Your Mother Is Ruining Our Marriage! | KARAMO
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- Опубликовано: 11 апр 2023
- Jekeila says her relationship with her husband’s family took a turn when they moved closer. She says things have gotten physical with her mother-in-law and her husband Antoine is no longer putting her first. Can Karamo help this couple create boundaries with their extended family?
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The wife doesn’t let him talk and that’s why she never heard him express his pain. Then the “I’m raising you now” comment was crazy. She annoyed me so I can only imagine what he’s going through.
That statement hurt me beyond words! She belittled her husband. He is the man, the head of his home and she should have listened especially when he is pouring out his feelings, but no, the chatter box has no break! They need counselling asap separately and collectively.
Karamo should have told her to stop talking(over him) and listen.....
That’s why the mom don’t like her
My sentiments exactly
This comment !! My exact thoughts
I LOVE how Karamo tells the husband that he doesn’t have to discuss his trauma on his show! That’s a CLASS ACT move because MOST, if not all shows want those ratings! So they want you to spill the tea! This is so refreshing to see!!! Please people , whenever you go on these shows, please don’t feel pressured to tell the world about your trauma, if it’s something that you do not want to discuss ! Karamo is amazing !! I love him and his show! Top tier !!❤
Yea I have been on a marathon and what I’ve noticed is that somehow I’m not overwhelmed , usually jerry sprinwgr I would just take it off after a few episodes but he’s show is truly different from all the others .
They all need to grow up and fast for their children's to understand what is right peace always.
100% agree, one of the few shows that actually helps people.
I wish she would stfu and allow ANYONE to FINISH their sentences goshhhh smmfh
She really does have to let him talk. He expressed to her he WAS happy where he was and she says but you were. He knows how he feels let this man be a man and express himself without talking over him
Exactly, she wouldnt let him get a word in. He is a grown man and knows exactly how he feels and he is trying to express himself and she is cutting off his every word and trying to turn it into what she WANTS him to say. You can tell she has control issues. I was once that way and had to open my eyes and realize what I was doing was pushing my husband away.
He can’t talk. She’s trying to help him. But yeah he needs to learn how to communicate without her trying to speak for him.
@@opulence_prime that’s the problem, she’s trying to control how he communicates.
If she would just “Hush” he would of been able to get it out.
Highly frustrating, she reminds me of my mom. I couldn't get a edge word in, and she flips it. To make it about her. Pure narcissistic, those kinda ppl who have to get away from. They will drain you!! I don't drink, but I see why he drinks!!
My mother is the same way too she do the same thing to me and cutting me off and over talk me dat is real disrespectful to me right there
Wife doesn’t listen. She keeps trying to talk over him. He can’t even complete a sentence without her interjecting.
I’m glad I’m not the only one who noticed that. She’s annoying.
Her constant interruptions irritated my soul. It’s a form of control & rather disrespectful. I wish Karamo would’ve brought that to her attention.
If this was a massive issue Karamo would address it. The husband is weak😢
He needs to man up..grown up enough to have 6 bloody kids so sort ir Mr its all your fault
Girl you aggravating he can’t even express himself
Right...
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Thanks y’all 😂
Lexie,
I disagree with you. He expressed
himself very clearly. He stated repeatedly that he wanted his wife
to treat him with respect, listen to what he had to say, and stop talking over him when he was speaking! Your criticism of him
I find to unwarranted and quite
frankly puzzling!
She was definitely irritating 😂 !
She does not let this man talk! She constantly was talking over him and answering questions for him!
Yep. Just like a mother at the doctor's surgery
I'm proud of this King for expressing himself... We have to understand or men beyond what we have been taught. They need a different level of understanding.
What king 🙄🙄🙄. He has no kingdom.
@@jrobinson39 stop hating... Black men are Kings.. Period...
@@joycewilson7045 they really aren’t. They don’t build and don’t clean up communities, they destroy them. It’s not hating, it’s stating facts. BW keep throwing that word around to dusties and degenerate BM. They have not earned that title and as long as they are under the white man and in the white mans nation, they simply can’t be kings 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
@@joycewilson7045 You sound and look like a damn fool LoL 😭😭!!!
