Stop Cyberbullying Before the Damage is Done | Trisha Prabhu | TEDxGateway

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  • Опубликовано: 29 окт 2024

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  • @koundinyagoud7814
    @koundinyagoud7814 3 года назад +248

    Your teacher gave an assignment saying cyberbullying so u are here

  • @xmx005
    @xmx005 5 лет назад +24

    I hope everything is done to help stop online bullying and other forms of bullying. This video is mostly aimed at cyber bullying for teens but I am surprised to constantly see how much online bullying is happening in adults. More Adults need to apply what they call the "THINK" method, (is it True, is it Helpful, is it inspiring, is it necessary, is it Kind). Basically what my father use to tell us... "If you don't have anything useful or nice to say to each other then Shut it!"

  • @MikeDonegan
    @MikeDonegan 7 лет назад +15

    Trisha, just show this video to my class of 6th graders and they used words like "awesome" "smart" "passionate" "incredible" and "brave."
    bets of all there was "life changing"
    Thank you.

  • @lycandusk7263
    @lycandusk7263 4 года назад +43

    0:10 mood

    • @_cheddarcheese_
      @_cheddarcheese_ 8 месяцев назад +1

      real my entire class laughed when we watched this in class

  • @csat3609
    @csat3609 9 лет назад +12

    In our experience, we find every small deterrent to have a positive impact in reducing crimes, undesirable actions. Its better than not having one. Great work, Trisha.

  • @studiodevelopers2467
    @studiodevelopers2467 4 года назад +16

    So this is what this is. We were being cyber bullied. By some criminals.
    1. How to find who's doing it
    2. How to round them up and put in prison.
    No second chances. No excuses.

  • @Goodwillwinoverevil1984
    @Goodwillwinoverevil1984 6 месяцев назад +2

    This stuff is still happening and it's getting worse year by year. Nothing's really changed. Reddit is notorious for this, and so are plenty of other social media platforms. In fact, sometimes, even the bullies get their way over the good people. It's hopeless.

  • @aparker884
    @aparker884 4 года назад +15

    I was cyber bullied in april 2012 I was getting ready to have major ear surgery and my cyber bullies told me that the world woukd have been better if I was to die on the operating table during surgery. I was 27 years old when this haplened. They blocked me so I couldn't ask them to not be mean but they blocked me.

    • @Adventurer-te8fl
      @Adventurer-te8fl Год назад +1

      Sorry to hear that. I hope you're doing much better now. Just remember that cyberbullies waste their lifetime doing nothing, while everyone else can move on and actually make accomplishments or great contributions to society!

    • @Dabmike101
      @Dabmike101 Год назад +2

      How tf you getting cyber bullied? Just close your eyes bruh😂😂😂😂

    • @laraXxlisXx
      @laraXxlisXx 6 месяцев назад +1

      ⁠@@Dabmike101Our lives are all online now. We as a society has shifted to completely being online so if you think you can avoid hate, harassment, and bullying by one simple block button or “closing your eyes”you’re delusional. Everyone has a right to internet access being that WE LIVE ON IT and they have a right to not read constant hate people comments. It’s exhausting!

  • @frankstone394
    @frankstone394 5 лет назад +11

    Freedom of speech. Have thick skin. Walk away. Turn off ur computer. Don't let ur children hang on social media. Have run outside. Play sports. Or combat sports. That will make them tough. And knockout the bully at school. After trying to verbally diffuse the situation, of course. But this might be a useful app. It's worth a try.

  • @GOODBOY-vt1cf
    @GOODBOY-vt1cf 4 года назад +4

    thank you so much

  • @sonutanna3804
    @sonutanna3804 6 лет назад +11

    Trisha your video is very helpful to us thanks to upload it I really liked it and I will surely represent this topic in my class

  • @medhatqasem7882
    @medhatqasem7882 2 года назад +2

    Thanks for this elaborate explanation. 🌹

  • @turquoisepaws
    @turquoisepaws 3 года назад +4

    Cyberbullies aren't "trolls". They're mere CLOWNS with no life.

    • @hellepost1439
      @hellepost1439 Год назад

      Cyberbullies for Sadistic Pleasure‼️ Pathetic Cowards🚮

  • @karanbeniwal
    @karanbeniwal 9 лет назад +16

    no bullying comments on this video! hmm.. lemme "re-think" that one.
    nyc product placement though, in a super-judgy tone. thank you.

