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  • Опубликовано: 14 авг 2024
  • These Are The 8 Demonic Spirits Behind Narcissism - Why Narcissists Can Become So Evil | NPD | Narcissism | Behind The Science
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  • @ginalorraine1899
    @ginalorraine1899 Год назад +1200

    1. Envy
    2. Control
    3. Pride
    4. Deception
    5. Confusion
    6. Condemnation
    7. Witchcraft
    8. Fear

    • @tiathompson6674
      @tiathompson6674 Год назад +92

      Left out Seduction

    • @GoodVibesNewlevel2023
      @GoodVibesNewlevel2023 Год назад +26

      Thank you

    • @RoyallyHis
      @RoyallyHis Год назад +84

      My poor brother is trapped by one and of course he can't see it. Everyone else can and we can't help him😢😭. I don't wish death on anyone but I wish she could go and live on another planet...with other narcs, so my brother could know what a happy & free life feels like. How wonderful for the world if there were such a place where all narcs have to live together with no contact with other humans. Ok Hollywood, there's a movie idea for you. I'd watch.

    • @redhead8777
      @redhead8777 Год назад +74

      Their lying without consciousness of it being wrong is usually the first sign in my experience - major red flag. Bible.

    • @mistimannon3171
      @mistimannon3171 Год назад +26

      7 deadly sins in these?

  • @robertsweet4112
    @robertsweet4112 Год назад +713

    I've actually seen before my eyes, their face flashed from normal, to the devil, and back again. Scared the hell out of me

    • @tiffinyphillips
      @tiffinyphillips Год назад +82

      I've seen it too!!!

    • @deej_say
      @deej_say Год назад +56

      I stg!! My ex narc was driving one day it was so quiet you can hear a cat piss on cotton.. I happen to look over and saw the MOST ugliest thing/person
      I saw his true identity.. he even had white spikey whispers coming out the sides of his face & chin! At first I was scared then I stared at it...ugliest creature I ever saw

    • @mynewlife1911
      @mynewlife1911 Год назад +40

      Same here. I stayed quiet and waited for the evil to leave. I’m out of there.

    • @ValentineKeith08
      @ValentineKeith08 Год назад +36

      I've seen it also!

    • @tjd7964
      @tjd7964 Год назад +33

      Same here and its scary

  • @nejkas9577
    @nejkas9577 Год назад +648

    I come from a family of narcissists and I was under the influence of these evil spirits from my early childhood until my late 30s when I finally mastered the courage to detach from my family. Unfortunately, I emphatically absorbed a great deal of narcissistic traits but I have found comfort in the healing power of God’s word. Truly, reading the Bible, cleansing my soul, going into hermit mode and praying for my heart to be renewed is what helped me break free from this generational stronghold. So to anyone who may be in the same situation don’t give up on yourself, everyone has the power to become purified with the help our Lord Jesus Christ.

    • @8188jlpc
      @8188jlpc Год назад +39

      I, too, have many narcs in my family, I broke from them and those that backed them up 18 years ago, best thing I ever did for myself. Dont miss a one of em, either

    • @francescromwell6110
      @francescromwell6110 Год назад +42

      Same thing happened to me at an early age. I finally got away in 2020, and I've been living my best life ever since. God revealed to me that my mother was a narcissist with two sisters following in her footsteps. I got in therapy, studying the word and breaking these strongholds by fasting and praying

    • @sareetavythilingum9606
      @sareetavythilingum9606 Год назад +30

      I have a narcissist husband but I’m believing The Lord Jesus for total deliverance

    • @onlyhis5870
      @onlyhis5870 Год назад +8

      Yes! ♥️

    • @quincycurlz
      @quincycurlz Год назад +3

      Are you sure you arent o e yourself.

  • @br9791
    @br9791 Год назад +2111

    When devil can't reach you he sends you a narcissist

    • @helenmcdonnell2585
      @helenmcdonnell2585 Год назад +64

      True

    • @EphemeralProductions
      @EphemeralProductions Год назад

      @@helenmcdonnell2585 the devil reaches you THROUGH a narcissist!

    • @goldilocks3593
      @goldilocks3593 Год назад +156

      I do actually believe this is true. You are being tested. And it continues until we finally pass the test by implementing strong ethical and physical boundaries.

    • @LibbySlaughter101
      @LibbySlaughter101 Год назад +43

      @@goldilocks3593 It's very hard to forgive them. How did you do it?

    • @goldilocks3593
      @goldilocks3593 Год назад +104

      @@LibbySlaughter101 well .. to make a VERY long story short .. through radical acceptance. It took YEARS of research and understanding to get to this place. A true narcissist is a bad person through the exact wrong combination of nature and nurture. They are who they are. I have experienced two different people who I believe to be covert malignant narcissists up close and personal (both in professional settings) and my only aspiration in this regard now is to make sure I never entertain another one on any level. That is my share of the responsibility and what I have control over. I don’t care to even have the mental responsibility for “forgiving them”. I will have to account for my life choices when I go to meet my maker and so will they. For me I feel much lighter letting God be their judge, not me. I have forgiven MY SELF for my naive and ill-advised involvement with these people. That is what is important for healing 😇

  • @rayfeen-ls8vq
    @rayfeen-ls8vq Год назад +663

    I was in a 14 year relationship with a narcissist and unbeknown to me during that time I was not aware of the evilness and wickedness he was doing to me. I thank God for his grace and mercy. Every time I prayed and asked for His protection, God showed up and showed out. Please pray for me because I am still dealing with the evilness of this man. It has been 8 years since I seen him. I'm a child of the most high God and His word says "no weapons formed against me shall prosper"...Amen

    • @edwardjohnson7034
      @edwardjohnson7034 Год назад +40

      If you have no children with him, just leave or run. You no longer have any commitment to him and you feel lucky to get out of this relationship. If not, they will continue with their poisonous ways.

    • @metoo2254
      @metoo2254 Год назад

      Was married to one for 23 years had 5 kids with him, God removed him and I did not look back. He would have killed me and my children. When they can't get to you they will do things to your children to get to you. No contact is the way to go. The only contact was through the court system.

    • @charissemcbroom6766
      @charissemcbroom6766 Год назад +25

      ❤ When Jehovah is for us who can be Against us in Jesus name amen 🙏 God bless you Trust in Jehovah 😊

    • @lucillekluivert343
      @lucillekluivert343 Год назад

      ITS NOT ALWAYS WHAT WE HEAR BUT THE EXPERIENCE OF EACH PERSON IS DIFFERENT AND SO IS THE AGENDA OF SATAN WHEN IT COMES TO NARCISSIM MOST PEOPLE THINK THAT HURT PEOPLE HURT PEOPLE BUT ITS NOT ALWAYS TRUE SOME PEOPLE HAVE TO DO WHAT THE ANCESTORS HAVE DONE AND THEY DONT CARE IF THEY HAVE TO SACRIFICE THEIR OWN CHILDREN FOR WEALTH ,POWER AND FAME JUST TO CONTROL ,MANIPULATE AND DOMINATE OTHERS TO GAIN THE WORLD EVEN IF THEY HAVE TO LOOSE THEIR SOULS

    • @what.you.allowyou.permit2030
      @what.you.allowyou.permit2030 Год назад +16

      ​@@edwardjohnson7034 indeed! Prayers are important (of course!) and, also, "you can't pray yourself out of abuse" -an anonymous M.D.

  • @malaysianeurofibromatosisc588
    @malaysianeurofibromatosisc588 Год назад +445

    They know your vulnerabilities and weakness and how to use against you and crush your spirit. Be careful when they are around and sharing your thoughts to them.

    • @EphemeralProductions
      @EphemeralProductions Год назад +45

      Exactly! And NEVER share personal info or secrets to them because they WILL tell them to other people, probably to slander you!

    • @iamaleo247
      @iamaleo247 Год назад +10

      💯💯💯

    • @tessw9744
      @tessw9744 Год назад +1

      @@EphemeralProductions
      Don't share secrets! EXACTLY!
      That is the crux right there. People who are wounded and usually codependent, share their problems and issues too easily.
      I met a woman on the street and we walked two blocks together. In those two blocks I learned that she was a recovering addict, who had just had a fight with her boyfriend, and her sister committed suicide the month before. If I had been a Narcissist, she would have been a prime target. It's not normal to tell all your business to a stranger you just met. It's not even normal to share that with someone you've known for a month! But many wounded people do that because they need to be heard so badly......and the narcissist will pretend to relate and make you feel like you met a kindred soul.
      And it's not that narcissists *know* what a person's weaknesses are, it's that they study your reactions and try to pry it out of you......then they throw it in your face later, or use it against you.
      They are often quick to share their own brokenness too, which makes the codependent want to "help" them. People don't attract narcissists, they make themselves *vulnerable* to them.
      They try the same crap with everyone, it's only certain people that it works with.

    • @Sweet-fn6po
      @Sweet-fn6po Год назад

      @@EphemeralProductions They will blackmail you with your secrets to control you.

    • @tamiboelter5491
      @tamiboelter5491 Год назад +14

      my narc was my therapist. She should NEVER have been given a license to practice mental health.

  • @ashleyellis8875
    @ashleyellis8875 Год назад +237

    I often imagined narcissists had demons in them

    • @future8796
      @future8796 Год назад +18

      They Do

    • @ashleyellis8875
      @ashleyellis8875 Год назад +6

      @@dumblizzie yeah I’ve done all that your experience sounds much worse I believe demons jump onto the back of the weakest human souls and basically hitch a ride the person doesn’t know they have a demon still it does not excuse their actions towards others I’m a man of little pity I blame narcissist types there’s been many I hope I’ve learned to identify them early on I always end up as a victim

    • @bhein222
      @bhein222 Год назад +3

      They do

    • @NyamburaES
      @NyamburaES Год назад +11

      Me too. I believe so. They have all the qualities and manifest such evil that there is no question about it. They need deliverance FULLSTOP!

    • @wendyturner4631
      @wendyturner4631 Год назад +6

      @@ashleyellis8875 "when the house is swept the demon leaves sneaking around dry places seeking rest( someone to deliciously" devour) if were not careful it returns with 7 more evil spirits even more wicked than the first".

  • @BelindaPadro-jh4zo
    @BelindaPadro-jh4zo Год назад +679

    I’m 60 yrs old. Both my parents
    are narcissists. The majority of people I’ve met are narcissists.
    (Point being, I don’t believe it’s
    only approx. 3% of pop.)

    • @mightymouse1005
      @mightymouse1005 Год назад

      The only way to get statistics is by diagnosis. Since cluster Bs rarely see therapist, they're is no diagnosis and thus no accurate percentage. Listen to Dr Ramani on YT....she's a world's leading expert and says its MUCH higher than 3%

    • @johnsmith-ik8il
      @johnsmith-ik8il Год назад +117

      I believe the media and the education system have a big role in creating them also the breakdown of the family unit.

    • @SuperBlakes2
      @SuperBlakes2 Год назад +81

      Amen. There are heaps on the earth right now. All at various levels. Most people are all about themselves.

    • @lorichet
      @lorichet Год назад +43

      Everyone has some level of narcissism (pride) in them from the Fall. Original sin.
      Narcissistic personality disorder is a diagnosis. Not many people have that. They need prayer.

    • @BelindaPadro-jh4zo
      @BelindaPadro-jh4zo Год назад +28

      @@lorichet yes.
      I recently heard narcissism defined
      as “the loss of integrity”.
      So, you either have integrity or
      You don’t. (It’s not relative or
      subject to a spectrum of presence
      as pride can be.)

  • @stylist62
    @stylist62 Год назад +413

    Definitely demonic powers, oppressive, lies, cruelty, energy suckers,self serving entitlement, constant mind games, anger hate… accusations 🙏🙏🙏🙏Lord help me heal

  • @fenderblue9485
    @fenderblue9485 Год назад +422

    They are the most evil people!!

