I am not surprised at all about her not being upset with him when it comes to cheating with black women but once she found out he was dealing with another yt woman she snapped and that’s because she didn’t see black women as a “threat” to their relationship. Which is a joke bc at the end of the day him sleeping with any women in general should be a problem. And secondly she’s a groomer and embarrassingly ignorant as hell. Joking about being with a 15 year old boy when you’re 20 and then calling yourself a cougar?! It’s nasty.
She doesn't mind him sleeping with black women because they're "not his type". Obviously, they are because if he was 15 years old when she preyed upon him, he obviously is still exploring what "his type" is. She's a predator. She basically trapped him with 6 kids. She's not a cougar, she's a molester. Why would she think that talking to an 11 & 12 year old about grown people ish is alright??? She's slow and nobody's first pick. That's why she needed a 15 tear old in the first place. He needs to move on.
@@crazymusicgrlcheesecake He didn't trap himself. A grown azz woman with no self esteem trapped him. He doesn't want her and IT'S VERY OBVIOUS. She groomed him. It doesn't matter if he was grown when the children were conceived. He is now experiencing something different and honestly I think that it's best. She thinks it's cute, but it's rather sad and embarrassing.
A 20yr old white woman who was having sex with a 15yr old child back then & Karamo said NOTHING...interesting...not only that she had the nerve to laugh it off & say yea I was a cougar....NO BIH U WERE A PEDOPHILE!!!!! We all now if this was the other way around everybody would have addressed it ASAP!!!!!!! SMH Parents hide ya lil boys out here!!!
It’s sad how people brush grown women having sex with literal male children under the rug. It’s sad asf, please not only protect your daughters, but also your sons because they can be manipulated and taken advantage of as well.
No Karamo, you’re wrong here. She is a bad person and she wants to play victim for a situation she created. Him being a victim when he was 15 and groomed says a lot about how he is maneuvering the relationship now.
@@christinatoliver this shiii is beyond disgusting!! Now let the tables turn. This would appear on your morning paper: BLACK MAN RAPES 15YR OLD CAUCASIAN GIRL. THAT HE ALSO IMPREGNATED, AND THEY SHARE 6 KIDS TOGETHER. SENTENCING TAKES PLACE IS IN 3 DAYS. HE WILL MORE THAN LIKELY WILL SERVE THE REMAINING OF HIS LIFE BEHIND BARS. AND THAT'S IF THEY TAKE THE DEATH PENALTY OFF THE TABLE. WOW, AND I STILL WONDER WHY PEOPLE DREAMS OF #COMINGTOAMERICA!! JESUS TAKE THE WHEEL 😢😢😢😢
Always weird to me when people like her have this racist predatory fetish behavior towards black/poc. I understand you can have preferences .She basically admitted she loved being his one and only snow bunny. They take advantage of their whiteness and I just can’t believe she used it on a CHILD. I wonder what stopped karamo from bringing it up after she said that!? Advocate for the boy that didn’t understand what was going on so the man in him can recognize what’s happening is NOT and never was okay! So many things wrong with her behaviors!? Pull him aside in private at least and offer that man some help.
I do feel like he could've acknowledged it. But I think why he didn't is because now he's well into adulthood, they have 6 children, and the relationship is already falling apart
@@ShayMiW That makes sense thank you. Imo she’s hurt him and I think he’s still deserving of help so that he has the right tools on how to be a better person for himself and his family. Regardless if the relationship ends or not. I just think he deserves true healing. I get that it wasn’t the subject of the show at the time tho
he def told her over and over that the “cheating” started with her, but didn’t say ANYTHING about the fact she groomed him, or that she “let him” cheat with Black girls but not white girls 🤢
I'm so disgusted , he is such a hypocrite. If the story was reversed and he was the 1 preying on her as a 15 he would be tearing him a new one, if you know what I mean!
@@SommerLewis not too much on karamo. he’s doing his best and the problem he was told to deal with and talk about was not abt the grooming, it was abt the cheating. he was staying on topic & whatnot. It is wrong that it wasn’t addressed at least a little bit but i don’t think that he’ll jump down the guys throat if the roles were to be reversed. i know he was concerned abt the age difference because you can tell, he was flabbergasted.
How did Karamo just ignore the fact that this woman is a predator who groomed this guy? Like, he never called her out on it. I’m pretty sure he was thinking about it when he was sitting there with her, but never said anything about it. At the end of the day, this is a grown woman who went after an underage child and now this child is acting out as he gets older. It’s as simple as that. Note: also, just in case anyone tries to make the argument that, “well, he’s older now, so he could just leave her.” That’s the thing about grooming a child is at a young age she slowly but surely made sure (by manipulation, love bombing, etc.) that he will stay with her as long as she can actually keep him. He isn’t really aware that what she did / is doing to him is 1,000% WRONG! That’s why she’s letting him sleep around with other people b/c it’s her way of keeping him bound to her.
Maybe He probably ignored it cuz the lady could go to jail and leave 6 kids behind 🤷🏽♀️ so be skimmed right over that real fast cuz clearly the woman is not all the way coherent mentally
Yep exactly & if it had been an older man who did this to a young girl he wouldn’t have let it go that easy smh!! She’s knows exactly what she is doing that’s why he does whatever he wants & now she wants to come crying to Karamo 🙄
She absolutely preyed on him. I don’t care how immature, insecure, and slow they both are. She is wrong. She manipulative and controlling and she found someone who didn’t recognize her mind games but fortunately/unfortunately for the kids he broke away. Telling a man he can cheat is a woman being controlling. Believe that.
He’s doing what he’s allowed to do why not take advantage of it? 😒 AND she’s a PREDATOR don’t forget that a 15 year old BOY cannot consent just like a girl wouldn’t be able to either
Didn’t care about anything she said after she said she messed w/ him when he was 15 and she was 20. Not boutta have me feel bad for a groomer/predator.
