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  • @brittbrat3232
    @brittbrat3232 3 года назад +2405

    I’ve never felt so entertained yet informed at the same time 😂😂😂

    • @tyjajackson5892
      @tyjajackson5892 3 года назад +74

      No , seriously! This is why I watch him

    • @akua171
      @akua171 3 года назад +62

      Me too! Tony gaskins is legit God's blessing to us

    • @jaybae7315
      @jaybae7315 3 года назад +20

      😂😂😂 Gurrrllll!

    • @edieandy1
      @edieandy1 3 года назад +7

      Hahha same!

    • @tyjajackson5892
      @tyjajackson5892 3 года назад +33

      Akua !!!! Like I feel like I gained so much knowledge about how to date a man. Like not get played ,at this point knowing how they think I BE DAMNEDDDDDDDD!

  • @uniquelondon1220
    @uniquelondon1220 3 года назад +1353

    he will test sexually
    he will test you emotionally
    he will test you mentally
    he will test your standards
    he will test you spiritually
    he will test your insecurities
    he will test how you make decisions
    he will test your confidence or lack there of.
    Good stuff Tony...

    • @sherriecampbell6914
      @sherriecampbell6914 3 года назад +23

      I appreciate your realness to the sisters!

    • @sadelynn2235
      @sadelynn2235 3 года назад +9

      Yes, I love this!

    • @Iamchristaelaine
      @Iamchristaelaine 3 года назад +24

      I hate these test ugh.

    • @toriyt2714
      @toriyt2714 3 года назад +47

      Chrissy chriss the only reason you will hate the test is if your not ready or don’t think you are sound enough to pass. If you do the work they won’t even be any test to you because you’ll just be that person naturally and all the things will naturally be checked.

    • @snooty4180
      @snooty4180 3 года назад +58

      Chrissy chriss Yes & when you learn how to use the tools of being a confident woman, you won’t stick around for tests...you will realize that he could be a low value man who needs to work on himself & has nothing to do with you.

  • @MsJay-cr1id
    @MsJay-cr1id 3 года назад +193

    This shit is exhausting. Makes you wanna stay single.

  • @Trailblazers323
    @Trailblazers323 3 года назад +388

    If someone cancels on you, don't you dare waste the outfit, makeup and hair. Still go out!

  • @steftruth4477
    @steftruth4477 3 года назад +1280

    The best way to a Man's heart is not to care about him so much and to chill. Trust Me it works.

    • @11071874
      @11071874 3 года назад +86

      I’m learning the hard way. Thanks for this wisdom.

    • @jeralinsunflower7300
      @jeralinsunflower7300 3 года назад +56

      Yep. Very true. I’ve been learning to this with the guys I talk to now.

    • @steftruth4477
      @steftruth4477 3 года назад +186

      Hi Ladies, It took me years to figure this out too. I use to give so much and Loved so hard. Then I saw other Women who loved very minimally and chilled/ fell back from a Man and got handed the World.

    • @charlottestephenson1795
      @charlottestephenson1795 3 года назад +14

      Does this really work?

    • @steftruth4477
      @steftruth4477 3 года назад +109

      @ Charlotte, As Women We have to learn to put Ourselves First and Stop putting the Man on an Unrealistic petal stool. I have seen that Woman who do Less Get More from Men.

  • @cherh
    @cherh 3 года назад +682

    "Women never really meet a real man, he becomes a real man after he meets you" ~TG
    Get your standards in order ladies. Know your worth 🌹❤

    • @tinajones1932
      @tinajones1932 3 года назад +17

      Cher H, I stopped by to pick up your mic for you , well said 🎤

    • @cherh
      @cherh 3 года назад +4

      @@tinajones1932 thank u Queen! 💯🥰

    • @nashyaw3933
      @nashyaw3933 3 года назад +31

      I’ve been telling people that for the longest! When we meet these men, we want the well put together man, where there is no work involved. We expect him to “know” to open doors, flowers, etc...but you have to teach your husband how to be YOUR husband. God gave him permission to marry you and a few pointers on how to handle you, but YOU have to teach him how to be YOURS!!! Setting boundaries etc, which makes him that man you’ve always wanted. It takes time and work, but YOU have to be willing.

    • @cherh
      @cherh 3 года назад +8

      @@nashyaw3933 you better say that!!! They better start people these grown boys in check life is worth living not putting up with a grown boys bullshh

    • @tinajones1932
      @tinajones1932 3 года назад +4

      @Jack Frost, nah we good over here. Thanks for the invite. We'll keep chilling where we are!!!

  • @patricebrown777
    @patricebrown777 3 года назад +446

    "I don't give three strikes. This is not baseball. This is my life.."
    - THIS ☝️👊❤️💎👑

    • @looplelou
      @looplelou 3 года назад +14

      THIS ONE!!!! 💥✔️✔️✔️✔️ Mannnnn did I need this one when I was at the height of "pick-me" misery my 20's 😭😭😭😅

    • @blessedt573
      @blessedt573 3 года назад +10

      I agree! I had to tell my inconsistent ex to lose my number the last time he cancelled a date with me, and the next day he acted like we never had plans. I told him I’m not the ticket-I’m the prize

    • @vanillaicecream5551
      @vanillaicecream5551 2 года назад +1

      Fr.

