Boy, this quilt coat has been a roller coaster. I am finally moving on. And I'm sharing the process...using you as my accountability partners. Thanks for being part of my journey. Oh, and the wedding was absolutely wonderful. 🤗🤗🤗
Mahalo-thank you for this video. I love your openness and appreciate you sharing your story. May I ask if it would be alright to use your quote on my wall? (Screenshot printed out)
As someone in their 30's, one thing that hurts me about my mom, you and ya'lls generation is how you guys were denied the "self love" train- You are a BEAUTIFUL woman! I would be absolutely happy to look like you in the coming years. And if you want to wear a quilt coat? Wear the heck out of it!!! It would look great :) Thankyou so much for your candor and honesty, vulnerability. Your feelings are completely valid- we as women are always being made to feel like we are not "enough." You are enough at whatever weight, I just hope you feel good :)
Dag nabbit Karen! It's midnight:30, approx 12 hrs after receiving my 4th diagnosis of another incurable disease and all I wanted to do start another project I'll put aside and not finish. I wasn't prepared to get a dose of reality, I'm binge watching RUclips and avoiding my problems. I'm glad to hear you are taking care of yourself. I look forward to more quilt coat videos 🤓
I started following you in 2020 when I was recovering from a total hysterectomy due to endometrial cancer. I taught myself how to quilt while recovering and isolating because of the pandemic. Loss of hormones, lack of exercise, body changes have all resulted in major weight gain, clothes that don’t fit and heartbreaking hair loss. Quilting has helped me keep my sanity as I focus on losing weight and getting active. I am cancer free thank God. Thank you so much Karen for this video, I needed to hear I am not alone in this boat right now. Looking forward to watching your progress on this coat and health journey! Thank you for all you do!
It was as if you were reading my mind and verbalized all my struggles and insecurities in a way I was not able to. Thank you for the inspiration and looking forward to see your progress.
You just said everything out loud that's been in my head stopping me from making my dresses. I teared up when you said fat because yes that one does hurt. I love you and your videos and they always help with tips or a mood lift and I wanted to say thank you, but also good luck on your sewing and health journey. We believe in you! As for me I think it's time I stop putting off those dresses... thank you. ❤️
Karen, thank you for saying out loud what alot of us keep inside. I believe we can all fall down that rabbit hole and its hard to climb out of. Thanks for addressing those road blocks in an honest manner. Looking forward to the coat videos.
Making my own clothes (when I do it) has really helped me accept my body. I cut up all my too small clothes and now I'm making new clothes out of them. I often have to make my own patterns which is really not my strength but it pushes me to see my body as it really is not the bloated blob I see it as. I hope this journey helps you find peace with your body.
Wow it’s surprising how many of us feel this way and motivating to hear you have made a decision on how to deal with it!!! I found this video so inspiring, thank you 😊
I finally came to the conclusion that God made me with a propensity towards chubbiness, and HE still loves me, my hubby loves me no matter what, why am I beating myself up over it. I just read labels and watch the salt and sugar intake.
Wow, Karen. You’re my go-to for so many things quilting, designing, sewing room organizing et al, but I had no idea you were going to kick me into gear this morning on lifestyle management too. Thank you for being OUR friend.
Have you ever considered doing videos on making clothing? I would love that. I find that you have such a clear way of explaining things and overcoming challenges and coming up with solutions. At 73 years of age, I find it difficult to find what I want in the limited stores I have available to me and I would like to make and design my own. I really like your approach to making this coat, I will be following your progress.
Karen!!!! I love love love your channel bc you are REAL! From organization to sewing hacks and life circumstances…… you are an inspiration. Thank you so much for sharing. As one of your regular viewers let me say I appreciate you so much.
Thank you for being so honest about your "coat journey". It is somehow encouraging to know we aren't the only ones who struggle to "Just Get It Done". As you say, it doesn't have to be perfect and it's OK to take a break, but it's so exciting when we finally complete a delayed project. Of course there are always three or four more waiting in the wings. At least there are in "my closet". Keep up the good work. Thank you again!
You seemed to be looking into my mind. I don't know how to sew and adjust my own clothes, but when you said you were not happy with the body you are in, my ears perked up. I also buy fabric, planning on all the dreams I had for retirement and finally time for myself. Now, I am guilty of stockpiling, and the house is such a mess, I may never get to sew for all the cleaning I have to do. Thank you for explaining NOOM. I have been wondering how it works and this was just what I needed to go ahead and get it done. I retired in April of 2022, and now my body just seems to be falling apart. I've got to get back on track. I've always thought of you as truly inspirational, and now as my RUclips friend. Thank you!
Hello, I started Noom about a year ago and have lost 25 pounds, and still loosing, and feel better about my body. So I know the feeling. Do love the way Noom explains the why things happen, I need to the why! It works! Great job on keeping with it.
Karen you are so inspiring. The last 4 years of my life went from difficult to not good to pure hell. I too pushed my health to the side to deal with everything. Luckily my life is swinging back to joy and happiness but I’m left with a body I’m not so happy with. Time for me. Thank you for giving me the push I needed.
I think you hit the nail on the head… we have all been closed in, depressed and gained weight during this time. I’m thankful your starting something ♥️
Hi Karen, I have been watching your videos for the past 6 months now. I feel like I have a new friend! I love your energy, ideas and creativity. Thank you for being here for all of us. You help me keep inspired and sewing. Best wishes from Springfield Missouri.
This is relatable. I once upon a time was a lean athletic type. Then I started having some bizarre health problems. I was put on very high doses of prednisone and gained 60lbs in one week, 100 lbs in 1 month, and in short order doubled my weight. Bizarre shifted to nightmare. It's been 25 years and I still haven't recovered from the nightmare. I miss my old self so much it often brings me to tears. Noom might be the ticket.
What a great tutorial. You shared a lot that all of us, at some point in our lives, have dealth with! So nice to know we are not alone in our life journeys!!!
I love your honesty about issues that many of us must confront. Good luck with your health journey - I found that focusing on health rather than weight was more positive and the weight loss was a bonus. Gentle hugs.
Thanks for sharing your journey! It can be hard to share your less than perfect moments, but we all have struggles and can relate. You're a fantastic role model and I can't wait to see your coat! I've also been toying with the idea of a quilt coat. I'd love to see how you tackle the challenge. I liked your path and strategy that you shared. It will be nice to have something for yourself to enjoy. You are a very giving person! Don't forget to give to yourself and give yourself grace too!
Thank you Karen for sharing your story. My husband passed in November 2021 and I have not been able to get my mojo back. I love seeing quilts but I have let my life get really messy. I told my grandson that my brain feels crowded. I’m going to try your advice and sit with my fabric and envision what the quilts will look like. I’m also going to look into Noom. Good luck with your coat. I think they are awesome.
I am SO sorry that you lost your husband 😔. I cannot even imagine what that would be like. I watched my mother going through all of the "firsts," my sister and I trying to help. There were even the little things like the first time she had to buy tires by herself. I'm praying for you right now as you going along your journey. Momma did a little journaling. After that first year she was amazed at all of the "firsts" she accomplished and was so proud of herself! I don't think she realized how much she depended on him until he was gone. He started teaching her things around the house a couple of years ahead of time. Before, if asked, she would have told you she was independent and self-confident and knew all she needed to! Anyway, I'm sorry to go on like this! I like your idea of envisioning😊. I was telling Karen in a comment earlier that I call all that noise in my head "the committee" 😄 and it seems to me that mine doesn't have much good to say. It's negative rather than positive! So one day when it dawned on me that I couldn't think of 2 things at once, I decided to "filibuster" the committee with positive thoughts and actions. Like you with your envisioning! Best of EVERYTHING to you!! 💕❤️💕❤️💕❤️💕
Lost my mum April 2020, married for the 3rd time Halloween 2020. Lots to process with life changes. Baby steps, I have great support around me, that's the biggest difference to other periods of my life. Weight, health, food and clothes are all the sum of daily choices, from getting out of bed to am I going to sew today. The message I hear the most is start with being kind to yourself. I know it's a journey and making tiny changes has helped along with a few good friends and cups of tea.