    • @chee3930
      @chee3930 4 года назад

      Please I don't want to get cyber heartbroken again hehe... I had a friend online who raided my discord server in fine with that ok but they betrayed me they betrayed me so much 😢😢😢

  • @WalterCRobinsonJr
    @WalterCRobinsonJr Год назад

    Researching Cyberbullying for a College Writing course.

  • @louisevivienbaldoza
    @louisevivienbaldoza Год назад +1

    thanks tricia!!

  • @akshplanet
    @akshplanet 9 лет назад +5

    good step to stop cyber bullying ...

  • @Kim005-k6k
    @Kim005-k6k 4 года назад +5

    Very interesting. I learned a lot

  • @shwaasaa
    @shwaasaa 4 года назад +3

    Thank u so much ❤️💕✨

  • @SakuraStarKey
    @SakuraStarKey 2 года назад +1

    I’m going through the same thing on tumblr… his words are hurting me so much enough to cause me tears, especially that he made a public post telling lies that I’m a terrible person and should be hated… because of that his friends are sending hate my way…

  • @udemeudoh6773
    @udemeudoh6773 Год назад +1

    this was so impactful l was blessed

  • @KaylaSisco
    @KaylaSisco 6 месяцев назад

    This is a very amazing, and emotional video about cyberbullying. This could be an educational video for teens and adults.

  • @Randomdude1921
    @Randomdude1921 Год назад +1

    Just as my teacher once said,it enters on one ear and leaves on another

  • @skylargizmo7720
    @skylargizmo7720 9 лет назад +8

    I can still recall from my teen years when i used to make fun of people (which I'm ashamed off)..I was an evil child.. It was because I lacked empathy, I never once stopped to consider the other person as someone capable of emotions, of being hurt.. Ofcourse I realize that now.. Kids and teens rarely pause twice to think about their actions especially when they see that everyone else is engaging in the same manner.. It is imperative that kids and adults alike take a deep breath whenever they get angry and wake up their conscience and ask themselves is this necessary, must I be hurtful.. You may come across many people on the internet that you feel like mocking or even they may be saying something offensive themselves but just keep your cool and comment in a tactful way.. Do not resort to foul language.
    by the way great job Trisha, so happy to see your passion.. God bless you.. Wish you all the success..

    • @Bobretft
      @Bobretft 4 года назад

      I'm a freshmen right now and I am ashamed to say I've cyberbullyed people by posting mean videos on my channel

    • @Bobretft
      @Bobretft 4 года назад +1

      I've taken them down and apologized in person to the people tho

    • @killerbunny7627
      @killerbunny7627 3 года назад

      i still lack empathy, but i'll never hurt anyones feelings again.

  • @ellem4music156
    @ellem4music156 5 лет назад +15

    So proud of you..✨

  • @preciousgamer7286
    @preciousgamer7286 6 лет назад +6

    Trisha you are smart beautiful and fantastic amen to that sister and you are so intelligent

  • @Sarcopolo
    @Sarcopolo 6 месяцев назад

    thank you that was amazing

  • @Siputsantuy
    @Siputsantuy 3 года назад +1

    fyi, my country, Indonesia, is predicted as the most impolite netizen in the southeast Asia. I am really sad to hear that. it has been mess. so I decide to stop cyberbullying before the damage gets worse. thx Trisha for the speech

    • @Remix2366
      @Remix2366 3 года назад

      There's no damage from it.

  • @the_awe
    @the_awe 2 года назад +1

    God bless you👁

  • @kkstar1297
    @kkstar1297 3 года назад +2

    WOW! That system should’ve been out in the early 2000’s. That would’ve saved the lives of Megan Meier, Amanda Todd, Phoebe Prince and other cyber bully victims who took their own lives. Then they would’ve still been alive today.

  • @lilztheturtle4758
    @lilztheturtle4758 6 лет назад +4

    This is amazing! Thank you so much! Keep trying hard xx

  • @guyincognito5706
    @guyincognito5706 4 года назад +19

    (Insert Tyler the Creator’s tweet)

  • @magalirobinson
    @magalirobinson Год назад

    Thanks Ali and family of 4...

