Hey Steve: Should My Boyfriend Move In With Me? II STEVE HARVEY

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  • Her boyfriend plans on moving in with her, but she’s concerned it could change the dynamic of their relationship. Steve and his studio audience have a very clear opinion on what she should do!
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  • @sledgendi7975
    @sledgendi7975 2 года назад +854

    Girl, DON'T DO IT !!!

    • @OneWomanMan888
      @OneWomanMan888 2 года назад +12

      Good idea 👍 Girl you're old enough.

    • @QUEEN-zo7xg
      @QUEEN-zo7xg 2 года назад +16

      Do you understand her question? She don't have to ask Steve Harvey, he will move in anyway.

    • @OneWomanMan888
      @OneWomanMan888 2 года назад +15

      She just want to be on TV, I think they've already moved in.

    • @PRINCESS-k9d
      @PRINCESS-k9d 2 года назад +10

      She looks like an angel in disguised, still waters runs deep.

    • @buyondoisaac3226
      @buyondoisaac3226 2 года назад +1

      I think life is about development,so if you just agreed to be With him then Cobain come up with something (Ugandan)

  • @Mrs.CDavis
    @Mrs.CDavis 2 года назад +452

    I pray she listened to this advice

    • @ingridreim3205
      @ingridreim3205 2 года назад +21

      I think she will listen, since there were so many grown women in the audience supporting his advice ... 😉

    • @QUEEN-zo7xg
      @QUEEN-zo7xg 2 года назад +46

      She's going to move in, she thinks it's funny.

    • @Mrs.CDavis
      @Mrs.CDavis 2 года назад +5

      @@QUEEN-zo7xg that makes me sad a lil bit

    • @QUEEN-zo7xg
      @QUEEN-zo7xg 2 года назад +6

      @@Mrs.CDavis It's the other way round, she let her boyfriend move in.

    • @Mrs.CDavis
      @Mrs.CDavis 2 года назад

      @@QUEEN-zo7xg you’re right

  • @itsdemirya
    @itsdemirya 2 года назад +1210

    Who still thinks she’s gonna go ahead and move in with him? ✋ 😂

  • @yuhjt
    @yuhjt 2 года назад +91

    That look on her face,,, I think she moved in already😂🤣

    • @lareinelester685
      @lareinelester685 2 года назад +8

      It looked like that right. 😂

    • @loeilmalin3312
      @loeilmalin3312 2 года назад +4

      No I think instead that she already gave her permission to him but didn't move in yet

    • @manorblessing8640
      @manorblessing8640 2 года назад +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 y'all are mean 😂😂

  • @miyakemp106
    @miyakemp106 2 года назад +826

    “Why buy the cow when he getting the milk for free” my mom raised me on that quote! She made sure it was banged into my head.
    Thank you to my mom!

    • @guillaumejodlin7068
      @guillaumejodlin7068 2 года назад +5

      Wowow that's graet.

    • @gurusukumaran1304
      @gurusukumaran1304 2 года назад

      This is only working in America no other Western countries this is not the rule now 20-30 year back its ok . women and men both need milk

    • @abolger539
      @abolger539 2 года назад +14

      So is the cow available or taken?

    • @miyakemp106
      @miyakemp106 2 года назад +10

      @@abolger539 😂

    • @julietdickson3123
      @julietdickson3123 2 года назад +2

      Wow

  • @ibrahimsanga690
    @ibrahimsanga690 2 года назад +84

    Don't degrade yourself by moving in this early. You are such a valuable person to yourself and God..keep the standards that guarantees peace of mind...

    • @SteveTVShow
      @SteveTVShow  2 года назад +3

      Well said!

    • @ricardothompson5697
      @ricardothompson5697 2 года назад +1

      Yall women need to stop allowing these men telling yall how to live and experience relationships for too long most yall women sit down accept people advice when yall have great guys but yall lose them because of people influence

    • @lewiskelly14
      @lewiskelly14 2 месяца назад

      There is no god

  • @mathapelokhanye4330
    @mathapelokhanye4330 2 года назад +119

    Girl, don't do the marriage stuff when you are not married. Its great to be by yourself, enjoy it then later you can move in together after an engagement. For now Just Do You

    • @charms85
      @charms85 2 года назад +6

      After marriage, even then it is hard enough.

    • @SteveTVShow
      @SteveTVShow  2 года назад +16

      You're absolutely right! There are plenty of years down the road to be living with your partner.

    • @mildrisplested4804
      @mildrisplested4804 2 года назад +1

      Well said i wish i had this advice .enjoy u no rush because you end the rushed with kids hard moment

    • @kurtdiesel5769
      @kurtdiesel5769 2 года назад +5

      You don't know someone until you've shared a roof with them...you can't marry someone that you don't know...she gonna marry him and then realise he farts in his sleep and is very sloppy and then there's gonna be a bigger problem

    • @callanc3925
      @callanc3925 2 года назад +4

      Living with someone else isnt "marriage stuff" lmao. Marriage stuff literally isnt anything, if your relationship changes just because you signed some paper then you shouldnt be with that person

  • @tariqjalil230
    @tariqjalil230 2 года назад +192

    Steve is one of very few tv personalities full of sheer wisdom and foresight,what a blessed noble soul

    • @elponchoman9900
      @elponchoman9900 2 года назад +1

      His advices are pretty stupid though...