  • @gayleoverly7613
    @gayleoverly7613 Год назад +122

    It never ends well for a narcissist. They always ruin their life

    • @lydiawhitting5406
      @lydiawhitting5406 Год назад +22

      They ruin many other people's lives, but ultimately some I've seen shoot themselves in the foot, when others start to see through them, they become alone.

    • @spmoran4703
      @spmoran4703 Год назад +12

      @@lydiawhitting5406 But unless they want to change. They will think their behaviour to be normal.

    • @seekerofgrace2058
      @seekerofgrace2058 Год назад +17

      Sadly only after ruining SCORES of ppl in their wake who tried to love them… they are most abusive to those closest to them, imo tho there is never a true relationship bcs while you are in with open honest steadfast love, they are preying on you from moment one. Its premeditated and cyclical & predictable … best is never to succumb to the charm, false victimhood, or beautiful words they beguile you with- the black hole of parasitic destruction of your soul spirit mind body is highly likely .

    • @christar9527
      @christar9527 Год назад +23

      I think they ruin other people’s more.

    • @cori1302
      @cori1302 Год назад +7

      @@christar9527 They totally do. But even if they 'win' and get the job, house, money...their lives are gutted, as no one can (or wants to)
      get near them.
      Maybe some ignorant people happy to be taken in/join the gang, or paid caretakers.

  • @Littlemissfacecard
    @Littlemissfacecard Год назад +262

    “I have given you authority to trample on snakes and scorpions and to overcome all the power of the enemy; nothing will harm you” to defeat a narc is to know who you are in Christ

    • @l.5832
      @l.5832 Год назад +16

      Yes...but they can still falsely accuse you, fire you, defraud you, and yes.....kill you. They did to Jesus.

    • @saundradriscoll282
      @saundradriscoll282 Год назад +11

      This is the only way to protect yourself is to keep in prayer for God’s wisdom, help and protection. Just stay close to God in your thoughts.
      The truly best is to leave the narcissist and get as far away as possible.

    • @radaka
      @radaka Год назад +6

      That truly is the only way to survive. Not that you will come out unscathed but you will atleast have a fighting chance.

    • @gerrimilner9448
      @gerrimilner9448 Год назад +4

      2. My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials, 3. knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience. 4. But let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing. james 1
      as i have gone through narc abuse many of my rough bits have been smoothed out. i find this is a strength to me

    • @ladyb7327
      @ladyb7327 Год назад +1

      AMEN

  • @jennymac1116
    @jennymac1116 Год назад +130

    “With God’s help, you can break free from the Narcissists’ web of lies (and discord and division they cause)”. “Ultimately, it’s God who will deal with their wicked spirits in due time”. 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @suzetteclarke1709
    @suzetteclarke1709 Год назад +634

    Their behavior is truly demonic.

  • @tobascoheat6582
    @tobascoheat6582 Год назад +11

    Additionally, I would like to add the
    (12) Spirit of Murder
    Not necessarily murder of the physical body, although it can be (attempted at least), but mainly the murder of your spirit, your soul, and even murder of your relationships with others (i.e. family and friends).

  • @shireenramnarain4005
    @shireenramnarain4005 Год назад +146

    True i saw my narcs husband eyes turn a different colour when he was angry belittling people including me,mocking,speaking lies
    They r truly evil

    • @melindagandaria5083
      @melindagandaria5083 Год назад +21

      My mother's eyes also turn another color when she is angry. Her eyes are blue and when she gets angry, they turn a dark grey!

    • @christycomer373
      @christycomer373 Год назад +18

      Very, very true…. I have also seen the devils eyes turn black…. It was very very scary to see….
      I have never ever seen that happen to anyone ever in my life…. I thought maybe I had imagined it at one point…. But since then I have seen it happen a few more times. When extremely angry….

    • @shireenramnarain4005
      @shireenramnarain4005 Год назад +6

      @@christycomer373 yes ...absolutely true
      To the point

    • @johnsmith-ik8il
      @johnsmith-ik8il Год назад +9

      @@shireenramnarain4005 I saw her blue eyes turn black and it was the scariest thing I've ever seen. ⚫️ ⚫️

    • @shireenramnarain4005
      @shireenramnarain4005 Год назад +4

      @@johnsmith-ik8il so true...pure evil in my eyes
      But i want to know is there an explanation for this
      Chemical reaction in the body
      Cos not everyone s eyes turn different colours

  • @sandywichmann9292
    @sandywichmann9292 Год назад +57

    Amen! So true.
    I do pity my narcissistic ex, I forgave him long ago, but I want nothing to do with him ever again. I asked Jesus to make me immune to his charms and he did! 🙏🏻

  • @tiffinyphillips
    @tiffinyphillips Год назад +240

    This is the Best video I've seen on narcissists!!! It explains Exactly why these people behave the way they do with scriptures included. 💪🏾🔥 Detached Yourselves, have Faith, and Forgive...Pray for these Loss souls.🙏🏽 Remember Satan was the First Narcissist.

    • @laureenmaxwell9811
      @laureenmaxwell9811 Год назад +8

      Well said, with Christian Love, they too are hurting people who NEED Jesus.

    • @danyagood6132
      @danyagood6132 Год назад +5

      Narcissism is a complex psychological issue. Please seek true information about these issues. You won't find it on social media. It takes real education. Please refrain from judgmental assumption without being educated.

    • @seekerofgrace2058
      @seekerofgrace2058 Год назад +1

      @Tiffanyphillips Exactly!

    • @seekerofgrace2058
      @seekerofgrace2058 Год назад +9

      @@danyagood6132 said someone who has never been targeted and nearly destroyed by one. Thank God daily you are still untouched by this evil . Most speaking here have lost YEARS , time that can never come back, money, possessions, self esteem, physical health, emotional peace and sound mind, and so much more. You , are the one who does not get what this ‘psychological disorder’ ( the very root of the cause of malignant narcissism prevents its bearer from EVER obtaining ‘a cure’ because they DO NOT believe they are EVER at fault or have a problem. Yes, sadly i believe it is a spiritual issue only Jesus AND surrender to Him HUMBLY repenting) by uts nature this ‘disease ‘ prevents its cure. Watch out, they love to prey on ppl like you who are compassionate and logical and like fairness, as we all do- feel sorry for the true victims not the bullys who pretend ti be victims to further victimize

    • @GladysRWhite
      @GladysRWhite Год назад +7

      The characteristics of narcisism: each one of them is an evil spirit.
      Our fallen nature replicates satan. These are some of the spirits lucifer generated when he sinned against God:
      1. Bastardy (Which has tentacles: spirits of slavery, anger, wrath, fear, unbelief, ofense, corruption, death,)
      2. Rebellion
      3. Disobedience
      4. Pride (alazoon, the boastful type , huperephania the inward type)
      5. Obstinacy
      5. contempt
      6. insensitivity
      7. demonic charisma (attractiveness), and dialectics (tongue...)
      8. Arrogance
      in narcisism besides these, we find other characteristics/spirits: accusation, critic, doubt, derison, sneer, conceit, little self control, insecurity, shame, humiliation, fear to be seen as a failure, or fear to be exposed as a failure.
      The person is in DEEP STRESS AND TROUBLE.
      Sometimes the person's ancestors meddled in the occult, and that opened the door to the devil to have legal right over them and torment them. They don't know better, and they are trapped.
      Remember always, the negative attitude you perceive IT IS AN EVIL SPIRIT, that controls the person
      When we have to deal with such people we need to pray to our Father, asking Him to send His Warrior Angels to GAG and BIND
      the entire hierarchy (thrones, dominions, principalities powers, rulers of darkness and evil hosts) of such names/synonyms, that His Angels confine them in their belly so the spirits cannot operate, and leave the mind free so that the Spirit of God can get through. We must forgive and bless always, perhaps the Father will show His Mercy upon that person bound by the devil.
      Jesus said that if your enemy asks for drink, we must give it to him. We must love as Jesus loved us.... when we were dead in our sins and trespasses. That doesn't mean submitting to the bullies. But we must PRAY! There is nothing impossible for God, but we need to ask in order to receive. PRAY PRAY PRAY, with fervor and faith!!! He will respond!!
      Whatever attitude or characteristic you can name, you have authority over it, you must pray accordingly!
      This we can apply to any situation we face! Ask God to give us discernment and always PRAY, PRAY PRAY, exercising His Authority over the works of the evil one. Jesus came to destory the works of the devil, He is our Head, we are the body.... seek His guidance and we will be victorious!

  • @karlnulty2455
    @karlnulty2455 Год назад +107

    Having been the victim of a narcissist I know that all of this is true. I met my narc at a time I had no faith, when I walked away my faith was stronger than ever because only He could have helped me survive the ordeal.

    • @margaretclark2971
      @margaretclark2971 Год назад +4

      That was me too! Only God could rescue me from the demonic narcissist I was married to for 27 years. I did not want him to leave, even when my sons were asking me why did I want him to come back home, he was so awful to us all.

    • @lynnephillips9571
      @lynnephillips9571 Год назад +2

      😮 this is so eye opening and so great! My dad was a Narcissist/alcoholic/bipolar. He committed suicide. My sister turned out just like him. John 10:10, the 😈 devil comes to steal, KILL and destroy. Jesus said this. Don't let the Devil get you also!!! JESUS LOVES YOU ❤️!!! Ask your self, would someone who loves me, say this to you?

    • @lynnephillips9571
      @lynnephillips9571 Год назад

      I now have heard and seen the devil, through my sister, and when I look back, it all started with envy. Could have been God's plan to make me whole James 1:4

  • @sylvanascott1166
    @sylvanascott1166 Год назад +62

    It’s strange that I am coming across this video. Recently I got caught up with an old friend and I mentioned to him that he was possessed with an evil force because he can become so envious, jealous and angry for things that are not so important. Too much negativity for me so I had to cut him off.

  • @II.PP.11
    @II.PP.11 Год назад +77

    But understand this, that in the last days there will come times of difficulty. For people will be lovers of self, lovers of money, proud, arrogant, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, heartless, unappeasable, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not loving good, treacherous, reckless, swollen with conceit, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, having the appearance of godliness, but denying its power. AVOID SUCH PEOPLE.
    2Timothy 3:1-5

    • @annastinehammersdottir1290
      @annastinehammersdottir1290 Год назад +2

      We are being tested by a force beyond comprehension ~ "For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places." Ephesians 6:12

    • @suebotchie4167
      @suebotchie4167 Год назад

      Ever notice how preeechers avoid this very real narc situation? So many Scriptures about what and how wickeds play their vile games, and preeechers just skate over, if not ignore, those Scriptures.

    • @II.PP.11
      @II.PP.11 Год назад +1

      @@suebotchie4167 because most of them are those

    • @db44491
      @db44491 11 месяцев назад

      So true..

  • @cindymueller4053
    @cindymueller4053 Год назад +52

    I was raised by a narcissistic mother. I was the first born, my sister is 2 and a half years younger than me, and my brother is 10 years younger than me. My mother made me feel that I could never do anything right, no matter how hard I tried, I still ended up being punished constantly. Mom was not only mentally and emotionally abusive towards me, she often became physically abusive. Mom was unhappy in her marriage to our Dad, and he also suffered abuse from her. My sister's treatment wasn't as bad as mine, and my brother was spoiled rotten by her. So Dad and I were her constant scapegoats for whatever she felt like flying off the handle over. I'm nearly 65 years old now. I was forced multiple times over the years to distance myself from Mom just to keep my sanity. She was very instrumental in my first marriage failing. When she tried to create division between my second husband and me, I distanced myself from her for the very first time. That lasted 15 years until she manipulated me into believing that she had changed. Our parents divorced after 35 years of marriage. Dad never seemed to understand why everyone in our family was divided against everyone else, he had been raised in a good family, and never remarried. I could tell that he still loved Mom even when he passed away at the age of 90, four and a half years ago. My sister used to exhibit alot of narcissistic behavior herself. That all changed shortly after Dad passed away, we finally just forgave our past problems with one another. I've had no problems with her since, she finally recognized that Mom was the true problem all along. I ended up distancing myself from Mom, and now my brother besides two more times before she passed away last September. Now our brother is creating huge problems and attempting to STEAL a very large amount of money from both my sister and myself. I have prayerfully considered all of this, and have decided to just let him have it. Taking him to court and fighting with him over it will just create more family animosity once again. I may not have alot of money, but I have my faith in God, a wonderful husband (Mom married and divorced a second time, by the way), and I have peace in my life. I have no idea how Mom became so manipulating, controlling, and divisive. She never spoke much about her mother, so I believe that she may have been raised similarly to me, but I'll never know. It's very sad, and destructive to everyone around a narcissistic person. My three grown kids all get along with each other, and with me. I have made sure, with the help of God all along the way, to break this vicious cycle and not perpetuate it with my own family. Narcissists are dangerous to be around. I simply could not do it anymore. True story.

