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  • @ace-un4ue
    @ace-un4ue 8 дней назад +281

    It's hard having friends because a lot of them end up removing themselves from your life whenever you succeed in something and they find out. Instead of congratulating you, they decide to cut contact instead.

    • @CaleMakar-yr9ol
      @CaleMakar-yr9ol 8 дней назад +23

      Sounds like demons

    • @FeloniousMyronius
      @FeloniousMyronius 8 дней назад +21

      👆🏿 this is true. It happened to me. I changed my life, found God, got sober, still sober...and everyone left.

    • @danieltheavatarmusic
      @danieltheavatarmusic 8 дней назад +5

      It’s so bizarre

    • @Bafcrawler
      @Bafcrawler 8 дней назад +4

      Happened to me aswell

    • @bobgreenfield9158
      @bobgreenfield9158 8 дней назад +4

      Yes.
      It can be summarized as
      Crabs in a bucket.

  • @pjmrees
    @pjmrees 6 дней назад +37

    I dropped EVERY TOXIC person that was in my life over a year ago. The PEACE is a blessing.

    • @etthhereal
      @etthhereal День назад +2

      Strange, isn’t it. The fear we felt of letting go. The fear of being alone. Only to feel the strongest freedom.

  • @kenrowland7864
    @kenrowland7864 8 дней назад +210

    Im 59 yr old male and let me tell ya....It gets REAL STRANGE at this age....You get a REAL Perspective on Everything!!!....I just put ALOT of time into being with my sweet dog and spending quite time/walks with her.

    • @RoyGJones-bd7jw
      @RoyGJones-bd7jw 7 дней назад +16

      You're not alone brother

    • @infjmale91
      @infjmale91 7 дней назад +21

      I'm 32 & it's the same. Just with my kids & guinea pigs. Screw people. The majority of them are riddled with insecurities. I feel bad for people who have to grind, as an employee (at a 9-5) for 40 years. That will scrap your soul away.

    • @timewa851
      @timewa851 7 дней назад

      @@RoyGJones-bd7jw Dog Power. Underrated. They don't lie. Or bitch.

    • @scaredholy
      @scaredholy 7 дней назад +9

      @@infjmale91yeah I feel sorry and grateful for my dad who was a cop for 40 years and now my mom lives off the widows pension after torturing all of us with drunken rages. When I read book People of the Lie I was stunned to find out the evil people the author was describing were so much like my mom.

    • @infjmale91
      @infjmale91 7 дней назад +15

      @@scaredholy My mum & dad are both vulnerable narcissists. My ex was a covert one (fell into them due to my parents upbringing). Best friend backstabbed me to steal my job. Brothers were turned against me by competitive upbringing. I just gave up with people. I'll ensure my kids will be raised right. It takes time & so many people would rather make you out to be the bad guy to justify their horrible actions to you. Remember, it's NEVER their fault.

  • @lindatallon9217
    @lindatallon9217 8 дней назад +143

    Narcs are everywhere.....

    • @Trump4prisonxxx
      @Trump4prisonxxx 7 дней назад

      we call them Conservatives aka Trump supporters.

    • @mcfrisko834
      @mcfrisko834 7 дней назад +7

      Listen to HG Tudor. He’ll tell you everything you need to know

    • @michaelharned8741
      @michaelharned8741 7 дней назад +12

      Backstabers also

    • @mcfrisko834
      @mcfrisko834 7 дней назад

      @@michaelharned8741 All Narcs are backstabbers.

    • @m.htruth8880
      @m.htruth8880 4 дня назад

      Well one of the principalities in America is the jezebel spirit

  • @MissFunnyBunnyKC
    @MissFunnyBunnyKC 6 дней назад +10

    Part of waking up is realizing we idolize human relationships. We put other people on pedestals where they don't belong.

    • @advancedapathy1531
      @advancedapathy1531 5 дней назад +3

      Relationships need to share a common view on life and common goals. Going around getting drunk with random people trying to force a conversations isn't going to lead anywhere...
      If i want to start a business, i'd take 1 person who also wants to work on that business over 20 people who just talk about football and tv shows...

  • @Belluser-we1uc5cb2l
    @Belluser-we1uc5cb2l 8 дней назад +84

    I used to be very social and more than friendly and people just got more hostile. I have become more introvert and got peace. Free of toxic family and manipulation and guilt to be obligated to show up and be there for them. Now I understand why families move out of state.

  • @wachtraum9961
    @wachtraum9961 7 дней назад +27

    People will see this as losing, but this is the winner's starting position.

    • @maxac8162
      @maxac8162 3 дня назад +3

      Yeah for real tho

  • @shawnfallahi5616
    @shawnfallahi5616 7 дней назад +22

    No friends is better than bad friends

  • @justpassingthrough4802
    @justpassingthrough4802 7 дней назад +17

    I like being alone. No reason to complain about anything. Totally at peace.

  • @RandyBaker87
    @RandyBaker87 8 дней назад +103

    Guys, I rather would have No friends and family and be happy than miserable with toxic friends and family that would ruin my peace, mental, and physical health.

    • @phillipsmith7759
      @phillipsmith7759 8 дней назад +6

      Amen..no ..double amen !

