Being a bedside nurse is only getting harder.

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  • Опубликовано: 7 дек 2022

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  • @His_ChristieRose
    @His_ChristieRose Год назад +950

    “The nurse can do everybody’s job.”
    No truer statement.

    • @bmerizier
      @bmerizier Год назад +28

      Thank you. We have to catch everybody else's mistake and get blame if we don't. Smh

    • @SharonA_14
      @SharonA_14 Год назад +7

      Exactly!!!!!! Sighhhhh**

    • @sariah2425
      @sariah2425 11 месяцев назад +14

      Not everyone’s, they seem unfamiliar with respiratory.

    • @aprilsilvers2666
      @aprilsilvers2666 10 месяцев назад +11

      It isn't true.

    • @aprilsilvers2666
      @aprilsilvers2666 10 месяцев назад

      ​@@sariah2425radiology and many more

  • @sweetolives2467
    @sweetolives2467 Год назад +687

    You are so correct. The greed, the greed, the greed. I know one thing, they all are going to burn in hell with there money. Thanks for posting.

    • @WoundedThrivers
      @WoundedThrivers Год назад +29

      Even a pot of gold won't help. The bottom line is important, but should NEVER be more important than treating patients. Greed is a horrible thing.

    • @Foxy_ladyYTSL
      @Foxy_ladyYTSL 8 месяцев назад +1

      Agreed. From a U.K. RN

    • @andoriannationalist3738
      @andoriannationalist3738 6 месяцев назад

      They don’t own the concept of “hospital”. If the community truly got organized and fed up (there’s a lot more that needs to be addressed than low staff pay-the public would be shocked), they could walk in and take the building from the corporation. “Nationalize” it. Of course, that will never happen because our gov and elites, those who own the corporations put up patsies and fake opposition, fake populists, and the ever intrusion of Dems and Repubs ruin everything.

    • @nerlyb7032
      @nerlyb7032 4 месяца назад +1

      I approve this message 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @reginamcclung4671
    @reginamcclung4671 Год назад +574

    I have been asking nurses to unionize since I started in 1991. We should be like firefighters and police officers, we do a physical, mental job like they do!! We should be able to retire after 25 years on the floor no matter our age!!! Like firefighters and police officers!!

    • @KendraRN
      @KendraRN  Год назад +82

      The west and tear on my body. I don’t know how much longer I can go on.

    • @buckeye-pe6df
      @buckeye-pe6df Год назад +34

      Nurses have other routes they can take in their career. If you don't like bedside, go find a clinic, private office, school, health center, coaching, teaching, etc..

    • @tl9585
      @tl9585 10 месяцев назад

      @@buckeye-pe6dfthis route is only available for nurses with experiences. New grads are majority pushed to work bedsides

    • @missnurseeri
      @missnurseeri 9 месяцев назад +52

      @@buckeye-pe6dfAnd that solves the problem, how?

    • @buckeye-pe6df
      @buckeye-pe6df 9 месяцев назад +9

      Your cognitive skills seem to be lacking. You complained of the job being too physical. I offered options within your field that are less physical. Your question was, " And that solves my problem how?" LOL @@missnurseeri

  • @paulsdrc
    @paulsdrc 10 месяцев назад +142

    Nurses are without a doubt the most critical people in healthcare.

  • @alicewistrand210
    @alicewistrand210 11 месяцев назад +200

    I’ve been a nurse for 52 yrs. It used to be patient focused and now only money focused. Administration used to back us, now it’s a struggle to get them to listen. Huge change in healthcare.

    • @KendraRN
      @KendraRN  11 месяцев назад +24

      They’ve taken nurses away from the bedside but increasing the amount of documentation and increasing ratios. The changes are so overwhelming and it’s causing good nurses to leave the bedside.

    • @alicewistrand210
      @alicewistrand210 11 месяцев назад +9

      @@KendraRN I loved bedside nursing and I seen an increase in what you’re saying over the years. It’s so sad.

    • @missdiagnosis2530
      @missdiagnosis2530 6 месяцев назад +7

      Imagine how patient care is affected. Nurses shouldn’t have to go through this

    • @reneec4711
      @reneec4711 6 месяцев назад +7

      Yes, a change for the worse!

    • @aloysiusdevanderabercrombi470
      @aloysiusdevanderabercrombi470 5 месяцев назад +5

      Alice and Kendra, YES. The change really seemed to happen around 2006-07, and has only gotten worse.

  • @user-mm6wc1vf9m
    @user-mm6wc1vf9m 10 месяцев назад +185

    I’m a new Rn and worked as a medsurg nurse for one year after I graduated college. It was the hardest thing I’ve ever done. I felt overwhelmed, exhausted and overloaded with work. It seemed we were always short staffed and had to compensate even when it felt unsafe. I lived daily in fear of messing up. I quit after one year to have my baby and have been off work 1.5 years since. I honestly have no desire to go back because of the lack of support from upper management. I though it was just bc I was new to the field that I felt this way so it’s refreshing to hear veteran nurses feel the same.

    • @nana121fly
      @nana121fly 9 месяцев назад +17

      There are many other opportunities you can choose from besides bedside. Home health, clinic, ASC, school nurse etc. I wish you the best.

    • @doremifasolatido-ro7zs
      @doremifasolatido-ro7zs 9 месяцев назад +1

      Which one is a harder place to work as a brand new nurse? LTC or med surg?

    • @bhnurse16
      @bhnurse16 8 месяцев назад +3

      ​@doremifasolatido-ro7zs When I graduated in 2016, it felt like no one was hiring new grads (unless you were accepted in the hospitals' residency programs) so I took a position in LTC. My unit felt like a chaotic hospital but with more patients..I gained a lot of skills, but it was incredibly stressful and I burned out. I lasted 2 years at that facility but I'm grateful for what I learned.

    • @godivagirl227
      @godivagirl227 7 месяцев назад +4

      ​@@nana121flyAlso Dialysis

    • @enumajek1764
      @enumajek1764 6 месяцев назад +2

      Insurance companies and law firms also use nurses knowledge. Look into those too...