  • @kiwip5380
    @kiwip5380 8 лет назад +7

    trishaaaa....love from chennai. :*

  • @yateshpujar94
    @yateshpujar94 Год назад

    Wonderful idea!!

  • @Somebody0960
    @Somebody0960 9 месяцев назад +1

    POV: cyber bullying victims instead of pressing the block button

    • @PO.RO.MD.ORT16
      @PO.RO.MD.ORT16 9 месяцев назад +1

      What abt when you're getting doxxed or they're stalking you to the extremes with multiple alts or they're sending people after you, it's not that easy you see....

    • @Somebody0960
      @Somebody0960 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@PO.RO.MD.ORT16 then call the cops

    • @travisscott4546
      @travisscott4546 8 месяцев назад

      ⁠@@PO.RO.MD.ORT16create a new account + no one can find your exact location with an ip the worst that’ll happen is your internet getting shut off for a few minutes lmao 😭 keep in mind you can also change your ip

  • @bekind9187
    @bekind9187 4 года назад +2

    Before i watch this , i just wanna say Yall say just off your computer , what if youre in quarentine and online 100% of the time? What if cyber bullies know u ? Make fun of you and share your photos editing them? So that your reputation is so bad no one wants to talk to u or hang out in real life? Body shaming ? And what if its not 1 but a 100 of them? All commenting on a post that you hav no control over with pics of you?

    • @bekind9187
      @bekind9187 4 года назад +1

      The fact that all these people live near u or can see you in real life and trend memes and pictures of you . Honestly then what can u do?

    • @v3n0m_tube56
      @v3n0m_tube56 4 года назад

      Yeah what can u do?

    • @jawad23899
      @jawad23899 3 года назад

      Great point.

    • @Adventurer-te8fl
      @Adventurer-te8fl Год назад

      Can send them to jail. Simple solution.

  • @savannahbakerr
    @savannahbakerr 6 месяцев назад

    good idea!

  • @HumanResearch
    @HumanResearch 5 лет назад +3

    doing so much good work

  • @lizzy52359
    @lizzy52359 7 лет назад +4

    This is good

  • @gabztergame9225
    @gabztergame9225 2 года назад

    wow thx helped my research

  • @jayjensen2123
    @jayjensen2123 6 лет назад +3

    Your product is pretty good but it should be built in on social media's

  • @preciousgamer7286
    @preciousgamer7286 6 лет назад +17

    I love ur video girly keep it up I was cyber bully by Alex warren and his wife last year and I blocked them👍 my friend kenna dandy killed her self because the kids was bullying her I miss her so much 😭 she was 13 years old

    • @drakenpage777
      @drakenpage777 4 года назад +5

      Walk away, or turn off the computer

    • @studiodevelopers2467
      @studiodevelopers2467 4 года назад +2

      Lil Ambivert
      These. Cyber bullie s. Need to be stopped
      We need to make an agency to investigate these criminals.

    • @drakenpage777
      @drakenpage777 4 года назад +2

      @@studiodevelopers2467 Or Just walk away and turn off the computer and don't go "HOW WE SUPPOSE TO WATCH HENTAI?" cause You can use your phone lol.

    • @eunsungkwon485
      @eunsungkwon485 4 года назад +1

      @@drakenpage777 Isn't it better to report to the authorities e.g. police?

    • @chee3930
      @chee3930 4 года назад +1

      @@eunsungkwon485 I don't even know if they care

  • @blackfire1471
    @blackfire1471 4 года назад +2

    Thanks for the massive valuable info.

  • @memelord7120
    @memelord7120 11 месяцев назад +2

    They never cared for you

  • @giajkim6890
    @giajkim6890 3 года назад

    Profilers said that the victims have no way getting out of it and it's NEVER their faults. Period.

