Omg, that woman with the man who was gardening?! Ugh! I heard something recently that has stuck with me: "learn to be comfortable with other people's discomfort." Makes sense. It's not your job to make someone else feel better. It's your job to take care of yourself. If someone feels embarrassed about making an insensitive, racist comment, then good! They should feel uncomfortable.
I honestly think more people should talk to kids 'like they're adults.' Being treated like your own person and being taken seriously as a kid really is better for your confidence and communication skills in the long run.
Soooo many kids would run away from home if that were the case! I think parents know deep down that their children are more intelligent than they wanna admit, but just can’t do the damn thing, cause it would break multi generational stuff lol
I - as a parent- completely agree. I do not think I am here to raise them like cattle - I am here to love and support them and help them grow into the person they came here to be. I also, admit my own mistakes to them. I teach them how to take accountability and apologize with my example. I am here to break these generational traumas. Hurt people do indeed hurt people- imagine what a healed people can do. I did my work on ME - it’s ok to admit that you don’t have it all figured out- parents.
It’s weird to see Bob be so passionate about being “excluded” but just a month ago he had a different opinion when monet was upset that he didn’t tell him about going to the award show
I was thinking about that when their little argument started. I think maybe Bob was (consciously/unconsciously, who knows) getting back at Monet for always leaving him out of stuff. I think Bob used Monet's logic against her: monet not feeling the need to check if Bob was invited/or attending. Which is why Bob did not feel bad about his decision then.
@@ontheVERGE. but it’s not a comparable situation at all though. One was a work event and the other was a casual get together amongst friends. I understand bob’s feelings but as bob would say “You feelings aren’t facts”.
@@deviouschuckle the award show wasn't a work event, it was juuust an event--that honestly neither really prioritized considering how they didn't promote their nomination. So it might as well be a casual. After who's knows how many hangouts he's been (intentionally/unintentionally) excluded from he's bound to not give a fuck anymore. Which is what he said in the podcast, that Bob now just does his own thing. Which is not to say they don't hang out but more so he no longer cares to reach out for hangouts or events bc Monet doesn't. You know what I mean?
She's at death's door and she's wearing Dior. Also Ariana Gran-don't. I wasn't understanding everything because "White from Europe" but girl I was living. 🤣
Lmao 🤣 omg I said the same thing. I love these two soooooo much!!! When Monet started to defend what Bob said about feeling left out, I knew it was a wrap and it was gonna be a situation
Bob's response to herpes was 100% correct. We need to stop the stigma behind this non lethal viral infection that btw most people already have! I get so annoyed in my dental hygiene clinic because one of the adjuncts likes to scare the students about disease transmission so she'll yell out "oh you didn't take off your bib you're spreading herpes! You walked across the clinic with your gloves on you're spreading aids!" When she explains it she says that she likes to scare us by calling out "gross diseases" and it is so damn unprofessional.
Bob and Monét are so authentic. Bob singing Tevin Campbell makes me feel like we grew up together. Real family lol and Monét being Saint Lucian; I’m Trinidadian 🇹🇹 and Brooklyn born and raised lol
As a vet tech, I have to confirm that white people love food names for their pets. Some of my favorite patient food names from over the years are Pancake, Kiwi, Ravioli, Waffle, and Chicken (she was a senior cat).
My friend had a white cat called Dave it made me laugh every time she called him. Saying that my girl was called Puss because it's all she would answer to when she came out from under my shed as a kitten.
I've been mistaken for an employee three times in my life: 1. Was because I was cosplaying so I thought it was funny 2. I was digging through clothes at an Old Navy and folded them back up so I give that person a pass because it looked like I was just folding the clothes 3. I was just looking at makeup in a target.... Not wearing red or anything and this white woman asked me where something is and I definitely caught an attitude with her
I was at a CVS in all black with a mask on a couple weeks ago when some lady with a dog came up to me asking for the Ensure. I said "Ma'am I don't work here" and she goes "oh...well i thought since you were wearing a mask...". I just stared at her confused while she awkwardly talked herself thru it.
This thing of associating gentials, erogenous zones or sexual preferences with disgust is so prevalent in the world, and needs to be addressed whatever group it happens in. I remember growing up as a gay man with mostly straight female friends, that they used to talk about they could not date a bisexual guy because he had had anal sex, making ew sounds when talking about guys taking it up the ass etcetera. It made me feel so unconfortable. Especially the not dating a bi guy because they did not like that he had been bottoming for a man (and thus seeming more "female") says a lot about how homophobia and misogyni work. And I have heard so many cis straight females talk about this even today.
