Letting myself go was a good thing; I see it as God making sure I grew up at the same time and at the same rate as my peers. If I hadn’t gained 50 lbs and a baby pooch, I would still be in the club acting like a hot girl! My body and appearance changed when my life changed, and that’s fine. The world is superficial, but hubby is changing in his own way too… we still find one another attractive, even at 43/49 as opposed to 22/28. Just pray on your negative feelings, work on what you can, and be happy that you made it to 40‼️ We are at the age now where classmates are passing away from sickness and disease… it’s a blessing to make it to middle age ❤
Are you saying that it's God's intent to let yourself go so you can stop running tge streets? Don't tell lies on God like that. God would rather you not run the streets and live healthy lifetsyle. Your example of classmates dieing from disease is the very reason you should be trying to live a healthier and it's God's warning to you that of you don't change your eating and exercise habits you too might find yourself in their late shoes. We should stop trying to find reasons to live unhealthy and look for reasons to change our habits. We hope and pray you live a very long life and our chances of that happening will be much greater if we choose the hard right of exercise and diet over the easy wrong of satisfying our taste buds and slothfulness.
@@weareblackpress5394 He gives us free will, but I know me. I’m stubborn. Those extra pounds don’t affect my health or ability to mobilize; I also raised happy healthy kids, so why not? I choose to see something you think is bad as a blessing. I’m giving Him the glory for all the changes that helped me step into motherhood. I’d never lie on God, but he knows all. When I thank Him, he know I’m sincere… You’re mad about my viewpoint and I understand that. But getting angry at strangers on RUclips is a good sign that you need to start counting your own blessings. Look at what you don’t like in your own life and thank God for what He’s done instead of getting mad.
Don't take the easy route by blaming everything on the system. If we don't accept any responsibility for our own action or inaction we might as well call ourselves STUPID because we admit that we have no control over who we are or what we do. Are you saying that you have no control over your life? Even if only to a certain extent then take responsibility for that extent🤔
My BAD...I thought you were an American blaming America. Yes, America's food and health regulations are poison to our communities for the sake of profits, but Americans are not blind or overtly ignorant. We are however lazy and will use any reason not to be healthy (thus why I thought you were American) We all need to make choices for our future life success, and we hope Americans figure it out...but we're not holding our breath.
Letting myself go was a good thing; I see it as God making sure I grew up at the same time and at the same rate as my peers. If I hadn’t gained 50 lbs and a baby pooch, I would still be in the club acting like a hot girl! My body and appearance changed when my life changed, and that’s fine.
The world is superficial, but hubby is changing in his own way too… we still find one another attractive, even at 43/49 as opposed to 22/28. Just pray on your negative feelings, work on what you can, and be happy that you made it to 40‼️ We are at the age now where classmates are passing away from sickness and disease… it’s a blessing to make it to middle age ❤
Are you saying that it's God's intent to let yourself go so you can stop running tge streets? Don't tell lies on God like that. God would rather you not run the streets and live healthy lifetsyle.
Your example of classmates dieing from disease is the very reason you should be trying to live a healthier and it's God's warning to you that of you don't change your eating and exercise habits you too might find yourself in their late shoes.
We should stop trying to find reasons to live unhealthy and look for reasons to change our habits. We hope and pray you live a very long life and our chances of that happening will be much greater if we choose the hard right of exercise and diet over the easy wrong of satisfying our taste buds and slothfulness.
@@weareblackpress5394 He gives us free will, but I know me. I’m stubborn. Those extra pounds don’t affect my health or ability to mobilize; I also raised happy healthy kids, so why not? I choose to see something you think is bad as a blessing. I’m giving Him the glory for all the changes that helped me step into motherhood. I’d never lie on God, but he knows all. When I thank Him, he know I’m sincere…
You’re mad about my viewpoint and I understand that. But getting angry at strangers on RUclips is a good sign that you need to start counting your own blessings. Look at what you don’t like in your own life and thank God for what He’s done instead of getting mad.
He is right...when you hit the 4th age bracket...you gotta take care of yourself. If not it will get worse later.
On Point! It is easier to start early before your doctor makes it mandatory for your survival.
I went to the Essence festival 2024 and I seen a lot of good looking men with not so attractive women and they had a bunch of kids so you never know
Exactly! It's somebody out here for everyone. You just cant expect top shelf when you know you're a House Bottle😅
0;04 did he let himself go or did he get poisoned by american food;STUPID
Don't take the easy route by blaming everything on the system. If we don't accept any responsibility for our own action or inaction we might as well call ourselves STUPID because we admit that we have no control over who we are or what we do. Are you saying that you have no control over your life? Even if only to a certain extent then take responsibility for that extent🤔
@@weareblackpress5394 ur food is illegal in other countries, so who are u trying to gaslight
Two things can be true at the same time
@@HerMajesty81 so why am i being chastised and gaslighted for stating scientific facts
My BAD...I thought you were an American blaming America. Yes, America's food and health regulations are poison to our communities for the sake of profits, but Americans are not blind or overtly ignorant. We are however lazy and will use any reason not to be healthy (thus why I thought you were American) We all need to make choices for our future life success, and we hope Americans figure it out...but we're not holding our breath.