She's a monster for grooming this man when he was a child. How old was he when she babytrapped him and forced him into fatherhood? She's clearly racist based around her 'rules' for him stepping out, how many other racist micro (and macro) aggressions has this poor young man had to deal with for 20 years? She already has an inappropriate relationship with her eldest children by bringing adult issues to them, is she racist towards them as well? I'm so worried for this young man's health and safety, what's to prevent a woman like this from calling the cops on him to 'put him in his place' like so many others in her position do. It's a tragedy that young mens' trauma is not acknowledged or given the same level of validation as we tend to do for women.
I don’t believe she’s racist so much as misguided in her thinking. She believes that he only dates (takes seriously and will commit to) white women. I’m guessing that either the girlfriends he had prior were white or he said something that gave her this impression. This is what makes her okay with him sleeping with black women and not white women.
WTF!!!! Pedophilia, Statutory rape, racism, lies, gaslighting, ignorance, etc.... This episode was a mess and he remind me of CHANCE from I love New York lol
When she said he was 15 & she was 20 I didn't care anything about what came out of her mouth. Oh your life isn't working out how you thought with the CHILD YOU GROOMED?? c'est la vie 🤷🏿♀️
Karamo, I really like you and I do respect your show, but how did you not notice the fact that she was 20 when she groomed a 15 YEAR OLD child?! You never heard of "statutory rape"? She groomed a 15 year old child and SHE'S THE VICTIM? The reason the boyfriend's acting like that is because she spoiled and groomed him. She made him like that. And she's trying to manipulate all of us into feeling bad for her. I'm sorry Karamo, but you're SIMPING.
He definitely missed the mark in this episode. I was waiting for him to address her predatory behavior considering the fact that he was 15 and she was 20 when they first met and Karamo didn't address it at all. It was a missed opportunity on his part.
DON'T BLAME KARAMO! those 2 people came to talk about their relationship issues only, you are absolutely RIGHT about the topic of statutory rape andn pedophilia, but KARAMO has a SHOW schedule to follow, and can't just confront them about something that happened and was consent by their families decades now, they didn't care before. He could call them out only in private
What in the h3ll is going on here??? She GROOMED him & calling herself a “cougar”. Sitting there laughing about it when ain’t 💩 funny. Got all these kids but acting like a damn child herself. No critical thinking skills whatsoever. What did she expect him to do as a teenager?! She stole his teens & 20s. BFFR!!! She needs to be committed to a psychiatric ward ASAP. She’s disgusting & pathetic.
So nobody caught that when she said she didn’t feel threatened by the black women he was entertaining, but when a white girl came around, she felt threatened?? That is a big big big issue. And if y’all’s eyes aren’t open, open them!!
She thinks just bc he’s with her that he prefers white women when clearly that’s not true bc he slept with plenty of black women. She also think she’s better than those blank women. Smh. Racist predator.
I don’t think Karamo seen that coming. “He was like how old were you when you met 16?” When she said 20 the look on his face screamed caught off guard. He was so ready for them to get off the show. I’m pretty sure if Karamo could have addressed it he would have.
I agree. I think he didn't address it because there was SO much going on with them and that one thing in particular was honestly enough to fill a whole segment.
She’s a whole racist and a predator, and she decided to come on national TV to yell it from the mountaintops. Lmao. Not even surprising. What does bother me, though, is if this was a man who’d met a woman when he was 20 and she was 15, the reaction to that age difference would’ve been much different. I don’t like that.
@@vanessawhetstone6439 she doesn’t know his preference he was 15 when they started dating things change and if he is cheating with BW that must be his type 💁🏽♀️. This women is a predator and he is a victim sadly
This is a mess 🫠😵💫 Her being mad he was with another white girl is weird as hell. She lets him cheat and did not wanna be there for him after his brother died cause she was sad too? Miss lady what’s going on? Not to mention FIFTEEN?! That is not legal miss mamas.
Karamo can be so biased at times. It can be clear as day that the accuser is in the wrong, but for whatever reason he fails to speak the truth and put them in their place. Instead, he chooses to chastise the other party regardless of the circumstance. They’re always wrong in his eyes.
She was making him out to be the bad spouse when whole time she keeps telling him to be with other women. She definitely had a hand in it. I think she needs her own life without him, telling him to be with other women and than bash him about it 🫣 He was 15 & She was 20, she couldn’t find someone her own age…
She’s a predator and manipulator and she was very open about how she is manipulating her sons as well. Very sad that she is thinking more about herself than her children’s mental health by exposing them to things they shouldn’t know about their parents
They aren't adults mentally.. You can tell by the way they speaking, laughing and acting... then when she said she wanted to be the only white woman, yeah, they slow
@@SingleMommingso you would allow your man to cheat with multiple women as long as takes care of his kids???? Two things can be true at the same time, he can be dusty because he's a liar and a cheater as well as a good father
@@marimarielove but she is allowing him to cheat so that doesn’t make him dusty. He said he was a one woman’s man an she told him to go out an do those things. So that makes her dusty right?
Some people like Boosie feel like it’s okay for teenage boys to have sex with grown women. But baby it is not okay. That’s low key trauma and how it’ll shape their views on women. MY brother when he was 16 was having sex with a 40 year old white lady because she was paying him. He loved it at the time but fast forward today him being 32, he regrets it. I don’t feel sorry for this lady at all. She’s the type to get him arrested because she’s jealous.
That look she gave at 4:46-4:49 when she was laughing about their age difference, was a demonic predatory look. She knew her predatory ways were exposed and tried to laugh it off. Why is she not in prison?
And she getting exactly what she deserves period!!! You can tell he wasn't ready to be a father and now he a damn Dusty! And her grown ass needed her ass whooped!
What in the world?! He was still a child. He can't make sound decisions because he's stunted in his emotional growth as a man. She doesn't feel supported because no one can support that in good conscious.
