Mom, Why Did You Leave Me? | KARAMO
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- Опубликовано: 17 май 2023
- Kwame was abandoned by her mother who was caught up in drugs and sex work. Now, she wants her mother in her life but can she begin to heal her inner child is hurting?
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It’s refreshing to see a mom on here who is actually trying to apologize and take accountability.
Yeah, I don’t know what you’re seeing……
@@prettyroses4742 no we don’t know what YOURE seeing
@@prettyroses4742you shouldn’t b seeing it you should be HEARING IT . When she admits that she doesn’t know how to be a mom and admits she was a HORRIBLE mom is taking accountability . It’s that first step and they WILL heal from this 🙏🏼
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Ikr.... like I read the comment then watched and was like....the mom gave a non apology apology
Right. The remorse and lack of denial make this mom SUCH a breath of fresh air. There is hope here. I'm typically disgusted by the attitudes of the parents on this show, but not this time.
Her mother saying “I’m sorry” broke me. I feel the sincerity in her voice, and wish my dad would’ve done that. A sincere “I’m sorry”
Me too! My relationship with him is so fake and forced because he won’t say I’m sorry and acknowledge WTH he did to me and my brothers by not being there! SMDH I feel you! ❤
I understand what both of you are saying. I feel the same way about my dad.. 💔
When she said your going to be just like your mom bro I’m trying be myself don’t compare to my parents
Your dad loves you he just didn't know how to show it I always say my family only knew how to love in reverse using reverse psychology I said when it felt like they were hating me I just said that's the way they Love I don't know if you still with us on this side of Glory but we have a greater Father which art in heaven that's our real father please believe he loves Us God bless you have a beautiful night continue looking up
@@Lovely_1One my Dad loved the way he could but I was there when he passed and a couple of days before he did I got him to say that he loves me at least I got him to say it once that's all I needed because I knew the whole time he just couldn't say it but he did and it felt good God bless you he's our true father
I think the mother became a mom at a very young age while dealing with sexual abuse, trauma, shame, & PTSD. it appears the mother used drugs to escape her unhealed pain and at the age she became a mom she didn’t have the executive functioning or emotional intelligence to make sound, educated, and supported decisions. I really hope the continue to heal together.
Agreed I don't think the daughter is understanding the affects of drugs and being raised poorly causes
i agree
I'm rooting for this mother and daughter to make it. The mother acknowledged her faults which is a big step towards rekindling the mother-daughter relationship.
I am rooting for them too!
Oh all of the mothers that Karamo has had on his show, I think that THIS one is the most sincere. When her mother apologized, I felt her pain. I think that the daughter should give her mother another chance.
That's not a fair assessment, everyone reacts different
@@2intriguing1 what ?? She’s clearly saying she’s sorry we as a ppl are so selfish and insensitive to our parents when they hurt us as if they have NEVER been hurt in their lives before
Her daughter won’t find healing until she gives her mother grace, I understand she’s hurt but her mother’s pain seems to be the same. They both deserve to talk about it.
agreed
Amen to that
Yeah she hasn’t forgiven her, she doesn’t think she needs to. But forgiving her is step 1 to building that relationship she wants with her.
Yea that's why I said I'll pray harder for the mom because understand it takes a strong willed somebody to be able to sit through baby girls pain and needs and the mom is too new and fragile in her recovery to hear over and over how she messed up. I just pray they both can be the rock needed unfortunately it'll take both until mom addresses her pain , trauma and neglect. So deep and you're so wise and level headed to recognize that. So often everyone...literally everyone finds it easy to throw boulders l at neglectful Mothers but there is a source. That source unveiled is how healing begins❤
Sometimes going no contact is healing. You don't have to forgive to heal.
This broke my heart, she keeps talking about how she was molested and every inch of pain is felt, may they both have better days ahead together❤️
Amen !❤
This show snatched my soul. I was boohooing. I love this union and healing . This was the first mom I saw on the show displaying real understanding of the damage that she caused her daughter . I hope they will continue to grow together and love on each other as much as they can!