@@jrobinson39 lmao exactly
First off, I realize she’s “never wrong”. She won’t let him talk without interrupting or finishing his sentence. That’s a problem. He can’t lead nor be heard because she mother’s him instead of allowing him to be the headship & express himself. I don’t know what transpired over the years of them being married or even from the very beginning, but he doesn’t feel respected & that’s why he’s so frustrated. 🤷🏽♀️
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The poor man cannot open his mouth without her opening hers! It stressed me the entire video
@@myataturner … Facts!! 🤦🏽♀️
She dos.nt listen to him ,she controls him same as his mam does..hope he finds himself..Thats wrong,for the wife to say,and I raised you since...no,no,no,,thats demeaning...
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The crowd is more disgusting than the wife. When she said she raised him after his mother and the audience clapped is very disturbing. That’s the problem. We don’t allow men to be vulnerable and express their feelings, it’s like they’re weak. Smh I hope this man gets peace in his life. With his mother, wife but most importantly himself..!!
I can't agree less mama!👌🏽
Yeah I agree how u raise him and u were immature and young yourself she needs to stop it smh
I agree!
It was horrible seeing this wife emasculate her husband! The fact that the Host didn’t hold her more accountable for her part was heartbreaking to watch! She literally was not listening to him which is why they moved to a place that he didn’t want to be! They definitely need counseling!
Real talk !
This was hard because I hear them both. My uncle Albert told me once I became a mother: “We (your mom and I ) are your relatives. You and your kids are YOUR family.” I felt like the wife felt a little surprised to learn that he didn’t want to move back. I love that they really love each other. I wish them the best!
So true. He probably is sick of his family
We need to normalise studying the Bible! Everything is stated clearly.
@@Bee-dp3stuch of the Bible is left to interpretation. That’s why there are so many different denominations who practice Christianity very differently. As a Christian myself I can attest you will interpret the Bible differently based on what you are going through at that time. It’s no clear as you make it seem.
Soon as he started talking her lil veil started slipping. lol How you gonna dismiss a grown man (YOUR man) in front of the world to see? Talmbout “you ain’t never saying nothing”. Girl, he drink cause you and his mom driving him crazy. “Hush” is the least disrespectful thing that happened during that exchange.
Exactly! I was disappointed that Karamo never held the wife accountable for her disrespect. IMO, her repeatedly cutting him off was far more disrespectful than him telling her to “hush” once.
That's not why he's drinking he's drinking because his mom he said that himself not cause his wife. She is a good wife she just need to hush and listen which is something that everyone can always get better at so don't make it what he clearly said it's not if man knows his own feelings then he knows why he's drinking and he has stated such.
@@syniahare8630 when a man can talk to his wife that is an outlet that can replace other outlets like addiction. A good wife would listen wouldn’t she? And respect him in public at the very least. He expressed his frustration with her overbearing mess very clearly in the small amount of time he was allowed to.
@@duvalgirl6541karamo, NEVER holds women accountable, it’s always the man’s fault with this nigga lmfaoo. Remember the pink sauce bullshit? Lady was selling fucked up ass ranch with all kinds of health and safety violations and his PANDERING ass had the nerve to act like the person complaining about that bullshit was in the wrong, niggas a clown.
Well he obviously enjoys being emasculated cuz he keeps having kids with the broad
The wife is so overbearing, controlling and doesn’t let him express his feelings. He is torn between his wife and his family. Is not fun to be in the middle
Someone that’s overbearing wants to control the situation. She moved him close to be with his family. That negates your narrative
@@jrobinson39that’s not true at all. You can be overbearing and have good intentions. But, she needs to chill out and let HIM speak for once.
She more so use of taken care of everything and she don’t know how to let him be and express himself like a lot of women. It’s a protective thing nothing more she will learn.
@@SableDevon she will push her husband away not listening
Mommy is right
When we as woman talk over/for our men we take their voice and chance to express their self. Men don’t have an outlet to be emotional or expressive. We need to learn to hush! 🤫 this is the perfect example of letting a man LEAD! Stay in your lane boo, let him lead! He doesn’t want to sleep w his mom
You are absolutely correct!!