  • @CM-zh2hr
    @CM-zh2hr Год назад +195

    Been a bedside nurse for 18 years and it's definitely getting harder and harder to be a compassionate nurse........ I am not sure what is going to take but whatever it is it needs to happen asap before majority of the nurses leave bedside. I am holding on hoping 2023 is going to be better..... it's sad when your job causes you anxiety & insomnia all at the same time

    • @WoundedThrivers
      @WoundedThrivers Год назад +8

      Curious, does your hospital, if you or others are in the hospital setting) grade your supervisors? That was required when I was able to work. I was graded and thankfully, I always made a 5, (1-5). All it takes is a manager or director to care about you, so you can care for others. I didn't do anything outstanding but only watched. I could tell when someone was struggling. Beating them to buy their Diet Coke before 3pm, changed their spirits - a simple deed, but we all won. I have an issue with how yearly evals are done. If you are not asked what you need, what will help you do your job better, etc... then someone needs training. Yearly evals are pushed off as if they hate to deal with it. But so much can be productive if used in a good way. Evaluations aren't a bad thing, it's an excellent way to know your staff and to have an idea of personal problems they are facing. We are then aware this nurse/employee might need some time off and we are prepared. We check on them, we treat them as humans just like we want them to treat the patients. I believe every manager up to the CEO should be evaluated by their staff every year! It helps us be better - and we don't have to take it personally, but as a way of growth. I have always said, The staff is a reflection on the management. I wonder how right that is with nurses these days?

    • @WoundedThrivers
      @WoundedThrivers Год назад +1

      Kendra… I’ve been asked to write something and I think you and your colleagues can help me be more realistic. “Why causes Doc/Nurse” burnout? Don’t laugh… some aren’t aware. Doctors want to know. From both sides…. I say #1 is Staff. Staff helps or hurts be efficient and causes less mistakes. Any others have input? If you want to ask this yourself.. great. If I take the answers, how do I give you credit and keep confidentiality?
      I’m serious… the question is WHY ARE DOCS/PROFESSIONALS leaving?
      This would be interesting to start a subject as patients who understand can ease the stress. Working together is healthy! For any who don’t believe Kendra, others on here or the importance of patient edu…. The 3rd leading cause of death is medical errors. Patients can not leave it to the staff. I educate patients… intimidation should never be a factor.
      I will be glad to give info on myself. In a safe place.
      Hang on!!💕

    • @jimb3093
      @jimb3093 3 месяца назад

      Here we are one year later.

  • @ruthannemackinnon588
    @ruthannemackinnon588 10 месяцев назад +87

    Ive been an RN 30 yrs, bedside nurse for 15 then became an NP. They are both hell & I regret ever becoming a nurse. Left 3 yrs ago, have let both licences lapse. No. More.

    • @KendraRN
      @KendraRN  10 месяцев назад +30

      I’ve heard that from other RNs who became NPs. I don’t intend to practice medicine. I want to go to wellness/beauty industry.

    • @pee5946
      @pee5946 7 месяцев назад +5

      @@Foxy_ladyYTSL can you please share with us where you find your self in now?

    • @Foxy_ladyYTSL
      @Foxy_ladyYTSL 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@pee5946 why?

    • @pee5946
      @pee5946 7 месяцев назад +3

      @@Foxy_ladyYTSL I also want to transition from nursing. That’s why I asked. But don’t bother if you feel like sharing. 👍🏻

    • @chrysoberieo7018
      @chrysoberieo7018 6 месяцев назад +1

      Naaa!… you are probably retired. No one is going to take what you said literally. A little deceiving, but good luck on your retirement. You don’t need your come back.
      The new nurses will do what we gotta do till then✌️

  • @esthersbucketlist
    @esthersbucketlist 9 месяцев назад +111

    I force myself everyday to go to work, I’m drained, nothings left inside of me, even when I take leave I don’t want to back😢

    • @enumajek1764
      @enumajek1764 6 месяцев назад +5

      Your nursing knowledge is very valid. Just don't do direct bedside care. There are different opportunities you can still pursue in different industries with your knowledge...

    • @devilmaycry9969
      @devilmaycry9969 6 месяцев назад +6

      As someone who has experienced nurse suicide go through the roof the past few years I urge you to quite. You come first.

    • @Kamaya-gn8pf
      @Kamaya-gn8pf 4 месяца назад +1

      I feel you.❤😢

    • @faithivyne2268
      @faithivyne2268 4 месяца назад +5

      No nurse on earth should ever feel like this... It's unfortunate but I'm sending love your way. You have given so much of it to your patients, may it come back to you in many ways even to your family. GOD bless you ❤❤

    • @Jingleball7734
      @Jingleball7734 3 месяца назад +1

      I feel like this at a warehouse. Just accept it & Get over it . That's what I'm told

  • @user-kp6we9qw7i
    @user-kp6we9qw7i 4 месяца назад +29

    100% true. As an RN in the hospital I have plunged toilets. I’ve cleaned rooms when a new patient is about to show up because housekeeping is unavailable. I’ve sat on hold with dietary for 30 minutes or more trying to order a patient their food because it was never delivered. I’ve walked to the cafeteria to get patients their food when it has not shown up after repeated calls. I’ve grabbed a cart and went to the basement of the hospital until I found the room the linen is stored in and stocked it with all kinds of linen and took it back and delivered it to my unit. I’ve regularly taken out trash, mopped & cleaned floors. I’ve spent my time searching through cabinets to find toilet paper because there’s none in the staff bathroom even though I’ve called repeatedly to request to be delivered. I’ve restocked soap and hand sanitizer dispensers because the ones assigned to do it have not done it. I’ve transported patients to and from everywhere in the hospital because transport is not available. I’ve completed numerous tasks that should only be completed by the respiratory therapist because they are unavailable due to also being short staffed. I’ve climbed on tables and chairs to fix clocks and TVs on the wall. During the time change, I’ve had to climb to the clock on the wall, and manually change the time myself because it’s not “maintenance’s job”. I’ve been talked down to because I’m unrealistically expected to know every aspect of the patient’s history and current condition. I could go on and on…

    • @BellaMushrooms-wy5zr
      @BellaMushrooms-wy5zr 2 месяца назад

      Yeah dietary is a mess, the hospital I was at some of them were toking up in the bathroom and eating the patients food

    • @missb1982
      @missb1982 Месяц назад +2

      Yesssss. All of this and more.