Somebody should have warned me! 😭😭😭 I was NOT ready!! I have such high hopes for them. The mother has taken accountability and the most sincere apology I have seen. ❤❤❤
The way that she sobbed broke my heart. I sincerely hope that their relationship transforms. That, for all the pain she endured, she is doubly and triply blessed going forward.
Omg yes and I lost it at that point! 😢
Thank you so much for your kind words
Omg this is the first time a mom is being real in really admitting her wrongs .my God wrap your arms around this family Lord in Jesus name Amen
Oh my God..I was also molested in church, during the sermon by a young female! That wasn't the only time. When I got enough courage to tell my mama in my 20s, her response was, "What you telling me now for?".....My mama also grew up in that era where you didn't talk about certain things. I don't understand how people can't see how these "generational curses", surrounding sexual abuse, are linked to slavery and us being bred like cattle, animals.
God bless you I hope you get therapy for this and I hope God get that sick person
Blessings to you for all you went through 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I'm so sorry this was your experience. You deserved to be protected and safe. I hope you know that the person who did that has no knowledge of God because he loves you and would never want to see His children suffer. They have to answer for that but you are above your circumstances. I wish you continued healing and an abundance of blessings 😊
What worries me though, sounds like the person that did that to her mum, may have been the same person that did that to her daughter- they need to speak up & expose that vermin
There's a great book by social worker Joy Degruy linking the trauma we experienced from slavery to the conditions that we currently live in the present day. She puts forth a hypothesis of African Americans, especially African American men experiencing something similar to PTSD. The book is titled Post-Traumatic Slave Syndrome. It is all so very much generational. It's no different from the trauma survivors of the death camps experienced during WWII and it has been proven by genealogist that the offsprings/later generations of these survivors have a genetic marker for the horrendous stress they went through. I wish there was more research on this topic. Thank you for sharing your story, and just making it through all of that. You are strong and resilient and loved Queen.
The mom got me emotional when she said I’m learning how to be a mom some moms can’t even fix their lips to say that
I’m a soggy baby right now. First off the daughter is so so brave to tell the raw truth about her experience and I applaud her for that. As for the mom, one thing you have to do when someone spills their soul to you on how you hurt them is sit there and listen. Eat it. Take accountability and resolve. Issue a sincere apology. That’s exactly what this mom has done and I have faith they will be okay 💛
I'm still crying just have to pray for the both of them
This is my cousin I am so proud of you and Nicki for this !!! Y’all needed closure. I can’t stop crying knowing all the stuff you been thru I love y’all ❤
If u really r ,
then be pls part of the healing to your family!!!!!!!!!!!!
I love you too cousin❤️
@@KwaneJohnson its u 4 true wow hows life how u doing
@@flowerqueen229 hi yes, and im doing well life is treating me okay
❤️♾❤️lOVE
It takes courage and hope for today's generation to call out all the mistreatment and abuse every single generation went through. This is beautiful. bless her heart...😢😭
You have to understand your mother's story in order to understand yours. It is generational and we mostly learn parenting from our parents. Sometimes the cycle will be broken and I am sure when this young lady has children she will be a better mother...sorry is a fantastic mother
You better preach
@@iamherefortheshow699I’ll disagree
I'm so glad to see this young woman smile and be happy at the end of the show. Great show Karamo!!!
Awww, mom was very remorseful! I pray for their healing 🙏🏾
I’m glad her mom apologized!!!! A lot of the parents up here make it about themselves and don’t apologize
Right!
People make excuses for horrible parents. She apologized but it takes so much to overcome this situation. Her mother is still not where she is suppose to be. This is the current problem in the black community. Horrible unfit people having children and the hurt children hurt the community. She still is not willing to take responsibility for her failures
It’s not just black people
@@dominiquelemon7125 ok??? Step one is apologizing..is it not ? Most people people don’t even get that
@@_belloty1394 they don’t!
Bless this mother and daughter! Karamo you are a blessing! Got me crying at work.