Hmm, I see things a little different, while you are not wrong, what we can't ignore is that he is missing the forsaking all others part of his vows, he speaks of his wife and his mother as though they are equals in his life and when he said I do, his wife became number one
That what i was seeing. It was like you love him tes but you not listening. Im sure she really was trying to make hime happy. But she wasn't listening.
How can he lead when he putting his mom over his wife? I’m not listening to a nigga who is still under his mom’s control at his grown age 🙄
Yes! That's how you learn your man and win the keys to his ❤
He seems like a nice guy. I hope he gets the help he needs and I hope she lets him grow as a man.
This girl needs to sit down and allow her man’s lead more, because he clearly wants good for him and his family ❤
Lead what? Her into more ass whoopins?
He doesn't even know whose side he's on and it needs to be his wife's! You not gon lead me off a cliff so you feel like a man
I Agree
Absolutely
yes but she doesn’t mean any harm she’s very protective of him 💯🥰
Thank you, exactly
The Bible say in Genesis 2:24 Therefore a Man Leaves his Father and his Mother and Clings to His Wife....
Nah not putting anyone above my mother
@@longbranch11207 that's the problem with some people now
@@trini_queen9924 i can but if i know deep down my momma is intervening to much in my marriage she has to stand down
@@Funsizescorpio that's the reason why my mum had a problem with my older brothers marriage with his wife because she intervenes the situation and made my older brother cry because of the stress and drama
The bible says leave your mama and dad... Not leave your feelings..he is human.
He saying he was happy and she kept saying he wasn't! WTH? HOW SHE GONNA TELL HIM HOW HE FELT? She is a NARCISSIST!
Yep and Karamo never properly addressed it
@@eve3363it’s either the man’s wrong or nobody is wrong in karamos fruity ass eyes
@@eve3363karamo never addressed anything she does because the wife is super disrespectful, dismissive, controlling, and manipulative.
She’s not a narcissist. She’s just frustrated.
That’s not a narcissist y’all throw that word around a lot she’s just insecure
She is too controlling, she wanted to move to his state when he didn’t ask for it, “you can’t heal in the same environment that made you sick”
She is a good women, but she needs to LISTEN to her husband more, and validate his feelings.
I am sorry, but the wife was AGGY!!! She would NOT stfu to let the man speak! Even when he was being vulnerable, she was mumbling to him while he was TRYING to speak. I am glad Karamo said something about that "and I raised you too" comment because that was some BS! I hope he gets healing and peace. I am sure his mama probably needs a companion to keep her out of her SON's business!
Whew!! She talks over him, disregards what he says, "You weren't happy" "When you talk, you ain't saying nothing"..."I raised you after"... Triggered me! I can only imagine what the exchanges are like in private.
The fact that the wife went on a syndicated TV show, talking about "I raised you after that..." to her husband -- DISGUSTING!
It sounds like his mum has some kind of narcissistic personality disorder, and has a very unhealthy hold on him. Antoine needs to identify this and work to shake her off. In that way he will learn to establish some good boundaries that will help to prevent his mums' attacks on his wife. Antoine's mother isn't going to like this new situation! I also believe their drinking behaviours is one way of masking some underlying truths.
The mother most definitely is a narcissist at it finest!
The wife has a narcissistic personality, as well!!!
It sounds like both the wife and the mother have this same issue he can't even speak without his wife speaking over him
Yes his mum is part of the problem but the bigger issue is the way how she demasculate her husband while invalidating his feelings and she does not listen which a big sign of a poor communicator. She listens to respond instead of listening to hear & understand him. The way how she speaks to him is like he is her 7th child rather than her husband.
I was appalled by her saying she raised her husband that’s how controlling she is Lady you need to chill
That’s what killed her argument for me. The way she talks….she’s a control freak.
Agreed. Disrespectful. Let that Man live.
I don’t think she meant it in a bad way she probably meant it in a I had to tell him right from wrong constantly and that’s what mothers do when they’re raising their child and that’s why she said she’s raising her husband
You’ll really don’t know what you are talking about
@@Beyourfavoriteself so you don't see anything bad with her saying she raised him after his mother did, while cutting him off when he was trying to express himself? I mean, she had her chance to talk...
