Akua !!!! Like I feel like I gained so much knowledge about how to date a man. Like not get played ,at this point knowing how they think I BE DAMNEDDDDDDDD!
he will test sexually he will test you emotionally he will test you mentally he will test your standards he will test you spiritually he will test your insecurities he will test how you make decisions he will test your confidence or lack there of. Good stuff Tony...
Chrissy chriss the only reason you will hate the test is if your not ready or don’t think you are sound enough to pass. If you do the work they won’t even be any test to you because you’ll just be that person naturally and all the things will naturally be checked.
Chrissy chriss Yes & when you learn how to use the tools of being a confident woman, you won’t stick around for tests...you will realize that he could be a low value man who needs to work on himself & has nothing to do with you.
Hi Ladies, It took me years to figure this out too. I use to give so much and Loved so hard. Then I saw other Women who loved very minimally and chilled/ fell back from a Man and got handed the World.
@ Charlotte, As Women We have to learn to put Ourselves First and Stop putting the Man on an Unrealistic petal stool. I have seen that Woman who do Less Get More from Men.
Personally what he says I've been taught or I've learned through life however it feels like he's my brother and he gives a different perspective. I listen to him when I need a pep talk
Not me cause soon as opportunities present I forget and have to KIM , until I go look at my notes to make sure I know all the points and why he standing like that 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I’ve been telling people that for the longest! When we meet these men, we want the well put together man, where there is no work involved. We expect him to “know” to open doors, flowers, etc...but you have to teach your husband how to be YOUR husband. God gave him permission to marry you and a few pointers on how to handle you, but YOU have to teach him how to be YOURS!!! Setting boundaries etc, which makes him that man you’ve always wanted. It takes time and work, but YOU have to be willing.
It’s crazy how Tony literally scripted out my life by what a guy has said to me and the game he played. This man knows exactly what he is talking about.
I agree! I had to tell my inconsistent ex to lose my number the last time he cancelled a date with me, and the next day he acted like we never had plans. I told him I’m not the ticket-I’m the prize
I just had a 59yr old grown man ask to take me out on a date then followed up with asking me if I drive. When I said yes he said “good we can take your car” I hung up and blocked that man IMMEDIATELY!!!
A term a friend of mine used today that I hadn't heard in a while. That low down dirty sap sucker! He is an old fool with nothing to offer not even a car. You did the right thing. Keep it moving sis.
I used to feel the same way but even mature, high value men test us. My focus is to learn the tests and how to pass them because I will be 80 years old waiting for a man that never tests me.
The last guy who was a player disguised in a nice guy, used a lot of emotional turmoil excuses, his last breakup (9months ago!) and having to process emotions, while he was in fact juggling many women from the app! And I felt we had a connection.. It's disheartening.
This grown boy university is the best education i have every received, and there is no student loan attached. God bless you Tony! 😂😂😂 I’m crying with laughter...
The best and fastest way to past every test with flying colors is to NOT sleep with him. AND to let him know upfront that it’s not happening until he puts a Ring on it. I know this because I’ve been celibate for almost 3 years & I’ve been drama-free & man-problem free ever since 🤣💜
Yasssss sis!!!! Abstinence until marriage really keeps you emotionally sound and in control making intellectual descions! Best decision I made in dating! Lord continue to give grace in this area. It's a protection all on its own.❤😇🙏🏾
I’ll never forget when this guy tried to kiss me and I said no, then all of a sudden he got busy and needed to get his life together. Boy byeeeeeeee lol
This video is 100% correct. I failed the first few tests and i ended up getting punched and chocked out. He was a MMA fighter. Dont ignore them red flags. They are always there. He will do it to you, he will do it to someone else. Be safe ladies! Be smart!
I had a grown boy test me like that weeks ago. Kept saying he was going to call me and hit me up that night. I didn't hear from him that night nor the next day. I blocked him on my phone. We work at the same store together, so when I saw him the next day after blocking him, he asked me if I was good. That's it..."you good?" So smiling I said, "Yep, I'm good!" lol Well, I left him on block and haven't said a word to him about it ever since. He hasn't said a word either. Done and done. I still speak to him, and I'm always nice, but he will never get a chance to be in my world again.
@@toniwilliams9817 I agree with Lauren, don't block them. That way you know if they reach out or not. And take in the pleasure of not answering back. Just look and delete
I wish I found Tony 3 years ago! I would have avoided an abusive relationship. I failed every test in the beginning, he was my first boyfriend. That will never happen again!! Thanks Tony, you're doing the Lord's work!!
ms judyyyy… i feel u with the failed every test & first bf but just kno to keep studying to kno how to pass every other one tho. cant even let it get to u. gotta stay on your own path !
💯 They sometimes cancel a date and then turn around and ask you to come over the same night. 🤨 Tony keep speaking the truth because there are grown boys in their 50s still using these tests.
TG stay giving us gems. Remember when he said don't give a man a second chance if you're not sure he's changed. Look at Princess & Ray j....she filed for divorce he begged her back..she took him back and a month later he filed for divorce. The man wants the last laugh. Be careful out here. Stop allowing these dudes to be disrespectful to you. Kids nor marriage will make a man love & respect you. Peace, wealth, & wine ✌🏾💵🍷🥰
I can’t help but think that if men today had integrity, women wouldn’t need constant coaching sessions. I’m not saying that we as women don’t get it wrong at times however, I find men are looking for a woman who has the stability they cannot provide. This is not the balance God intended and I will be single my whole life before I do for a man what he should have been planning for his whole life for me. This is my belief and I stand on it.
