How Friends and Family Become Enemies
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They become your enemies because they see you growing and you’re leaving them behind.
And you don’t want to leave them behind but they’re so jealous and hateful they can’t come with you
They will try to make you look like a bad person to
They're gangstalking
Boring empty vessels!
Ridiculous, "you're leaving them behind", that's how the view it lol.... This is a helium balloon/jet we all going.
You become useless when you cannot be controlled...
Facts!
That resonates
Keep a snug close by!
Dog = goD
Facts 💯
Then I'm totally 💯 % useless then.
Family can be your biggest enemy.
100%
Without a doubt
Facts
This is part of the intergenerational plan of the behaviorists who get to your folks before you do
In this world you don’t have no friends 💯🙏
Only family.
The narcissist can't acknowledge you as an individual. They create a mental snapshot of you that you must conform to. If you don't fit this mold, it causes them extreme anxiety.
I'm me and nobody is going to hold me to an expectation. Btw, are they not a individual? Do they acknowledge that?
“Being a nobody is more peaceful than being a somebody”. Beyond the Alchemy
Being a hobo or dead is glorified.
Transcend space and time
Humans were never designed to seek attention in the way they do today
You know nothing about being a hobo. Clearly you're delusional @@deftones7882
I love being invisible. Age did that for me. Lol.
Only one friend said that he was happy to see me so successful.
Solid.
That's all u need one friend,keep that circle small
Enemies just want to see us living under a bridge..
And family and to be able to say you deserved what you got. It is hard to i.possible to survive as a lone wolf. I'm doing that daily and death meets me at the front door every day but I open it anyway, and take a deep breath and step out.
Bridge provides shelter, that would be rich coming from a narcissist 😄
Hmm... I wanna see them not living, in a coffin.
When i made it . Became great. Family hoped i died low key. Women too. Thats when i became a man. And realize i been living in hell the whole time.
💯
Yessir!
*Clap*
Why did I think you meant you changed genders
@@SeethingSimp lol
They never were your friends or family, its that simple 😊
Nah.
Real friends and blood can distance themselves at some point. At one point, they did have love for you.
People grow apart. It happens.
Fascinating
You cant show kindness or tenderness, it makes you a target. Vulnerability is seen as prey.
Such a mind f×ck to be brought up sweet, kind, thoughtful and all life gives you is lemons. I say pucker up buttercup.
@@dannacollins2520 xoxo
And onlt in pubic not when it comes to havinf high standards
I am gettinf hated on, buf i am a beacon for light they can’t get me 🫸🏻🌞🌸🪷
Bollocks, you just need to know how to handle those types of people, you can only be taken advantage off willingly
Been feeling this lately…. What a shame. God forbid I better myself instead of f’ing around drinking every weekend
They become enemies because they envy and want to try and control your life, give advice when they are not in a place you would want to be in life.
Who is micromanaging and controlling them ? Wonder how they'll be a boss.
I go through phases in life where i basically drop off my entire friend group. Finally have found a few life long brothers after 30 years
Will do the same
When you’re the first one in the family to break the generational curse of being overweight and become fit etc. Surpass them on every level the list goes on.
Planning on it.
When parents both pass away, 90% of the time the families feud over what gets what and how much.
Anyone who tears you down? Rather than building you up, is not your friend.
So true.
People hating on you for coming from a successful family is so true!
I'm so happy I made productive decisions about my finances that changed my life forever,hoping to retire next year.. Investment should always be on any creative man's heart for success in life .
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I have been thru hated energy all my life and I don’t care either I just keep doing my thing too. It’s horrible I always wish people the best but nobody wants that for me even my family.
They can hate I will not beg for anyone just as long God is got our Back
Worst part is WE suffer enough and we don't bother anyone. Get off my back for just trying to survive and do my best. Ain't nobody thinking about you jealous people. Why should I be ok with being mediocre just because everyone else is
To all the young guy’s watching this, I’m 40 years old and what this man is speaking is pure facts. Right now, you can’t really see the envy and jealousy in other people because you’re oblivious to it. My advice to you guys is always make sure your time is consumed with something positive, such as working out, working a job, saving money towards opening a business, treating your girl and your family right, keep a nice haircut, keep clean clothes, iron your clothes, never do any hard drugs, don’t even try it, never have a drink every day, I don’t care if it’s a glass of wine and only go out on Friday and Saturday night. I guarantee this will keep most negative people away from you because negative people don’t do positive things. You will ALWAYS have to watch out for fake friends and D-Riders but life will be a lot better because you have no time to chill. Wanting to chill is what is destroying men, you just want to watch a movie and chill, you just want to smoke a blunt and chill, you just wanna do a dab and chill, you just want to watch movies and chill, you wanna drink and chill, you wanna hang out with your girl and chill, you wanna browse the internet and chill etc. You get the point. chilling and hobbies are for weekend nights. Guess what happens?? You eventually make enough money to chill for the rest of your life.