    • @kenyak2959
      @kenyak2959 2 года назад +1

      It’s judge Lynn toler for meeee!

  • @_neeluswarnkar.
    @_neeluswarnkar. 2 года назад +90

    The moment "We hate him, don't we ?!" 😂😂😂

  • @abundance360
    @abundance360 2 года назад +47

    She is so pretty! Steve is right! I wish I had advice from Steve when I was young!

  • @gr8fruitsprouts440
    @gr8fruitsprouts440 2 года назад +249

    Before those women started- I yelled the same thing. NO- DON'T DO IT!!!"
    I love the scenario Steve painted before saying; "We hate him, don't we?"
    LOL

  • @olorato.mod.
    @olorato.mod. 2 года назад +24

    Can we talk about how stunning she is!!😍😍

  • @imranynwa506
    @imranynwa506 2 года назад +101

    Lexi if you read this comment i just wanted you to know that all Steve said is for your own good.
    Please listening to those who just wants the best for you.

  • @ScorpioBeauty
    @ScorpioBeauty 2 года назад +48

    It’s funny how all the ladies were saying “nooo” “don’t do it” 😂😂😂

  • @beverlyrhame3692
    @beverlyrhame3692 2 года назад +172

    Every word Steve said is true.
    I barely escaped that falling in the toilet debacle three times in two different places.

    • @vturner
      @vturner 2 года назад +3

      girl.. im married & been with the man for 10 years. I gave up smh

    • @evanthompson4186
      @evanthompson4186 2 года назад +7

      See, my dad taught me from an early age to put the seat down everytime... I still have only had one live in girlfriend back in my early 20s. So I'm just living by myself putting the toilet seat down 😂😂

    • @beverlyrhame3692
      @beverlyrhame3692 2 года назад +5

      @@evanthompson4186
      When you meet the one, you can forget about flowers she'll be over the moon over you just seeing how neat her the bathroom always looks, happy woman happy husband💞

    • @News_n_Dine
      @News_n_Dine 2 года назад +1

      @@evanthompson4186 I don't put it down because I don't get the logic. It doesn't appeal to my reasoning. If I hear a good reason to, I sure will.

    • @jinxterpinxter
      @jinxterpinxter 2 года назад +3

      You may want to start turning the lights on when using the toilet. Just an idea.

  • @ForMySoulSistas
    @ForMySoulSistas 2 года назад +108

    Both ladies are beautiful 💃🏾
    - 1st one: I'll NEVER live with a guy before marriage because I want to get married, if we live together he get all the advantages (sex, cooking, cleaning, finances) without giving me the part that I want 🤷🏾‍♀️
    - 2nd one: I'm Congolese born and raised France now living in Canada and I can understand the culture shock you gotta adapt to the local mentality a bit

    • @alphacentauri1776
      @alphacentauri1776 2 года назад +8

      To each their own but it would behoove both parties in the relationship to move in together as too have an easy out if something goes wrong. Steve said to the women don't give away milk until he's bought the cow, I say to the guys don't buy the cow until you've tried the milk. A lot of people think that the man has to audition for the woman but in reality the woman is auditioning for the ring and men are not willing to give y'all a ring until we've seen that you are worth us giving a ring too.

    • @buyondoisaac3226
      @buyondoisaac3226 2 года назад

      If someone tried to test all men that will be the result but if you give you're time to one person then you will enjoy the best my dear

    • @blackmantis3130
      @blackmantis3130 2 года назад +3

      Who says the girl will do those stuff you listed😂😂 besides sex most girls these days don't do the rest.

    • @blackmantis3130
      @blackmantis3130 2 года назад

      @Study Timeso what does the woman bring to the table , sex?

    • @alaraarmin4376
      @alaraarmin4376 2 года назад +1

      💪💫

  • @QUEEN-zo7xg
    @QUEEN-zo7xg 2 года назад +35

    Don't ask him to come over and move the refrigerator, it's dangerous.

  • @delaneyreyes8995
    @delaneyreyes8995 2 года назад +6

    This is the best advice. If you’re young and watching this, LISTEN!

  • @EE-qn4ks
    @EE-qn4ks 2 года назад +23

    He’s speaking truth young lady.