    • @sheilasullivan1950
      @sheilasullivan1950 Год назад

      Think its a generational curse perhaps? Im in your shoes, 63. Oldest. Abused physically, mentally, emotionally. So manipulative. Controlling and vengeful. A continent away and almost 30yrs later randomly get zinged and natch im the one causing it! Found a person so very well disguised and is one. Trapped though. Boss the same. Snitched to the gomint to get me deported and im in a dungeon with no exit figuratively.. Think these deranged ones see us a mile away and hunt us to distinguish
      the light. Very debilitating. Soul destroying. Got to a point I don't care anymore. Boss called the military though and cops so on their radar to be hunted too. How is it the innocent are seen as the baddies? Makes no sense.

    • @fastrivers812
      @fastrivers812 Год назад +1

      My mother-in-law has bragged about being able to manipulate others to get what she wants. My wife described her as being the sweetest teacher in town but something quite different behind closed doors. My mother-in-law coerced my wife and her brother to believe that their dad was abusive during their divorce. To this day, my wife says he was abusive despite never being able to give an account of such. Actually, the only memories she describes of him are good ones.
      We've been married for almost 24 years and I'm starting to learn that my wife is too a covert narcissist and it pains me. I'm sucked dry emotionally and financially. She's starting to give false narratives about me in front of the kids telling me I'm being controlling when I simply ask them a question. When we argue she purposely tries to make me angry and then when I am she says I have an anger problem. I just want out but I don't want to turnover my kids' lives.

    • @adeleinetheartist8267
      @adeleinetheartist8267 Год назад

      ​@@fastrivers812 You must divorce your wife.

    • @sophiaodero4018
      @sophiaodero4018 4 месяца назад

      Heart breaking experience. I am suffering from my nac. Daughter. I stood my ground. And she recently got engaged but she treats the fiance just as she use to treat me. I really feel sorry for him

  • @debrabass2556
    @debrabass2556 Год назад +59

    I believe this with my whole heart. My mother is definitely a narcissist and is indescribably cruel. My father taught me how to pray the rosary when I was very young. One day my mother, "caught," me praying the rosary and the evil in her eyes as she ripped it out of my hands was incredible. She could usually reduce me to tears and make me feel like I wanted to kill myself, but that day I realized that I was not at fault. I felt a strange sensation of peace and protection around me and I KNEW where it was coming from. I looked at her so calmly and informed her that I didn't need an actual rosary in my hand to be able to pray it. I spoke up and just started praying aloud. She just couldn't stay around me long enough to abuse me verbally or physically. I cannot say that I triumphed over her that day, but I knew that she had a demon inside her! She tried and tried to destroy my soul. She is 97 and still trying. When I became a teenager I really started to, "rebel," and determined to learn Latin. The first thing I learned was how to pray the rosary phonetically in Latin, and little by little committed it to memory. Whenever the intense abuse started, out came the rosary in Latin!!! She would NEVER stay in the same room with me and would usually leave the house if I kept on with it. Her face would change from that evil anger to fear. She would even scream and cry and throw things, but always in another room. I was so grateful for my dad teaching me to pray. After he died, prayer was my only defense against that terrible, truly evil woman.

    • @michellefarris3961
      @michellefarris3961 Год назад +9

      Yes. We need to be consecrated to Our Lady's Immaculate Heart and stay prayed up.
      It cannot be overstated how important she is in spiritual battle.

    • @stephaniepiazzese2602
      @stephaniepiazzese2602 Год назад +12

      So awful for a child to go through, from THEIR OWN MOTHER,,, who is COMMANDED BY GOD TO LOVE AND PROTECT HER CHILDREN.

    • @ucheanagor5720
      @ucheanagor5720 Год назад +7

      I am married to one and the Holy Rosary is my only hope. These people are demons in human flesh. How I wish I can turn back the hands of time.

    • @michellefarris3961
      @michellefarris3961 Год назад +4

      @@ucheanagor5720 Keep praying. Our Lady will help you get away.

    • @magdalenacioban4364
      @magdalenacioban4364 Год назад +6

      You are a truly brave person!! I shall do the same , because of my husband!! I tought he has just a mental illness but in the last 5 years i think actually he is a EVIL narcissist . All his behaviors had determined me to pray constantly all day long to God to deliver me from this evil beeing!!

  • @junebuge.9192
    @junebuge.9192 Год назад +13

    And some narcissists are very sneaky about it because some of them can do it very subtle ways where it doesn't seem as obvious to even the victim that they are being manipulated and even the way they put you down can be subtle. They are sneaky little snakes so I can totally see the connection between demons and narcissists.

  • @myrabyrd3522
    @myrabyrd3522 9 месяцев назад +11

    Thank you Father for removing those people from my life and giving me your Peace 🙏🙌❤️✨️MB

  • @yhwhtlc9217
    @yhwhtlc9217 Год назад +71

    "Unknowingly """....oh no, they are very much aware because they made a choice to allow it in their lives....

    • @mightymouse1005
      @mightymouse1005 Год назад +23

      They absolutely know what they do. Otherwise, they would act toxic around everyone, they don't. They are very good at looking saintly around some...

    • @II.PP.11
      @II.PP.11 Год назад +5

      Exactly. They know what they do and they LOVE it, but will always deny it and play the victim card, saying: "It isn't me, it is the evil" Just another of their lies.

    • @redhead8777
      @redhead8777 Год назад

      Partial truth is a LIE. Bible says liars do not have God IN them. The alternate is true- it is satanic. The Bible is our guide to wisdom about EVERYTHING. Valuable time spent reading, studying & Learning the Bible.

    • @sarisigmund2115
      @sarisigmund2115 Год назад +6

      They also lack the ability for empathy for others, but they can say the right things and act like they do. (No conscience or remorse is present, besides, it’s YOUR FAULT).

    • @laurawhite4118
      @laurawhite4118 Год назад +2

      @@mightymouse1005 maybe it's only that person the demons want destroyed.thats why they act that way around specific people.i remember in school kids would pick certain people to bully.i mean a group of kids .why?

  • @feelingbetternaturally1099
    @feelingbetternaturally1099 Год назад +28

    Self love and self respect are the best defenses against narcs.

  • @nancya5632
    @nancya5632 Год назад +188

    This was very informative and it sheds light on what drives these people. It is definitely spiritual. My youngest daughter, 12, exhibits most, if not all of these traits. Counseling has been next to useless. And they cannot diagnose until someone turns 18 (I believe). I don’t want to lose her. But I’m equipped to fast and pray for her deliverance; this is spiritual. There is no man made cure for this.

    • @LibbySlaughter101
      @LibbySlaughter101 Год назад +12

      May God give you strength 🙏

    • @livefromtheground7274
      @livefromtheground7274 Год назад +36

      On that path you will see remants of me and my daughter … whatever you do … do not let the system in your business pretending to help THEY WILL MESS YOU UP TOO . They will pretend to have services for your family and wind up putting you on a list of child abusers. Your daughter will have an entire system behind her and they never hold
      THEM accountable.

    • @nancya5632
      @nancya5632 Год назад +10

      @@livefromtheground7274 Thank you for sharing! I believe every word you said. 🙏

    • @noraa013
      @noraa013 Год назад +12

      Is she going to any school where she is contaminating her heart with evil ..??? Nc of the educating system, the bad companies..be very watchful and take her out of any evil environenement..do not give up and do something!!!is you daughter!

    • @kittpaige2795
      @kittpaige2795 Год назад +22

      Thank you for posting! All the videos on Narcissism blame the parents! This is the first post I have seen that stated the child is a narcissist! My daughter is and I have suffered while trying to help her heal! I did not know what a narcissist was until this year when I discovered videos on RUclips and realized that she is a narcissist! I have just managed to move away from her but she has become a very good actress and shows a fake personality to the public! I have told no one because no one will believe me! I am grateful to know what the issue is because she always says it’s my fault! Thank you for being brave enough to post this about your daughter mine has become much worse as she grew older!

  • @gracesanity6314
    @gracesanity6314 Год назад +7

    Fear of being alone...was my issue. I drew toxic Narc's. I had to go alone through the withdrawels...to love my solitaryness, l met my authentic self and Holy Spirt in that aloneness. Not afraid anymore. Peace and sanity. Now l spot them a mile off.

  • @leniecelewis3415
    @leniecelewis3415 Год назад +144

    I Love The Spiritual Realm Of This Message It's Very Important That We All Know That This Demonic And Spiritual War Fair Is Something We Should Educate Ourselves With

  • @dwayne-lb6er
    @dwayne-lb6er Год назад +96

    They are demons period

  • @sweetrose813
    @sweetrose813 Год назад +42

    They wouldn't have all these evil emotions if they would die to their pride and humble themself to receive correction and receive true love like a child, but no they don't want to be that child. They want to be the king or queen sitting on the throne dictating their desires while they slowly siphon the life of everyone around them that they have coerced to stay under

    • @LibbySlaughter101
      @LibbySlaughter101 Год назад +9

      They would need to be born again & maybe set free from bondage I think.

    • @connie-zm8ws
      @connie-zm8ws Год назад +6

      They're afraid of going back to that child. That's where they were hurt

  • @solarchos4352
    @solarchos4352 Год назад +20

    My mother was a full-fledged Narcissist who not only wrecked my life from childhood and beyond, but tried to destroy the life of my father. The damage she caused spanned decades and took almost as long to even START to repair.
    She died earlier in June. The relief I felt when I got the news was indescribable. And with some of the things she said and did, not only to me but to my father and surely other people as well...it wouldn't surprise me at all if she HAD been genuinely possessed. Or worse.

    • @stasiacromie9584
      @stasiacromie9584 Год назад

      My mom is also a Marxist. I have dealt with several.

    • @stasiacromie9584
      @stasiacromie9584 Год назад

      Narcissist. Not Marxist.

    • @VM-123
      @VM-123 Год назад +2

      My elderly dad is a very extreme malignant narcissist. I was thinking today when he dies, I will be so relieved!

    • @db44491
      @db44491 11 месяцев назад

      @@VM-123 I understand how you feel, stay strong..

  • @joanngross786
    @joanngross786 Год назад +36

    They also are in love with money. This brings on what I call the Spirit of Cujo. Cujo was the title character in one of Stephen King's horror novels. The family's incredibly lovable St. Bernard became a raving, frothing killer after it was bitten on the nose by a rabid bat. This horrific transformation is what happens with many narcissists when their money is threatened and it doesn't have to be a lot of money! I had one close relative go off on me and throw a punch because she didn't want to pay me $500 that she owed. I had GIVEN her tens of thousands of dollars over the years, yet she became incensed over $500. My ex-husband plotted to murder me because the psychotic cheapskate didn't want to pay for a divorce. I have other horror stories about the bad spirit, but they're all just horrible and depressing. My family seems to be overrun with narcissists and it all seems to stem from my maternal great-grandfather, a wealthy womanizing dandy, who divorced my great-grandmother when he couldn't get her personal fortune, married and divorced SEVEN other women and spent EVERY dime he had. My grandfather had to take the penniless lout in, where he lived until he died.

