AWKWARD SITUATIONS AS A QUADRUPLE AMPUTEE
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Just wanted to say this video is really light hearted and basically comedic so don’t feel sorry for me or anything as I have just got used to these situations and don’t let them effect me. I just wanted to share them with you guys xx
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dont feel sorry for you i admire you, you´re so amazing...btw my name is Peter from Denmark
I just use to joke about it and hope that the other person doesnt take offence. If i feel he or she did I allways explain myself :D
I LOVE ISABELLE +60183626062
Hi Izzy💕I alway look forward to watching your videos💕Your shirt is so cute💕If it is real true love it's unconditional❤️Hugs🤗Much Love💕God Bless You Sweet Izzy💖
I saw a kid scream at a woman once as she had most of her left arm amputated. She raised her arm and looked at it, then screamed too. The brat's mother was just aghast that someone could prank her perfect angel, and yours truly was laughing. The lady just looked over at me, smiled and winked.
If I get caught staring at you it's because you're pretty xx
Aweee thank you xx
That´s what i wanted to say too! I would definitely stare at you, because you are so beautiful. And it doesn´t matter to me, if you are a boy or a girl, i´m not be-sexual or something like that, but i just LOVE to look at beautiful people.... i can´t explain. I just enjoy to look at beautiful people, i really like that... :-D sorry for my english ;-)
Seriously.. you are beautiful, unique, and your personality is amazing! ;) You are a great woman mlady
I agree :)
i was literally gonna comment that
2:30 Children are brilliant at making things awkward. I was swimming once and I looked over and saw this little girl, about four walking away with my fake leg.
By the time I caught up with her she had found her dad and was trying to give him my leg and jabbering in French. Her dad was doing his best to get away from her, I think in a full blown panic attack.
Turns out the kid was French and saw my leg on the pool deck. She was trying to tell her dad someone "forgot" his leg and he had to find that person as quickly as possible.
Dad was horribly embarrassed but I thought it was cute and funny, and considering, quite thoughtful.
I have tons and tons of stories about encounters with children.
Also dogs. When a strange dog greets me he sniffs around like dogs will, then they become focused on my leg. They will sit there sniffing and sniffing, trying to figure out what it is that they smell.
Eric Taylor cool!
I'm a amputee and this little girl told me if my leg will grow back I said sadly no but it would of been cool like our teeth I told her she had other questions but this one is by far the funniest.
Her mom was embarrassed I could see it in her lol. I like when I look up and the people staring at me turn away quickly lol I love it.
Your comment though quite real is also hilarious!💜
@@5DNRG :^)
I stare at everyone...not to be rude but I get side tracked as a create a character for them in my head..
Good that’s not just me
I thought I was the only one who did this
Me tooooo
They already have characters, go and talk to them. It's Awkward? Nah people like others being interested in them.
OMgoodness same!
Omg if someone said "do you miss them?" To me I'd straight up say "Miss who? I'm not sure who you're speaking about. Like wtf, anyone who asks that is either super dumb or just plain rude.
Ahah you’d be surprised how much I get asked that
Sadly, I think it's kind of a panic response from people. A lot of people are already awkward socially, so when they are presented with a curveball like that, their brain doesn't react fast enough for them to say something intelligent.
I'd be like 'not really,y do you miss them?'
huh?
your manners
You cant blame people are get angry with them for asking a question out of ignorance and curiousity. They don't know what its like to be her, therefore do not know what would or would not be insensitive. Instead educate them, after all knowledge is power is it not.
I don't think it's a rude question tbh and I don't think that anyone who asks that question is trying to be mean. They might just not know what to say in that situation or they're curious how they handle everything now. There's definitely stuff I would consider worse than that question....
If I'm staring at someone
A: I'm gay and you're pretty
Or B: I'm dissociating to the point that my eyes aren't working anymore
I know you get this a lot, but you're genuinely really pretty. That kind of top with the choker thing as part of it (idk what its called sorry) really suits you.
