Karamo Helps Mother & Daughter In Distress | KARAMO
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- Опубликовано: 21 сен 2022
- A mother and daughter are at odds, can Karamo fix their family? Karamo hears out both women’s side of the story, and tries to help both women recognize they are in a toxic communication cycle and it’s time to make a change. Tune in to Karamo EVERY WEEKDAY.
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Why do parents feel that just because they’re your parents it’s okay to say mean things to your kids. That stuff is traumatizing.
Yes it is traumatizing. I go through the same thing.
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think you for putting it all in the right words for me cause my mom have been saying mean things to me since I was 17 and I'm 38 now she say mean things to me and I have to dill what it cause I am the oldest of 3 an people around me be like she still your mom and tell me don't say anything some times that is heard to do
think you for putting it all in the right words for me cause my mom have been saying mean things to me since I was 17 and I'm 38 now she say mean things to me and I have to dill what it cause I am the oldest of 3 an people around me be like she still your mom and tell me don't say anything some times that is heard to do
think you for putting it all in the right words for me cause my mom have been saying mean things to me since I was 17 and I'm 38 now she say mean things to me and I have to dill what it cause I am the oldest of 3 an people around me be like she still your mom and tell me don't say anything some times that is heard to do
The mother is toxic AF. She came out here and played the victim knowing damn well she's been doing that girl wrong
WHAT YOU SAID!!!
Yup
My mother too!!!
I was on the daughter side from jump. Just seeing how her mother’s demeanor changed - she went from crying playing victim to being all gangsta w/ her daughter like lol. And those txt messages solidified it for me!
I agree. It was scary to watch. The mother is manipulative and abusive.
Metoo she lying on her daughter like that smdh
Exactly! She came out all sweet! I felt her sadness but my gut told me to wait, and as soon as, I saw "B**** I hope you D** a slow death", all that went right out the window. I can only imagine how toxic she really is. She needs help just as much as the daughter and I'm glad that Karamo saw that.
Same. The thing is…. I understand what she’s talking about and dealing with. So I can relate.
Me and my mother like that we be ready to fight like strangers they play nice in public and monsters behind closed doors
This mother is a narcissist. One minute she wants sympathy the next she’s being petty, spiteful and mean while trying to act like a victim. I would run and never turn back. She’s a birth giver not a mother.
My mother exactly !!
It is soooo good to see a Black man being a source of healing and positive communication. Hopefully more men will try his approach...
Yessss
this is what's needed.I want this promoted like Shari and Jhud.This is what I like
Haven’t had one since Montell Williams.
Beautiful compliment and comment 💕….
No lol he’s messy asf don’t make him your idol
The mother is more like a teenager.
It's like the same person is arguing with themselves.
Generational trauma
My Mom acts like that too. When she was pregnant with my youngest sibling, she put the blame all on my Dad and they were going through divorce at the time. My Mom was 40 yrs old and she was acting like a 16 yr old. Right now my youngest sibling is 17 and My Mom is asking for Child Support even though back in 2007, both my parents signed court papers that they both don't have to pay each child support. My Mom agreed to that and now she doesn't care about the court papers. She even lied under oath that my Dad agreed to pay for everything for my brother and she doesn't have to pay for anything!!!🤬😡😤
Because she was a child who had a child and was resented because of it, so it’s most likely like she blamed her baby even though she had no reason to but as a teen you’re obviously not a fit mother. She speaks to her as if she’s her friend because she has a unhealed child in her.
She stopped basically at the age of 15, with the trauma of hormones that were not ready to start feeling, gave birth, no family support, and generational curses/and not well educated. So just young and dumb like myself and many black families-Not only black and not all families. I raised my girls in survival mode and although education institutions have told me that I’m so smart. But although I went to many parenting classes, I still didn’t have a clue
Karamo hit the nail on the head, the mother was traumatized and didn't have the tools to parent and she put that trauma, pain, and resentment onto her daughter. The daughter is responding to the abuse with being emotionally abusive to her mother. Please take the therapy ladies, it will help you in ways you can't imagine.
Your absolutely correct ❤
Honestly therapy does not help. Talking to someone you don’t know about your trauma and getting their perspective doesn’t help most of the times because they only tell you what they think. They need to sit and heal separately or with someone who knows both sides and can deflect.