I’m so sorry you had to go through that. Something I see pretty often is the hypocrisy of “don’t body shame! Love everyone! We’re all beautiful!!!” Coming out of the same mouth that says “lol small dick energy” a second later ☠️ ego is an awful thing
I don't think its right to try and dictate how people should feel what level of attraction to what gentials. It may be disappointing, but it is life and people who think like that, aren't going to magically not find it disgusting. Just a side note, I do not find it disgusting by any means, but that doesn't mean the others need to change their view... Close minded people will not just disappear from Earth, sis 👀
I'm a Filipino and almost every dog that lived in my childhood home was named after a snack except Saddam ( he was born in 2003 when US invaded Iraq, lived till 2020).
Okay but they didn't touch on the fact the last caller was allegedly told by their friends, as a response to why they don't hang out, that they're ''too much''.
As a daycare teacher, Bob is right, children need to be talked to like Adults, they like it and it gives them better social skills! 🥹 thanks for normalizing that Bob!
No shade to Monét but im fully with Bob on not the being invited thingy. I’m like Monét when it comes to remembering to invite other people, I just don’t remember to invite others when I make plans with somebody. So’ I get that inviting Bob doesn’t come naturally to Monét. But, if my best friend told me that they wanted to get invited to stuff, I would just try my best to make them feel included immediately. It’s so uncomfortable to be the person that’s like “I wanna be invited” and after a while when you finally start to get invited, i feel like it would feel shitty to go. It’s like, yeah, I’m finally invited but if it took me asking like 5 times, it’s not worth going anymore.
But Bob would be invited and would not text back. And he expects people to put in the extra effort of calling him to invite him every time even though everybody else gets a text invite.
@@erikverikv3107 Okay and Bob’s best friend should know that about him and ask how how they can make their communication more accessible. It’s about a level of care and courtesy.
@@lexthequeer Bob also fully did not tell Monet he was going to the Queerties for an award they were nominated for together and then said he doesn’t owe it to anyone to tel them where he is or what he does including Monet. The hypocrisy lol
@@lexthequeer 1 Monet was not the one making the plans. 2 Why is it on Monet when Bob is the one who needs the accommodation? Bob should politely ask all of his close friends if they would please make the extra effort to call him if they want to invite him instead of just expecting it.
I think maybe Bob is one of those people that has a vibe that doesn't gel well with certain settings/activities so his friends will leave him out of certain things. There was an earlier pod where Monet alluded to not inviting Bob to certain get togthers because he doesn't drink and get high. I get it but it does kinda suck for Bob.
But I also understand Bob feeling badly about it and Monet not acknowledging her hurt feelings…instead of getting defensive 😭 I just want Bob to be invited 😭
@@anotheruser1130 people do not have to drink in order to have a good time, if anything this is something American culture has normalized to be a problem
Both have valid points but I’m gonna have to go with Monet on this one. If your friends prefer texting to phone calls and you’re the only odd one out, then you should make more of an effort to respond. Especially if a group chat was started to plan hangouts (I’m assuming that’s what happened). Just my opinion
sooooooooooo basically Sibling Rivalry's patreon is like untucked? if you're not subscribed you're only getting half the story? I may need to finally make a patreon account lol ps. bobs lip is giving me life! I want that nude peach color!
48:57 not Bob making the question about Bob without offering the person any advice 😂 I am with Monet on this one. Monet has already explained that Bob was not intentionally excluded but Bob keeps bringing it up as though Bob was intentionally excluded and expecting people to empathize with their mindset before Bob found out that Bob was not excluded. Also, it's weird that Bob expects for their invite to involve a whole extra step of calling Bob to invite them when everybody else just gets a text (that was probably copied and pasted). Bob is so busy that they probably can't answer the phone when they're working, which might lead to a game of phone tag, just to invite Bob to plans that the rest of the group already texted back and agreed to.
Yeah this one was odd, but I've been noticing more often in the 2022 podcasts that bob has been I don't wanna say angrier or more upset, but like bob will preach things by saying "for ME" or "this is just how I feel" but then like doesn't reciprocate it for monet, or just ignores what monet is saying regarding it. Obviously in this case monet just wasn't saying "I'm sorry you felt that way" so like, fair. But monet was giving a valid criticism in "you're harder to get a hold of" and bob wasn't accepting that maaaaaaybe some fault can be put on him.