Lord, the Tears, like clockwork and right on time, when she realized she wasn't getting her way and "support"!! 🤦🏾♀️I was done! The victim lawd the victim, that's a role that will ALWAYS have an Oscar winning performance 😵💫😵💫... I feel like Karamo was being as gentle as he could be with her being as fragile as she was.. I feel he saw right threw that facade right after ole boy came out and spilt the beans that she ALLLLOOWWWEEEDDD him to sleep around. "I've been the only yt girl in his life..." girllll if you don't 👊🏾 👊🏾 That whole, "it was no point of coming on the show"🙄🙄.. You were looking for someone to be on your and feel sorry for your "cougar" predatory ass!! But you didn't get what you wanted. Karamo only laid into him bc he knows what he's doing it and he's doing it for attention frm her someone to prove they love, care and will be willing to fight for him but she like that toxic shyt... That's why she came on the show to air her laundry thinking she was about to air him out and ended up looking like the PREDATOR she is.. Let a 20 yr old try and talk to one of your son's.. Yeaaa that's what I thought!! GTFOH and get some .THERAPY and 2. FRIENDS so you can leave them damn kids alone.. THATS how u ended up in this situation.. LADY, LEAVE THEM KIDS ALONE NII 😒😒🙄🙄
Listening to her tell her story & and explaining her point-of-view was like watching a slow train wreck. She needs a big boost of self-esteem so she can have some self-worth. They both need to focus on their kids, and then their relationship.
@@hannibal-elmrs.6275 😂😂😂 you know I’m right the title will probably read like this “Predator Preference Grooms Bandit and his three trash bags and guess whose mad”!?😂😂😂
She’s a pedophile NOT a cougar if this was a man the story would’ve turned out differently!!! I’m so mad Karamo glazed over that fact and didn’t call that disgusting bs out! Instead she was allowed to paint herself as a victim. She preyed on this young man and tried to trap him with kids he never truly got to grow up
She’s a whole predator! Sitting on the stage crying about shhh she created! It’s something about his mentality, tho.. like something mmmm.. I’m concerned that she took advantage of that. Where was his family? Chileeee… Also, that ishhh she said about him and his “preferences” spoke VOLUMES! As long as he wasn’t dating BW she felt like her position was good and it did something for her self esteem, like she’s better or something. A lot of WP think like that. It’s weird.. because he’s nothing to write home about 🤔 This woman is in her 40’s trying to keep up with a man-child that never had freedom until now, she can kiss that goodbye. The streets are calling his name. 🤦🏾♀️ Do better, both of y’all! Those poor kids. 😭
I think the reason why Karamo didn’t address the age difference is because he has to stay neutral, at the end of the day they were there for help. What’s done is done. She’s wrong as hell but these are my thoughts on why he didn’t mention it.
I can’t in good conscience watch this. I usually read the comments as I watch and this time, the comments are taking me away from this video! Especially if her predatory/discriminatory behavior wasn’t addressed. I guess because the victim is a Black man. 🤦🏾♀️. I’ll try again next week.
Pay close attention at 4 mins 40 secs. She says he was 15 & he says, "I was going on" then he turns his eyes upward which means he wasn't 15 yet. However, she cuts him off & says I was 20, a cougar but nawl sista; you were a child predator 😢😮 So whatever you get, you deserve b/c you stole his childhood
The title of this show is all wrong. I don’t care anything about the original story after hearing this lady laughingly admit to pursuing a 15 year old. Karamo, please hold these guests 1000% accountable. We cannot advocate for victims, yet not address these subjects of predatory behaviors. Sometimes going off-script is necessary.
Its crazy that she laughed about dating a 15 y/o at 21 is insane bruh if I was her I would deep down inside feel really messed up bruh that ain't nothing to brag about AT ALL !
At first, I felt sorry for her that She was being cheated on but then after he comes out and says she told him to go be with other women how can you expect a man to be with different women and not come across one that he likes especially if they’re having sex. It’s gonna happen. Second of all Him being 15 and her being 20 doesn’t make her a cougar. That’s illegal and disgusting. She’s just all the way wrong here.
Her saying, “I know, I’m a cougar” and kiki’ing about it goes crazy 😵💫😵💫. She’s a predator who groomed this man and didn’t see the Black women he was cheating on as competition and then had the nerve to get on TV with the tears? Chile, boo. She made the choices in the relationship and now she on tv looking crazy. He ain’t no better either and at this point, it’s too far gone.
I was with her up until she admitted to being a pedophile and then she said black women aren't his preference so I didn't care when he slept with them.......bye pedo
Karamo ain't a cop, why is it his obligation to address the grooming and pedophilia now? He's there to meditate their current issues. She's a weirdo but he's dumb for making 6 children with her. They're who I really feel bad for in this situation.
1. The part when she said I'm a cougar! Yeaaa ok lol 2. He didn't address it because it's not the time for it, but you can tell he didn't like that, not one bit. 3. Poor guy didn't even get a chance to explore being his own adult. The only reason why she's allowing him to cheat.
The fact that he said “I used to be a one woman man until she told me to go party and hang with my boys” SIR THAT DOES NOT EQUATE TO “cheat on my girl “ 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
What I want to know is, where were his parents/guardians in all of this? She is disgusting and I'm disappointed that Karamo didn't address the fact that he was 15 yrs old and she was 20 when they met!
He seems very gullible and easy to take advantage of, and I don’t think he loves her in a romantically but in a mother son way and she definitely took advantage of her. Stockholm syndrome is real.