    • @lydiawhitting5406
      @lydiawhitting5406 Год назад +3

      Some don't have a care.. as long as they can live well and suck blood life .. that costs someone else. That's not a problem to them if they provided for in everyway. Part of the entitlement mentality. Experts say they come in 7 different types of narc and can overlap. Being a broad spectrum from covert to overt.. also grandiose .. and lastly malignant, which am not sure I know what that's means yet. 🤷‍♀️

    • @GodAmbition_1997
      @GodAmbition_1997 Год назад

      They are also in love with sexual immorality, this is they cheat on people without remorse because they are in lust so bad they will get any person in their preference to do that sin.

    • @joanngross786
      @joanngross786 Год назад +1

      @@lydiawhitting5406 A Malignant Narcissist is also on a spectrum. They are from definition highly abusive verbally, mentally, economically, etc. to maniacally murderous. My ex-husband was that murderous maniac. He had carefully planned to murder me because the psychotic cheapskate didn't want to pay to divorce me, because he had found someone else to leech off. The God of the Universe revealed to me what he had planned to do and I got out of there. Evil is real .

  • @gabrielnadia1085
    @gabrielnadia1085 Год назад +37

    My FATHER please make me escape the nest of the narcissist. I confess that I will not die but I shall live free, safe and sound, in THE NAME OF My LORD, THE CHRIST JESUS HIMSELF.😢

  • @veray685
    @veray685 Год назад +48

    This video makes me realize, I’ve been a narcissist these past few years. Seeing the comments where people have had to deal with narcissists in their lives, I feel very shameful about myself. God is starting to open my eyes again, whereas before I saw myself as the victim, but now He is revealing to me the truth.
    There’s a lot of lack of trust in narcissists, they think that everybody is bad and that the whole world is against them. It’s truly a miserable place to be in because it is turning them evil causing them to lie and hate all people. Their only constant emotion is hate, hate, hate, just hate. They think of themselves as a sort of survivor that is trying to live their life in this world and that others are the obstacles, it’s a constant state of fear and shame. It’s a very lonely place. Being a Christian is lonely in terms of having people as company too, but it is the good type of lonely because following Christ and trusting in God doesn’t make the person feel any miserable emotion at all. So even if a Christian feels lonely, they simply won’t bother. If the person feels sorrow, they will still have peace, love and joy inside of them because God abides in them. GOD, the most powerful source of all, and He is perfect.
    Being a narcissist feels chaotic. It feels as if God has left me and it puts me in a state to believe that nothing is safe and nobody is to trust, in a bad way.
    Honestly, knowing myself, I might continue doing these things for some time. I don’t know what the future holds and I can’t pretend to know and hope that I’ll be redeemed. I am an indecisive person that doesn’t know what my next actions will be, and to be honest, I hope there’s an end to this.
    It’s very difficult to get out of this mindset, not because it’s hard, but because it’s in my/the narcissist’s comfort zone to stay in my/their ways. I/they WANT to stay there, unless there is a more efficient way to go in life.
    I feel like the only solution to this is Jesus. He has forgiven everyone and knowing that I’m forgiven for all that I’ve done, including forgiven everyone in the world for what they’ve done, puts my mind at ease, and I feel as if by knowing what Jesus has done makes me feel genuine love for other people again, and genuine love in general. It’s as if Jesus is indeed the solution.
    Usually I just write comments in a very persuasive style as if to show whatever I please to people. I’ve been used to lying so it’s difficult for me to be honest. That is the most honest phrase I can get out of me, and the rest I’m not sure if I’m being honest at all.
    There is something in me, probably God, that wants to stop being like this, having this lazy mindset of pride, fear, arrogance and hate. And of course, while I was turning into a narcissist, I’ve ruined so many of my relationships with people, and I’ve made some of the closest people of mine miserable and they think it’s their fault.
    Sometimes I think that my actions will never be forgiven, and ever since I started feeling guilty (when you stated at the start of the video about guilt being the primary source of narcissism), that’s when truly I started showing signs of narcissism and felt hate. But knowing that Jesus tolerated all of my sins on the cross makes me learn again what real love is which casts out all of my fears.

    • @desireemcnicol6155
      @desireemcnicol6155 Год назад +11

      No matter what our past is God offers us all a new start.
      Start by being quick to say sorry when you hurt someone. It is scary at first to admit a fault but once I made a habit of it I felt so empowered, and being so transparent brings freedom to know people still love you even if you admit to a mistake.
      Also receive Gods forgiveness and let go of identifying as a narcissist and start identifying with Christ in you and just obey His Spirits leading as confirmed by his commands in scripture. If fear, etc rises confess it immediately and state your trust in Him. You will get through this. Jesus loves you ! ❤

    • @desireemcnicol6155
      @desireemcnicol6155 Год назад +9

      I will add, the more you learn to trust God, the safer you will feel despite what things look like and the more you will realize you don't have to control situations out of fear 💓

    • @j.khuster2024
      @j.khuster2024 Год назад +7

      ​@@desireemcnicol6155 hey hun I have a question.... How.. HOW do I ask Jesus to rescue me?
      It's been 43 long years....I'm tired... just want peace and love inside.

    • @InchHigh7
      @InchHigh7 Год назад +10

      Thank you, your whole comment is EXACTLY how I feel & I’m shocked it’s me! I’ve called others out for being this way, so I have to believe that it must be the familiar spirit that’s operating with that, along with pride & my own self worth.
      I truly want to change my behavior so bad & I don’t want to be cast out & forgotten by God. Everytime I want to expose myself, fear and what if’s plague me & then I fall back into this hazy spiral. I truly wouldn’t wish or pray this life on my own worst enemy, which is probably myself.
      I found myself taking a walk the other day & I felt like I was seriously naked. I concluded that it must be how you feel totally without God in your life & all I could do was cry & fuss. Then felt guilty for doing it, it’s not like God made me a narcissist or have the tendencies and traits of one, but it’s how I handled things (not so well) in the past with others.
      I SERIOUSLY hate feeling like this & I’m very upset at myself that I see I’m hurting others. To be honest, my mind has gone back & forth so many times, I’m not even sure what it real or what is my imagination. I would love to know if this also stems from any other mental illnesses I have, not justifying anything or playing the victim, just curious so then it might help me explain more what is actually going on with me to others.
      Thank you again for sharing this testimony. I seriously pray that God will deliver us both, unharmed & be truly born again before Jesus gets back.

    • @sholaebofin6090
      @sholaebofin6090 Год назад +7

      First and foremost thanks for having the courage and wisdom to be self reflective about your condition it gives hope to a lot of victim's their's chance of transformation for the perpetrators through Jesus christ

  • @lesleyM84
    @lesleyM84 Год назад +5

    Born into a pack of them… what a complete train wreck that took me decades upon decades to work through..

  • @jesusrules9925
    @jesusrules9925 Год назад +60

    Amen. The Lord will protect and bless you for doing His will.

  • @bethelshiloh
    @bethelshiloh Год назад +27

    I’m glad you are pointing out the evil spirits behind what is most often labeled mental and personality disorders. I know one and always discerned pride and shame behind it. And hateful behavior.

  • @juliang.4853
    @juliang.4853 Год назад +9

    I am a mentally and physically very stable and endurant personality. My biggest struggle yet was to live together with 2 narcissists for years without even knowing what this mental sickness does to people. I think a good cure for it is first: Know what they are and know that they are not like you. Second: Cut all bonds to them and feel love and empathy to anything around you like to plants animals, the sun, the moon and any being you encounter. Dont stop to trust in the good things in life. This is the only but big difference between you and them!

  • @bossbabies347
    @bossbabies347 Год назад +34

    This video was spot on they are pure evil . Pray ! Pray ! Pray ! 🙏🏽 And surround yourself with loved ones who will be kind and uplift you and not try to tear you down !❤

    • @db44491
      @db44491 11 месяцев назад

      Yes..

  • @chautran2588
    @chautran2588 Год назад +17

    Wow!!! Yes! The core of their personality must be envy and greed! Power hungry!

  • @bonnieyuse5876
    @bonnieyuse5876 Год назад +26

    Don't be fearful...but don't be too confident about it or you will appear arrogant...and even if you are the victim of narcissistic abuse don't tell anyone or they will think your just playing the victim to get pity and attention like a Narcissist. It's all so twisted! 😞

  • @zadonkey8869
    @zadonkey8869 Год назад +18

    My fiance was one , he eventually tried to murder me in the end , even after l had left him. I appreciate this video it's very true , and showed me that the evil in my fiance was and had kept me apart from God , l lived in fear of upsetting him , l an so blessed now that l am and my children are away from that situation .
    Thanks Gabrielle

    • @GladysRWhite
      @GladysRWhite Год назад

      People like that are attracted to occultism and do try to attack others doing witchcraft.... dominion, control of others is witchcraft!
      We must seek to be strong in the Lord and in the power of His might, FILLED WITH HIS SPIRIT, Guided by Him in all we do, and how we pray, because we are at WAR! War is REAL.
      The characteristics of narcissism: each one of them is an evil spirit.
      Our fallen nature replicates satan. These are some of the spirits lucifer generated when he sinned against God:
      1. Bastardy (Which has tentacles: spirits of slavery, anger, wrath, fear, unbelief, offense, corruption, death,)
      2. Rebellion
      3. Disobedience
      4. Pride (alazoon, the boastful type , huperephania the inward type)
      5. Obstinacy
      5. contempt
      6. insensitivity
      7. demonic charisma (attractiveness), and dialectics (tongue...)
      8. Arrogance
      in narcisism besides these, we find other characteristics/spirits: accusation, critic, doubt, derision, sneer, conceit, little self control, insecurity, shame, humiliation, fear to be seen as a failure, or fear to be exposed as a failure.
      The person is in DEEP STRESS AND TROUBLE.
      Sometimes the person's ancestors meddled in the occult, and that opened the door to the devil to have legal right over them and torment them. They don't know better, and they are trapped.
      Remember always, the negative attitude you perceive IT IS AN EVIL SPIRIT, that controls the person
      When we have to deal with such people we need to pray to our Father, asking Him to send His Warrior Angels to GAG and BIND
      the entire hierarchy (thrones, dominions, principalities powers, rulers of darkness and evil hosts) of such names/synonyms, that His Angels confine them in their belly so the spirits cannot operate, and leave the mind free so that the Spirit of God can get through. We must forgive and bless always, perhaps the Father will show His Mercy upon that person bound by the devil.
      Jesus said that if your enemy asks for drink, we must give it to him. We must love as Jesus loved us.... when we were dead in our sins and trespasses. That doesn't mean submitting to the bullies. But we must PRAY! There is nothing impossible for God, but we need to ask in order to receive. PRAY PRAY PRAY, with fervor and faith!!! He will respond!!
      Whatever attitude or characteristic you can name, you have authority over it, you must pray accordingly!
      This we can apply to any situation we face! Ask God to give us discernment and always PRAY, PRAY PRAY, exercising His Authority over the works of the evil one. Jesus came to destroy the works of the devil, He is our Head, we are the body.... seek His guidance and we will be victorious!

    • @anitrastucker6324
      @anitrastucker6324 Год назад

      I can truly identify with this comment. I have often wondered why my relationship with the Lord has declined so much over this last almost 33 years of living in this prison (another word for, this toxic marriage). Thank you for sharing that. My aunt sent me a text today to say, “stress kills.”

  • @maryswobodapishney7559
    @maryswobodapishney7559 Год назад +62

    This is a wonderful message that exposes these agents of evil as shown by their acts. My sister is a malignant narcissist. I will never forget an incident that happened when she was 20. One day we walked into my apartment that I shared with a girlfriend. She had a cat that let out a terrible yowl when she entered the apartment and raced to hide. I have never seen such a reaction by any cat. It made me wonder if it was because she had an evil force...she was incredibly cruel and malicious to me. I tried to make a healthy relationship which never did. I couldn't understand her cruelty until I discovered malignant narcissists which she fit every evil trait. I have gone No Contact with her and truly feel liberated from her!

