Did I Envy My Cis Partner?

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  • Опубликовано: 21 окт 2024

Комментарии • 25

  • @robertbodek4473
    @robertbodek4473 Год назад +4

    I love to see the affection between you both. So glad you found each other!

  • @giac1096
    @giac1096 2 года назад +23

    Thank you for this video. My wife and I are in a cis trans lesbian relationship as well and I do really understand the envy jackie had for wanting to be smaller. I wish one day to be as confident as her❤️

  • @jessiefogarty8119
    @jessiefogarty8119 2 года назад +4

    I’m glad this was in my recommendations! Subscribed! As a cis woman with a large frame but also rather cartoony femme proportions and voice etc I go through my own envy of “tiny, frail, wispy” this is a valuable conversation 💖

  • @lapiswake6583
    @lapiswake6583 26 дней назад

    I feel envious all the time. I, a trans woman, was 6'1.5 pre-HRT (8 months in, I was measured at 6'0.5) with UK10/EU44 feet. I always struggle to find footwear that I like that's actually my size and isn't absurdly expensive, yet is practical for everyday. And I struggle finding feminine clothes that fit the diameter of my arms and that don't ride up or are just too short on my belly.
    I'm dating 3 people right now. My nesting partner, my girlfriend, is trans but started HRT over a year before me, and she's always been pretty small with size 5 feet. My partner, non-binary, is a little taller than my girlfriend, but not by much (but they don't wear much feminine stuff). And my boyfriend is about 5'9 i think, but he's super skinny and doesn't struggle finding stuff to fit his femboy look at all.
    I struggle with self confidence and just want to blend in with the world. But I'm already taller than most, without factoring in my liking of wearing heels...
    But. I do also realise that other things like my chest will change once I'm on HRT for longer (I hear year 2 is where the big changes generally happen, and I'm now 11 months in), and I'm hoping to be more comfortable with lower neckline clothing when I don't have to worry about my forms being visible...

  • @donmasters9601
    @donmasters9601 2 года назад +2

    Great topic! I simply love the two of you! Such an awesome couple.

  • @camillaryan4672
    @camillaryan4672 2 года назад +2

    Thanks for another great video I have been following you since you started making videos as your first video came out just after my gf came out to me and I have found them really supportive. I just wanted to say I do experience a bit of envy for my partner because she knows who she is now and what she wants (she also has MUCH better fashion sense then i do). I thought at 30 I should know who I am but I have realised I still have a lot to learn about myself. I am envious/admire her sense of self and her ability to be true to herself regardless of what people think/say. I am very lucky to have such an amazing partner and I am working on figuring me out and figuring out who I am and what I want. First step was coming to terms/admitting I was bisexual ... next step who knows!! Thanks for your content it is invaluable hearing both of your experiences you guys are awesome.

  • @oliviawutam
    @oliviawutam Год назад +1

    Hi sisters, comparing is normal and necessary, As a trans woman envy is also normal we want to be as feminine as possible to fit in, I love that can talk about it all,

  • @jessicabaker7399
    @jessicabaker7399 2 года назад +1

    Thanks for another great video from you and your Cat. Sorry I have a thing for ginger toms, my best friend :)
    Your relationship is similar to my own, apart from the fact we are much older and have been married for 12 years.

  • @kenjiakimoto3447
    @kenjiakimoto3447 2 года назад +1

    I'm in transition mtf, I do related to Jackie in envying Anna of femininity physically . I am not most big person but I wish that I am smaller too.but this is what it is I have to find my way of new life.

  • @VioletTheTrans
    @VioletTheTrans 2 года назад +2

    I get gender envy from Jackie, lol

  • @beepsneep7048
    @beepsneep7048 2 года назад +3

    this video was so interesting and cute. y'all are so adorable together :)

  • @godsgirl797
    @godsgirl797 2 года назад +1

    U r both beautiful AF! As female as u can get!

  • @kimberleemodel7182
    @kimberleemodel7182 2 года назад +1

    Thanks for discussing this. I haven't ever felt particularly envious of a cis woman for being cis, at least not envious enough for me to notice. I think, for me, the top 3 reasons to envy a cis woman would be
    1. Not needing to transition. Because I had to undo some changes from masculine puberty and all that, and the whole middle school fashion in uni thing, and just all the time and effort that has to go into transitioning.
    2. Not needing to disclose my transgender status. Because, regardless of how many times I've done this or to whom I'm disclosing, I always get really nervous and afraid about it.
    3. Larger breasts. Obviously.

  • @KamillaMirabelle
    @KamillaMirabelle 9 месяцев назад

    @WiveVsWorld kan så meget relatere til det med at være misundelig over kæresters krop.. 😊 det var mere før jeg sprang ud.. Det er ikke så slemt mere, for jeg er selv rimelig lille selv 🎉🥰 sagt på en anden måde de fleste kvinder jeg kender er højere og eller større end mig 😅

    • @WivesVsWorld
      @WivesVsWorld  9 месяцев назад

      Man finder også bare ud af, at alle er så forskellige 😅
      Der er nok generelt noget sundt ved ikke at måle sig op imod andres kroppe, hahaha 😂

    • @KamillaMirabelle
      @KamillaMirabelle 9 месяцев назад

      @@WivesVsWorld ja 😅 men det er lidt en befrielse at gå fra at skulle lede 8 timer for at finde 2 par bukser som mand og så gå over til kvindetøj og så er man spot on i midten af størrelserne 🥰 blev endda nød til at bestille et par støvler hjem fordi den mindste størrelse var for stor 🎉

  • @myklslife7
    @myklslife7 2 года назад +1

    3.33k subscribers nice

  • @That_dark_ranger
    @That_dark_ranger 2 года назад +3

    Anya sure was thirsty in this video 😊

  • @yueyuer2063
    @yueyuer2063 2 года назад +1

    好羡慕你们呀好想在欧洲生活呀亲我也是跨性别呢

  • @oliviawutam
    @oliviawutam Год назад

    please no profanity