  • @PoeticallyGifted
    @PoeticallyGifted 2 года назад +57

    Reading these comments and reactions are fun lol it’s amazing how many perspectives are out in the world, I’m a 25 year old man raised by a single Aunt but grew up seeing relationships and marriages. It doesn’t matter if yall regular married (legality paperwork) or spiritually married (Gods paperwork) if yall move in together things will change, since that’s the only thing constant. Its all up to you if you will allow it to change in a way that adds to your life or take away. Nowadays too many revert and compare their decisions off of social media or just others peoples experiences, you gotta do what you feel at the moment and have grace that it’ll all work out if your real and true with yourself and partner. The most successful marriages aren’t the ones painted with a beautiful picture but the ones that are brutally honest, the value of relationships have been decreased considering the way life operates nowadays. Yes, back in the day it would be socially acceptable to move in after marriage or once a bond been built. But a beautiful woman told me recently, that she prefers it to be that way because it’s better to know what your dealing with before you know what your dealing with. Gods handbook for us all is all different, we gotta let life take its course sometimes. Love is love and hate is love that never been expressed or received properly. Its all resorts to healing
    Peace & Stillness 🤲🏾

    • @queenprincess4life
      @queenprincess4life 2 года назад +15

      Couples should not be moving into together unless they’re married or engaged with a date. And a man who wants to move in with his girlfriend is a hobosexual. I’m engaged with my own place, he has his own place and he’s getting our house next year before we get married. There’s a right and wrong way to do things. Ladies sometimes need to listen to their elders and avoid the pitfalls of disappointments with their advice.

    • @speeddoctor
      @speeddoctor 2 года назад +1

      There’s another side that no one cares to talk about. Guy marries her then they move in and now she changes up and becomes unpleasant, argumentative, lazy, she has past trauma...etc. No one ever speaks on the man’s side of why men don’t want to give a ring until they live with the woman first to make sure she is “wife material”.

    • @winniejohnson5559
      @winniejohnson5559 2 года назад +4

      it does matter. The world views is always contrary to Gods. he doesn't change. when we decide to do things Gods way , then that is what matters. becoming one with another in Gods eyes in front of witnesses. it doesn't have to a big fancy ceremony . its a covenant . most people deal with marriage as a personal union that's mostly about them. feelings matter more than commitment. so when the music stops or feelings, the marriage is over. bond and covenant with God has no value.

    • @PoeticallyGifted
      @PoeticallyGifted 2 года назад +1

      @@winniejohnson5559 But isn’t marriage a modern thing? Like wasn’t it one of those situations that were created for financial benefits and taxes? I’m honestly asking cause your comment intrigued me, God has to be present in order for presence to be appreciated but at the same time, man created marriage at least thats what I’m learning but I can be wrong as well too. Please educate me on the proper knowledge so I won’t be another blind leading the blind

    • @AD-vm8bp
      @AD-vm8bp 2 года назад +6

      Marriage is not a modern thing, what may be modern is the current nature of wedding and how people enter into marriage but the institution of marriage is one that has been present since the very foundation of the world according to the bible.
      The right way is God's way and God's way is in His word.

  • @Me-gh4qu
    @Me-gh4qu 2 года назад +44

    "We hate him don't we?" - Steve 🤣🤣🤣

  • @edwardrook8146
    @edwardrook8146 2 года назад +671

    So many couples get this wrong. Get to know each other, then get married , then you can move in together and have all the sex you want. The "world's way" is have sex and possible children out of wedlock while suffering various relationship fallouts, then move in with someone at a very low level of commitment and have repeated fallouts and breakups constantly making you move in or out and be unstable, then get married when you're old and plan on never having children because let's face it your life is all about you and you would never want to care for another human being. It's a shallow sad story and being told every day about millions of foolish Americans.

    • @iSpunkrandom
      @iSpunkrandom 2 года назад +33

      Wow I should print this out and hang it in my office LOL

    • @bollagurl
      @bollagurl 2 года назад +30

      Yes and when you don’t want that people think your crazy!

    • @blossomosakpolor
      @blossomosakpolor 2 года назад +20

      You are blessed. For this comment, alone. You're thoroughly blessedddddd!!!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @Gwaxpayne
      @Gwaxpayne 2 года назад +38

      no offense, but it's best to move in first before you even get married, cause there are things you will only notice about that person when you living together, it's best the fallout happens before rather than after marriage. I'm speaking from experience as I did that mistake.

    • @jeffyusufu8274
      @jeffyusufu8274 2 года назад +24

      @@Gwaxpayne the same way many people including myself have moved in together after marriage and things are all good , if you love each other you will learn how to manage things it does have to be negative. it pointless to actually live like a married couple only to get married after sometimes but hey its also a cultural thing

  • @deeogletree3394
    @deeogletree3394 2 года назад +9

    I'm so thankful for my mother, may she RIP. She taught me my worth and instilled values in all of us. My wish for this beautiful young girl is that she has someone in her life that can do the same for her. Asking on a platform like this is cool and all, and I take nothing away from Steve Harvey. However, he is NOT your bloodline and hasn't been in your life but 5 minutes. I pray you are surrounded by a village for the rest of your life. With all that said, girl if you don't tell that boy to go sit down somewhere, I will. No you can't 'move in together' - if and when he is serious, let his actions speak and nothing else.