  • @Kari_Michele
    @Kari_Michele 3 года назад +301

    The best and fastest way to past every test with flying colors is to NOT sleep with him. AND to let him know upfront that it’s not happening until he puts a Ring on it. I know this because I’ve been celibate for almost 3 years & I’ve been drama-free & man-problem free ever since 🤣💜

    • @iasiagregory4558
      @iasiagregory4558 2 года назад +39

      Yasssss sis!!!! Abstinence until marriage really keeps you emotionally sound and in control making intellectual descions! Best decision I made in dating! Lord continue to give grace in this area. It's a protection all on its own.❤😇🙏🏾

    • @Kari_Michele
      @Kari_Michele 2 года назад +7

      @@iasiagregory4558 Yes, Sis! Amen 💜🙏🏾

    • @Kari_Michele
      @Kari_Michele 2 года назад +10

      @Marie Jones I don’t mind being single for life.

    • @nadinemartin9512
      @nadinemartin9512 Год назад +4

      Yep

    • @Kari_Michele
      @Kari_Michele Год назад +16

      Popping into say that my abstinence will reach 5 years in a few months! PTL! 💃🏾🙌🏾 But I’ve healed & I’m ready to enter into marriage season 🥰🙏🏾💗

  • @StephaniesWorld7
    @StephaniesWorld7 3 года назад +453

    “You gotta starve lust” Amen 🙏🏽

  • @sbrewington88
    @sbrewington88 3 года назад +482

    I just had a 59yr old grown man ask to take me out on a date then followed up with asking me if I drive. When I said yes he said “good we can take your car” I hung up and blocked that man IMMEDIATELY!!!

    • @katrinabrown7871
      @katrinabrown7871 3 года назад +53

      Lol....SMH! You did the right thing!

    • @tamjamtv
      @tamjamtv 3 года назад +73

      What the hell?!! Even these old ass grown boys trying it...oh hell naw!!

    • @sheliaglass484
      @sheliaglass484 3 года назад +33

      A term a friend of mine used today that I hadn't heard in a while. That low down dirty sap sucker! He is an old fool with nothing to offer not even a car. You did the right thing. Keep it moving sis.

    • @DimpledNatural
      @DimpledNatural 3 года назад +12

      You mean grown boy lol

    • @teresamarks8212
      @teresamarks8212 3 года назад +18

      As you should have!!! Girl!!!!

  • @tiffanys4867
    @tiffanys4867 3 года назад +152

    I’ll never forget when this guy tried to kiss me and I said no, then all of a sudden he got busy and needed to get his life together. Boy byeeeeeeee lol

  • @carlycoleman9721
    @carlycoleman9721 3 года назад +245

    Now I can see how desperate a woman can look in a mans eyes

    • @iamsadeashley
      @iamsadeashley 3 года назад +49

      And I was looking desperate and didn't even know it smh 🤦🏾‍♀️now I know

    • @danyelgarcia3689
      @danyelgarcia3689 3 года назад +17

      @@iamsadeashley I think we all were.

    • @michelletiaraharris
      @michelletiaraharris 3 года назад +28

      We all have at one point or another! I will never allow myself to do that ever again!!!

    • @MiaCarter7
      @MiaCarter7 3 года назад +9

      Atleast we all got learning experiences out of this.

    • @DanielleStarr
      @DanielleStarr 3 года назад +2

      💯💯💯💯

  • @auroralondon4281
    @auroralondon4281 3 года назад +458

    I think Tony needs a daughter lol 😂 That lil girl would be so solid!!

    • @tonitone666
      @tonitone666 3 года назад +6

      Fr 😂

    • @sarahbrewer7730
      @sarahbrewer7730 3 года назад +11

      I’ve been thinking tony needs a daughter! And share would be the best girl mom!

    • @blessedt573
      @blessedt573 3 года назад +27

      We are his daughters...some like myself are too old to be his daughter, but I’m o.k being an auntie learning from my nephew

    • @franksanchez1716
      @franksanchez1716 2 года назад +12

      Why would he daughters if anything he needs sons because ain't NOBODY raising theirs right

    • @pallana3701
      @pallana3701 8 месяцев назад +1

      He’d have to take some out…😂 if a 🥷 even thank he could or would 😂😂😂😊

  • @Dr.Elaine1
    @Dr.Elaine1 3 года назад +607

    “The reason why grown boys test women is because they love shortcuts.” TG

    • @DayaTom
      @DayaTom 3 года назад +8

      100%

    • @15sophomore15
      @15sophomore15 3 года назад +8

      Love this part

    • @teresadavis528
      @teresadavis528 3 года назад +28

      They don't want to put the work in.

    • @jackfrost326
      @jackfrost326 3 года назад +3

      Yeah...shortcuts to knowing whether or not you're wasting your time. Men vet women out too. This guy married too 😂😂😂😂 L.

    • @nicolelagamo11
      @nicolelagamo11 3 года назад +8

      Truth to be told. Never give them shortcuts 😉 we women deserve a man to work for us 🙏🏽🌹💎

  • @Bells_Ville
    @Bells_Ville 3 года назад +283

    Who else walk around feelin like they got the game on lock after they listen to Mr.Gaskins 👀💯✔😂

    • @raquelhenderson9295
      @raquelhenderson9295 Год назад +3

      Frfr

    • @chereignadixon
      @chereignadixon Год назад +2

      🤚🏽

    • @angelhampton4365
      @angelhampton4365 9 месяцев назад +2

      Personally what he says I've been taught or I've learned through life however it feels like he's my brother and he gives a different perspective. I listen to him when I need a pep talk

    • @pallana3701
      @pallana3701 6 месяцев назад

      Not me cause soon as opportunities present I forget and have to KIM , until I go look at my notes to make sure I know all the points and why he standing like that 😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @jcymngo
      @jcymngo 5 месяцев назад

      I didn't before but I do now. And every single reaction he says a man will have to the T. It happens.

