I think you’re introducing a different type of attraction. She was referring to visual attraction (when your eyes connect to something you like), and you seem to be referring to a spiritual attraction (when your core connects with another’s). Both aren’t always present at the same time, but if we are talking about love…yes, a spiritual attraction does override a visual attraction. And, yes, both being present is ideal but quite rare.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Sadia’s description of love is further proof that narcissists only love themselves and hate others. Narcissists would never undermine their own ego. Narcissists see everyone else’s needs as a burden.
To be love long term, we need to work on giving ourselves selflessly. To serve one another in love without be trampled on. Especially the egoist must serve another.
Giving too much to your partner is nowadays seen as a weakness.. Never go head over heels. Keep it within you even if you are madly and deeply in love.
Love is real and unconditional. Love for life. Attraction is fake and conditional. Lust/attraction is good as long as the thing that attracts you remains the same, youthful age, youthful attractive looks, money, success, power, etc But once those things are gone (youthful looks and age changes after 10, 20, 30, 40, 50, 60 Years of marriage). People can loose their successful jobs, cancer and health issues, lose their home or job, then people will walk away from their partner or stay and cheat on their partner, once those things that attracted them are no longer there.
Everything is dumb when you realize that the person you love don't love you back🙃 you can't change someone's feelings towards you, if they want to take advantage of you, they will. Without thinking how much you love them.
We don't create Love, Love comes naturally. We live at a time when most people are attracted to everything shallow, everything Worldly, and Love is not in the equation. If One has to create Love, or make Themselves Love Someone, the relationship or situation will not work...
every person Lives a different lifestyle no one is perfect we all Have made our mistakes in life relationships and so many other things that we as Humanity go through we Learn from it as we grow older
The fact we are even talking about this problem in this new era is quite sad and silly... we haven't moved passed all this we seem to have gone backwards
? What do mean? You realize most people weren't raised in love or guidance. The whole point of the life existence is to learn and teach. Your lesson is probably patience and compassion.
Attraction is more mystical than LOVE??? Since when???? Do you all know what LOVE is or truly means? That's where you need to do the work and make the right choice in making a decision between LOVE and lust!!! No judgment towards anyone, I know how hard this can be.
True love is a choice and not feelings. However, let’s be real I’ve been married and I know after ten plus years after our good looks ( which was the driving force to get together) fade what are we attracted to? Because myself and 99% of married adults realize the attraction and excitement of omg you look so good I wanna kiss you feeling is not there. It just isn’t. Everything in sex is more routine and yes every once in a while the person looks hot. Everything she said is right. Attraction is mystical and I don’t know how to get it back to the level it once was. Attraction is not lust.
I told my homegirls that there's a difference between been pretty and been attractive, I can think you're the prettiest woman in the world and not find you one but attractive but you can be ok looking but I can find you the most desirable woman ever.
No volume?? Well thats a sign from god. Lol. I try not to listen to a bunch of videos a day trying to tell me & shape me into something or someone so he's attracted, in love, etc. She does have a lot of good advice & ik when im just attracted to someone & also how I feel, howeverr sometimes u have to put your feelings aside. 10 videos per day isnt healthy to watch. It will have u questioning everything. Just be yourself & the right one will love u for u or not.
Small people cannot love.. Big people carry beauty within.. they are natural lovers.. And this girl is right. If it is hard for you to meet someone's needs and you are unkind then you dont love that person. You'd better find another one..
This woman irks me. Attraction is mystical but love is a skill? Yet, when stylists work with people to create new looks for people, they clearly know how to make someone more attractive. Certain communication skills can make you more attractive. What's often difficult and mystical is love. God is love! If that's not the most mystical statement there is, I don't know what mystical is. God is spirit. The spiritual is mystical by default. The ability to love unconditionally, the ability to love a world that has largely turned its back on you, the ability to allow blessings to fall on the good as well as the bad... All of it is mysterious. Yet we call, the greatest and most enduring thing in the universe less mystical than basic attraction. It's human wisdom and not very good wisdom at that.
I think you’re misunderstanding what she was referring to. She was saying figuring out why attraction works or doesn’t work is a mystery, even one someone meets all of the aesthetics you’re typically attracted by. Whereas the reason why love can be more easily understood is because it is the removal of the ego, in a biblical sense that would be the removal of pride. So she technically gave some explanation within your realm, respectfully.
