Thank you so much :) It is nerve wracking but after its over you feel great! And you never know. It took me 4 years to admit to my self that I was gay and 3 yeas to come out to my entire family. You will get there one day. Stay strong.:)
Well Nick it's so awesome to see so many young men accepting their truth and finding a place in their family. When I came out it was 1978 and we had the saying "Out of the Closet and Into the Streets!" We were some of the first "Butch" guys to break the mold of the flamboyant sissy. Which made it easy for other men who were sports players and jocks to come out! The thing is if you're lucky enough to find someone who loves you for yourself then you should be able to give it your all! Wishing you Happiness! ❤❤❤
Sorry for this being so late, but thanks for all the help. Everyone basically knew I was gay before I even told them which is good I guess. My mother is still coping. I wrote it all down in a letter for her. We talk about it from time to time. I am happy and living and life is moving on. It sounds cliche to say but it does get better.
I want to come out to everyone but it's kind of hard to push through it. I accept the fact that I'm gay but don't know how others will react to it. What should I do?
Coming out is different with every person, I would advise coming out to your closest friends first, and work from there. I do not know your family situation so I cannot advise you on that, but I will say that 90% of the time people over think coming out to their parents because there are too many horror stories. These stories in fact do not represent the normal experience.
Yea that seemed to be the only part he had trouble with was the idea that one day I may settle down and have kids with a man. I don't blame him but I think he will change his stance later on.
THanks for posting. It helps!
Thank you so much :) It is nerve wracking but after its over you feel great! And you never know. It took me 4 years to admit to my self that I was gay and 3 yeas to come out to my entire family. You will get there one day. Stay strong.:)
you are very brave :) i can only imagine how nerve wrecking it is to come out ; i don't think i got the guts to do it.
Well Nick it's so awesome to see so many young men accepting their truth and finding a place in their family. When I came out it was 1978 and we had the saying "Out of the Closet and Into the Streets!" We were some of the first "Butch" guys to break the mold of the flamboyant sissy. Which made it easy for other men who were sports players and jocks to come out! The thing is if you're lucky enough to find someone who loves you for yourself then you should be able to give it your all! Wishing you Happiness! ❤❤❤
Sorry for this being so late, but thanks for all the help. Everyone basically knew I was gay before I even told them which is good I guess. My mother is still coping. I wrote it all down in a letter for her. We talk about it from time to time. I am happy and living and life is moving on. It sounds cliche to say but it does get better.
Thanks for watching!! Im glad it helped!
I want to come out to everyone but it's kind of hard to push through it. I accept the fact that I'm gay but don't know how others will react to it. What should I do?
Thanks haha I've never really liked my eyes because of how dark they are.
Coming out is different with every person, I would advise coming out to your closest friends first, and work from there. I do not know your family situation so I cannot advise you on that, but I will say that 90% of the time people over think coming out to their parents because there are too many horror stories. These stories in fact do not represent the normal experience.
Hey you have beautiful eyes :)
Yea that seemed to be the only part he had trouble with was the idea that one day I may settle down and have kids with a man. I don't blame him but I think he will change his stance later on.
I came out because I am in love with gay life and the fact I can be with a guy I love all I want and care about