    • @RoyGJones-bd7jw
      @RoyGJones-bd7jw 7 дней назад +9

      Yes I stopped all communications with the past I'm moving forward

    • @RandyBaker87
      @RandyBaker87 7 дней назад +4

      @@RoyGJones-bd7jw, I had to learn that the hard way. Let the past go and live in the present

    • @RoyGJones-bd7jw
      @RoyGJones-bd7jw 7 дней назад +5

      @@RandyBaker87 brother you area chosen one, all the guys here understand your struggles, stay strong brother, be the last man standing

    • @RandyBaker87
      @RandyBaker87 7 дней назад +3

      @@RoyGJones-bd7jw thank you

  • @RebelRose558
    @RebelRose558 7 дней назад +28

    We need a dating site for like minded people going through this great awakening. I'm 50 and most of my family and friends have crossed over. No choice now but to become stronger just to survive .

    • @BNyaB
      @BNyaB 6 дней назад +2

      🙋👍🙋

    • @user-ky5yy1vg4j
      @user-ky5yy1vg4j 2 дня назад +1

      It sure would be nice to talk and share with like minded people our age or any age... I agree Rose

  • @kimwarnock11
    @kimwarnock11 7 дней назад +27

    My son is 20 and talks about this all the time he stays to himself because of fake people

    • @JeninNH
      @JeninNH 6 дней назад +6

      He will find out more and more how fake a lot of people are. I'm a woman in my late 40s and I've dealt with so many fake people that I prefer to keep to myself. I feel it's safer.

    • @kimwarnock11
      @kimwarnock11 6 дней назад +1

      Exactly very sad

    • @Mary-ne5we
      @Mary-ne5we 3 дня назад

      My 25 year old son was murdered by fake friends

    • @JeninNH
      @JeninNH 2 дня назад +1

      @@Mary-ne5we so sorry to hear about this. Fake people can be so dangerous

    • @chadhoy7489
      @chadhoy7489 День назад +1

      I don't blame him

  • @aronrosas4191
    @aronrosas4191 8 дней назад +91

    The road to recovery is full of paradoxical philosophy. "Less is more".

    • @infjmale91
      @infjmale91 7 дней назад +8

      So true. It's like what they say: "There is NOTHING more scary than a man who has NOTHING to lose".

    • @m.htruth8880
      @m.htruth8880 4 дня назад +2

      ​@@infjmale91 But Aren't we "the man with nothing to loose"? Or am I confused?

    • @infjmale91
      @infjmale91 4 дня назад

      @@m.htruth8880 yeah. We are. The lone wolves. That's why we are scary.
      Others stuck in the rat race pretending to be something they aren't to impress others or their SOs have lots to lose.
      They lose their jobs, people they want as friends & ultimate their fake lives as they are too afraid to step away from the fakeness & look for personal growth/something better.
      They are scared to lose that.
      People, like us, who are alone & already done the growth are the scariest because we don't have that fake facade we are scared of breaking which will disappoint bad people in their lives.

  • @Andrew-iq5ud
    @Andrew-iq5ud 7 дней назад +35

    During covid when the vax mandates were happening all of my friends turned on me and told me i deserve to be fired from my job and be thrown in prison for not taking it. All while i am actually about to be fired from my job. Never spoke to them again and have a hard time making friends since. Just dont know who i can trust anymore

    • @allpraisetothemosthigh7770
      @allpraisetothemosthigh7770 6 дней назад +5

      Sounds like you were surrounded by zombies

    • @AbraCaStack1
      @AbraCaStack1 4 дня назад +2

      I'm an essential worker. Babies were suffocating in the hospital. I know this because I brought them breathing masks. It wasn't a lie.

    • @allpraisetothemosthigh7770
      @allpraisetothemosthigh7770 4 дня назад

      @@AbraCaStack1👌

    • @Quantrills.Raiders
      @Quantrills.Raiders 3 дня назад +1

      same, except it was my aunt

    • @Quantrills.Raiders
      @Quantrills.Raiders 3 дня назад

      ​@@AbraCaStack1nobody was saying it was a lie, it just wasnt any worse than a bad cold.. babies and elderly should be cautious but the country shouldnt have been shut down and masks shouldnt have been mandated, the vaccine did not stop transmission. It was about control, not safety. The same goes for gun control

  • @Gerardo-p2d
    @Gerardo-p2d 8 дней назад +56

    its better to be alone and keep working brothers.

  • @haitiqueen0119
    @haitiqueen0119 8 дней назад +118

    Sometimes God works on us in silence so don't be afraid to stand alone if you must. Better to be alone than in the hands of the wrong company.

  • @kfc16t3
    @kfc16t3 8 дней назад +46

    42 years old, my father just passed a few weeks ago, I was in and out of hospital with him for 3 months, had to take that time off work. Went back last week and got a termination letter. It’s amazing how clear you see things sometimes, never take anything for granted.

    • @KeysToUnity369
      @KeysToUnity369 8 дней назад +4

      ❤️🎚🕊

    • @scarn3241
      @scarn3241 7 дней назад +13

      I’m really sorry that your dad passed away …that’s a hard thing to deal with ..you did the right thing by staying beside your dad ❤

    • @terrierdelphine4682
      @terrierdelphine4682 6 дней назад +4

      🙏🙏🙏🙏

    • @etthhereal
      @etthhereal День назад +1

      God is paving a new way for you.

  • @booberryjackson
    @booberryjackson 8 дней назад +65

    hard world we live bro. its difficult can only get through this crazy life. ever since covid hit the worlds been a disaster

    • @ktswindowcleaning
      @ktswindowcleaning 8 дней назад

      Been a disaster since 9/11. This is the new Babylon!