  • @lusfit6903
    @lusfit6903 2 года назад +122

    My fiancé gave me a $30k engagement ring, proposed in a Italy. But I waited half a decade. Now that we finally moved in together, it feels so good having an actual commitment from his end. It brings me some sort of peace. I would’ve never moved in with him if we were only bf/gf..no way.

    • @SJ-tb2wq
      @SJ-tb2wq 2 года назад +20

      Kudos to whoever brainwashed people that an expensive engagement ring is necessary. Correction. That ANY ring is necessary. Rings are symbols of women's endless cares of what people think about them. If your ring is too small your man doesn't care for you. It's all clever marketing. Blessings to your union, truly. It's just interesting the fact that you HAD to put how much he paid for your ring.

    • @lusfit6903
      @lusfit6903 2 года назад +27

      @@SJ-tb2wq I only mentioned the price bc he went above and beyond of what I ever expected. He worked very hard and gave me the proposal he thought I deserved, and for that he deserves the recognition. I waited so long to get a commitment and I became somewhat desperate so I would’ve been just as happy had he proposed with a $100 ring. The day he proposed will forever be the most magical day of my life and yes I now happily show off my lovely long awaited engagement ring!

    • @lusfit6903
      @lusfit6903 2 года назад +8

      @Jay dilla i never mentioned the price of my ring to anyone except on this comment. So no I never “show off” by telling anyone how much my ring is. I “show off” that i am now finally ENGAGED. And even if people ask how much it is (some have), I haven’t and won’t be comfortable sharing that information bc there are people like you. People who are full of assumptions and negativity who can’t seem to be happy for others.

    • @yanooo2007
      @yanooo2007 2 года назад +2

      Good for you.

    • @sonofman9404
      @sonofman9404 2 года назад +5

      Ok fine, you get a tangible 30k commitment from him, what commitment did you bring to the table to assure him you weren't gonna use and dump him?

  • @initwiththina
    @initwiththina 2 года назад +102

    "We hate him, don't we?"😂

  • @Jackrabbitsteaparty
    @Jackrabbitsteaparty 2 года назад +19

    totally agree with him about that moving in bit. These days, young people always want to rush everything and it 90% of the time turns out bad down the road.

  • @jumb0shr1mp6
    @jumb0shr1mp6 2 года назад +6

    What a beautiful young lady. Keep your own place and independence! No need to rush...just like Steve says. Please listen to all these grown folks. They know exactly what they are talking about

  • @ephraimka194
    @ephraimka194 2 года назад +176

    Only after marriage should a couple move in together; this generation must get that. It's not religious talk but innate human virtue, that this beautiful union be dignified.

    • @godslittlegirl
      @godslittlegirl 2 года назад +5

      YES!! PREACH!

    • @callanc3925
      @callanc3925 2 года назад +21

      Hell nah son, I aint marrying someone unless i know i can live in the same house as them

    • @maloumasereel966
      @maloumasereel966 2 года назад +5

      @@callanc3925 Yep!

    • @jumb0shr1mp6
      @jumb0shr1mp6 2 года назад +12

      I think it's ok to live together while engaged. Sometimes u don't truly get to know someone UNTIL U LIVE TOGETHER

    • @moreblessingmushohwe6506
      @moreblessingmushohwe6506 2 года назад +11

      @@callanc3925 I think there are a lot of sufficient ways to know if you can live with someone apart from cohabiting.

  • @jessicasgarden
    @jessicasgarden 2 года назад +34

    Steve: we hate him don’t we?!
    Women: YES!!
    Don’t do it baby girl!!🙌💃🏽

  • @kernelpanick636
    @kernelpanick636 2 года назад +16

    Moving in with someone changes the entire dynamic of a relationship. I would listen to Steve and if you still feel the same way months later try it out with a best friend first so you can find out your ground rules and what you will and won't allow in your personal space... Then if he wants to move in (which he should show interest in) then you can break down ground rules that you both agree upon. I've had woman move in with me because I suggested it not because they wanted to. They saved money on rent and I was in a terrible situation :/

  • @heatherlea6825
    @heatherlea6825 2 года назад +8

    No! ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS have your own place, so you never feel stuck. If you get into an argument, you can simply go home.

  • @AwakeNotWokeBruh
    @AwakeNotWokeBruh 2 года назад +80

    2:09 imagine the bf watching this 😂

  • @chibuzormartin2143
    @chibuzormartin2143 2 года назад +294

    Steve is one of the most intelligent people i’ve ever seen, probably he didn’t got it from school but i think it’s a God’s gift.😎😎😎

    • @j.v.isaacs4604
      @j.v.isaacs4604 2 года назад

      Actually, going to school has nothing to do with intelligence. In fact, most of the most stupid people I know have degrees from universities.
      From stories recounted by Mr. Harvey, it's obvious his commonsense, and intelligence, were learnt, and acquired, at his home, from his parents, which's how it used to be.