I love black women & Im happy they’re getting help for their relationship
This is so heartbreaking , I can feel her hurt , that cry is every bit of emotion that’s been trapped in. It’s fucking real when you’re feeling alone. She’s tired mentally yet she’s still standing trying to find peace , such a strong woman ! Mothers … do better! Close your damn legs if you can’t be there both mentally and physically for your blood , put the fucking pipe down. It takes a damn show to hear your kids out and to acknowledge your wrongs, sad. I hope they can move forward and break the damn cycle!
I think she became a mom at a very young age while dealing with sexual abuse, trauma, shame, & PTSD. it appears the mother used drugs to escape her unhealed pain and at the age she became a mom she didn’t have the executive functioning or emotional intelligence to make sound, educated, and supported decisions. I really hope the continue to heal together.
Awww she turned into a little girl at the end. Her inner child was being spoken to. Awww ❤
I said the same thing. So giddy and joyous. My God❤😊
My mom died when I was 6 months old! And I feel everything this 👑 is saying! I’m 35 and still yelling I just want my mom!
im sorry
@@teetawn9454 🙏🏾
❤ I’m sorry for your loss, your void. May peace be upon you.
@@deejai1173 thank you! I fight everyday to keep going because I know she would be proud of me! 🥲💪🏾🙏🏾
Sending bear hugs your way love❤❤
THIS! is the type of TV we need!!!!! KAROMO WE LOVE YOU and GOD BLESS THE MOTHER AND DAUGHTER!!!
I'm 26 and my mom's been hooked on drugs since I was a baby .. all I wanted and not gone lie STILL NEED, is my mom.. Iknow her pain..I feel her pain .. but Iknow I will never get this experience to talk and get my mom to understand because she's not right in the head after 30 plus years on cocaine 😢.. I cried a lot on this case cause I can really feel this . I be lost but my 3 kids get me by couldn't do it without them . Wish the best ❤❤❤💗
This has me in tears 😢Generational Trauma is so REAL and insidious…. I hope this baby and her Mom can begin the journey of healing
I’m amazed by this lovely young woman. She is so intelligent and well-spoken with an incredible future ahead of her. I wish i could hug her. Mom and her are on the right track. ❤
Addiction destroys families! Imagine the number of untold stories of abuse in church and care homes. I hope they are BOTH able to heal. Sending positive energy!
Oh my god when the daughter broke down crying I did too you can just feel her pain 😢 & when the mom kept saying I’m sorry you can feel the sincerity in that. I hope they’ll be able to heal & fix their relationship ❤
Baby girl she loves you.. let your mom give you the love she has . Love heals a multitude of hurt. Let it in. ❤️❤️
So much pain in her words! God cover her in your loving arms and please help mend this relationship. In Jesus name AMEN! 🙏
The pain of that little girl broke me. Looord! I would love to see their after story. Wishing them all the best.
I hope things are good for you all 💕 also happy Haitian flag day to any Haitians watching
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Yes and power to the people ❤️🖤💚
@@ariellemayaali 🇭🇹💕💕
@@evonza4858 🇭🇹💕💕
I didn’t know about this, but Happy Haitian Flag Day!! 🇭🇹🇭🇹🇭🇹🇭🇹❤️
Mom: I don’t understand why I’m here because I don’t feel like this is going to get resolved.
Karamo: Hold my beer..
YAAAAASSSSSSS
She said that because the daughter kept cutting her off. She was trying to explain why she wasn't there but the daughter wasn't open to hearing her.
This episode
Hit so hard .. my mom died before she could get clean and we could have an honest conversation like this. I love Karamo for helping to break these generational curses ! What a blessing this mom heard her daughter and her daughter met all that pain out. I pray for their journey together
Karamo tried so hard not to cry. I would’ve been balling 😢😢
Got damn I miss my mom after watching this 😭she gave me so much love it’s crazy. I appreciate her so much more now that I’m ad adult and I don’t have here anymore …. RIP mommy 💔🙏🏾
Real talk I feel you
We can never understand how broken a person can be. LORD please heal this family and other little people who has been on this road. Amen Amen Amen
Two generations of drugs, abuse, abandonment and a lack of love But the next generation is going to have a good mother and a present grandmother. The next generation will be stronger. God is breaking chains in that family. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💜💜💜
Boy they got me home crying watching this.
