Stiffing a Girlfriend
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- Опубликовано: 1 апр 2024
- The plaintiff used to be friends with the defendant. However, the plaintiff gave the defendant money for a few summer trips, but she hasn't paid it back, so the plaintiff is suing. The defendant argues the plaintiff begged her to go on the trips even though she informed her she couldn't afford it. The plaintiff knew she wasn't going to pay her back, so she shouldn't have paid for the trips if she wanted the defendant to come.
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If your friend says that she can't afford to pay for a trip believe her and don't force her to pay and go. Save yourself the agony.
Right especially that she did it twice
Lesson learned, hopefully ❤
So true
True that.😊
And the friendship.
Never loan money that you can’t afford to give. Never. It ruins relationships.
It it's a loan then it's supposed to be paid back. If it wasn't made clear that it was a loan then that's the fault of the plaintiff for not stating that. I wouldn't loan someone hundreds of dollars and take the loss because they assumed that it was a gift. I typically give away lower amounts to homeless people from time to time.
BINGO!!!!! That's what my dad taught me a LONG time ago when I was a kid.
great minds! that was my first thought.....don't lend the money.
Never loan money period. Never invest in someone else either. Keep your money.
@@BREEZYM6015 The point is not to make the loan in the first place. If you can give it, then give it. Loans ruin friendships. When the person making the loan asks for it back, the recipient almost always gets pissy about it.
Most "friends" will accept regular small payments instead of nothing at all. Pay $5 here, $20 there but MAKE AN EFFORT!
One time I had a friend ask me to go to San Diego comic con, I didn’t want to go because it’s way too many ppl, it’s really has nothing to do with comics etc, but he brought tickets with another friend and they had a falling out and he asked me to go because he didn’t want to go alone, after a few days I said fuck it and went, then he wanted me to pay for it and I was like bro I’m not paying for this I’m only here so I could basically hold your pops and posters
She had no intention to pay her back. Whenever means never.
@@lkain619Did you dress as Wonder Woman?
@@bash547 lol I wish I did. I used to go to comic con back in the day like 2003 when it wasn’t that big now it’s almost impossible to see everything the ticket prices are way too high, hotel rooms are always full. I was over it
@@lkain619That’s totally different, your friend would be out that money either way. It’s like when a friend couldn’t make it to a concert we bought tickets to and we agreed to give the other ticket away since there’s no refunds, and she agreed to offer to a mutual friend of ours bc better for me to have fun with another friend than waste the ticket and go alone. Like, if someone agrees to pay beforehand, sure, but it’s not fair to assume after the fact.
Judge went from Proud of the lady to Pissed off at the lady😅😅
She was never proud… she was hating and took any opportunity to belittle her.
@MsBenitaButrell Hating my a$$. The defendant owes the money full stop. Smiling with you doesn't mean we are best friends. It's a court
I was cringing so bad at that too
Judge got bi-polar on this. lol
I came here to say this LOL She went from wanting to be friends with the defendant, to wanting to throw hands with her in the end 😂😂😂
i couldn't keep up with that quick changee!
😁😁 Judge be on that strong caffeine every episode
Yeah I agree. The lady said she's had some health issues in the past year reason why she wasn't working. I would like to know what the health issues were had the judge not gone bonkers on the lady. Lady still owes the money but it would have been good to know. 🧐
Shut up mb
The defendant should write a documentary to show us how to survive without a job 😂
It's not hard
Surviving on hard working tax payers money. Section 8, food stamps etc.
@@Msggggggggg That was rude…being black has nothing to do with eligibility for government assistance. The office in my town the majority is Russian. The man who owns the store across from me lies about his earnings so that he gets food stamps, and cash aid and he is Palestinian. Your comment was nasty and uncalled for. If you can’t get government assistance that’s no one else’s fault.
Living off of us people who actually work via government support.
@@cynthiaprice3528 honestly though it is a lot of blacks who take advantage of the system and say they are owed free living due to slavery.