    • @maxac8162
      @maxac8162 3 дня назад +3

      It’s a nightmare since

    • @booberryjackson
      @booberryjackson 3 дня назад

      @@maxac8162 basically

    • @neal-stewart834
      @neal-stewart834 День назад +1

      yup me too the people around me went mental then the "social Distanceing" is an oxymoron

    • @booberryjackson
      @booberryjackson День назад +1

      @@neal-stewart834 same

  • @unitedstatesirie7431
    @unitedstatesirie7431 6 дней назад +23

    My advice is that people should not be too trusting of people and should not get too close to other people, because people are unpredictable and emotionally dangerous and physically dangerous !

    • @kissme4492
      @kissme4492 6 дней назад

      +100. Too many issues going on in the world that can put you on the opposite side of the dividing line with each other.

    • @m.htruth8880
      @m.htruth8880 4 дня назад +1

      Yeah but if you think this abt literally everybody then you're overly paranoid and even fearful avoidant. I am in the same boat, but I make sure I don't fall too deep into this and end up loosing my mind. "This" being not having and family or friend.

    • @TurbulantSynider
      @TurbulantSynider 3 дня назад +1

      ​@@m.htruth8880Sir i disagree. But everyone eill do it. Evey girl. Eachand every..if she doesn't then she might be furiosa of something like that.

    • @m.htruth8880
      @m.htruth8880 3 дня назад

      @@TurbulantSynider Anybody that's always running around screaming all men or all women is broken. You constantly get into relationships like that because you're in idolatry against Yah. And/or you're attracting spirits in ppl that are similar to the ones in you or your bloodline. Ppl with soul fractures/trauma attract each other.
      Then there's agendas against men/the head and anti-family system agendas have been pushed for for ever. The elites wants everyone turnd out. They want men with men and women with women.
      Ppl who don't know where the good men or women are either aren't looking, are in idolatry, or are attracting what's like them. Maybe even some relation trauma from family, which goes back to your parents have the jezebel spirirt or others. And then from your family system and parental abuse, you become married to the jezebel spirirt in the spirirt realm, which makes you constantly get into relationships with ppl who have the jezebel spirirt. Which means you have the Ahab spirirt and may have jezebel, leviathen, and other spirirts too.

  • @MissRed92837
    @MissRed92837 8 дней назад +42

    You are very wise for your age! I’m a 50 year old woman. What I can tell everyone is that people come and go in your lifetime. Unfortunately not that many people are people who have a good heart and want good for you. I personally made the huge mistake to give unconditional love to my nearest family members. My dad was a very wise man with a good heart and he only wanted the best for everyone. My narcissistic mother and my narcissistic siblings were always jealous and only want the worst for me. I also ended up all alone with no friends or family. But after that experience I decided to only more have good people in my life. I can now build up a circle of only more good hearted people. Unfortunately there are mostly bad or even pure evil people out there. But there are also good people out there and these are the ones we need to find and connect with.

    • @user-wk8mw6to2g
      @user-wk8mw6to2g 7 дней назад +8

      That's only in America where people come and go in your life.
      In Africa and Europe people remain family and friends for life.

    • @jesus-on-demand
      @jesus-on-demand 7 дней назад +7

      The older I get the more I understand that rejection and lonesomeness is a great blessing and also God's protection. As a youth I couldn't quite connect to mainstreamers and I hated myself for that, now I'm 40 and I am learning that it was ALL God's doing, and accepting myself to be set apart for Him.

    • @Drakkar101
      @Drakkar101 7 дней назад

      ​@@user-wk8mw6to2gEurope is worse than America

  • @alisonmacpherson8133
    @alisonmacpherson8133 8 дней назад +93

    We make other people look good. This is why these toxic people want us in their life.

    • @user-wk8mw6to2g
      @user-wk8mw6to2g 7 дней назад +1

      ?

    • @Michael0663-qo4wx
      @Michael0663-qo4wx 7 дней назад +4

      lol that is kind of funny actually 🤣

    • @dean8705
      @dean8705 7 дней назад +4

      That's why I removed my cousin from my life.

    • @DanishFaultFinder1
      @DanishFaultFinder1 7 дней назад

      Its more like if they a Narc...They dead inside, so they need someone to leach on, just to feel something or somewhat alive..Leaching kinda like todays whamen does for resources, physical doing favors, and or just to be seen(admired in their twisted head)...Narcs all so need some free spirited soul, to copy of...Like good useful ideas, projects around the house, garden etc....Seen that all to many times....They dead inside..No morals ethics values or principles 😣...They might as well be six feet under...Oh well all in good time...Stay clear and stand back from the NARCS ⚠️

    • @CollegeDroputPowerpoints
      @CollegeDroputPowerpoints 7 дней назад +6

      ​@@user-wk8mw6to2gthey punk you in front of others, make you the weird one

  • @danb7647
    @danb7647 7 дней назад +29

    Time is the only true wealth we have. Spend it on yourself wisely and don't waste it on others who don't deserve it

  • @christinajacobson82
    @christinajacobson82 8 дней назад +64

    It’s peaceful no drama if you get lonely pray and get some animals.

    • @ShiftaelV2
      @ShiftaelV2 7 дней назад +1

      Don't pray, cartoon characters live in my head, though and I do have two great kitties!