    • @MultiAnne36
      @MultiAnne36 Месяц назад +1

      We have all been there. I leave my Nursing station clean but
      I have to draw the line somewhere or I just can't do this job anymore. The Nurse on the hall next to me plunged a toilet last night and I won't do it. We are taken advantage of. I work in a 24/7 facility and housekeeping is there for 12 hours a day.

  • @lisagardner903
    @lisagardner903 10 месяцев назад +55

    I retired a few years ago but when I was an ICU nurse I had to take out my trash, be the monitor tech, and they got rid of the CNA's. It was almost impossible to do your job while having compassion and time to spend with the patient. I had PTSD for a few months after retiring from nursing. I pray for all my fellow nurses and the hardships you are going through.

  • @nestlee1987
    @nestlee1987 Год назад +72

    Hello Kendra,
    I am glad I found your channel! I'm a retired RN who feels exactly the way you are feeling. You are speaking my words and the concern I felt.
    I started in 1979, worked full time until I went PRN in 2019. Retired in 2020. It was not easy but I had to perservere with God leading the way!
    With The Good Lord on your side you will endure. I know I absolutely could not have done it without Him!🙏🏽🙌🏾👏🏾👍🏽

    • @LaniWahine4
      @LaniWahine4 8 месяцев назад +2

      I needed to hear this. Thank you! Thank you for your service, enjoy retirement 🎊

    • @jesuslove8282
      @jesuslove8282 7 месяцев назад +3

      Amen🙏🏽🙏🏽 Jesus is the Only One who can keep us🤍

    • @nestlee1987
      @nestlee1987 7 месяцев назад

      @LaniWahine4 Thank you and you're welcome dear 🤗

    • @nestlee1987
      @nestlee1987 7 месяцев назад

      @@jesuslove8282 Praise God from Whom all blessings flow. Ask and He will lead and guide you! 🙌🏾🙏🏽👏🏾

  • @jaysteven8135
    @jaysteven8135 Год назад +68

    This is true , I think many many nurses are going to quit more now because the job now isn’t worth it anymore it’s too stressful

    • @Kamaya-gn8pf
      @Kamaya-gn8pf 4 месяца назад +2

      The system has to break before it can be rebuilt

  • @tiffany1268
    @tiffany1268 8 месяцев назад +34

    I walked away from the bedside after 16.5 years 3 weeks ago. No notice. I’m done. Its a terrifying feeling to be facing a career change at 41 but I can’t do it anymore.

    • @PEACE_REAPER
      @PEACE_REAPER 5 месяцев назад +1

      You got this. Keep up the great fight. Rough seas make a tough sailor. Land is on the horizon

    • @tiffany1268
      @tiffany1268 5 месяцев назад +4

      @@PEACE_REAPER just started a job in Case Management and it’s already so much better than bedside! Definitely a different world and a huge learning curve but so worth it to not be at the bedside anymore.

    • @PEACE_REAPER
      @PEACE_REAPER 5 месяцев назад +1

      @tiffany1268 That's awesome! Glad to hear that progress is being made. I'm figuring out if nursing would be a good career field for me or if I should go back to truck driving. I have a passion for both fields but I just need to figure out if it'll do me well to expand myself in the medical field.

    • @tiffany1268
      @tiffany1268 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@PEACE_REAPER the only advice I can offer if you choose nursing is to make sure you 100% have the heart for it and it is truly a calling bc bedside is HARD!! There’s a lot of others areas of nursing to explore though so you would have a lot of doors open for you! Good luck with whatever you decide to do…I’m sure you’ll do great!

    • @Kamaya-gn8pf
      @Kamaya-gn8pf 4 месяца назад +1

      You've got this I believe in you 💯❤

  • @MommaNurse
    @MommaNurse Год назад +66

    Well said Kendra. I’ve been a nurse for 8 years and things have definitely changed.

  • @alaskayoung3413
    @alaskayoung3413 Год назад +64

    I just made the decision to leave. Er icu is all I’ve ever done my whole adult life. But it has got soooo bad I can’t take it one more day. It’s like being hand cuffed to a bowling ball and thrown in the ocean… and then written up for drowning 😂

    • @KendraRN
      @KendraRN  Год назад +2

      Good decision. When you’ve reached that point, it’s time to separate. What are you doing in the meantime?

    • @alaskayoung3413
      @alaskayoung3413 Год назад +25

      @@KendraRN finishing out my notice right now. Not sure what I’m going to do. Might take a break from healthcare for awhile or might just take a easier gig like doctors office nurse or something.
      18 years paramedic, flight medic, er nurse, and now icu rn…. So not sure what to do. No family or huge bills so not in any big bind. Just my health is biggest priority. Bc I’m young. Started on ambulance at 18 years old.

    • @squidleyskidley
      @squidleyskidley 8 месяцев назад

      @@alaskayoung3413I’m a nurse at a FQHC primary care/urgent care office and it is amazing!! Way less stressful and more time with patients

  • @YoureInsane
    @YoureInsane Год назад +73

    I'm going into education with my degree and not in America. The healthcare system here is ridiculous and I feel like absolute shit when I can't advocate for my patients like I AM CALLED TO DO! There is no longer a chain of command that gives a damn about resolving issues. There is no accountability

    • @sweett8725
      @sweett8725 8 месяцев назад +6

      It’s all about gettin butts in beds and getting paid.