Also,
*THAT HIGHLIGHT THO OMGGGG GIRL HOW*
Hi Izzy, I'm a Taiwanese,and I'm a girl who is as tall as a male basketball player,you know especially in this Asian country,I have been an awkward life for 22years, everytime I walk on the street, everyone's staring at me,someone even says look how tall she is,she just looks like an giant monster,I really feel uncomfortable and frustrating.But after watching your videos,I really notice that we can't and don't have to understand others rude words or actions,I know how wonderful I am,and so are you,Issy, thank you for being a great model for me, you are the best😍😍
Talk about major "humble brag". You may as well say you're so attractive that it's awkward. Or so athletic that it's awkward.
@@Psylent she literally tells us she's being called monster but if you take that as sometging good you'll be happy to know that you're a monster for being so mean
you said "who is as tall as a male basketball player" but couldn't you have just said your height? ie 180cm
play a sport?
Smile It's considered ugly to be a girl taller than, like, 5'6 in many East Asian countries right now. In Taiwan, Japan and China, most women are 4'8 - 5'2
Your brothers are so cute (and good actors :p)! I really like this type of video, I really enjoyed the skits.
S. P. Nonce
did you just call me a child molester... what the hell...
@@s.p.9829 I equally found them extremely adorable.
Wait, brothers? I'm confused, were there two?
Chopperman
There were two brothers in the video! They were both shown together in the preassumptions section of the video!
Meningitis is so serious to take care of, more than the possibility of your body parts getting amputated. My boyfriends friend literally died over night from his first symptoms because he wasn't offered the vaccine. Please get your meningitis vaccinations if you have not already! It's so important!
Ok Great now Im freaked since I am allergic to the compounds in it, like anafalactic shock
@@ithoughtitwasgrapejuice9084 There is comfort with Jesus Christ of Nazareth our Lord and Savior!
Sending prayers!
Vaccines do not cause the disease.
@Nathan Lynch haha she clearly didn't finish reading my comment
I'm very impressed by your intelligence, terrific communication skills, sense of humor, honesty and determination. You've obviously had to grow up very fast and have an incredibly bright future given your capabilities. Thank you for sharing your story and inspiring others to realize that being a complete person is all about one's mind, heart and character, not the circumstances of one's life. All the best to you!
You're personality surpasses any disability you may have. That's what I'm drawn to. That and the fact that you are an extremely pretty girl and very likable. ❤
Awee thank you so much
"do you miss them" honestly thats just a stupid question to ask anyone about anything unless youre close and having a heart to heart
Great video! Truly helpful. My mother is in a wheelchair and has been for almost 15 years now. We get the looks, stares, stares with quick turn aways, awkward go in for hugs and not surehow to finish it and more...
people should raise their children knowing that some people look different and introduce them to photos of amputees so that when they first see someone who is an amputee irl they don’t act all weird? like they just know that some people are like that !!
Christina Rankin yes! and wheelchairs, crutches, etc! i remember once as a kid i was using crutches after having surgery on my foot, and while i was at my library i heard another much younger little girl ask her mother what they were why i was using them. her mom, likely embarassed and undereducated herself, quickly told her not to point or stare at me and not to ask any questions. being rather young myself i was so familiar with that feeling of unanswered curiosity, so i went over and explained what the crutches were, why i had them, and that i absolutely didn't mind if she had any questions because i would much rather people learn than wonder and sneak glances. her mother did thank me, but i do also think she felt a bit awkward herself considering i was an 11/12 year old disabled girl telling her not to be so shy about asking questions, haha!
As well as photos people should just have more to read, watch etc from the perspectives of disabled people of all kinds. Photos probably wouldn't help, since someone who's never experienced anything similar would just be like, omg I could never live like that that's tragic! Or something. 😑
Totally agree with you
Super late replying to this comment, but this is totally true. When I got my rescue puppy 3 years ago, part of the guidance I was given was to make sure and introduce him to lots of different things he will have to be around for the rest of his life. And there are tons of lists online - people with beards, people with glasses, hats, walking sticks, crutches, wheelchairs, bikes, prams/pushchairs, tall people, small people, children, cars, big vehicles (trucks, buses, etc) etc! And once they have been introduced in a positive way, they learn not to be afraid/wary of those things as they get older. (In theory, this all works, but obviously, each case is different).