Omg yes! My dad stayed on us about making sure a man has integrity. He would also preach to me over and over about keeping my dignity, which I have found a lot of young women lack. That is why these men get away with so much and I seem like a lot work to them compared to what they are used to. At this point I don’t even care anymore. My peace means too much to me.
A guy cancelled a day before claiming he had to travel due to family issues. Mind u the date was supposed to be an apology for ghosting me earlier this year. I texted back thanks for letting me know on time so I don't have to cut my other appointments short. And that's the last he will ever hear from me
I’m only 23 and I’m dealing with a 29 year old and this helped me , he wait 10 hours to text me back, but was on social media posting,! But when he texted me I’m just not responding back to him
Girl one did this and kept doing it then … why did he wait a whole day girl I went off and left and never looked back… he had every excuse in the world. Nobody got time for that bullshit
I did last week after a horrible experience and it’s like I don’t learn. I just want to be in a good relationship but I just feel like I lack confidence in saying no. So I end up doing things I regret then it doesn’t work out. Dude wasn’t even over his ex and now I feel stupid. After about a month....I just left him alone but still
He didn’t call...What had happened was... Who knew we had to go to school to get tested in dating and relationships Tony. Thanks for the real education.
I’ve heard all this. Guys will make you feel so bad about not sleeping with them or “We should know what it’s like together before we get married” omg I’ve heard this a lot lately. The dumbest excuse. Being sexually assaulted and thinking it’s your fault because “you look so good”. It’s terrible.
Ladies, they will certainly try you. I tell them all that there is nothing they can do that hasn't already been tried and done, nothing they can say that I haven't already heard, in one way, or another. I will check them every time. Believe it or not, men appreciate a woman who does not let them disrespect her, in any way.
No its a test of truth .... He's messing with other woman and with one of the dancers that he been spending money on to make her jealous😂 dumb but truth. If you have a three and the relationship didn't go anywhere you played yourself
@@yeahthatsme921 I never said any of this happened to me personally ...but I’ve heard several different stories from other women, where that was the males intentions.
I like the way he gets into character and you get the message clearly . If a man cancel 2 times ladies don't let him waste your time , time is precious and once its gone you can never get it back.
If you take a lion to a gazelle market, he’s gonna want to pounce. -TG Translation: You can’t play into these grown boy games. We women have to learn to think with our heads, not our emotions. We would win more on relationships if we listened to our intuition. If something doesn’t feel right never let a grown boy talk you into it.
I literally fell asleep with my phone and just woke up upset again to find It at my head. I looked up the dangers and of course Google said there is no link to cancer. I used to be able to find out how bad it was online as well as om RUclips but they are hiding the information now. Where can I find the information, anyone know?
I thought I was mature enough to handle the relationship/marriage. But you can not send a little lamb into a wolf's den and not expect to be on the menu. At 19 yrs old, I met my spouse. He was a 27 yrs old, experienced, world traveled, war weary military man. Looking back having my TG street game tool box, and life experience wisdom there were fully exposed landmines everywhere that gave signs of the trauma ahead. Now I know..listen to Mr Gaskins ladies. "Coach Francesca"
😂😂😂😂Ahhahahaahahahahaahahahhahahahaahhahaahahahahahahahaha Uncle Tony, demonstrating the phone call and patting his head for the tracks had me dying laughing. Almost tripped up the steps laughing so damnnnn HARD! WE the people appreciate you, Uncle Tony
Tony, you said in your video that Grown boys love shortcuts. As soon as you said that i received a word in my spirit. It goes as follows; The shortcuts will please his flesh, but the Work will please his spirit. This is where we as women can make a big impact‼️ His flesh might not understand the work he has to put in, but on a subconscious level, his spirit is being impacted positively. This brings about real change in a man's heart, when our words and action feeds his spirit first. Thank you Tony. This is confirmation to me that you are indeed anointed by the Holy Spirit. I'd also like to add, that this proves that when we lay on our backs/ fornicate with the man, we bypass the opportunity to feed his spirit. So he continues to operate in lust. Makes complete sense‼️‼️
This is such a great comment. Like I feel like I’m going through this right now with my now ex boyfriend. He was my 1st bf ever and I had no clue what I was doing but I knew that these “tests” that I definitely failed were to teach me a lesson. He wants to get back together but presses sex and I absolutely refuse. I don’t want a man operating in lust but have been positively feeding his spirit from a distance
So much truth ladies. Listen to understand, stop debating....it's best to know about these test than to experience it and fail. Trust yourself....God will keep you but you have to listen to the lil "wait a minute now" moments and block immediately....you're worth it JUST WAIT
My ex husband is a doctor. He asked me to wait for him at work all the time in the beginning and because I was desperate, I did. He also pressured me for sex in the beginning and I could only hold out for a month. He is a grown boy and a highly narcissistic individual. What helps me the most now is knowing that I was codependent with PTSD, so I chose to be in that situation. I couldn't have made any different choices than I did in those moments. Please get counseling ladies. I am stuck with this person for at least the next 15 years of my life.