    • @stevecrow3075
      @stevecrow3075 7 дней назад +1

      Well said.🎯

    • @mitch511
      @mitch511 7 дней назад +1

      Pray. Dogs are amazing. Making vivarium and keeping dart frogs too

    • @DanishFaultFinder1
      @DanishFaultFinder1 7 дней назад +1

      Swedish? 🇸🇪

  • @nightowl6811
    @nightowl6811 8 дней назад +26

    Everything you say is correct! People are now annoying, 95% of people are annoying out there everywhere

    • @BNyaB
      @BNyaB 6 дней назад +3

      👍👍👍

    • @JeninNH
      @JeninNH 2 дня назад

      @@nightowl6811 so many fake and narcissistic people. That's a big part of it. They mostly are self centered and don't care if they annoy or disrespect others

  • @pdizzle5302
    @pdizzle5302 8 дней назад +48

    I got divorced because my wife left me. Everybody in my life treated me like I had a disease and slowly ghosted me. I had no idea that getting divorced would be like this. Apparently it is fairly common for a divorced guy to be treated like something is horribly wrong with him and should be avoided. My whole family still keeps in touch with my ex-wife though. She was having an affair and was mentally checked out for my entire marriage because of it. Nobody believes me. I haven't spoken to any former family or friends for five years. During this time I reached out to several people who I thought would speak with me. Evey single one has ignored me as though I do not exist. I feel like I am in the twilight zone. These are people I have literally been there for when they were in similar situations. My only theory is that some unknown lie has been told about me, causing this situation.

    • @MrAmro007
      @MrAmro007 8 дней назад +7

      Sorry to hear about what you are going through. I wish you all the best and stay strong.
      most importantly try to move on

    • @Pollacek40
      @Pollacek40 7 дней назад +8

      Stay strong brother we are with you 💪🏻😎

    • @freespirit2194
      @freespirit2194 7 дней назад +11

      It happened to me too after a divorce. I came to the conclusion that if people that have known me my entire life and accepted my support when they needed it listened to a lie instead of checking with me then good riddance. Thank them (silently in your head) for showing you how shallow, disloyal and easily swayed they are. Stay strong, make a great new life for yourself with hobbies, pets a garden, sport or whatever brings you joy. Much love and blessings.

    • @jesus-on-demand
      @jesus-on-demand 7 дней назад +4

      We pray for your healing and restoration in Jesus Mighty Name. Many people are deceived by the devil and his temptations. Take heart, keep strong, press on, hold on to God's Word. What matters is you are on the right path yourself, for that road leads to LIFE. God is able to keep you there no matter how hard. He is faithful.

    • @one100billneoone4
      @one100billneoone4 7 дней назад +9

      The exact same thing happen to me. My ex-wife divorced me. Her “excuse” was that I was too strict with my son and you know what YES I was and still am. Guess who thanks me for being the way I am til this day? My soon to be 21 year old son. My 16 year old daughter also thanks me. It’s been 3 years since I left my old residence and guess who is still miserable, resentful and is easily triggered when my son and daughter are over my place?…Yup, my ex-wife.
      When she filed for divorce, she began telling false stories about how I was a horrible father. She told all her friends and family members to include my siblings. They all ignored me and didn’t talk to me nor reached out to at least get my side of the story. She also tried to turn my kids against me. It only worked in the beginning but then backfired shortly afterwards. But you know what? I didn’t give a flying F*%!. All that mattered was that my son and daughter know the truth.
      I cannot thank her enough for doing what she did. It really was a blessing in disguise. I now have a very small circle of friends that were there for me and my kids when my divorce began and are still actively part of my life. Each and everyone of them know the type of person I’ve always been and stuck by me. Each and everyone of them offered they’re home to me and my kids when all of this began. But not just offered, but actually delivered. Amazing!! I’ll forever be thankful and grateful.
      So my friend, stay strong, don’t worry nor waste time and energy on the things you have no control over or toxic people. Focus on yourself, your wellbeing, eat right, stay active, truly love yourself, find genuine inner joy, avoid buying crap thinking it’ll make you happy cause it worn’t and embrace a simple life. It truly is a beauty! Solitude is my best friend and stoicism is my guide. Take care!

  • @richardhorah2049
    @richardhorah2049 8 дней назад +27

    You are spot on Terry!! I don’t tolerate the chaos anymore. I enjoy a clean healthy happy fit life. If shit heads towards me, it is jock blocked. End of story. Thanks for your positive attitude. So healthy!!!

  • @thisislogout
    @thisislogout 7 дней назад +10

    Late bloomer here. Took me years of foolishness (chasing worldly pleasures) but at 50 I did a 180° turn to better my physical and mental health and it feels great. Thanks for this video, these talks help me to stay on the grind to better myself.

  • @spiritualhammer392
    @spiritualhammer392 7 дней назад +12

    Today is my 53rd birthday - July 4th in America is awesome. I have no family or friends to speak to or hear from, I received no cards or gifts and have no birthday cake. Very tough...I could easily go out and see fireworks and parades and do stuff alone, but it's not worth risking the crowd issues we have around Chicago. Mass shootings there all day today. Cheers everyone.

    • @suzystone244
      @suzystone244 5 дней назад +1

      Happy belated birthday 🎂 I'm a loner too. Totally get it.

    • @chippychick6261
      @chippychick6261 4 дня назад +1

      Happy birthday my friend. We share the day and I had similar lone birthday. I don’t make a big deal of it. It’s a consumerism construct so I’m not expecting any special on the day. I’ve learned to fill my days with things and people I like. Good people are rare but you recognize them when you meet them.

    • @maxac8162
      @maxac8162 3 дня назад

      HBD 🥳

    • @clock99times
      @clock99times 4 часа назад

      We only have one birthday and that was the day you were born. Even though we become a year older on that date. It was a man made celebration for us to spend more money.