Marvellous! You are the business Karen and the only quilter I need to follow to learn everything there is to know about quilting. Your straightforward and no nonsense approach is so inspiring. As a new quilter I'v found all the information I needed to know on every aspect of quilting by watching your videos (many of them several times over). I look forward to them. Thankyou
I just loved the honesty in this video. I learned lessons about quilting, sewing, being stuck and overwhelmed with a project, lessons about life and it’s ups and downs, and the weight we all have to deal with as we age. Thanks for posting it and I can’t wait to see the next few videos!
Thank you for your courage and candor. My weight has been resistant to all interventions, lifestyle and medical. In 2021, I took the plunge and started making my own clothes using patterns from companies that specialize in fitting plus size bodies. I still have to make adjustments, but they are tweaks, not heavy duty changes. And I get to see the patterns on models who look like me, not a teenage starveling. My body is still a challenge, but for the first time in my life, I don't hate getting dressed. Fabric shopping is way more fun than clothes shopping.
Hey that is cool! What company do you get your pattern from? I used to make all my clothing in college and because I took a pattern design class, I learned how to make everything fit my body. Now that I am a size 2 million, I don't know where to start with making my own clothing. Not only does nothing fit, but most of everything at the stores is really ugly. So, I have been thinking of making my clothing again for a couple of years now.
Marylou R. You might want to check out The penguin pear. She is from the U.K. and she is a plus size gal. She uses patterns from various designers who made them in plus sizes. I may not have the name totally correct, but she is very good and very nice!
@@marylourimmasch4301 really appreciate that you also find store clothes ugly, including both the designs and the fabric choices. The plus size clothing stores have very expensive prices too. I was an Australian size 12 , my 1st wedding, size 16, 2nd wedding and size 20, 3rd wedding. I still believe I'm beautiful just more curves. Perhaps the biggest challenge is not finding your own colour scheme but finding your own perfect styles for yourself. With a focus on recycling I have chopped up and culled most of what didn't fit me, now I'm far more critical of what do I actually need. It's definitely a journey of self discovery.
Thank you for this video, Karen. Your honesty brought me to tears. You are beautiful no matter what you weigh or wear, but I hope your journey with Noom helps you feel healthier and better cared for. You deserve to feel at least as happy with yourself as you make us feel just having you in our lives. 🤗
I too signed up for Noom a few years ago and have maintained my healthier lifestyle. It really works. I lost the weight I wanted to and have been able to maintain it following the lessons learned. One piece of advice…the more I just focused on being healthier, the more weight I lost. I was much more successful when I focused on how I was feeling rather than what the scale said. Good luck on your Noom journey.
Welcome to the Noom community! I have been doing it since January and am happy with my weight loss but even happier with the inner changes in my attitude, my energy, and the way I view myself and my surroundings. The personal coaching and group interaction are a big plus for me. I too have been a huge garment sewist in the past and had not made myself any clothes for years because I wasn't happy with myself. I'm going to start sewing those things now though! Oh, and I'm impressed you chose a princess seamed coat pattern. I think most (,if not all) of the ones I've seen are very boxy. I can't wait to see how it goes!
Oh, this sounds like a glorious project!! Your colors have me excited as well! I'm looking forward to your next post showing your progress. Wishing you happy sewing!
I think your discussion of how to get off the dime on the coat and the process of developing a plan you will love was/is extraordinarily helpful, totally apart for m the health issues. It can be a long and winding road with traffic jams and detours. It's so good to hear you say after all those twists and turns that you're excited about the plan you've chosen.
Oh wow Karen, this was not what I was expecting to watch! At times I had tears watching this, what got me was your honesty and the hellish time you must have had when your son was ill, I know you won't necessarily believe what I'm going to say but you really look fantastic, we tend to be really harsh critics of ourselves and much kinder to our friends. I can't wait to see your quilted coat, I also want to make one but I can't find a pattern I like and as I've never made any clothes, the reading of the pattern scares me. One day I'll attempt one, hopefully soon, till then I'm going to enjoy watching you make one, loads of love from West Yorkshire, UK 💕
I just found and bought a pattern for a very boxy coat at the thrift store. Front, back and sleeves are rectangles. Hippy - Oriental vibes. It is OLD, probably '70's, printed on craft paper to be traced onto tissue. Not a name company, but the kind you would find in quilt shops. Check out "The Last Homely House" on RUclips. Kate is working on a lightweight, long coat using Boro technique and a pattern printed in a new book she recently bought. Think it is "The Book of Boro".
I made a simple vest for my son before Pandemic, BUT I put the buttons and holes on the wrong sides. He gave it back to me, gave me more fabric and asked me to make him another. It would usually take maybe 3 days, they are easy----took me nearly 2 years to finish that second one and change the button holes on the first. I struggled with it, cried over it, made all kinds of excuses for it. FINALLY mailed them back, finished, a week ago, he loves everything about it!!! I sent him a note, "blame it on COVID," he laughed but really I can't explain it either, just am so thankful it is done. I do remember shuddering when last Christmas passed and didn't have it for him. I knew he was disappointed, will never forget it. And all I want to do is quilt now---nonstop!! Oh, yeah, there are those stupid soup bowls my SIL wants........
That's what I love about you Karen. You are so upfront and honest. What a wonderful person you are. You give of yourself so freely so that we can reflect and think about our own journey. Good luck to you on your health journey. It is one I struggle with constantly.
I can totally understand this! I've had so many things happen in the last 3 years that I am just about paralyzed with anxiety about what will be the next downturn! I'm excited about your coat!
I have recently completed a quilt vest. Our climate doesn't warrant a coat. I used a vest that I had as a pattern and a good friend to help me cut and fit it. I was able to move forward when I purchased a beautiful Kaffe fabric, in colours I love. Found the perfect fabric for sashing, lining and binding. . The most creative I have ever been. I love wearing it and sometimes notice people taking a second look. It is a statement garment. Enjoy making your coat and I look forward to watching the progress 🇦🇺😀
We are all on a journey, and most women I know think about their weight on a daily basis. It takes up a lot of valuable head space! I came to the realization that I just wanted to be strong and healthy as I aged. My priority was to keep my mobility and so I started pilates and made that my daily "job". As I got stronger and my shape changed, I began to research healthy eating. My point is that one action leads to another. I now have the energy to quilt(!) walk and travel. Keep up the good work, Karen! You're an inspiration on so many levels.
I hear you loud and clear. Getting used to a post menopausal body is a real challenge. I just don't look like I used to...but this is the new normal , so I better get used to it!
I purchased a flowered jacket, not a quilted one, but my husband says it looks like I'm wearing a quilt.. and he doesn't sound complimentary. So I am a little wary of quilt coats. I joined WW years ago and lost 40 and feel much better. Best wishes on your journey and taking care of yourself!
I am so glad you allowed yourself to pause and be mindful of your needs and that you took the time to take action! I'm 51 and MeNOOOOO!pause has kicked in. I'm squishy, there is fat in places I never had before and it sags. We might have "new normals" to adjust to, and our efforts, great or small, make a difference. Enjoy time for you!
Oh Karen, this video is SUPERB! I dare say that every single one of viewers can identify and empathise with your situation. We are either in the same spot or have been there already. Those who haven't yet arrived now have an insight to what may be ahead & therefore have a great jump start to prevent experiencing the same. Thank you for sharing so candidly
I have a patchwork jacket rolling around in my head for a couple years. The hardest part is finding a pattern. I also made a muster, but made it a wearable mister out of fabric from a failed project. So now is the time to recycle the antique kimono from my grandmother into a beautiful patchwork jacket.