    • @beverlyrhame3692
      @beverlyrhame3692 2 года назад +7

      Absolutely right no school can teach common sense.

    • @marilynharris4831
      @marilynharris4831 2 года назад +3

      No his life experiences

    • @beverlyrhame3692
      @beverlyrhame3692 2 года назад +1

      @@marilynharris4831 🎯❤☺

    • @SteveTVShow
      @SteveTVShow  2 года назад +35

      Thank you for sharing such kind words!

  • @sadiqhussle5832
    @sadiqhussle5832 2 года назад +79

    Whoever is reading this I pray that whatever you are going through gets better and whatever you are struggling with or worrying about is going to be fine and that everyone has a fantastic day amen 🙏

  • @joelkisipian4211
    @joelkisipian4211 2 года назад +32

    Your are a true legend Mr Steve, am nobody now but your inspiration is building me. God bless you

    • @SteveTVShow
      @SteveTVShow  2 года назад +1

      That is so sweet! We wish you all the luck in the world becoming the best you can be!!

  • @jabulanisena6288
    @jabulanisena6288 2 года назад +30

    "You can't get the milk without buying the cow"

  • @TikerrahYoung
    @TikerrahYoung 2 года назад +11

    How do we feel vice versa, I moved with my boyfriend with the intent to move and get my own place after I pay down my debt ! We have been happy now for seven months, no arguments, no issue of who does what etc… we work as a team and make sure each other good even when we aren’t at our best

    • @callanc3925
      @callanc3925 2 года назад

      @Ben how

    • @constancew7
      @constancew7 2 года назад +4

      There are always exceptions but generally speaking its not recommended

    • @Tony_Wes
      @Tony_Wes 2 года назад

      @@constancew7 because most people move in without intentions of marriage within 1-2 years. Most just move in because they love each other and not without a plan.

  • @409Perspective
    @409Perspective 2 года назад +11

    I'm sure this is old but I'll like and watch cuz they should of never stopped his show in the first place.

  • @MyWayWendy
    @MyWayWendy 2 года назад +34

    Uncle Steve knows what is best for you..

  • @charlieempire4392
    @charlieempire4392 2 года назад +12

    "We hate him don't we?"😂😂😂😂

  • @sheilalofton2145
    @sheilalofton2145 2 года назад +62

    Thank you Steve, you know it takes a village to raise these kids, I just hope she listens, especially since she asked for your advice. Young women just don't know how much fun they can have if they just stop being in a hurry to get booed up ! dang, find out what you like first , you probably don't even know 😅

  • @teasha7953
    @teasha7953 2 года назад +10

    NO!!!! Don't do it! Stop the cycle. I've been married twice. I won't make this mistake a third time

  • @Victoria.Pulliam
    @Victoria.Pulliam 2 года назад +42

    I love these videos. Steve is a great person to help others get clarity

  • @itshannah228
    @itshannah228 2 года назад +6

    If she’s talking to men and the only thing they talk about is football???? RUN! Talk to someone that wants to know about you! Both of these girls don’t need to deal with anything 👏

    • @johnumukoro1244
      @johnumukoro1244 2 года назад

      lol chill out he is trying to start a conversation and be interesting

  • @arielambrocio5007
    @arielambrocio5007 2 года назад +20

    The girl is beautiful

  • @MRKYootube
    @MRKYootube 2 года назад +3

    He should've asked if there was a financial component to the situation...

  • @daveliu8959
    @daveliu8959 2 года назад +9

    Hallo sir,Am from kenya🇰🇪🇰🇪 i love watching your show every time on you tube but you always make me smile and love i wish one day ill be there on your show...Good bless your

  • @BeautifulOnes876
    @BeautifulOnes876 2 года назад +3

    Steve looked SO serious with the lady in pink. He was truly trying to save her.

  • @Eric31477
    @Eric31477 2 года назад +8

    " You truly don't get to know somebody until you move in with them."

    • @lee48lee68
      @lee48lee68 Год назад +5

      You truly don’t get to know how little a man values you until he asks you to move in or have children without marrying you first.

  • @demetriegross6688
    @demetriegross6688 2 года назад +7

    They never answered her actual question
    She didnt ask if she should let him move in
    She asked does he has any advice so that the living experience is pleasant

  • @mida7777
    @mida7777 2 года назад +11

    The crowd 😂😂 in her head … I’m not gon do it girl I’m just thinking about it

    • @Bb.Bb29
      @Bb.Bb29 2 года назад

      And the next thing is she says:
      I DID it 🫤

  • @TennisBarbie119
    @TennisBarbie119 2 года назад +24

    Middle eastern girl should find some well-travelled, cultured guys

    • @ingridreim3205
      @ingridreim3205 2 года назад +3

      Yes, maybe someone with a similiar cultural background.
      Somebody with more skills than how to move a refrigerator and more interests than ball games would make a better partner for her.