But why do we not apply the same principles for children - teach them about people with different skin colours, disabilities, different countries/cultures/religions? It wouldn't be a perfect solution, but it would go a long way to helping children realise that there are lots of people out there who look different than they do :)
Exactly
Omg I would totally mess with people like, staring back at them to freak them out! LOL
I do sometimes ahah
Good on you, keep staring back!
I dated a girl who had to have both feet amputated due to complications with diabetes. She loved messing with people. One teenager who kept staring and then started making comments was really irritating her so my girlfriend asked what he was staring at and he asked what happened to her legs which she didn't mind so much she just hated being stared at but she wanted to mess with him so she made up this elaborate story about a cult she belonged to and she was their recruitment officer and the initiation was they had to have a couple of body parts cut off and that they usually took ones that they weren't using. Then she asked what his hat size was.
MellowJelly same lol
nunya biznez Lmao I would do the same XD
Loved the video. Your brothers are good actors.
Alana Horner there probably to young
I really do admire you, people even tho they aren’t quad amputees can really learn from you. Including myself. So glad you make videos to educate people with your condition.
Just happened upon this video today from recommended videos and I’m glad I watched it. Thank you for making this video. It was nice to be made aware of things from your perspective. Very well done and keep up the great work!
Your brothers acting is 👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻
Ahaha there were a lot of outtakes
It’s funny, I am black and I get staring sometimes when I am with my husband who’s white! I get what you’re saying, being stared at is not cool!
With the comments, some people are pathologically sadistic. There is not much you can do to change them I am afraid, they are mentally unwell. I know it’s not gonna help, but just ignore them!
Sorry, only stared because you looked amazing together! Loved it!
Of course the people who stare a lot to other persons they are evil and they are mentally ill, they are the weird persons.
@@miriamcarrasco3273 I am desperately trying to decipher the meaning of your comment
@@DoubleDHarvey
I just was answering Connie from the comment of above.
@@miriamcarrasco3273 or maybe they have poor communication skills whithout being "ill" like people in the autism spectrum. I thik it's really funny how people always have to discriminate someone to include someone else.
Izzy, I can't believe how young you are! You are so beautiful and very very wise. You genuinely have more people skills, life experience and humour than people twice your age. You have a super engaging, very informative. I adore your videos!
Its great your so strong and im just glad you give others who maybe isnt as strong as you more confidence to be brave enough to feel that the are perfect the way they are. The world is how it is, sadly not always understanding and can be very dark and ugly. People like you light it up and the world needs more kind of people such as yourself. Have a supremo day!
You are truly breathtaking!! Really like watching your stuff. You seem like you'd be such good company, thanks for sharing some of yourself with all of us strangers :)
I absolutely LOVED this video. The skit element of it was brilliant. Your brothers are adorable and good actors.
you’re very brave. you’re only 15 & you’ve gone through a lot & you’ve been so positive about it. i love that about you.
This video was a real eye opener. My heart goes out to you, Isabelle, and you seem to embrace life and not allow your situation to control you. I wish you all the best in everything. I hope you have the most awesome life :)
I can relate to what you said about people saying or doing something and then making it more awkward by being a little over dramatic about it trying to apologize. I don't have amputations, but I do have health issues that stop me from being able to certain things. I usually make a joke or laugh and tell them to chill. I tend to let it bother me or deal with my emotions after I am alone. Just do you girl, that is all you can do.
Sometimes they look because your beautiful as well:)
-- it’s not abusive to notice someone is beautiful
*you’re
Never *to* late for grammar lessons lmao.
@@AutumnLoki get a life einstein
@@AutumnLoki oh I googled imao you know your "arrogant" merry christmas
@@alexandermatthewsmusic I was joking...🙃
Cause I spelled to wrong. But umm ya anyways. Happy holidays 😊
hahaha the handshake thing reminded me of when ryan seacrest tried to high five a blind guy on live TV 😂 AWKWARD
The staring thing always makes me nervous because I have a tendency to drift out of my surroundings and unconsciously stare at something, and I'm always so scared that I might be staring at someone and that I'll be perceived as rude.
Reply: "Do you miss your social skills?" (but only to an adult, of course) Thanks for posting these videos.