A 15 year old pregnant girl who was still a child herself. It was messed up from the beginning 5:55
This is so sad 😢 I hate when people abuse kids ..they create broken adults . It’s so sad 😔
The fact that Karamo takes no sides and his humble advise brother please don't stop you have healed so many people the world is better place with you
Oh my goodness 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢... I'm very very sorry ladies 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽. I will pray for you, your mom, and your siblings 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕.
Soooo very sorry 🙏🏽. I'd definitely want to watch this entire episode.
Kwame, I also had a fractured life, but it was only when I started to look and understand the many pieces of myself that I progressed to understanding my mother. I found in the end, she was just like me. I wish you Godspeed in your process.
This mother and daughter are beautiful. Been through a lot, but still have a beautiful spirit. Yall gone be alright.
This is a genuine mother & daughter relationship. They’re not broken ❤️ their growing ❤💯💯🙏🏽
This is probably one of the best episodes. I wish them all the best.
The daughter wont give her mom a chance to explain why. Thats her mom way of coping.
I wish I could reach in and hug that little 12 yo girl… it’s so hurtful and nothing can heal her but her. I’m heartbroken hearing this story bc it’s all too familiar, but healing is so possible but it takes a lot of work. I’m praying for this family’s healing and praying that this cycle ends here 🙏🏾❤️
I wish my mother would learn something from from this mother and daughter right here. My mother doesn't listen and never takes accountability for things that she's done and still does that hurts me so much. God bless you two on this show ❤️❤️ You're mother definitely is trying baby❤️ Blessings to you both
I am so sorry this episode made me sooooooo mad bc my mom spent almost my entire life in prison chasing a bag selling dope. I use to be soooo angry and hate filled and use to be like what about me or why did you leave me etc.......I really had to stop saying all those things in order to actually hear my mothers sincere apology. Once I actually shut up and heard her the first thing out her mouth was I know I hurt you I know your feelings felt stepped on and she was really explaining how I felt. Then she in turned explained how things were for her and when I say my mother has been overly active in my life its amazing. You will never move on and heal yelling fussing carrying on especially when my mom was sincere. I was like girl I get it but please let your mom talk. There is no manual on how to raise kids and even if you see an example to be better it aint always that easy when the cards are dealt to you
Wooooo her mom sounds so sincere. That’s so refreshing to see on here. ❤️❤️
I've seen a lot of heartbreaking stories in this show and they are all heavy but this one, ooof, it's heavy, however it's so beautiful that they were able to come together, Karamo you are a wonderful man, I wish the best for those two women they deserved better than the way they were treated much love to survivors
I be waiting for KAROMO!!! ERRRRDAY!!!
KAROMO?? 😂 same thoo
I hope this woman gets the mom her inner child wants & deserves 💗
I cried so hard because my mum wouldn't say that she was sorry and told me that it was all my fault at least there's a spark of hope between them at least the mother is willing to admit that she was wrong that is when true healing can begin
I’m so sorry that your mom couldn’t utter those words to you 💜
Wow! What an episode! The daughter just needed to release that pain in order to heal and let the light in. Bless her heart. That's a cheat code for anyone feeling trapped in sadness. Its like a veil that clouds your awareness of who and what you truly are. It its a trick of the mind. You can only hear and see the negative because of the memories that you cant get out of your mind. But in reality, you are so much stronger, and so much more powerful and in control of the present moment than you are allowing yourself to believe. See how as soon as she made the choice in her mind to accept what was in front of her as the grown up version of herself and move on, she was able to step out from underneath the storm cloud and into the sun for once? It really does feel good to let go of the pain if its holding you back from experiencing a full life. It does take some people a lot of time/work and emotional energy to get there, but totally worth it for the freedom it brings in the end. Because if you don't deal with your pain, you will pass it on to someone else. Then the cycle will inevitably continue.
When she said she doesn’t know how to be a mother because her mother wasn’t a mother to her. I wish her Mom healing and I want them to break generational curses, to cry together, to heal and to create a new relationship. 😢😢😢😢
Now you hear what she said. First time being molested. Was where in the church. But the church don't want to talk about that. They too busy trying to camouflage talking about the gay people.