    • @DavidGonzalez-xm8qh
      @DavidGonzalez-xm8qh 2 года назад +1

      I agree

    • @OneWomanMan888
      @OneWomanMan888 2 года назад +2

      Go ahead girl, follow the 90 days rule.

    • @DavidGonzalez-xm8qh
      @DavidGonzalez-xm8qh 2 года назад

      @@ingridreim3205 a refrigerator? 😂😂 sheesh

    • @ingridreim3205
      @ingridreim3205 2 года назад +1

      @@DavidGonzalez-xm8qh dont laugh, tell me how to say it right, English is not my first language.

  • @andrejamal5438
    @andrejamal5438 2 года назад +5

    Steve wrong 😑 His views are outdated.
    Get to know the person, and before you marry them, make sure you can get to know their living style, their lifestyle and who they are! I WOULD NEVER MARRY A WOMAN BEFORE I LIVE WITH HER.

    • @evalinacesarcassule5097
      @evalinacesarcassule5097 Год назад

      Hum hum.... And" after living with her, make excuses to not marry her, don't commit and when she's feed up, let her with a child, to be the so called baby momma/single moms"... You missed that part. Back in the day, plenty of couples married without living together,in fact, a lot of them barely knew each other and still made a life together for decades.

  • @tonih.justice5013
    @tonih.justice5013 2 года назад +2

    Experience is a good teacher! - Miki Howard

  • @floydbanks1777
    @floydbanks1777 2 года назад +17

    You never really know people until you live with them. If you marry someone or not, when you live with them things will change.

    • @callanc3925
      @callanc3925 2 года назад +8

      straight up, i dont get all these people saying "dont move in until youre married". Like what yall never had a room-mate before? You dont live with anyone unless youre married to them? You think its wise to make it harder to end the relationship before doing the thing most likely to make you want to end the relationship? Seems ridiculous to me

    • @Tony_Wes
      @Tony_Wes 2 года назад +1

      @@callanc3925 Yeah man I agree. I lived with an ex and did not know how messy she was until we lived together. I found myself doing more of the cleaning and 95% of the cooking lol. Funny thing is I also paid all of the household bills. Only thing she had to pay was her car payments and car insurance. She was just not the type to do all of these things. I was relieved that I didn't just marry her after years of dating. I stuck with this mindset even with my wife. We got a place together, I proposed 4 months later and we got married 4 months after that. We did all of this (including buying a house) before the lease was out. She was much cleaner, she was willing to cook and workable. When I realized we jelled I had no problem in marrying her because I knew she would be a good wife.

    • @lee48lee68
      @lee48lee68 Год назад +1

      @@callanc3925 -Women who have self respect would never live with or have children with a man they’re not married to.

    • @callanc3925
      @callanc3925 Год назад

      @@lee48lee68 and whys that exactly?

    • @lee48lee68
      @lee48lee68 Год назад +1

      @@callanc3925 -Giving a man all the benefits of having a wife without actually becoming a wife is disrespectful to herself and any children they may have. When a man does that he tells her, their children and society that she’s worthless and not good enough to marry. There are plenty of men who will love and respect her enough to marry her.

  • @peggymiller3045
    @peggymiller3045 2 года назад +7

    Thank you for adding captions for your deaf and hard of hearing viewers!

  • @blessedblessed5018
    @blessedblessed5018 2 года назад +3

    She's listening BUT she ain't hearing

  • @zoeyzo9948
    @zoeyzo9948 2 года назад +4

    She’s gorgeous 😢♥️♥️

  • @AngieBG
    @AngieBG 2 года назад +20

    This attitude really befuddles me...In my country it is preferred that the couple live together for a while before they get married! Me and my husband lived together for 2 years before the wedding. Imagine moving in after the wedding and only then realising that they have some nasty habits that you can't stand or can't compromise on? It is so easy to present yourself as a decent person to someone you are not spending 24/7 with! I am sorry to say that but only in the US all relationships seem to be viewed as something transactional! I'll give you this if you give me that! Spend that much on the ring, buy this, buy that, and in exchange I'll do this and this, I won't do that though...It's so stupid! Seems to me that you are more concerned with what you get out of the relationship than what you give! And when you are constantly calculating what you are giving and if you are getting the same in return, I don't see how you can consider that a meaningful relationship! You give all you can and all you have when you love someone, period! If you have conditions and especially if you express them in monetary terms, that's not a relationship, that's a contract! Try asking your man to spend a specific amount of money on your engagement ring where I live - he will dump your ass right there and then! And we don't have nowhere near the amount of failed marriages that you do over there!

  • @zobibaglobalMedia
    @zobibaglobalMedia 2 года назад +1

    Excellent advice Steve. Don't let him move in with you.