  • @53c3000
    @53c3000 Год назад +36

    This is golden bible for dealing with players 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @mymakersdaughter6041
    @mymakersdaughter6041 3 года назад +302

    STOP letting a grown boy talk you of your common sense! TG

  • @yw6502
    @yw6502 3 года назад +495

    This grown boy university is the best education i have every received, and there is no student loan attached. God bless you Tony! 😂😂😂 I’m crying with laughter...

  • @hazeldia
    @hazeldia 3 года назад +85

    I’m only 23 and I’m dealing with a 29 year old and this helped me , he wait 10 hours to text me back, but was on social media posting,! But when he texted me I’m just not responding back to him

    • @joiagenae
      @joiagenae 3 года назад +7

      🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @gladywa5769
      @gladywa5769 3 года назад +3

      Good👍 wish I had learned early, would have saved a whole lot of wasted time on jokers

    • @nativechique7589
      @nativechique7589 3 года назад

      Yes!!!

    • @Mindful.Movement.01
      @Mindful.Movement.01 3 года назад

      Girl one did this and kept doing it then … why did he wait a whole day girl I went off and left and never looked back… he had every excuse in the world. Nobody got time for that bullshit

    • @lawill3559
      @lawill3559 2 года назад

      I JUST CLOSED THE BOOK ON ONE OF THOSE. SAME EXACT THING!!!!! A clown from Kenya

  • @judyleslie7683
    @judyleslie7683 2 года назад +92

    I wish I found Tony 3 years ago! I would have avoided an abusive relationship. I failed every test in the beginning, he was my first boyfriend. That will never happen again!! Thanks Tony, you're doing the Lord's work!!

    • @kash-monei
      @kash-monei 2 года назад +1

      ms judyyyy… i feel u with the failed every test & first bf but just kno to keep studying to kno how to pass every other one tho. cant even let it get to u. gotta stay on your own path !

    • @paulettalove
      @paulettalove Год назад

      Girl me too!!!!!!

  • @toniwilliams9817
    @toniwilliams9817 3 года назад +477

    I had a grown boy test me like that weeks ago. Kept saying he was going to call me and hit me up that night. I didn't hear from him that night nor the next day. I blocked him on my phone. We work at the same store together, so when I saw him the next day after blocking him, he asked me if I was good. That's it..."you good?" So smiling I said, "Yep, I'm good!" lol Well, I left him on block and haven't said a word to him about it ever since. He hasn't said a word either. Done and done. I still speak to him, and I'm always nice, but he will never get a chance to be in my world again.

    • @dragonflymagictarot1180
      @dragonflymagictarot1180 3 года назад +48

      Dont s where u eat baby. A man outside of the work place is better for your health and independence. 😊🙏🏻

    • @laurenlocd3180
      @laurenlocd3180 3 года назад +31

      You shouldn’t have even blocked him . I would have let him keep texting and just not reply . Lol

    • @toniwilliams9817
      @toniwilliams9817 3 года назад +3

      @@laurenlocd3180 haha...it's still to be continued...lol

    • @dragonflymagictarot1180
      @dragonflymagictarot1180 3 года назад +18

      @@toniwilliams9817 I agree with Lauren, don't block them. That way you know if they reach out or not. And take in the pleasure of not answering back. Just look and delete

    • @tanitrarobinson7477
      @tanitrarobinson7477 3 года назад +16

      @Toni...Way to go Queen. You did right, God reveals, You remove. Queens have no time to entertain peasants.

  • @nataliefin9021
    @nataliefin9021 3 года назад +281

    I appreciate how Tony gets into CHARACTER during the lesson lol

    • @NaturalSuee
      @NaturalSuee 3 года назад +2

      Natalie Fin loooooool right 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @tiarachiffon8131
      @tiarachiffon8131 3 года назад +8

      Yes, that’s the best part. Lol!

    • @cawknee
      @cawknee 3 года назад +9

      It’s the head pat scratch for me! 🤣

    • @NaturalSuee
      @NaturalSuee 3 года назад +2

      Lmaooo 😂😂😂

    • @tandrinebray8194
      @tandrinebray8194 3 года назад +4

      It makes it hilarious 🤣 with the eyelashes comment.

  • @DrTLKillens
    @DrTLKillens 3 года назад +111

    It’s all testing boundaries and how much he can get away with.

  • @Embodied.bliss.somatics
    @Embodied.bliss.somatics 3 года назад +61

    LMAOOO "You turned his text message into your diary" LOL too much !!

  • @natashafreeman2220
    @natashafreeman2220 3 года назад +370

    I think tests and mind games are the purest form of disrespect. If they valued you, then they wouldn’t have tried it at all.

    • @LaTrav08
      @LaTrav08 3 года назад +97

      I used to feel the same way but even mature, high value men test us. My focus is to learn the tests and how to pass them because I will be 80 years old waiting for a
      man that never tests me.

    • @MissSarahGM
      @MissSarahGM 3 года назад +11

      lol. Yes I thought of it this way too. I am fed up of these disrespecting tests men from dating app have thrown at me. It seems even worse on there.