    • @GladysRWhite
      @GladysRWhite Год назад +7

      The characteristics of narcisism: each one of them is an evil spirit.
      Our fallen nature replicates satan. These are some of the spirits lucifer generated when he sinned against God:
      1. Bastardy (Which has tentacles: spirits of slavery, anger, wrath, fear, unbelief, ofense, corruption, death,)
      2. Rebellion
      3. Disobedience
      4. Pride (alazoon, the boastful type , huperephania the inward type)
      5. Obstinacy
      5. contempt
      6. insensitivity
      7. demonic charisma (attractiveness), and dialectics (tongue...)
      8. Arrogance
      in narcisism besides these, we find other characteristics/spirits: accusation, critic, doubt, derison, sneer, conceit, little self control, insecurity, shame, humiliation, fear to be seen as a failure, or fear to be exposed as a failure.
      The person is in DEEP STRESS AND TROUBLE.
      Sometimes the person's ancestors meddled in the occult, and that opened the door to the devil to have legal right over them and torment them. They don't know better, and they are trapped.
      Remember always, the negative attitude you perceive IT IS AN EVIL SPIRIT, that controls the person
      When we have to deal with such people we need to pray to our Father, asking Him to send His Warrior Angels to GAG and BIND
      the entire hierarchy (thrones, dominions, principalities powers, rulers of darkness and evil hosts) of such names/synonyms, that His Angels confine them in their belly so the spirits cannot operate, and leave the mind free so that the Spirit of God can get through. We must forgive and bless always, perhaps the Father will show His Mercy upon that person bound by the devil.
      Jesus said that if your enemy asks for drink, we must give it to him. We must love as Jesus loved us.... when we were dead in our sins and trespasses. That doesn't mean submitting to the bullies. But we must PRAY! There is nothing impossible for God, but we need to ask in order to receive. PRAY PRAY PRAY, with fervor and faith!!! He will respond!!
      Whatever attitude or characteristic you can name, you have authority over it, you must pray accordingly!
      This we can apply to any situation we face! Ask God to give us discernment and always PRAY, PRAY PRAY, exercising His Authority over the works of the evil one. Jesus came to destroy the works of the devil, He is our Head, we are the body.... seek His guidance and we will be victorious!

    • @margaretleboeuf6765
      @margaretleboeuf6765 Год назад

      ​@GladysRWhite
      Thank you so much for sharing this!
      I'm working hard to deal with my mother-in-law, and the damage she's doing and has done to her sons.
      She's done her best to turn my husband against me. I pray for her, her son and my brother-in-law to overcome her poisoning.
      Your reply is a great reminder to me to keep praying. I've been keeping my distance, and practicing patience when I'm around her, which I do for my husband. She is 95, and he still doesn't fully understand how he has been affected.
      Thank you ❤ 🙏

    • @GladysRWhite
      @GladysRWhite Год назад

      @@margaretleboeuf6765 Dear, remember we are engaged in a spiritual WAR (whether we are aware of it or not). We need to seek to be connected with our Head (Jesus) and always bring the issues to Him in prayer, and ask Him to teach us how to pray, what spirits are operating... He KNOWS IT ALL!. He will show you.
      Make sure to persevere in forgiving, blessing and BINDING the entire hierarchy of spirits operating in her... asking our Father to send Warrior Angels to bind them and confine them to her belly so that she can reason properly. There needs to be a root problem, perhaps she meddled in the occult, or her ancestors. You ask the Lord and be attentive to His whispers! He will show you. He wants us to ask Him, so He can lead us in the battle properly. May God bless you and keep/guard you all and grant you VICTORY OVER THE ENEMY, setting all free!!!

    • @onislawrence4236
      @onislawrence4236 Год назад

      ​@@GladysRWhite😊

  • @DHW256
    @DHW256 Год назад +21

    Our mother was a narcissist who suffered most if not all the traits brought up in this video. Growing up in that home was horrible, I can't imagine subjecting my children to that living hell.

  • @yolandepollok8523
    @yolandepollok8523 Год назад +45

    My mom is ticking all the boxes. I stand strong in my faith❤ God bless.

    • @antoniomindeladossantos5335
      @antoniomindeladossantos5335 Год назад

      Please listen to yourself! Your mum has her own story behind her before you were born and you should be counting yourself as her victory for all she has been through before you were born instead of becoming judgemental! Perhaps you should be helpful and supportive supportive supportive supportive to your dearest mum.

    • @noraa013
      @noraa013 Год назад +1

      @@antoniomindeladossantos5335 some mothers are arrogants and can damage her daugthers a lot with their toxic behsviour, they had total power and control when ,educating, or desesucating you..is not easy.. don't jugde you too

    • @hisword1296
      @hisword1296 Год назад +1

      ​@Antonio Mindela Dos Santos I have to disagree with you-! I say run run run as fast as you can and never look back-!! PERIOD-!!!

  • @traceyreith8849
    @traceyreith8849 Год назад +20

    Ephesians 6:12 ‘because we have a struggle, not against blood and flesh, but against the authorities, against the world rulers of this darkness, against the wicked spirit forces in the heavenly places.’ I know two narcissists and they are both trying to keep myself confidence low, because they fear that my lamp might one day shine brightly and then they will feel inferior to me as opposed to feeling superior to me. But I’ve recently realised that it is ‘wicked spirit forces’ working through them to crush my faith and belief in Gods love and that it is wrong for me to hate the narcissist, because God said that you can’t say that you love him but hate your brother. Leviticus 19: 17. ‘You must not hate your brother in your heart….so that you will not bear sin along with him.’

    • @wendyturner4631
      @wendyturner4631 Год назад +1

      did God love esau??

    • @jernisharichard5032
      @jernisharichard5032 Год назад

      Yes,but guard your heart and mind 💖 you can distance yourself from their BEHAVIOR and don't take their mess. Just pray and let them know what you not putting up with, focus on your well being.

    • @Simplicityandkindness
      @Simplicityandkindness 9 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you for this reminder. Such truth.

  • @moodypet8837
    @moodypet8837 Год назад +18

    Narcissism is just hardening your heart and becoming selfish.

    • @cryptojihadi265
      @cryptojihadi265 Год назад

      Not even close. That's like saying Hitler was just a racist.

    • @moodypet8837
      @moodypet8837 Год назад

      @@cryptojihadi265 oh brother. Let me guess your a victim

  • @michelleparker-4402
    @michelleparker-4402 Год назад +26

    Please pray for my protection from my narcissistic Husband Melvin I can’t take it anymore I move out the house but he still keep bothering me from calling me or lying on me to other I really need prayer I am so tired of living in fear of him

    • @livefromtheground7274
      @livefromtheground7274 Год назад +7

      Girl don’t answer that phone. Block him and let him lie all he wants! He will try tears, fears ANYTHING. DO NOT GIVE IN!
      He will even threaten to kill himself to hurt you.
      My dead husband threatened suicide so much that I finally told home TO DO IT! Because you’re not doing to traumatize me before and after.
      Then he tried to build on that lying telling people I told him to kill himself 🤦‍♀️ I told him I didn’t give a rats butt.

    • @sjs4802
      @sjs4802 Год назад +5

      Change your phone numbers and if necessary move house again - and only tell those you trust. It's horrible but it could be the only solution. Pray a lot, and trust God. He will help you. Promise.

    • @rosalinanuyte7247
      @rosalinanuyte7247 Год назад +4

      Ive done this after living with a narc partber for 21 years..now im free..peaeful and no more abuse experience wd a narc

    • @couleuredgirl6314
      @couleuredgirl6314 Год назад +2

      Go to another state to a DV shelter. DV shelter can help you w so much and a safe place. Get away. Leave.

    • @EmeraldForest253
      @EmeraldForest253 Год назад

      Sometimes moving to another state they will find you I pray u don’t have children with this evil person

  • @leswehman11
    @leswehman11 Год назад +18

    New subscriber from Florida. I am a Christian first, and a psychologist second. I work with a pathological narcissist, so I know how to handle him. Just remember one thing about Narcissists: author Gavin DeBecker said about narcissists: “they leave a debris field of human suffering a”. ***.let that statement sit a few minutes and you can feel the gravity of what narcissists do to those they are around!! God bless everyone! 🙏✝️

    • @Survivin2Thrivin
      @Survivin2Thrivin Год назад

      Thanks for sharing, Doc! Will remember that advice you quoted here.

    • @GladysRWhite
      @GladysRWhite Год назад

      The characteristics of narcisism: each one of them is an evil spirit.
      Our fallen nature replicates satan. These are some of the spirits lucifer generated when he sinned against God:
      1. Bastardy (Which has tentacles: spirits of slavery, anger, wrath, fear, unbelief, ofense, corruption, death,)
      2. Rebellion
      3. Disobedience
      4. Pride (alazoon, the boastful type , huperephania the inward type)
      5. Obstinacy
      5. contempt
      6. insensitivity
      7. demonic charisma (attractiveness), and dialectics (tongue...)
      8. Arrogance
      in narcisism besides these, we find other characteristics/spirits: accusation, critic, doubt, derison, sneer, conceit, little self control, insecurity, shame, humiliation, fear to be seen as a failure, or fear to be exposed as a failure.
      The person is in DEEP STRESS AND TROUBLE.
      Sometimes the person's ancestors meddled in the occult, and that opened the door to the devil to have legal right over them and torment them. They don't know better, and they are trapped.
      Remember always, the negative attitude you perceive IT IS AN EVIL SPIRIT, that controls the person
      When we have to deal with such people we need to pray to our Father, asking Him to send His Warrior Angels to GAG and BIND
      the entire hierarchy (thrones, dominions, principalities powers, rulers of darkness and evil hosts) of such names/synonyms, that His Angels confine them in their belly so the spirits cannot operate, and leave the mind free so that the Spirit of God can get through. We must forgive and bless always, perhaps the Father will show His Mercy upon that person bound by the devil.
      Jesus said that if your enemy asks for drink, we must give it to him. We must love as Jesus loved us.... when we were dead in our sins and trespasses. That doesn't mean submitting to the bullies. But we must PRAY! There is nothing impossible for God, but we need to ask in order to receive. PRAY PRAY PRAY, with fervor and faith!!! He will respond!!
      Whatever attitude or characteristic you can name, you have authority over it, you must pray accordingly!
      This we can apply to any situation we face! Ask God to give us discernment and always PRAY, PRAY PRAY, exercising His Authority over the works of the evil one. Jesus came to destroy the works of the devil, He is our Head, we are the body.... seek His guidance and we will be victorious!

    • @christar9527
      @christar9527 Год назад

      They sure do. It’s shocking how much suffering they cause in their victims, especially those who are their own flesh and blood and they’re supposed to be parenting. My family members were my mortal enemies.

    • @TAdler-ex8px
      @TAdler-ex8px Год назад

      @@GladysRWhite Thank you for recognizing that Jesus also died for those who are currently oppressed by Satan.

  • @Kabaselefh
    @Kabaselefh Год назад +2

    I have been narc free for years now. I regained my sanity and my spiritual health, now I see them as they come.

  • @doloreswilfong416
    @doloreswilfong416 Год назад +18

    The best advice.Always go to God for help. Watch as many times as you need to help you with the health of your soul and body. Better than all the other videos on narcissism. It's better to watch videos on how God helps you through the insanity of dealing with these poor people then the ones on revenge. Pray and boundaries if not total no contact until you are well enough to truly understand what happened to you and to never let it happen again. God and all the Saints in heaven is where true help lives.

  • @nicselectronics81
    @nicselectronics81 Год назад +16

    My dad, just one big ball of evil, thank God for breaking me away from his controlling clutches.

  • @rhy27
    @rhy27 Год назад +3

    We are magnets for them because we have self- love- deficit - disorder...and how we got that is being raised by parents who were cold, who couldn't give praise, who were critical, who probably themselves lacked the ability to properly care for another human being.
    If youve been raised by one, married one, have children who display these traits, my heart goes out to you.