Yes, my ex husband is a Civil Engineer very respected .. but boy no matter how much college education one has, grown boys can be professionals too! He had an affair with a coworker engineer and even these grown girl professional have no morals intervening in my marriage . They’re “selling it now” how tony says when the man stays with the mistress. low values, disgusting foundation that relationship. She took a head ache from me . So that’s one good thing she did .
Crystal Lopez - I was seeing this man for a few months, 6’4, very handsome, university educated in computer programming, plays piano and guitar and speaks 3 languages fluently BUT he has no scruples, no morals, always ogling young girls walking down the street, sniffing around his friends wives. Found out he picked up some woman at a concert and went to her place for oral sex. Glad I found out before I really got involved with him. I thought he was a good catch because of his education. 😤
@@crystalglopez91623 same my ex,was making six figures. I found out the hard way that he was a narcissist bum with money. The woman he with now has no idea what she in for. He told her all kinds of lies about me and she drunk his liarade.
Same for me. My soon to be exhusband left me with 5 children. My youngest is one year old. We are both in nurse practitioner school. He is a narcissist and is only doing it for the money and arrogance. He is sleeping with God knows how many and telling lies. I bet they think he is already divorced. Some may not care because they see dollar signs.
At one time or another... I flunked all the grown boy tests. Cooked a whole dinner plus a pound cake and was stood up. Felt like a stupid fool. 🤦🏾♀️ NOT NO MORE!!!
Me too! Got him cupcakes from a fancy bakery for his Belated birthday the day he ghosted me. It was just after few weeks of dating. Heads up this guy came back two months back
Tony, man you just blew my mind. I feel right now like I am at a truth serum night club. I am 71 and live in senior housing. A beautiful little place. I hope I don't get complaints about comedy club laughing. Man you are 10,000 percent so right. I'm repenting right now. The half and half friend that I have had for the last six years, I am to done. I will do a complete work on myself for me. Thank you Tony. No my pastor can't talk to me like you do. Anyway I am old enough to know better. I am closer to 100 than 40 years of age. I will take care of myself so that I can make it to 100. My morals, standards and standing on the Word will get me there.
Cancel a date on me that first time and he'll never hear from me again. If it wasn't an emergency and I spent 2+ hours getting ready, I'm blocking his number on the spot. I don't play that 🙅♀️🚫
Like Tony said, not every women would have experienced every grown boy test he mentioned, but most if not all have experienced and (probably)failed at least one. I'm no exception. I'd just like to comment that when we as women say things like, 'well I've never done that or I don't understand how some women this - okay ladies we get it, BUT you did fall and fail something. A 'f" is a 'f", right? When we know better, we do better. Blessings to us all to do better moving forward.
Im so glad you brought this up. I stay away from women like this. Not the type of energy I need around me simply because I need and like authenticity and people who are not afraid to grow by learning from and admitting their mistakes
@@Mindful.Movement.01 I stay away from them too! Judgemental people will drag your mental health down to nil! How the pots and the kettles gonna debate who's lighter black??? Lol Makes no sense.
Tony took me out cold when he pretended to blot his face and put his makeup on then patting his weave 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 but I’m so thankful he is keeping us ladies well informed.
I’ve never felt so entertained yet informed at the same time 😂😂😂
No , seriously! This is why I watch him
Me too! Tony gaskins is legit God's blessing to us
😂😂😂 Gurrrllll!
Hahha same!
Akua !!!! Like I feel like I gained so much knowledge about how to date a man. Like not get played ,at this point knowing how they think I BE DAMNEDDDDDDDD!
he will test sexually
he will test you emotionally
he will test you mentally
he will test your standards
he will test you spiritually
he will test your insecurities
he will test how you make decisions
he will test your confidence or lack there of.
Good stuff Tony...
I appreciate your realness to the sisters!
Yes, I love this!
I hate these test ugh.
Chrissy chriss the only reason you will hate the test is if your not ready or don’t think you are sound enough to pass. If you do the work they won’t even be any test to you because you’ll just be that person naturally and all the things will naturally be checked.
Chrissy chriss Yes & when you learn how to use the tools of being a confident woman, you won’t stick around for tests...you will realize that he could be a low value man who needs to work on himself & has nothing to do with you.
The best way to a Man's heart is not to care about him so much and to chill. Trust Me it works.
I’m learning the hard way. Thanks for this wisdom.
Yep. Very true. I’ve been learning to this with the guys I talk to now.
Hi Ladies, It took me years to figure this out too. I use to give so much and Loved so hard. Then I saw other Women who loved very minimally and chilled/ fell back from a Man and got handed the World.
Does this really work?
@ Charlotte, As Women We have to learn to put Ourselves First and Stop putting the Man on an Unrealistic petal stool. I have seen that Woman who do Less Get More from Men.
This shit is exhausting. Makes you wanna stay single.
Foreal. I truly have no desire to date .
Im just that tired and exhausted
@ Honey..lol
This.
Girl. Been single for three years. The men today want you test you everyday.
Forever.