So are we gone just skip over the part that she was having sex with a 15 yr old boy while she’s 20😮😮 If it was a man having sex with a little girl somebody would have called the police and have him locked up. Either way it’s nasty She called it being a cougar…it’s flat out being a predator PERIOD🤞🏾
I’m from Baltimore Maryland , && I will say my opinion not saying it’s facts or try to pass judgment bc we’ve all been thru relationships. But my advice for her is if he’s amazing father let him continue to be just that leave and find you some friends it’s ppl out here like you AS IN ME who don’t have many friends but I have Best friends . To allow a man to grow is amazing , to have self worth is even more amazing . I have 2 sons and I just refuse to let them know what I’ve been thru as a women and a mother bc I wana see great men in the future . We all make mistakes and we try and live and learn . Leave him and find friends who you can talk to not to say yes or no just to let you vent and cry . But I see he checked out and you can’t keep allowing him to check back in . Leave and see if he can come back as a man without you giving him leadyway . It has to stop bc every women dream should be marriage 6 kids , YALL should be married it’s time for GROWTH 😻🙌🏾🦄 . All you need is a women that can teach you via email or FaceTime get you comfortable with meeting ppl to just walk and talk or sit at water . Enjoy you and what you can help others with . I promise I think y’all both need to exhale 😮💨 and breath again and see what God can get settled on earth for y’all future . Bc lost can bring so much evil out I lost my mom 2020 and I still be dark , he just need a person aswell and not one who’s okay with him doing all of that but a person to talk too about grief and healing . ❤️🩹
not her trying to be the victim talking about she has no support , she wanted Karamo to say something to agree with her . The whole wanting to be his only white girl thing is ridiculous.. He shouldn’t even be okay with those statements.
Man did my opinion change quick. I am not amused by a 20 yr old taking advantage of a 15 yr old. Now you want to play victim bc you told him to trick and he said "COOL". She is immature and seeking attention.
I am not surprised at all about her not being upset with him when it comes to cheating with black women but once she found out he was dealing with another yt woman she snapped and that’s because she didn’t see black women as a “threat” to their relationship. Which is a joke bc at the end of the day him sleeping with any women in general should be a problem. And secondly she’s a groomer and embarrassingly ignorant as hell. Joking about being with a 15 year old boy when you’re 20 and then calling yourself a cougar?! It’s nasty.
Well said, I couldn't have said it better
Nah, she knows a black woman could beat the brakes off her.
She’s Chester the molester
@@LadyAngela678 that part
Right! And when she said “cougar” I said “predator” this woman is nasty & delusional Smdh
She doesn't mind him sleeping with black women because they're "not his type". Obviously, they are because if he was 15 years old when she preyed upon him, he obviously is still exploring what "his type" is. She's a predator. She basically trapped him with 6 kids. She's not a cougar, she's a molester. Why would she think that talking to an 11 & 12 year old about grown people ish is alright??? She's slow and nobody's first pick. That's why she needed a 15 tear old in the first place. He needs to move on.
Amen
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1000% correct
@@crazymusicgrlcheesecake that's not how grooming works
@@crazymusicgrlcheesecake He didn't trap himself. A grown azz woman with no self esteem trapped him. He doesn't want her and IT'S VERY OBVIOUS. She groomed him. It doesn't matter if he was grown when the children were conceived. He is now experiencing something different and honestly I think that it's best. She thinks it's cute, but it's rather sad and embarrassing.
A 20yr old white woman who was having sex with a 15yr old child back then & Karamo said NOTHING...interesting...not only that she had the nerve to laugh it off & say yea I was a cougar....NO BIH U WERE A PEDOPHILE!!!!! We all now if this was the other way around everybody would have addressed it ASAP!!!!!!! SMH Parents hide ya lil boys out here!!!
That part! 💯 💯 💯
ALL OF THIS!!!!!!
THANK YOU !!!!!!!!!
It’s sad how people brush grown women having sex with literal male children under the rug. It’s sad asf, please not only protect your daughters, but also your sons because they can be manipulated and taken advantage of as well.
A FULL ON PEDOPHILE. Point Blank. You Ain’t No Different Than A MAN Who Did Some Shit Like This.
Cougar - No, predator- YES.
EXACTLY!!!!
Lol close enough i said pedophile💀💀
right, she a whole pedo and thinks it's cute
That part!!!
Yepp!
No Karamo, you’re wrong here. She is a bad person and she wants to play victim for a situation she created. Him being a victim when he was 15 and groomed says a lot about how he is maneuvering the relationship now.
Amen!!!!! And she laughing about it 🤢🤢
@@christinatoliver this shiii is beyond disgusting!! Now let the tables turn. This would appear on your morning paper: BLACK MAN RAPES 15YR OLD CAUCASIAN GIRL. THAT HE ALSO IMPREGNATED, AND THEY SHARE 6 KIDS TOGETHER. SENTENCING TAKES PLACE IS IN 3 DAYS. HE WILL MORE THAN LIKELY WILL SERVE THE REMAINING OF HIS LIFE BEHIND BARS. AND THAT'S IF THEY TAKE THE DEATH PENALTY OFF THE TABLE. WOW, AND I STILL WONDER WHY PEOPLE DREAMS OF #COMINGTOAMERICA!! JESUS TAKE THE WHEEL 😢😢😢😢
Karamo is always capping for the women even when they are clearly in the wrong!!
@@vidalsmith9160mlm
@@vidalsmith9160 no he don't
Always weird to me when people like her have this racist predatory fetish behavior towards black/poc. I understand you can have preferences .She basically admitted she loved being his one and only snow bunny. They take advantage of their whiteness and I just can’t believe she used it on a CHILD. I wonder what stopped karamo from bringing it up after she said that!? Advocate for the boy that didn’t understand what was going on so the man in him can recognize what’s happening is NOT and never was okay! So many things wrong with her behaviors!? Pull him aside in private at least and offer that man some help.
I do feel like he could've acknowledged it. But I think why he didn't is because now he's well into adulthood, they have 6 children, and the relationship is already falling apart
@@ShayMiW That makes sense thank you. Imo she’s hurt him and I think he’s still deserving of help so that he has the right tools on how to be a better person for himself and his family. Regardless if the relationship ends or not. I just think he deserves true healing. I get that it wasn’t the subject of the show at the time tho
@@noemihernandez3918 I totally agree. It would be great if we knew if Karamo actually talked to the guy off camera and helped him realize those things
Well said.