“Love and nurture yourself!” I heard that recently and it’s so true, bc we usually have negative self talk. But how would you treat yourself if you were being loving and kind and nurturing? Hot bubble bath? Kind words? Do fun stuff? Encourage yourself? Think, “how would I treat my best friend?” I think I’m gonna make a wall hanging with those words to remind myself! 🤗😁
I see that I'm not the only one that can relate to this video. I appreciate you sharing this. Ever since reading "The Lost Art of Dress" by Linda Przybysewski a few years ago, I have wanted to get back into sewing clothes for myself. But my weight has stopped me. Recently I started watching Bernadette Banner's RUclips sewing videos, and again, it motivated me to sew my own clothes. But I still weigh more than I'm comfortable with. Watching your video has inspired me again and I might just try Noom.
Karen, I completely understand. I went through menopause at an extremely young age and have been fighting my weight since…I was only 32 when I had to have surgery. I lost 30 pounds before Covid and now have gained 15 of it back. I get so disgusted with myself. Thanks for the inspiration! I will check out Noom. Keep up the good work…you can do this! And it isn’t about a number on the scale as you know. It is about health and being able to enjoy what we love. I wish you the best on this journey. Make the coat a little smaller than what you need now, you will be smaller by the time you need a coat again!
“Love and nurture yourself!” I heard that recently and it’s so true, bc we usually have negative self talk. But how would you treat yourself if you were being loving and kind and nurturing? Hot bubble bath? Kind words? Do fun stuff? Encourage yourself? Think, “how would I treat my best friend?” I think I’m gonna make a wall hanging with those words to remind myself! 🤗😁
Your quilt coat will be as lovely as you are. Loving myself after menopause is a great challenge…sort of like quilting, the journey takes practice. Hang in there!
Thank you for your honesty and walking through your thought process of your project and your personal thoughts. Really makes others not feel so alone and provide a bit of permission of sorts to enjoy the process.
I could have done this video. You were talking straight to me. That negative voice in your head is your worst enemy. A support group or friend makes a real difference. As usual, you inspire us all!
I've never thought of paper piecing with sewing pattern pieces until this moment, but listening to you discussing the plan for the quilt coat made me realize that it's possible and now I must try it.
Wow, I would looove a quilt made from all those varied blocks you decided to scorn. It would be an art piece and not have to be “my color”. Quilt coats by their nature are squarish and bulky. That’s a gift for those of us who are not the sylphs we may have been a long time ago. I haven’t gotten to the end of your video yet (I could not wait to comment!), I hope you got over that and made the wonderful coat you have the creativity and skills to do!
In the summer of 2020, I signed up for 18 months of Noom. I completed all 18 months and was satisfied with the program. My takeaways from the experience: 1) Do the daily reading and activities 2) Do connect with your coach and your group. It is helpful to share 3) Take responsibility for your food choices. Try plant based options and meatless meals for better health. My results after 18 months were good. I did not reach my original weight loss goal BUT I achieved better overall health, both physically and emotionally. My lab work proves this--my numbers were better than they have been in years. I wish you well on your journey Karen. It is time to do something for yourself!
I love how honest you are. It’s so validating. It’s a difficult thing to adjust to the changes in the body after menopause. It’s so good to work through the unconscious negativity of unacceptance. Good for you Karen. Only you can know what’s best for you. I’m looking forward to the quilt coat celebration. It’s going to be so good!!!
I forgot to say the colours you are looking at will be very flattering. Mostly I’m so happy your son recovered from his illness. Glad the wedding was enjoyable and very happy little Nando is well and a partner in the journey to health. Stress has a huge impact on our bodies, considering the last couple of years you are doing amazingly well. You are a star! ⭐️
Thank you for sharing your experiences and feelings. This video was an eye-opener for me. I have a stack of material and patterns for clothing to make because I cannot find what I need in stores. I lost my enthusiasm when I needed to adjust a pattern and realized there was no one I felt comfortable asking for help. Like you, life and COVID helped me put on all the weight I spent a year taking off. It helps to know I am not alone. I allowed myself to acknowledge that I do not feel comfortable in my skin after watching your video.
This is a video that I needed to see. I'm stuck at a quilt coat, too! And for the exact same reasons. I have never been a garment sewist, but I have quilted enough and made enough handbags that I think I could do it. But then I think about all the time and resources I will have wasted if I complete it and IT DOESN'T FIT!! Thank you for sharing all your doubts, and then pressing through them and finding a solution. As soon as I return from my deployment and get back to my machine. If I finish it, and it doesn't fit me, it will fit someone. And then I'll just keep trying until they go out of style again!
Boy, you have struck a nerve. YOU ARE NOT ALONE. You are such a motivator, your struggles makes it real. You have basically described my own struggle. I used to make ALL my clothes ( exept underware and knits ) but I was a size 6. That was fun. Now, 30 yrs later, i'm XXL. If I might suggest : take a good basic pattern, make the ajustments, test and make a good copy to work from. When you loose or gain 15-20, your shape doesn't change, i't just a bit larger or smaller. Easy to ajust with the side/center seams. Since you already made that basic pattern that fits your shape, just play with the seams. I will follow your progress with all my encouragements and kick my as s in the process.
Regardless of the sizes in your country so many women struggle with body changes, we all thought we had under control, until after 40 when reality hits. You described my size dilemma perfectly. Australian size 8 to 10 at 18 and as low as 51kgs, at 58 I'm double the sizes and not quite double the weight. I have my good days and my tough ones, it's the daily choices we make that makes us. I've considered going back into making clothes but mostly I get given enough things I don't need much except underwear. Having discovered my sewing mojo with bag making and now quilting my happy space in the sewing room has helped my mental health and focused on making better daily choices with a great support network of newer friends and a serious RUclips addiction. Your comment speaks of self acceptance of body changes, I like that.
You are my hero for 'fessing up' to ALL the issues most of us face. I lost 100 pounds 9 years ago and SWORE I'd never gain it back. Well, those covid pounds did me in as well, and I gained 1/2 of it back...YEP, 50 pounds. I've now lost 20 of it and won't give up. Thank you for sharing that part of your journey! You are great!!
My mom would make me quilted jackets when I was a kid - way before it was cool. I looked into Noom and instead of wanting to join the quiz just frustrated me so I wrote my frustrations to customer service so hopefully it helps people in the future. Glad it is helping you.
Like so many others in the "Just Get It Done" community, I have struggled during the past 2 years, especially the last six months while dealing with long COVID. Thank you for your honest and inspiring post! I look forward to sharing your quilt coat journey! ❤️❤️🌞
Oh my gosh, you’ve been inside my head! A few months ago 2 friends and I decided we would all make the same pattern of a quilted jacket. The one who came up with the idea has yet to make any decisions about fabrics, etc! The other one has made her “fabric” out of various strips of fabrics. I chose to make my “fabric” from 2-1/2” squares (!) According to my calculations, I will need 12 2-1/2” x 80” strips, sew them together and will have enough fabric to cut out the pattern pieces. Thus far, I’m half way through sewing my strips together. Now I’ve decided it will be a fall jacket, rather than spring like when we started this journey. I’m bound and determined to get back to working on the jacket. Best of luck with your jacket, Karen. Can’t wait to watch your progress. As usual, your videos are so inspiring, useful and fun-filled.
You absolutely are speaking to a lot of people. We have all been dealing with Covid-19, and so many other things that seem to be universal, as well as a few problems that are unique to each of us. Work, family, health, finances - who hasn't been touched! Thank you for taking us on as accountability partners, you are making it a little easier for me (and I suspect many others as well) to step up and start our own self care journey!
I was wondering what happened with the quilt coat. When you mentioned it months ago, I sent a photo to you of mine...pink and gray. I love it and get so many nice comments. I agree that it needs to be in your favorite colors and you are now on the right path. I'm ready to make another one for winter using a wonderful Kaffe Fasset fat quarter bundle with black as the background. For me, the planning is the best part. I can't wait to see your progress.