Who else walk around feelin like they got the game on lock after they listen to Mr.Gaskins 👀💯✔😂
Frfr
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Personally what he says I've been taught or I've learned through life however it feels like he's my brother and he gives a different perspective. I listen to him when I need a pep talk
Not me cause soon as opportunities present I forget and have to KIM , until I go look at my notes to make sure I know all the points and why he standing like that 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I didn't before but I do now. And every single reaction he says a man will have to the T. It happens.
“The reason why grown boys test women is because they love shortcuts.” TG
100%
Love this part
They don't want to put the work in.
Yeah...shortcuts to knowing whether or not you're wasting your time. Men vet women out too. This guy married too 😂😂😂😂 L.
Truth to be told. Never give them shortcuts 😉 we women deserve a man to work for us 🙏🏽🌹💎
"Women never really meet a real man, he becomes a real man after he meets you" ~TG
Get your standards in order ladies. Know your worth 🌹❤
Cher H, I stopped by to pick up your mic for you , well said 🎤
@@tinajones1932 thank u Queen! 💯🥰
I’ve been telling people that for the longest! When we meet these men, we want the well put together man, where there is no work involved. We expect him to “know” to open doors, flowers, etc...but you have to teach your husband how to be YOUR husband. God gave him permission to marry you and a few pointers on how to handle you, but YOU have to teach him how to be YOURS!!! Setting boundaries etc, which makes him that man you’ve always wanted. It takes time and work, but YOU have to be willing.
@@nashyaw3933 you better say that!!! They better start people these grown boys in check life is worth living not putting up with a grown boys bullshh
@Jack Frost, nah we good over here. Thanks for the invite. We'll keep chilling where we are!!!
“You gotta starve lust” Amen 🙏🏽
It’s crazy how Tony literally scripted out my life by what a guy has said to me and the game he played. This man knows exactly what he is talking about.
He’s a man men know exactly how men play us
Same
"I don't give three strikes. This is not baseball. This is my life.."
- THIS ☝️👊❤️💎👑
THIS ONE!!!! 💥✔️✔️✔️✔️ Mannnnn did I need this one when I was at the height of "pick-me" misery my 20's 😭😭😭😅
I agree! I had to tell my inconsistent ex to lose my number the last time he cancelled a date with me, and the next day he acted like we never had plans. I told him I’m not the ticket-I’m the prize
Fr.
I just had a 59yr old grown man ask to take me out on a date then followed up with asking me if I drive. When I said yes he said “good we can take your car” I hung up and blocked that man IMMEDIATELY!!!
Lol....SMH! You did the right thing!
What the hell?!! Even these old ass grown boys trying it...oh hell naw!!
A term a friend of mine used today that I hadn't heard in a while. That low down dirty sap sucker! He is an old fool with nothing to offer not even a car. You did the right thing. Keep it moving sis.
You mean grown boy lol
As you should have!!! Girl!!!!
I think tests and mind games are the purest form of disrespect. If they valued you, then they wouldn’t have tried it at all.
I used to feel the same way but even mature, high value men test us. My focus is to learn the tests and how to pass them because I will be 80 years old waiting for a
man that never tests me.
lol. Yes I thought of it this way too. I am fed up of these disrespecting tests men from dating app have thrown at me. It seems even worse on there.
ShesaQueen19 right. And they always try to get you to come back so “they can explain”. And I’m like nope you are blocked for life
The last guy who was a player disguised in a nice guy, used a lot of emotional turmoil excuses, his last breakup (9months ago!) and having to process emotions, while he was in fact juggling many women from the app! And I felt we had a connection.. It's disheartening.
I think they need to pass the Smith and Wesson test. 🔫
This grown boy university is the best education i have every received, and there is no student loan attached. God bless you Tony! 😂😂😂 I’m crying with laughter...
for real!!!
He is the best
Lol
Lol
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The best and fastest way to past every test with flying colors is to NOT sleep with him. AND to let him know upfront that it’s not happening until he puts a Ring on it. I know this because I’ve been celibate for almost 3 years & I’ve been drama-free & man-problem free ever since 🤣💜
Yasssss sis!!!! Abstinence until marriage really keeps you emotionally sound and in control making intellectual descions! Best decision I made in dating! Lord continue to give grace in this area. It's a protection all on its own.❤😇🙏🏾
@@iasiagregory4558 Yes, Sis! Amen 💜🙏🏾
@Marie Jones I don’t mind being single for life.
Yep
Popping into say that my abstinence will reach 5 years in a few months! PTL! 💃🏾🙌🏾 But I’ve healed & I’m ready to enter into marriage season 🥰🙏🏾💗
I’ll never forget when this guy tried to kiss me and I said no, then all of a sudden he got busy and needed to get his life together. Boy byeeeeeeee lol
Yooooooo! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀
😂😂
I'm crying lmfaooo
I think Tony needs a daughter lol 😂 That lil girl would be so solid!!
Fr 😂
I’ve been thinking tony needs a daughter! And share would be the best girl mom!
We are his daughters...some like myself are too old to be his daughter, but I’m o.k being an auntie learning from my nephew
Why would he daughters if anything he needs sons because ain't NOBODY raising theirs right
He’d have to take some out…😂 if a 🥷 even thank he could or would 😂😂😂😊
STOP letting a grown boy talk you of your common sense! TG
Grown boy
DimpledNatural My bad!
@@mymakersdaughter6041 lol
This really shows, it's not about having a big heart, you need boundaries! A big heart don't mean be a doormat..