  • @joshy0369
    @joshy0369 Год назад +11

    This is one of the truest things I've seen on the internet 😮

  • @cori1302
    @cori1302 Год назад +5

    The disciples asked, Why couldn't we cast it out?
    And Jesus replied,
    This kind only comes out thru fasting and prayer.
    *Fasting can also mean to stay away from something

  • @ericwalters3426
    @ericwalters3426 Год назад +14

    This is very well done, ive known for a long time that narcissism was a demonically driven issue but never would have thought it was this involved. But it all fits perfectly. Well done.

  • @junebuge.9192
    @junebuge.9192 Год назад +11

    I always did wonder if narcissists were demons in disguise because they sure do act like demons. And Lucifer is definitely a narcissistic personality of the Bible. Every time I hear about the story of Lucifer I always think back about my ex and it blows my mind at how much they have in common. That was God insight. Thank you for your video.

    • @michellefarris3961
      @michellefarris3961 Год назад

      Many are possessed by demons, but I also believe some are actual demons.
      They definitely don't have human characteristics. All they can do is mimic until the mask falls off.

  • @OneHope4Heaven
    @OneHope4Heaven Год назад +12

    SO Spot On!
    ... but the only thing I don't agree with --》 "the narcissist unwillingly surrenders to these demons". God gave everyone a conscience - a sense of right and wrong - so even the narcissist KNOWS when they're doing wrong and CHOSE this option over doing what's right. I've seen them take PLEASURE in the abuse they foist on others, and no matter how you treat them in return (bad or good), or how bad the consequences of their OWN behavior becomes, they never change. They always revert back to their tried & true tactics because they LOVE EVIL ... They've CHOSEN darkness over light. People who harken to the tug of their conscience will eventually repent - but narcicissts don't and won't because they are cowards & too lazy to do the inner work to heal - to do the right thing. They're evil to the core and therefore will be 100% responsible for their choices on Judgement Day. I have no pity for them & they will get what they deserve because God is a Just God.

    • @Thisisme-zm3bs
      @Thisisme-zm3bs Год назад +3

      I agree they chose who they wanted to be....no desire to change as you said they are cowards and to lazy to work on thier self you read them like I know them If they would only believe there is a better life if the take off the veil self righteous ego pride ridden closes the door for deliverance

    • @nicolagrant5450
      @nicolagrant5450 Год назад +1

      It can come from trauma-fear so then us but a choice. Maybe they are weak as well

    • @OneHope4Heaven
      @OneHope4Heaven Год назад

      @@Thisisme-zm3bs
      Exactly ... they COULD have that better way of life... but... refuse to let go of their tried & true survival tactics because they, in my opinion, still get off on being able to (manipulate people & situations in order to) hurt them instead of putting an end to the insane cycle of abuse passed down generation after generation. It's childish, fear-based, & destructive to others AND themselves. I've seen this pattern of behavior in my own sister (62 this year) repeatedly since I was a kid. She's been a horrible older sister & I've only seen her behavior get worse over time. You'd think a guilty conscience would motivate them to change, but they ignore it - voluntarily - so one can only conclude that they've chosen evil over good.

    • @OneHope4Heaven
      @OneHope4Heaven Год назад

      @@nicolagrant5450 they are weak, yes, ... and the choice is theirs to change or not. Everyone has a choice - & they choose not to change, and to continue doing evil

  • @JoBird123
    @JoBird123 Год назад +40

    Sounds just like my recent divorce 😢he was evil 👿 the whole time

    • @vaughn7130
      @vaughn7130 Год назад

      How are you doing these days?

    • @JoBird123
      @JoBird123 Год назад +4

      @@vaughn7130 Thank you for asking but that’s a loaded question 🙋🏻‍♀️ lol but now I know that my exhusband was like a stray dog, you feed it’s ego then it bites you lol

  • @jacqelvilleraw
    @jacqelvilleraw Год назад +11

    I can say without a shadow of a doubt, this is true! I was with a narcissist for many years. He used to come after me and attack me. I had holy water in my house, which he knew nothing about. I literally annointed myself with it, and that person, that night, was coming at me with such hate and attacking me out of nowhere for what seemed to be no reason at all. It was terrifying!!!

  • @huruduru5144
    @huruduru5144 Год назад +10

    These people have traded their soul for Narcissism and are now dead inside..And what they hate about you is that you have a healthy soul and they are very jealous of that and they very much WANT IT! And are trying to steal yours. This is why they get angry when you fight them on their Narcissism because THEY WANT A SOUL! Every Time they get supply from you they take a piece of your soul and it feels soooooo good to them They want to take your soul and give you theirs..A soul exchange,. their dead soul for your healthy soul. Every time they get supply from you, there is an exchange, they feel good and you feel bad. This is why after a while you start feeling dead inside yourself.. This is why victims says they are evil. because they feel this..

    • @wendyturner4631
      @wendyturner4631 Год назад +1

      break all "soul ties"with constant agressive prayers.

  • @sweetrose813
    @sweetrose813 Год назад +11

    They have darkened Hearts and seek you projected onto others. Truly sinister as they take after the father of lies

  • @claudetteearle3052
    @claudetteearle3052 Год назад +43

    This video is as I've always advocated, but I could not have explained it this well. Thank you.🙏🏾

  • @CatherineScarborough
    @CatherineScarborough Год назад +22

    Great to have solid biblical insight into what drives narcissists and other "mental health" dis-orders. Very appreciated! Keep shining ✝️💖🕊️

    • @WendyJones-zx7is
      @WendyJones-zx7is 11 месяцев назад

      Narcissists are dis-eased and you can catch their toxic virus that no amount of masks or vaccines can protect you from ?

    • @WendyJones-zx7is
      @WendyJones-zx7is 11 месяцев назад

      2 Timothy 3: 1 to 5 says it all really !

  • @deniseabc1
    @deniseabc1 Год назад +13

    I had to move to get rid of my narcissist/sociopath(renard g. Amos) but he still stalks me & gets his pals to stalk me, just to show me that he knows where I moved and the abuse/stalking won't stop.

    • @EphemeralProductions
      @EphemeralProductions Год назад +2

      In such cases you just have to pray for peace and protection, and for Justice to the other person. You might to go into some kind of victim protection program. That is sometimes the only way to keep such people away from you.

  • @jacintamcpadden7258
    @jacintamcpadden7258 Год назад +5

    It is written when God is for us who can be against us. I finally got rid of family members who was constantly gaslighting and bringing me down cause I wouldn't adjust to their drug ,crimal lives. They went out to destroy my family, but i watched what God does to these people, and its no longer my battle only to stay the hell away from them.

  • @sunnymc6332
    @sunnymc6332 Год назад +6

    Don't hug the narc, their demons can jump into you. I had an experience where the narc hugged me, being normal but next day I was thrown off the chair, the chair collapsed. I hugged mum and she then started having falls. Never before this happened to us both. 😢😢

  • @justmichael6628
    @justmichael6628 Год назад +14

    Everything the narcissist does is deniable .There is always a facile excuse or an explanation . Cruelties are couched in loving terms . Aggressive and hostile acts are paraded as thoughtfulness . Selfish manipulations are presented as gifts . A narcissist's weapon of choice is often verbal - slander , lies , playing the victim in flipped tales of who was the victim and who was the abuser , often playing the victim while vilifying the true victim , gossip , rage , verbal abuse and intentional infliction of emotional pain . It is a systematic dismantling of another person's relationships , reputation , emotional , physical and spiritual health , life and very soul . . . This is why narcissists are so often called "(( Emotional Vampires ))" .

    • @GladysRWhite
      @GladysRWhite Год назад +2

      Remember that satan is the deceiver! We Christians must seek to be strong in the Lord and in the power of His might, FILLED WITH HIS SPIRIT, Guided by Him in all we do, and how we pray, because we are at WAR! War is REAL.
      The characteristics of narcissism: each one of them is an evil spirit.
      Our fallen nature replicates satan. These are some of the spirits lucifer generated when he sinned against God:
      1. Bastardy (Which has tentacles: spirits of slavery, anger, wrath, fear, unbelief, offense, corruption, death,)
      2. Rebellion
      3. Disobedience
      4. Pride (alazoon, the boastful type , huperephania the inward type)
      5. Obstinacy
      5. contempt
      6. insensitivity
      7. demonic charisma (attractiveness), and dialectics (tongue...)
      8. Arrogance
      in narcissism besides these, we find other characteristics/spirits: accusation, critic, doubt, derision, sneer, conceit, little self control, insecurity, shame, humiliation, fear to be seen as a failure, or fear to be exposed as a failure.
      The person is in DEEP STRESS AND TROUBLE.
      Sometimes the person's ancestors meddled in the occult, and that opened the door to the devil to have legal right over them and torment them. They don't know better, and they are trapped.
      Remember always, the negative attitude you perceive IT IS AN EVIL SPIRIT, that controls the person
      When we have to deal with such people we need to pray to our Father, asking Him to send His Warrior Angels to GAG and BIND
      the entire hierarchy (thrones, dominions, principalities powers, rulers of darkness and evil hosts) of such names/synonyms, that His Angels confine them in their belly so the spirits cannot operate, and leave the mind free so that the Spirit of God can get through. We must forgive and bless always, perhaps the Father will show His Mercy upon that person bound by the devil.
      Jesus said that if your enemy asks for drink, we must give it to him. We must love as Jesus loved us.... when we were dead in our sins and trespasses. That doesn't mean submitting to the bullies. But we must PRAY! There is nothing impossible for God, but we need to ask in order to receive. PRAY PRAY PRAY, with fervor and faith!!! He will respond!!
      Whatever attitude or characteristic you can name, you have authority over it, you must pray accordingly!
      This we can apply to any situation we face! Ask God to give us discernment and always PRAY, PRAY PRAY, exercising His Authority over the works of the evil one. Jesus came to destroy the works of the devil, He is our Head, we are the body.... seek His guidance and we will be victorious!

  • @tammyhollis1519
    @tammyhollis1519 Год назад +58

    What if you are married to the narcissist? I snatched off the mask four years ago. I'm exhausted.

    • @arthurkoene5592
      @arthurkoene5592 Год назад +17

      Same here. It’s very difficult, I know. Trust the Lord for everything. He knows and just as with other severe difficulties in the lives of his children (Joseph from the bible for example) God in his allmighty providence is able to use it for your good and that of the people around you and for His glory. I know it doesn’t come natural, but trust that He is faithful and keeps all His promises. Give it fully over to Him. He is the good shepherd who gives his life for his sheep. Be still and leave it all to Him. Don’t forget to love and forgive. Without His grace we are just as lost as everyone else. There are no good people. Only a good God. Be still, be faithful to Him, and let Him fight your battle. ❤

    • @fainitesbarley2245
      @fainitesbarley2245 Год назад +15

      Leave!!

    • @alkazam9319
      @alkazam9319 Год назад +18

      Divorce them...PERIOD

    • @lorrainem8234
      @lorrainem8234 Год назад +22

      Get out as soon as you can. It will only get worse.

    • @amandakropen3273
      @amandakropen3273 Год назад +24

      I finally divorced mine. Much better to be alone than being screamed at on a daily basis!!!

  • @stephenwillis9988
    @stephenwillis9988 Год назад +25

    My father was a narcissistic psychopath I from a young age knew something awful lived inside him . I worked with a lot of them throughout my working life.

    • @luzdubon8996
      @luzdubon8996 Год назад +7

      We are surrounded, God help us 🙏

    • @db44491
      @db44491 11 месяцев назад +1

      My father in law was one as well, very evil people, i have found comfort in the scriptures ..

  • @mrs.latoyamelvin652
    @mrs.latoyamelvin652 Год назад +7

    Forgive the narcs lord for they know not what they do, Lord have mercy upon me & heal this nation 🙏🏾

  • @annettebbaker1971
    @annettebbaker1971 Год назад +8

    That's why we are to RENEW OUR MINDS in God's Truth DAILY!