    • @natashafreeman2220
      @natashafreeman2220 3 года назад +37

      ShesaQueen19 right. And they always try to get you to come back so “they can explain”. And I’m like nope you are blocked for life

    • @MissSarahGM
      @MissSarahGM 3 года назад +17

      The last guy who was a player disguised in a nice guy, used a lot of emotional turmoil excuses, his last breakup (9months ago!) and having to process emotions, while he was in fact juggling many women from the app! And I felt we had a connection.. It's disheartening.

    • @marvitasteward4814
      @marvitasteward4814 3 года назад +19

      I think they need to pass the Smith and Wesson test. 🔫

  • @RubyRoxxie
    @RubyRoxxie 3 года назад +196

    “Go to the lash lady with FIVE stars.” 🤣🤣🤣

  • @MsKelly-sy7vc
    @MsKelly-sy7vc 3 года назад +150

    It's like having a protective brother, cousin or cool uncle that's schooling you 💙 I love it😌🙏Thank you lord

    • @tymakaeli1480
      @tymakaeli1480 2 года назад +3

      He so 💣 💣 💣 💣 🔥🔥🔥🔥 I feel blessed to hear his messages daily 🙏🏽

  • @Tatianarain
    @Tatianarain 3 года назад +57

    A guy cancelled a day before claiming he had to travel due to family issues. Mind u the date was supposed to be an apology for ghosting me earlier this year. I texted back thanks for letting me know on time so I don't have to cut my other appointments short. And that's the last he will ever hear from me

    • @krystalricciardi7776
      @krystalricciardi7776 3 года назад +1

      Ong the same thing happened with an ex of mine too... exact same wording how odd.

  • @dreadiaz1703
    @dreadiaz1703 3 года назад +258

    His wife obviously don't play about getting all dolled up, cause where he be getting alllllllll these examples from AND he know the prices 😂😂

    • @trackstar6466
      @trackstar6466 3 года назад +3

      Righttttt

    • @helena3631
      @helena3631 3 года назад +19

      It costs money to look great .... you can’t waste expensive makeup on dusty men

  • @agadonk
    @agadonk 3 года назад +303

    This really shows, it's not about having a big heart, you need boundaries! A big heart don't mean be a doormat..

  • @beverlyguerrero1451
    @beverlyguerrero1451 8 месяцев назад +11

    This video is 100% correct. I failed the first few tests and i ended up getting punched and chocked out. He was a MMA fighter. Dont ignore them red flags. They are always there. He will do it to you, he will do it to someone else. Be safe ladies! Be smart!

  • @diamondmind981
    @diamondmind981 3 года назад +55

    A man told me I had emotional issues bc I wouldn’t sleep with him within weeks of meeting him....🤦🏾‍♀️🤮😂

    • @snsnj7180
      @snsnj7180 3 года назад +12

      He tried and lost

    • @MsChantae
      @MsChantae 3 года назад +9

      girllll...who he thought he was gone manipulate? lol certainly not you

    • @queenuthopia4003
      @queenuthopia4003 Месяц назад

      Lmao they never cease to reveal themselves 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @thetipslayer
      @thetipslayer 19 дней назад

      that’s gross 😢

  • @cherh
    @cherh 3 года назад +435

    TG stay giving us gems. Remember when he said don't give a man a second chance if you're not sure he's changed. Look at Princess & Ray j....she filed for divorce he begged her back..she took him back and a month later he filed for divorce. The man wants the last laugh. Be careful out here. Stop allowing these dudes to be disrespectful to you. Kids nor marriage will make a man love & respect you.
    Peace, wealth, & wine ✌🏾💵🍷🥰

    • @cherh
      @cherh 3 года назад +24

      @@LA-wv7gf yes! Men can be very twisted. As TG would say, "you don't know that man" idc how long you been with him

    • @PrettyDreadie
      @PrettyDreadie 3 года назад +5

      Facts i peeped that too

    • @glendanesmith
      @glendanesmith 3 года назад +8

      Lol at peace wealth and wine 🍷 lol true stuff ❤️

    • @cherh
      @cherh 3 года назад +3

      @@PrettyDreadie 💯

    • @cherh
      @cherh 3 года назад +18

      @@glendanesmith yes ma'am. Women should let that be their focus and allow love to come in God's timing.

  • @nicoler2269
    @nicoler2269 3 года назад +423

    💯 They sometimes cancel a date and then turn around and ask you to come over the same night. 🤨
    Tony keep speaking the truth because there are grown boys in their 50s still using these tests.

    • @11071874
      @11071874 3 года назад +40

      Amen sista!!! Professional men with multiple degrees with grown boy tendencies. How can men be trusted these days.

    • @sarahscroggins2793
      @sarahscroggins2793 3 года назад +34

      That’s called manipulation

    • @theresamarino7588
      @theresamarino7588 3 года назад +21

      That literally happened to me and I turned that grown boy down!

    • @summertinch
      @summertinch 3 года назад +24

      Yep because they like shortcuts and don’t want to have to put in all that work just to smash

    • @laurenlocd3180
      @laurenlocd3180 3 года назад +1

      Omg that’s the worst!!!!

  • @sabrinawhiting5483
    @sabrinawhiting5483 10 месяцев назад +7

    I wish I had these videos 20 years ago

  • @tifiayiti937
    @tifiayiti937 3 года назад +49

    When he said about being exposed too early & the body craves smh so true. The flesh is so weak. NEVER AGAIN!