She’s not understanding she took him back to the place that tore him down, she took him back to the trauma. Girl get your husband and go back to where he was the happiest, away from that trauma.
I knew the husband never wanted to move back to SC. I don't think the wife should have made an executive decision to move back to SC. As a wife, husbands protect the wife and children not the other way around.
Exactly!
Perfect answers.
1. Move and
2. Listen more to your husband. Give him a say in conversations.
This is by far my favorite. Karamo can we have an update on this couple in one year? I hope they would have moved and start living that happy life again! I’m so for them!
I like that she wants to protect her husband but she injects herself in everything he says. He needs to be allowed to talk. That’s why she didn’t know he was happy where he was. She doesn’t listen to her man like she should.
Karamo has the ability to help women understand men, and MEN TO UNDERSTAND WOMEN a lot better than b4 they came. He does an awesome job at being a NEUTRAL GO-TO!!! Keep up the awesome work, Handsome Man!!!!
Awww I love this couple and I pray they make it through this. She didn't mean she raised him she meant something like she taught him how to love her.
& honestly probably taught him how to love his self.
she needs to learn how to shut up and listen
If it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck ITS A DUCK!! She said she raised him and that's what she meant. This woman is articulate enough and able to say exactly what she means, she more likely meant she taught him how to man up and be responsible. Probably taught him how to communicate too, many a woman have had a hand in helping their men mature emotionally and grow up... It is what it is
@@mizzmention8555 She doesn’t even know how to listen nor accept she isn’t always right
@@PD-qu8dq thats is true, l see that but it isn't what's being spoke about here.
She reminds me of myself, mean so well, has so much empathy and compassion, but sometimes we just need to stop and listen in it's entirety.
Yea this is me especially when I’m frustrated or upset .. my intentions are so pure but sometimes I need to be quiet & listen
She doesn't let him talk! He's unable to express his feelings towards her because she won't let him and she can't hear him, and she won't listen to him. I just hope that he didn't end up marrying A woman who is a lot like his mother.
I think he’s starting to truly resent her bc she’s starting to act like his mother. She said she raised him as a wife, that’s no good. He said he has deep issues w his mom already. She’s too controlling, she not playin her role as a wife, she’s trying to act like his mother. He said it clearly, I wish you would let me make my own decisions as a man sometimes! Like damn lady, he can’t even fully express himself w validation or acknowledgment cuz she too busy tellin him how HE actually feels instead of it just being exactly what he said it is!
He is. She gone lose a good man.
The main problem is the woman won’t be quiet and thinks she’s always right! She needs to let him speak, think, feel for himself! She wants to control everything. Smh.
When your partner won't keep you away from drama,that means they do not love you. A 10yr marriage is not anything to brag about if it's toxic.
They're both genuinely good people. And I feel for this man soooo much. I feel like it's rare to come across a black man who is upstanding but also expresses his vulnerability so openly. I think that's super admirable of him. Wifey is a good woman but I think she just needs to calm down and listen more. Don't disrespect him and emasculate him, cz he is not that type of guy. Treat him with respect and let him be heard. Clearly this is where his mother failed him and its a sore spot for him already.
You see in this clip exactly why black men dont express themselves. They get shut down everytime !
Wifey has some deep issues and doesn't actually respect her partner. As a woman I'd leave her
@@sweedy3333no she don’t if you can’t read the room it’s more of the fact she feels like she gotta have his back with his family and was over stepping
@missantonia14goldsby habitually over-stepping when someone is asking you to stop is absolutely a sign of deep personal issues. She even said at the beginning that she feels she needs to control everything in so many words
I believe with therapy this couple will be perfectly fine! Honestly, I do think that she needs to pay attention to her husband and listen more and I’m sure there are a lot of other things that he needs to work on as well but I can see a great future with them if they work hard on maintaining their marriage and communicating effectively with each other.
God bless this beautiful black man. You can tell you use to being forced not to talk. Talk King. Speak your mind. You're free.