Girlllll Karamo said he did not prep for this. He was prepared to deal with relations today not abusers.
Karamo missed the mark on this one. He didn't acknowledge her predatory behavior and how that has caused the issue's she's bringing up.
Or, her racism!
Absolutely, I'm disgusted
he def told her over and over that the “cheating” started with her, but didn’t say ANYTHING about the fact she groomed him, or that she “let him” cheat with Black girls but not white girls 🤢
I'm so disgusted , he is such a hypocrite. If the story was reversed and he was the 1 preying on her as a 15 he would be tearing him a new one, if you know what I mean!
@@SommerLewis not too much on karamo. he’s doing his best and the problem he was told to deal with and talk about was not abt the grooming, it was abt the cheating. he was staying on topic & whatnot. It is wrong that it wasn’t addressed at least a little bit but i don’t think that he’ll jump down the guys throat if the roles were to be reversed. i know he was concerned abt the age difference because you can tell, he was flabbergasted.
She groomed him.
BINGO!
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Exactly!
Boom‼️
a 20 year old is just as immature as a 15 year old and I'm sure that guy been sexually active before he meet her.
How did Karamo just ignore the fact that this woman is a predator who groomed this guy? Like, he never called her out on it. I’m pretty sure he was thinking about it when he was sitting there with her, but never said anything about it. At the end of the day, this is a grown woman who went after an underage child and now this child is acting out as he gets older. It’s as simple as that.
Note: also, just in case anyone tries to make the argument that, “well, he’s older now, so he could just leave her.” That’s the thing about grooming a child is at a young age she slowly but surely made sure (by manipulation, love bombing, etc.) that he will stay with her as long as she can actually keep him. He isn’t really aware that what she did / is doing to him is 1,000% WRONG! That’s why she’s letting him sleep around with other people b/c it’s her way of keeping him bound to her.
Maybe He probably ignored it cuz the lady could go to jail and leave 6 kids behind 🤷🏽♀️ so be skimmed right over that real fast cuz clearly the woman is not all the way coherent mentally
Yep exactly & if it had been an older man who did this to a young girl he wouldn’t have let it go that easy smh!! She’s knows exactly what she is doing that’s why he does whatever he wants & now she wants to come crying to Karamo 🙄
Steve wilkos would’ve definitely got on her ass 😭
She absolutely preyed on him. I don’t care how immature, insecure, and slow they both are. She is wrong. She manipulative and controlling and she found someone who didn’t recognize her mind games but fortunately/unfortunately for the kids he broke away. Telling a man he can cheat is a woman being controlling. Believe that.
@@annamayyy6778 Exactly! Would of been throwing chairs and everything ‼️
she trifling and he is too lol. In the words of Judge Toler, “I hope y’all stay together so no one else has to deal with y’all” 😭😭🤣🤣🤣
Ahahahahahahahahahahahah
He’s doing what he’s allowed to do why not take advantage of it? 😒 AND she’s a PREDATOR don’t forget that a 15 year old BOY cannot consent just like a girl wouldn’t be able to either
She told him to do it, though.
So accurate, they both are a hot mess perfect for each other
Didn’t care about anything she said after she said she messed w/ him when he was 15 and she was 20. Not boutta have me feel bad for a groomer/predator.
Right, that’s literally statutory R*p3
& she laughed like it was cute….SMH
EGGGGZACLEEEEE‼️
@@Earthspirit555 that’s what I’m saying like wth?!
@@prettyfacenikki1483 grinning all hard like you’re nasty af ma’am.
She's a monster for grooming this man when he was a child. How old was he when she babytrapped him and forced him into fatherhood? She's clearly racist based around her 'rules' for him stepping out, how many other racist micro (and macro) aggressions has this poor young man had to deal with for 20 years? She already has an inappropriate relationship with her eldest children by bringing adult issues to them, is she racist towards them as well? I'm so worried for this young man's health and safety, what's to prevent a woman like this from calling the cops on him to 'put him in his place' like so many others in her position do. It's a tragedy that young mens' trauma is not acknowledged or given the same level of validation as we tend to do for women.
Had to be 20/21 cause he 35 and the oldest kid is 12.
I don’t believe she’s racist so much as misguided in her thinking. She believes that he only dates (takes seriously and will commit to) white women. I’m guessing that either the girlfriends he had prior were white or he said something that gave her this impression. This is what makes her okay with him sleeping with black women and not white women.
Omg 15 and 20?!?!!!! Karamo I'm shocked you didn't address that. She ABSOLUTELY groomed him.. Wow I have no sympathy smh
Exactly and she had the nerve to say I’m a cougar no your predator
If was a woman being groomed he would’ve said something but is a man she get a pass!? He wrong af for this smh…
WTF!!!! Pedophilia, Statutory rape, racism, lies, gaslighting, ignorance, etc.... This episode was a mess and he remind me of CHANCE from I love New York lol
A hot mess chyyyyy
When she said he was 15 & she was 20 I didn't care anything about what came out of her mouth. Oh your life isn't working out how you thought with the CHILD YOU GROOMED?? c'est la vie 🤷🏿♀️
Right
Why wasn't her being a predator talked about? What if this was reversed? This man is living the life she took from him.
Because she's a victim pilgrim
Too much going on. Karamo had the hit the biggest emotional chord. Calling her out wouldnt have her recognize her behavior.
This relationship is raggedy AF I feel bad for the kids ..
AF
Karamo didn’t address it because that wasn’t apart of what it was about but his face and movements said it all.
Karamo, I really like you and I do respect your show, but how did you not notice the fact that she was 20 when she groomed a 15 YEAR OLD child?! You never heard of "statutory rape"? She groomed a 15 year old child and SHE'S THE VICTIM? The reason the boyfriend's acting like that is because she spoiled and groomed him. She made him like that. And she's trying to manipulate all of us into feeling bad for her. I'm sorry Karamo, but you're SIMPING.