@@scottgillis7369 yea but I song think it’s that’s hard to call someone when you have their phone number. The Og comment is making it look like contacting Bob is hard, when Bob said themselves that “I will always pick up no matter what”
@@skytangerined9510 I didn't make it seem like contacting Bob was hard. I said it was an extra step and that Bob works a lot, both of which are true. Do you think Bob answers phone calls at work?
@@skytangerined9510 yeah you're right on that. I guess I was more focusing on the rest of bobs argument with monet here. Yes monet could have said "i'm sorry we made you feel that way" but bob just didn't want to hear anything else from monet in the situation.
I used to have people come up to me at the store all the time . But maybe because it was how I dressed ? Also Monet said something about W Indian people naming their dogs after humans . One time my number was apart of a group text to a family of the person that had the phone number before me. They always texted and I frequently told them that I wasn't their uncle. One day they texted and said "we're so sorry that Kelly died." I was like damn who is Kelly and I kept checking for context clues only to find out that Kelly was a dog
I worked at a school district for 7 years (granted as an IT guy, not a teacher) and if I was in a classroom fixing something kids always wanted to chat cuz they want to be distracted. Assuming lessons weren't going on I'd chat back but always talked to them like they were equals. Teachers I'd got to know enough would usually tell me their class liked me and would even ask how I got their respect so fast. It's just because I didn't put on a goofy voice and use small words, or tell them they wouldn't understand and all the crap people do to kids. I guess I learned that though from helping adults that are not tech literate with their IT problems.
I’ve been thinking about the whole argument a lot and I can finally say I’m on Bob’s side but the fact that us (strangers) are witnessing y’all talking about it it’s kinda funny
My cat Biscuit is currently sitting with me on my desk as I listen to this. My other cat is named Sardine. I name my pets after food, or other animals. Yes I am white.
I know what bob was saying so well being the second choice really hurts and it’s not from the first time or the second time it’s how consistent you see them prefer someone over you or don’t even think of including you it makes me really sad to the point of not wanting to talk to them
The problem with this is its not like Monet is ACTIVELY choosing someone else like Bob is saying. Monet is getting invited out and BoB isn't so they really should be taking this up with the people doing the inviting i.e Naomi and Kim apparently lol
Bob and Monet missed the part where the caller said he DID confront his friends before about not inviting him out. The friends outright said they didn't invite the caller because he always wants to be the centre of attention. It sounds like there is more to the situation than the caller was letting on and that his (ex?) besties don't like being around him anymore. Quite different to Kim/Monet accidentally not inviting Bob to a gathering of mutual friends.
In response to the first question - firstly, I couldn't even imagine how frustrating that is, I barely like being acknowledged, let alone spoken to in public. However, I would try to disregard their blatent assumptions, and then move the conversation to claiming responsibility for your hard work, and clearly impressive gardening skills! I completely agree with Bob, that you don't have to explain yourself, or comfort their behaviour, it is WRONG to assume anything, about anyone. I'm just hearing you're one talented gardener, give yourself a pat on the back!
Ok but at least Hershey is a brand name that was actually a real persons name at one time. I think what Bob is talking about is like if those white folks straight up named the dog Chocolate or Candy or some shit.
Bob if you didn't want anything to change why even bring it up in the first place? If anything you could make an effort to hang out with the people YOU want to see instead making it to be this targeted attack against Monet. Saying your feelings out loud is one thing but playing the victim in a situation where it's literally partly your fault, by not answering your texts, is another.
Not bob being hella dramatic and also claiming not to care the phone goes both ways boo text them back if you want to be included they shouldn’t have to put all this effort into communication that doesn’t go both ways but I’m not her phone so idk just my opinion anywho love this podcast and both these baddies 💕💕💕
They didn't talk about the fact that when that caller asked about not being invited, the friends said that they "always want the attention". Yeah sorry but after that day I may just not have friends anymore. People will show you how they really feel about you, pay attention to that.
I can't believe this but Bob is being the gaslight queen... bob noone said invite forever everytime you took that angle AND YOU DO WANT CHANGE. If not not being invited at all wouldn't be a problem. You had me at the first half the you started feeling some way now monet cant understand you welp love you both done seen it all now
What's disgusting about the Megan situation is that other artists (Drake, Rihanna, Nikki Minaj etc) are unfollowing her and the industry is trying to ice her out. While Tory Lanez is getting support.
OMG😳.... I had to stop everything I was doing just to make this comment. Bob is EXHAUSTING! It is very much okay to relate to your fans' questions and situations. But you still should remember that it's not about BOB. 🙄 I still luv you though. Hi Monet.