She didn’t want to forgive her mom outright and you can tell. It’s going to take time because that little girl inside of her is thriving on discrediting her mom. She didn’t want to see her mom as a victim but that is the society us as black women are in sometimes..She needs to forgive her mom and go to therapy for the things that were done to her as a child because that’s not her mothers fault.
She doesn’t need to forgive her mother immediately. Healing and forgiveness cannot be place on a timeline.
you absolutely don't know what you are talking about. She is a victim in this dynamic, not her mother. Her mother had an obligation to be there for her. She deserved better. The mother is a victim in a different dynamic. If you have are not the child of an addict who grew up without a mother, then you have no context.
@@TheDysimpson1her mother is a victim as well. Everyone wants grace, but no one wants to extend it.
It absolutely her mother fault. Wtf . I get her mom had it bad also..but some people choose to do better for their kids. This young lady is.. but at the same time even if she was a lousy mom. You can't keep reminding her. All she can be is sorry but it definitely was her fault..she wasn't around and terrible things happen to her daughter. Honesty if she didn't know how to be a mom but keep popping out kids. Get your tubes tied jeez
You are right . But forgiveness and not an instantaneous thing. It’s a process and I’m praying for both their healing and ability to forgive
Your mom was a baby having a baby. Forgive her y’all can keep growing together 🙏
She kept having babies
@@tilabryant5591 like majority of all women do. The point is she was 15 and she was a baby period
@@gwenphillips1998 they keep having babies even though they’re addicted to drugs…baby after baby after baby? That’s a disgusting choice and it’s your fault at this point and I will never make excuses for them.
I had personal issues with my mom but she's not here it's been 8 years since she departed this life Those of you that have a Mother please cherish her while she's here❤❤
There's nothing worse than feeling abandoned and unwanted.😢
Not this episode got me crying🥹 like Karamo said, “y’all gone be alright“ 🫶🏽🤍💯 much love to you both!
I broke hearing her mother break down saying im sorry. She is very sorry, she too was a victim of the pathology that runs deep in our community. I pray the mother and daughter gather a team of resources behind them. I cant even finish this episode, My God💔. There is always a source. And that is the grandmother and whoever else violated and neglected her. This is why im a child advocate, sex predators should face max extreme punishment. They are 2 beautiful women who get to learn and navigate the rest of their lives together. I pray harder for the mother because she is still weakened by her affliction and they break easy at hardship. I PRAY SO HARD FOR THESE 2❤
The best gift a mother can give her daughter, ✨is her story✨. Both have to be open to it, apples don’t fall far from the tree. Many blessings to this mother and daughter, the wounds are healing.
I like Karamo show. He gets to real content and real people. He's bringing back REAL talk show talk! This is what Jerry Springer (Rest in peace) and Maury Povich use to be about.
Her daughter is hurt but she has to understand what her mom went through
I cried a little bit 😢
TEARS 😢😢😢😢😢😢
I absolutely love you karamo thank God for people who cares the way you do , my mom been gone a long time 37 years 😢 I wished I can hug her , praying that this mom and daughter continue to love on one nother ❤❤❤❤
Love hoe the mother hugged her and cried with her daughter. She certainly acknowledged that she didn't know how to be a moyher but is willing to continue learning. How she said het daughter is a good mom.😊❤👍🇯🇲
Look here Sir Mr. Karamo!!!! You will not let these beautiful women cut onions that strong in my living room again...okay!!!! 😘
This brought tears to my eyes my mom is no longer here and we were rather close I love this for them ❤God gone get y’all through this
May you keep your Mom in your heart. May her memories bring you laughter and comfort even though you grieve her loss.
Thank you mom for owning your mistakes. The devil is defeated and the curse is broken!!!!
Whewww the way I have cried. I pray both these women are made whole. They both have broken little girls in them that needs to heal. One is just a little girl with a baby❤ Mom is truly trying. Bless them both.
omg why did i watch this while trying to work 😥😥😥😭
You are something special! I’m so happy to see you helping people and their families!!! You can truly see u care! Even how you welcoming your guests when they come out! So uplifting! You’re about bettering people and not the views n entertainment!