Daughter is in so much distress because she was brought up by a child who never matured
The Momma’s text messages changed it for me. Somethings wrong with Ma.
That's always the case. These women wanna cry as if they aren't abusive at all... You font deserve respect just because you're a parent.
Toxic and she wonder why her daughter ain’t foolin with her….
As soon as I saw the "i hope you die" text, my mother would of been blocked and cut off.
P. ITIFUL. There is NO EXCUSE for any of the evil things that woman said to her daughter.
Her mom put on a good front and as soon as her daughter came out, the mother horns started to show.
Yesssss
Yess!
She's mad the daughter wouldn't let her keep her grandkids but doesn't want her to call her mom?
Let's make it make sense? How?
The daughter is so triggered. She is shaking. The mother gets so defensive and attacks when she is accused, but you can see she wants to change when she breaks down at the end.
I really hope they get the healing they deserve.
My mother is a liar and she never change she catch a strokes and couldn’t talk god bring her around now she walking and talking and she never change
Dr. Phil show but less toxic and 100x better because its Karamo
I can't be the only one that thought the mother was the daughter and the daughter was the mother when she first came out
I thought that as well.
You're not....
Lmao right the daughter looks older to me
Me too
Rightttt😂
It’s scary how quickly the mothers mask came off…
It changed quickly her true self was revealed.
The trauma and hurt is deep within these two. I pray they get the therapy they need to find healing. 🙏🏽
Amen
This was physically painful to watch. Both of them really lack self awareness and are so used to living in their pain that I’m not hopeful they can get better. The mum has a level of hatred for her child that is scary because she almost feels like the child robbed her of her own childhood. Meanwhile the child never asked to be born. It’s just sad.
same thing i’m going through with my mom right now she called me up here to washington state. she’s out me out 6 times total 4 times with my son 1 time in the snow with my son and i was pregnant and the 6th time after she threw away my stuff and they broke my laptop and cut my stuff because i broke down the door to get my stuff to leave because she locked me out when i left to go to the dumpster she called the cops again and got a restraining order that made me leave i was homeless again and have been since i finally get a place next month but i honestly don’t think i can ever love my mother the same. i really think she hates me
Just work on you and having a strong communication with your children...break the cycle and keep the faith....peace of mind is the best gift you can give yourself
I had my 2 oldest while I was young but there is nothing I won't do for them, they're the reason I went back to school to better our lives!!! I have an amazing relationship with my grandbabies and I wouldn't trade that for nothing!!!!!
I totally agree with you ! Because I went through a period in my life I felt that way and I’m so glad I took the time to heal because I’m 40 now and my son is 24 and we have a great relationship ❤
Facts. That so called Woman(the Mother) is a CANCER!!!!
Baaaaaby, LaTrice’s white Mother’s Board shoes are sending me ! 😆😂🤣
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Lol 😅
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The scream I scrumpt😂😂
Mom definitely is lying. I hope the therapy helps. I feel so bad for the daughter.
Mom is regressed to teenage years. She’s stuck. Her maturity is at 15. Kids stop having babies when you are children! Be careful!
Nah, I believe the daughter
Her mom is CRAZY she needs help. The daughter needs to get out take her kids and get help. And STAY away until Mom can get it right.
Karamo is a gem. His sincerity, compassion, and wisdom are all so rare from a human being, much less a talk show host. I get the feeling he will do great things and i'm here for it!
A mental health assessment is essential for both to move forward..Time to break the generational cycle..😯🙄🤔
Damn I thought that the daughter was the mama.
I thought the same thing
Lord so did I!!
The mom is lying and is not taking any account for her actions and words. At first I thought what a good mom for wanting to be with her grandkids, but after those text messages, she is being manipulative.
Omg who is he 🥰🙌🏾 He’s awesome with the outside observations, eloquent advice and hearing each story 🥰 he is careful but stern with his advice, and he offers help! This is a MUCH NEEDED SHOW 😊
He is Karamo Brown! You should definitely watch Queer Eye, he’s one of the main host of the show!