I would never tolerate no one putting their hands on me. I don’t care who it is and acting violent around my children too. HECK NO!! He would’ve moved out there by himself with his parents too. He also would’ve been living with his momma in SC. Me and my in-laws gets along very well but I will never tolerate no disrespect.
He said that he did not want to move there because he was happy where they previously lived. His wife said that she did not know this.
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Omg this teared me up .the way that young man broke down is hurtful..I really hope he gets some counseling with his mom
“But I raised you after that?” Is this woman your wife or your second mom 😂
I appreciate how she humbled down and listened. I wish them the best. 🙏🏾
The wife was talking a good game until her husband came out! GIRL HUSH
right
Sometimes you have to love your people from a distance Sometimes your people won't let you do you how you see fit. It's literally a fight
Sometimes as a wife we need to sit down n listen
Wife needed to go backstage. Interrupting him was annoying to me so I'm sure she's worse at home.
She’s abusive like his mother. She’ll use the defense of “I’m your wife” and the mom “ I’m your mom” . He needs to leave them both alone
Facts!
Yea, break up another family and that’s the solution. 🙄. Both the husband, wife and children are traumatized by his mother’s silly ways and they all need to get from around her. He said he was happy being close to his wife’s family, which means she probably only became like this having to navigate being around his toxic family.
I agree to an extent. But when you get married the family you great takes precedent over the one you come from. But she wants to be his mama and not his wife
Ding,Ding,Ding exactly
He won’t survive child support
I wish she (wife) would shut up!!!!!!! She’s doesn’t listen to her husband at all. That man is in pain. And she doesn’t know how he is feeling being caught in the middle of all this mess!
The husband is the problem he has to find his voice and use it and do what is best for him
Lord, I pray I do right by my kids 🥺🙏🏽
The crowd clapping when she says when he talks he says nothing is sad. And telling
Exactly!!
Black men you have no allies!
Your husband have a voice,allow him to speak a relationship works both ways.She talks too much,poor communication is disastrous.
The wife needs to allow him to be the man and lead. She is not his mother, she’s his partner.
This is a BEAUTIFUL couple with 6 kids, they obviously love each other.... let him speak girl and move away....make it work! You 2 are just beautiful
Love this couple!! May they be able to move away and get peace in their lives.
So nice to see them have a difficult conversation and then hug and kiss afterwards. I hope they're doing better and I hope he can get some help for his emotional scars.
I pray that God blesses this couple. So many people are broken and have unaddressed childhood trauma, and at the end of the day, hurt people hurt people. I believe her intentions were good because sometimes we think that everyone should have a loving relationship with their families, but sometimes it doesn't work like that. Had she stopped talking and listened more, she would have understood that loving family from a distance is what is best for him. They have to move expeditiously, get counseling, and pray because drinking every day and getting WBW ain't it.
She is the problem fighting for attention, playing victim and not feeling his need and wants to be apart of his mother's life.....she has a lot of growing to do. He is a blessing she better recognize!!!
❤ Wife is the problem, please help her..help them ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
This young man has so much pain in him. His mom is his mom. But mom needs to know her place. This story touch me. There is some hidden pains. His wife needs to be more understanding with the pains he is feeling.
Time for trauma therapy for the husband. Healing needs to start for this marriage to survive 🙏🏼
You all should give the wife a break...she too is in a stressfull situation, trying to support her husband,she may not be doing the way you all think she should,but she means well and as you all heard from the husband..his issues are with his mother... Full stop...this couple clearly loves each other..just needs some counseling..i pray they get the help there truly needs to move forward as a family 🙏
She needs to let him talk!!!! Ommgggg she was upsetting me because she cut him off every time and he’s right she’s not always right. He needs a safe place to fully express his thoughts. She needs to let him SPEAAAKK! When cheat they say “the other woman listens to me my wife don’t listen” she needs to let him talk ! LET HIM TALK!!!!
I wish this episode was longer than this. One sided communication is no solution. i appreciate the wife for standing tall and bringing this issue to you Karamo. I pray the husband heals from this trauma with his mum.