    • @Ggsodapop
      @Ggsodapop 2 месяца назад

      Education in another country? Where?? 😮

    • @Roquea.207
      @Roquea.207 Месяц назад

      This is wasteland yes

  • @Nicole-ck9ss
    @Nicole-ck9ss 10 месяцев назад +33

    I wholeheartedly agree. I reported a leader for bullying then my direct manager bullied me then my director and CNO defended her. Now I am being told they want me to resign my leadership role, move to a different department, or take a severance package. The upper administration needs to change or this will get worse. My issue right now is I am burned out and don’t even want to be a nurse anymore. My family doesn’t understand because to them I make good money.

    • @Foxy_ladyYTSL
      @Foxy_ladyYTSL 8 месяцев назад +8

      I got out of nursing. I can’t stand the culture anymore. It’s not a role that’s respected anymore. We’re used and abused.

    • @aloysiusdevanderabercrombi470
      @aloysiusdevanderabercrombi470 5 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@Foxy_ladyYTSLAmen!!!!

    • @Kamaya-gn8pf
      @Kamaya-gn8pf 4 месяца назад

      They're stressed too. Today walking into my job at an assisted living, I see a woman walking out who I recognize and vice versa. We talk, she was my former boss at another facility . She fired me during covid for non compliance. Valid. I hated her for years. But we talked. And hugged. I forgave her today. Now I'm crying. Thank you RUclips.

  • @j3marti515
    @j3marti515 11 месяцев назад +37

    I don’t recommend anyone getting into nursing this day and age. It’s a toxic culture with more and more stress put on nurses.
    We know how to do everyone else’s job, no one knows how to do ours.
    We supposedly have one voice: the ANA, yet there has been no supportive push back or stances from them to stop the corporate greed.
    Very disappointed with the career choice I made years ago.

    • @esthersbucketlist
      @esthersbucketlist 9 месяцев назад +6

      I won’t even advise my worst enemy to go into nursing, it’s toxic

    • @aloysiusdevanderabercrombi470
      @aloysiusdevanderabercrombi470 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@esthersbucketlistAbsolutely. I couldn't agree more!

    • @aubreywhite8008
      @aubreywhite8008 4 месяца назад +1

      Yikes I just paid for CNA classes and I start in October 👁️👄👁️

    • @royaljester9918
      @royaljester9918 4 месяца назад

      ​@@aubreywhite8008 I just registered for CNA and I start in the summer! Idk, I may cancel my course.

  • @TheMaleNurse777
    @TheMaleNurse777 Год назад +21

    Most of my colleagues have left bedside care for management, NP, mobile clinics, specialty clinics. Less work , same or more pay. Gotta work less and make more. Work smarter not harder to earn your cash

  • @jesuslove8282
    @jesuslove8282 8 месяцев назад +21

    I’ve been a nurse for several years now and I’ve noticed that more unprofessional In attitude and work ethic people are joining the field. They are not joining because of empathy and compassion, but for the money ONLY, and those type of people make a caring nurse’s job HARDER😭😭😭

    • @LaniWahine4
      @LaniWahine4 8 месяцев назад +4

      I see it everyday at my job. It’s sad

    • @july3817
      @july3817 8 месяцев назад +5

      Where I live there are just not enough people applying so they kinda have to take everyone that they can get including the people with this attitude. It really sucks.

    • @nmc1859
      @nmc1859 7 месяцев назад +5

      As a nursing instructor, I notice this

    • @aloysiusdevanderabercrombi470
      @aloysiusdevanderabercrombi470 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@july3817They take anything with a pulse!

  • @MobileHomeGeek
    @MobileHomeGeek Год назад +14

    Been bedside nurse for about 7 years!! Totally burned out 😪

    • @KendraRN
      @KendraRN  Год назад +4

      It’s because nursing is getting harder and we barely have help.

  • @Breeology_
    @Breeology_ Год назад +22

    I really want to become a nurse .. I wrote it down in my journal, thought about it, and was super confident about it .. up until I started doing my research 😩 now idk what I want to do .. I even thought about becoming a cardiovascular technologist ! Maybe it’s my lack of confidence 🤷🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ But I’m praying for you 💜.. I’m tired of seeing nurses overworked & physically worn out ! Hopefully things change

    • @KendraRN
      @KendraRN  Год назад +21

      If you want to be a nurse, go for it. There is so much you can do with a nursing degree. Don’t be discouraged at all.

    • @Breeology_
      @Breeology_ Год назад +28

      @@KendraRN Update .. I just signed up for nursing school ! I’m not letting fear run my life! I got this .. thanks for the motivation 💜🙏🏾

    • @vsteele1672
      @vsteele1672 Год назад +4

      ​@@Breeology_ exactly don't let these hardships ruin your dreams, if you really want it go for it, at the end of the day it's all about caring for patients in their worst times.

    • @dangdeionn
      @dangdeionn 9 месяцев назад +2

      Same I just got accepted and idk it’s just so toxic

    • @maggien222
      @maggien222 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@dangdeionnAm still scared…

  • @RubenNurse
    @RubenNurse Год назад +21

    I hear you. Been a nurse for 20 plus years at a hospital and things are just getting rougher by the year. I totally agree with you.

    • @LaniWahine4
      @LaniWahine4 8 месяцев назад +2

      I’m about to enter the CNA program, I hope things get better. Some of these comments make me worry and second guess my decision

    • @RubenNurse
      @RubenNurse 8 месяцев назад +3

      @@LaniWahine4I’m so sorry. As nurses we are just trying to spread awareness and this is just the reality of how things are especially post COVID. Continue your CNA program. Remember every profession will have there ups and downs no matter where you work. What you can do is visit local hospitals or places you would like to work at and get a feel of how the work environment is. Best of luck 🫶🙏🙌

    • @aloysiusdevanderabercrombi470
      @aloysiusdevanderabercrombi470 5 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@LaniWahine4CNA is deep enough. It's worse than it used to be too. Leave yourself room to change directions and don't get beholden to the idea of staying in healthcare.

    • @aloysiusdevanderabercrombi470
      @aloysiusdevanderabercrombi470 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@RubenNurseIt's not just post COVID though.