Who!?. I'm jk. But this was 🌋
@@_YohAsakura_ It’s real but it will sound like nonsense to most young men.
Agreed. Rn, I’m broke, but the obvious goal is make so much money that you can just chill. No more settling for less than that.
@@ViltrumiteIsRite99 Why are you broke?
They want to keep you the same cause when you grow and change they know that they can't relate to you no more.
It's totally natural to outgrow family and friends.
It's levels to this sh*t.
Family and friends like tonsee you do well...just not better than them.
thats if theyre good friends... most are enemies in disguise...
My family has discredited me my entire life. Not to be intentionally mean. But to this day, they do not listen to me. And if your family does not value what you say or think, no stranger ever will. It sucks. But it can be worse. But it seems like a family curse.
F em all. They are losers till the last breath. I have zero seconds for losers.
A stranger will... Its the leave your hometown advice
leave them.
@@bleacchy I have. Thousands of miles seperate us. But to be fair, they left me first.
@@cainebianchi9762 it happens more often than you think. you arent alone. this happens to a lot of people. try to keep positive mindset and make sure you eat healthy (fruits,veggies,beef, chicken, water, no soda)
They're triggered because they're insecure with their feelings of inadequacies..
Everyone has inadequacies.. Triggered for no reason. Nobody is perfect and that became a saying for things like this...
“What is important is neither pleasure nor pain, success nor failure, what is important is to understand that neither of them have any importance whatsoever. This understanding calls for peace, calm and serenity”.
Jean Klein, Be Who You Are
Your spot on bro! I have a 20 year career in television production and have reached the top of my game and the hate has been non- stop because I'm not struggling and making excuses. The work I put in bothers people and in a way it's so satisfying knowing that I'm in a league of my own. Stay humble and blessed. Never let them disrespect!!
If they put energy into improving instead of hating, they might have it, too. I have never understood hating someone for building something. Pathetic.
I could not agree more! They teach you to work hard if you want to succeed in life then when you put the time and work in they switch up the rules and become jealous and envious. I have no time to hate on another man/woman because I'm too focused on trying to become better everyday. Stay blessed thanks for your feedback it's people like us who I will always strive for and never give up hope that there are still good like minded people out here. Continue to crush your enemies with your success! Love!
I agree because it is down to jealousy.
Amen, bro. Fuk the world. We got this.
Got sick had to go thru lazy doctors who nearly killed me . Went on the table under the scalpel needed 2 months+ to recover. Hater co worker kindly said how "my vecation went" even after simple explanation that for two months walking or pissing or taking a shit was a hell and pain. She still insisted it was't work so it's a vecation. Deep down she hates me for not being a push over or people pleaser.
He's a fucking Beast, pay attention. I have the highest respect for the truth and those who speak it.
They become flawed characters, they're flawed characters who misplace/manifest their fears, shortcomings, traumas, hatred, onto others and become haters and work iniquity
No stronger a flex than kindness in a world where most people are afraid to be kind.
Most people are evil only pretend they want you to do good but most of them don't. Anyone can turn on you in a second even if you thought you can trust them.
Most people are fake trash.
I'm 26 years old and what I've learned so far is that people that live a life without God tends to live a really unlucky life and the ones that truly have a love for God actually prosper.
Amen 🙏 yes
Not unlucky.
Cursed.
Not completely true those who believe in Christ are persecuted … it’s biblical so actually those who live for Satan live more comfortable lives because Satan doesn’t make it hard for them on earth since they are walking straight to hell .
@@rjjohn2241 I'm muslim so I don't believe Jesus is God... Prophet yes, God no.
@@kidzeus2433 without Jesus’s death and resurrection for your sins and you accepting that you aren’t forgiven of your sins and will perish unfortunately, Good works won’t get you into Heaven even one sin separates us from God without Christs remission .
Facts same situation when I started my fitness journey that’s when people energy towards me switched up quick and the jealousy and hate started that’s why I stay to myself and don’t trust nobody and they will go out of their way to try to destroy your life but God got me covered 💯
This journey is not for the weak .🙏
Only one relative liked to see me grow. And out of my close friends with the 9 that I have, only 5 of them still communicate with me
Oh no, baby! Women go through this BS, too!
Lol,he doesn't know,worse.Because men have more respect even in the workplace.