Oh my gosh, your ‘whole’ story is my story, entirely!!!……right down to the binge once/yr shopping as I’ve got older (& heavier!!) in the hope of buying enough to see me through another ‘year’!! And yes, I too thought “oh perhaps I’ll make my own cloths (again!)”. Thank you for your beautiful honesty, it was inspiring! And incredibly brave. 👏🌷
Your videos should come under mental health not sewing! Everything you said in this video is ME. You have given me a lot to think about AND a lot of tips to start moving forward. And my project is a quilt coat too! ❤
Oh yes, me too. I started by cutting up a long sleeved t shirt, as a pattern, cut it out, made patchwork pieces from Tula pink fabric. Just didn’t measure me! The t shirt was stretchy, my fabric not. I’ve been unpicking for weeks, having wadded and quilted. I’ve added fabric, cut it off, restarted, cried, told a friend who said what are your measurements, hmm. So, defeated, I’m trying again, what a waste. So glad to listen to you. I’ll try again, buy a pattern, more fabric, oh gosh.... I’m no seamstress, I’m too plump, yes, I’m cross with myself. Start again eh? I really want my Patchwork jacket, more research on how! Good luck to us both xxxx Kris in the New Forest Uk
I love how honest and candid you are.. you made this relatable and with that I wish you luck on your health journey and quilt coat journey.. we are all on journeys and I love that you are so willing to share yours 😀
Thank you for this video...the timing is perfect...i, also, have been wanting to make a quilt coat for over a year...ive watched a ton of videos, bought yardage to make my own quilt blocks...bought quilts to cut up...and patterns..and there they all sit. Im also not happy with the weight ive gained since my husband died last August...so after i finish this post, im going to look at noom. I look forward to the rest of this series...THANK YOU!!
I really connected with this video. I would like to make my own close and I have been holding back for many reasons, but the main one is my body. I do not know how to read a pattern and how to do any adjustments to patterns that would make it fit my body. I too have always been heavy and now that I am much older this fact sits on my mind. I have tried reading books about sewing and all that does is confuse me even more. Thank you and it is nice to know their are others who feel like I do. Who knows I might just try that Noom thing. But I would love to do a garment sew along. Maybe you could think about that idea sometime. All my Best!
I have a feeling you are going to be inundated with feedback on this video! We are feeling what you are feeling. The weight, the pandemic, the "change", family illness, and/or other life-altering issues, and trying to maintain a sense of control throughout, as evidenced by sewing/quilting fits and starts. I enjoyed your video, tremendously!
Boy can I relate! We are all in our own boat but we drift on the same sea.Thank you for inspiring and encouraging those of us who need a nudge (or push) to make the choices and changes that we need to make.
Thank you for putting this out there and sharing your struggles. Your story hit home for me on so many levels. It is so encouraging to know that I'm not alone in what I'm experiencing in my juggling act with work, home, and family. Self care takes up a big part of my head space but very little actual time spent. A shift in my perspective is needed and this video is giving me ideas on how to go about that.
Karen, I started watching your videos during the pandemic and have learned so much from you. Thank you for sharing about Noom. I started their program April 1st and am using quilting as one way of filling my new retirement life with healthy activities like shopping for material ! LOL. And organizing my sewing space thanks to all your tips. Time for me to finish that quilted vest I started 15 years ago! Your are truly an inspiration so thank you!
Hi Karen you are such a fun down to earth person and I just love your videos and tutorials very much. Just wishing you all the best with Noom.I am looking forward to sharing your journey in your quilt coat challenge as I am wanting to make one as well.take care and be kind to yourself too😘💕🤗
Hmmmm, i collected tea themed fabric and I've been stalled for years on how to begin to sew a quilt with it. Your coat of many colors journey and weight loss noom journey converge many similar issues i have too. Let the changes begin. Winter will be neigh!
Thank you for your vulnerability and honesty. It's really helpful for how to self reflect on those things I've been putting off, including getting in better shape.
I love that you are being transparent. I relate to much of what you shared. I recently revived a UFO and it felt good to press forward and make some progress on it. I can begin to see the light at the end of the tunnel on it and you’ll get there too with your quilt coat. Thank you for your openness. Your willingness to share these things provides tremendous encouragement.
It is nice to hear we are in this together. Health issues for the mature woman is put on back burner for many of us. Thank you for this video. As a diabetic on a pump and now a new addition with my dexcomg6 something more to carry around I found the glucose revolution book and am excited where I am .
I have been doing Noom for about a year and have been really happy with the results. Have lost 25 lbs and still want to lose a few more but the changes to other aspect of how I feel have been more than worth it. Way to go!
I find that I am looking at my habits. Not beating myself up about a cookie but realizing if I just had eaten lunch at the right time that I would not be so ravenous
Please forgive me for respectfully skipping this one, Karen 💗 My quilting is an essential part of my Eating Disorder recovery and you’ve been so influential to me. Looking forward to your next videos!
I am going to skip this for similar reasons, while I share Karen’s challenges I live in a household which has experience of an eating disorder and watch these videos to forget about ( my ) life for a while. I would have appreciated a trigger warning at the start .. Having said that the early content is fascinating …
I learned that keeping my hands busy was the key after losing my sister nearly 19 years ago, sewing on her machine has been a way to recover and reconnect.
Hi. Thank you so much for sharing your insights into the menopause, it's so helpful in getting a clearer perspective on things I seem to have been going through recently that I didn't even link with that. I wish you luck on both your health and coat plans and thank you once again for the eye-opener.
I have recently started making clothes, too! I’m 66 and want to get away from what I used to wear and instead make clothes that fit my body now. And choose amazing fabrics! I’m having similar conversations with myself, thank you for sharing yours, you make me feel normal!
I saw Leah Day do a quilt that was designed like a QAYG but not in blocks. She used a paper draft and cut her pieces accordingly. Sewed them together using a paper piecing method. Turned out lovely. I thought about using this method in several designs I wanted to make but chickened out....so much for my efforts. LOL We are all who we are and I hate body shaming. We do what we can and when we can.
Thank you so much for your honesty. You are such an inspiration because you are so real. My need for life change is different but I believe you have helped me to move on to better health. May God bless you on your journey.
It is hard to lose that weight that we have carried for a while. I needed a hip replacement but it wouldn't happen until I lost about 75 pounds. I thought I could do it but a year later was no better off so I went to a doctor for help(not bariatric help). Took me almost a year to lose it, had my hip done in February, which was a godsend, and am still working on the weight, both for me and I need a knee done too. Carrying this extra weight for so many years did a number on my body that I wouldn't wish on anyone. You are smart to start on Noom. It is a mind matter, which I am still working on and probably always will be.
Love your candour about your difficulties getting launched with this. I sew most of my own clothes and have been meaning to make either the All Well Cardigan Coat or the Tamarack Jacket, the first out of an old quilt I have in the back of a cupboard, and the latter a quilt-as-you-go project. You've inspired me!
Boy, this quilt coat has been a roller coaster. I am finally moving on. And I'm sharing the process...using you as my accountability partners. Thanks for being part of my journey. Oh, and the wedding was absolutely wonderful. 🤗🤗🤗
Mahalo-thank you for this video. I love your openness and appreciate you sharing your story.
May I ask if it would be alright to use your quote on my wall? (Screenshot printed out)
As someone in their 30's, one thing that hurts me about my mom, you and ya'lls generation is how you guys were denied the "self love" train- You are a BEAUTIFUL woman! I would be absolutely happy to look like you in the coming years. And if you want to wear a quilt coat? Wear the heck out of it!!! It would look great :) Thankyou so much for your candor and honesty, vulnerability. Your feelings are completely valid- we as women are always being made to feel like we are not "enough." You are enough at whatever weight, I just hope you feel good :)
Dag nabbit Karen! It's midnight:30, approx 12 hrs after receiving my 4th diagnosis of another incurable disease and all I wanted to do start another project I'll put aside and not finish. I wasn't prepared to get a dose of reality, I'm binge watching RUclips and avoiding my problems.
I'm glad to hear you are taking care of yourself. I look forward to more quilt coat videos 🤓
I started following you in 2020 when I was recovering from a total hysterectomy due to endometrial cancer. I taught myself how to quilt while recovering and isolating because of the pandemic. Loss of hormones, lack of exercise, body changes have all resulted in major weight gain, clothes that don’t fit and heartbreaking hair loss. Quilting has helped me keep my sanity as I focus on losing weight and getting active. I am cancer free thank God. Thank you so much Karen for this video, I needed to hear I am not alone in this boat right now. Looking forward to watching your progress on this coat and health journey! Thank you for all you do!