Seldom lend…never borrow…saves lots and lots of sorrow
I think you mean give not lend, but I understand you needed to make it rhyme
Among my friends and family, I don't lend. If I want to help, I give/gift. I f they pay me back, Great. If they don't, that's fine. I never give what I can't afford to be without
I don’t loan money to friends. I give it. If they take advantage we’re no longer friends. Problem solved.
Agreed! I was taught don't lend what you can't afford to loose.
So she didn't have any money to pay her back....but she wanted to buy the skirt...
Ikr
I’m an only child too, and my parents always taught me *“Neither a borrower nor a lender be”,* not just for clothes, but for ANYTHING! I have never asked a friend to loan me a thing, and I never will. As for the plaintiff asking to borrow the defendant’s daughter’s prom dress, I’m not cool with that. Even if she DID wear your skirt, your skirt is just a skirt, whereas a prom dress is something special, so I can understand why she wouldn’t want to loan it. What grown person really goes around boring clothes from teenagers anyway? 😂
If the size fits a lot of ppl
Man, I just love those kind of life lessons from the old folk. So much wisdom behind a seemingly simplistic statement.
Did the Defendant owe? Absolutely! Do I believe the Plantiff was a bit coercing, maybe saying things like "oh come on, you've gotta go, it's gonna be fun, don't worry about it, pay me later" and when the Defendant said "Nooo, wish I could, but I don't have the money," the Plantiff proceeded to "oohh come on ,come on" again?? Hell yes I believe she did that!
Nothing wrong with that. WE ALL do it all the time to our friends!! I convinced my friend to go to the casino and eventually i said, "look i'll spot, how much you want?" He said, $800, i said "koo, when you can pay me back, he said maybe in a month, i said koo. 1.5 months my friend back in full. When you're friends know they owe and don't want to pay you back, then they not you're friend.
the way she switched up was wild😂😂 like did something else happen that they edited out for her to turn on her like this. 😭😭😭😭
THAT BUN WITH THE BUTTERFLY PIN LIKE SHE IN PRE-SCHOOL IS SENDING MEEEE! 🤣
'Whenever' is right now, lady 😂
She should not be so desperate for a friend to pay for everything, knowing she can't afford it!
If the friend can't afford to pay for the trip whether she's desperate or not the friend should not go.
Congratulations to the defendant for losing 170 pounds. You look fantastic!!!!!
It didn't JM long to go from adoring and showing the defendants picture to "you don't look, you should shut your mouth." Zero to sixty in less than 3 seconds.
Damn!!! Judge Millian looked like she wanna throw hands with the defendant!!!
😂😂😂😂😂
Be funny if she did😂
That serious caffeine fix has Judge Milian going every single episode 😁😁
maybe that's acceptable in your household
LMAO
Why are people ashamed to say they had gastric bypass surgery? I can almost guarantee that's how she lost the weight and the reason she now has medical issues.
I just wish people would be more transparent.
If she did lose it just by eating well and working out well then I'm the a-hole, but I very highly doubt it.
I knew someone who lied about having bariatric surgery, and I feel that doing so kinda gives overweight folks a false sense of hope.
There's nothing shameful in having surgery. I just wish people were more honest with themselves and others.
Yeah I know! I think she did the surgery too! That was what first came to mind.
Riiiiiight. I think it's because they know they took the easy road. I hate how people will clap when they say they had the surgery it's like dont clap 4them clap 4the surgeon
People lie to avoid being shamed. They don't want to hear that they took the easy way out, and they shouldn't have to. Why work harder when there's an option to work smarter? Either way who cares if they lie? Nobody is obligated to share their medical records with you.
@@ZovaBe People are also not obligated to go on national TV and look a fool, but go off!
JM to the defendant is how I am with my kids. One minute we’re laughing, joking, and having a good time then the next I gotta morph back into the authoritative figure. We can laugh and joke but I’m still the boss. I like to have that balance.