  • @danieltheavatarmusic
    @danieltheavatarmusic 8 дней назад +25

    I have never had friends that stick around, like I love having people around me but some people just never ever stick around, it’s awful, it’s not the way things were supposed to be what so ever, but it’s the circumstances we’ve dealt with, and had to deal with, it’s just hard to know who to trust because there are a lot of scum who disguise themselves as friends.

    • @shueykittycat8901
      @shueykittycat8901 8 дней назад

      WE ARE BORN ALONE AND DIE ALONE. WE ARE ALL ALONE. STOP DEPENDING ON SOMEONE ELSE TO MAKE YOU HAPPY.
      YOU CAN MAKE YOURSELF HAPPY
      UNLESS YOU ARE A CRYCRYBIGIDIOTBABYMANBOY
      ALWAYS WAHWAHWEEWEE

    • @tomthom9456
      @tomthom9456 7 дней назад

      Same brother same

  • @whiteman70
    @whiteman70 6 дней назад +6

    I lost my mother and girlfriend from COVID and I've been alone ever since.No friends or family.Im so numb to it all.I could disappear and noone would even notice.

    • @neveragain733
      @neveragain733 2 дня назад

      This is so sad, my heart feels for you.

  • @nightowl6811
    @nightowl6811 8 дней назад +38

    Im tired of looking at the modern day woman on streets 😂, all seeking attention, validation 😂, driving and walking, wearing very tight yoga pants, and walking dogs 🐕 and glued to phones waiting on red lights 😂looking all important 😂😂

    • @ShahkhaAlom
      @ShahkhaAlom 7 дней назад +1

      The story of my life pal!! 😂❤💀 Here over in The UK 🇬🇧 it's really bad look everywhere and you see it

    • @Garrett8098
      @Garrett8098 7 дней назад +4

      ​@@ShahkhaAlomThe entire Western world.

    • @GabrielXDrums
      @GabrielXDrums 6 дней назад +2

      Sounds like you’re bitter, go say hi and maybe try to make a friend out of one of them 😒

    • @tinasmith7630
      @tinasmith7630 6 дней назад +1

      ​@@GabrielXDrumsHurt. Get sme understandin. Yes bitter can becme a by product.

    • @GabrielXDrums
      @GabrielXDrums 6 дней назад

      @@tinasmith7630 lmao oh trust, I understand, it’s crap when the content is the same each day, the moment he stops making this type of stuff is when you know he’s healed and has become better, it’s easy to see the pain when you come from the same place, it’s not a bad thing, just sucks cause I can relate.

  • @cloudattack3279
    @cloudattack3279 7 дней назад +4

    The strong make many, the starving make few..the dead make none. Just keep grinding fellas..no down time. Fill your week with hard work, min 8 hours sleep daily, and your hobbies etc fill the rest. Dont move in with a girl until fully vetted. And don’t knock her up!

  • @Knight1118-gk7ok
    @Knight1118-gk7ok 7 дней назад +10

    Family and friends are F-words as far as I'm concerned. Family members are a complete write-off and the true friends I've ever had in all my years I can count on one hand - maybe two if I really gave the benefit of the doubt. My only true best friend was my wife and she passed from cancer last summer. The last of our four dogs died this past spring so now I'm alone and accepting it'll be that way from here on in until its my turn.

    • @Go_Play_Outside
      @Go_Play_Outside 3 дня назад

      There are so many shelter dogs waiting to be adopted whenever your heart is open for another one.
      They know you saved them.
      Take care. ❤

    • @Knight1118-gk7ok
      @Knight1118-gk7ok 3 дня назад +1

      @@Go_Play_Outside Thank you for the advice. I have thought about that option but, being alone, I wonder that if anything happened to me than who would take care of the dog? He/Her would end up going back to a shelter again and I wouldn't want to traumatize them a second time by that happening.

  • @SuperReasonabledoubt
    @SuperReasonabledoubt 7 дней назад +6

    It's okay to be alone, take care of yourself..

  • @nabzy28
    @nabzy28 6 дней назад +5

    Staring at a phone, being chained to social media, being in debt, self destructive behaviors, lying, stealing, being selfish, having no morals/ethics or accountability is the norm in this world. The other path is a path of solitude. Walking that path is very difficult in this world but the dividends can be huge if you are strong enough to take it.

  • @robiness5344
    @robiness5344 8 дней назад +31

    That’s me ABSOLUTELY NO ONE 🤷‍♀️

  • @PSOpwnage
    @PSOpwnage 8 дней назад +21

    Learn to love yourself the way you love for others. Be your own biggest fan.

    • @WalkingMeatSuit1925
      @WalkingMeatSuit1925 7 дней назад +3

      Self-love is of pride/ego. The biblical word says we're to deny ourselves from ourselves and pick up the cross daily

  • @ShamanEarthRising
    @ShamanEarthRising 7 дней назад +6

    my dad was military and I now am so thankful he was strict and tried to instil a good work ethic and discipline. I'm 61 now and this young generation has lost that. They are into being seen and not working so they can post pics on IG ....all well and good but remember where you ganna be in retirement? Nobody coming to save you..you take care of your own damn self...buck up butter cups...shits getting real and you need to have some backbone. Nothing wrong with struggle if you gain wisdom and knowledge along the way. But whining and crying does nothing for ya!

    • @Synetheia
      @Synetheia 6 дней назад

      I feel you on that. ❤

  • @Deron8564
    @Deron8564 8 дней назад +11

    Truly, being alone is better than being with a person who is a negative influence, a barrier to your progress, or passive aggressive towards you. We must take full responsibility for our progress in life. We must take full responsibility for our vibe and self esteem. We must take full responsibility for the people we associate with. We must take full responsibility for our goals and any progress towards them.
    As you said in another video, "nobody is coming to save you."

