When a Narcissist Sees You as Being Too Strong, This Is What They’ll do | NPD | Narcissism
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- When a Narcissist Sees You as Being Too Strong, This Is What They’ll do | NPD | Narcissism | Behind The Science
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Narcissistic Personality Disorder
If the narcissist has nothing to use against you, they will manufacture it, then act like the victim. Their performance is spot-on, and the smear campaign that follows their wrath is devastating.
this painfully true.
I disagree, it is not devastating - it is laughable !
Have faith !
I really need help in this matter of covert 😭
operation 3/923 keep me in prayer 🤲🙏💞🤗
@@pattypohlit7803 Serenity Prayer
They’ll even stalk you after the fact, deploying all manner of flying monkeys & swift idiots who believe anything....they’ll have u stalked, intimidated & harassed at places you frequent- restaurants, grocery stores, any local place you go...they’re utterly pathetic & bribe people to enact their charade
This should be
shown in high school.
It would save a lot
of people a lot of grief.
To narcissists this creates alot of grief and confusion. How do we ever help them?
@@christineplaton3048
We save humanity from them.
They are monsters.
This is so true! This kind of education is needed from childhood and it can save so many lives!!
50 years ago when I was in high school, we just knew about nice people and mean people. Bullies and friends. It’s worse when the narcissists are in your family. It takes years to figure out that just because they are family, it doesn’t mean they love you. You go through denial, thinking maybe it’s you that is wrong or the problem. You spend years trying to discover what you did to be treated badly by your own family!!! Years to get through the hurt and anger, then delete the ones who are still alive from one’s life. It’s ugly. But you learn to find your support and love, and those you have things in common with as you live. Always trust yourself and your instincts. Never give up hope. 🙏🏼❤️🌟🕊
@@christinalw19 you've shared my story. It took years to figure out your parents and siblings are the toxic narcs lead by your own father. He's a big textbook example of how to be narcs. However I am shouldering their expenses. I worked hard and paid for them every single things. They have never appreciated yet always showed that they need more and more money. I have decided to distant myself from such toxic people. Of course I will continue to support them financially. I am starting my journey of healing.. Life goes on!
There needs to be a narcissism awareness month
More like ignore the narc in your life month
@@paddyo3841 or completely exploit and patronize them
@@stonesoup842
Mine is my daughter in law… causes so much trouble in our family but everyone but my son is aware of her games. I think she has sufficiently exposed herself and would not want to exploit or play any games with her, for the sake of my son who adores her and they have a son as well…
@@paddyo3841 That would make a great T-shirt
@@stealth48nurse tee shirt slogans are not a bad idea actually, would certainly be interesting to see how narcs would react, especially to the “narc awareness month” as narcs do not seem to have any self awareness?
Awesome. Remember many people see right through the narcissist and don't buy into their smear campaign. Furthermore, many narcissists are not liked. People just pretend to like them.
True
In the two years we were friends she always tried to get me to talk to her friends that blocked her
I recognize those messages now from people I don’t know that tell me to contact her even though they don’t even spell her name or my name right. Flying monkeys. I try to ignore them or politely decline with two or 3 words. They will have to figure it out on their own. Even if I would tell them she is a narc and they are her flying monkeys, they probably don’t know what I am talking about yet…
Unfortunately that's not usually true of covert narcissists. They are usually very well liked because they can manipulate so well and can pretend have empathy. I do believe what you are saying in regards to overt narcissist though.
Yeah , I think most of the time people simply feel threatened by them , so they try stay on their good side , even if they don't necessarily like them ..... because they have ZERO empathy or conscience.....The best they can do is fake these emotional attitudes.
It's like a movie everyone else knows what's happening except the person in the movie which is us.
Why was I so blind?
Trying to understand a narcissist is so counterproductive to our physical and mental well-being. The best way to understand a narcissist is not learning tolerance but getting out!!! Narcissists are hell to live with and impossible to love!🥵
YESSSSSSS🙌🙌🙌
Spot on. I was the romantic one in our marriage. I feel the pain now on how much I missed out on, but I'm so glad I was educated 50yrs ago you had no idea. Thank you.
Yep they are low life toddlers and will never change.
You hit the nail on the head. They are toxic and enjoy hurting you and causing a lot of pain. They tell lies and don't care about you. I have been through all this. Thanks for sharing. Look after you.
Don't want to love those butches
They may slander but the truth always comes out eventually.
I've been manipulated, gaslighted, and threatened on a daily basis. Some of the threats were he was going to kill himself if I didn't do what was asked, he would punch pillows or sofa, stand up against me and yell at my face, stand behind the car and not let me leave, sometimes we would be driving and he would threaten to swerve and hit any truck, hold my arms and shake me, push me aside to a wall, and much more. My in-laws were also very verbally abusive towards me. I wasn’t allowed to visit my family or friends. If I did or wanted to, I had to be ready for an argument. Every day I was reminded that I am nothing and that I was not worth fighting for and that I don't meet the standards of being married to their son. Recently, I found out he was cheating on me and had a girlfriend. After seeing the texts and pictures, I became numb. I've been a good wife, I listened to every insult and fight. I never gave up what I knew, thanks to this hacker who's helped me to extract enough information from his device. Someone on here shared a link to the hacker who helped cloned his phone without physically touching it. All I did was send his phone number to him and through a remote link sent to my email, I was able to access all of his texts, emails, Facebook and Instagram chats, real-time call listening and his long deleted messages as if the phone was physically with me. Perhaps, you are in a similar situation and you need help you can get in touch with him
Email:
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Yep
Yep… that is correct… just be patient.
That's reassuring. I think it's really important to not react or retaliate. If we just prove them wrong by our actions, they will look like the crazy one.
They don't know when to stop and always go too far
They want access to you, your confidence and strength. Then they throw a tantrum because you don't give them access to your life and their idea of you. They accuse you of being reserved and constantly try to push boundaries until they realize they can't manipulate you. They will discard you but not without playing the victim and trying to gaslight you as being the crazy one.
Sooooo true!!
Yes and they want to steal your identity 😮
Ive watched at least 50 videos on narcissism so far and it never ceases to amaze me how spot on they are where knowledge is your first line of defense because once you recognize all thier motives and patterns, the narcissist actually becomes quite predictable.
You are entirely correct. That knowledge will become your power in dealing with them.
Ex-wife was big time narc. A couple girlfriends since have been narcs. I've become an expert narc ghoster.