I know right! If Obama got into being a therapist! He’s excellent
It’s so refreshing to see a Black man shown how we know they can be. He has empathy, non judgmental, and able to see and articulate what the problem is and offer constructive advice. I only mention Karamo’s skin color because Black men have been vilified so much in the media and sometimes in our own family, but I am just happy to see a positive MALE image who show how to deal with conflict other than physical. A great role model for young boys to see and emulate.
@@Creyole exactly 🥰
He was on reality TV years n years ago
YOU BETTA PREACH KARAMO!!
It's definitely generational.
I left my pain and tribulation behind when I left home at 15. Best decision I ever made.
I would sooner walk out of my adult child’s life before I’d EVER say or text that kind of hurtful, disrespectful FILTH to them! There are no excuses. There are no justifications. It’s just horrible. The mother is clearly suffering from stunted emotional growth/maturity as a result of the pain, and unresolved issues from her own childhood. There is nothing “maternal” to distinguish these two ladies from one another.
Narcissism
@@fashionizkee8734 totally agree 💯
This mom😐yep young lady get as far away from her quickly… I had a mom like this… they won’t ever get it…
There is no way any mother should EVER talk to their children like that
It was apparent before the daughter walked out that the mother was lying. Children don’t just “out of nowhere” “turn” on you. She’s abusive to her own child and that’s why she doesn’t respect her. The delusion of these types of parents runs rampant.
Prime example of when a baby have a baby. I kind of feel like she taking her child hood trauma out on her daughter. I pray her daughter find healing and break the cycle. The mom seem to be stuck in her ways.
I wrote this before he said everything I was saying. I’m so happy he has this wonderful platform.
The best gift I ever I gave myself was a therapist..
I concur 👏🏾👏🏾
@@butterflyblessbless5836 Big Facts!
Amen ❤️ proud of you 🙏
Yesss!!!
I would love to see a follow up on this one I hope therapy helped
Love the acknowledgement of childhood trauma, generational cycles, and therapy for the past and future healing
Girl, get away from your mother! You can love her from a distance! Sometimes we need to remove folks from our lives! It will hurt for a few, but you will see how much better your life will be!!!
Yesss! That mom is hateful and toxic...I went through the same thing.
Karamo was so on point!!! Instead of being so defensive, they should listen and put in the effort. Being dysfunctional is so normal for people that they can’t accept change and help. I’ll definitely be keeping them in my prayers. This vicious cycle has to end before somebody gets hurt and the children suffer.
Your background gives no one excuses to treat their children so poorly! I was raised by monsters.
My husband, children, and grandchildren praise me daily because of my kind heart for them and others.
You are your true nature. Standard!
The daughter still has a chance to be a better mother. Unfortunately it’s too late for her mom as she’s already traumatized her daughter. There is no way my mother would ever wish death on me and think it’s ok bc I was “mean” to her.
It's NOT too late for either of them
I feel like no amount of therapy can heal these two. It needs them to love each other first, and this evil woman doesn't love her child. That is your CHILD woman! No matter how old she is, she will look up to you!
Wowww, my sons are grown and it's no way I can see them coming at me crazy...Respect, for me, goes both ways, but they know to never disrespect me, I got issues (C-PTSD; childhood and Army Combat Veteran), but I don't curse at them nor do all that arguing, and for THAT I truly give God the praise because I'm not some super perfect parent, but grace abounds. I would NEVER call my sons out of their names, and we ain't raising our hands to each other...But it takes work and breaking away from toxic parenting methods. This Mother is blowing me right now...As a Mother I get that hurt people, hurt people and I pray they get the help that's desperately needed.
Thanks for your service and sharing. I'm 54 and would never come at my mom that way. I'm blessed that I've never had a toxic relationship with her.
@@msistah247 Absolutely...I truly bless God for my two, on my worst day they can make me laugh. The word even says, "Provoke not thy child to wrath"....But parents only remember "Honor thy mother and father", it does go both ways.
@@msistah247 And thank you sis🫶🏾
This literally reminds me of me and my mom . Unfortunately in the black community, this is what it is in most cases . This show is amazing and gives me a chance to speak up they way I would like to 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Definitely not most cases but definitely not unheard of
the mother is a textbook toxic parent.
He should have addressed her behavior way more. Unacceptable
Agreed
The mother full of it.