You don’t ever find it odd, us having pets? I’m disabled and need a support animal that I can’t afford so that’s where my bias comes from; it weirds me out that people spend so much money to keep animals that they then only complain about/don’t train/prefer to take photos of than care for etc, so I more so just find the idea of having a pet to be weird. I’m trying to get what you mean though, Is your distrust from a place of worrying they would be violent towards a pet or something?
Bob..don't tell me not to ask for real help when your entire look says to me..come tell me your problems and I will eradicate the issue..lol..don't tell me you can't help when you have the hat of justice on damn it..🤣😂😂jk i love y'all lol
I dont agree that a text is not enough effort to invite someone. It feels like you dont wanna take accountability when you miss the text invite. What chu wan me to do? Text, call, pick u up, get u a seat? Esp if we we just grabbin. It gets exhausting come on
Can someone explain what they mean by exploding foot? I've been hearing Bob talk about for days and still have no idea. Like, does Monet burst a vain and bleed all over the stage or dislodge her metatarsal bones? I'm confused.
Not Monet saying she hates interacting with people's pets while expecting Bob to like Colleen
Was thinking the same thing lol 😂
and saying that she barely likes Colleen I'm screaming
Omg, that woman with the man who was gardening?! Ugh! I heard something recently that has stuck with me: "learn to be comfortable with other people's discomfort." Makes sense. It's not your job to make someone else feel better. It's your job to take care of yourself. If someone feels embarrassed about making an insensitive, racist comment, then good! They should feel uncomfortable.
I love this! Definitely taking this advice.
Love that!
I feel this.
I honestly think more people should talk to kids 'like they're adults.' Being treated like your own person and being taken seriously as a kid really is better for your confidence and communication skills in the long run.
Soooo many kids would run away from home if that were the case! I think parents know deep down that their children are more intelligent than they wanna admit, but just can’t do the damn thing, cause it would break multi generational stuff lol
I - as a parent- completely agree. I do not think I am here to raise them like cattle - I am here to love and support them and help them grow into the person they came here to be. I also,
admit my own mistakes to them. I teach them how to take accountability and apologize with my example. I am here to break these generational traumas. Hurt people do indeed hurt people- imagine what a healed people can do. I did my work on ME - it’s ok to admit that you don’t have it all figured out- parents.
My parents always did and although I still personally fucked up. I’m still thankful for being able to actually communicate directly.
It’s weird to see Bob be so passionate about being “excluded” but just a month ago he had a different opinion when monet was upset that he didn’t tell him about going to the award show
I was thinking about that when their little argument started. I think maybe Bob was (consciously/unconsciously, who knows) getting back at Monet for always leaving him out of stuff. I think Bob used Monet's logic against her: monet not feeling the need to check if Bob was invited/or attending. Which is why Bob did not feel bad about his decision then.
@@ontheVERGE. but it’s not a comparable situation at all though. One was a work event and the other was a casual get together amongst friends. I understand bob’s feelings but as bob would say “You feelings aren’t facts”.
@@deviouschuckle the award show wasn't a work event, it was juuust an event--that honestly neither really prioritized considering how they didn't promote their nomination. So it might as well be a casual.
After who's knows how many hangouts he's been (intentionally/unintentionally) excluded from he's bound to not give a fuck anymore. Which is what he said in the podcast, that Bob now just does his own thing. Which is not to say they don't hang out but more so he no longer cares to reach out for hangouts or events bc Monet doesn't. You know what I mean?
Not monet and bob taking that last question personally lmao
Bob’s right: I always appreciated it when adults talked to me normally when I was a kid.
Bob, the new Black Lady Sketch Show segment was even more iconic than the first, and that didn’t seem possible. The hilarity.
She is mortified but she is notarized
She's at death's door and she's wearing Dior. Also Ariana Gran-don't. I wasn't understanding everything because "White from Europe" but girl I was living. 🤣
@@Nikki-tx6kh *_I don't know what the fuvk she's saying but girl I am living~_*
Monet and Bob arguing for over 15 min about that time Monet hanged out w/ Naomi and Kim again
Jacob the entire time:👁 👄 👁
Bob just casually over here in HD looking like a beautiful doll making us all look like trash cans ❤️🔥
I mean literally we are all lookin terrible 🤣
They answered one question and turned the second question into an argument about them 😂😂 fitting
Lmao 🤣 omg I said the same thing. I love these two soooooo much!!! When Monet started to defend what Bob said about feeling left out, I knew it was a wrap and it was gonna be a situation
@@229LWR as soon as the question was asked I was like here we go again
@@awhora6036 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Y'all should have known that this is entertainment when Monet told that woman to find someone with an ugly person fetish. 💀💀💀🤭 Come on y'all.