Knowledge is the key. He was a science experiment for a year of seeing him on MY TIME for school lessons on narcissism. I took away his power, and he has power like being a 3rd degree black belt in Jujitsu shew wild man. He acted familiar and finally, it was that I was learning more from him...about my mom. I've loved my mom so love was blind with her and their chaos is hard to see anything clearly. But with this 57 year old guy I could see narcissism’s better. So predictable it was a relief. I don't go around either one of them, it's absolutely too much.
I agree w You once Your on to them You can start to call their next moves..
No offense but it's like down syndrome or albinoism. Once you see it you will know it forever......they all have a pattern like good people have a pattern..
Don’t mind me while I’m busy loving myself and getting stronger & stronger. ❤
This is me as well. Thanks for sharing.
I love that 👏🥰🙌
😂❤🎉
Yes on your work.
love that 💜
When I met my narc years ago, I went from being the greatest thing since sliced bread to public enemy #1, 2 and 3; and I had absolutely no idea why. It wasn't until I discovered what narcissism truly was, that it suddenly made sense. It was textbook.
Same here. And my psycho narc ex was a professional trauma therapist 😯
@@YesPlease1 Evil dresses up in so many frightening wardrobes
Yep. They all pull from the same shitty bag of tricks
@@YesPlease1 omg!
@@YesPlease1
This story is absolutely mind blowing
A clear indication how far evil will go ... how far the broken individual truly is
Narsasists cause great harm to many and cause themselves great harm as well
Professional counselling and spiritually healing is required
Include peer support and 24hr phone access
Pray for them
Forgive them
Give them to God
With compassion
Set boundaries
In some cases, involve the police
Share this with 2 or 3 people or less
Guard your heart when there is a RED FLAG!!!
I could go on but I'll end with this
Abuse is Abuse
Have a good one!!!
God bless everyone
Love,
Lynne
They will start to comment on you, even little things to insult you or criticize your character in a very mean, destructive / labeling manner. These types of people are everywhere.
They just have to belittle and lecture you..For me it feels like they always have to dominate you.
There is no equality with them because one has to be upper hand or sub in their world.
It's so hurtful when they put you down but when anyone else notices they say I was only joking. It's great when you don't have anything to do with them. He has caused me a lot of pain over the years. Since listening to these talks I'm a different person. Enjoy your life too.
Yep, sounds just like my b!tchy, gay, ex friend
My Ex narc would always insult me through others by telling me people said these horrible things about me. Which I now know were not true.
I was told that I have no good character traits and will die alone. And of course nobody likes me and if somebody is nice to me it’s just for sexual reasons.
Yes, I'm married with one and I'm trying to make money so I can leave
Block them all and live for your peace and freedom ❤ it might be a bit lonely sometimes but anything better then fake friends
🔌
I was lonely when I was with him. It was like being with a robot at times. Now, I feel less lonely because I'm with people who actually have empathy and feel things. Some day, I hope I'll meet a lovely empath to give my love to.
everyone i met is fake except for a few.
everyone i met is fake except for a few.
Simply having a good day and being in a good mood makes you a 🎯
Yep. It drives them nutz.
Narcissists know your weak spots and I’d they are in a sour mood, they will rip your jugular out with hatred blazing from their eyes.
It means your focus on them, and fear of them, is absent! Nasty pieces of work! 👹
True
Yes agreed, they like to kill your joy
Be strong be strong, be strengthened.
They are who they are, you are who you are.
Let them go!
I experienced 30 years of domestic psychological abuse by both parents and 1 sibling in particular more than the other. It was devastating, you can't get away there, no money, nowhere to go. And I didn't know they were against me. The worst part was that some relatives and friends knew about it and never said anything. Just a few words would have changed my life. The first person to hint that it could have been them the problem and not me was my doctor. It opened my eyes, it gave me some respite. You can't win arguing with narcissists, you can win some battles but they turn up the heat even to the point of self destruction. They are prepared to die rather than having peace. They change their mind constantly, they lie often, they say one thing one day, the opposite the next. So it's impossible to discuss anything constructive. Even if what you say is helpful to them, they won't accept it; they'd rather do the opposite just to show you that you were wrong. Yet, they want you to hang around, they pretend that they don't know why you are upset in order to makes it look like you are the problem. It's like living in an asylum. Absolute torture.
This is my experience. Toxic. I’m out of it and have been for four years. Some things can’t be healed and need to be amputated. God bless you and I wish you happiness and peace 🙏
I do hope that you broke free and are getting support to heal. It’s not easy and there’s no perfect recovery but there is recovery and hope.
@@madamdardis Yes, I realise some people have/had it even harder, I got bashed sometimes but not as often as other people experience. However, psychological abuse is devastating to a child; in fact, I can't heal losing my patience but it has improved. In my teenage years I would never ever lose my patience. Perhaps that's what my family hated because I wasn't like them; so it was a continuous attempt at enraging me. In the end, after ten years or so (the first time I lost it), there was no way out, losing your patience keeps you sane. Psychologists or experience teach you to keep calm, to hold the pain inside, "grey rocking" or "stone walling" but I don't think so. If safe, I wouldn't do that. One must be herself/himself: if they want to stir you up, it's their problem in the long run. If you feel like raising your voice to these people, do it. Do not feel guilty about that. Yet, don't hate them inside. Feel compassion for them, like if you are in a mentally superior position or at an higher IQ.
It's been years since I left home. So, I'm 99% recovered aside from the occasional burst of anger, that still annoys me because they caused it: by playing tricks with you all the times, now you don't know when other people are doing the same or not, the defences go up quickly. So, it's going on the offensive before getting hit, that's the mechanism in place.
What helped me recover? God. I was born again. I found out about the real Bible not the Bible used by those powerful institutions you know... God heals, it's a process as well. In fact, I see myself a bit like Joseph, nearly killed by his brothers, sold in slavery, which was for a very good reason. Something amazing then happened to me that defies reality, I have even published a book about it. That Word of God is the best psychologist ever, the greatest Counsellor, www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Isaiah-9-6/
How did your doctor know about it? Every line you wrote, check, yep, exactly, they are all the same. Have had similar experiences. Prayers to you.
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Hi, it was a small town, only one doctor. She would see us regularly, maybe once or twice a year each. To think of it, I believe she was also a psychologist, at some point my parents wanted me to be analysed by her. Maybe she did ask me some questions without me noticing when I was just around puberty. Later in life also another acquaintance who worked with one of my parents said that it must not have been easier with my parents. By that time I knew already. I remember that most people and relatives when I just mentioned that perhaps my parents were a bit hard on me, they defended them. In fact, if you saw them, my parents were the best friends you could meet, always laughing, helping out, joking, nice to others but the opposite at home. Not all of the times but circa 80%.