@BermudaGrass I get what she was saying. The nuances of attraction can be difficult to pin down especially for each individual person. We all have likes or dislikes that can turn us on or off to reasonably attractive people. But what she says about attraction being mystical whereas love being simply a skill is far from truth. I used the reference to the love of God to highlight the ridiculousness of such a comparison, but even in the realm of romantic or familial love such as the love of a mother for a child, comparing that love to being a skill just doesn't make sense to me. The bond of family and that of romantic couples suggests a much more indepth relationship built not just by skill but by intrinsic factors that supercede skill and are far more intangible and even mystical than we are often able to understand and appreciate. Just listen to the mountains worth of poetry that has been written paying tribute to the mystical nature of love. Such things are just not done for attraction. This is why I find this statement misleading because just a little bit of thought into the nature of love vs that of attraction tells me that the mystery of love far surpasses that of attraction. Learning to eliminate ego is an important skill upon which deeper more sustainable love can be built, but that alone is not the key to love anymore than saying the right pickup lines is the key to building attraction. There's so much more to it than that. This is why I say that reducing love to being a set of skills compared to the mystery of attraction is so disingenuous and just doesn't make good sense.
Attraction must be the first step, and love is more. But is it from both sides? If you have a question mark here, is it correct to continue that way? I am not sure. A one side relationship is insane, isn't it?
Oh, I don't know - maybe it's something called ''intuition'' - and the reason you can't pinpoint on why you don't like them is because they remind of something your subconscious dislikes but you aren't aware of it yet.
i don’t agree ! sometimes psychology doesn’t get it right for example , when i see a beautiful woman, like our psychotherapist , i feel love in the air , & am attracted to her, therefore love & attraction are one entity that cannot be separated , we cannot hold a coin & think it has only one side 😉
Thats why atttraction in more honest, mystic and valuable for me. Because of her definition you can love everyone if you decide, but thats not true. I tried to love a man i wasnt really attracted to and finally i lfet him... its advice for old desperate women. Without sexual attraction there is no love
Hey Sadia don’t forget,you have an 3:30 pm with the toll brothers,about building your house over in the red section,There actually giving you a good price on the square footage,
Call it intuition, can't pinpoint why, but for a long time now - every time i see her (Sadia) I just get a bad feeling and everything she says with a grain of salt. I don't think her advice is constructive or evidence based. Most of the time i feel like she's speaking from her own perspective of what she believes society tries to portray.
Sadia dacă as putea acum alege din nou dintre iubire și o masca cu nutela lui suflețel as alege masca... atracția prin respingere îți taie respirația. Nu s făcuta ptr iubire, m am ales cu insomnie. Cind îl atacam ridem singura prin casa și eram fericita. (acum ne am zgâlțâit, despartit și blocat. ❤️)...
HONEY, JANEZ EGO IS REALLY HUGE. 100%.YOU CAN CHOOSE ANOTHER ONE. I REMEMBERED YOU WHEN YOU CYCLED TO WORK IN LJUBLJANA. I ADORED AND NOT JUST ME. RESPECT YOURSELF WOMAN. LEAVE HIM ALONE
Being in love is about attraction. Loving is about soul pull, meaning you feel connected to the person on a very deep level.
I think you’re introducing a different type of attraction. She was referring to visual attraction (when your eyes connect to something you like), and you seem to be referring to a spiritual attraction (when your core connects with another’s). Both aren’t always present at the same time, but if we are talking about love…yes, a spiritual attraction does override a visual attraction. And, yes, both being present is ideal but quite rare.
That is called attraction dear ...
@@iamnatlina Attraction can be on a superficial level.
Both can never be present at same time.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
It’s the aura you’re attracted to! Love grows with respect
Yes, you can tell when someone doesn't really love you when they don't make the effort to meet with you.
Sadia’s description of love is further proof that narcissists only love themselves and hate others. Narcissists would never undermine their own ego. Narcissists see everyone else’s needs as a burden.
Yes, love is all giving __ when both partners work together to uplift each other, that's a true love relationship.
To be love long term, we need to work on giving ourselves selflessly. To serve one another in love without be trampled on. Especially the egoist must serve another.