TEA 🤣
Bob's response to herpes was 100% correct. We need to stop the stigma behind this non lethal viral infection that btw most people already have! I get so annoyed in my dental hygiene clinic because one of the adjuncts likes to scare the students about disease transmission so she'll yell out "oh you didn't take off your bib you're spreading herpes! You walked across the clinic with your gloves on you're spreading aids!" When she explains it she says that she likes to scare us by calling out "gross diseases" and it is so damn unprofessional.
@xxmaestrexx that’s so not true and just shows how shallow your understanding of complex situations are 🙄
man it seems like WE need to give them some advice 😭
Bob and Monét are so authentic. Bob singing Tevin Campbell makes me feel like we grew up together. Real family lol and Monét being Saint Lucian; I’m Trinidadian 🇹🇹 and Brooklyn born and raised lol
The last caller while Bob and monet argue for 27 mins and 43 seconds: 😐
As a vet tech, I have to confirm that white people love food names for their pets. Some of my favorite patient food names from over the years are Pancake, Kiwi, Ravioli, Waffle, and Chicken (she was a senior cat).
I'm naming my future cat Mish-Mish, which come from the Arab word for peach.
@@Nikki-tx6kh That’s so cute! I’ve had a few patients named Momo over the years which is the Anglicized pronunciation of the Japanese word for peach!
My friend had a white cat called Dave it made me laugh every time she called him. Saying that my girl was called Puss because it's all she would answer to when she came out from under my shed as a kitten.
True, I'm Cuban but white skinned and my cat's name is Mochi and my dog's name who was adopted from a white family is Mocha.
I’m a vet tech too and I’ve met a Pancake, a Kiwi, a Chicken and a Waffles 😂😂❤️
I've been mistaken for an employee three times in my life:
1. Was because I was cosplaying so I thought it was funny
2. I was digging through clothes at an Old Navy and folded them back up so I give that person a pass because it looked like I was just folding the clothes
3. I was just looking at makeup in a target.... Not wearing red or anything and this white woman asked me where something is and I definitely caught an attitude with her
It happened to me at a Tuesday Morning of all places and I was wearing like a kooky graphic shirt sometimes it doesnt even make sense
Roberta and Monica you are tew mech!!! Never have I ever heard advice against taking advice on an advice segment 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I was at a CVS in all black with a mask on a couple weeks ago when some lady with a dog came up to me asking for the Ensure. I said "Ma'am I don't work here" and she goes "oh...well i thought since you were wearing a mask...". I just stared at her confused while she awkwardly talked herself thru it.
lolol. apparently we can only get covid now when we’re working?😂 what a crazy lady lol
This thing of associating gentials, erogenous zones or sexual preferences with disgust is so prevalent in the world, and needs to be addressed whatever group it happens in. I remember growing up as a gay man with mostly straight female friends, that they used to talk about they could not date a bisexual guy because he had had anal sex, making ew sounds when talking about guys taking it up the ass etcetera. It made me feel so unconfortable. Especially the not dating a bi guy because they did not like that he had been bottoming for a man (and thus seeming more "female") says a lot about how homophobia and misogyni work. And I have heard so many cis straight females talk about this even today.
I’m so sorry you had to go through that. Something I see pretty often is the hypocrisy of “don’t body shame! Love everyone! We’re all beautiful!!!” Coming out of the same mouth that says “lol small dick energy” a second later ☠️ ego is an awful thing
I personally am one of those people and it is disgusting. Sorry not sorry
@@JorJorBinksss you’re just commenting to hate you must be miserable
I don't think its right to try and dictate how people should feel what level of attraction to what gentials.
It may be disappointing, but it is life and people who think like that, aren't going to magically not find it disgusting.
Just a side note, I do not find it disgusting by any means, but that doesn't mean the others need to change their view... Close minded people will not just disappear from Earth, sis 👀
@@JorJorBinksss ok homophobe, shoo
You talked about so many points that hurt me in Brazil! It's crazy how racism is brutal in every space...
It has been 0 days since the girls have fought
Bob: White people will give their dog a food name.
Me: Shit... my dog's name sure is Hashbrown. 🤣
I'm a Filipino and almost every dog that lived in my childhood home was named after a snack except Saddam ( he was born in 2003 when US invaded Iraq, lived till 2020).
Okay but they didn't touch on the fact the last caller was allegedly told by their friends, as a response to why they don't hang out, that they're ''too much''.
As a daycare teacher, Bob is right, children need to be talked to like Adults, they like it and it gives them better social skills! 🥹 thanks for normalizing that Bob!