He definitely missed the mark in this episode. I was waiting for him to address her predatory behavior considering the fact that he was 15 and she was 20 when they first met and Karamo didn't address it at all. It was a missed opportunity on his part.
DON'T BLAME KARAMO! those 2 people came to talk about their relationship issues only, you are absolutely RIGHT about the topic of statutory rape andn pedophilia, but KARAMO has a SHOW schedule to follow, and can't just confront them about something that happened and was consent by their families decades now, they didn't care before. He could call them out only in private
She made herself look like a total clown! 🤣
Lol true.
A ole shriveled up predator clown!
😂😂😂 I swear
What in the h3ll is going on here??? She GROOMED him & calling herself a “cougar”. Sitting there laughing about it when ain’t 💩 funny. Got all these kids but acting like a damn child herself. No critical thinking skills whatsoever. What did she expect him to do as a teenager?! She stole his teens & 20s. BFFR!!! She needs to be committed to a psychiatric ward ASAP. She’s disgusting & pathetic.
So nobody caught that when she said she didn’t feel threatened by the black women he was entertaining, but when a white girl came around, she felt threatened?? That is a big big big issue. And if y’all’s eyes aren’t open, open them!!
She thinks just bc he’s with her that he prefers white women when clearly that’s not true bc he slept with plenty of black women. She also think she’s better than those blank women. Smh. Racist predator.
Even Karamo had a hard time with this story in the beginning 😅😂
No mam you are not a cougar, you are a predator. She need to find a real therapist and stop using her kids as her therapist.
It’s really hard for me to feel bad for her when she literally groomed him.
A predator preference crying about the treatment she allowed... nothing to see here.😊🛌🏾
She look like she was 20 when he was 5 my god 😮
@@SisterKnight facts !!
@@SisterKnight Cynthia G will have a field day with this one!
She got the same BM 😂
@@DB-vt1kk 😂😂😂 that black women have been dealing with for years !
She took advantage of him and should be in jail. She R'ed him as a child.
I don’t think Karamo seen that coming. “He was like how old were you when you met 16?” When she said 20 the look on his face screamed caught off guard. He was so ready for them to get off the show. I’m pretty sure if Karamo could have addressed it he would have.
I agree. I think he didn't address it because there was SO much going on with them and that one thing in particular was honestly enough to fill a whole segment.
@@prettypoodle26 yeah exactly, that’s the kind of content you would see on the Steve Wilkos show not the Karamo show.
Only 5 years older. She aged like spoiled milk.
Have you ever seen a white woman that aged well? They age bad
Omm lmao
Looking like a witch that was in the sun too long!
She’s a whole racist and a predator, and she decided to come on national TV to yell it from the mountaintops. Lmao. Not even surprising. What does bother me, though, is if this was a man who’d met a woman when he was 20 and she was 15, the reaction to that age difference would’ve been much different. I don’t like that.
There’s so many things wrong with this relationship😭🤦🏾♀️ I lost count
Wow she was ok with him cheating with black women yet it’s a problem when it’s a white girl 😒. Get what you get and don’t pitch a fit
She is pandering to us but she can keep it 😂
She said because black women wasn’t his preference so she wasn’t concerned about them
@@Deniseeee84 no she’s not
@@vanessawhetstone6439 she doesn’t know his preference he was 15 when they started dating things change and if he is cheating with BW that must be his type 💁🏽♀️. This women is a predator and he is a victim sadly
@@lolacols3622 lady, he’s cheating w a ww come on now, she literally said it.
"I know I'm a cooger" ..... Um no ma'am your a child preditor
She looks like she is 50 in the face and he looks 20 !!
This is a mess 🫠😵💫
Her being mad he was with another white girl is weird as hell. She lets him cheat and did not wanna be there for him after his brother died cause she was sad too? Miss lady what’s going on? Not to mention FIFTEEN?! That is not legal miss mamas.
😂😂😂😂 this the mf comment.
@@kaciousrobinson440 RIGHT!!! 😂😂😂
Not the miss mamas LMAO
Karamo can be so biased at times. It can be clear as day that the accuser is in the wrong, but for whatever reason he fails to speak the truth and put them in their place. Instead, he chooses to chastise the other party regardless of the circumstance. They’re always wrong in his eyes.
You know what? NEVERMIND...SMFH
Right. Not our business 😅
She was making him out to be the bad spouse when whole time she keeps telling him to be with other women. She definitely had a hand in it. I think she needs her own life without him, telling him to be with other women and than bash him about it 🫣 He was 15 & She was 20, she couldn’t find someone her own age…
She speaks like what she's done/ doing is right, and couger is definitely the wrong term.
Right
EEXXAACCTTLLYY she probably meant PREDATOR
She’s a pedophile and she knew it was wrong cause she was hesitant to admit how old they were when they met. Disgusting.
Predator is the corrected term...
She’s a predator and manipulator and she was very open about how she is manipulating her sons as well. Very sad that she is thinking more about herself than her children’s mental health by exposing them to things they shouldn’t know about their parents
They aren't adults mentally.. You can tell by the way they speaking, laughing and acting... then when she said she wanted to be the only white woman, yeah, they slow
Super slow
@@lisamichelle6280 lol.. but true
They deserve eachother, they're mentally equal. Both dusty. Please stay together
💯💯
Nah she literally groomed him and stripped him of his teen years. She deserves everything he’s doing to her and more
He take care his kids how he dusty ?
@@SingleMommingso you would allow your man to cheat with multiple women as long as takes care of his kids???? Two things can be true at the same time, he can be dusty because he's a liar and a cheater as well as a good father
@@marimarielove but she is allowing him to cheat so that doesn’t make him dusty. He said he was a one woman’s man an she told him to go out an do those things. So that makes her dusty right?