  • @mb22256
    @mb22256 10 месяцев назад +12

    Nurses and EVS need to unionize. EVS worker here. We are suffering too and see the devastation with unsafe nurse to patient ratio. I feel for yall. I finally spoke up about coworkers lack of care when it comes to how the rooms are being cleaned. I was met with excuses. Its disgusting how these managers really dont care. Good luck to us all.

    • @Sammy-lh5wu
      @Sammy-lh5wu 6 месяцев назад

      I apologize for my ignorance, but what is EVS?

    • @belindamiller6349
      @belindamiller6349 5 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@Sammy-lh5wuenvironmental...they care for the rooms..the house...and to the EVS worker thank you! I'm friends with many and we work as a team in the ER..

  • @taygray6424
    @taygray6424 6 месяцев назад +7

    I left the hospital because of greed from management. It was no longer about how to take care of the patients, but all about how to save/make more money

  • @knice2511
    @knice2511 Год назад +19

    Very true. I'm looking for something else. The stress is too much. Especially the issues with corporate greed.

  • @malcolmjelani3588
    @malcolmjelani3588 10 месяцев назад +17

    I do not recommend anyone go into nursing. Let the shortage get worse so ppl suffer and realize the importance of unions and legislation that will protect them and their families when they are at the mercy of the healthcare system.

  • @catherinemaonyango7806
    @catherinemaonyango7806 9 месяцев назад +6

    I've been a nurse for 19yrs and the joy in it for me is threatened by...you said it, corporate policies that cut such serious corners and I find myself "tasking" which is not what I loved about my choice to be a nurse. Infact I left banking precisely to do something with a sense of purpose and I knew nursing was it.
    Everyone is so stressed at the bedside...going about it with pride is so difficult by precisely what you've said. NURSES CAN DO IT ALL.🙆🏾‍♀️

    • @Foxy_ladyYTSL
      @Foxy_ladyYTSL 8 месяцев назад +1

      RNs can do it all...but in time the culture will pull you apart. Look after yourself xx

    • @aloysiusdevanderabercrombi470
      @aloysiusdevanderabercrombi470 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@Foxy_ladyYTSLAll nurses...some of the best nurses I've known are LPNs.

  • @ephemeratea
    @ephemeratea 4 месяца назад +5

    I left bedside a year ago. I feel some guilt, but it was literally physically killing me (I ended up hospitalized barely a month after leaving bedside). I work in case management now, and while I know I’m losing some of my skills - I was never great at IV insertions to begin with, but even the attempt now would be a stupid idea - my blood pressure and heart rate are normal again and I have the downtime I need for self-care. Kudos and much love to those who stay at the bedside. You’re braver and more resilient than me.

    • @KendraRN
      @KendraRN  4 месяца назад

      The bedside isn’t easy and is getting worse.

  • @effiab4093
    @effiab4093 8 месяцев назад +12

    You are absolutely right. I have been a nurse for 5 and half years and I’m really regretting the decision. Our hospital don’t even have a nurse aid and we have to also do the ADLs of pt. I am 31 and wanting to start a family so bad but the work load in the hospital make me stressed to even start a family. Im doing nights right now and taking toll in my body m.

  • @nikkibolden7411
    @nikkibolden7411 Месяц назад +4

    Facts! I left the bedside and went to home health and never looked back

    • @KendraRN
      @KendraRN  Месяц назад +2

      Girl, I wish I could, the Oasis was killing me.

  • @mommabear4410
    @mommabear4410 9 месяцев назад +5

    I work in the health care field. I am not a nurse, but after taking care of my mother in home 24/7 with my brother I couldn’t agree more with you. It is the greatest blessing, but taxing on the body. I also could not agree with you more when I hear you say how it has changed over the last few years. Hospital administrators and all the Covid restrictions caused us to lose incredible staff at our hospital. It was due in part to the Booster requirements and it is ridiculous. I have the utmost respect for all nurses and how hard they work. God bless you and God bless all nurses. We need you. Keep speaking out. 🙏

    • @KendraRN
      @KendraRN  9 месяцев назад

      Caregivers need support. I’m glad your mom can be at home receiving care. Stay well ❤️

  • @kimberlysmith6670
    @kimberlysmith6670 8 месяцев назад +4

    32 years at the bedside! You speak my heart! Seen every thing you can imagine! Worked every department! Seen it done it! Never got back up! I’ll pray for you!

  • @marquesn77
    @marquesn77 7 месяцев назад +7

    Girl, spot on. I think one day the healthcare system is gonna be in trouble when all of us up and quit

  • @LovelyCeee
    @LovelyCeee 9 месяцев назад +7

    I agree. I’m so sick and tired of working bedside. Ugh!!

  • @stylzebydottie
    @stylzebydottie 10 месяцев назад +11

    I totally agree ! With you! As a new nurse it’s scary!

  • @HeatherBDentureDiVa
    @HeatherBDentureDiVa 9 месяцев назад +7

    100% agree! The most on point statement I ever heard. In my area my most favorite nurses and my most favorite doctors who are compassionate and you just want to help people and take care of them and they end up leaving my healthcare facility you know what they all said because of the people who run the facility is so greedy and they don't let you help the patient that they're going to a place that actually allows it and does it so they go to the bigger places.

  • @user-py6bz2bf3u
    @user-py6bz2bf3u 3 месяца назад +3

    As a nurse for over 25 years, I agree with this message!”

  • @sandrafortune2399
    @sandrafortune2399 10 месяцев назад +10

    So true! You said it CORPORATE GREED!

  • @leilaniz5909
    @leilaniz5909 10 месяцев назад +4

    Hospitals are getting more and more administrators (4 year business degree tools) who get paid more than all the doctors combined. Same with education systems getting extra admins who get paid more than all the teachers.

  • @TheCatholicQuilter
    @TheCatholicQuilter 8 месяцев назад +4

    I switched over to hospice (non profit company) and I’ve never been happier. I wish I could have made the move a long time ago. They actually have compassion for the pts and the staff. Not to mention working as a TDT is much better than in a hierarchical setting.