    • @Remix2366
      @Remix2366 3 года назад

      Just block them or turn off notifications

  • @leonamoonslasher7070
    @leonamoonslasher7070 4 года назад +3

    Why nobody choose video games instead of Alcohol and drugs

  • @memelord7120
    @memelord7120 11 месяцев назад +1

    They leave you out of everything on purpose

  • @memelord7120
    @memelord7120 11 месяцев назад +1

    The others are hanging out without you

  • @Bluemojieatscookie15
    @Bluemojieatscookie15 8 месяцев назад

    Tbh Social media was the worst idea to be ever made
    Ik im on RUclips but it's true

  • @珊晶添良
    @珊晶添良 2 года назад

    The most important is DO not commit mistakes over and over over and over not to change .we can't daily make mistakes but keep ignore but put blame or push to others.if u try to hurt or cheat or lie or betray or abuse accusing etc then do not blame or scold others for doing the same thing u done before.if u are the accused do not try to make yourself as victim when the other is the real victim.if u the one to start everything DO not put blame on others because not the others want to do it.evrryone should know their own mistakes bit not keep escape or push to others.this is not responsible.

  • @giajkim6890
    @giajkim6890 3 года назад +1

    cyberbullies are slaves of machines while real life bullies are like slaves of unnecessary violence. both are negative to this world..so sorry these things are happening but hopefully the good come out of these one day

  • @mikeanderson910
    @mikeanderson910 8 лет назад +7

    Trisha your fantastic and so smart, please keep up the great work. Your speech was great, and so intelligent, you're so smart, and only 16, years old . Message me back, I'd really like to get to know you. You can message me back Mike Anderson . Thanks, Mike Anderson , Go Trisha !!!

  • @pebis4742
    @pebis4742 3 года назад +1

    Thing is cyber bullying doesn’t exist leave the device delete the app block them people usually stick around for clout and for attention there’s no reason for you to stay just leave this works for every app just block them delete the app

    • @Remix2366
      @Remix2366 3 года назад

      Just block them. It's only harrasment when they come back with an alt

    • @Adventurer-te8fl
      @Adventurer-te8fl Год назад

      That doesn't mean it doesn't exist.

    • @hellepost1439
      @hellepost1439 Год назад

      Cyberbullies for Sadistic Pleasure‼️ Pathetic Cowards🚮

  • @strive1313
    @strive1313 5 лет назад +4

    It’s almost like a block button exists

    •  4 года назад +1

      It's more than that. The bully can create more accounts

    • @Remix2366
      @Remix2366 3 года назад +1

      @ harassment is a general problem.

    • @2tamz603
      @2tamz603 3 года назад

      Doesn't work on YT

    • @Remix2366
      @Remix2366 3 года назад

      @@2tamz603 you can turn off notifications iirc

    • @Adventurer-te8fl
      @Adventurer-te8fl Год назад

      @@Remix2366 Doesn't refute the fact that cyberbullying is a problem since then it would fall under the umbrella of harassment

  • @sanjeetk2370
    @sanjeetk2370 9 лет назад +4

    nice video

  • @Bocchi_the_pebble
    @Bocchi_the_pebble Год назад +1

    Y am i here i said eveything that she said in this video to small children last night

  • @ramalingamkannusamy5131
    @ramalingamkannusamy5131 4 года назад +1

    72 cyber bullies have disliked this vid cuz they think tht hey are a saint.

  • @kntwing23
    @kntwing23 3 года назад +1

    Adults get cyberbullied also not just teens??
    I'm being cyberbullied how do ireport it ?
    U tell your parents & they don't believed u??

  • @bruhgamer3789
    @bruhgamer3789 2 года назад

    The internet is not for the weak and easily offended It is not for the faint of heart so don't come onto the internet and expect it to suit you.

    • @user-sd8rw9we9q
      @user-sd8rw9we9q 2 года назад +1

      its simple:
      if u dont like something just dont reply to it

    • @Adventurer-te8fl
      @Adventurer-te8fl Год назад

      The world is not for toxic people and jerks. So don't expect to not be in prison after spewing insults at ppl for no reason

    • @hellepost1439
      @hellepost1439 Год назад

      Cyberbullies for Sadistic Pleasure‼️ Pathetic Cowards🚮

  • @Cobra427Veight
    @Cobra427Veight 10 месяцев назад

    Why is there an ," unwritten code of silence" amongst the gossips / bullies, are there no decent people around any more ,"upstander" that could tell you what's going on and who is spreading the dirt .