This video is 100% correct. I failed the first few tests and i ended up getting punched and chocked out. He was a MMA fighter. Dont ignore them red flags. They are always there. He will do it to you, he will do it to someone else. Be safe ladies! Be smart!
Now I can see how desperate a woman can look in a mans eyes
And I was looking desperate and didn't even know it smh 🤦🏾♀️now I know
@@iamsadeashley I think we all were.
We all have at one point or another! I will never allow myself to do that ever again!!!
Atleast we all got learning experiences out of this.
💯💯💯💯
“Go to the lash lady with FIVE stars.” 🤣🤣🤣
Ruby L 😩😩😂😂
Hilarious 😂 🤣🤣
Right 👌😂😂
And get the 1 eyelash to 1 eyelash. 😂😂😂
😂
I had a grown boy test me like that weeks ago. Kept saying he was going to call me and hit me up that night. I didn't hear from him that night nor the next day. I blocked him on my phone. We work at the same store together, so when I saw him the next day after blocking him, he asked me if I was good. That's it..."you good?" So smiling I said, "Yep, I'm good!" lol Well, I left him on block and haven't said a word to him about it ever since. He hasn't said a word either. Done and done. I still speak to him, and I'm always nice, but he will never get a chance to be in my world again.
Dont s where u eat baby. A man outside of the work place is better for your health and independence. 😊🙏🏻
You shouldn’t have even blocked him . I would have let him keep texting and just not reply . Lol
@@laurenlocd3180 haha...it's still to be continued...lol
@@toniwilliams9817 I agree with Lauren, don't block them. That way you know if they reach out or not. And take in the pleasure of not answering back. Just look and delete
@Toni...Way to go Queen. You did right, God reveals, You remove. Queens have no time to entertain peasants.
I appreciate how Tony gets into CHARACTER during the lesson lol
Natalie Fin loooooool right 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yes, that’s the best part. Lol!
It’s the head pat scratch for me! 🤣
Lmaooo 😂😂😂
It makes it hilarious 🤣 with the eyelashes comment.
I wish I found Tony 3 years ago! I would have avoided an abusive relationship. I failed every test in the beginning, he was my first boyfriend. That will never happen again!! Thanks Tony, you're doing the Lord's work!!
ms judyyyy… i feel u with the failed every test & first bf but just kno to keep studying to kno how to pass every other one tho. cant even let it get to u. gotta stay on your own path !
Girl me too!!!!!!
This is golden bible for dealing with players 😂😂😂😂😂
His wife obviously don't play about getting all dolled up, cause where he be getting alllllllll these examples from AND he know the prices 😂😂
Righttttt
It costs money to look great .... you can’t waste expensive makeup on dusty men
“You faking like you not picky, cause you want a husband” 😂😂😭😭😭
that whole segment took me out! i instantly liked the video and commented hahahahahaha
@@Luuve lol omg me too 😂😂😭😂
Whole truth n nothing but...I tell ppl... you better off waiting 2 husband's in and I'm still about to be single...
“You can’t take a lion to the gazelle market - he fitna pounce” 🤦🏾♀️😂🤣😭
Tony so silly 😂🤣
Lol
😂😂
😆🤣😂😅
😂😂😂😂
I wish I had these videos 20 years ago
LMAOOO "You turned his text message into your diary" LOL too much !!
💯 They sometimes cancel a date and then turn around and ask you to come over the same night. 🤨
Tony keep speaking the truth because there are grown boys in their 50s still using these tests.
Amen sista!!! Professional men with multiple degrees with grown boy tendencies. How can men be trusted these days.
That’s called manipulation
That literally happened to me and I turned that grown boy down!
Yep because they like shortcuts and don’t want to have to put in all that work just to smash
Omg that’s the worst!!!!
TG stay giving us gems. Remember when he said don't give a man a second chance if you're not sure he's changed. Look at Princess & Ray j....she filed for divorce he begged her back..she took him back and a month later he filed for divorce. The man wants the last laugh. Be careful out here. Stop allowing these dudes to be disrespectful to you. Kids nor marriage will make a man love & respect you.
Peace, wealth, & wine ✌🏾💵🍷🥰
@@LA-wv7gf yes! Men can be very twisted. As TG would say, "you don't know that man" idc how long you been with him
Facts i peeped that too
Lol at peace wealth and wine 🍷 lol true stuff ❤️
@@PrettyDreadie 💯
@@glendanesmith yes ma'am. Women should let that be their focus and allow love to come in God's timing.
Man you are a lowkey comedian lol, the tracks itching and eyelashes had me rolling
Omg! Me too I had to watch it twice..
Me too 😂
😎😂
That. WAS.HILARIOUS!
It's like having a protective brother, cousin or cool uncle that's schooling you 💙 I love it😌🙏Thank you lord
He so 💣 💣 💣 💣 🔥🔥🔥🔥 I feel blessed to hear his messages daily 🙏🏽
It’s all testing boundaries and how much he can get away with.
“Women never really meet a real man, he becomes a real man after he meets you”😳 Whoah. That’s deep. I love it.