  • @user-mb4ig1bq5p
    @user-mb4ig1bq5p 6 месяцев назад +5

    Scary. If me or my loved ones cannot get the care they need because Nurses cannot do their jobs then that is HORRIFYING. This effects EVERYONE. Everyone will be a patient in their lifetime!

  • @laylamar1120
    @laylamar1120 10 месяцев назад +6

    Girl I have been a nurse since 2013. It is getting ROUGHHHHH. BURNOUT is real. It's getting hard to imagine myself doing this for much longer. If it is like this now, what will it be a few years from now. It is heartbreaking and sad.

  • @jackiejones5037
    @jackiejones5037 Год назад +8

    You are speaking my words!!! I say this all the time!!!

  • @loricagardener4826
    @loricagardener4826 11 месяцев назад +6

    I did 23 years then got my career ended through a patient assault. Nobody works harder than nurses!!

    • @belindamiller6349
      @belindamiller6349 5 месяцев назад

      And what could YOU have done differently? Hmph...what a farce. I hope you found your happy place.

  • @fromcnatonp
    @fromcnatonp Год назад +17

    Girl ain’t this the truth! ❤

  • @johndoe-wv3nu
    @johndoe-wv3nu 7 месяцев назад +5

    I worked in a hospital for 8 months. NEVER again. That was horrible. Won't even consider LTC even though i enjoy working with elderly people. Considering doing something else. Graduated in 2022 and already burned out.

    • @SherCC
      @SherCC 5 месяцев назад

      lol, Ltc is nursing homeX100 with nightmare, just need to stay away, consider somewhere like ICU since you already have critical experience

  • @bettyred
    @bettyred 10 месяцев назад +3

    This is very true. Not only in the hospital but in the ambulatory setting as well.

  • @Moofydakidd
    @Moofydakidd 9 месяцев назад +7

    This is wholesome, I can back this up 100%. Ne? My last few weeks as a nurse, transitioning into computer science

    • @harrypotter7854
      @harrypotter7854 4 дня назад

      Hi i am also opting for cs n do you think its worth it?

  • @CrayCrayRaeRae
    @CrayCrayRaeRae 9 месяцев назад +6

    I agree! Things have changed so much. I am genuinely very unhappy and dread going to work. I will be leaving next year but something needs to happen or there will be a critical shortage soon!

  • @allhailjesuschrist5753
    @allhailjesuschrist5753 Год назад +14

    so true. What is the future of nursing ? Maybe robotics/IT will take over? coorprate greed is a shame

    • @KendraRN
      @KendraRN  Год назад +10

      Maybe! Nurses are not staying at the bedside. It’s too hard.

    • @sabias3932
      @sabias3932 Год назад +10

      Probably foreign nurses tbh. People from certain countries are simply more acclimated to horrible work conditions and sending the money back home means a huge jump in quality of life for family.

  • @adennega556
    @adennega556 3 месяца назад +2

    I left bedside as a new grad recently for a really close knit patient focused clinic and I don’t see myself going back to bedside

  • @fidelisetverus
    @fidelisetverus Год назад +4

    As much as I hate the "Unions", I firmly believe that nurses should have Nurses Union because of the simple fact of what you've stated here in your short vid. I've been an ICU RN for 26 yrs, imcu for 6yrs, and now work in an post surgery Observation Unit for 5yrs. To think that I could retire from this unit was great, during first year. Then covid happened and our unit is the only unit that is well staffed so upper management made us a secondary resource pool unit.
    What used to be every 3rd month of getting pulled, it's literally every week 1 - 2 days shift and night shift RNs get floated to the point where we're all stressed out. Getting floated to a unit where you're given the worst group of patients and rarely see an NCP/NA throughout your 12hr shift! One of our older nurse had a melt down when she came in and found out it was her turn to float! That was one very stressful day! And the gull of the Mgr from the receiving unit called and sounded angry because our nurse hadn't shown up to her floor! Had I answered that phone call, as I was night charge nurse, the conversation exchanged would've been very different between her and I. I'm so tired of nurses being used as a pawn and abused! As much as I would like to return to ICU nursing, I'm thinking of doing something else like specialty clinics. Let the board of directors take care of the patients and see how far they can go or what they can do!

    • @KendraRN
      @KendraRN  Год назад +1

      I’ve recently stepped away from the bedside, I’m trying my hand at mental health, not the really acute level. I needed a break from everything you mentioned above.

    • @belindamiller6349
      @belindamiller6349 5 месяцев назад

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @NurseNessey
    @NurseNessey Месяц назад +3

    PLEASE TELL ME YOU WILL SEE THIS! I 👏🏾 AM 👏🏾 TIRED 👏🏾 I’m going into mental health to become a therapist, possibly a psychiatrist because healthcare is too much!!! No human being should be expected to work under the conditions given!!! They should all have psychological resources dedicated to that field because the amount of bullying and narcissistic personalities running rampant in that field is crazy!

    • @NurseNessey
      @NurseNessey Месяц назад +1

      Let’s not forget the lawsuits girl that come with the stress on being attacked my family, management, Corperate, and co-workers! There isn’t going to be enough jobs to NOT doing bedside for everyone to graduate and do non bedside nursing. I get so agitated when it comes to going back to further my education in the field, but that only means more stress. However, when i think about therapy, i feel peace, i think i know where I need to go.

  • @amberspeacefulplace5803
    @amberspeacefulplace5803 Год назад +4

    She's speaking truth ❤️🎯💯 to me the nurses are the real superheroes. And this is not right!

  • @youkendehunique6317
    @youkendehunique6317 9 месяцев назад +3

    I’ve been a nurse a little over one year and I can’t handle the bedside at all. I’ve decided it’s just not for me.