Why did bob take that whole question and make it about how he feels against Monet 😂😅
Lol it probably wasn’t intentional, since he kept reassuring that to Monet.
Lol yes I feel bad for the guy who initially asked for advice sounded like he was needing legit help
No shade to Monét but im fully with Bob on not the being invited thingy. I’m like Monét when it comes to remembering to invite other people, I just don’t remember to invite others when I make plans with somebody. So’ I get that inviting Bob doesn’t come naturally to Monét. But, if my best friend told me that they wanted to get invited to stuff, I would just try my best to make them feel included immediately. It’s so uncomfortable to be the person that’s like “I wanna be invited” and after a while when you finally start to get invited, i feel like it would feel shitty to go. It’s like, yeah, I’m finally invited but if it took me asking like 5 times, it’s not worth going anymore.
But Bob would be invited and would not text back. And he expects people to put in the extra effort of calling him to invite him every time even though everybody else gets a text invite.
@@erikverikv3107 Okay and Bob’s best friend should know that about him and ask how how they can make their communication more accessible. It’s about a level of care and courtesy.
@@lexthequeer Bob also fully did not tell Monet he was going to the Queerties for an award they were nominated for together and then said he doesn’t owe it to anyone to tel them where he is or what he does including Monet. The hypocrisy lol
@@lexthequeer 1 Monet was not the one making the plans. 2 Why is it on Monet when Bob is the one who needs the accommodation? Bob should politely ask all of his close friends if they would please make the extra effort to call him if they want to invite him instead of just expecting it.
i love that strangers argue over something that friends they dont know probably dont have a real problem with.
I think maybe Bob is one of those people that has a vibe that doesn't gel well with certain settings/activities so his friends will leave him out of certain things. There was an earlier pod where Monet alluded to not inviting Bob to certain get togthers because he doesn't drink and get high. I get it but it does kinda suck for Bob.
But I also understand Bob feeling badly about it and Monet not acknowledging her hurt feelings…instead of getting defensive 😭 I just want Bob to be invited 😭
He’s gonna feel left out either way everyone drinking except him
@@anotheruser1130 you don't have to drink to have a good time--how would bob feel left out?
@@anotheruser1130 people do not have to drink in order to have a good time, if anything this is something American culture has normalized to be a problem
@justalegend girly pls dont try and enforce a narrative that isn't even true 🙄
Both have valid points but I’m gonna have to go with Monet on this one. If your friends prefer texting to phone calls and you’re the only odd one out, then you should make more of an effort to respond. Especially if a group chat was started to plan hangouts (I’m assuming that’s what happened). Just my opinion
sooooooooooo basically Sibling Rivalry's patreon is like untucked? if you're not subscribed you're only getting half the story? I may need to finally make a patreon account lol
ps. bobs lip is giving me life! I want that nude peach color!
Bob; I am a white male and fan of the podcast. My dog's name is Fry, and I will not rupaulogize for it.
This came out on my birthday today! Thank y'all 🥰
BOB AND AJA ON LEGENDARY !!!!
48:57 not Bob making the question about Bob without offering the person any advice 😂 I am with Monet on this one. Monet has already explained that Bob was not intentionally excluded but Bob keeps bringing it up as though Bob was intentionally excluded and expecting people to empathize with their mindset before Bob found out that Bob was not excluded. Also, it's weird that Bob expects for their invite to involve a whole extra step of calling Bob to invite them when everybody else just gets a text (that was probably copied and pasted). Bob is so busy that they probably can't answer the phone when they're working, which might lead to a game of phone tag, just to invite Bob to plans that the rest of the group already texted back and agreed to.
Yeah this one was odd, but I've been noticing more often in the 2022 podcasts that bob has been I don't wanna say angrier or more upset, but like bob will preach things by saying "for ME" or "this is just how I feel" but then like doesn't reciprocate it for monet, or just ignores what monet is saying regarding it. Obviously in this case monet just wasn't saying "I'm sorry you felt that way" so like, fair. But monet was giving a valid criticism in "you're harder to get a hold of" and bob wasn't accepting that maaaaaaybe some fault can be put on him.
@@scottgillis7369 yea but I song think it’s that’s hard to call someone when you have their phone number. The Og comment is making it look like contacting Bob is hard, when Bob said themselves that “I will always pick up no matter what”
@@skytangerined9510 I didn't make it seem like contacting Bob was hard. I said it was an extra step and that Bob works a lot, both of which are true. Do you think Bob answers phone calls at work?