Your such an inspiration Izzy! Stay strong beautiful ❤
Thankyou Isabelle...it's so beneficial to hear how you feel and helps others to know act correctly around amazingly strong wonderful souls as yourself. You're a perfectly beautiful miracle.
You are such a strong young woman, I wish you luck in all you do. Brilliant video so light hearted yet very inspirational
The most awkward question to get asked when you have divorced parents is, "Why did your parents get divorced?" First of all, it's not your business, it's not even really my business. Second of all, why would you want to know? It's just such an awkward and impolite question, yet you'd be surprised how often people ask me
I hate when people say "oh I'm sorry." Like it's a tragedy. I don't even know how to respond.
People ask me astonishingly often if I hate my dad now (why? Also, what makes the thing that my dad broke up?) and how I get along with them fighting all the time (they don't and never did so in front of me...) and how I feel about it (and won't even believe it when I tell them I'm fine with it) and all of that sometimes by people I don't even really know. Oh, and that "two birthdays/Christmases" goes on my nerves as well, and of course that WHYYYYYY? question.
Huh, personally I don't find that awkward/impolite but more of a "why do you want to know?" sorta deal.
Hmm I have the same case but a bit different I get stared at cause my ear is ripped people say what happens to ur ear and I feel uncomfortable about it
Kennedy Wilcox please ask me that like I don’t even know myself lmao
I genuinely stare at everybody. Not on purpose, it's a really bad habit of mine.
Raven Me too...
I swear I look like a creep, but I can’t help it.
I loved this video! Loved the skit format! Thank you for letting us know that if someone starts to shake your hand it’s okay to shake your arm (I was wondering about that). You are so beautiful and have such a wonderful attitude!! You are such an inspiration to me!!! Thank you!!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰
Thank you for taking the time to educate me and giving me more understanding on to this subject.
The most awkward situation i've been dealing with recently was in shoes store asking for some help and the saleswoman just goes like 'I broke my wrist earlier this year it wasn't so hard doing thing one handed with the cast...' i'm amputated just below my right elbow and it makes me really mad to be compared to an broken arm lol. So i gave her my prosthetic arm and asked if it looks like a cast then if she think my arm was broken ? It was super awkward moment :D
Btw it was an super good and i've reconized myself in lot of case :p
(edit)
I aggreed that the way i write it might be confusing. She didn't said this in a way to make me comfortable it was more like 'you should be able to do this by yourself because i was able to do this with my cast' she was clearly pissed off. So my reaction was maybe asshole for you but honestly i would have never did something like this to someone trying to understand or being cool with me :p
Lol how stupid people are. Comparing a broken wrist to an amputated limb? Wow. I think you handled it well.
Looking at her face when she gave me back my arm i guess she won't compare those anymore haha
She didn't say it in a way to makes me comfortablei've edited my post it was confusing ^^
Don't worry, the original comment made sense, I think that person misread. Employees should NEVER behave like that. I hope you spoke with the manager or even corporate, she deserves to be fired 😠
Neptune No i didn't guess we can all have some bad days even if it was stupid from her comparing things you can't compare but i think she understood clearly now ;)
I love this! Oh my god you’re so pretty😱❤️!!!
"Id feel singled out if they changed what everybody said to be nice to me"
That statement is something alot of people need to learn . I hope you keep that great attitude and never change.
with your personality and intelligence you are sure to go far in this life, you brightened my day thank you!(for being you)
This vid made me think of Molly Burke
1Rixy1 ahh yesss
Yes, that was the first thing I thought of too.
I'd love a collaboration between them!
1Rixy1 yes
Can you imagine them setting up a comedic first meeting where they both go in for a handshake?
You should seriously think about a career in presenting when you leave school....youd be great as a children's tv presenter to start with. You sound and look like great presenter already!
Sorry to say but cbeebies once got this girl who had half an arm and children freaked out. I loved her she was great.
Ella Morgan OML
I remember her from when I’d watch Justin time
You are a beautiful, positive and amazing young lady. You have a lot of inner strength to bring these personal challenges to public light. A few years ago I learned of a saying I think of often, "If you cannot Command, you must Follow".. You are definitely are in Command and a natural leader. My honor, to have come across your video and see you strength and beauty.