🤗 So happy to hear. Take care
You are not alone, Christine!!
I experienced the same cancer a few years back. I’ve been cancer free since. God bless you. ❤️❤️
@@NaomiC336 Thank you Naomi! God bless you as well. It’s been quite the journey.
@@cynthiajones1461 Thank you Cynthia!
It was as if you were reading my mind and verbalized all my struggles and insecurities in a way I was not able to. Thank you for the inspiration and looking forward to see your progress.
Thank you
I second that! Spot On! Karen, you are beautiful, brave, very smart and strong❣ 🧚♀️
You just said everything out loud that's been in my head stopping me from making my dresses. I teared up when you said fat because yes that one does hurt.
I love you and your videos and they always help with tips or a mood lift and I wanted to say thank you, but also good luck on your sewing and health journey. We believe in you!
As for me I think it's time I stop putting off those dresses... thank you. ❤️
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I just love your honesty and ability to self-reflect. I, for one, rarely take the time to do that! But it's a big part to every sewing project 😄
Our projects have so many different levels of challenges.
Karen, thank you for saying out loud what alot of us keep inside. I believe we can all fall down that rabbit hole and its hard to climb out of.
Thanks for addressing those road blocks in an honest manner.
Looking forward to the coat videos.
Making my own clothes (when I do it) has really helped me accept my body. I cut up all my too small clothes and now I'm making new clothes out of them. I often have to make my own patterns which is really not my strength but it pushes me to see my body as it really is not the bloated blob I see it as. I hope this journey helps you find peace with your body.
Thank you 🤗 I expect a couple more speed bumps and maybe some curves in the road
Wow it’s surprising how many of us feel this way and motivating to hear you have made a decision on how to deal with it!!! I found this video so inspiring, thank you 😊
Thank you so much!!
I finally came to the conclusion that God made me with a propensity towards chubbiness, and HE still loves me, my hubby loves me no matter what, why am I beating myself up over it. I just read labels and watch the salt and sugar intake.
Wow, Karen. You’re my go-to for so many things quilting, designing, sewing room organizing et al, but I had no idea you were going to kick me into gear this morning on lifestyle management too. Thank you for being OUR friend.
Thank-you for your honesty. We all have struggles and hills to climb. Knowing that you are not alone is so helpful.
What a fantastically honest video Karen! Can't wait to hear your next instalment and all the progress that I know you will be making.
Have you ever considered doing videos on making clothing? I would love that. I find that you have such a clear way of explaining things and overcoming challenges and coming up with solutions. At 73 years of age, I find it difficult to find what I want in the limited stores I have available to me and I would like to make and design my own. I really like your approach to making this coat, I will be following your progress.
Maybe one day!
I would love that, too.
Karen!!!! I love love love your channel bc you are REAL! From organization to sewing hacks and life circumstances…… you are an inspiration. Thank you so much for sharing. As one of your regular viewers let me say I appreciate you so much.
Thank you for being so honest about your "coat journey". It is somehow encouraging to know we aren't the only ones who struggle to "Just Get It Done". As you say, it doesn't have to be perfect and it's OK to take a break, but it's so exciting when we finally complete a delayed project. Of course there are always three or four more waiting in the wings. At least there are in "my closet". Keep up the good work. Thank you again!
You seemed to be looking into my mind. I don't know how to sew and adjust my own clothes, but when you said you were not happy with the body you are in, my ears perked up. I also buy fabric, planning on all the dreams I had for retirement and finally time for myself. Now, I am guilty of stockpiling, and the house is such a mess, I may never get to sew for all the cleaning I have to do. Thank you for explaining NOOM. I have been wondering how it works and this was just what I needed to go ahead and get it done. I retired in April of 2022, and now my body just seems to be falling apart. I've got to get back on track. I've always thought of you as truly inspirational, and now as my RUclips friend. Thank you!
Wow! This was so therapeutic and philosophical. It is always good to take that hard look in the mirror!
Hello, I started Noom about a year ago and have lost 25 pounds, and still loosing, and feel better about my body. So I know the feeling. Do love the way Noom explains the why things happen, I need to the why! It works! Great job on keeping with it.
Karen you are so inspiring. The last 4 years of my life went from difficult to not good to pure hell. I too pushed my health to the side to deal with everything. Luckily my life is swinging back to joy and happiness but I’m left with a body I’m not so happy with. Time for me. Thank you for giving me the push I needed.
we can encourage each other 👍
Congratulations! I admire your honesty!
I think you hit the nail on the head… we have all been closed in, depressed and gained weight during this time. I’m thankful your starting something ♥️
I wish I could gain weight. I was super sick with covid last August and lost 25 pounds.
Hi Karen, I have been watching your videos for the past 6 months now. I feel like I have a new friend! I love your energy, ideas and creativity. Thank you for being here for all of us. You help me keep inspired and sewing. Best wishes from Springfield Missouri.
Thank you so much!
This is relatable. I once upon a time was a lean athletic type. Then I started having some bizarre health problems. I was put on very high doses of prednisone and gained 60lbs in one week, 100 lbs in 1 month, and in short order doubled my weight. Bizarre shifted to nightmare. It's been 25 years and I still haven't recovered from the nightmare.
I miss my old self so much it often brings me to tears. Noom might be the ticket.
What a great tutorial. You shared a lot that all of us, at some point in our lives, have dealth with! So nice to know we are not alone in our life journeys!!!
I wish you all the best luck on your quilt coat journey. Thanks for the reminders on how we should care for ourselves more gently, with more grace.
I love your honesty about issues that many of us must confront.
Good luck with your health journey - I found that focusing on health rather than weight was more positive and the weight loss was a bonus.
Gentle hugs.
I do Noom. It is the best program. I am 68 yo, started at 159. something pounds and am doing well with slow steady weight loss. Good for you!
Thanks for sharing your journey! It can be hard to share your less than perfect moments, but we all have struggles and can relate. You're a fantastic role model and I can't wait to see your coat! I've also been toying with the idea of a quilt coat. I'd love to see how you tackle the challenge. I liked your path and strategy that you shared. It will be nice to have something for yourself to enjoy. You are a very giving person! Don't forget to give to yourself and give yourself grace too!
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Thank you Karen for sharing your story. My husband passed in November 2021 and I have not been able to get my mojo back. I love seeing quilts but I have let my life get really messy. I told my grandson that my brain feels crowded. I’m going to try your advice and sit with my fabric and envision what the quilts will look like. I’m also going to look into Noom. Good luck with your coat. I think they are awesome.
So sorry for your loss. You might need to get some of that 'crowded' out through journalling or simply post-it notes
I am SO sorry that you lost your husband 😔. I cannot even imagine what that would be like. I watched my mother going through all of the "firsts," my sister and I trying to help. There were even the little things like the first time she had to buy tires by herself. I'm praying for you right now as you going along your journey. Momma did a little journaling. After that first year she was amazed at all of the "firsts" she accomplished and was so proud of herself! I don't think she realized how much she depended on him until he was gone. He started teaching her things around the house a couple of years ahead of time. Before, if asked, she would have told you she was independent and self-confident and knew all she needed to!
Anyway, I'm sorry to go on like this! I like your idea of envisioning😊. I was telling Karen in a comment earlier that I call all that noise in my head "the committee" 😄 and it seems to me that mine doesn't have much good to say. It's negative rather than positive! So one day when it dawned on me that I couldn't think of 2 things at once, I decided to "filibuster" the committee with positive thoughts and actions. Like you with your envisioning!
Best of EVERYTHING to you!!
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Lost my mum April 2020, married for the 3rd time Halloween 2020. Lots to process with life changes. Baby steps, I have great support around me, that's the biggest difference to other periods of my life. Weight, health, food and clothes are all the sum of daily choices, from getting out of bed to am I going to sew today. The message I hear the most is start with being kind to yourself. I know it's a journey and making tiny changes has helped along with a few good friends and cups of tea.