Correction : I WILL NOT FALL FOR IT
Crazy. But so true
“ listen here jezebel spirit” I’m dead 💀
lol
I can’t help but think that if men today had integrity, women wouldn’t need constant coaching sessions. I’m not saying that we as women don’t get it wrong at times however, I find men are looking for a woman who has the stability they cannot provide. This is not the balance God intended and I will be single my whole life before I do for a man what he should have been planning for his whole life for me. This is my belief and I stand on it.
Omg yes! My dad stayed on us about making sure a man has integrity. He would also preach to me over and over about keeping my dignity, which I have found a lot of young women lack. That is why these men get away with so much and I seem like a lot work to them compared to what they are used to. At this point I don’t even care anymore. My peace means too much to me.
Amen 💯
Yasssss!
Beautiful comment. Thank you.
Ew chile! Say it louder!
A guy cancelled a day before claiming he had to travel due to family issues. Mind u the date was supposed to be an apology for ghosting me earlier this year. I texted back thanks for letting me know on time so I don't have to cut my other appointments short. And that's the last he will ever hear from me
Ong the same thing happened with an ex of mine too... exact same wording how odd.
I’m only 23 and I’m dealing with a 29 year old and this helped me , he wait 10 hours to text me back, but was on social media posting,! But when he texted me I’m just not responding back to him
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Good👍 wish I had learned early, would have saved a whole lot of wasted time on jokers
Yes!!!
Girl one did this and kept doing it then … why did he wait a whole day girl I went off and left and never looked back… he had every excuse in the world. Nobody got time for that bullshit
I JUST CLOSED THE BOOK ON ONE OF THOSE. SAME EXACT THING!!!!! A clown from Kenya
“You got yo lil vanity that you didn’t have room for in yo house in the corner”
I cannot with you!!!! Mr.Gaskins😭😂
I felt attacked 😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
"Them tracks start to itch because that tension running through your body" 🤣🤣🤣 Tony say get classic volume 💪💪💪🤣🤣🤣
He wasn’t lying though Lmaoooo
😂
Why is this man not on 1 million subs yet? 🤔 🤦🏽♀️. He’s too too Real🙌🏽🙌🏽 well maybe that’s why ..😹
When he said about being exposed too early & the body craves smh so true. The flesh is so weak. NEVER AGAIN!
“If you waitin to meet him…. You’ll be dead first!” 😅😂
I can honestly say I failed some of these tests
Same...and did a few days ago. Chasing after a grown boy.
I did last week after a horrible experience and it’s like I don’t learn. I just want to be in a good relationship but I just feel like I lack confidence in saying no. So I end up doing things I regret then it doesn’t work out. Dude wasn’t even over his ex and now I feel stupid. After about a month....I just left him alone but still
@@nellelove4899 pray and grow sis pray and grow. We all have fallen for nonsense. So grow from here.
Don't feel bad. But now you know
We all have. Gotta just take the L and learn from it lol. No worries.
who else be rolling on the floor laughing while also getting some good information?? Tony be cracking me UUUUUUUP. 😂😂
Chile me , I’m freaking dying!!
My eyes so damn teary 😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
“A real man doesn’t happen until he meets a real woman”. Tony!!!! Crack the Code please for the people!
I'm 46 years old... Tony is the lil brother i needed but never had... soooooo insightful!!!!
We can’t turn it down Ladies without a relationship with God !!! Impossible! The Lord is our Strength 💪🏽🔥🔥🔥
Every woman that feels they have been dating a narc needs to watch this as I feel most of them are very immature grown boys like Tony describes.
Truth!
Yes!
Indeed!! A grown boy will test you to see what they can get away with and one test leads to the next.
Yep
Truth
“You got your little vanity that you didn’t have room for in your house but you found room in the corner “💀😩😂😂😂😂TG!! I can’t with you ...
😂 he funny
Omg Tony is a comedian I am dying laughing 😅😅😅😅
A man told me I had emotional issues bc I wouldn’t sleep with him within weeks of meeting him....🤦🏾♀️🤮😂
He tried and lost
girllll...who he thought he was gone manipulate? lol certainly not you
Lmao they never cease to reveal themselves 🤦🏾♀️
that’s gross 😢
He didn’t call...What had happened was... Who knew we had to go to school to get tested in dating and relationships Tony. Thanks for the real education.
cindee D Yes! So grateful for Bro Tony!💯💯💯🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I love this brother u women better listen God is jealous u women love God no one comes before God 🙏
Say that louder sis ...they can't hear you!!!
They're not trying to listen to Tony....they're busy listening to WAP and thinking of ways to get the bag from guys dancing to that on the ' gram!
You better say that! I keep telling women and they look at me like I'm crazy.
@Angel Herron God bless you
@@lakeshiawilliams8649 God bless you
When he started patting the back of his hat “them tracks start to itch” I am hollering 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💯🤣💯
😂😂😂
That and the those extreme eyelashes. I was weak.
I’m crying with that and taking off the lashes 😂😂
I’ve heard all this. Guys will make you feel so bad about not sleeping with them or “We should know what it’s like together before we get married” omg I’ve heard this a lot lately. The dumbest excuse. Being sexually assaulted and thinking it’s your fault because “you look so good”. It’s terrible.
it really is, i feel u Sestra. 💛
“Must have been bit by a Cockroach!” 😂😂😂😂
Right with a nanny though lol.
That had me cracking up!!!