@@skytangerined9510 yeah you're right on that. I guess I was more focusing on the rest of bobs argument with monet here. Yes monet could have said "i'm sorry we made you feel that way" but bob just didn't want to hear anything else from monet in the situation.
In the words of Azealia Banks “ THE GIRLZ ARE FIGHTINGGG WHATS THE TEAAAAA?!!!!”
I get Bob and that’s why I get why some people don’t like mixing their friends group
I love how often y’all mention Megan. She’s part of the cast at this point. Put her name in the credits lol.
Right, I thought I was the only one that talks about Meg and unhealthy amount of times a day. 😂
Im also thankful to be alive in Mariah's Prime. Honestly, also Whitney and other great vocalists.
I used to have people come up to me at the store all the time . But maybe because it was how I dressed ?
Also Monet said something about W Indian people naming their dogs after humans . One time my number was apart of a group text to a family of the person that had the phone number before me.
They always texted and I frequently told them that I wasn't their uncle. One day they texted and said "we're so sorry that Kelly died." I was like damn who is Kelly and I kept checking for context clues only to find out that Kelly was a dog
Hahahah not fuckin KELLY
Given their disclaimer. I know there's some tea for sure.
Me and my dog cookie did not need to be called out like that… nor did my list of cat names lmao
I worked at a school district for 7 years (granted as an IT guy, not a teacher) and if I was in a classroom fixing something kids always wanted to chat cuz they want to be distracted. Assuming lessons weren't going on I'd chat back but always talked to them like they were equals. Teachers I'd got to know enough would usually tell me their class liked me and would even ask how I got their respect so fast. It's just because I didn't put on a goofy voice and use small words, or tell them they wouldn't understand and all the crap people do to kids. I guess I learned that though from helping adults that are not tech literate with their IT problems.
Thank uuuu😂! Bob! I have children and I appreciate u more talking/acknowledging kids/children/young people as people tooo🎉🎉🎉🎉
I’ve been thinking about the whole argument a lot and I can finally say I’m on Bob’s side but the fact that us (strangers) are witnessing y’all talking about it it’s kinda funny
My cat Biscuit is currently sitting with me on my desk as I listen to this. My other cat is named Sardine. I name my pets after food, or other animals. Yes I am white.
not bob and monet giving advice for entertaintment purposes only but still giving their honest advice purrrr!
I love hearing your podcasts so much!
I know what bob was saying so well being the second choice really hurts and it’s not from the first time or the second time it’s how consistent you see them prefer someone over you or don’t even think of including you it makes me really sad to the point of not wanting to talk to them
The problem with this is its not like Monet is ACTIVELY choosing someone else like Bob is saying. Monet is getting invited out and BoB isn't so they really should be taking this up with the people doing the inviting i.e Naomi and Kim apparently lol
Bob came looking fierce 😍🔥️🔥️🔥
Bob and Monet missed the part where the caller said he DID confront his friends before about not inviting him out. The friends outright said they didn't invite the caller because he always wants to be the centre of attention.
It sounds like there is more to the situation than the caller was letting on and that his (ex?) besties don't like being around him anymore. Quite different to Kim/Monet accidentally not inviting Bob to a gathering of mutual friends.
In response to the first question - firstly, I couldn't even imagine how frustrating that is, I barely like being acknowledged, let alone spoken to in public.
However, I would try to disregard their blatent assumptions, and then move the conversation to claiming responsibility for your hard work, and clearly impressive gardening skills! I completely agree with Bob, that you don't have to explain yourself, or comfort their behaviour, it is WRONG to assume anything, about anyone. I'm just hearing you're one talented gardener, give yourself a pat on the back!
PLEASE I HAVE MET SO MANY WHITE PEOPLE WITH A LAB NAMED HERSHEY!!! Bob is so right like they stay naming pets after food.
Ok but at least Hershey is a brand name that was actually a real persons name at one time. I think what Bob is talking about is like if those white folks straight up named the dog Chocolate or Candy or some shit.
I adore Avery 😭😭😭 and monet right, can we talk sung by him is on repeat in my house
Bob if you didn't want anything to change why even bring it up in the first place? If anything you could make an effort to hang out with the people YOU want to see instead making it to be this targeted attack against Monet. Saying your feelings out loud is one thing but playing the victim in a situation where it's literally partly your fault, by not answering your texts, is another.