You on a journey they can’t come with you. If you’re going to make it they can’t come with you. And that’s facts they will drag you down. So they can’t come on the journey meant for you.
This behavior is called "crab mentality". This helped me a lot 👍
Fortitude is a very much a threatening characteristic. Especially to the weak simp.
Recently, I told a close relative to get out of my life. I've dealt with my fair share of haters, it hits differently when it's family who has seen your struggles and accomplishments. I'm not having it, especially at this point in my life.
I don’t know who in my life this guy is talking about but who else feels like all this stuff he’s saying is so true about people in your life?
Went through this last year. Went from 315 to 195 and people around me lately have become more aggressive toward me or they become fearful of me and the people I associated now keep their distance after underestimating my journey. So much weight off my shoulder..No pun intended lol
Congratulations.
Well done
“But Jesus said unto them, A prophet is not without honour, but in his own country, and among his own kin, and in his own house.”
Mark 6:4 KJV
"But thou, O Daniel, shut up the words and seal the book, even to the time of the end. Many shall run to and fro, and knowledge shall be increased.” Daniel 12:4
Thank you @innatelydone
I just quoted this passage to my ONE friend, the other day... It's spot on!
I’m soon to be 56. I’m a young mid-age woman. You are wise, perceptive, and speak what I lived and still live. The small circle I’ve been connected to are showing their bitterness. Twenty years ago I started planning for this moment. I guess most thought it would never happen for me.
Keep it up!
They projected there flaws to you & gaslight to the point that your energy & mindset will project back & from learning from this I’ve been listening to you since before 2020 maybe earlier & we learn how to be successful & matured from it
Terry. Who owns the media? Who owns every single media outlet in America?
That is the responsible party for the apocalyptic situation young men find themselves in.
More like this -- sadly, too true; thanks, TJJ; sad, when a day-one becomes an enemy; snakes hiding in plain-sight; fam' can be so fake -- you always find-out when you need them and action from them -- not just their lip-service
Story about 2 tile fitters, one loved the job, did a great job, tiles look solid no mould. Fitter two, treated it like job no knowledge, tiles falling off the grout is all over the place, tiles started to damage less then six months. Great points on mastery Terry thank you.
This video is on point.My life path sounds almost exactly like yours. I allowed the gaslighting, disrespect and manipulative tactics by family and friends to break me down but have since recovered and am doing fine.I even moved away but the nasty tactics continue.I can't begin to imagine messing with someone else's life in this way.But God sees it all and that is comforting.The videos you are creating are a huge help and I thank you for everything you are doing.God bless
I`m not crazy. I`m just not like you. - David Goggins
> Success comes from what you do consistently.
Your country is collapsing from a severe mental illness crisis and economic crisis
Gaming and weed.
I dont know you but Im proud that you came to this conclusion at a younger age..it took me till middle age to not give a fk about what others thought of me..I called it the blessing of older age..I grew up with alot of lies and jealousy within my adopted family..like in the Mafia where loyalties are constantly shifting and had to watch your back..there was almost zero support for personal growth..instead..as you say Terry..your growth threatened them and their envy rose..it was Hell.🔥😡
Rarely I look to see who likes me or not I foucs on myself
More videos like these Terry, godbless!🙌
That's kind 😇 of u
This guy is speaking the truth
psalm 27:10:
Though my father and mother forsake me, the LORD will receive me.
Amen.
I've had to do the same thing happen to me. I also learned that sometimes keeping an enemy an enemy or neutral is more beneficial then trying to befriend them since they will often find the smallest excuse or argument to backstab you disproportionately. Had to deal with online advertisers who kept doing shady things to me.
Thank you for the video.
YOU Simply Did Life
BETTER
This has been very true for me over the last few years. A few months ago I quit my job, spent 3 months on holiday on my own. This week I’m moving states and stripping myself of any past relationships and friends. I need to focus on me and being the best person I can. If I meet new people who aren’t out to hurt and backstab me, that’s the bonus. So many people hate watching others succeed and love watching you fall.
No one is going to hurt me anymore. I will be the best person I can be.
Love the channel and looking forward to more content❤️❤️
Doing the same thing at the end of this month. Moving from PA to Florida. And let me tell you this past year and even mostly recently have shown my “friends” true colors. These are the people I’ve cared way to much for for them to not give a flying fuck about me. Not even enough to answer a phone call to say goodbye.
Correction: Women who drive hard and step away and above the others, have the same amount of hate coming at them. People, in general, are uncomfortable with the success of others.