Your so nice and confident. If anyone says anything rude to you,, (which they prob will because people are so rude) ignore them as much as you can, you already do and it’s actually really good that you ignore them and don’t let them get to you. Ly and stay strong girl x
Love you so much Izzy your such an inspiration xx
Awee thank you. Ilyy
Your highlight is poppin!!
You’re so gorgeous and I’m now addicted to your videos! Your makeup is flawless and so are you, keep doing what you’re doing because you’re amazing ❤️
I had meningitis when I was a kid, no implications now and all my limbs intact, never realised just how serious it could have been! so much respect ❤️
These kids acting like you're some alien 😁 but nooo you're just a gorgeous bean
I send you a hug from Mexico, I wish you the best
This was helpful for me to be more understanding and compassionate towards others, especially with physical disabilities. Thank you💕
I think you handle situations very well whether it be kids or adults and you definently seem like a nice person inside and out girl!
You're so cutee I don't think is bad to be different ❤ and I am sorry for those that think that I love you so much we support you cutie 💕💕
Me: *does everyday things but uses crutches to walk *
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Wow you are so pretty! Your hair is gorgeous and your makeup skills are amazing I mean wow the highlight!! Thanks for bringing awareness!!💜
Hey Izzy I haven't commented in a few months but I've been keeping up with all of your videos and stuff! I loved the skits in this video, really well done. Keep your head up and keep ignoring the haters because you're beautiful and seem super smart too
I just wanted to say you are the most Brave person on RUclips and you are such an inspiration to other amputees and I feel bad for you even though you don't like it when people feel bad for you my all-time biggest fear is getting my arm or leg amputated I don't know why it scares me so much it just does you are so beautiful and strong and I hope you live the rest of your life happy and healthy you are an amazing person I saw this video on my recommendation and I didn't mean to click on it but I guess I did by accident LOL but I am glad that I did I hope this comment somewhat made your day better keep going keep being strong you are an amazing person have a great life I love you ❤️😘...
Im 14 but omg you are so cute😍😍 i also love your voice and your accent
Gainz For days 2022 graduates represent
Your little brother did a great job helping with the video! Thank you for sharing your experiences. Cheers!!
the "do you miss them?" is something you ask when you're close enough to have a deep, open conversation like that.
When greeting people you should just initiate it and say "Stump bump" (instead of fist bump) ;)
I made this same comment in another video. I hope Izzy addresses it at some point because it makes the most sense!
pahaha “do you miss them”
I'd be like "no, not at all. They just got in the way anyway."
I still don't even understand why someone would ask that (unless you're really close of course)
This is exactly why I’ve been teaching my daughter since very little to never stare at or make comments on people who look “different “.
Love your videos! Seriously, the people who comment hate just has a problem within themselves, it's got nothing to do with you. It's really a reflection of their mindset.
I can relate on the kids reactions one. I'm trans and present quite androgynously so kid's STARE and laugh and make comments. They're kids so it's not their fault but it's still not fun at all. Love this video!
I really like your eyebrows. I wish mine where that full lol
I have no idea why this was recommended in my videos, but I am so happy it was! Thank you for being such an inspiration! Your brother is such an amazing boy to help with this video!
You are so confident and inspirational, wow you go girl
lol the kid is a great actor he do it very natural
Ur so cool aw I love ur top I need it!👍
Question:if u get married could u get like a bracelet or necklace because you don’t have hands unless you got a prosthetic?
P.s hope this doesn’t offend you.
You are so pretty omg and your room is goals and your outfits always are slaying❤️
You are an AMAZING women !!! I've been watching your videos a lot and you are so full of life and so inspiring.
You taught me so many great lessons about life,, and I'm an absolute fan !
You touched my heart deep Inside, and, you make me feel so humble, respectful and so grateful for your courage and your sharing !
Kisses from France, and keep going !
Low key got second hand embarrassment watching this
Even given that you seem to be more planted in the world of athletics, as opposed to the performing arts, have you given any thought to taking a crack at your school's drama dept/program? (Assuming they have one?) You're comfortable speaking to folks, you get being "on" when doing a scene (skits), your voice itself is rich and has a mature resonance, you're obviously comfortable existing in your body (thank you athletics!), and you have a very natural charisma which is sort of a born-with-it quality. 'Course, there's only 24 hours in a day. . . . but just a thought. . .
you're so pretty and so well spoken!