  • @Irelad.
    @Irelad. 4 года назад +2

    there is a furry on my tik tok comment editing my comments to make look lika furraphobe and now her fandom is after me

  • @beardlessspirit4946
    @beardlessspirit4946 9 лет назад +5

    100 th like :)
    Awesome work..

  • @chairforcegamer3571
    @chairforcegamer3571 3 года назад +1

    Children shouldn't have unrestricted/unmonitored access to social media, parents have no excuse for not having talks with their children about the things they may run into online.

  • @briandoherty1886
    @briandoherty1886 3 года назад +4

    Well done dear stand up to these fools the world is becoming more narcissistic each and every day ❤️✌🏻👍🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

    • @Remix2366
      @Remix2366 3 года назад +1

      Bruh just block them

  • @wesley-fp6gl
    @wesley-fp6gl 6 лет назад +2

    Three words : press power button

  • @Subzero-wl7ll
    @Subzero-wl7ll Год назад +1

    Call of duty players watching this video:
    🤣🤣😈😈

  • @kasrakh4398
    @kasrakh4398 4 года назад +1

    cyber bulling is a first world problem. change my mind

  • @kntwing23
    @kntwing23 3 года назад +1

    Take down Social media for good?

  • @krishnansrinivasan830
    @krishnansrinivasan830 9 лет назад +7

    Nice :)

  • @2tamz603
    @2tamz603 3 года назад

    Why does the block button never work on RUclips?!? Cyberbullies are bullying my kid on here!!!

  • @chassni99a78
    @chassni99a78 4 года назад +9

    Just turn off your computer tf 😂 just walk away from it

    • @theuglybeing4673
      @theuglybeing4673 4 года назад +14

      It's not as easy for others as it sounds. It's equal to saying just ignore it or walk away when someone insults you . Or just breakup and walk away when you're married to someone

    • @noimportante4284
      @noimportante4284 3 года назад

      I know you know better

    • @Adventurer-te8fl
      @Adventurer-te8fl Год назад

      And the bullies can simply deal with it in prison

  • @mrnuts7714
    @mrnuts7714 4 года назад +4

    does this count
    Maybe you should toughen up or even turn your computer or phone off

  • @jessicasimplicioreis3824
    @jessicasimplicioreis3824 Год назад +1

    Mt bom...🦋🌷🦋💙

  • @yonettecrandon
    @yonettecrandon 6 месяцев назад

    That's 😧 crazy

  • @ghitahina7789
    @ghitahina7789 5 лет назад +2

    Lol just think of cyberbulling as a test like some exam papers that its depend on the one that answering it, not on the one making it (well unless it's the makers fault) so... it depends on the victim it test the emotional feeling of that certain person.Well if you have weak mental or emotional thingy then you know what will happened to that person while those's ones that have stronger one's they can just ignore that kind of things.

  • @OBraylonTuckerO
    @OBraylonTuckerO 2 года назад +1

    Imagine not knowing how to power a computer or phone off, smh.

  • @slinxp7306
    @slinxp7306 3 года назад +3

    just turn off your phone bruh

    • @cloydxx
      @cloydxx 3 года назад

      Fr they making these things seem like a big deal but it's not as much as real life bullying in school

    • @Remix2366
      @Remix2366 3 года назад

      @@cloydxx you mean physical bullying,right

    • @cloydxx
      @cloydxx 3 года назад

      @@Remix2366 physical bullying is what I mean by school bullying

    • @Adventurer-te8fl
      @Adventurer-te8fl Год назад

      @@cloydxx Physical or mental, they are both a big deal

    • @Adventurer-te8fl
      @Adventurer-te8fl Год назад

      The bullies should just cope in prison

  • @s8nbutgerman209
    @s8nbutgerman209 4 года назад

    Like if you are a weak person dont throw yourself into a situation where you get slaughtered
    Just stay in the bubble where cursing is bad
    And people who cant take hate
    Just keep childen out of some corners
    Ive been cyberbullied
    I could stand it i could fight back
    I was 12

    • @s8nbutgerman209
      @s8nbutgerman209 4 года назад

      If you know its a kid you can attack back

    • @theuglybeing4673
      @theuglybeing4673 4 года назад +2

      " don't throw yourself into a situation where you get slaughtered" so are you trying to justify bullying?! You're sick

    • @Adventurer-te8fl
      @Adventurer-te8fl Год назад

      If you are a bully, don't continue bullying unless u want to go to jail. If u got into jail for bullying, then deal with it since it's your fault.