Nooooo karamo dont let that lady get away with that
That's not considered a cougar ma'am when he is 15 and you were 20 and she laughing about it...she got issues🤦🏾♀️ They both kinda off 🙄
Boom! I was wondering when someone would call it... they off Sis!!!
I’m surprised Karamo didn’t check her when she said she dated him when he was only 15 and she was 20….
Some people like Boosie feel like it’s okay for teenage boys to have sex with grown women. But baby it is not okay. That’s low key trauma and how it’ll shape their views on women. MY brother when he was 16 was having sex with a 40 year old white lady because she was paying him. He loved it at the time but fast forward today him being 32, he regrets it. I don’t feel sorry for this lady at all. She’s the type to get him arrested because she’s jealous.
Is Boosie on Karamo? Oh ok!
Did the women ur brother slept with get arrested??? 40? That is disgusting…🤢😬
@@g-mawof5310 Boosie made his 15 year old son have sex with grown women. If you agree with that then ion have nothing to say nigga
@@QueenRissa_34 Nope. It’s sad girl
Why does he regret it ?
That look she gave at 4:46-4:49 when she was laughing about their age difference, was a demonic predatory look. She knew her predatory ways were exposed and tried to laugh it off. Why is she not in prison?
Karamo was over her “if she continues on, leave him *clap* ” 😂
And she getting exactly what she deserves period!!! You can tell he wasn't ready to be a father and now he a damn Dusty! And her grown ass needed her ass whooped!
You thought having all those kids was gonna make him.....what?
She's ready to find a new man. How young will he be this time? Sick.
I Don'T eVeN ThinK She Was onLY 20 WheN TheY MeT, She LooKS MaD oLD, MaYBE She was LiKE 25 or SoMEThinG WheN TheY MeT. 🤦🏾
His actions, screams childlike. As it should, because he lost his childhood.
Does she realise her son is barely 3 yrs away from being groomed....Lord hv mercy😢
She can't do that math nor think that deeply 😂😂😂🤬
This entire story and relationship 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
What in the world?! He was still a child. He can't make sound decisions because he's stunted in his emotional growth as a man. She doesn't feel supported because no one can support that in good conscious.
Lord, the Tears, like clockwork and right on time, when she realized she wasn't getting her way and "support"!! 🤦🏾♀️I was done! The victim lawd the victim, that's a role that will ALWAYS have an Oscar winning performance 😵💫😵💫... I feel like Karamo was being as gentle as he could be with her being as fragile as she was.. I feel he saw right threw that facade right after ole boy came out and spilt the beans that she ALLLLOOWWWEEEDDD him to sleep around. "I've been the only yt girl in his life..." girllll if you don't 👊🏾 👊🏾 That whole, "it was no point of coming on the show"🙄🙄.. You were looking for someone to be on your and feel sorry for your "cougar" predatory ass!! But you didn't get what you wanted. Karamo only laid into him bc he knows what he's doing it and he's doing it for attention frm her someone to prove they love, care and will be willing to fight for him but she like that toxic shyt... That's why she came on the show to air her laundry thinking she was about to air him out and ended up looking like the PREDATOR she is.. Let a 20 yr old try and talk to one of your son's.. Yeaaa that's what I thought!! GTFOH and get some .THERAPY and 2. FRIENDS so you can leave them damn kids alone.. THATS how u ended up in this situation.. LADY, LEAVE THEM KIDS ALONE NII 😒😒🙄🙄
This shit is sick
Listening to her tell her story & and explaining her point-of-view was like watching a slow train wreck. She needs a big boost of self-esteem so she can have some self-worth. They both need to focus on their kids, and then their relationship.
Cynthia G is going to have a field day with this one😂
😂😂😂😂
@@hannibal-elmrs.6275 😂😂😂 you know I’m right the title will probably read like this “Predator Preference Grooms Bandit and his three trash bags and guess whose mad”!?😂😂😂
@@Deniseeee84 or, Black KANG treats his preference the same- and guess whose mad!? 😂 😆
@@hannibal-elmrs.6275 right 😂😂😂
@@Deniseeee84 we should send it to her and recommend it! 😂
She would be FUMING 😤 😡
You can't leave someone that's already left you😒
One of the best comments yet.
In a few years, her older son will be 15. Let an old dirty 20yr old start coming around him and see what she thinks about then
They both crazy, they deserve each other
She gave him the green light.
She’s a pedophile NOT a cougar if this was a man the story would’ve turned out differently!!! I’m so mad Karamo glazed over that fact and didn’t call that disgusting bs out! Instead she was allowed to paint herself as a victim. She preyed on this young man and tried to trap him with kids he never truly got to grow up
I was feeling sorry for her until I realized she groomed him. She clearly got deeper issues that must be addressed
Why?
couldn’t get past the part that he was 15 and she was 20….
Was finally able to find the full show in my city...YIPPEE!!! Karamo is my best friend in my head. I love the compassion you exhibit❤
So one she got w him when he was 15 and she was 20 and then she is saying oh idc if he’s with black women she’s trash
She’s a whole predator! Sitting on the stage crying about shhh she created! It’s something about his mentality, tho.. like something mmmm.. I’m concerned that she took advantage of that. Where was his family? Chileeee… Also, that ishhh she said about him and his “preferences” spoke VOLUMES! As long as he wasn’t dating BW she felt like her position was good and it did something for her self esteem, like she’s better or something. A lot of WP think like that. It’s weird.. because he’s nothing to write home about 🤔 This woman is in her 40’s trying to keep up with a man-child that never had freedom until now, she can kiss that goodbye. The streets are calling his name. 🤦🏾♀️ Do better, both of y’all! Those poor kids. 😭
I think the reason why Karamo didn’t address the age difference is because he has to stay neutral, at the end of the day they were there for help. What’s done is done. She’s wrong as hell but these are my thoughts on why he didn’t mention it.
I agree.