  • @kelvinjames6344
    @kelvinjames6344 7 дней назад +8

    Neighbours don't speak
    Nobody wants friends or chat
    Everyone work but not get ahead
    Devil toilet bowl this place

  • @rebeccahanson9864
    @rebeccahanson9864 7 дней назад +6

    I'm glad I'm not the only one who can see this. I'm sitting here on July 4th all by myself. I'm not sad about it. My identity is found in Jesus Christ. It actually feels good to not be around all that negative energy. Im jjust disappointed that people have to be so selfish, especially family.

  • @Hedgehog3342
    @Hedgehog3342 7 дней назад +4

    As i got older, i started to have less friends. And i got to the point where im not afraid of losing friends. I aint got time to waste with people who are not my level. I like company but i been liking my solitude more.

  • @deebow0865
    @deebow0865 4 дня назад +1

    Separation of the WHEAT & TARES. I love being alone. It’s absolutely peaceful .❤

  • @jesus-on-demand
    @jesus-on-demand 8 дней назад +40

    We are in the last days, the end is very near. When God reveals this to us we shall fear no more. This all shall pass very soon. What matters is don't let the devil trap you through his dark minded agents that appear very loving and helpful. His agenda is only to steal kill and destroy.

  • @jared7723
    @jared7723 7 дней назад +3

    Yup " Hang around dogs, you get fleas."

  • @johnmoran7996
    @johnmoran7996 8 дней назад +18

    Pets are cool!👍🏻😉

  • @FloridaManConstruction
    @FloridaManConstruction 7 дней назад +3

    It’s just me, the cats, Maryjane and Little Debbie.
    Wonderful.

  • @dwddavidsway4701
    @dwddavidsway4701 8 дней назад +8

    Seeing the title of this video I thought where’s “Hey David,”
    Isolation brought about by God has been one of the greaTEST times of my 65 year life! In 15 years of training living in the wilderness has taught me how much God loves me . . . How could I possibly ever be alone with A loving Creator who can not will not for sake you . . .
    Think about what you are able to learn and discern to become the best version of yourself by looking within and DOing the work . . .
    Thank you for sharing the trUth you have sought and gained in your journey brother
    Peace ~Dwd~

  • @z3ph3us6
    @z3ph3us6 8 дней назад +9

    A lot of people live in denial, escapism, instant gratification and vapidness. I choose to walk away from people like that as well. It does bring you down and it reminds you of the growth you have made and they are like anvils and sinkers. They subconsciously trying to bring you back down to their level. There is total wickedness running rampant throughout the world.. I want none of it either. Too exhausting and depressing to see others stay stuck.

  • @user-zw7uw2zb9f
    @user-zw7uw2zb9f 8 дней назад +12

    Just get a dog their loyal to the end n give nothing but love n will protect u to the death if u train them right

  • @CAPCAPTAIN
    @CAPCAPTAIN 7 дней назад +5

    We have a collectible RUclips family. I'm not lonely at all

    • @DanishFaultFinder1
      @DanishFaultFinder1 7 дней назад +4

      I follow 190 channels...Of many kinds..Redpill, Terry here, even Pakistani mecanics welders and metal workers who fix trucks tracktors in the third world...Very fulfilling and inspiring to watch...Ill never need or want any pay to watch tv channel company's. ..I have my RUclips family..Every day new content. And learning new stuff/skills too....Very content man here 😊

  • @flooferwoofenschnizz3858
    @flooferwoofenschnizz3858 6 дней назад +2

    I am 40 female and I am on a similar path. I was the wet mop for 34 years. I am learning and growing everyday. It is fun. Thank you for this. Thank you for being here for me to listen to. It really is helpful. 🙏👍

  • @danb7647
    @danb7647 7 дней назад +4

    You sound like a Sigma male and that is a good thing. Keep on rocking in the Free World !!!

  • @Godslovingrebel
    @Godslovingrebel 8 дней назад +4

    This is the loneliest times with the phone scrolling world and spiritual warefare. Love yourselves and stay positive ❤

  • @Mocheesemoeugene
    @Mocheesemoeugene 7 дней назад +3

    Even with the razor-sharp insight that I possess.I know when i'm gettin a great sermon and it won't be coming from the preacher man in the church.Most won't go to church, so Give bro his flowers now.❤

  • @tillik1004
    @tillik1004 7 дней назад +3

    You can't get a silver dollar if you have an old penny stuck in your hand. You're doing the right things, dropping the pennies and keeping your hand empty until a shiny new healthy silver dollar comes along.

  • @ShinyTrades68
    @ShinyTrades68 8 дней назад +10

    i though was the only one felling alone in this world , guess what, i was wrong

  • @roje3647
    @roje3647 6 дней назад +2

    Thanks for the video. My son, who is 36, is at this point with family and other people, co-workers, etc. Now I understand he's not the only one. He lives with me. I am his only friend, and he relies on me. I'm working on myself to understand more. Press on.

  • @BeautyWithTiffy
    @BeautyWithTiffy 6 дней назад +3

    Same here. I had to cut out my family because of the narcissism, toxicity, backstabbing bad mouth talking calling my employers to talk bad about me trying to take my son away from me. Just really vile people. I did everything in the world for them and gave them so much. It’s just their tragic. And I’m not gonna be that way. And it’s on them because we cannot change other people they have to see themselves for who they really are. I’m sorry anybody has to go through what I did.