  • @UrMOm-hg2tk
    @UrMOm-hg2tk 2 года назад +2

    every cod player ever

    • @eimerhegel427
      @eimerhegel427 Год назад

      Lmao 😂 finally a comment that isn't all serious and gloomy, although you better do research on a game and their community before going on a game, I play Warzone and expect everyone to curse and DDOS everybody.

  • @thaliajimenez37
    @thaliajimenez37 4 месяца назад

    Thank you victim bullying

  • @humangirl2122
    @humangirl2122 7 лет назад +4

    This make's me wish I knew how to hack.

  • @Funkis1991
    @Funkis1991 3 года назад

    Kids? I was bullied by 54 year old guy

  • @jessicasimplicioreis3824
    @jessicasimplicioreis3824 Год назад

    Alguém assistindo??🌚💚💜🦋🌧😁😎

  • @mu-wc7ut
    @mu-wc7ut 6 лет назад +2

    I am a sufferer and am suicidal 😭😓😫😨😥😢

    • @swirlez
      @swirlez 5 лет назад

      Don't say that

    • @RoastedToast270
      @RoastedToast270 5 лет назад

      fortnie

    • @potato_0pz512
      @potato_0pz512 5 лет назад

      @@RoastedToast270 congenital herpes

    • @studiodevelopers2467
      @studiodevelopers2467 4 года назад

      m u
      We need to stop these bullyers
      Play a. Video game instead :) you'll be okay. Type in here if they do it again.

    • @blessedchild321
      @blessedchild321 Год назад

      I hope you're doing good and safe

  • @dawinderkaur8668
    @dawinderkaur8668 3 года назад +3

    Ys I am abused by teacher and class mates

  • @codmoments1022
    @codmoments1022 5 лет назад +1

    Parents will not stop cyber bullying

  • @danielgteaching1377
    @danielgteaching1377 3 года назад

    That has to be the worst mispronunciation of a word I have heard by a native English speaker (Adolescent)

  • @themidrangeplayer8518
    @themidrangeplayer8518 2 года назад

    Nowdays people get cuberbully in the game..

  • @theonlinetroll6946
    @theonlinetroll6946 3 года назад +3

    Just grow some balls and turn off ur device or turn off notifications.its that simple

    • @hellepost1439
      @hellepost1439 Год назад

      Cyberbullies for Sadistic Pleasure‼️ Pathetic Cowards🚮

    • @Trixooo888
      @Trixooo888 Год назад +1

      You're probably the ones she's talking about

    • @Bluemojieatscookie15
      @Bluemojieatscookie15 8 месяцев назад

      It's just hard sometimes

  • @CarlosMendoza-zx6oq
    @CarlosMendoza-zx6oq 2 года назад +2

    Ratio

  • @luciellemacalam859
    @luciellemacalam859 4 года назад

    Introduction/?

  • @memelord7120
    @memelord7120 11 месяцев назад +1

    They don’t like you

  • @YupaLovesGlizzy
    @YupaLovesGlizzy 3 года назад +1

    Just turn off the computer

  • @Firearcher178
    @Firearcher178 Год назад +1

    Just close the computer LOL

  • @orokanasentoki6013
    @orokanasentoki6013 2 года назад +2

    Just turn off the device lol

    • @eimerhegel427
      @eimerhegel427 Год назад

      Give this man an award for an actually working and practical counter to cyber bullying.

  • @hharish2134
    @hharish2134 4 года назад +5

    Okay so the whole premises of the argument here is "mommy someone hurt MY FEELINGS" .. ha ha..
    Grow up and this planet is brutal and have no place for HYPER SENSITIVE people. ..

    • @hellepost1439
      @hellepost1439 Год назад

      Cyberbullies for Sadistic Pleasure‼️ Pathetic Cowards🚮

  • @eimerhegel427
    @eimerhegel427 Год назад

    CoD players:

  • @nayabali5859
    @nayabali5859 9 месяцев назад

    What's her accent??

  • @jububoobaroo67
    @jububoobaroo67 Год назад

    Just close your eyes lol you cant be cyber bullied like turn off the screen.