I just jot down a few lines here if that can help someone young. At that times I was in the Catholic Church. It wasn't helping, praying, confessing, talking to the priest etc. So I went into meditation, a bit of yoga, Zen, self-hypnosis, New Age, the power of attraction. I was looking for God so I studied dozens and dozens of books on all religions of the world, at least the main ones. I later wrote a book about those findings. Then I was increasing my visits to Catholic shrines, buying the saints' accessories, listening to the pope's messages etc.
Then, my parents wanted me out of there but in reality, when I left, I don't think they could find another supply like I was. Basically, my family was run like a cult with my father portrayed like God on earth. Yet, my mother was a covert narcissist too a bit more sociopathic maybe. I remember that they wanted me to change, pestering me for years. Very stressful because they wanted me to go against my own personality. So I did change a bit, to survive. Do you know what they told me then? We don't really like how you changed, can you go back to be like you were before?
It's been nearly 20 years since I left, I kind of forgave them but the conversations were not as deep as before because they'd pick on anything, even if I mentioned that it was cold or warm outside they would negate it. Crazy stuff. Not that I care if they agree or not; in fact that's why I never lost my patience, because I enjoyed listening to a different opinion. They could not handle it. I had to argue with them to the point that they would pick on me breathing a certain way or walking heavily at home or the tone of my voice. I remember watching a movie with them. I was watching the movie, they were looking at me if they could catch me in something I was doing. That's sad. I also caught them talking behind my back in a few occasions.
In the end, I found love. I couldn't get over the fact that you could be loved for who you were rather than what you do. Meanwhile I was still searching for God. I had moved to an English speaking country by then, this is my second language. I was flabbergasted by discovering so much data on spirituality which was either censored or only in English on the net. I delved deep into the study of the Bible for many years, I was astonished at what I found. I've been trying to tell people about this my story. It wasn't over yet,
That's when it happened. He came to me one evening, no, not like in the movies, not visibly or stuff like that. That was amazing! Yes, God, I'm talking about Christ. I explain much more with the encounter in a chapter of my newest book a few years ago. In it, I prove that the Bible is supernatural. I write on how to be successful by using it. It couldn't have come at a better time. God has been healing me for the last 10 years or so. I believe He guided me to find the information I needed. Here is the kicker. Two years after publishing, I went back to read my book again, I was blown away. I found codes encoded inside it! What? Yes. Just to give you an idea, when I wrote the summary chapter on my life, I discovered that the page numbers at the beginning and ending where my date of birth! .... The book had exactly 639 pages but you don't know that until it's published, a few pages are added at the end, could be 2 or 3 or 4. So 639 was also part of my book, I go into math a bit. Those are universal numbers. Have you heard about Tesla? I can't reveal more; however, here is the link, www.amazon.com/Greatest-Bible-Who-Ever-Lived-ebook/dp/B08JG8QPJ8/ref
I hope someone in need will receive this message. The book is highly recommended. This is not something one writes in 6 months, a commercial thing. It took at least 7 years to do it. It used to be over $30, now Amazon has lowered the price below cost. If I could give it out for free I would but free stuff loses its value. Go for it. That's one off ... and I read tons of books on spiritual subjects. Have a good day guys, whoever read this, and to all true Christians out there ... bless you too. Ciao
I never knew what a Narcissist was until about 18 months ago. I have been gaslighted and manipulated. Listening to these talks I have been educated. I sp grateful over 50yrs married I used to blame his alcoholism but he hasn't had a drink in 26yrs. It was when he was gaslighting me it all came out. I had never heard these words and didn't know what they meant. I was talking to one of my daughters about something that had happened and she told me her dad was gaslighting me, I had to ask her what she meant. My narc and I live in the same house but I have not spoken to him for 6 months. I won't let anyone hurt me like that again. I'm now a much happier person, I saw a counsellor which was helpful but these channels have been a life saver. Thank you.
I never knew either till I was 43yo. I had a narc friend that turned nasty and that had happened periodically but she usually found her happy place after a couple of days and we would continue working on projects together. But she did not like that I was further along in establishing financial security and spending on my hobbies while she could not afford that. Its almost like they get tired of acting like the good person you bring out in them, and the demon in them takes over again. Too bad.
I’m fine without her. I learn to keep clear and conscious boundaries now and don’t share information or connect friends to each other. So no facebook and I constantly change my ID on marketplace apps.
So far she got to one friend in 1.5 years of no contact. She keeps having people contact me to tell me about horrible things that happened to her young kids and she has her kids send me video messages all the time. Poor kids. They will probably grow up to be like her too. No love, just betrayal and manipulation.
@broeklien3817 Yes stay clear of her. They pretend their sorry,then it starts all over again. I can't believe I let my narc get away with it for so long. I'm now educated and that's a big help. Look after you as your NO 1. Thanks for sharing.
@@broeklien3817 😥
Don't feel bad I was married to one for 8years. Divorced 4 years ago. Didn't know what narcissist was until I left the married
@@helenduffy6642 Yes, the only thing they are sorry for, is that you figured them out.
Everyone should watch this!!!! Especially strong people! 😮
Yep 👍
I've always had this red light that has always been my protector, no matter how dark my world has been. Never in relationships long because when stuff mentally starting going (south) meaning too much, that red light would go on. When it goes on, I made quick exits. Why? Because I suffered 22 years of hospitalizations and swore to God, I would never go back and never did. Not that much sex in the damn world, period.
They often have enablers too so you are not just dealing one on one always either with them they might gang up on you or have other collaborators in creating their lies and false image of you if you leave them. That's difficult too, realizing how many are eager to join in destroying your life and reputation and how few will even question the narrative and slander.
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Even using people at churches to hurt you
@patricia griffin correct! My ex was a deacon at the church and when we divorced he told all of the Deacons all type of lies about me.
That's the hardest part. The gang up. I'm very annoyed by this situation.
Every word is relatable. It's a lot harder when it's family and they gang up on you. All the love I've given my siblings, the advice & financial support (we're all middle aged adults now) and look where that got me. My brother took advantage of my kindness and destroyed me. And my sister is the enabler. I don't feel valued, or heard. I feel betrayed. I don't know how to recover from decades of going through this. 😥
He knew exactly how to trigger me. The first 18 months was learning about me, and then once I moved in, he used my misfortune and my ex relationships against me.
Lowest kind of low ..