😂😭😭😭😂😂😂
LOL 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂!
I died and ressurected 😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆 this is pure comedy
Ladies, they will certainly try you. I tell them all that there is nothing they can do that hasn't already been tried and done, nothing they can say that I haven't already heard, in one way, or another. I will check them every time. Believe it or not, men appreciate a woman who does not let them disrespect her, in any way.
The test about men asking their woman to go to the strip club is also a test to see if she will be down for a ménage a Trois.
You are sooooooo right about it!
Yep
No its a test of truth .... He's messing with other woman and with one of the dancers that he been spending money on to make her jealous😂 dumb but truth. If you have a three and the relationship didn't go anywhere you played yourself
@@yeahthatsme921 I never said any of this happened to me personally ...but I’ve heard several different stories from other women, where that was the males intentions.
That's what I thought he was going to say.
These re-enactments are hilariously accurate 🤣
Im not even going to tell yawl how many times I have watched this video for a refresher. 😂😂😂😂😂😂 Tony gives all the games away
Sooooo I guess ima be single forever cuz soon as dem games start 🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️🏃🏾♀️
I like the way he gets into character and you get the message clearly . If a man cancel 2 times ladies don't let him waste your time , time is precious and once its gone you can never get it back.
Oh lord. This takes me back to my twenties when I had no wisdom around me to help me out.
"Well what about 9 o'clock...voice cracks...well what about 10'o clock." Too funny! crying tears.
Somebody needs to give Tony a network ASAP 😂😂🤣🤣👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏾Thank God for Tony‼️
If you take a lion to a gazelle market, he’s gonna want to pounce. -TG
Translation: You can’t play into these grown boy games. We women have to learn to think with our heads, not our emotions.
We would win more on relationships if we listened to our intuition. If something doesn’t feel right never let a grown boy talk you into it.
Omg this man got me literally crying on here from laughing so darn hard, but the message and delivery was outstanding!
I LOVE the way he say “back” his accent is everything.. lol
Yes he’s very country. That’s how a lot of Floridians talk
That's Florida for you lol
@Allison Whittaker lol
I would rather he fall short in me than in one of these other loose women...TG I'm done🤣🤣🤣🤣
Allison Whittaker 😆😆😆😆
Ladies we are in for a ride with this series 😂😂 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Yes I love it !!! Ahahah everyday I'm looking for a grown boy video
Now Tony how did you have that much information on lash extensions?! I’m screaming!!! 😂😂😂
I know this video isn't new but I'm over here crying because this is accurately hilarious 🤣
“GAHT TO GO” 💨
Soultanicals 😂😂
My favorite line 😂😂😂
A man can test all he wants. I trust myself to pass them.
That’s the best way too look at it
@@toriyt2714 there's no way around it. Just because he holds out a hoop doesn't mean u have to jump thru it.
Tony say "You ain't take your melatonin waiting on him!" 🤣🤣🤣
😅😂🤣
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Somebody get TG a network because ain't nobody got your attention for 59 minutes on RUclips entertaining and being informative!!!
Exactly
"You've got to have your belief and support system in place" so much gold!
"That 5G radiation on your phone they dont want that in the office" 🤣🤣
I was surprised to hear that comment! Bravo TO THAT!! Most don't know a thing about the dangers of 5G!
I literally fell asleep with my phone and just woke up upset again to find It at my head.
I looked up the dangers and of course Google said there is no link to cancer. I used to be able to find out how bad it was online as well as om RUclips but they are hiding the information now. Where can I find the information, anyone know?
You must of been in a good mood for this one this is hilarious 😆
courtney king the last 2 videos took me outtt😭😭
I thought I was mature enough to handle the relationship/marriage. But you can not send a little lamb into a wolf's den and not expect to be on the menu. At 19 yrs old, I met my spouse. He was a 27 yrs old, experienced, world traveled, war weary military man. Looking back having my TG street game tool box, and life experience wisdom there were fully exposed landmines everywhere that gave signs of the trauma ahead. Now I know..listen to Mr Gaskins ladies. "Coach Francesca"
Words cannot express how anointed this man is.
Tony knows what he is talking about. He often makes me laugh, but its reality !
Help the people keep up the good work 😅
The Award for the Truthful, Honest and Most Need Conversation that All Women Need to hear goes to winner Tony Gaskins. This is your Oscar moment.
When he pulled off his lashes I fell out 🤣 Tony is a mess!
That was the best... I'm in here screaming 😀😀😀
Hilarious...I hollered 😂🤣
😂😂😂😂Ahhahahaahahahahaahahahhahahahaahhahaahahahahahahahaha Uncle Tony, demonstrating the phone call and patting his head for the tracks had me dying laughing. Almost tripped up the steps laughing so damnnnn HARD! WE the people appreciate you, Uncle Tony
Tony, you said in your video that Grown boys love shortcuts. As soon as you said that i received a word in my spirit. It goes as follows; The shortcuts will please his flesh, but the Work will please his spirit. This is where we as women can make a big impact‼️ His flesh might not understand the work he has to put in, but on a subconscious level, his spirit is being impacted positively. This brings about real change in a man's heart, when our words and action feeds his spirit first. Thank you Tony. This is confirmation to me that you are indeed anointed by the Holy Spirit. I'd also like to add, that this proves that when we lay on our backs/ fornicate with the man, we bypass the opportunity to feed his spirit. So he continues to operate in lust. Makes complete sense‼️‼️
This is such a great comment. Like I feel like I’m going through this right now with my now ex boyfriend. He was my 1st bf ever and I had no clue what I was doing but I knew that these “tests” that I definitely failed were to teach me a lesson. He wants to get back together but presses sex and I absolutely refuse. I don’t want a man operating in lust but have been positively feeding his spirit from a distance
A word God is so good ❤
A man who cancels a date on me at the last minute, will never see me again. I don’t play that.