I praise your strength and how you have approached it with humor. Yeah, the greeting situation would be me. What made me not view people with disabilities as being helpless was a show a long time ago that showed how people with all kinds of disabilities get around in life in the most amazing ways. They got offended when people insisted on helping them instead of just asking them if they needed or wanted help. Hope to see more. .
You’re, so beautiful like gorgeous 😍
You are really lovely! I wish you all the best, and know that whatever you do in the future you'll do it wonderfully! Have you ever thought about a future as a presenter on TV? You'd do a smash-up job of it! --Best Wishes
i love that you had your lil bro help with the skits. So cute!
I'm late to this party. Thanks for making these videos so we can learn about your experience. I can't get enough of your accent - best part by far!
The clips were awkward but also made me giggle because your brother is funny ^_^
Hi Izzy. Do you have phantom pain?
What does that mean? Don't mean to offend anyone or anything, i literally don't know
@@amberrose5919 that means you have pain in limbs that are not there. In her case that would mean pain in maybe her arms. I heard some case where someone had no leg, but his leg was itching or something.
@@drteddy2609 oh ok Thankyou!
This is a perfectly reasonable question asked out of curiosity and not disrespecting the person ❤️ I admit I also have wondered this, though it doesn’t happen to everyone.
Barry Selfon . I was reading some of the comments. the best way to explain phantom pain is the brain still thinks you have the limbs. so if there is nerve damage there. it can cause stabbing pains or very bad tingling. stuff like that. but I have heard that the more active u are it can help ease it up. but it's different for everyone. hope this helps. please don't worry about offending an amputee. if u don't know just ask. more than likely they will not mind u asking. wishing everyone a good day.. God Bless!
Hi Isabell, I just found your channel and I really like you and your videos. You are an inspiration to me and your videos have helped me with my depression. I love you boo 😍🥰🧡💗❤💗🧡🥰😍
Thank you for taking the time to make videos to educate the rest of us out here. I had no idea that amputation was a thing was for meningitis until I found your channel. I found you through one of your other videos and I thought you had been in a car crash or something like that as well until I saw your amputation story video. =/
If I did ever stare at you it would be because I’d be admiring how pretty you are! You are stunning it’s unfair ahha x
Well, these days, no one does handshakes anymore, so at least that must be slightly less awkward now! :)
I’m ex-British Army, did a long time actually, saw lots of things good and bad, saw lots of bravery, but by god you’re one courageous young woman. Much admiration. Wishing you a good New Year.X
You are truly an inspiration to everyone. Thank you for allowing us a glimpse into your life and heart. Have you ever thought of having cards made that have answers to the most frequently asked questions you get? You could give them to the unfortunate souls that were never taught proper manors like not staring at people. Hope you have a great day and remember anyone that’s posting negative garbage is jealous of your positive spirit and outlook on life and is only trying to drag you down to their level.
aha, cool vid, as always! 😄🤣
You're very pretty
Hi Isabelle, I’m so sorry that kids sometimes do that to you as I can only imagine how awful that makes you feel. You’re so beautiful and I love your videos you’re helping get through my disability.
We live in a world with no empathy or acceptance, as a kid I was scared of the unknown. Sadly education is so poor people is rude when they don’t know, as a person who has a malformation in the face I can tell people is so rude but I kinda accepted that already cuz they don’t care about the person. You are an inspiration, love you
Who the heck disliked this
Sociopaths i guess.
www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=Sociopath
Cecilia Sun jealous people because there not get sympathy
Quadruple amputees who had amputated the only thing they had left and were jealous.
this confuses me as well ,who could dislike this lol
Some people don't like vids about amputees and disliking this video doesn't make you a bad person or a sociopath
Bro you sound like Hermione Granger. I love you btw
Human soul shows its beautifulness with people like you, and in some way you teaches me not to whine about my stupid problems.
You are an inspiration you really are. I love how you even take the mickey out of yourself. You are a beautiful young lady who shines inside and out. You will do well in life.