Beware of people who really want to know the ins and outs of your life and of your family up front. They need that info to act the part and worm their way in. Always get them to answer the question first that they ask you and then watch them worm their way around to being like you or having the same interests.
I practice walking away. They can wax on to others in the group or I tell them I’m busy and walk away. Yes, they do eventually get the message. Going silent is truly golden.
Ya it’s terrifying what they morph into after that
The best thing one can do when dealing with a Narcissist, is to NOT DEAL WITH THEM.
Trying to play ANY game where your exposure to them is prolonged any more than it needs to be, is a game you can't and will not win. At least not without becoming someone or something that is as bad or worse than they are. You'd have to almost become psychopathic in your lack of connection and emotion about dealing with them in order to beat them at their game. You can't beat them because with them, the gaslighting, passive-aggressive behavior is who they are. For you it would be an act. they will not change or stop because it's who they are.
The problem is that a narcissist would never try and be with someone who is or has the potential to be like that.
They tend to go after people who are naturally inclined to protect, do for others and are HIGHLY empathetic.
They need that empathetic element to their partners because it works well with their gaslighting and other tactics to get a rise out of you. A psychopathic person wouldn't care so there's no avenue of manipulation for the narcissist with a psychopathic person.
Well stated. Thanks
They filled with envy jealousy and envious rage .
🎯 Indeed they ARE. They’re truly pitiful, so utterly miserable.
They have a lot of crap in their minds that’s destroying them and is, unfortunately, spilling out into the environment and affecting the lives of the rest of humanity…they constantly rage against and attack good, upstanding/moral, kind, generous, constructive, considerate, conscientious, peace-loving people who are minding their/our own businesses.
I wish I could round them all up, increase their hearing capacity and have them sit and listen -TRULY LISTEN and COMPREHEND - to Robina Courtin’s talk, “Be Your Own Therapist.” That talk is powerful as Robina Courtin’s style of speaking and checking people is so no-nonsense. When she speaks, it’s like very strong medicine. It’s strong and BITTER medicine to some….those who have a hard time hearing the truth (because it’s inconvenient for their egos).
@@lemostjoyousrenegade ichecked her talk by the same title u mentioned . Does not narc abuse also fill us with dread anger provoked fears jealousies despair unamed anxieties guilt and shame ?
I wish she would nuance more.
You said it all. I'm married to one, they always accuse you of things they do, always playing the victim. I've never seen him being wrong. If you dare point out his wrongdoing he will play the victim and remind you of the things you did in the past just to undermine you. Thank you so much for this piece its a lifesaver
your not alone 😢
Thats my narcissistic husband. He blamed u and accused u with his doings and lied even if he knows the truth!
Sheesh. Sounds awful…
Dare I say: try get out of that shit situation??
Absolutely. 20 years of marriage and he blames me for every single argument. He is always the victim and I am so bad that his family needs to be informed about my issues. Of course he doesn’t like to tell anybody that he likes to punch me once in a while.
Punch back or leave
I have a neighbour, that is a nac when I stand up for myself she backs off like a coward then slanders me to get attention from some other neighbours where I live just to get pity But the amazing thing is I am getting stronger each time this happens I am the head she is the tail It used to be round the other way Thank God for his help great understanding from your video’s
And anyone who believes her lies isn't worth having as a friend anyways. It's all good. Stay strong.
@@llhannah9297 I agree, it's better to have no body, than friends who are easily swayed by gossip. If somebody who claims to your friend can so easily believe horrible things about you, then they were not a real friend to begin with. Sometimes you attract the wrong people, not because something is wrong with you, but because of what is right with you.
"I have the power to trample on serpents and scorpions and nothing by any means shall harm you"!!!
@@jodizellmer994 Remember also when you are a "listening ear" (tea & sympathy)listen CAREFULLY to thier words..( actions-animation gestures etc) the way they talk about others to you is SAME way they speak to others about you.
Yeah I used to live next door to a neighbor like that too. Then made the mistake of taking in a border for a few months like that too. The neighbor next to us thankfully on the other side was exact the opposite. Could I have done well in life withouth them instead? Probable not while moving away didn't cure the problem right away.
New narc boss was aware I did not fall for their crap, so boss tried to ambush me in front of co-workers criticizing my work. I stood my ground and proved that the boss was actually wrong and I was correct. Instead of leaving me alone, boss tried the following week to AGAIN discredit me on a different matter, and once again, I proved that I was correct and they were wrong. It's like this boss has a death wish. Why do they not give up???? Boss just keeps digging a hole for themself.
Dude, you're not gonna win. If narc is your boss he'll sack you if he can't dominate you. You better look for another job in the meantime.
@@cheshirecat2641 I'm union.
@@l.5832 🤣 that is cute.
You're not gonna win!
@@cheshirecat2641 I already have.
It is because they're mentally retarded. We don't typically think of someone with special needs as a narcissist but they actually are.
Does anyone else notice the similarities of The Narcissist, The Government and The Banks or is it just me??😮
I notice. Govt lies. Govt never takes accountability. Govt plays mind control games. Etc. Catholic Church falls im w Narcissism too. They never did take accountability for molesting boys. Narcissism is being programmed through the TV & Social Media too. It is definitely a part of a larger dark force. If you study any religions you will notice all their demons or evil ones show all signs of narcissism. Lucifer too. God had to go no contact after Lucifer lied, then smear campaigned him to all the other angels. This shit goes way back & is present in all religions.
This looks like a very accurate description of my boss. It took me 6 years to realize that she was the problem, not me. 6 years being blocked in my career growth, of my work being belittled and used by her as hers, 6 years of lies and toxic behaviors. I was not mature and too naive to see that the problem was not me being not competent enough. I now started to try to defend myself for the first time, but she is not reacting well to me not being submissive anymore.
It hurt 1000 times more when the narc is your own mother. The woman who who brought u into this world. The woman who God chose to be your mother. It’s just devastating. I know God is got me tho. I know he is protecting me and I know he loves me. 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼
God didn't choose your life for you, you did. You are shown what your life is going to be from a number of choices. There must have been something you saw in those choices to persuade you to choose that life. I often wonder why I chose the life I chose. Surfice it to say, these days, my mother would have been imprisoned for what she did to me.
Defending yourself is a waste of time, they already know you are valuable. Leave.
@@I-md6mq Thank you. I actually needed to read this today.
My old boss was toxic too. When I started giving it back to her, she started writing me up. I quit before she could fire me. Get out now is my advice to you.