Giving too much to your partner is nowadays seen as a weakness.. Never go head over heels. Keep it within you even if you are madly and deeply in love.
Love is real and unconditional. Love for life.
Attraction is fake and conditional.
Lust/attraction is good as long as the thing that attracts you remains the same, youthful age, youthful attractive looks, money, success, power, etc
But once those things are gone (youthful looks and age changes after 10, 20, 30, 40, 50, 60 Years of marriage). People can loose their successful jobs, cancer and health issues, lose their home or job, then people will walk away from their partner or stay and cheat on their partner, once those things that attracted them are no longer there.
I respect the lady relationship advice on men and women Emotional issues
Everything is dumb when you realize that the person you love don't love you back🙃 you can't change someone's feelings towards you, if they want to take advantage of you, they will. Without thinking how much you love them.
To love someone deeply you must be first attracted to someone in some way at least!
Yeah love someone who are attracted to you.
Really elucidating theory I agree codependency an inverted narcissism doesn't work.❤😮
if that relationship didn't work out there's always some one else who will make you Happy
We don't create Love, Love comes naturally. We live at a time when most people are attracted to everything shallow, everything Worldly, and Love is not in the equation. If One has to create Love, or make Themselves Love Someone, the relationship or situation will not work...
I'm really attracted to this lady being so pretty an very very clever.😮❤
Don’t look for fireworks (body warning) look for the fireplace (not attracted at first but feels like home)
every person Lives a different lifestyle no one is perfect we all Have made our mistakes in life relationships and so many other things that we as Humanity go through we Learn from it as we grow older
The fact we are even talking about this problem in this new era is quite sad and silly... we haven't moved passed all this we seem to have gone backwards
? What do mean?
You realize most people weren't raised in love or guidance. The whole point of the life existence is to learn and teach.
Your lesson is probably patience and compassion.
Attraction is more mystical than LOVE??? Since when???? Do you all know what LOVE is or truly means?
That's where you need to do the work and make the right choice in making a decision between LOVE and lust!!!
No judgment towards anyone, I know how hard this can be.
True love is a choice and not feelings. However, let’s be real I’ve been married and I know after ten plus years after our good looks ( which was the driving force to get together) fade what are we attracted to? Because myself and 99% of married adults realize the attraction and excitement of omg you look so good I wanna kiss you feeling is not there. It just isn’t. Everything in sex is more routine and yes every once in a while the person looks hot. Everything she said is right. Attraction is mystical and I don’t know how to get it back to the level it once was. Attraction is not lust.
I like her❤😊
I told my homegirls that there's a difference between been pretty and been attractive, I can think you're the prettiest woman in the world and not find you one but attractive but you can be ok looking but I can find you the most desirable woman ever.
Finally I can agree with you. At this video only.
Speaking of love, that soundtrack is tight. I wish I knew the artist.
This is so true
No volume?? Well thats a sign from god. Lol. I try not to listen to a bunch of videos a day trying to tell me & shape me into something or someone so he's attracted, in love, etc. She does have a lot of good advice & ik when im just attracted to someone & also how I feel, howeverr sometimes u have to put your feelings aside. 10 videos per day isnt healthy to watch. It will have u questioning everything. Just be yourself & the right one will love u for u or not.
Small people cannot love..
Big people carry beauty within.. they are natural lovers..
And this girl is right. If it is hard for you to meet someone's needs and you are unkind then you dont love that person. You'd better find another one..
💯 right ❤
This woman irks me. Attraction is mystical but love is a skill? Yet, when stylists work with people to create new looks for people, they clearly know how to make someone more attractive. Certain communication skills can make you more attractive. What's often difficult and mystical is love. God is love! If that's not the most mystical statement there is, I don't know what mystical is. God is spirit. The spiritual is mystical by default. The ability to love unconditionally, the ability to love a world that has largely turned its back on you, the ability to allow blessings to fall on the good as well as the bad... All of it is mysterious. Yet we call, the greatest and most enduring thing in the universe less mystical than basic attraction. It's human wisdom and not very good wisdom at that.