You would have made an incredible first Sergeant or sergeant major type enlisted officer in the military force I know you're in Canada but I'm US military and I see your unbelievable potential. I'm very grateful for the time you spend guiding the right people in the direction they need to get be going. You know God has a special place for you in heaven. Thank you so much for your sacrifice of time and energy for the betterment of mankind in particular the chosen ones
It seems like you have to watch everyone now. They all seem like buzzards.
Circling, just circling.
Yep people are very sneaky nowadays
I hate people. God tells us to love everyone.. I hate everyone. And even the Lord cannot change how I feel. But I look to the Lord and remind him these scumbags are his creation, and he put them here in my life. I will tell God to his face I cannot love his creation. I hope he can understand.
God regrets making mankind
Society is one sick mfkr
It is a BuyBull. Who said God wrote it? Can they prove this?
They don't have to stay in ur life,God let them in ur life for a reason.
Do many bitter people not understanding that you attract what you believe
i saw some of my stalkers at a gas station.one outside pumping gas me next inline.i didnt know them.but he leaned in the window and everyone in that truck turned and stared.this was about 5 miniutes.they was still stareing as they pulled off.I was stareing back.I am a female ,59
Having common sense is more of a curse than a blessing because you have to still deal with all of the people that dont have any
As long as it’s behind your back…
Because sabotage and self sabotage is rife under the surface
I am about to disconnect from some family so this hits at the right time, Thank-you.
great vid, man. the most outlandish thing is people who have left my life on their own accord are the ones who feel like they have the right to judge my life, the most, I'm like wtf Lol its funny as heck, bro. the reason why ppl judge others is because they are running away from seeing themselves in the mirror and taking Accountability for their own weakness. I have no sympathy for those who refuse to improve themselves
It's a learning process day by day learning how to just focus on you and your life. But it's definitely achievable
Today they can be your friends and tommorow , your enemies.
I needed this.
“Massive action”!!!
-Tony Robbins
Thank you, every time I need to hear something, you make the video about it and remind me to remain locked in 🙏
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Steak Dinner
All luv bro ❤
When the family showed envy oh that one crushed me. I sensed it for a while but it blew up when I reached big goal recently.
I personally don’t think it’s hard to do well. Start small. Do what you say you were going to do stay curious and keep learning and a lot of stuff will fall in your lap 💅🏽
Regarding the comment about "it's especially hard as a man.." Part of growing is recognizing theres a lot you don't know, especially when you haven't walked a mile in someone elses shoes. I agree w/ a lot, but when you speak, as if you know the experience of a woman, as a man, just know it makes a lot of ppl roll their eyes. Acknowledging its a blind spot is so much better than pretending to know an experience you could never truly understand. Since you seem so open to growth I thought I'd remind you, there's no way on earth to understand the experience of a woman w/o living as one so maybe try not to make it a competition in which it's just so much harder as a man. That's just a cheap way to feel superior, and i don't respect it.
I'm a woman I went though the worse in my life.
May God be the glory stay focus take care of yourself and keep God on your side. God bless you and your family.
Im so glad you did this video thanks
You know that RUclips thinks we're gullible in this algorithm because of the ads associated with the channel. Lol. Love ya brother 👍
I just moved out from Hell. A toxic town (Cult mentality). I was the target, I got this job at school but only because Their goal was to destroy my life, my health and my children's life. My family suffered, the bully, the isolation, The lack of opportunities. Yeah. I got fired after 5 years.
The best gift..the children's smile and love.
We are a new place. But They don't want to accept our new life and peace .
I'm good. ty TJ.
Preach it.
Amen, loving the solitude rn after saying what I wanted to say.
3:35 SO TRUEugh.
Sooo true!
Thank you 😊
Jack of all all trades, master of none, though oftentimes better than a master of one.
Liking your content-ive pretty much pushed everyone out of my life throughout my 20's- challenging now time to begin mastering self discipline
That's right ❤ exactly on point!
You must be an Aries like me
I set myself apart as a young kid, I dressed different, I even spoke different, but it wasn't until much later on in my adult life I moved away to a beautiful town. I needing tell you I was shunned yet they were watching everything, I had to block them all and cut ties. Since I'm so much more peaceful ,.
Very simple make goals ,write them down every year,read them everyday,make short term simple goals make some harder goals,make a list of five or more,and go for it,have tunnel vision and remember if you shoot for the stars u will hit the moon,but if you shoot for a rock u will just hit ground,and write a date that you should hit the goal.Remember tead it every day and you will move in that direction and thats a fact,i did it.
I already know thease people cant be trusted it has even got to the point i feel nothing for family family will stab you in the back time and time there the worst out of everyone that will do this freinds do it because they think they like you and really dont
I'm a nice honest guy, im successful most ppl h8t me eventually, its a mystery I'm trying 2 figure out...