  • @garywest5510
    @garywest5510 6 дней назад +3

    Its not ablout money or sucess, it about seeing them for who they show you they are period.

  • @user-ic5ss6il8j
    @user-ic5ss6il8j 6 дней назад +2

    I can relate. 62 no friends to spend time with. Frequently alone. Have my son and granddaughter but am usually with self! No romance for many years. Spend lots of time near rivers, woods and peaceful places.

  • @s3renity274
    @s3renity274 8 дней назад +8

    People like their peace. A lot of people today are VERY stubborn. They don't want to adapt to your way of doing things.

  • @nola1104
    @nola1104 6 дней назад +2

    I cannot believe im seeing and hearing that there are more people out there like myself...that there is nothing mentally or physically wrong with me...its SELF PRESERVATUON! we are living in a very strange time where nothing is sacred or respected...no privacy, legitimately vile...ive chosen to honor my sense of self, everything i fought so hard to preserve...staying in the present moment, being aware...The book POWER OFNOW is a tool i use everyday..folks think im weird

  • @thewholeeventhorizon
    @thewholeeventhorizon 8 дней назад +8

    Man I clicked on this one fast. My whole family is dead I won’t go into it and my friends weren’t really friends. Now I can’t even find a girlfriend and even if I do I could end up worse off than I already am.

    • @perfection9669
      @perfection9669 5 дней назад +1

      Same her bro. My solution was to leave the country with my remote job.

  • @nicholaswilliams4237
    @nicholaswilliams4237 6 дней назад +1

    I appreciate your take on everything. I’m in this transition. Thanks everybody for keeping you real bro

  • @tedoneilclark4710
    @tedoneilclark4710 7 дней назад +4

    Unfortunately sometimes you just have to let go. People who were once fine can change. It's sad, but if they are going to pull you down in life it's the best way to do things.

  • @glenmorse9533
    @glenmorse9533 6 дней назад +2

    Thank you, I have been a year now in 19 days of getting used to being alone most of my time. I was extremely depressed for quite some time. You are 100% right in that it gets better, and better. I have learned how to be content with this now. I have my moments, but it keeps getting better with time. I keep my eye on this compas to stay focused on this lifelong path. There are few people to be a joy to be around, yes, I too would rather be by myself. I am mentally healing!

  • @TheGoddessOracle.
    @TheGoddessOracle. 6 дней назад +2

    I can totally relate to this…done with the toxic people who only care about themselves

  • @dylanflynn1
    @dylanflynn1 8 дней назад +5

    You are so right on. I would like to speak to you in real life. I'm 56 y.o. with everything I need to complete my life happily. I've lost everyone that matters to me. But there's no one that is worth spending time with. ❤

    • @bobgreenfield9158
      @bobgreenfield9158 8 дней назад +3

      I am 61. I am working on a money making system. I look at young girls. What do they offer? Will they help me conquer the world?
      Can they help me do so?
      I say no. They only offer that pink
      hole.

  • @lindatallon9217
    @lindatallon9217 8 дней назад +5

    We have a bullseye on our back
    ....🎯🎯🎯🏹🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

    • @BlueLantern96
      @BlueLantern96 8 дней назад

      Grace Caroline Currey is such a hottie

  • @Mocheesemoeugene
    @Mocheesemoeugene 7 дней назад +3

    Introspection =self respect
    Self respect = others to comply with your standard or kick rocks❤

  • @tylerhale4609
    @tylerhale4609 7 дней назад +7

    Gaslighting tactics. ( Lie, cheat, steal, deny, dismiss, deflect, shame, guilt.)

  • @johnalig8118
    @johnalig8118 8 дней назад +8

    The bible say in the last days becauce of the increase of wickedness the love of most will wax cold....
    The bible says those who sow injustice reap emptiness.
    I'm a follower of jesus and spirit filled
    It's happening bro.
    GOD is drawing a line in the sand
    GOD is separating the sheep from the goats ....
    Its totaly true please believe me
    If you realy look at it all you will see the big picture.
    And the big picture is GOD.
    The bible says you reap what you sow,you harvest what you plant.
    GOD Bless you
    Chris.....

    • @BlueLantern96
      @BlueLantern96 8 дней назад

      Grace Caroline Currey is such a hottie

  • @rossflores1946
    @rossflores1946 8 дней назад +10

    WHEN YOU HAVE GOD YOU ARE BY YOURSELF BUT NEVER ALONE AS GOD IS WITH YOU ALWAYS PEOPLE!!!

  • @BDogs10
    @BDogs10 7 дней назад +2

    Bro, you are blessed to have these understandings & cracked on the right way at an early stage.
    *for me: procrastination, toxic friendships,alcohol abuse the list goes on. I’m 50 now, somehow things have worked out ok but in my late teens, 20s I definitely knew I wasn’t on the right path but still continued. Unbelievable

  • @user-qv7qd5lr9w
    @user-qv7qd5lr9w 8 дней назад +7

    When your on this path, people will think your boring.