I think you’re misunderstanding what she was referring to. She was saying figuring out why attraction works or doesn’t work is a mystery, even one someone meets all of the aesthetics you’re typically attracted by. Whereas the reason why love can be more easily understood is because it is the removal of the ego, in a biblical sense that would be the removal of pride. So she technically gave some explanation within your realm, respectfully.
@BermudaGrass I get what she was saying. The nuances of attraction can be difficult to pin down especially for each individual person. We all have likes or dislikes that can turn us on or off to reasonably attractive people. But what she says about attraction being mystical whereas love being simply a skill is far from truth. I used the reference to the love of God to highlight the ridiculousness of such a comparison, but even in the realm of romantic or familial love such as the love of a mother for a child, comparing that love to being a skill just doesn't make sense to me. The bond of family and that of romantic couples suggests a much more indepth relationship built not just by skill but by intrinsic factors that supercede skill and are far more intangible and even mystical than we are often able to understand and appreciate. Just listen to the mountains worth of poetry that has been written paying tribute to the mystical nature of love. Such things are just not done for attraction. This is why I find this statement misleading because just a little bit of thought into the nature of love vs that of attraction tells me that the mystery of love far surpasses that of attraction. Learning to eliminate ego is an important skill upon which deeper more sustainable love can be built, but that alone is not the key to love anymore than saying the right pickup lines is the key to building attraction. There's so much more to it than that. This is why I say that reducing love to being a set of skills compared to the mystery of attraction is so disingenuous and just doesn't make good sense.
True, but what if one partner is egoistic and the other is not?
Attraction must be the first step, and love is more. But is it from both sides? If you have a question mark here, is it correct to continue that way? I am not sure. A one side relationship is insane, isn't it?
Oh, I don't know - maybe it's something called ''intuition'' - and the reason you can't pinpoint on why you don't like them is because they remind of something your subconscious dislikes but you aren't aware of it yet.
My Biggest Fear Is Getting Hurt 😥😥😥
By Somebody I Already Explain My
Pains To✌✌✌✌✌
You can’t love someone when you first see them bottom line.
i don’t agree ! sometimes psychology doesn’t get it right for example ,
when i see a beautiful woman, like our psychotherapist , i feel love in the air , & am attracted to her, therefore love & attraction are one entity that cannot be separated , we cannot hold a coin & think it has only one side 😉
Thats why atttraction in more honest, mystic and valuable for me. Because of her definition you can love everyone if you decide, but thats not true. I tried to love a man i wasnt really attracted to and finally i lfet him... its advice for old desperate women. Without sexual attraction there is no love
Pure love baby girl ❤
Love is a four letter word.😂
😮😂😂
Hey Sadia don’t forget,you have an 3:30 pm with the toll brothers,about building your house over in the red section,There actually giving you a good price on the square footage,
Qoute beautiful Praba sister...
If u r immature then ur love is nothing but Attraction only ...
If u r mature, then may be it is love ..
Now question is, are u mature?? 🤔
B
I had to 😢
Remove all the ego
Call it intuition, can't pinpoint why, but for a long time now - every time i see her (Sadia) I just get a bad feeling and everything she says with a grain of salt. I don't think her advice is constructive or evidence based. Most of the time i feel like she's speaking from her own perspective of what she believes society tries to portray.
Wow i'm gonna say you are very , very beautiful
Sadia dacă as putea acum alege din nou dintre iubire și o masca cu nutela lui suflețel as alege masca... atracția prin respingere îți taie respirația. Nu s făcuta ptr iubire, m am ales cu insomnie. Cind îl atacam ridem singura prin casa și eram fericita. (acum ne am zgâlțâit, despartit și blocat. ❤️)...
Yes I would choose attraction even if fleeting it’s so strong and irrational
HONEY, JANEZ EGO IS REALLY HUGE. 100%.YOU CAN CHOOSE ANOTHER ONE. I REMEMBERED YOU WHEN YOU CYCLED TO WORK IN LJUBLJANA. I ADORED AND NOT JUST ME. RESPECT YOURSELF WOMAN. LEAVE HIM ALONE
BS
Women don't know wtf they want. 😂
Utter rubbish masquerading as wisdom. 😅 Someone should tell her, please.
We dont need any advice from terrorists
How is she a terrorist?? Just bc she’s Muslim?!! How ignorant and foolish you are!
😂 wt f dude