So basically Monet doesn’t like kids, pets and other people in general DAMN
Monet gives advice like secretly record your friends and throw it back in their face later
I really love listening to you guys. Just had to say that
Not bob being hella dramatic and also claiming not to care the phone goes both ways boo text them back if you want to be included they shouldn’t have to put all this effort into communication that doesn’t go both ways but I’m not her phone so idk just my opinion anywho love this podcast and both these baddies 💕💕💕
The religious commentary was truly right on. My family is like that.
Not the Gregory Isaacs version of "Can We Talk."
Omg Bob's face is SITTING!!!! #stunthechildren
Please dont say 2017 was five years ago…. Its triggering. It wasn’t, it was only last year.
Mama looking fierce as always
bob masterclass in reading
Bob, you just look LOVELY!
They didn't talk about the fact that when that caller asked about not being invited, the friends said that they "always want the attention". Yeah sorry but after that day I may just not have friends anymore. People will show you how they really feel about you, pay attention to that.
I’ve never been mistaken for an employee at a store. Not because I’m white, but because im always naked from the waist down
Donald Duck?
Called out. In my very white family, we've had.. 1/4 that wasn't food. Penny was it. Otherwise, it's been Oreo, Rolo, and Toby (toblerone)
bob ur makeup looks so pretty!!!!!!
I can't believe this but Bob is being the gaslight queen... bob noone said invite forever everytime you took that angle AND YOU DO WANT CHANGE. If not not being invited at all wouldn't be a problem. You had me at the first half the you started feeling some way now monet cant understand you welp love you both done seen it all now
I helped name my friend's dogs, Pickles and Biscuit 😊
Imma still take the advice and apply it to my life
Bob's lip color is beautiful!
Had a lady at Target ask me where the cups were. I was wearing black pants and a green sweater 🙃
14:04 not Monet being toxic toward a baby 🤣
I get confused for an employee at stores multiple times, I just assume it’s because I’m always wearing head to toe black tho 💀 lol
I think is this whole HOUR long episode they answered 3 questions
🤣🤣🤣Bob I'm a black woman with a 12 year old Maltipoo named Biscuit and I ❤ his name!!!
I saw a Japanese Akita pup called biscuit the other day 🤣
some problems are just so unnecessary. sometimes the solution just getting rid of them. you don't need a therapy
OMG this caller opened Pandora’s box
What's disgusting about the Megan situation is that other artists (Drake, Rihanna, Nikki Minaj etc) are unfollowing her and the industry is trying to ice her out. While Tory Lanez is getting support.
OMG😳.... I had to stop everything I was doing just to make this comment. Bob is EXHAUSTING! It is very much okay to relate to your fans' questions and situations. But you still should remember that it's not about BOB. 🙄 I still luv you though. Hi Monet.
im gonna have to unstan monet after she said she doesnt like dogs, im team jinkx now
please not my sister's dog being named BISCUIT
19:14 Bob you should try saying ‘like’ more times you don’t do it enough 😂🥴
I Love you Both, Such A VIBE
Sibling Remindery that its Advicery
Not Bob whistleblowing Monets exploding foot…
Bob, Love the eyeshadow!🎉
13:08 is my reaction to my manager when im ready to quit my job 😂
Monet, giving crip walk a while other meaning with that exploding foot 💃🏾
I don’t trust people who say they hate pets, it’s one thing to be allergic but to say you hate all pets is a no go.
You don’t ever find it odd, us having pets? I’m disabled and need a support animal that I can’t afford so that’s where my bias comes from; it weirds me out that people spend so much money to keep animals that they then only complain about/don’t train/prefer to take photos of than care for etc, so I more so just find the idea of having a pet to be weird. I’m trying to get what you mean though, Is your distrust from a place of worrying they would be violent towards a pet or something?
Yay for Avery Wilson!!!!! And he's HAWT.
Bob..don't tell me not to ask for real help when your entire look says to me..come tell me your problems and I will eradicate the issue..lol..don't tell me you can't help when you have the hat of justice on damn it..🤣😂😂jk i love y'all lol
Avery Wilson is AMAZING
I dont agree that a text is not enough effort to invite someone. It feels like you dont wanna take accountability when you miss the text invite. What chu wan me to do? Text, call, pick u up, get u a seat? Esp if we we just grabbin. It gets exhausting come on
18:27. Hahaha, my pets are Fatman and Roscoe. Lol. So true.
both so stunning
Can someone explain what they mean by exploding foot? I've been hearing Bob talk about for days and still have no idea. Like, does Monet burst a vain and bleed all over the stage or dislodge her metatarsal bones? I'm confused.
LOL LITERALLY LIKE IDK WHAT TO THINK
I have had numerous dogs & none ever had a food name but we did have a cat that my little ones named beans. 🐈