  • @nicoledanielle8400
    @nicoledanielle8400 3 года назад +139

    “ listen here jezebel spirit” I’m dead 💀

  • @lifegoeson1545
    @lifegoeson1545 3 года назад +174

    I can honestly say I failed some of these tests

    • @ayanaresellerqueen1685
      @ayanaresellerqueen1685 3 года назад +13

      Same...and did a few days ago. Chasing after a grown boy.

    • @nellelove4899
      @nellelove4899 3 года назад +16

      I did last week after a horrible experience and it’s like I don’t learn. I just want to be in a good relationship but I just feel like I lack confidence in saying no. So I end up doing things I regret then it doesn’t work out. Dude wasn’t even over his ex and now I feel stupid. After about a month....I just left him alone but still

    • @nicolegodspower5018
      @nicolegodspower5018 3 года назад +12

      @@nellelove4899 pray and grow sis pray and grow. We all have fallen for nonsense. So grow from here.

    • @janicesmiley3484
      @janicesmiley3484 3 года назад +10

      Don't feel bad. But now you know

    • @MoniqueD305
      @MoniqueD305 3 года назад +6

      We all have. Gotta just take the L and learn from it lol. No worries.

  • @jocelynnicole663
    @jocelynnicole663 3 месяца назад +6

    It’s crazy how Tony literally scripted out my life by what a guy has said to me and the game he played. This man knows exactly what he is talking about.

    • @Carolina480
      @Carolina480 2 месяца назад

      He’s a man men know exactly how men play us

  • @JIJII420
    @JIJII420 3 года назад +105

    Somebody get TG a network because ain't nobody got your attention for 59 minutes on RUclips entertaining and being informative!!!

  • @AF-pw8il
    @AF-pw8il 3 года назад +244

    Man you are a lowkey comedian lol, the tracks itching and eyelashes had me rolling

  • @3333olive
    @3333olive 3 года назад +210

    “You faking like you not picky, cause you want a husband” 😂😂😭😭😭

    • @Luuve
      @Luuve 3 года назад +8

      that whole segment took me out! i instantly liked the video and commented hahahahahaha

    • @3333olive
      @3333olive 3 года назад +5

      @@Luuve lol omg me too 😂😂😭😂

    • @nikkyluv2244
      @nikkyluv2244 3 года назад +4

      Whole truth n nothing but...I tell ppl... you better off waiting 2 husband's in and I'm still about to be single...

  • @TaKyraDivine
    @TaKyraDivine 3 года назад +32

    I’ve heard all this. Guys will make you feel so bad about not sleeping with them or “We should know what it’s like together before we get married” omg I’ve heard this a lot lately. The dumbest excuse. Being sexually assaulted and thinking it’s your fault because “you look so good”. It’s terrible.

    • @logic888
      @logic888 3 года назад +2

      it really is, i feel u Sestra. 💛

  • @ARighteousLife
    @ARighteousLife 2 года назад +43

    Tony, you said in your video that Grown boys love shortcuts. As soon as you said that i received a word in my spirit. It goes as follows; The shortcuts will please his flesh, but the Work will please his spirit. This is where we as women can make a big impact‼️ His flesh might not understand the work he has to put in, but on a subconscious level, his spirit is being impacted positively. This brings about real change in a man's heart, when our words and action feeds his spirit first. Thank you Tony. This is confirmation to me that you are indeed anointed by the Holy Spirit. I'd also like to add, that this proves that when we lay on our backs/ fornicate with the man, we bypass the opportunity to feed his spirit. So he continues to operate in lust. Makes complete sense‼️‼️

    • @blackbutterfye
      @blackbutterfye Год назад +6

      This is such a great comment. Like I feel like I’m going through this right now with my now ex boyfriend. He was my 1st bf ever and I had no clue what I was doing but I knew that these “tests” that I definitely failed were to teach me a lesson. He wants to get back together but presses sex and I absolutely refuse. I don’t want a man operating in lust but have been positively feeding his spirit from a distance

    • @ishaw9894
      @ishaw9894 2 месяца назад

      A word God is so good ❤

  • @h.a.nicola-heather-anne1426
    @h.a.nicola-heather-anne1426 3 года назад +136

    “You can’t take a lion to the gazelle market - he fitna pounce” 🤦🏾‍♀️😂🤣😭

  • @2LoveJones
    @2LoveJones 3 года назад +222

    The test about men asking their woman to go to the strip club is also a test to see if she will be down for a ménage a Trois.

    • @11071874
      @11071874 3 года назад +19

      You are sooooooo right about it!

    • @toriyt2714
      @toriyt2714 3 года назад +5

      Yep

    • @yeahthatsme921
      @yeahthatsme921 3 года назад +6

      No its a test of truth .... He's messing with other woman and with one of the dancers that he been spending money on to make her jealous😂 dumb but truth. If you have a three and the relationship didn't go anywhere you played yourself

    • @2LoveJones
      @2LoveJones 3 года назад +13

      @@yeahthatsme921 I never said any of this happened to me personally ...but I’ve heard several different stories from other women, where that was the males intentions.

    • @wandamajette5000
      @wandamajette5000 3 года назад +2

      That's what I thought he was going to say.