    • @KendraRN
      @KendraRN  9 месяцев назад +1

      I’ve had nursing students who graduated and never took a hospital job. It is okay, you can do research, mental health outpatient clinics, etc

  • @divaprettyakakapequeen9438
    @divaprettyakakapequeen9438 7 месяцев назад +2

    Yep, left beside after many years! You’re absolutely correct 👍🏿

  • @mariejackson1988
    @mariejackson1988 Год назад +6

    ❤ thank you for your message, 100% true.

  • @MK-tl1ox
    @MK-tl1ox Месяц назад +2

    There are soo many avenues for nurses to reinvent themselves nowadays.

  • @DrewWalton
    @DrewWalton 10 месяцев назад +2

    Having had many serious medical issues over the last few years resulting in an obscene number of hospital stays, I just want to say that despite the grotesque level of corporate greed going on, y'all are so so so so appreciated by patients like myself.
    Hospital stays (especially long ones) are never fun, but y'all make it so much more bearable.

  • @fatimarobles7114
    @fatimarobles7114 22 дня назад

    I’m a nursing student atm and it’s HARD there’s days where I feel so incompetent, please share some motivational advice!!

  • @linc7864
    @linc7864 6 месяцев назад +4

    Yes Kendra. You are so right. It's crazy. Politics play alot and nurses tend to suffer. Just like Board of ed teachers. We are all burned out

  • @larissag2218
    @larissag2218 7 месяцев назад +1

    I am currently working on my NP hoping to do more clinical work. I started nursing in the early 90s and it has changed so much. Thank you for doing these videos and being the voice of so many very exhausted and frustrated nurses. ❤

    • @KendraRN
      @KendraRN  7 месяцев назад

      Thank you, I am trying.

  • @pecopicante4167
    @pecopicante4167 7 месяцев назад +2

    I'm in the ER all the time (two rare autoimmunes and no way to stabilize it as of yet) I never give my nurses a hard time unless I'm physically having a siezure or POTS is freaking out. There's not enough staffing and there us not enough emotional and mental support for what they can/have go or gone through. They need more help.

  • @julievoelkel7813
    @julievoelkel7813 8 месяцев назад +1

    100% and this is one of the many reasons why I changed my major to a different career and I'm not a even a nurse! I would've up been, but decided to get out while I still can! I've been a CNA in healthcare for way top and decided for my mental health that I didn't want to pursue it anymore. Never looked back!

  • @rebeccarodgers9366
    @rebeccarodgers9366 9 месяцев назад +1

    When Im in the hospital Im always so appreciative to all the nurses I have ... I try not to ask for anything ... I know a lot of the nurses at the hospital I go to ... I've had them tell me when they see my name on the list they fight over who takes care of me cause they know I won't be difficult and I'm quiet ...

    • @july3817
      @july3817 8 месяцев назад

      Same! I was in the hospital twice this year and I tried to be as independent as possible. Luckily my dad is a nurse too so we didn’t have to bother the hospital nurses for every little thing. I had such wonderful nurses and I deeply appreciated everything they did.

  • @Lizbeth36961
    @Lizbeth36961 Месяц назад +1

    Kendra, my respect for you. I’m not a nurse but I can imagine how hard this job along with other jobs can be. Thank you for sharing your experience. ❤

    • @KendraRN
      @KendraRN  Месяц назад

      Thank you so much!

  • @iinicholas2682
    @iinicholas2682 5 месяцев назад +1

    This post is so accurate....it's not the same nursing anymore - it's a business

  • @hansmueller3029
    @hansmueller3029 9 месяцев назад +2

    It's a vocation. I think you truly have to be called to do this. Most of us will see more nurses from the time we are born until the time we pass away than any other stranger that will do anyrhing for us. Think of that. This young lady will impact thousands of lives in her career.
    I praise God there are young people that will answer the call to care for us, doing everything needed to heal us and make us comfortable. They save our lives.

  • @ancientaquarius1310
    @ancientaquarius1310 Год назад +14

    I am tapping out after 20 years at the bedside. One more contract and I am out!

    • @agathahofmann6977
      @agathahofmann6977 Год назад +1

      me too! 🥳
      ICU nurse, the Netherlands

    • @KendraRN
      @KendraRN  Год назад

      20 years!!! That’s a long time, what are you plans after.

    • @ancientaquarius1310
      @ancientaquarius1310 Год назад +6

      @@KendraRN I am almost done with my MBA . May open a CNA or PCA school after I graduate.

  • @annfears1724
    @annfears1724 Год назад +6

    I enjoy watching the videos, thanks 😊

  • @miagnagey
    @miagnagey 9 месяцев назад +2

    Girl, you hit the nail on the head!!!!

  • @Friday779
    @Friday779 7 месяцев назад +2

    Those administrators may have to put some scrubs on. They will learn one day watch.

  • @Jupe367
    @Jupe367 4 месяца назад

    I always have respect for nurses. They work so hard and have compassion for their patients.

  • @klove8024
    @klove8024 5 месяцев назад

    I couldn't express it more accurately. I'm glad to have discovered your channel. It's refreshing to connect with someone who is going through similar challenges as me. I frequently experience societal judgment for harboring these emotions, and your transparency not only reinforces my perspective but also provides a sense of validation and understanding.

  • @raphaelleyva1945
    @raphaelleyva1945 Год назад +11

    It’s not going to get better Kendra. Save yourself, they will grind your bones until there’s nothing left.
    YOU KNOW THIS

    • @KendraRN
      @KendraRN  Год назад +2

      I believe you.

    • @Foxy_ladyYTSL
      @Foxy_ladyYTSL 8 месяцев назад +2

      Agreed . I’m a long term RN in the uk NHS. I e just left my role to start a new non nursing role. Best decision ever. I hope you find something else and in the meantime look after yourself. X great video Kendra x 🇬🇧 RN

  • @sweetcaramelsmile
    @sweetcaramelsmile 7 месяцев назад +1

    That dang C-suite!!!! Can’t see past the desks they sit at and the spreadsheet they read!!

  • @BetterMe981
    @BetterMe981 11 месяцев назад +2

    I wish you could/would go to Congress and blast this whole thing out. It’s absolutely disgusting and ridiculous that you have to go through such hell to care for people.