Gastric surgery is what she did. Her friend didn't want to tell her secret 😊
That's exactly what I just commented as well. You can totally tell by how she was responding to the judge when asked about it.
I'm not sure why she is ashamed of it? Should everyone who has gone that route be ashamed? No. It honestly looks bad on her.
We're so proud of you for losing 170. I would love to lose 150. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
I cannot STAND folks like this. What does her not getting along with her family has to do with her trip?! You AGREED to pay, so, what is the problem?!
Pay the damn lady!
Im sorry but when she said “Im broke, I cant go,” the first 3 times, thats not code for “Ill have it later.” You cant decide to pressure her and offer to pay, then act surprised that she is too broke to pay you.
Its no different than women ignoring red flags when they date men. They be so desperate for love and attention they ignore the words coming out the person mouth and continue to pursue. That’s literally what happened here.
WOW. WONDERFUL B4 and afters pics.... amazing
Idc what anybody says about the defendent she did that !!!!!! Losing all that weight is so good !!!!!! People don’t understand the consistency the mind set you have to have to lose weight like that !and she’ looks so young didn’t think she had a 15 year old
Hats off to the defendant that she had the drive and dedication to drop 170 pounds over two years.
they have a weird friendship lol
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
CONGRATULATIONS on the weight loss! You’re dynamite!!!!!!
Her body looked fine either way. It’s who she is inside that counts. How you treat your friends and family is the only thing that matters. Hopefully she sees that and pays her friend back, soon. Not the day before she dies or better she’ll leave her $620 out of her life insurance policy, oh wait. Life insurance would mean she cares about others, and we know that’s not going to happen.
@@jameshuntsman6046I'm sorry, but her body did not look fine before. I bet never in your life have you intentionally tried to gain that much weight, and there's a reason you haven't
The judge got my anxiety up.... I don't even have anxiety issues!
What the hell is up with judge. Seemed a little unhinged.
Exactly! The judge was a psychopath!😂
Nah she had a proud momma type moment with the weightloss then had to get back to judge mode......
@@Brandi.Alexandria Going from sweet to crazy… isn’t normal!🤦♀️
@elainevankat5353 she wasn't going crazy tho, unless you have a different definition of what going crazy is....to me she seemed irritated that the defendant felt entitled not to pay and a year passed......seemed she was trying to get the defendant to understand how ridiculous she was for that
Money always ruin relationships/friendships
Chile it’s the butterfly clip for me ! 🤦🏾♀️
Judge went from 0-100 real quick.
Neither a borrower nor a lender be...do not forget, stay out of debt....
Girl should have just said no to the trips!!!!!
Judge Judy always says don't eat the steak if you can't afford it. That woman went on the trip and did not want to pay for it.
Never loan money you can't afford to lose and aren't willing to write off.
To be honest, I feel like people who allow others to borrow money from them and jobless, she not get repayment. You have no idea how long it will take to gain employment or if they will ever pay back. Lesson learned
I agree in part, the first time she fronted money and she did not pay any bad decision after that should have been written off . so she would only pay the first money owed, the rest is on the plaintiff.
Damn...judge was on one today. Smh
I knew the judge had something coming for her when she gave her that compliment 😂
Whenever doesn’t mean forever
"I didn't have it" but the judge just said to give a few dollars (called GOOD FAITH) and defendant still has no clue! NEVER EVER loan money to
anybody without a written agreement. ME? I never loan. I'd rather give to my close friends and not expect payment.
😂she couldn't afford to pay her friend? How much did those nails cost?😮
The judge shouldn’t tell somebody that they are able bodied enough to work. There are people that have disabilities that you cannot see from the outside and may be struggling.