    • @Jetsparx373
      @Jetsparx373 7 дней назад

      My family talks about being positive, tells me to smile, and yet I've done everything right. I constantly and I feel like a miserable sack of crap... I eat junk, don't drink, smoke or anything.
      When I was living with them, I was more miserable I was overweight. And I already know that most of my immediate family members either have sleep apnea, suffered a stroke, having seizures and bladder problems.
      I think these health problems are often the result of the bad habits I mentioned they have done... And now it's catching up with them.
      In the last several years I moved out on my own I've lost weight, and I most likely mitigated a lot of possible risks especially during the pandemic, but yet I've been more alone, when I'm with them, I'm belittled, treated like a child what's the point where it becomes self-loathing.
      They're very passive when I look clearly upset, I brush them off when they ask what's wrong, because clearly they aren't going to listen to me anyway. Plus they act like nothing they unconsciously say was never said. And anything loving or encouraging me to tell me feels hollow...
      And when I feel emotionally drained they feel happier and are more passive... It just shows that when you do walk a true path that everyone who claims to be righteous... When they themselves are far from it... It shows they all secretly hate me.

  • @wonderwonderdc9875
    @wonderwonderdc9875 6 дней назад +1

    Thank you so much
    For talking about this … I agree with you 100 percent

  • @karlwahlfield6462
    @karlwahlfield6462 8 дней назад +7

    i stay riding that wave brotha

    • @BlueLantern96
      @BlueLantern96 8 дней назад

      Grace Caroline Currey is such a hottie

  • @darrensmall5548
    @darrensmall5548 6 дней назад +2

    54 here.. never had a friend in my life , never been in a relationship ! walked away from my toxic family and my toxic career. I do not need people in my life PERIOD

    • @Mo-jv5oy
      @Mo-jv5oy 6 дней назад

      Why are you posting for others to see?

  • @romac9516
    @romac9516 7 дней назад +2

    Beware any individual telling you to separate from your family for any reason that isn't perfectly logical. If you walk away then you walk away forever. Don't do it unless you're 100% certain - it's not good advice to leave everyone.

  • @rogersmith9705
    @rogersmith9705 4 дня назад +2

    Being a lone wolf can have several benefits. 🐺👍

  • @AM-qn1zt
    @AM-qn1zt 7 дней назад +1

    It's a blessing to have the time, space, and energy to pour into yourself.

  • @nick111655
    @nick111655 7 дней назад +2

    100% correct, been that way for quite awhlie for me now. I would rather be alone than be associated with toxic types. Ride the wave till the time is right,and l finally meet like minded people.

  • @Ukrainian-woman-of-your-dreams
    @Ukrainian-woman-of-your-dreams 6 дней назад +3

    friends - Go meet and connect with different people online or overseas.
    family - Accept them for who they are and move on with your life. Wait for God to send you the right woman so that maybe you can create a family with her.
    nothing - Your life is going to become better. Your problems are going to end/disappear. Just stay positive and keep doing the right thing.

    • @perfection9669
      @perfection9669 5 дней назад

      True thats why I spend my free time learning Russian but don't meet these woman online

  • @welfareleech1525
    @welfareleech1525 8 дней назад +1

    Extremely well said brother

  • @KevinLee-qp4pk
    @KevinLee-qp4pk 6 дней назад +2

    I never felt like a fit in society. All my life, I always felt different. No friends or family at all. Been living a more recluse life. I connect more with dogs and cats than people.

  • @RMONIC
    @RMONIC 3 дня назад

    Wonderful, wise messages. I recognize a winner and a warrior when I see and hear one. Sometimes I think there are very few of us on this journey. I'm so happy and glad to see more people on the path. Spanish is my first language, and several of your colloquial expressions opened my eyes and ears, clarifying my own experiences with new words. Someone said to me recently that he was very bored, and I thought it was because he was addicted to the cycle of pleasure and wickedness. It made me think that he was empty within. I can never be bored with myself. I try to help others, but only those who truly want to be in a better place or live a better life will change. Everyone learns at their own pace.

  • @marinat187
    @marinat187 6 дней назад

    I am so happy for you that you've discovered who you are , where you stand your grounds and who you can associate with. It pays off with peace of mind and feeling happy every day ! I support you and your values. The earlier you realise it the better your mature days will be.Best of luck , but being kind spirited lightens you up even more !✌

  • @cornishfudge39
    @cornishfudge39 6 дней назад

    I came across your channel when you first started it…. I was at the same stage at the same time and now I have just come across you again I have also cut out a lot off people and find it better alone or with people that are better for me. Glad you are feeling better too❤

  • @tamerastone4732
    @tamerastone4732 5 дней назад

    U tell it like it is! Thank u!!

  • @Movieclips_101
    @Movieclips_101 7 дней назад +2

    I stay to myself most the time and you can elevate faster in life and have peace I’m glad I mastered being alone and most people not on the same path in life as us chosen ones that’s why we have to be alone most the time.

  • @RozayMalikOG
    @RozayMalikOG 8 дней назад +3

    Truest Video Yet❤

  • @Ella_56785
    @Ella_56785 7 дней назад +2

    It does pay off, your life will be very organized and health on point.

  • @karenq.9571
    @karenq.9571 7 дней назад

    Excellent and sound advice!!

  • @user-jn4pj7vj8r
    @user-jn4pj7vj8r 8 дней назад

    Great message!

  • @brandonguzman2757
    @brandonguzman2757 6 дней назад

    Skin looking good TJJ!

  • @robertobravo6834
    @robertobravo6834 7 дней назад +5

    Eagles always fly alone.

  • @spa-dasoaps6436
    @spa-dasoaps6436 7 дней назад

    Excellent delivery!

  • @Gimports8
    @Gimports8 7 дней назад +1

    I needed to hear this video today thank you

  • @BABS644
    @BABS644 7 дней назад

    Volcom ! Real One. Bro thank you for saying all this. I feel like you ARE the only one that understands these things fully. Thank you so much. ⚔️🇺🇸🦅🙏