My Narc Ex-husband would tell his family & friends that I was doing the abusive things he was doing to me, cheating , lying, off my rocker, acting out of character, physically & emotionally abusive etc. I finally figured out he was purposefully ensuring they didn't communicate with me & told me things I now know they never said to keep me from talking to them all set up so when he cheated if he chose to leave he felt it was justified because I was abusive 🤦 So he got to be the victim & they all rallied around him in support . Delusional, methodical, sadistic!
The NPD I'm married to has made so I'm unable to move because of low money/income. Yet I'm working on getting out!
Thank you 🙏🏽 ♥️ I’ve survived the unthinkable. Healing and therapy is my top priority right now.
More love to you ❤️❤️❤️
Me too, we're gonna make it!
@@jesterstyl yes❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@@RandomThot of course my love he will 💕💕💕💕
You know what I am at the hovering stage he comes around my house in the gap of two month and now a days he is coming around my house I don't know when he will stop doing this...
@@RandomThot yes I am trying to but somehow it is affecting my mental space 😀😅
They can't take your power if you cut ties immediately when the garbage starts. The second the mind games start I'm done. I don't care who they are in the relationship dynamic. I'd leave a job to not be around such people. They can talk about me all they want to others... the important thing is I know who I am and those that entertain them and back stab me won't be in my life either.
This CERTAINLY explains the modern and current trend toward being a 'HATER' society.
Western societies in general are a culmination of people 'hating-on" each other and often plotting their demise. The increase in narcissism in this society explains the behaviour.
V well said n Hurt People Hurt People.. isn't it just awful 😕.. and if the victims Start doing the same stuff that's been done 2 them by others the cycle grows and yes now we have a serious issue!!
You're right, we have a real problem in USA.
@@wandah9468 Well, to be fair, I don't believe it is JUST in the USA - though it is occurring at a much higher rate in what we commonly referrer to as 'western civilization' which includes Europe, (especially Amsterdam & Switzerland) Australia, New Zealand and much of South America. To a large degree I see two primary culprits which originate as one: Cultural Marxism and Feminism. In history, civilizations which go this route tend to flourish only for a time then rapidly decline and then cease to exist altogether.
@@adamselene5957 Is this just a phase we're going through? Would like to see that fizzle out!
@@wandah9468 I...don't...think...so. Sadly.
I believe the older morals and cultural values must come back into play if society as a whole is to survive. Technology will likely prevent that from occurring without a collapse of technological support systems first. Still, having said that, there are a great deal of exceptionally intelligent individuals working behind the scene attempting to prevent its collapse. So, we'll have to wait and see. I don't think we'll have to wait too long to know the inevitable outcome.
😢I really needed to hear this this morning...! Humph.. I kept keeping him around knowing he was going tru so much inside and feeling sorry for him.. But now I realise that I need to feel sorry for myself! I need to stay away to reclaim my mental health!
They love to try & tear you down! So passive aggressive & patronizing to try n keep you 'under' them so glad I broke free!
All of this is still so helpful even though I had to have extensive talk therapy. My oldest daughter is 100 % a narcissist, I didn't know what that even meant until she hurt me so badly I medical doctor sent me to talk therapy ( I'm 78yrs) at that time now almost 82 yrs. What a relief ,I was so unsuspecting and ignorant...he saved me. I now stay completely away from her and believe she has turned our two granddaughters against me,they are in their mid twenties. I've never had any conversations with them about their mom and they very seldom call me, I was usually the one to call or text first, now nothing since afew months. I took care of these girls for years daily...while the parents worked. It's a long sad story but at least now I know why
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Same here. I had to walk away. I'm praying that she doesn't turn the youngest grandchild against me.
I had to tell my oldest grandson who loves me and recognizes what his mom is, that she's started up again, and the other 2 grandchildren have too, that I can't come to his wedding, because she'll ruin it if I'm there. He said that he understands and that he loves me. He told me to try not to be sad. I've walked away from her for good.
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After a devastating break up of marriage after 25 years..thought I had found the love of my life....didn't know about love bombing, gaslighting and narcissist abuse! Now I am so aware....I am putting the distance!😞😞
Jeez, I can't believe how true your words are...at least in my case. I've been targeted by a crazy and malicious narc for a long time. No matter where I was they used the same pattern: Get control over people from my inner circle. I noticed because change came rapidly as if someone snapped his finger and whoosh their attitude and behavior changed towards me. I don't think my inner circle would voluntarily harm me so it's likely that coercion or some promises were made in return for helping the narc. Since I moved away the narc and his flying monkeys have tried reaching my new surrounding. They spread lies in order to isolate me and prevent me from making new friends. It's pretty obvious that someone wants me to move back to my family where it's easier to exert control over me.I guess, this narc came from a highly dysfunctional family and wants to ruin people's lives. No one should be able to have a better (family) life as the narc.
I have noticed that once they realize they can't control you, they will try to infiltrate and influence those around you. I transferred in to another department to be rid of a narc supervisor and within weeks that supervisor decided to befriend my NEW supervisor.....and now they're best buds and prior to that they never interacted. I know my old supervisor will be bad nothing me and there is nothing I can do but I am careful at work to be courteous to all, but not make any actual friendships. Social life is for people outside of work. That way narc can spoil professional relationships but not personal ones.
@@l.5832 Good luck!
Trace the source. Use a bogus email address if you must remain in low contact. Also get vip website apps to hide your internet address. Use a bogus non locatable phone app. Trace back your conversations to the source. Only have people around that will have your back. No contact. Grayrock. Watch videos about flying monkeys, grayrock, no contact. Its probably your relatives and their toxic associates screwing you over. Birds of a feather flock together. Been there. Don't tell them anything. Don't emote around them.
I know exactly what you are going through. The narc has to get into the inner circle. This is how they receive information on you. If they can't get into the inner circle directly the narc will find a person that's friends with someone in your inner circle and go through them. All to destroy you and you never see it coming. Well I never thought my own mother could be so nosey, controlling and jealous to the levels she chose to get to me. It seems they enjoy the drama and want you to fail. They are sick.
@@stephenkarla7113 Yes, that's exactly what they do!! If they can't easily manipulate you, then they use other people to get to you. The next thing you know everyone close to you is behaving strangely around you, or your arguing with them to the point that you no longer want anything to do with them. It's sick how their brains are wired!!!
The advise that always work- When you see one, run far far away from it
"Amen"! and dont look back,. remember what happened to lots wife!! ( tears are made of salt)
Yup
the video was spot on, i can’t fathom why another human being (narc) would want to destroy an empath? if you got nowhere to run no money you got no choice but to wait for death to free you! they are frightfully abhorrent .
now read your sentence backwards,. for right there "lies"your answer.