  • @doneshagraves8881
    @doneshagraves8881 2 года назад +15

    Steve talking facts

  • @imcybilla
    @imcybilla 2 года назад +1

    And Steve is absolutely right!!!

  • @buyondoisaac3226
    @buyondoisaac3226 2 года назад +29

    Thank you dear Steve l always love you're motivations

  • @DimesMontgomery1
    @DimesMontgomery1 2 года назад +2

    Girlllll don’t set yourself up , don’t do it !!! Y’all would be breaking up

  • @Carolinas_SweetTea
    @Carolinas_SweetTea 2 года назад +4

    Baby Girl the Audience was on point for you. Trust me it's a decision you will not regret 🙏

  • @91rummy
    @91rummy Год назад +1

    She is a beautiful girl and looks happy.. hope she stays this way her whole life and not mess up..

  • @JPMasonDun
    @JPMasonDun 2 года назад +61

    I moved in with my husband before we were married, and I never realized how many things were ‘men’ things--leaving shoes all over the pace, leaving clothes on the bathroom floor, leave shaving cream on the sink, toothpaste lid off the toothpaste, leave the cabinets open, etc. I love my husband dearly BUT ……..WHEW!!! They are a lot of work.

    • @osagieafe2938
      @osagieafe2938 2 года назад +28

      That's not men things. That is just your husband. I am a man and I have guy roommates, none of us do this. That would drive me crazy

    • @SteveTVShow
      @SteveTVShow  2 года назад +2

      😂

    • @arymat9979
      @arymat9979 2 года назад +1

      🎯

    • @osagieafe2938
      @osagieafe2938 2 года назад

      @@arymat9979 how do you mean by that sign? Lol

    • @arymat9979
      @arymat9979 2 года назад +3

      @@osagieafe2938 BULLSEYE! 🎯

  • @mariammaude
    @mariammaude 2 года назад +2

    Wow! It is ridiculous how beautiful she is! Her skin is so gorgeous! 😍

  • @tiac.8375
    @tiac.8375 2 года назад +3

    she’s so beautiful

  • @BritneyNicole4411
    @BritneyNicole4411 Год назад +2

    The chanting at the end 😂

  • @News_n_Dine
    @News_n_Dine 2 года назад +3

    I think pointing out those issues is kinda redundant. Like whether it's now or when you're married, you will have to face those issues, so that's not really a good reason.

  • @TeranIcer
    @TeranIcer 2 года назад +7

    I understand Steve's 'take ur time' point, but all couples are different. As far as the Palestinian girl goes, some guys ask what YOU like & run with it, that shows his interest IMO.

  • @blank8376
    @blank8376 2 года назад +6

    she got that pretty brown skin too, boy i love us

  • @LoverGworl777
    @LoverGworl777 2 года назад +2

    Stay by yourself girl!! Enjoy your independence, and he can come spend time with you on the weekends 💅🏾😊

  • @missj3434
    @missj3434 2 года назад +8

    You can tell the first girl's gonna do the opposite of what Steve said..she's smiling too much.

  • @Sheansiaffa
    @Sheansiaffa 2 года назад +5

    Steve over here giving Lori’s type of advice 🤣🤣🤣

  • @promisesmoothes3370
    @promisesmoothes3370 2 года назад +3

    Absolute best response thanks Steve

  • @themasterspiece5669
    @themasterspiece5669 2 года назад +2

    Steve on that first one is HILARIOUS 😂

  • @AwakeNotWokeBruh
    @AwakeNotWokeBruh 2 года назад +98

    3:40 Girl: “How can I connect with American men?”
    Steve: “Have him move your fridge”
    *Applause*

    • @belladobie3937
      @belladobie3937 2 года назад +5

      Yea that was weak 🌮

    • @Dreamysunshine23
      @Dreamysunshine23 2 года назад +2

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @OneWomanMan888
      @OneWomanMan888 2 года назад +6

      After that I'll help to move the bed. lol 😅

    • @rrina5354
      @rrina5354 2 года назад

      🤣🤣

    • @alinomunongo8430
      @alinomunongo8430 2 года назад +1

      That was just an example haaaa.... What he meant make the guy talk about things you really wanna know

  • @antoinelee-thomas9536
    @antoinelee-thomas9536 2 года назад +1

    Look. If she did or didn't let him move in with her is her business and her life.
    I don't know how college dorms work because I never went to college, but if your tuition pays for your dorm, then whatever, but if you have to pay for your dorm and a guy moves in with her or a girl moves in with him on college premises, but they're both working while she's going to school full-time or part-time and she's working a full-time job and he's not going to school there, but he has a decent paying full-time or even works two jobs and they're both going half on the dorm, then I don't see what the problem is as long as the rent of the dorm is getting paid on-time.
    Even if she wasn't on a college campus, the cost of living overall for rent or mortgage is so high that she would be doing the right thing staying on campus, especially if she is from another state where she originally lives, but goes to school elsewhere for the duration of her college years.