  • @JKDVIPER
    @JKDVIPER Год назад +7

    I get it. My only caution would be. Overthinking leads to chaos. Keep a clean mind. Innocent. Let love for goodness guide you. You’re going to come up against LIARS. Just know it. No more than that is required. Stop judging. There’s always gonna be two sides to every story so, be sure you don’t let ANGER, HATE, or JEALOUSY to grip you. 😉💯💥

  • @maritaking2071
    @maritaking2071 Год назад +3

    Envy is a fruit of rejection. Rejection is the root, they have rejection issues, other fruits are low self-image and insecurity.

  • @Upnpersonal
    @Upnpersonal Год назад +5

    After much exposure to them since childhood, I have long been convinced that it’s episodic possession.They say the same things, repeat the same behavioral patterns, and even make the same facial expressions, especially when you out them. It’s exactly like the same consciousness is speaking through them. That “uh oh” face when challenged, outed, or told they have zero importance is classic!🤣

  • @4Square56
    @4Square56 Год назад +7

    Don't even pray for a person like this they are bent on evil . They are self centered and want nothing to do with the Most High. I prayed for him to do what is right for 20 years and I left for three years hoping and praying he would change. I went back trying again and it was just as worse. This was my husband

    • @jesusloveseveryone888
      @jesusloveseveryone888 Год назад

      No doubt that’s it’s hard to pray for our enemies, but remember what Jesus said in Matthew 5:44 (KJV): “But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you.”
      Yes, I get you and it’s definitely hard to pray for our enemies, but always remember what Jesus said. Praying for them also signals forgiveness and we must forgive if we expect our Heavenly Father to forgive us of our sins as Jesus said (Matthew 6:14-15). God bless you. 🙏🏼✝️🕊️

  • @BrotherToby85
    @BrotherToby85 Год назад +8

    Great breakdown! I have seen ALL of these spirits in my last relationship. Glory be to God that I'm no longer in that toxic environment 🙏🏾

  • @zinnia3684
    @zinnia3684 Год назад +7

    My former drug addicted son is a narcissist. He is jealous of his brother height and good looks. He dominates his wife and children while trying to manipulate every situation . He has represented me to others in a very negative way. He looks past people and often makes conversation with strangers. He expects that I will bend over backwards to please him but I never feel the need anymore. I am a Born Again Christian so you know that that doesn’t go over well. I have little to do with him. Praise God. I believe he is fearful and pray for his Salvation. 🙏

    • @GladysRWhite
      @GladysRWhite Год назад

      People like that are attracted to occultism and do try to attack others doing witchcraft.... dominion, control of others is witchcraft!
      We must seek to be strong in the Lord and in the power of His might, FILLED WITH HIS SPIRIT, Guided by Him in all we do, and how we pray, because we are at WAR! War is REAL.
      The characteristics of narcissism: each one of them is an evil spirit.
      Our fallen nature replicates satan. These are some of the spirits lucifer generated when he sinned against God:
      1. Bastardy (Which has tentacles: spirits of slavery, anger, wrath, fear, unbelief, ofense, corruption, death,)
      2. Rebellion
      3. Disobedience
      4. Pride (alazoon, the boastful type , huperephania the inward type)
      5. Obstinacy
      5. contempt
      6. insensitivity
      7. demonic charisma (attractiveness), and dialectics (tongue...)
      8. Arrogance
      in narcissism besides these, we find other characteristics/spirits: accusation, critic, doubt, derision, sneer, conceit, little self control, insecurity, shame, humiliation, fear to be seen as a failure, or fear to be exposed as a failure.
      The person is in DEEP STRESS AND TROUBLE.
      Sometimes the person's ancestors meddled in the occult, and that opened the door to the devil to have legal right over them and torment them. They don't know better, and they are trapped.
      Remember always, the negative attitude you perceive IT IS AN EVIL SPIRIT, that controls the person
      When we have to deal with such people we need to pray to our Father, asking Him to send His Warrior Angels to GAG and BIND
      the entire hierarchy (thrones, dominions, principalities powers, rulers of darkness and evil hosts) of such names/synonyms, that His Angels confine them in their belly so the spirits cannot operate, and leave the mind free so that the Spirit of God can get through. We must forgive and bless always, perhaps the Father will show His Mercy upon that person bound by the devil.
      Jesus said that if your enemy asks for drink, we must give it to him. We must love as Jesus loved us.... when we were dead in our sins and trespasses. That doesn't mean submitting to the bullies. But we must PRAY! There is nothing impossible for God, but we need to ask in order to receive. PRAY PRAY PRAY, with fervor and faith!!! He will respond!!
      Whatever attitude or characteristic you can name, you have authority over it, you must pray accordingly!
      This we can apply to any situation we face! Ask God to give us discernment and always PRAY, PRAY PRAY, exercising His Authority over the works of the evil one. Jesus came to destroy the works of the devil, He is our Head, we are the body.... seek His guidance and we will be victorious!

  • @amandapryar4675
    @amandapryar4675 Год назад +15

    First of all, I want to thank you for allowing us to read your words, because if someone is nearby, and we don't want them to know what we're watching it's a true blessing ❤
    I know two people who are like this and asked God to show them the way, because I don't seem to have the ability to do so 😞. I also know that God is helping me with my situation 🙏. If everything works out ok I won't be able to tell you but I will ask God to let you know.
    Thank You for your advice.😊

    • @GladysRWhite
      @GladysRWhite Год назад

      We must seek to be strong in the Lord and in the power of His might, FILLED WITH HIS SPIRIT, Guided by Him in all we do, and how we pray, because we are at WAR! War is REAL.
      The characteristics of narcisism: each one of them is an evil spirit.
      Our fallen nature replicates satan. These are some of the spirits lucifer generated when he sinned against God:
      1. Bastardy (Which has tentacles: spirits of slavery, anger, wrath, fear, unbelief, ofense, corruption, death,)
      2. Rebellion
      3. Disobedience
      4. Pride (alazoon, the boastful type , huperephania the inward type)
      5. Obstinacy
      5. contempt
      6. insensitivity
      7. demonic charisma (attractiveness), and dialectics (tongue...)
      8. Arrogance
      in narcisism besides these, we find other characteristics/spirits: accusation, critic, doubt, derison, sneer, conceit, little self control, insecurity, shame, humiliation, fear to be seen as a failure, or fear to be exposed as a failure.
      The person is in DEEP STRESS AND TROUBLE.
      Sometimes the person's ancestors meddled in the occult, and that opened the door to the devil to have legal right over them and torment them. They don't know better, and they are trapped.
      Remember always, the negative attitude you perceive IT IS AN EVIL SPIRIT, that controls the person
      When we have to deal with such people we need to pray to our Father, asking Him to send His Warrior Angels to GAG and BIND
      the entire hierarchy (thrones, dominions, principalities powers, rulers of darkness and evil hosts) of such names/synonyms, that His Angels confine them in their belly so the spirits cannot operate, and leave the mind free so that the Spirit of God can get through. We must forgive and bless always, perhaps the Father will show His Mercy upon that person bound by the devil.
      Jesus said that if your enemy asks for drink, we must give it to him. We must love as Jesus loved us.... when we were dead in our sins and trespasses. That doesn't mean submitting to the bullies. But we must PRAY! There is nothing impossible for God, but we need to ask in order to receive. PRAY PRAY PRAY, with fervor and faith!!! He will respond!!
      Whatever attitude or characteristic you can name, you have authority over it, you must pray accordingly!
      This we can apply to any situation we face! Ask God to give us discernment and always PRAY, PRAY PRAY, exercising His Authority over the works of the evil one. Jesus came to destroy the works of the devil, He is our Head, we are the body.... seek His guidance and we will be victorious!

  • @susangoodman2598
    @susangoodman2598 Год назад +7

    When you have COURTS AND GOVERNMENTS SO FULL OF NARCISSISTIC PEOPLE WITH LITTLE EMPATHY FOR OTHER IT IS HARD TO FIND A WORLD TO MOVE ON.

  • @Bennydabair
    @Bennydabair Год назад +5

    I'm dealing with narcissist abuse. I'm so glad this came as a suggested video. I really needed to hear this.

  • @cbzzzzzzzzzzz1167
    @cbzzzzzzzzzzz1167 Год назад +7

    I had to go No Contact with my mother years ago as well as my sister. Eventually my mother's whole side of the family would turn against me, except one cousin of mine, she was religious and believed in God, went to church with her own family. She is the only one I have stayed in contact with all these years. She saw the side my mother was, her true colors just like I did, but everyone else in the family who were not religious fell under my mother's manipulations.
    I tried to stay in contact with my dad years ago but when my mother (divorced my dad when I was 18) and sister found out they were relentless in their harassment of my father with his contact with me. They also got my father involved with their drama seeking ways. My father would loose sleep being called to my sisters house to watch it until early in he mornings because of lies they told about being stalked. Eventually my father would die when he fell off the roof at work one morning.
    My step mother who was a Christian woman, my father's second wife, who brought him peace after my mother divorced him, would tell me stories of how my mother would not stop bothering my father even though my mother had also remarried and had a new husband, she along with my sister (in her 30's at the time) would call my father up all the time to get him to do things. When they found out he was spending time with me they would get really weird and try to interfere with that. Like a jealousy thing.
    I never really got a chance to be close to my father like I wanted. He never got a chance to get to really know my children, even though I tried and tried to get him to see me, to connect and make memories with my children. He was that terrified and exhausted by my mother and my sister bothering him when they would find out he was around me. Then one morning he just died in a tragic way when he fell from that roof. I blame my mother and my sister, my step mother told me how relentless they were with their drama and always quilting him into getting involved to take care of their problems.
    Even after going No Contact for over a decade the family still searched me out and finally one of my mother's flying monkeys (an evil cousin of mine) found a blog site I started years ago and read every single blog post of mine in one day, I had over 200 posts. Then this evil cousin that was close to my mother doing her dirty work, contacted other estranged family members to tell them who I was in contact with and what I was writing.She also turned her daughters to my site to interfere with the blog. A couple weeks before my father would die in a tragic way also sent me a letter pretending to be our dead Nana, a Nana I was very close to and miss so much. She wrote that even Nana wouldn't forgive me for going No Contact with my mother.
    These people are evil, pure evil. I have prayed they changed, I continue to pray they are okay and just stay out of my life, but they are relentless in their evil ways. The best thing I ever did to break this evil chain of abuse that was happening to my own children in that family, was to break away from them all. Stay away, just get as far away from them as possible. It has been more then a decade, my children are now grown and they still search me out to try and torment me. I will stay by God's side, he is my true father and loves his children very much. Those people with their horrible behaviors...seem to be working for the evil one to break God's children.

  • @RepentTimeIsAtHand
    @RepentTimeIsAtHand Год назад +10

    I understand the reference to the narcissist unknowingly becomes entangled with the demons of narcissism.
    For me my spirit knows the narcissist knows better and has made a choice to be this evil.
    My daughter is a narcissist. She knows exactly what and who she serves.
    My 7 yr old grandson... whom I been his main caretaker since his birth seeks the Lord and my daughter tells him "There is no God."
    She had recently discarded my husband and myself. And slanders us. She has discarded my grandson's father. Discarded her grandmother...anyone who calls her out on her behavior.
    She told me that my grandson is now her prisoner. She is an alcoholic who functions through her life.
    Please pray for my grandson and our circumstances.
    I pray our Heavenly Father bring her to humility....swiftly.
    She wad raised knowing the truth of the Lord.
    My husband calls her an emotional terrorist.
    Pray the will of our Heavenly father be done in Jesus name by the shed blood of our Lord and Savior Jesus.
    Amen
    Deeply grateful for your prayers.🙏

    • @toyabrock9519
      @toyabrock9519 Год назад +1

      God bless you 🙏🏽💕

    • @RepentTimeIsAtHand
      @RepentTimeIsAtHand Год назад +1

      @@toyabrock9519 Beloved, I am deeply grateful for prayers.
      The only way to describe this is... it's like mourning the living.
      I remain in prayer for all of us in the land of the living.
      May the grace of the Lord be with you🕊❤️🙏

    • @toyabrock9519
      @toyabrock9519 Год назад

      @@RepentTimeIsAtHand You’re welcome and Thank you 🙏🏽🙏🏽💕

  • @fonegnacopie2977
    @fonegnacopie2977 Год назад +8

    Thank you 🙏🏽 for exposing those spirits. Really makes sense, and help me see the light. God saved me, I survived. I believe I shall be restored 🌹

  • @sallylara1102
    @sallylara1102 Год назад +13

    Thank you, Lord Jesus, for equipping me with everything I need to win my battles this day! I praise you that I am protected today by the armor of God. I now claim your promise that no weapon formed against me shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). In Jesus' mighty name, Amen!