  • @victoriamomina8022
    @victoriamomina8022 3 года назад +54

    We can’t turn it down Ladies without a relationship with God !!! Impossible! The Lord is our Strength 💪🏽🔥🔥🔥

  • @tasharriel
    @tasharriel Год назад +13

    These re-enactments are hilariously accurate 🤣

  • @h.a.nicola-heather-anne1426
    @h.a.nicola-heather-anne1426 3 года назад +150

    “Women never really meet a real man, he becomes a real man after he meets you”😳 Whoah. That’s deep. I love it.
    Correction : I WILL NOT FALL FOR IT

  • @kimberlycampos7591
    @kimberlycampos7591 3 года назад +226

    I can’t help but think that if men today had integrity, women wouldn’t need constant coaching sessions. I’m not saying that we as women don’t get it wrong at times however, I find men are looking for a woman who has the stability they cannot provide. This is not the balance God intended and I will be single my whole life before I do for a man what he should have been planning for his whole life for me. This is my belief and I stand on it.

    • @tesharalaure
      @tesharalaure 3 года назад +40

      Omg yes! My dad stayed on us about making sure a man has integrity. He would also preach to me over and over about keeping my dignity, which I have found a lot of young women lack. That is why these men get away with so much and I seem like a lot work to them compared to what they are used to. At this point I don’t even care anymore. My peace means too much to me.

    • @Kari_Michele
      @Kari_Michele 3 года назад +3

      Amen 💯

    • @mogetit5999
      @mogetit5999 3 года назад +3

      Yasssss!

    • @transitionsnc
      @transitionsnc 3 года назад +3

      Beautiful comment. Thank you.

    • @tanitrarobinson7477
      @tanitrarobinson7477 3 года назад +2

      Ew chile! Say it louder!

  • @charronsfit4-u362
    @charronsfit4-u362 3 года назад +72

    I'm 46 years old... Tony is the lil brother i needed but never had... soooooo insightful!!!!

  • @pangvidal
    @pangvidal Год назад +30

    Omg Tony is a comedian I am dying laughing 😅😅😅😅

  • @flaviafiaes747
    @flaviafiaes747 3 года назад +136

    Why is this man not on 1 million subs yet? 🤔 🤦🏽‍♀️. He’s too too Real🙌🏽🙌🏽 well maybe that’s why ..😹

  • @Marie34694
    @Marie34694 3 года назад +95

    “Must have been bit by a Cockroach!” 😂😂😂😂

    • @LaSultrySoul
      @LaSultrySoul 3 года назад +6

      Right with a nanny though lol.

    • @curli-lettey4319
      @curli-lettey4319 3 года назад +8

      That had me cracking up!!!

    • @SimplyFitwithJay
      @SimplyFitwithJay 3 года назад +2

      😂😭😭😭😂😂😂

    • @siennamillerbroadcast
      @siennamillerbroadcast 3 года назад +3

      LOL 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂!

    • @jacquenderitu3779
      @jacquenderitu3779 3 года назад

      I died and ressurected 😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆 this is pure comedy

  • @nadia4999
    @nadia4999 3 года назад +18

    "Well what about 9 o'clock...voice cracks...well what about 10'o clock." Too funny! crying tears.

  • @xodierra
    @xodierra 3 года назад +36

    Now Tony how did you have that much information on lash extensions?! I’m screaming!!! 😂😂😂

  • @fiftyfiftylifestyle456
    @fiftyfiftylifestyle456 3 года назад +184

    Every woman that feels they have been dating a narc needs to watch this as I feel most of them are very immature grown boys like Tony describes.

  • @thedisabledanddiscarded
    @thedisabledanddiscarded 3 года назад +125

    "Them tracks start to itch because that tension running through your body" 🤣🤣🤣 Tony say get classic volume 💪💪💪🤣🤣🤣

  • @sugarandspice2136
    @sugarandspice2136 2 года назад +12

    Cancel a date on me that first time and he'll never hear from me again. If it wasn't an emergency and I spent 2+ hours getting ready, I'm blocking his number on the spot. I don't play that 🙅‍♀️🚫

  • @makeupmypitbull
    @makeupmypitbull 3 года назад +40

    when you said his text messages became your diary.. That made me hollered!!! 100000% facts!!

  • @DynamicallyDC
    @DynamicallyDC 3 года назад +98

    Indeed!! A grown boy will test you to see what they can get away with and one test leads to the next.

  • @themadisonmonroe
    @themadisonmonroe 3 года назад +84

    “You got yo lil vanity that you didn’t have room for in yo house in the corner”
    I cannot with you!!!! Mr.Gaskins😭😂

  • @SelfLovewithAT
    @SelfLovewithAT Год назад +19

    Somebody needs to give Tony a network ASAP 😂😂🤣🤣👏🏽👏🏽🙌🏾Thank God for Tony‼️

  • @kristinaherrejon7181
    @kristinaherrejon7181 3 года назад +27

    Words cannot express how anointed this man is.

  • @joycesexton2495
    @joycesexton2495 3 года назад +205

    I love this brother u women better listen God is jealous u women love God no one comes before God 🙏

    • @BlossomAyanaNYC
      @BlossomAyanaNYC 3 года назад +4

      Say that louder sis ...they can't hear you!!!

    • @curli-lettey4319
      @curli-lettey4319 3 года назад +5

      They're not trying to listen to Tony....they're busy listening to WAP and thinking of ways to get the bag from guys dancing to that on the ' gram!

    • @lakeshiawilliams8649
      @lakeshiawilliams8649 3 года назад +3

      You better say that! I keep telling women and they look at me like I'm crazy.