  • @iambhml2646
    @iambhml2646 2 года назад +6

    Omg!! Steve: we hate him, don't we??? Ahaha 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @teteobotanpa8550
    @teteobotanpa8550 Год назад +1

    UNCLE STEVE, I AM SO PROUD OF YOU. GOD CONTINUE TO TO GRANT YOU GOOD HEALTHY LONG LIFE.

  • @tinawalker5335
    @tinawalker5335 2 года назад +4

    I clicked on this so fast just because she is so cute!!!

  • @malakuppan372
    @malakuppan372 2 года назад +1

    So true steven for your advice for this young beatiful woman

  • @wayneblake544
    @wayneblake544 2 года назад +6

    Preety young lady!!!!

  • @splashasc
    @splashasc 2 года назад +2

    She is pretty 😍 00:28

  • @shrutiyadav4769
    @shrutiyadav4769 2 года назад +3

    She is so beautiful ❤️

  • @Nini_473
    @Nini_473 2 года назад +2

    Move into HER place?
    Girl he should get you BOTH a place!
    WOW

  • @JohnWick-is9se
    @JohnWick-is9se 2 года назад +6

    Steve you are the best

  • @jacksontee3360
    @jacksontee3360 2 года назад +2

    Lexi is beyond gorgeous 🥺❤

  • @timhoff1863
    @timhoff1863 2 года назад +4

    Much of what he says may be true but it doesn't take intelligence to come up with what comes out of his mouth. Much of it can be experience but experience is not intelligence. As a man, i don't do any of the stuff that he is saying in this clip but it would be a safe bet that many men do. I agree that the young lady shouldn't move in after one year but she could have figured that out on her own. When you feel like you need to ask the question, most of the time you already know the answer but you're trying to get someone to talk you out of it. Best advice I can give would be don't follow your heart, follow your mind until you don't have to ask anyone what should you do.

  • @thematrix2354
    @thematrix2354 Год назад +2

    She’s got a really beautiful skin😍🤎🥺

  • @qoreebadeshina1287
    @qoreebadeshina1287 2 года назад +2

    All I can see is her beautiful face and smile.

  • @sylvakels9958
    @sylvakels9958 2 года назад +1

    she is so beautiful....

  • @Ruthforme
    @Ruthforme 2 года назад +3

    Girl, DON’T DO IT!

  • @soggywafl
    @soggywafl 3 месяца назад +1

    My favorite part of this whole video is when Uncle Steve says that the guy is going to eat everything and just leave the corn in there. Good ole can of corn!

  • @roaming1996
    @roaming1996 2 года назад +3

    Men respect what they have to pay for

  • @faithdavid2202
    @faithdavid2202 2 года назад +1

    "This is gonna change cause we kinda moving in together! Steve you didn't listen she's already moving in that's the question she should have asked you before .

  • @juliecaron7569
    @juliecaron7569 2 года назад +8

    It seems some Americans are quite obsessed with the "ring" and marriage. Very different cultural experience here in Quebec, Canada. My generation rejected the catholic religion for historical reasons and marriage along, preferring to vow their love and faithfulness directly to the person and not needing an institution to do it. While some do get married, they are a minority. We love, we live together, we have children together, we are faithful, romantic and committed, but do not get married. The law has changed to acknowledge and recognize this reality. We would say to move in with the gentleman, it will be the best way to know if you two are truly a good match or not, as he will show his true colours and the true dynamic of the relationship will reveal itself in the daily routines: do you have common interests? do you share core values? do you have the same or compatible lifestyle? can you communicate and resolve differences before they turn into conflicts? can you welcome your partner's vulnerabilities and help him-her get stronger? can you confide joys and sorrows? can you build and share fun projects and outings together that make each partner and the relationship grow and evolve? do you have a spiritual connection? do you feel loved and cherished? do you show appreciation and gratitude? are you sexually compatible and respectful of the others' needs and limits? can you forgive mistakes and move on? If, after a while of living together you find that the passion has fizzled and died, leaving void answers to these fundamental questions, then maybe the relationship is not built on strong foundations and it is best to part peacefully. And if you part, as you are not married, you will not have all the drama, complications and costs of a divorce and will be able to thank your partner for the shared experience of growth, and with maturity and serenity, you can simply move on and not waste your life on a doomed relationship. I have not been raised to fantasize on my wedding or on a wedding dress and so entering a relationship, my heart is open and true, not trying to meet a fantasy social expectation that was drilled into my mind since youth. It is a freedom that elevates all of us, I think, and gives you tools and strategies to face reality and not role-play your life.

    • @amateurguitarist773
      @amateurguitarist773 2 года назад +1

      What if you get pregnant while living with him and later see his real colors?

  • @fastcarsfemininewomen4366
    @fastcarsfemininewomen4366 2 года назад +2

    I don't recall Lexy (first girl) saying "one year." She clearly stated "we've been together a little while."