The whole thing was sickening to watch but the part that really got me was when he asked her Latrice if SHE would commit to going to therapy her only response was “she (her daughter) isn’t gonna change”… he ain’t asking about her… he asking you. And that right there confirmed her daughter was telling the absolute truth. This mom is disgusting and disgraceful and should not have had children that she knew she couldn’t properly raise. She gotta heal first to even be a mom… I feel for her daughter so much
The mother is so extremely problematic and manipulative..the tension & anxiety between the two of them is palpable
The mother was a child pregnant with a child, she never really got a chance to become mature as a woman let alone a mother, she acts more like they're siblings than mother and daughter, she lacks the capacity to have a healthy relationship with her daughter without counseling.
Hopefully we can get a an update on them after sometime in therapy. Wishing all the best to these 2 women and their families.
I am so happy you have a show Karamo. Your advice is sooo real and well thought out. I hope I can come to a live taping one day. I love that you don't gas light or make your guests feel like just "entertainment". Such a rare thing these days.
The mother is crazy
My heart goes out to this daughter. What Mother would say those horrible, hurtful things to their child? This Mother is so wrong! How can this Mother treat her so precious daughter so horribly. Prayers for the daughter and the daughter's children.
Karamo is absolutely amazing. These issues have NEVER been talked about and explored in such depth on a national stage. Bravo, sir ❤
This Mother is carrying past pain being a teen parents and Generational trauma if NOT dealt with gets passed on for Generations Thank You Karmo I worked with Teen Parents and seen this all the time, Hurt people, Hurt People 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
It's the mother !!! Talking about she change. She grew up mom like every child does.
Reading those text messages made me sad for the daughter!! No matter what my children do, I can’t live without them!! I cannot speak to them in that tone😢In that manner!! Love does not hurt 😢I wish I could hug them both 💔💔
I think this is what happens when you have a child as a child,the mom seems stuck in her immaturity and really why would daughter respect her,if she texts vile things and hits her while she holding her kids. I think the mom resents she lost her carefree years, because she got pregnant at a young age and because of the generational trauma being passed down,they need outside therapy in order to heal their disfunctional relationship and not pass this on to the grandkids.
Well said dear!!
I believe the daughter; look how the moms demeanor changed the more Karamo asked questions? I hope they both agree to counseling!
our favorite youtuber. always staying out of drama. always caring for their fans. always keeping it real with their fans. giving back to their fans. thank you.
The mother is a CHILD
The tie 😂😂😂
Paid actor 😂😂😂😂😂
I’m blessed for this man’s words. I unfortunately have endured what this woman has gone through with her mother with both of my parents. That is some tough stuff to hear that someone isn’t “ready to be present or even acknowledge the hurt caused by the PARENTS actions” but man, just hearing him say what he has said to not only that mother but the daughter has really opened my eyes. My eyes are wide open. Like wow even got me and my child or future children like wow
Mom sets the daughter up to admonish her. It’s giving narcissism. The girl needs to move away from her mom and live her life.
Very good job Karamo definitely generational pain here and intense therapy required ❤ beginning with mom
Daughter looks like the mom.
Her mother stresses her out!! Insane I believe the mother is the liar. I’ve seen it… the mother plays nice in-front of other ppl.
Mom act like a teenager that's why.
I was grown when I had my first child howeva I was still a child cause I didn't have a childhood. I locked myself up cause I didn't want to b touched by Noone! U do it momma for urself n let go of the past traumas. Thks for sharing.My parents was born in a different time as well as myself. U n ur children time n beliefs as well. We as blks didn't blieve we needed therapy. So blessed tht I took a different route cause therapy for me gave more insight n I wasn't just Goin by wat I said bout myself nor wat others tht might not have my best interest at heart. Being better for ur grnds makes life easier.Blessings to all.
Mom is a narcissist... and then in the messages...she said she will say she's lying ..so that means anything she says..the mom will say she's lying. Disgusting
I love the disarming hug Karamo.. 🤎
Omg....I can't stop watching this show...may God have mercy on all of these people.. he is such a great person. God Blessings 🙌
I truly love Karamo! He’s a blessing 😢for them to get healing ❤️🩹 from the pain along with generational wounds.
They are both hurting. I hope this gets repaired and does NOT get passed down.