    • @joycesexton2495
      @joycesexton2495 3 года назад

      @Angel Herron God bless you

    • @joycesexton2495
      @joycesexton2495 3 года назад +1

      @@lakeshiawilliams8649 God bless you

  • @SoultanicalsTube
    @SoultanicalsTube 3 года назад +98

    “GAHT TO GO” 💨

  • @jazminecarson
    @jazminecarson Год назад +16

    I know this video isn't new but I'm over here crying because this is accurately hilarious 🤣

  • @aleksandrabenedict2135
    @aleksandrabenedict2135 3 года назад +28

    "You've got to have your belief and support system in place" so much gold!

  • @nicoledanielle8400
    @nicoledanielle8400 3 года назад +66

    Sooooo I guess ima be single forever cuz soon as dem games start 🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️

  • @ShesGottaFastCar
    @ShesGottaFastCar 3 года назад +97

    “A real man doesn’t happen until he meets a real woman”. Tony!!!! Crack the Code please for the people!

  • @brighteyez1026
    @brighteyez1026 6 месяцев назад +8

    I wish I had seen this sooner. This is absolutely the game! And Tony has the playbook. I may not have passed every test, but now I’m restago.
    Tony is like the Uncle that’s going to get you together! We need someone to talk candidly like this. Gems 💎

  • @miunicorn1324
    @miunicorn1324 3 года назад +19

    He said “TONY SMASHIN”. . .”They Want Dark Skin Women Cause It’s BLACK LIVES MATTER”😆😂😂😂

  • @cindeed4422
    @cindeed4422 3 года назад +80

    He didn’t call...What had happened was... Who knew we had to go to school to get tested in dating and relationships Tony. Thanks for the real education.

    • @ginad8238
      @ginad8238 3 года назад +1

      cindee D Yes! So grateful for Bro Tony!💯💯💯🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @tejefferson6869
    @tejefferson6869 3 года назад +60

    Ladies, they will certainly try you. I tell them all that there is nothing they can do that hasn't already been tried and done, nothing they can say that I haven't already heard, in one way, or another. I will check them every time. Believe it or not, men appreciate a woman who does not let them disrespect her, in any way.

  • @MsCharizma00
    @MsCharizma00 3 года назад +10

    Scream laughing when he said the tracks start to itch cause of tension 😂🤣😂🤣

  • @annwideman8760
    @annwideman8760 3 года назад +8

    Tony, man you just blew my mind. I feel right now like I am at a truth serum night club. I am 71 and live in senior housing. A beautiful little place. I hope I don't get complaints about comedy club laughing. Man you are 10,000 percent so right. I'm repenting right now. The half and half friend that I have had for the last six years, I am to done. I will do a complete work on myself for me. Thank you Tony. No my pastor can't talk to me like you do. Anyway I am old enough to know better. I am closer to 100 than 40 years of age. I will take care of myself so that I can make it to 100. My morals, standards and standing on the Word will get me there.

  • @11071874
    @11071874 3 года назад +133

    At one time or another... I flunked all the grown boy tests. Cooked a whole dinner plus a pound cake and was stood up. Felt like a stupid fool. 🤦🏾‍♀️
    NOT NO MORE!!!

    • @jnt6928
      @jnt6928 3 года назад +7

      Girl, similar thing happened to me about a year ago. Did the most in vain. Still feel like smacking myself twice behind that.

    • @PriyaSharma-fc9mr
      @PriyaSharma-fc9mr 3 года назад +6

      Me too! Got him cupcakes from a fancy bakery for his Belated birthday the day he ghosted me. It was just after few weeks of dating. Heads up this guy came back two months back

    • @livelearnandgrow5422
      @livelearnandgrow5422 3 года назад

      Oh no!

    • @laurenlocd3180
      @laurenlocd3180 3 года назад +1

      Damn I’m so sorry

  • @lerinnenatalia
    @lerinnenatalia 3 года назад +118

    who else be rolling on the floor laughing while also getting some good information?? Tony be cracking me UUUUUUUP. 😂😂

    • @patriciastarchia4712
      @patriciastarchia4712 Год назад +1

      Chile me , I’m freaking dying!!

    • @misskaykay1856
      @misskaykay1856 Год назад +3

      My eyes so damn teary 😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @yasemins1313
    @yasemins1313 3 года назад +33

    I’m 50 and learning so much from you. Thank you and may God bless you 🙏🏼

  • @ceritacarter4337
    @ceritacarter4337 6 месяцев назад +2

    I’ve just witnessed Tony the Actor Comedian & Truth Teller. I’m showing this to the Single ladies & men at the Church. These tests are real & have consequences as well. Thank you Tony for identifying them. 🙏🏽

  • @LoveVida707
    @LoveVida707 3 года назад +65

    "That 5G radiation on your phone they dont want that in the office" 🤣🤣

    • @beckyandrus3977
      @beckyandrus3977 3 года назад +4

      I was surprised to hear that comment! Bravo TO THAT!! Most don't know a thing about the dangers of 5G!

    • @danyelgarcia3689
      @danyelgarcia3689 3 года назад +3

      I literally fell asleep with my phone and just woke up upset again to find It at my head.
      I looked up the dangers and of course Google said there is no link to cancer. I used to be able to find out how bad it was online as well as om RUclips but they are hiding the information now. Where can I find the information, anyone know?

  • @sharicebryant8149
    @sharicebryant8149 3 года назад +42

    A canceled date for me means he must not wanna take things further so bye 😂 when I was desperate i would’ve been the one trying to reschedule. Nope. I literally have a schedule so my free days are my free days, sir.