JM let the defendant have it. All she had to do was pay a little here and there. She is not a true friend. What else did Doug want th3 defendant to say abt her weight loss lol he kept saying it's more to it than that. He must have a weight loss story too. Fair judgement
I kind of wonder if the Plaintiff OFFERED at least ONE trip to her friend as a GIFT for the defendants hard work in becoming healthy and feel good about herself 🤔
I appreciate the defendant bringing her skirt back on a hanger and not stuffed and wrinkled in a bag. She seems like a good friend. She has a problem with her leg and if she's having surgery she can't work. I think that if someone tells you that they can't afford it, don't press the issue of them going on an expensive trip with you. I never understand how people expect payments from someone who has no money. I would not have taken her on the trip because it's obvious that she can't afford it. The plaintiff seems like she has a lot more than the defendant, and she should've taken someone else. Oh! That's right...she couldn't because they weren't messing with her. I also agree that you should try and pay something if you owe someone. At least $20 here and there shows good faith. It's not good business if you don't. Now you can never borrow money if you ever need to. I say your word is your bond...so just try your best to honor your word.
She wasn’t a good friend at all as soon as she heard “no” she turned into an angry mean girl
I have never asked a friend for a loan but I have had friends ask me if I’d loan them money. I always tell them I do not have any extra money to loan out. I’ve seen what happens when it comes to friendships & loans, never ends well!
Congratulations to her surgeons. She aint ran not one mile
Stop lending these ppl money
Maaan, she could do youtube or zoom classes on how she lost the weight and make money that way, shes just being lazy
You don't know she's being lazy. She said she had some health issues and some kinda surgery. But the judge didn't let her finish speaking.
@@valariehunter5389 no excuses! She has the ability to go on trips, Make it make sense
@@YoungBlaze boy she's literally limping into court and is walking with a cane. Also just start up a class about losing weight, you really think you can go ahead and make piles of money like that on the internet from the start? How out of touch are you. Do you believe those commercials that play before youtube videos saying that you can start your own social media empire by following my simple 3 step plan...? Those ppl make money based on foolish people that believe that crap. Those social media ppl pay money to buy more views. They pay money to "fix" the algorithm to boost their presence on social media.Its not just a couple of bucks. Its 1000s of dollars. To even get up to be making money that can support themselves, they will need MILLIONS of subscribers.
Losing weight is not a special corner of the internet that has been untapped. There are countless fitness gurus on the internet. They have books to buy, zoom meetings, social media lives. And these people have to be remotely modelesque and crazy fit. This girl can barely walk. Like broooo be seriousss. Youre so out of touch. lol
“You should shut your mouth very soon!” 🤣🤣🤣
Oh you did that, congratulations on the weight loss. That’s awesome 👏🏾 👏🏾
She looks amazing! JM went postal on her though... sheesh!!
Judge need to get a menopause check bc how tf you go from proud to pissed
I encountered people like the defendant always got their hand out and take take take
Damn Doug..she gave you a detailed answer..accept it! Shes not a weight loss professional 🙄
I'm doing you a favor by going on a trip with you.And you're footing the bill but remember it's a favor to you
People use their disabilities as an excuse not to handle their responsibilities 🙄
Where money starts, friendship ends.
I gave bus trips🤔girl everyone don’t understand hood slangs😂😂she didn’t even realised judge corrected her
Why do you keep doing the borrow money thing if you know you have issues with that. How does the defendant support herself if she doesn't work?????
The plaintiff was being petty. You cannot fit in the daughters dress, or the daughter didn’t want to lend you her dress, so now you want the mom to pay for the trips that you knew she couldn’t afford. She’s being petty and she’s not a very good friend!
The defendant was making all of us only children look bad. I have no idea what that had to do with anything (in her bringing it up), but I can tell she was probably the “stereotype” that many of us were not…well I know I wasn’t spoiled 😅
She made it seem like she was forced to go on the trip. If you know you don't have the money, doesn't work and wont pay it back anytime soon don't go on the trip. She thought pay back later meant anytime she wanted to.
I agree with everything else that was said but for the judge to assume she’s able bodied by appearance is wrong. That’s equivalent to seeing a person who can walk with a handicap placard and assuming they’re not handicapped. She has no clue what that girls health issues are. I have my assumptions on her health issues but not for me to say nor for the judge to assume. She needs to deal in fact. Period.
