros1429 Год назад +2

    Pride was the first sin, I believe.
    In praises, is a switch that can lead to pride, can be flipped.
    Be a man of caution, taking every thought captive to the obedience of Christ!

  • @mickdomingo7276
    @mickdomingo7276 Год назад +3

    Amen ☦

  • @jamesembrey3100
    @jamesembrey3100 Год назад +3

    Pride alone is sufficient to fall.
    Perhaps Humility alone is sufficient for salvation.
    The father of lies tempts with the ILLUSION of self empowerment, The same illusion he fell to, to steal sheep from gods beloved flock, not even for nourishment, but merely to spite the shepherd.

  • @SimpleAmadeus
    @SimpleAmadeus Год назад +8

    I find this a very difficult subject on one particular aspect: The giving of praise. It is relatively easy for me to understand the danger of people praising me, and I do what I can to prevent it. But what about praising other people? If someone does something well, should I say it, in celebration of a good thing, or should I keep my mouth shut, lest I tempt them towards pride? I cannot determine which of these is better. I'm leaning towards saying it, because that's what I see priests and the apostles do, although I cannot estimate whether these are rare exceptions. It is, of course, difficult to know the things that people are choosing not to say.

    • @michaelbasileos
      @michaelbasileos Год назад +10

      I’ve found the practice of saying, “May Christ reward you” helpful. It lets them know that their work is appreciated but you leave the reward to God, lest we deprive them of His gift. It is also good to be discerning, praise doesn’t affect everyone equally. For example, young men today are so demoralized that they *need* to be praised. It lights up their souls and barely has an effect on their egos because of how beaten down they are.

    • @miztenacioust1758
      @miztenacioust1758 Год назад +5

      My two cents: one way I manage this is with the specificity of the praise. For example, if a child has done a good job on an assignment, I will praise the effort, pointing out specifics, saying something along the lines of, " I can see that you really put a lot of care into your handwriting there," or if it is an adulr, "wow, I can tell that you put a lot of effort and time into that project! I like the way it came together. What did you learn from the process?" This way I am praising positive, productive actions in a way that doesn't feed into vanity or conceit. I'd be very interested to hear what Fr. Josiah has to say on this point!

    • @PETERJOHN101
      @PETERJOHN101 Год назад +4

      My solution is to remind the person, regardless of their actions, that I am the most humble person I know. If they protest, I am glad I said it. If they smile, I know they need nothing more from me. 😊

    • @savedbygrace3383
      @savedbygrace3383 Год назад +1

      @@PETERJOHN101but aren’t you praising yourself on your ‘humbleness’? And isn’t this also some kind of pride, but towards yourself because you are reminding the other on how ‘humble’ you are, instead they could be tripping in thinking that you are a very arrogant, and thus not a truly humble person?

    • @PETERJOHN101
      @PETERJOHN101 Год назад +2

      @@savedbygrace3383
      Humor is often the cousin of irony.

  • @ZuniPuebloChavezAnasazi
    @ZuniPuebloChavezAnasazi Год назад +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @nepsis33
    @nepsis33 Год назад +1

    Thank you father!

  • @ayonio5723
    @ayonio5723 Год назад +2

    Amen!

  • @joana_sweetness
    @joana_sweetness Год назад +6

    If one fears that vainglory has made a gateway in someone’s soul, how does one overcome it?

    • @sson12
      @sson12 Год назад

      Jubilees 22:7 'And now I give thanks unto Thee, my God, because thou hast caused me to see this day: behold, I am one hundred three score and fifteen years, an old man and full of days, and all my days have been unto me peace.

    • @ThisCharmingBat
      @ThisCharmingBat Год назад +5

      Humility and serving others.

  • @M-i-k-a-e-l
    @M-i-k-a-e-l Год назад

    The ego will use anything if allowed. Humility is a perfect mask to cover a multitude of sins.
    I believe a saint will recieve honest praise by sharing the joy of the giver - knowing it is all from, through and with God's Holy Spirit such can be possible. Celebration of holy moments of shared blessings, regardless who seems to be giver or reciever is a benediction in itself, rather than denying such joy.
    Yet, of course, the traps of Satan is many, but rightly used they will only increase God's light.

  • @user-tk8zx2cw7n
    @user-tk8zx2cw7n Год назад +1

    Бог вам Помого
    Поздрав од Марка

  • @sson12
    @sson12 Год назад

    Ecclesiasticus 7:9
    Say not, God will look upon the multitude of my oblations, and when I offer to the most high God, he will accept it.

  • @taranmurray7046
    @taranmurray7046 Год назад +2

    My Priest constantly praises me even when I ask him not to. The people I help in my humble ministry are constantly praising me, my fellow parishioners constantly praise me. It is only my boss at work who gives me soul nourishing criticism. God help me!

    • @heathertubbs2294
      @heathertubbs2294 Год назад +10

      A good monk friend of mine once said, when someone praises you, give thanks to God, because ultimately it all belongs to him. So you can always reply with “Glory to God” it will seem unnatural at first but after a while it will be a good habit! ☦️

    • @katherine3486
      @katherine3486 Год назад

      You know you don't deserve any praise !! Glory to God only !!
      Hold it with silence, a bow and the sign of the cross. Any vainglory will be deflected.

  • @psyche8187
    @psyche8187 8 месяцев назад +1

    I’m wondering if I shouldn’t praise my husband as much as I do. I thought it was a way of loving and encouraging him. But now I’m genuinely confused.

  • @noblegamer8740
    @noblegamer8740 Год назад

    Father - thank you for the words of wisdom you continue to put on RUclips. As a husband and father who is extremely drawn to Orthodoxy but my wife is strongly opposed, what would you recommend I do? How can I draw near to God and serve my family with the wisdom the Orthodox Church provides without being directly a part of a local parish or the faith? I would greatly appreciate any advice.

  • @orthodoxphronesis
    @orthodoxphronesis Год назад

    Compare ourselves to good monasteries and then we will see our lack. “I’m not a monk” the lay person says, as if that’s an excuse. It’s not.

  • @aral1948
    @aral1948 Год назад

    Wait I have a question, Fr Josiah, you’re married and at the same time a priest? Does the Orthodox Church allow priests to be married?? 10:08

    • @gloriakelpinski5858
      @gloriakelpinski5858 Год назад +9

      Yes, it does. We value holy marriage and a family

    • @OrthoNektarios
      @OrthoNektarios Год назад +8

      Yes, that has always been scriptural and traditional in the Christian religion. Roman Catholics sadly abolished that tradition.

    • @OrthoNektarios
      @OrthoNektarios Год назад +7

      But priest can only marry once and they have to marry before they enter the priesthood. They can not marry again in the priesthood. Same thing with the deacons as well.

    • @lindaphillips4646
      @lindaphillips4646 Год назад +5

      Yes.. see other answers.. Bishops cannot be married.. but they can have been married and then widowed, before becoming a bishop...

  • @normadaly7506
    @normadaly7506 Год назад +1

    Thank you father