@@wendyturner4631 sometimes people talk what they don’t know sometimes it’s best to keep things that way, there “lies” your reply.
This was so exact and true! I was married to a narcissist for almost 13 years but didn't have a clue about narcissists. The psychological and emotional damage he caused is still unbelievable to this day. Thank God for his healing and grace. I never would have made it through the trauma without God. Now, I'm more knowledgeable and I continue to listen to these types of videos and teachings on narcissism to this day.
To God be the Glory ➕ ♥ ➕
If you are a strong empath The Narcissist will stay far away from you been there done that God bless I love you all😇❤💯
Because of the narcissists I have had to deal with in my life have made me unable to accept compliments... compliments were used to manipulate me so I automatically reject them.
Thank-Praise God each and everytime you are genuinely complimented that way you remain "focused" blessed" and not conned-duped. Real ones are "ordained by the Most High anyway :)
This describes exactly what I have been through. The narcissist took my family from me to get revenge for my being myself. She wanted to own me and I didn't give in. She lied to my family and turned them against me. She became abusive toward me. It's hard to believe that someone can derive pleasure from making another person suffer. But that's the way a narcissist lives. They have no love or compassion.
Me too, took my family
I’ve watched plenty of videos of late and this is by far the most powerful one I’ve watched. I’ve had a lifetime of narcissistic parents. My mother the most hurtful. Wow this was insightful. Thank you 🙏😊
Great video. Setting "Boundaries" is no. 1 on my list of priorities for adjustment. The lack of, got me into more trouble than I want to think about, I'm talking decades.
even with boundaries, they will relentlessly try to chip them away. They are very tenacious.
Yes, cut and cauterize your way out, is an excellent way to describe breaking free from a narcissist. That is exactly how it feels and it will hurt.
The lies they come up with to blame you and victimize themselves is soooooo dangerous you have to learn to ignore them and keep it moving they will do anything to destroy you
This happened with my now ex husband when we had a child together. I was comfortable and confident in being a mom. Behind my back he told all of our friends and family I had PPD and was afraid I was going to hurt the baby. After I left him, he started calling child protective services and whenever we had to interact, he would call the police to chaperone because he feared for his safety. I never did anything to him other than have confidence and the strength to leave him. It's been 7 years, and he still has the same narrative to this day. He's exhausting
Congratulations! You are ready to help thousands of people now.
Be strong my husband of 15 years is doing a similar thing while sleeping with my "best friend" of 7 years and moving her and her 3 kids into my house days after getting a protection order to force me out of my house yet accuses me of adultry
The husband & best friend is going to destroy each other. Two, narcs together. All hell is going to break loose.@@amieeandree1119
They don't love themselves, they embrace pleasure and pain. There's never enough pain or pleasure for the narcissist. The spiritual narcissist is the most dangerous of all. They'll justify anything, there's no limits
Omg true words whenever u get away stay away as far as possible an focus on u
Happening currently at my work. He told my direct boss, who's new to the role & hardly knows me that I am mentally ill. My response was to email this boss, share the conversation we just had, where he told me he'd done this & I added that I do not have any diagnosed mental illness. It's a cheap shot to try to undermine someone at work. It's how we provide for ourselves ! Hoping this is now resolved
oh "that old chestnut"... "yawn yawn".
This is so true, it’s been my experience, it’s crazy how cruel they are
Going through this right now, might lose my job because of it. I still can't help but find it funny, it's so petty and cowardly that it just vindicates me lol.
That is true, but also remember that even if there is something they try and use against you, EVERYBODY has made mistakes in their lives, BUT the important thing is to learn from them by not repeating them. Most normal people will only frown on people who don't learn from their mistakes, or do nothing to change a bad situation.
Simply give them a straight jacket and send them to the padded cell.Best thing to do is go no contact period. Don’t ever have them in your life again And don’t respond ever to them silence is golden. When someone HATES they FALL.
Drop them like a bad habit, even if it's a brother.
You did an excellent job of explaining narcissism. Considering that English is probably not your first language, you did a better job than most native English speakers.. Only somebody that has been in a relationship with a narcissist can explain how they think and operate as well as you do. Those that have not been in a narcissistic relationship can't fathom what we describe. I'm glad you have overcome it.
Narcissits bring always Bad Luck!
So true!
Yes, it's like they unleash their demons on you.
I just wish I had the time to write a book about what my own mother has done to me because I won't have anything to do with her.
Good for you Allison. I, too, have broken contact with my mother for almost 2yrs now. My life is more peaceful now. Hope your life is better as well. Childhood narc abuse is no joke!
It is sad when you realize you missed out on a decent childhood but it is good to know it wasn't your fault! My siblings have nothing to do with me now but I don't care very much. They are the flying monkey types.
My mother, who gave birth to me, was so abusive that I don't know how I'm alive other than the grace of God and my father. A woman who tries to drown her little children, breaks her sons back, and gas lights her 4 kids for having boundaries and walking away from her. God bless and keep strong
Hit the nail on the head. Same as Couples!!!!!! Story of my life. Same as many leader/traitor dynamic.
When a true narcissist knows they can’t beat you they will always look to you when they are speaking with others, because they know you will call them out!
"False personality" is what takes over. Its energy source and driving emotion is anger. Christians call it demonic possession.
To get unpossessed you have to give up the anger.
This is so true. Evil exists, and it is embodied in the narcissist. God help us all as we struggle to overcome and help others overcome the abuse, sabotage, smear campaigns, and psychological damage that they leave in their wake.
After decades of abuse, I have ghosted a narc from my list of contacts. But because of mutual friends, I allow him one phone call a year. Even still, he manipulates the conversation by threatening to cut the conversation short, by hinting that he's busy. I tell him to call me back when he has time, thus eliminating my intrusion on his "busy" day. Always make the conversation short, as you'll come to realize, the more news you give him, the more ammo yo allow him to use against you.
Military men have npd. Never try dating one.
On the road to healing as we speak
Observing Tyson Fury provoking both AJ & Usyk on social media perfectly demonstrates this.
Usyk especially as he confronted & challenged TF on social media exposing his lies & deception immediately.