Imagine how many mothers ruin any close relationships their son have. Disgusting
Karamo we want longer episodes pleaaaase lol
did the audience just clap after she said she raised him, while interrupting him? smh this audience is biased, applauding her rude, bitchy attitude. she's over talking that man, and they are cheering it on, while Karamo is cosigning the BS: "She didn't do anything wrong." I guess interrrupting your spouse when he is trying to express himself is okay. so what if he said he was happy and his problem was with his mom? The wife still needs to learn how to be quick to listen and slow to speak. It ain't easy for some, if not many, men to be vulnerable; this is "common" knowledge. she deserved that hush he gave her, and he was being nice there... (been there; done that.) the wife is the second coming of his mother; so since he has an issue with his mother, he have an issue with his wife overbearing ass. I would say "run, black man, run", but they got a bunch of kids together.
They love each other so much, KAramo always brings to the greatness out of folks that they had hidden so deep. Karamo you the biggest thing in Media to date.... Nothing but results
She doesn’t let him talk smh and he’s frustrated not disrespectful. Poor guy he’s miserable in this marriage
It’s the fact that he kept saying “you don’t let me talk , you talk over me” and she just continued on talking as if he didn’t say anything or wasn’t speaking at all. She didn’t know that he was happy where he was because she doesn’t STFU to listen . The man is trying to explain his pain and she just keeps cutting in like ma’am BE QUIET FOR A FEW HRS ! She’s in such a rush to respond to everything he says .
I AIN'T NEVER LET YOU TALK, BECAUSE WHEN YOU TALK YOU AIN'T SAYING NOTHING.🤣🤣🤣🤣
I will keep them both in my prayer ❤🙏🫶♥️🙏
The best way she can protect him is by HEARING him.
Its really hard to not be able to tackle the past issues that you have in yourself before starting a life, it is often being carried on. 😢
She should have been held more accountable for the way she talk to him.
Agreed! 💯
HOW YOU TELL A MAN HE IS NOT HAPPY, SO ACTUALLY THE WIFE IS THE SOLE MAIN PROBLEM
AND SHE FORCED HIM TO MOVED BACK WHERE HE IS REMINDED OF HIS PAST IN THE NAME OF LOVE/MARRIAGE
So true and sad🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
He never told her he didn't want to move back. She didn't force anything, she thought she was sacrificing her happiness for him and the greater good.
This wife is killing me!!! Girl stop and let your husband speak Omg!!!! She was able to speak for soo long without him before he got in the seat next to her and you still want to keep talking. Also she thinks she knows everything and acts like his mother instead of his wife. I feel for this man. He shouldn’t be with this woman I’m sorry. She doesn’t listen to him at all and he can’t even express himself. Smh
Wow. Watching this makes me happy that im single. I dont ever interrupt myself when im talking.
The way I can relate to this is mind blowing. I went through this same thing with my fiancée mother. Her family is very toxic, they hated for her to have an opinion of her own or her own life. Her mother sent her brother over to fight me all because I wouldn’t let them show up to our house uninvited. He wanted to fight lol but I wasn’t gonna give him the time of day. Then the name calling started lol ( I was 22 at the time he was in his 50’s, that’s when I knew THE WHOLE FAMILY was mentally gone lol, I didn’t see him as a 50 some year old man, I seen him as a 5 year old little boy fighting demons & in that moment he was trying to dump his insecurities on me. May I add I’am also a woman, which I still held my ground & paid him no mind. Once he seen his words wasn’t hurting me he pepper sprayed me lol. Cops got called ofc they all was standing outside acting as they were the victim(Her family) Lmfao. Till this day her family continues to invite me to everything & I nicely decline it. That shows you I was never the problem lol if I continued to get invites. Because believe it or not toxic family members know exactly what they are doing & they want to see if you are weak enough to take it. Once I showed them right then & there I wasn’t the one to play with that’s when they wanted to show respect & wanted to be a big happy family lol, I still don’t deal with them till this day no matter how many invites I get. With that being said it sounds like his mother doesn’t know how to take accountability in her wrong doings, trust me I know first hand when I see it. It’s time for him to heal & move his family away from the toxicity, so their kids don’t grow up with trauma from his mom. He is the generational curse breaker & he will notice once he heal & accept his mother the way she is, let her drown in her own toxicity. I understand his wife point of view as well, I was once the same, I wanted to save my fiancée from her family for 3 years out of 4 but it took me having a deep talk with myself & God to understand that wasn’t my battle to fight, so his wife will understand too, she just needs to listen more & hear his pain. He said he didn’t want to move back, she should have listened then. I pray they bypass this & get the help & healing they all need for their children. May God bless💙💙💙
you are so right about this. If trauma isn't healed it keeps coming up. as people we get to choose who we have in our life. we teach people how to treat us. God can help us with all of this.