    • @belindamiller6349
      @belindamiller6349 5 месяцев назад

      There was PA nursing march a little while back...nothing happened...they even pay off the local.news to not report!

  • @NPhilome
    @NPhilome 6 месяцев назад +5

    Can we start talking about the disrespect and violence from patients ?!?!?!?!

  • @AlanaGreene
    @AlanaGreene Месяц назад

    New nurse here! Would love a video detailing how you’ve seen it change… I was an aide 10 years before getting my LPN in June 2023 and I’m simply…. Disturbed. And fearful for the future! The only people who can handle it are the bad nurses…. If you care you get attacked and hated on. People wouldn’t be out here playin w they karma if they really knew how healthcare is today! Prayers for your protection and strength sister 💜

  • @wendynorris9435
    @wendynorris9435 Месяц назад

    Thank you for speaking up. I e been a bedside nurse for 26 years and I’m at the end of my rope. This cannot keep going this way, we are breaking apart !!

  • @orion7412
    @orion7412 7 месяцев назад +2

    Decrease upper management, clinical educators and clinical researchers with A.I increase funding to bedside nurses.

  • @BillySpain888
    @BillySpain888 3 месяца назад

    I was on life support for 3 months I wanna thank you for the job you do. I know how hard you work. The physical energy needed to do your job is nothing compared to the mental energy. Some people don't acknowledge that but I want you to know I do and I tell everyone when speaking about what happened to me. God bless you. Keep it up we need you. I think about the 2 nurses that were genuinely kind and loving to me literally everyday and it's been a year now. When my sister told me that the one nurse was with me the whole time I was in a coma I cried like a baby. She nursed me back to life for 5 months. 3 of them I was unconscious. I will forever love her with a love I have never had for anyone.

  • @Christiansstillstruggle
    @Christiansstillstruggle 11 месяцев назад +1

    I respect and love yall sooooooo much ❤ Thank you for ... just everything you do!! Words cant even begin to describe how needed nurses are in the world right now 😊 very little even make it out of college in the first place with a bachelor's. What you guys do on the day to day is NOT EASY and for that I yall all the respect in the world.

  • @evilguy6000
    @evilguy6000 6 месяцев назад

    I am a regular patient at hospitals due to my chronic illness. I always try and make sure all my nurses know they are appreciated ❤️ I draw a lot, and when I was visiting the same ward once every month I drew my nurses a card letting them know what a good job they were doing. Nurses are so important

    • @KendraRN
      @KendraRN  6 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you and Happy New Year! There are really great nurses who truly care and I’m glad you’ve had positive encounters ❤️

  • @darlenewilson3188
    @darlenewilson3188 11 месяцев назад +1

    Nurse K
    you ❤️ ❤️ are a beautiful person and nurse. my God keep you and bless you as you come into contact with the sick
    always remember ❤️ God have place you there 🙏 may God keep and bless everything and everyone you touch
    ❤️ 😍 💖 ❣️ 💕 💘 ❤️ 😍 💖 ❣️ 💕 💘

  • @vantafire
    @vantafire 9 месяцев назад +3

    When we all wake up. That will be a great day.. not sleeping ova here. Accept what you deserve!

  • @nleigha
    @nleigha Год назад +2

    Thank you for speaking up!!

  • @user-ui1zv8bd4y
    @user-ui1zv8bd4y 9 месяцев назад +2

    Kendra this is actually the case in any aspect of healthcare. But nursing has always had leaders who never stand up for what is correct. THAT is the crux and heart of why 40 years later this nurse only sees nurses treated as a numerical cost!!!!!

  • @the24gpodcast
    @the24gpodcast Год назад +12

    I haven't heard the saying about nurses do everyone's job... It's a good one. And you're right, it is definitely getting harder.

    • @KendraRN
      @KendraRN  Год назад +4

      We literally can, I pull thrash, serve trays, troubleshoot electronics, etc.

    • @sandraandrews7342
      @sandraandrews7342 11 месяцев назад

      @@KendraRN Thanks for all you do. I definitely need you at my facility, cause those nurses I work with are the laziest I seen. Won't even answer a call light or give water. Need more of you.

    • @wisdomandlove1661
      @wisdomandlove1661 11 месяцев назад

      @@KendraRN wow! you are doing many things.

    • @belindamiller6349
      @belindamiller6349 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@KendraRNput orders in, transport...

  • @Asia-rs6wc
    @Asia-rs6wc 6 месяцев назад +1

    I hate being an RN at the bedside! I left the hospital full time for outpatient/family practice and in school for FNP but I am contemplating going for CRNA. RN pay is crap and the patients are getting worse and disrespectful.

  • @Ruffles729
    @Ruffles729 3 месяца назад +1

    I’m a RN who works in pysch & I love my job so far!

  • @EaRebel
    @EaRebel 9 месяцев назад +1

    This is so true cause when I was in the hospital recently, I couldn’t believe how much these nurses were doing that shouldn’t be their job. For example, my nurse was mixing my iv medicine instead of the pharmacy,

    • @KendraRN
      @KendraRN  9 месяцев назад

      We do a lot, more than people actually know.

  • @oliviasfermi4465
    @oliviasfermi4465 27 дней назад

    Everything you mentioned is why I'm a casemanager. Still working with patients just not hands on.😊

  • @erwindt7733
    @erwindt7733 Месяц назад +6

    Wow, you nailed the problem in our profession. You give me goosebumps.

  • @laxattack032
    @laxattack032 3 месяца назад

    Unions. Collective bargaining. Not being afraid to tell management you won't be bullied. All desperately needed. Nurses deserve better

  • @VeryLovingRN
    @VeryLovingRN 8 месяцев назад +1

    Scary. About to be an RN soon.

  • @Looskss
    @Looskss 4 месяца назад +1

    Went to med surg at the best hospital in Dallas…. Got the hell out of the in two weeks! Home health is the way to go!

  • @loumona76
    @loumona76 3 месяца назад

    Thank you so much for taking care of us. ❤️