Marvellous! You are the business Karen and the only quilter I need to follow to learn everything there is to know about quilting. Your straightforward and no nonsense approach is so inspiring. As a new quilter I'v found all the information I needed to know on every aspect of quilting by watching your videos (many of them several times over). I look forward to them.
Thankyou
You are so welcome!
I just loved the honesty in this video. I learned lessons about quilting, sewing, being stuck and overwhelmed with a project, lessons about life and it’s ups and downs, and the weight we all have to deal with as we age. Thanks for posting it and I can’t wait to see the next few videos!
Thank you for your courage and candor. My weight has been resistant to all interventions, lifestyle and medical. In 2021, I took the plunge and started making my own clothes using patterns from companies that specialize in fitting plus size bodies. I still have to make adjustments, but they are tweaks, not heavy duty changes. And I get to see the patterns on models who look like me, not a teenage starveling.
My body is still a challenge, but for the first time in my life, I don't hate getting dressed. Fabric shopping is way more fun than clothes shopping.
Hey that is cool! What company do you get your pattern from? I used to make all my clothing in college and because I took a pattern design class, I learned how to make everything fit my body. Now that I am a size 2 million, I don't know where to start with making my own clothing. Not only does nothing fit, but most of everything at the stores is really ugly. So, I have been thinking of making my clothing again for a couple of years now.
Marylou R. You might want to check out The penguin pear. She is from the U.K. and she is a plus size gal. She uses patterns from various designers who made them in plus sizes.
I may not have the name totally correct, but she is very good and very nice!
@@marylourimmasch4301 really appreciate that you also find store clothes ugly, including both the designs and the fabric choices. The plus size clothing stores have very expensive prices too. I was an Australian size 12 , my 1st wedding, size 16, 2nd wedding and size 20, 3rd wedding. I still believe I'm beautiful just more curves. Perhaps the biggest challenge is not finding your own colour scheme but finding your own perfect styles for yourself. With a focus on recycling I have chopped up and culled most of what didn't fit me, now I'm far more critical of what do I actually need. It's definitely a journey of self discovery.
@@judithburke1539 Yes Penguin and Pear, is the channel. She might not be currently sewing as much but her videos and playlists are worth viewing
Making a quilt coat is on my bucket list.
Thank you for this video, Karen. Your honesty brought me to tears. You are beautiful no matter what you weigh or wear, but I hope your journey with Noom helps you feel healthier and better cared for. You deserve to feel at least as happy with yourself as you make us feel just having you in our lives. 🤗
Your honesty is sooooo refreshing. We have all been planing and failed but you make it fun to listen to.
I too signed up for Noom a few years ago and have maintained my healthier lifestyle. It really works. I lost the weight I wanted to and have been able to maintain it following the lessons learned. One piece of advice…the more I just focused on being healthier, the more weight I lost. I was much more successful when I focused on how I was feeling rather than what the scale said. Good luck on your Noom journey.
Thanks for the encouragement
Welcome to the Noom community! I have been doing it since January and am happy with my weight loss but even happier with the inner changes in my attitude, my energy, and the way I view myself and my surroundings. The personal coaching and group interaction are a big plus for me.
I too have been a huge garment sewist in the past and had not made myself any clothes for years because I wasn't happy with myself. I'm going to start sewing those things now though!
Oh, and I'm impressed you chose a princess seamed coat pattern. I think most (,if not all) of the ones I've seen are very boxy. I can't wait to see how it goes!
Oh, this sounds like a glorious project!! Your colors have me excited as well! I'm looking forward to your next post showing your progress. Wishing you happy sewing!
I think your discussion of how to get off the dime on the coat and the process of developing a plan you will love was/is extraordinarily helpful, totally apart for m the health issues. It can be a long and winding road with traffic jams and detours. It's so good to hear you say after all those twists and turns that you're excited about the plan you've chosen.
Oh wow Karen, this was not what I was expecting to watch! At times I had tears watching this, what got me was your honesty and the hellish time you must have had when your son was ill, I know you won't necessarily believe what I'm going to say but you really look fantastic, we tend to be really harsh critics of ourselves and much kinder to our friends. I can't wait to see your quilted coat, I also want to make one but I can't find a pattern I like and as I've never made any clothes, the reading of the pattern scares me. One day I'll attempt one, hopefully soon, till then I'm going to enjoy watching you make one, loads of love from West Yorkshire, UK 💕
I just found and bought a pattern for a very boxy coat at the thrift store. Front, back and sleeves are rectangles. Hippy - Oriental vibes. It is OLD, probably '70's, printed on craft paper to be traced onto tissue. Not a name company, but the kind you would find in quilt shops. Check out "The Last Homely House" on RUclips. Kate is working on a lightweight, long coat using Boro technique and a pattern printed in a new book she recently bought. Think it is "The Book of Boro".
@@paulinelarson465 thank you so much, you are very kind to take the time to suggest that pattern, sounds good, and good luck with your quilted coat
I made a simple vest for my son before Pandemic, BUT I put the buttons and holes on the wrong sides. He gave it back to me, gave me more fabric and asked me to make him another. It would usually take maybe 3 days, they are easy----took me nearly 2 years to finish that second one and change the button holes on the first. I struggled with it, cried over it, made all kinds of excuses for it. FINALLY mailed them back, finished, a week ago, he loves everything about it!!! I sent him a note, "blame it on COVID," he laughed but really I can't explain it either, just am so thankful it is done. I do remember shuddering when last Christmas passed and didn't have it for him. I knew he was disappointed, will never forget it. And all I want to do is quilt now---nonstop!! Oh, yeah, there are those stupid soup bowls my SIL wants........
That's what I love about you Karen. You are so upfront and honest. What a wonderful person you are. You give of yourself so freely so that we can reflect and think about our own journey. Good luck to you on your health journey. It is one I struggle with constantly.
I can totally understand this! I've had so many things happen in the last 3 years that I am just about paralyzed with anxiety about what will be the next downturn! I'm excited about your coat!
It's been a challenging time for us. Some harder than others but still challenging for all.
I have recently completed a quilt vest. Our climate doesn't warrant a coat. I used a vest that I had as a pattern and a good friend to help me cut and fit it. I was able to move forward when I purchased a beautiful Kaffe fabric, in colours I love. Found the perfect fabric for sashing, lining and binding. . The most creative I have ever been. I love wearing it and sometimes notice people taking a second look. It is a statement garment. Enjoy making your coat and I look forward to watching the progress 🇦🇺😀
This was the BEST commercial for NOOM! Gaining wt during covid was on point.
We are all on a journey, and most women I know think about their weight on a daily basis. It takes up a lot of valuable head space! I came to the realization that I just wanted to be strong and healthy as I aged. My priority was to keep my mobility and so I started pilates and made that my daily "job". As I got stronger and my shape changed, I began to research healthy eating. My point is that one action leads to another. I now have the energy to quilt(!) walk and travel. Keep up the good work, Karen! You're an inspiration on so many levels.
I enjoy Pilates too. We need that an strength in our quilting…who knew. Thanks for sharing
I hear you loud and clear. Getting used to a post menopausal body is a real challenge. I just don't look like I used to...but this is the new normal , so I better get used to it!
I purchased a flowered jacket, not a quilted one, but my husband says it looks like I'm wearing a quilt.. and he doesn't sound complimentary. So I am a little wary of quilt coats. I joined WW years ago and lost 40 and feel much better. Best wishes on your journey and taking care of yourself!
I am so glad you allowed yourself to pause and be mindful of your needs and that you took the time to take action! I'm 51 and MeNOOOOO!pause has kicked in. I'm squishy, there is fat in places I never had before and it sags. We might have "new normals" to adjust to, and our efforts, great or small, make a difference. Enjoy time for you!
Oh Karen, this video is SUPERB! I dare say that every single one of viewers can identify and empathise with your situation. We are either in the same spot or have been there already. Those who haven't yet arrived now have an insight to what may be ahead & therefore have a great jump start to prevent experiencing the same. Thank you for sharing so candidly
Hang in Karen! Thanks for sharing your process and your feelings. I look forward to the next video on the coat.