Beautiful couple. Love how y’all are working out y’all’s issues
So, it’s disrespectful for him to tell her to “Hush”.. but she can interrupt him multiple times on the show keeping him from getting his point across? She even belittled him by saying “she raised him too” and Karamo doesn’t check her for being disrespectful saying”when he talks he isn’t saying nothing?” Like his voice don’t matter? And the audience claps for her hyping her up like she really had a point? But really she was just being petty.. That’s messed up, and See this is what I be talking about.. males are always treated like second class citizens in the eyes of society, like we don’t matter. I’m so sick of seeing this type of disrespect towards Men🤦🏾♂️
You made some valid points there.
@@TheriSpice thank you
FACTS! Karamo definitely dropped the ball!
@@CalvinLDrakeTSGR Definitely did, this was my least favorite episode.
Such a sweet couple - I'm very glad the mother in law refused the invitation to go on the show!
I love that Karamo allowed them to dialogue and corrected them when they were done.
Baby, pack up and move! Quick, fast, & in a hurry. The husband spoke and it’s clear there’s unresolved pain and moving back home was not a good move for ya’ll. Pack up & GO! And wifey, find balance and allow your husband to lead! He’s saying he was happy where y’all were, then let him be happy. Remember, you’re wifey not mommy! Happy Spouse, Happy House! Y’all can make it!
Oh I can see the wife plays a major role in the problem.. he can’t even get a word in and she feels so entitled to him and his personal growth.
As a woman that's been married over 20 years i never had no problems with my mother in law. And if me and my hubby have an issue with one another my mother in law would not step in. But my marriage has been fantastic no issues and even before we got married.
This is the king! Stopped talking over this man!!
I feel like she has this certain feeling and relationship with her family and just assumes that he has or should have the same feelings. I have similar experiences with people. My family is toxic to my mental health and I moved 1500 miles because without the physical boundaries they will not let up and respect me. My friends or anyone that showed favor toward me were often disrespected, not because they did anything wrong to me, but because bullying me became commonplace within my family.
I’m glad they are ok, but he is hurting and it might be hard for his wife but she loves him regardless ❤
Very entertaining, thanks for sharing with us.
Very entertaining, thanks for sharing with us
Why in the world did she bring him back to this mess! Lawrd she needs to LISTEN to her husband ! He was happy where he was!
I NEED the husband to know that all I saw, was a Strong, Loving MAN.. who emptied his heart and told nothing but the TRUTH.. and there was/is nothing soft or weak, about that.
Sometimes and unfortunately, you have to cut people (family included) all the way out of your life.. and the hardest part may very well be, NOT getting any "closure".. especially when you realize that, in order for you to move on.. you're going to have to forgive them, for what they aren't sorry for.
This wife is overbearing and she won’t let him talk. She probably didn’t even listen when he said that he didn’t want to return….
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Yet another EXCELLENT episode!
Karamo nailed it "I raised you after" your mother. Say what now!!!
And she talks too damn much! She has to learn to listen!
When he said, hush - he didn't mean disrespect. The poor guy just wanted to be heard!
Back up and let him step into the man role! There's plenty to do in her own role. No need for duality!
Wow, I’m from the south and I love this couple. I pray that God protects them in the name of Jesus and their children. I am proud of the husband and I am super proud of the wife for staying through the shared her that they have. They are honestly a power couple in my eyes, but it’s better to stay in a two bedroom house with the kids in one room and the parents in the other than to stay in the chaos and sadness. Thank you, uncle Karamo.
The wife needs to be quiet while he talks , I've learned that even when you don't agree with someone , you still have to let them express themselves, thats the only way to get to some type of start to healing
This is a great episode