The mother is a liar. Simple. Had the daughter not presented that phone to him, the mom would still be sitting there playing victim.
Her mother is a hard core masculine beast. She has broken her daughter’s spirit. I don’t know how they lived in the same house with eachother. I have two adult daughters that I respect as human beings first and then for the women that they are. There’s no perfect parents but it’s something seriously wrong with the mom. When he asked her about the texts, she was like a 12 year old and said that’s because of what she said. All she said was that if she wanted to leave she would leave. That warranted speaking death over your own daughter? This is a symptom to a much deeper problem.
I totally agree with you.
Karamo, 🙏🏽 you for your focused attention to this Family. We could all learn from that example. I had to rewind this episode a few times and in the end, hope for the best for them👀
I landed by chance to this show !!! I’ve commented on a few shows , about toxic mothers !!! This is so my mother … I just can’t keep writing in every show I watch , but I’m hurting !!! My mum is sooo on me , I have no words ! I’m trying to stay away since 2 years , I’m healing but also hurting !!!! 😢😢😢😢
Oh yeh … my mum said this same things to me…. Mind you I’ve never lived with her at all , I grew up with grandma in Kenya , I came to her (Vienna - Austria) aged 16. At 17 I had to move out coz she kept her husband and let „us“ move out. I have this kind of messages too from my mum!!! OMG!!!! This is so my mum, such messages that she’s not my mum, that she wished me dead, that I have to pay her back for bringing me to this world !!! JESUS!!!!! Oh my God, this playing victim too, crying , so fake! She also called the children’s department on me too!
Lady, you’re not alone. I’m in this too .. but keeping her away !!! I’m tryin to keep her out of my life! But still pocking in my life when she keep asking my daughter about me . She says she cares that’s why she ask about me , but she’s looking for stories to talk and create more drama! She doesn’t care how me and my daughter feel !!! I’m a grown up who has never had her mother nor dad!!! She still won’t tell me who my dad is !!!! Another big problem !!! 😢😢😢😢
This hurts so much!!! The daughter treats the mother the way she does because of the things her mother says to her. Mother had her at 15 and no support so she takes her frustration out on her daughter who didn't ask to be born. I hope they can work it out between them!
I can see my mother in her, she doesn't make me cry anymore. I got hurt until I can't be broken anymore.
They need Iyanla! ❤️
Call her on the hotline and Jesus!
They both do for real!
This is what happens when a child has a child. She resents her daughter and it comes out in this passive aggressiveanner. Hurt people, hurt people.
The daughter looks older than the mom
the momma aint shit to her child
I’m a parent and watching this hurt 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 kids are humans too and have feelings 😢
We as people have to learn to heal ourselves first before we can heal anyone else. I pray that this generational curse be broken in the name of Jesus. Amen🙏
Heartbreaking !!! Lord I pray that they can get help and fix thier relationship and themselves
Her mother is toxic, the stuff she says to her daughter is terrible!
They are the exact same.
Just because you have kids don't make you a mother...Smh.
GET FAR AWAY FROM YOUR MOM. SHE NEEDS HELP... LOVE HER FROM A DISTANCE
Too toxic!
Karamo speaks to the heart ❤️
The mom had the nerve to play the victim smh
Latrice sounds EXACTLY like my mum......After my husband's death,i reluctantly moved in with her..and because i was visibly grieving and clearly not coping..she called the cops on me, kicked me and my 4 kids on the streets. My youngest was 6months old..Prior to being kicked out,i paid my way,helped her financially on top of paying my way. She verbally and physically abused me..Then she acts shocked because i have severe depression and trust issues now..Some parents need cutting out for real....
I pray Kiesha is healing now🙏❤️
I need an update in the future! 🙏🏾
I see so much of my mom in this mother and it’s CRAZY
Her mom reminds if my mom so bad I literally cut my mom off cause it was damaging me
It’s okay to need HELP
They don’t need to live with each other’s so sad they both in pain hope they get the help they need I wish my mom was still alive rip mommy
Whew this makes me thank God for my mother wow. May she RIP my mom was my best friend.
Wow, this mother needs help, you are the mother even if she said that you are the mother..That is not how you talk to your child.. I pray they both listen and break the cycle 💜💫💜