Karen, you are such an inspiration !! As always, thank you for just being YOU..... real and honest !! Hugs & luv from Colorado, USA
I have a patchwork jacket rolling around in my head for a couple years. The hardest part is finding a pattern. I also made a muster, but made it a wearable mister out of fabric from a failed project. So now is the time to recycle the antique kimono from my grandmother into a beautiful patchwork jacket.
“Love and nurture yourself!”
I heard that recently and it’s so true, bc we usually have negative self talk. But how would you treat yourself if you were being loving and kind and nurturing? Hot bubble bath? Kind words? Do fun stuff? Encourage yourself? Think, “how would I treat my best friend?”
I think I’m gonna make a wall hanging with those words to remind myself! 🤗😁
I see that I'm not the only one that can relate to this video. I appreciate you sharing this. Ever since reading "The Lost Art of Dress" by Linda Przybysewski a few years ago, I have wanted to get back into sewing clothes for myself. But my weight has stopped me. Recently I started watching Bernadette Banner's RUclips sewing videos, and again, it motivated me to sew my own clothes. But I still weigh more than I'm comfortable with. Watching your video has inspired me again and I might just try Noom.
Karen, I completely understand. I went through menopause at an extremely young age and have been fighting my weight since…I was only 32 when I had to have surgery. I lost 30 pounds before Covid and now have gained 15 of it back. I get so disgusted with myself. Thanks for the inspiration! I will check out Noom. Keep up the good work…you can do this! And it isn’t about a number on the scale as you know. It is about health and being able to enjoy what we love. I wish you the best on this journey. Make the coat a little smaller than what you need now, you will be smaller by the time you need a coat again!
“Love and nurture yourself!”
I heard that recently and it’s so true, bc we usually have negative self talk. But how would you treat yourself if you were being loving and kind and nurturing? Hot bubble bath? Kind words? Do fun stuff? Encourage yourself? Think, “how would I treat my best friend?”
I think I’m gonna make a wall hanging with those words to remind myself! 🤗😁
Your quilt coat will be as lovely as you are. Loving myself after menopause is a great challenge…sort of like quilting, the journey takes practice. Hang in there!
I’m also post menopausal. It is very challenging. My body, skin and hair have changed completely. Hang in there.
This is probably one of my favorite videos. Thanks for keeping it real! Best to you on your health improvement journey.
Thank you for your honesty and walking through your thought process of your project and your personal thoughts. Really makes others not feel so alone and provide a bit of permission of sorts to enjoy the process.
I could have done this video. You were talking straight to me. That negative voice in your head is your worst enemy. A support group or friend makes a real difference. As usual, you inspire us all!
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I've never thought of paper piecing with sewing pattern pieces until this moment, but listening to you discussing the plan for the quilt coat made me realize that it's possible and now I must try it.
Wow, I would looove a quilt made from all those varied blocks you decided to scorn. It would be an art piece and not have to be “my color”. Quilt coats by their nature are squarish and bulky. That’s a gift for those of us who are not the sylphs we may have been a long time ago. I haven’t gotten to the end of your video yet (I could not wait to comment!), I hope you got over that and made the wonderful coat you have the creativity and skills to do!
In the summer of 2020, I signed up for 18 months of Noom. I completed all 18 months and was satisfied with the program. My takeaways from the experience: 1) Do the daily reading and activities 2) Do connect with your coach and your group. It is helpful to share 3) Take responsibility for your food choices. Try plant based options and meatless meals for better health.
My results after 18 months were good. I did not reach my original weight loss goal BUT I achieved better overall health, both physically and emotionally. My lab work proves this--my numbers were better than they have been in years. I wish you well on your journey Karen. It is time to do something for yourself!
Awesome Donna!
I love how honest you are. It’s so validating. It’s a difficult thing to adjust to the changes in the body after menopause. It’s so good to work through the unconscious negativity of unacceptance. Good for you Karen. Only you can know what’s best for you. I’m looking forward to the quilt coat celebration. It’s going to be so good!!!
I forgot to say the colours you are looking at will be very flattering. Mostly I’m so happy your son recovered from his illness. Glad the wedding was enjoyable and very happy little Nando is well and a partner in the journey to health. Stress has a huge impact on our bodies, considering the last couple of years you are doing amazingly well. You are a star! ⭐️
Thank you for sharing your experiences and feelings. This video was an eye-opener for me. I have a stack of material and patterns for clothing to make because I cannot find what I need in stores. I lost my enthusiasm when I needed to adjust a pattern and realized there was no one I felt comfortable asking for help. Like you, life and COVID helped me put on all the weight I spent a year taking off. It helps to know I am not alone. I allowed myself to acknowledge that I do not feel comfortable in my skin after watching your video.
This is a video that I needed to see. I'm stuck at a quilt coat, too! And for the exact same reasons. I have never been a garment sewist, but I have quilted enough and made enough handbags that I think I could do it. But then I think about all the time and resources I will have wasted if I complete it and IT DOESN'T FIT!! Thank you for sharing all your doubts, and then pressing through them and finding a solution. As soon as I return from my deployment and get back to my machine. If I finish it, and it doesn't fit me, it will fit someone. And then I'll just keep trying until they go out of style again!
Boy, you have struck a nerve. YOU ARE NOT ALONE. You are such a motivator, your struggles makes it real.
You have basically described my own struggle. I used to make ALL my clothes ( exept underware and knits ) but I was a size 6. That was fun. Now, 30 yrs later, i'm XXL. If I might suggest : take a good basic pattern, make the ajustments, test and make a good copy to work from. When you loose or gain 15-20, your shape doesn't change, i't just a bit larger or smaller. Easy to ajust with the side/center seams. Since you already made that basic pattern that fits your shape, just play with the seams.
I will follow your progress with all my encouragements and kick my as s in the process.
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Regardless of the sizes in your country so many women struggle with body changes, we all thought we had under control, until after 40 when reality hits. You described my size dilemma perfectly. Australian size 8 to 10 at 18 and as low as 51kgs, at 58 I'm double the sizes and not quite double the weight. I have my good days and my tough ones, it's the daily choices we make that makes us.
I've considered going back into making clothes but mostly I get given enough things I don't need much except underwear. Having discovered my sewing mojo with bag making and now quilting my happy space in the sewing room has helped my mental health and focused on making better daily choices with a great support network of newer friends and a serious RUclips addiction.
Your comment speaks of self acceptance of body changes, I like that.
You are my hero for 'fessing up' to ALL the issues most of us face. I lost 100 pounds 9 years ago and SWORE I'd never gain it back. Well, those covid pounds did me in as well, and I gained 1/2 of it back...YEP, 50 pounds. I've now lost 20 of it and won't give up. Thank you for sharing that part of your journey! You are great!!
Well done you. 👏👏👏
My mom would make me quilted jackets when I was a kid - way before it was cool. I looked into Noom and instead of wanting to join the quiz just frustrated me so I wrote my frustrations to customer service so hopefully it helps people in the future. Glad it is helping you.
You covered so many topics in this video that I think a lot of people struggle with! Thank you for putting yourself out here and sharing.
Like so many others in the "Just Get It Done" community, I have struggled during the past 2 years, especially the last six months while dealing with long COVID. Thank you for your honest and inspiring post! I look forward to sharing your quilt coat journey! ❤️❤️🌞
Oh my gosh, you’ve been inside my head! A few months ago 2 friends and I decided we would all make the same pattern of a quilted jacket. The one who came up with the idea has yet to make any decisions about fabrics, etc! The other one has made her “fabric” out of various strips of fabrics. I chose to make my “fabric” from 2-1/2” squares (!) According to my calculations, I will need 12 2-1/2” x 80” strips, sew them together and will have enough fabric to cut out the pattern pieces. Thus far, I’m half way through sewing my strips together. Now I’ve decided it will be a fall jacket, rather than spring like when we started this journey. I’m bound and determined to get back to working on the jacket. Best of luck with your jacket, Karen. Can’t wait to watch your progress. As usual, your videos are so inspiring, useful and fun-filled.