Spot th easy, One of their lies is exposed, they say "I hate liars, I never lie"
I would love to see two narcissists in the ring together.😁
Just watch politics
Whaoh I will like to see them all enclosed in a town. Away from anyone else 😅😅
You saw that for eight years in the White House with the two Bolsheviks.
its horrendous!! my daughter and her older bf, like a cage fight. ha ha
Great video. Spot on description of the personality of a narcissist. I have experienced it. I've seen people I thought were quite perceptive become 3rd party abusers too.
I am the reason for their everything, all of them, and most of them were narcissist❤
Ugh, I've known friends, lovers & co workers just like this. They are so insecure, it's pathetic 🙄
I don't know who sent me this video but thank you for your support. Watching videos like this makes my life so much easier. Dorothy will pay for what she has done to everyone. Having enemies is no fun. I love you guys for your support.
I just also found kris Reece. Excellent.
ALL nasty narcs shud be "removed" from victims lives PERMANANTLY by ANY means possible to PROTECT the victims emotional wellbeing and mental health
God willing THEY all soon will be! God "hears" our prayers & "counts" our tears plus keeps a "full record",.. No redactions! tee hee :)
I am targeted by narcs always. At work (now retired) and in my neighborhood (have moved twice). Now I'm targeted by new neighbors next door who are trying to take part of my land. Game on. Not this time. They will lose.
These folks are everywhere. Once you learn to spot them, you know what you are dealing with. Yikes.
It's not your imagination Don.
Narcs are indeed evil at heart and they read those that are righteous immediately....they can smell your integrity and you become their target.
It's the age old war of evil vs. good. I know, I lived it in a 14 yr. marriage and during a 36 yr. career.
I had zero idea of what in the hell was going on. It's seemed like nothing I did was satisfactory but in my heart and mind I knew just the opposite.
Bingo...after all these years (retired too) I see it clearly now the constant rain is gone.
Hi there 🙋♀ Thank you for your great videos, I am very glad I found your channel this really helps to heal and also to realize how much I have been healing while being away from these mean people. Sometimes I must remind myself that the relationship with the narcissist never was real anyway and I was blind going in, due to ignorance, but after actually learning about " Getting Out of the Fog " My life has changed. I am so grateful to you and many others out there sharing all about these disturbed humans. Much Love, Peace
I've been manipulated, gaslighted, and threatened on a daily basis. Some of the threats were he was going to kill himself if I didn't do what was asked, he would punch pillows or sofa, stand up against me and yell at my face, stand behind the car and not let me leave, sometimes we would be driving and he would threaten to swerve and hit any truck, hold my arms and shake me, push me aside to a wall, and much more. My in-laws were also very verbally abusive towards me. I wasn’t allowed to visit my family or friends. If I did or wanted to, I had to be ready for an argument. Every day I was reminded that I am nothing and that I was not worth fighting for and that I don't meet the standards of being married to their son. Recently, I found out he was cheating on me and had a girlfriend. After seeing the texts and pictures, I became numb. I've been a good wife, I listened to every insult and fight. I never gave up what I knew, thanks to this hacker who's helped me to extract enough information from his device. Someone on here shared a link to the hacker who helped cloned his phone without physically touching it. All I did was send his phone number to him and through a remote link sent to my email, I was able to access all of his texts, emails, Facebook and Instagram chats, real-time call listening and his long deleted messages as if the phone was physically with me. Perhaps, you are in a similar situation and you need help you can get in touch with him
Email:
instagram.com/mark_clinton2424/
I agree with you completely. My life has changed since I have been educated. Thanks to everyone for their help and sharing.
Thank you for sharing. We don't realise how much we have been affected until we hear these videos. I have been shattered twice with me getting educated. I didn't realise they only have sex when they want it not when you do. I only found out the other night on one of these channels. Look after yourself that's what I'm doing. I don't care what he does.
@maydavis7589 They are so wicked people I have had the same experience as you.. I have tears running down my face as I type this. I didn't pay attention to the red flags years ago. As they say love is blind. 🥰😍
This topic is so informative. Thanks for your insight. You have hit the nail on the head. I have recently cut off a narcissist I befriended a year ago and feel good about it. I am happy I got my life back. I have learned that one can't please a narcissist. Your description of a narcissist fit perfect. .👍✌️🙏
They become your friends work you from inside 😮
One narc (extremely low contact) occasionally calls and then hangs up before it goes to my VM. As a result I changed the default ring tone for his number to a Krusty the clown 🤡 ring town. I now LOL when it calls.
I just can't believe how many people like this there are
I am going through this and it is awful.
I've been manipulated, gaslighted, and threatened on a daily basis. Some of the threats were he was going to kill himself if I didn't do what was asked, he would punch pillows or sofa, stand up against me and yell at my face, stand behind the car and not let me leave, sometimes we would be driving and he would threaten to swerve and hit any truck, hold my arms and shake me, push me aside to a wall, and much more. My in-laws were also very verbally abusive towards me. I wasn’t allowed to visit my family or friends. If I did or wanted to, I had to be ready for an argument. Every day I was reminded that I am nothing and that I was not worth fighting for and that I don't meet the standards of being married to their son. Recently, I found out he was cheating on me and had a girlfriend. After seeing the texts and pictures, I became numb. I've been a good wife, I listened to every insult and fight. I never gave up what I knew, thanks to this hacker who's helped me to extract enough information from his device. Someone on here shared a link to the hacker who helped cloned his phone without physically touching it. All I did was send his phone number to him and through a remote link sent to my email, I was able to access all of his texts, emails, Facebook and Instagram chats, real-time call listening and his long deleted messages as if the phone was physically with me. Perhaps, you are in a similar situation and you need help you can get in touch with him
Email:
instagram.com/mark_clinton2424/
Me too.
Prayer Warriors are Praying for you....
They are MONSTERS....EVIL SPIRIT...
PEOPLE.....
It's your own fault don't let it bother you
Keep strong and stand your ground , keep moving forward , get as far away as you can from the narc , I went into refuge for 3 years and now have a flat , I only have contact with narc cuz I have kids with him but he still tries to fuck my life up , I m about to cut that bastard off for good , in time you get stronger and stronger with strength you never knew you had , it's deffo best to completely cut them out of your life , good luck sweetheart and god bless , you have the inner strength to do this , thinking of you and sending you love 💞
The word narcissist clearly must be talking about US government
ABSOLUTELY 💯
I feel like they take a grain of truth and turn it into a huge deal.
This fits most description of my ex, most of police, family court judges, poloticians, and some other people that I met.
lol. You left out celebrities! But yeah....