  • @Aisha_babii
    @Aisha_babii 5 месяцев назад +3

    “If you waitin to meet him…. You’ll be dead first!” 😅😂

  • @misskaykay1856
    @misskaykay1856 Год назад +12

    I am laughing all the way in South Africa 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 thank God for the internet and you Tony for sharing these teachings with us. So informative and so funny …. Love it ❤️❤️🙏🏾

  • @vaindoingit352
    @vaindoingit352 3 года назад +80

    When he started patting the back of his hat “them tracks start to itch” I am hollering 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💯🤣💯

    • @DahBeezKneez
      @DahBeezKneez 3 года назад +5

      😂😂😂

    • @wandamajette5000
      @wandamajette5000 3 года назад +1

      That and the those extreme eyelashes. I was weak.

    • @Karim.711
      @Karim.711 3 года назад

      I’m crying with that and taking off the lashes 😂😂

  • @SixFootofFitness
    @SixFootofFitness 3 года назад +51

    “You got your little vanity that you didn’t have room for in your house but you found room in the corner “💀😩😂😂😂😂TG!! I can’t with you ...

  • @prettibrowneyez2u
    @prettibrowneyez2u 3 года назад +26

    I had a guy cancel on me twice, first was a family emergency than an urgent matter with a friend 🥱🤔 I seen right through them games and told him I'm sorry but I don't think this is going to work out ✌🏽

  • @Standardliving123
    @Standardliving123 2 года назад +4

    They get soo mad when they get denied. Throw an entire temper tantrum. Lol

  • @thedisabledanddiscarded
    @thedisabledanddiscarded 3 года назад +60

    Tony say "You ain't take your melatonin waiting on him!" 🤣🤣🤣

  • @bigflyness17
    @bigflyness17 3 года назад +96

    I LOVE the way he say “back” his accent is everything.. lol

    • @kishiamay3478
      @kishiamay3478 3 года назад +4

      Yes he’s very country. That’s how a lot of Floridians talk

    • @DimpledNatural
      @DimpledNatural 3 года назад +3

      That's Florida for you lol

    • @DimpledNatural
      @DimpledNatural 3 года назад +1

      @Allison Whittaker lol

    • @joanjones3677
      @joanjones3677 3 года назад +2

      I would rather he fall short in me than in one of these other loose women...TG I'm done🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @bigflyness17
      @bigflyness17 3 года назад

      Allison Whittaker 😆😆😆😆

  • @daniellebrucks2776
    @daniellebrucks2776 3 года назад +14

    Your wife has you filled in on all the good stuff! I’m rolling 😂😂

  • @jilly553
    @jilly553 3 года назад +9

    Listen your acting be on POINT😩😩😂😂

  • @TARLEASE02
    @TARLEASE02 3 года назад +119

    Tony you say your wife is the jokester and you are more even keel and don't like all the pranks and jokes, but I don't think that's the case. I've been watching you for about 2 years and you are too funny!!! This by far is the funniest one. Love it! You crack me up. I'm sure you two are the perfect match and be cutting up together. Coming to the stage relationship comedian TG The Truth 😆😆😆😆

    • @mymakersdaughter6041
      @mymakersdaughter6041 3 года назад +9

      He's hilarious! But, I really don't think he thinks he's being funny because he is so serious. This is real to him! God Bless TG!

    • @TARLEASE02
      @TARLEASE02 3 года назад +6

      @@mymakersdaughter6041 I know. I still be thinking...this dude Really doesn't think he's funny!? Gotta love em'😁😆🤷🏾‍♀️🙋🏾‍♀️😊❤

    • @Bgrace15
      @Bgrace15 3 года назад +7

      He definitely is 😂🤣🤣🤣 always crying laughing

  • @ninapao1671
    @ninapao1671 3 года назад +61

    "stop going to Claires" 😭😂

    • @alexabee2562
      @alexabee2562 3 года назад +7

      He's like, while we here, lets talk about them lashes

    • @ninapao1671
      @ninapao1671 3 года назад +2

      @@alexabee2562 and the giorgio armani foundation 😭

    • @PrettyDreadie
      @PrettyDreadie 3 года назад +2

      And cvs 😂😂

    • @theetiaralouisee
      @theetiaralouisee 2 месяца назад

      & CVS 🤣

  • @rebecca51913
    @rebecca51913 9 месяцев назад +5

    Your messages are such a blessing for us ladies especially those of us who’s fathers were not around as much while growing up. I have my daughter listening to your messages too. Thank you!

  • @susiebrown4988
    @susiebrown4988 3 года назад +5

    This dude said its me or Tony Gaskins! I busted with laughter! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @h.a.nicola-heather-anne1426
    @h.a.nicola-heather-anne1426 3 года назад +50

    Oh lord. This takes me back to my twenties when I had no wisdom around me to help me out.

  • @jacquelineking8706
    @jacquelineking8706 3 года назад +48

    So true! You have to starve lust.

  • @kenzizard
    @kenzizard 3 года назад +33

    I just want you to know...I get volume lashes and I use the Armani Luminous Silk foundation and that stuff IS expensive...so taking that off is like wiping money off your face and I APPRECIATE you for pointing that out!
    Getting ready, putting time and money into your outfit, makeup etc takes a lot and should be respected because that is you time and you can’t get it back! You’re entertaining but so correct.

  • @grace8739
    @grace8739 2 года назад +12

    Tony if my school teachers taught like you I would’ve been the valedictorian. I’ve learned more info watching you than I did sittin in school