  • @jokotolaabimbola2683
    @jokotolaabimbola2683 Год назад +8

    Someone has finally nailed it.Its just an evil spirit.

  • @BonnieBlue1861
    @BonnieBlue1861 Год назад +4

    I worked for someone with all of these traits for 23 years. He knew that I was a people pleaser and that I hoped for his appreciation and praise, and he used it against me for a very long time. He nitpicked everything I did. I used to tell him that I felt like I was under a microscope. I am thankful that I was finally able to quit and get away from his control, ridicule, and diminishing acts.
    All of those years I naively prayed for a true reconciliation and true respect for one another, even praying that he could change and we might be able to become close. Now I know that it’s something that can’t and won’t ever happen. It’s demonic. To top it all off, he cloaks himself with Christ. That’s how he’s able to tell lies and manipulate, because people/patients are completely snowed.
    I am thankful that I always saw through his facade and ultimately it didn’t damage my own faith. But I do believe it was an demonic attack for 23 years.

  • @tobascoheat6582
    @tobascoheat6582 Год назад +3

    Others have also added a couple. I added
    (9) Strife while others added
    (10) Manipulation
    (11) Seduction
    😮

  • @mollymuch2808
    @mollymuch2808 Год назад +9

    My mother had all those and claimed to be a Christian
    She gave my father a terrible time but chose me for special treatment
    Thank God for people like you who expose these things

    • @knechtgottes9109
      @knechtgottes9109 Год назад

      Die Nicolaiter sind das Christentum, welches das Malzeichen des Tieres ist!
      Wir Gerechten leben in Feindschaft mit allen Sündern. Sind Schafe mitten unter euch Wölfen!

    • @DebraCollins-fq4jo
      @DebraCollins-fq4jo 11 месяцев назад +1

      The devil goes to church too.

  • @marykellerzacks9110
    @marykellerzacks9110 Год назад +5

    Thank you for exposing the evil of narcissistic people. I learned it the difficult way of decades of living hell. Learn from the burn. I survived; Peace

  • @0657891
    @0657891 Год назад +5

    Very powerful you were talking to me directly, I realize that if I stay I will never carry out GOD plan for me thank you my brother for allowing the holy Spirit to speak through you praise GOD 🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @mariajames5884
    @mariajames5884 Год назад +10

    GOD BLESS AND KEEP YOU FOR DELIVERING THIS MESSAGE TO TRY TO HELP AND SAVE PEOPLE FROM THESES DEMONS ✝️🙏

  • @elainebrown3739
    @elainebrown3739 Год назад +6

    Are there any more parents out there that feel the way I do? This belief about narcissism is tearing families apart. I can see the devil’s handiwork in this.

    • @fridaybird377
      @fridaybird377 Год назад

      I believe is also MK ULTRA. Uses of V2S technology. Also is demonic.

    • @DebraCollins-fq4jo
      @DebraCollins-fq4jo 11 месяцев назад

      Yes. NPD is a cover word for demonic possession. Ungodly psychology puts their own spin on this behavior. Psalms 1 : put not your trust in the councils of ungodly men.

    • @kevintswi
      @kevintswi 4 месяца назад

      I agree with you and vehemently oppose the morbid pop psychology that pits one against the other. Then, while quoting some recent RUclips video, they have ample ammunition to mount a war of blame and projection. The simple truth is also biblical. We are all sinners and in need of grace that imparts faith to receive God’s forgiveness through Christ.
      Make repentance and humility a part of all of your relationships and especially in your marriage. The spouse that never apologizes and never seeks forgiveness and reconciliation is most likely void of God’s grace that transforms every aspect of life. If apologies only come after they have to be told or “reminded “ it shows that they don’t understand the mercy of God and his spirit that give the ability to have godly sorrow.
      Now we have various terms thanks to pop psychology and can name and blame the offending person but I find that a mirror is useful when we look to actually see what we are and who we are and do I show the common fruit of the Holy Spirit in my life? If not, then I either need be born again and regenerated or I need to have my heart searched and cleansed. Marriage is the binding of two sinners in a covenant before God and their vows to each other and their reliance on God to form their soul and make us more like Jesus. Narcissism is another name for sin and pride of your life. The cure for narcissism is the same cure for sin, Jesus Christ and Him crucified and living in me and empowering me to deny my flesh and to walk in a manner worthy of his calling.

  • @tlove6932
    @tlove6932 Год назад +5

    Ever notice how Narcissists always seems to have that "Jezebel Spirit" in them?

  • @LibbySlaughter101
    @LibbySlaughter101 Год назад +8

    Someone said to Jesus 'Your mother & brothers are standing outside wanting to see you'. But Jesus answered 'My mother and brothers are those who hear the word of God and do it'. (Luke 8:20-21) - I believe those words of Jesus set me free since I thought I couldn't abandon my biological, narcissistic family. But here Jesus tells us that our true families are those who are of the same spirit - not the same flesh. Those who are demonised cannot help but hurt us & we're told not to associate with the ungodly, neither to cast our pearls before swine (2Corinthians 6:14/ Matthew 7:6) - Nowhere in the bible are we instructed to endure those who hate us & mock us. We are only to pray for such people whether they are our families or not.

    • @GladysRWhite
      @GladysRWhite Год назад +1

      Agree, but we must always forgive, bless, PRAY for them. This is the way of Jesus....
      We Christians must seek to be strong in the Lord and in the power of His might, FILLED WITH HIS SPIRIT, Guided by Him in all we do, and how we pray, because we are at WAR! War is REAL.
      The characteristics of narcissism: each one of them is an evil spirit.
      Our fallen nature replicates satan. These are some of the spirits lucifer generated when he sinned against God:
      1. Bastardy (Which has tentacles: spirits of slavery, anger, wrath, fear, unbelief, ofense, corruption, death,)
      2. Rebellion
      3. Disobedience
      4. Pride (alazoon, the boastful type , huperephania the inward type)
      5. Obstinacy
      5. contempt
      6. insensitivity
      7. demonic charisma (attractiveness), and dialectics (tongue...)
      8. Arrogance
      in narcissism besides these, we find other characteristics/spirits: accusation, critic, doubt, derision, sneer, conceit, little self control, insecurity, shame, humiliation, fear to be seen as a failure, or fear to be exposed as a failure.
      The person is in DEEP STRESS AND TROUBLE.
      Sometimes the person's ancestors meddled in the occult, and that opened the door to the devil to have legal right over them and torment them. They don't know better, and they are trapped.
      Remember always, the negative attitude you perceive IT IS AN EVIL SPIRIT, that controls the person
      When we have to deal with such people we need to pray to our Father, asking Him to send His Warrior Angels to GAG and BIND
      the entire hierarchy (thrones, dominions, principalities powers, rulers of darkness and evil hosts) of such names/synonyms, that His Angels confine them in their belly so the spirits cannot operate, and leave the mind free so that the Spirit of God can get through. We must forgive and bless always, perhaps the Father will show His Mercy upon that person bound by the devil.
      Jesus said that if your enemy asks for drink, we must give it to him. We must love as Jesus loved us.... when we were dead in our sins and trespasses. That doesn't mean submitting to the bullies. But we must PRAY! There is nothing impossible for God, but we need to ask in order to receive. PRAY PRAY PRAY, with fervor and faith!!! He will respond!!
      Whatever attitude or characteristic you can name, you have authority over it, you must pray accordingly!
      This we can apply to any situation we face! Ask God to give us discernment and always PRAY, PRAY PRAY, exercising His Authority over the works of the evil one. Jesus came to destroy the works of the devil, He is our Head, we are the body.... seek His guidance and we will be victorious!

  • @Seraphim7
    @Seraphim7 Год назад +10

    “Our minds Become the Battle Ground for their Assault.”
    Lawd
    Lord
    Jesus.

  • @douglasmatthews2334
    @douglasmatthews2334 Год назад +35

    I can’t get away from my malignant narcissist, he is my neighbor. He goes out of his way to torture us with gunfire, reving engines, and playing loud bass music late at night. They have taken out papers against us for harassment, and accused me of threatening them. They are accusing me of what they have done. My 70 year old mother deserves some modicum of peace. I feel abandoned by god. It only keeps getting worse no matter how much I pray. I don’t pray as much anymore. Feels useless.

    • @MaryDunford
      @MaryDunford Год назад

      He sounds insane. Scary as it will be, you have to respond. Get a lawyer, set up 24/7 cameras (with sound) around your property, and seek back-up from your other neighbours. If that isn't an option find a way to involve strangers.
      Get a restraining order. Build a solid case. Investigate his holdings. Sue the pants off him -- after you have him arrested.
      It's a battle of wills here. Frankly, people like that expect their targets to give up after threatening/ attacking them often enough.
      Your only other option is to move. Quietly. Even then, if you choose that keep your new address, etc, to yourself. And know, depending on what's driving this demonic whack job, he might still track you down. Stalking isn't limited to romantic partners.
      It's up to you.
      I've been in a similar situation. I won't sugarcoat it. It was brutal. But God did get me through it.
      I wish I could say it was easy, but I'd be lying. And I didn't recover quickly, or easily. Often I was just exhausted. It did, however, bring me closer to Him.
      Keep the faith. Defend your family. God won't fail you. You will make the right decision. You can do this.
      I hope this helps. I'm praying for you, and your family, too.

    • @chautran2588
      @chautran2588 Год назад +15

      God never abandons you. Keep believing and trusting Him. He is teaching you all something. He always protects you from the bigger trials and temptations.

    • @shirleyeaglin9075
      @shirleyeaglin9075 Год назад +10

      Thank God for his peace, and rest just keep saying it. The devil will be mad. Been married to one for 26yrs. God has been there for me 🎉😊😊.

    • @chanel82593
      @chanel82593 Год назад +11

      I also think.. if you called the cops everytime there was an incident without saying a word to them.. they couldn’t say anything about harassment to you. Leave to law enforcement. And they will document it and you have legs to stand on in court. I had to learn that the hard way thinking I could be nice and neighborly asking them to turn down music at 12 at night and they just kept repeating the behavior.. and even got nasty with me.. because I asked for common courtesy and peace? Well I complained to the rental office and called police several times.. guess what? They not only stopped.. they also eventually moved out. Idk if it was by choice or they were evicted.. either way.. there are laws people have to follow them. And when living in an apartment.. the perk is they have their own rules as well. I truly hope your situation improves quickly!

    • @shireenramnarain4005
      @shireenramnarain4005 Год назад +11

      Dont ever give up on God
      Always have faith ...its difficult but U can do it

  • @mariangie17burgos20
    @mariangie17burgos20 Год назад +1

    I am living in a state not close to my mother. But her behavior had been since my age of 5. The yelling at me and and saying words putting me down. Now I m 63 and my mom behavior towards me hasn't changed. I made peace with her many times and still she out of nothing she stops talking to me and go on gossiping about me to my siblings. She only do it to me I have 7 siblings. I made my mind that I have to stay away from her toxic ways.