So much truth ladies. Listen to understand, stop debating....it's best to know about these test than to experience it and fail. Trust yourself....God will keep you but you have to listen to the lil "wait a minute now" moments and block immediately....you're worth it JUST WAIT
Tony you make my day
My ex husband is a doctor. He asked me to wait for him at work all the time in the beginning and because I was desperate, I did. He also pressured me for sex in the beginning and I could only hold out for a month. He is a grown boy and a highly narcissistic individual. What helps me the most now is knowing that I was codependent with PTSD, so I chose to be in that situation. I couldn't have made any different choices than I did in those moments. Please get counseling ladies. I am stuck with this person for at least the next 15 years of my life.
Yes, my ex husband is a Civil Engineer very respected .. but boy no matter how much college education one has, grown boys can be professionals too! He had an affair with a coworker engineer and even these grown girl professional have no morals intervening in my marriage . They’re “selling it now” how tony says when the man stays with the mistress. low values, disgusting foundation that relationship. She took a head ache from me . So that’s one good thing she did .
Crystal Lopez - I was seeing this man for a few months, 6’4, very handsome, university educated in computer programming, plays piano and guitar and speaks 3 languages fluently BUT he has no scruples, no morals, always ogling young girls walking down the street, sniffing around his friends wives. Found out he picked up some woman at a concert and went to her place for oral sex. Glad I found out before I really got involved with him. I thought he was a good catch because of his education. 😤
A loose booty comes in many shapes, social status, race, etc. You are lucky that you are free from that miser:)
@@crystalglopez91623 same my ex,was making six figures. I found out the hard way that he was a narcissist bum with money. The woman he with now has no idea what she in for. He told her all kinds of lies about me and she drunk his liarade.
Same for me. My soon to be exhusband left me with 5 children. My youngest is one year old. We are both in nurse practitioner school. He is a narcissist and is only doing it for the money and arrogance. He is sleeping with God knows how many and telling lies. I bet they think he is already divorced. Some may not care because they see dollar signs.
“Is this thing working? Call my phone real quick” omg that used to be me... so sad
All of us has been there before.
My younger self thanks you for sharing this insight with her. Better late than never🙌🏿🙌🏿
He said “TONY SMASHIN”. . .”They Want Dark Skin Women Cause It’s BLACK LIVES MATTER”😆😂😂😂
At one time or another... I flunked all the grown boy tests. Cooked a whole dinner plus a pound cake and was stood up. Felt like a stupid fool. 🤦🏾♀️
NOT NO MORE!!!
Girl, similar thing happened to me about a year ago. Did the most in vain. Still feel like smacking myself twice behind that.
Me too! Got him cupcakes from a fancy bakery for his Belated birthday the day he ghosted me. It was just after few weeks of dating. Heads up this guy came back two months back
Oh no!
Damn I’m so sorry
"stop going to Claires" 😭😂
He's like, while we here, lets talk about them lashes
@@alexabee2562 and the giorgio armani foundation 😭
And cvs 😂😂
& CVS 🤣
Tony, man you just blew my mind. I feel right now like I am at a truth serum night club. I am 71 and live in senior housing. A beautiful little place. I hope I don't get complaints about comedy club laughing. Man you are 10,000 percent so right. I'm repenting right now. The half and half friend that I have had for the last six years, I am to done. I will do a complete work on myself for me. Thank you Tony. No my pastor can't talk to me like you do. Anyway I am old enough to know better. I am closer to 100 than 40 years of age. I will take care of myself so that I can make it to 100. My morals, standards and standing on the Word will get me there.
Cancel a date on me that first time and he'll never hear from me again. If it wasn't an emergency and I spent 2+ hours getting ready, I'm blocking his number on the spot. I don't play that 🙅♀️🚫
PERIOD 💯💯
Like Tony said, not every women would have experienced every grown boy test he mentioned, but most if not all have experienced and (probably)failed at least one. I'm no exception. I'd just like to comment that when we as women say things like, 'well I've never done that or I don't understand how some women this - okay ladies we get it, BUT you did fall and fail something. A 'f" is a 'f", right? When we know better, we do better. Blessings to us all to do better moving forward.
Im so glad you brought this up. I stay away from women like this. Not the type of energy I need around me simply because I need and like authenticity and people who are not afraid to grow by learning from and admitting their mistakes
@@Mindful.Movement.01 I stay away from them too! Judgemental people will drag your mental health down to nil! How the pots and the kettles gonna debate who's lighter black??? Lol Makes no sense.
@@n.Lenice 💯
Tony took me out cold when he pretended to blot his face and put his makeup on then patting his weave 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 but I’m so thankful he is keeping us ladies well informed.