You absolutely are speaking to a lot of people. We have all been dealing with Covid-19, and so many other things that seem to be universal, as well as a few problems that are unique to each of us. Work, family, health, finances - who hasn't been touched! Thank you for taking us on as accountability partners, you are making it a little easier for me (and I suspect many others as well) to step up and start our own self care journey!
I was wondering what happened with the quilt coat. When you mentioned it months ago, I sent a photo to you of mine...pink and gray. I love it and get so many nice comments. I agree that it needs to be in your favorite colors and you are now on the right path. I'm ready to make another one for winter using a wonderful Kaffe Fasset fat quarter bundle with black as the background. For me, the planning is the best part. I can't wait to see your progress.
Oh my gosh, your ‘whole’ story is my story, entirely!!!……right down to the binge once/yr shopping as I’ve got older (& heavier!!) in the hope of buying enough to see me through another ‘year’!! And yes, I too thought “oh perhaps I’ll make my own cloths (again!)”.
Thank you for your beautiful honesty, it was inspiring! And incredibly brave. 👏🌷
Your videos should come under mental health not sewing! Everything you said in this video is ME. You have given me a lot to think about AND a lot of tips to start moving forward. And my project is a quilt coat too! ❤
Oh yes, me too. I started by cutting up a long sleeved t shirt, as a pattern, cut it out, made patchwork pieces from Tula pink fabric. Just didn’t measure me! The t shirt was stretchy, my fabric not. I’ve been unpicking for weeks, having wadded and quilted. I’ve added fabric, cut it off, restarted, cried, told a friend who said what are your measurements, hmm. So, defeated, I’m trying again, what a waste. So glad to listen to you. I’ll try again, buy a pattern, more fabric, oh gosh.... I’m no seamstress, I’m too plump, yes, I’m cross with myself. Start again eh? I really want my Patchwork jacket, more research on how! Good luck to us both xxxx Kris in the New Forest Uk
I love how honest and candid you are.. you made this relatable and with that I wish you luck on your health journey and quilt coat journey.. we are all on journeys and I love that you are so willing to share yours 😀
Thank you for this video...the timing is perfect...i, also, have been wanting to make a quilt coat for over a year...ive watched a ton of videos, bought yardage to make my own quilt blocks...bought quilts to cut up...and patterns..and there they all sit. Im also not happy with the weight ive gained since my husband died last August...so after i finish this post, im going to look at noom.
I look forward to the rest of this series...THANK YOU!!
You go girl, menopause is just a royal pain in the arse,,,but it sounds like you've found your peaceful place and I'm in your corner rooting for you.
I really connected with this video. I would like to make my own close and I have been holding back for many reasons, but the main one is my body. I do not know how to read a pattern and how to do any adjustments to patterns that would make it fit my body. I too have always been heavy and now that I am much older this fact sits on my mind. I have tried reading books about sewing and all that does is confuse me even more. Thank you and it is nice to know their are others who feel like I do. Who knows I might just try that Noom thing. But I would love to do a garment sew along. Maybe you could think about that idea sometime. All my Best!
Check out Alexandra Morgan, In-House Pattern Design. She has great classes and info on fitting.
I have a feeling you are going to be inundated with feedback on this video! We are feeling what you are feeling. The weight, the pandemic, the "change", family illness, and/or other life-altering issues, and trying to maintain a sense of control throughout, as evidenced by sewing/quilting fits and starts. I enjoyed your video, tremendously!
Boy can I relate! We are all in our own boat but we drift on the same sea.Thank you for inspiring and encouraging those of us who need a nudge (or push) to make the choices and changes that we need to make.
Thank you for putting this out there and sharing your struggles. Your story hit home for me on so many levels. It is so encouraging to know that I'm not alone in what I'm experiencing in my juggling act with work, home, and family. Self care takes up a big part of my head space but very little actual time spent. A shift in my perspective is needed and this video is giving me ideas on how to go about that.
Karen, I started watching your videos during the pandemic and have learned so much from you. Thank you for sharing about Noom. I started their program April 1st and am using quilting as one way of filling my new retirement life with healthy activities like shopping for material ! LOL. And organizing my sewing space thanks to all your tips. Time for me to finish that quilted vest I started 15 years ago! Your are truly an inspiration so thank you!
thx
Hi Karen you are such a fun down to earth person and I just love your videos and tutorials very much. Just wishing you all the best with Noom.I am looking forward to sharing your journey in your quilt coat challenge as I am wanting to make one as well.take care and be kind to yourself too😘💕🤗
Hmmmm, i collected tea themed fabric and I've been stalled for years on how to begin to sew a quilt with it. Your coat of many colors journey and weight loss noom journey converge many similar issues i have too. Let the changes begin. Winter will be neigh!
Thank you for your vulnerability and honesty. It's really helpful for how to self reflect on those things I've been putting off, including getting in better shape.
Thank you for your honesty. I can’t even say how helpful that was.
I love that you are being transparent. I relate to much of what you shared. I recently revived a UFO and it felt good to press forward and make some progress on it. I can begin to see the light at the end of the tunnel on it and you’ll get there too with your quilt coat. Thank you for your openness. Your willingness to share these things provides tremendous encouragement.
It is nice to hear we are in this together. Health issues for the mature woman is put on back burner for many of us. Thank you for this video. As a diabetic on a pump and now a new addition with my dexcomg6 something more to carry around I found the glucose revolution book and am excited where I am .
I have been doing Noom for about a year and have been really happy with the results. Have lost 25 lbs and still want to lose a few more but the changes to other aspect of how I feel have been more than worth it. Way to go!
I find that I am looking at my habits. Not beating myself up about a cookie but realizing if I just had eaten lunch at the right time that I would not be so ravenous
Please forgive me for respectfully skipping this one, Karen 💗 My quilting is an essential part of my Eating Disorder recovery and you’ve been so influential to me. Looking forward to your next videos!
Good luck on your recovery! Good for you for doing what you need to be taking care of yourself!
I am going to skip this for similar reasons, while I share Karen’s challenges I live in a household which has experience of an eating disorder and watch these videos to forget about ( my ) life for a while. I would have appreciated a trigger warning at the start .. Having said that the early content is fascinating …
I learned that keeping my hands busy was the key after losing my sister nearly 19 years ago, sewing on her machine has been a way to recover and reconnect.
@@lisaroper421 Thank you for your encouragement! 🥰
Hi. Thank you so much for sharing your insights into the menopause, it's so helpful in getting a clearer perspective on things I seem to have been going through recently that I didn't even link with that. I wish you luck on both your health and coat plans and thank you once again for the eye-opener.
I have recently started making clothes, too! I’m 66 and want to get away from what I used to wear and instead make clothes that fit my body now. And choose amazing fabrics! I’m having similar conversations with myself, thank you for sharing yours, you make me feel normal!
I saw Leah Day do a quilt that was designed like a QAYG but not in blocks. She used a paper draft and cut her pieces accordingly. Sewed them together using a paper piecing method. Turned out lovely. I thought about using this method in several designs I wanted to make but chickened out....so much for my efforts. LOL We are all who we are and I hate body shaming. We do what we can and when we can.
Thank you so much for your honesty. You are such an inspiration because you are so real. My need for life change is different but I believe you have helped me to move on to better health. May God bless you on your journey.
It is hard to lose that weight that we have carried for a while. I needed a hip replacement but it wouldn't happen until I lost about 75 pounds. I thought I could do it but a year later was no better off so I went to a doctor for help(not bariatric help). Took me almost a year to lose it, had my hip done in February, which was a godsend, and am still working on the weight, both for me and I need a knee done too. Carrying this extra weight for so many years did a number on my body that I wouldn't wish on anyone. You are smart to start on Noom. It is a mind matter, which I am still working on and probably always will be.
Love your candour about your difficulties getting launched with this. I sew most of my own clothes and have been meaning to make either the All Well Cardigan Coat or the Tamarack Jacket, the first out of an old quilt I have in the back of a cupboard, and the latter a quilt-as-you-go project. You've inspired me!