Accurate
My evil half sister who’s older than me by 23 years has always envied me because I’m the baby and I’m very liked by others and people pretend to like her. She’s very critical and 2 faced and lied to my mom saying that I’m on drugs and that I need to go to rehab or jail and before I was intimidated by her because everytime she would come by I would always have bad luck and she did black magic…. But I got a sign from my intuition to just move on from her toxicity and heal and focus on my business and now I’m making money living my life and more positive energy is coming in and I’m thankful for everything that I’ve been through because it’s made me stronger, wiser and appreciative!!! YOLO ❤🎉🌞🌜🌏🌟🌈
Setting boundaries can be tough. Keeping myself in check when a narcissist is attempting to bait me, can be difficult… I decided to use the mirror method, the other day. I regretted it. Its probably best to use Grey rock or yellow rock method, imo. Thank you for your videos. They’re helpful. I hope you have a nice day.
This should definitely be in high school for young vulnerable love sick young women. Must get this even in middle school with a simpler understanding. Thank you.
They know how to use the words right out of your mouth. Like they thought it up themselves .They love calling the cops right after they start something. Then try to play the victim in front of them.Good thing I had it all on the cell phone.
I can't believe this was uploaded 5 hours ago for it is so helpful for me in this moment
this wisdom starts small, then grows to giant politiccal historical religious proportions
Wise words. It must, because things are so out of balance.
They will lie about you and combine fact and falsehoods. People will look to them as if they are an authority. They will embarass or discredit you once they have an audience. They may demean you if you have had success at something or you have an illness to minimize your achievement etc. I never knew there were so many. 🙄😳 If you even unknowingly stand in their way of their success, they will run over you to move up.
I have lived through all that. I thank The Lord for seeing me through it all. He was all that and more!
My family psychos have now taken to sucking up and at times fleeing my presence/avoiding me when the shine comes out a bit too much for them. Took awhile to get here, but they know by now that nothing they try on me has worked for ages. A great start was owning the “rogue” stuff and their insults and flipping it back into a compliment and adopting a very flippant attitude toward them. They’re mockers so I just mock them right back. Right tho? You get what you give babes. (As well as blowing off their fake flattery and so on. I just never take anything they say or do seriously and I give it zero credence). 😅😅
Yes girl you are good enough they done turned you into a beast
@@jeremysims1597 😅😅
"There will be weeping and gnashing of teeth" Revelations nkjv.
@@wendyturner4631 Def I imagine this is sore regrets for experiencing their own consequences and self pity Bcuz that’s how they are now. But I suppose it would be magnified 100 fold Bcuz it’s forever and utterly hopeless. And also Bcuz simple changes they perchance could’ve made awhile ago could’ve totally changed their dismal outcome. I’m very relieved for myself that my bout of feeling utterly alone and hopeless Bcuz of them was not a true forever reality for me. Bcuz that’s such an awful place where you wish you could not exist anymore and you think the torture and suffering will never end, but you can’t ever not exist once you’re here. It’s truly better to suffer in the flesh now and to make self adjustments now than to suffer for eternity without hope. Even tho some of our pain was never our fault anyways. But I’m speaking of the kind of suffering when we crucify our flesh and subdue our human egos and when we turn over our strong wills to God and choose to be subject to His authority and wisdom rather than always doing only what we want all the time. Idk if they’ll ever have true remorse, but they sure will have sore regrets. But case in point, once someone has a seared conscience, they are as dull as it gets and are already almost doomed Bcuz they cannot feel God’s inner promptings anymore and their consciences are no longer pricked by their constant evil deeds. And the more they operate with oppositional defiance against all that is good, the number and blinder they get until it is complete darkness inside of both their hearts and minds. I guess that’s what I mean when I say “point of no return.” I truly think there is such a place but humans don’t get there by just stumbling a bit. They get there by forever being like arrogant, stubborn, rebellious mules.
The stronger you are emotionally the less likely you will fall for the bums rush by a narrcist and their lies...my son thought he could brow beat and bully me into a mental crisis..until I began asking questions he COULDN'T answer...it didn't work for his Dad and it never worked with him..his reaction? He blocked me and has made no contact in 4 years.. the best gift he could EVER have given me..😅
"oh how lovely! :D i bet you can breath soo much better now :) God Bless :)
@@wendyturner4631 no actually it makes me sad and angry that he's cut me from his life .
I was good to him.....He was my only child for 7 years until his two brothers were born.
He became jealous and angry and even though I never favored them over him he is still resentful.
I decided the problem is him
Not his brothers and me....he's an adult..he no longer needs me
My strength places me in danger when I’m dealing with covert narcissist. But I can destroy them to destroy the bad energy and I stand strong. A death blow in mind
Very true, I experienced this! When I speak out, he uses it to justify revenge against me!
I met a person and we became friends. Love of gardening and horse riding and saving companion animals. It started off nicely enough but there were red flags that I ignored. I thought I might be too sensitive and carried on. My whole life was taken over by this person to the point that she interfered with my work and she gave away my horse. I wasn't allowed to do anything without her. I decided it was a good idea to give the horse away as it was costing me board and I might be able to get rid of the narc at the same time. But after that I started saying no. That was something she could not tolerate. After a while she kicked me to the curb and blocked me. I was so happy. She was so 'crazymaking' that one day when I came home after an errand with her I burst into tears, had a total meltdown tantrum and destroyed a chair. (poor innocent chair was cobbled back together) Never tell your narc to fluff off. You have to piss them off terribly by not obeying their commands and then they get frustrated and leave you. She kept coming by to ask me to help her with her horses and I just said no. No I don't have time. No I have to work. (I worked from home) or the best, no I don't wanna, have fun, bye. They will try to needle you and egg you on. She tried to embarrass me in public and kept needling me. I could see people around us were confused and I was steaming inside but I took a breath and just stared at her with a smirk on my face. She did not get the reaction from me that she hoped. They will drive you to craziness and hope that you explode in public so they can say 'see what a nut she is??? I'm doing her a favour hanging out with her.' While you are imploding and questioning your sanity they stand there and watch quite satisfied with their work. Don't react, breath and ignore them. 18 months of torture and I am so glad to be rid of her. I am very careful now let me tell you. The video is fantastic and should be watched by everyone. Thank you for posting.
Anyone that takes joy in another humans pain is not a good human. Anyone that causes another human pain is also going against GOD.
I’m a Super Empath. He tried everything to take me out in the 26th year….
Praise Be To God he built a hedge of protection around me. He could not finish the deal 💯💯💯💯💯
0:34 seconds in and it's Point On. they (Narcissist) can't stand it when you have something going for you & it could be on any level.