We go to food eateries 🤔
😂😂😂
If a friend ask me to borrow money I ask for collateral, something of greater value to hold until pay back. If they can't put up, I don't put out. Friends can turn into enemies pretty fast when it come to money. Keep a friend, say no.
Amazing that the Defendant reached that weight loss goal. 👍
It's time get a job and stop living off of other people and making excuses.
We all should, by now, time has zero weight on friendships...
The judge can be very rude
How is she paying her cell phone bill... does she eat...
She probably didn't have extra for luxury. That's why she didn't want to go on these trips and etc
Yeah I flew straight to the comments when she said yeah you don’t even look good …
Honestly, if someone said they can’t afford something don’t pester them… and the other be firm not to accept it
If you don't have it then don't go. A trip is a luxury and unless its 100% understood to be a gift then you are not entitled to go on somebody else's dime. Good friendships don't come along often and when money ruins one its a shame.
Good job and GOD BLESS THE DEFENDANT. ALWAYS BEAUTIFUL BUT NOW HEALTHY AND BEAUTIFUL ❤🙏
Judge switched up on the defendant real quick. 😄
You had money for that surgery though talking about she feel light 😅 yup just like them pockets
😅😅if u end a friendship over money u was never truly friends cuz if u was u would know how they are and just give freely or not give at all cuz u know their character
If you don't have it to give, don't lend it out at all.
Doug didn't say "Harvey"😕
If I can afford to give money as a gift they can’t have it. Loans between friends can go really bad.
Well damn...she came IN limping.. wth how can she work right now?
The plaintiff reminds me of the late actress Rosalyn Cash.
A little bit. maybe even Paula Kelly
The judge be tripping smh
Exactly!!!
Team Milian!!!
plaintiff is a giver; the defendant is a taker! it wouldn’t have hurt her to let her friend borrow that dress?? her daughter had already wore it to the prom anyway…
Totally agree, but when you think about it she openly admitted her mom taught her to not borrow other peoples clothing so im sure thats why she did not lend the dress to her
The daughter was not willing to let her have it since she just wore it. Prom is a special time in teens life just like a wedding. Not the same as wearing an everyday dress or skirt.
I hate when people say if they had it, they would pay. Make an attempt to pay something. And if you can't afford it, don't go or say no.
Why pressure a friend on a trip knowing dam well she can’t afford it. Don’t say you can pay me whenever because some ppl assume it’s a gift
The Dress has NOTHING to do with Free Trips!
Just because someone looks able-bodied, is able-bodied! My husband stage 4 cancer, to look at him, you can't tell, but he hasn't been able to work in years. Although I feel the defendant still needs to pay, reasonable time is also based on the circumstances.
if pay even 10 doollars a month she would of not took this to court its u not paying anything thats the problem
"I feel more energetic" energetic enough to get a job?
The defendant mentioned that she didn't work for 1 year and didn't have the money to pay the plaintiff back for the trips. I haven't worked or had a permanent job in 3 years, and I know not to go on trips I can't afford to pay for. Even if the defendant don't have a job she can sell items in her house she no longer wants for the money like a garage sale, she can volunteer to help someone for a week, she could have even asked a family member to loan her half the money, or never went on none of the trips from the beginning! There is no excuse. The defendant was not a good friend to the plaintiff. The plaintiff was kind enough to help her go on trips and let her borrow her clothes smh.
This episode is straight up ninja shit..
aw they are all wearing the same color
I really hate to see JM. Congrats you for anything and turn around i get in your sh.t . Thats a real judge.🤣she got tuff love . I really believe it was about the dress but the plantiff didn't have to accept the trips. I would paid her no matter thats what appreciated people do ijs. Congratulations on her weight loss journey ❤️💯
Why did she go on the trip if she wasn't working and couldn't afford it That wasn't smart
JM is wrong .. telling her she better shut her mouth after giving her praise after weight-loss.... Come on JM dang.