Wow!!! This was so heartbreaking. Wow!!! Karamo is amazing!!!!
I keep seeing this happen. Children not being able to see past their hurt to the fact that unfortunately they got a bad deal. Their parent got a bad deal and was suffering and abused and addicted to a substance. As bad as she feels, her mom was also in the same place and situation. What's the solution?! 😢
Mommy issues are a real struggle! I really hope these two things keep getting better. I've had so many moments where I falsely believed my mom would finally own up to her actions and make a change. Last year, my therapist told me to grieve for the mother I never had and would never have. It was incredibly tough, but I'm slowly learning to mother myself.
I'm always comforted by Isaiah 49:15-16,
"Can a mother forget the baby at her breast
and have no compassion on the child she has borne?
Though she may forget,
I will not forget you!
See, I have engraved you on the palms of my hands;
your walls are ever before me."
I understand the daughter but I understand the mom more! The daughter needs to listen more and talk less
as the mother sits there and doesn't console her and let her daughter weep?? That's BS
My thoughts exactly. Learn to listen and understand instead of wanting to be heard all the time.
@@Reinanbali yea letting her cry maybe but not getting a full understanding of what the mom went through as well is also! I know first hand what the mom and daughter are feeling but until I learned to listen to my birth mom and get a full understanding of what she went through as well I was never able to understand and heal from it but after I learned to listen and then speak my peace that’s when the healing process started! We were able to sit down and talk to each other and figure out what it would take and where to start to heal and mend to where we can have some kind of relationship as mother and daughter! So as I said I know the daughter is hurt but it only takes a minute to listen and begin to understand what could possibly mend a life time of hurt and pain
This man is amazing!!!! Just found this page today and I’m obsessed. I love to see healing. Karamo thank you for what you are doing for us!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤
I will say, I appreciate her mom's apology. Sadly, many parents don't know how to do this & usually excuse their behavior but as soon as you do something wrong, it's the end of the world. As a mother now of a 5 yr old, some days are easy, but some are hard. I worry often how I will be when she gets older. I really don't want to leave a bad painful mark. Truth is, many of us parents are winging it and learning as we go. & not to mention our own flaws & pain to deal with as well during it. I hope they heal from this & become stronger from this experience. Xo
UNCLE KAROMO!!!!!!!!! WE LOVE YOU!!!!!!!!!!
That "what about me" question is an empty vortex.
Generational Curses
I just happen to come upon this talk show today and this is the most touching story. It brought me to tears I pray that they both find the comfort and strength they need to get past their pass. Blessings to you both🙏
I can really relate to quania. The way she broke down is the way i feel about my mum also. Props to her mum for apolgising and complimenting her daughter thats all i want from my own mother. Karamo you are a hero. Not all heroes wear capes❤
I could tell the mom wasn’t trying to take away from the daughter m, she was just explaining she understands and that it’s a generational curse. The mom screaming I’m sorry just showed how sorry she is I don’t think I’ve ever seen a mother apologize in that manner on this show
Hearing her mom apologize broke me in tears you can tell it was genuine I hope they heal and find the peace they were looking for along
this episode right here pulled at my heart strings . I see from the daughter’s perspective , but I also see from the mother’s perspective . and the fact that her mom was so sincere in her apology and wanting to do better and grow with her , is so commendable . I also saw that what the daughter needed was someone to hear her and be there for her , and after that one good cry , you could see the release and the smile on her face afterwards . I think more parents need to be accountable for their actions , especially with the upbringing of humans . I know there is no manual for parenting but there is so many ways to try to be a good parent . God bless these two ❤️
Break them curses baby girl! You are stronger than you know ! this is what so many people my age mean when they want the parent to take accountability. I’m proud of both of them ❤
Love this show so much!!!
I need to work but I'm here crying here on this damn page everyday😂
I couldn’t be begging my child like that but that’s me, good for her and hope it works out.
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Her mothers "im sorry, i didnt know how to be a mother" kinda healed a lot for those who will never get to hear it from their own.