God bless those 6 kids
The audience be clapping at nothing most times
I can’t in good conscience watch this. I usually read the comments as I watch and this time, the comments are taking me away from this video! Especially if her predatory/discriminatory behavior wasn’t addressed. I guess because the victim is a Black man. 🤦🏾♀️. I’ll try again next week.
I always laugh at white wonen who choose this path. Lmao. Hilarious
Pay close attention at 4 mins 40 secs. She says he was 15 & he says, "I was going on" then he turns his eyes upward which means he wasn't 15 yet. However, she cuts him off & says I was 20, a cougar but nawl sista; you were a child predator 😢😮 So whatever you get, you deserve b/c you stole his childhood
Bang Bang Bang!!! 😂😂😂 I would NEVER allow someone that I love too run trains with women 🤮. See why he stays with her! He’s enjoying his freedom 😅
She wasn’t threatened by the black girls😂
I heard that, but something in me said "stay on code". Lmao
@@xxarianahiltonxx5116 Thank God, or it would some black woman sitting there looking like shit. Karamo, dropped the ball on this one big time.
This fein is way too confident.
The title of this show is all wrong.
I don’t care anything about the original story after hearing this lady laughingly admit to pursuing a 15 year old.
Karamo, please hold these guests 1000% accountable.
We cannot advocate for victims, yet not address these subjects of predatory behaviors.
Sometimes going off-script is necessary.
Pedophile, not a cougar 😮
I need charges pressed on her because this is ridiculous. What would a 20-year-old woman want with a 15 year old child.
Its crazy that she laughed about dating a 15 y/o at 21 is insane bruh if I was her I would deep down inside feel really messed up bruh that ain't nothing to brag about AT ALL !
This girl need to get a journal and stop talking to her kids or just get out and meet a friend
I pray Token sticks with Beckies. 🙏🏽
They will. 😂😂😂
Sorry.. but l tapped out, when 'ol boi said "15".
At first, I felt sorry for her that She was being cheated on but then after he comes out and says she told him to go be with other women how can you expect a man to be with different women and not come across one that he likes especially if they’re having sex. It’s gonna happen. Second of all Him being 15 and her being 20 doesn’t make her a cougar. That’s illegal and disgusting. She’s just all the way wrong here.
Her saying, “I know, I’m a cougar” and kiki’ing about it goes crazy 😵💫😵💫. She’s a predator who groomed this man and didn’t see the Black women he was cheating on as competition and then had the nerve to get on TV with the tears? Chile, boo. She made the choices in the relationship and now she on tv looking crazy. He ain’t no better either and at this point, it’s too far gone.
I was with her up until she admitted to being a pedophile and then she said black women aren't his preference so I didn't care when he slept with them.......bye pedo
Karamo ain't a cop, why is it his obligation to address the grooming and pedophilia now? He's there to meditate their current issues. She's a weirdo but he's dumb for making 6 children with her. They're who I really feel bad for in this situation.
Are you serious?! The foundation of the relationship was messed up from the beginning. You can’t glances over that.
1. The part when she said I'm a cougar! Yeaaa ok lol
2. He didn't address it because it's not the time for it, but you can tell he didn't like that, not one bit.
3. Poor guy didn't even get a chance to explore being his own adult. The only reason why she's allowing him to cheat.
And they done pissed Karamo off! - leave the kids out of it! Period T!
Cougar girl, that’s Inappropriate you a 20 year old woman, finding a 15 year old boy attractive
The fact that he said “I used to be a one woman man until she told me to go party and hang with my boys”
SIR THAT DOES NOT EQUATE TO “cheat on my girl “ 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
What I want to know is, where were his parents/guardians in all of this? She is disgusting and I'm disappointed that Karamo didn't address the fact that he was 15 yrs old and she was 20 when they met!
He seems very gullible and easy to take advantage of, and I don’t think he loves her in a romantically but in a mother son way and she definitely took advantage of her. Stockholm syndrome is real.
So are we gone just skip over the part that she was having sex with a 15 yr old boy while she’s 20😮😮 If it was a man having sex with a little girl somebody would have called the police and have him locked up. Either way it’s nasty
She called it being a cougar…it’s flat out being a predator PERIOD🤞🏾
That should be his job “ I’m taken. “
She is too old for this man and trapped him
I’m from Baltimore Maryland , && I will say my opinion not saying it’s facts or try to pass judgment bc we’ve all been thru relationships. But my advice for her is if he’s amazing father let him continue to be just that leave and find you some friends it’s ppl out here like you AS IN ME who don’t have many friends but I have Best friends . To allow a man to grow is amazing , to have self worth is even more amazing . I have 2 sons and I just refuse to let them know what I’ve been thru as a women and a mother bc I wana see great men in the future . We all make mistakes and we try and live and learn . Leave him and find friends who you can talk to not to say yes or no just to let you vent and cry . But I see he checked out and you can’t keep allowing him to check back in . Leave and see if he can come back as a man without you giving him leadyway . It has to stop bc every women dream should be marriage 6 kids , YALL should be married it’s time for GROWTH 😻🙌🏾🦄 . All you need is a women that can teach you via email or FaceTime get you comfortable with meeting ppl to just walk and talk or sit at water . Enjoy you and what you can help others with . I promise I think y’all both need to exhale 😮💨 and breath again and see what God can get settled on earth for y’all future . Bc lost can bring so much evil out I lost my mom 2020 and I still be dark , he just need a person aswell and not one who’s okay with him doing all of that but a person to talk too about grief and healing . ❤️🩹
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not her trying to be the victim talking about she has no support , she wanted Karamo to say something to agree with her . The whole wanting to be his only white girl thing is ridiculous.. He shouldn’t even be okay with those statements.
Man did my opinion change quick. I am not amused by a 20 yr old taking advantage of a 15 yr old. Now you want to play victim bc you told him to trick and he said "COOL". She is immature and seeking attention.