How To Spot An INFJ Instantly
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- Опубликовано: 27 мар 2021
- To understand an INFJ, one must realize that an INFJ does not exist.
Rather, the INFJ is a paradoxical truth of the world we live in.
And as some may know, this world is just a dream.
Therefore, does it really exists?
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Yes, kind of sums up INFJ struggle. We exist in one sense but not another 🤣
Being an INFJ is great because as a nurse it comes in so useful and my patients love me because I can relate to them and I know what they are saying and feeling. However, at times it is a curse. If I get overwhelmed or work too many shifts I become physically, mentally, and psychologically drained. I love people but hate them at the same time. When people ask me to describe myself, I say “I am the walking contradiction of everything!”
@@mariachristopher836 I can imagine being a nurse and INFJ would be exhausting. ISFJ probably could handle it better maybe.
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One of the things that scares me about being an INFJ is the ability to empathize with people no matter how wrong or evil they are. It's not that I condone these things, but I just can't help seeing their point of view, putting myself in a neutral position, and seeing where I can find points of agreement.
It might be due to the fact that "evil" is a matter of perspective - someone who steals from the rich and gives to the poor would be a villain in the eyes of one but a savior to others.
I believe there's no such thing as good or bad but rather a difference in perspective. Where one could say something is "evil", I'd say is when it impedes upon another's free will.
Same!
Yess!
As an infj I know what you mean. For me it goes beyond that. I got screwed by a narc. Besides learning about myself, selfcare, bounderies and the fact that i am an infj. In order to recognise them I studied their behaviour. The dark triade are definately evil. If you have no empathy (/humanity, capacity to feel or love) and purposefully harm others for money, attention and control....yeah thats evil. But the horrible part of being an infj is....part of me is the objective observer...its fascinating to me. I didn't know its that easy to manipulate, control or destroy a person to their very core. They hardly do anything and their victim destroys themselves from within while completely loyal to them. Part of me is wondering if you can use it for good. The ability is neither good nor evil...it just is...the intend behind it from the user is what makes it good or evil. And in ways its simular to what infj's do. We see your core trauma and know how to heal it while a narc uses it to destroy you with. But while we are hands on helping and getting not a thank you....the narc does hardly anything and gets praised. Its cause I don't think controlling others in any way is acceptable....I can see the tricks now and part of me thinks its fascinating.
@@maaiker2977 In order to help others one must understand what they are up against
The Dark Triad can be good or bad depending on how someone uses it - for example, an INFJ who once used it to harm others but then later on decides to teach it to others, how to watch out for it, how to defend yourself etc. would be considered a positive outcome
The problem I see is that no one even wants to explore that aspect, and thus, they can never defend themselves against it
"It takes a thief to catch a thief"
Everyone else when the covid lockdown began: "What, we have to isolate, I can't hang out with friends or go anywhere? This sucks!"
INFJ: "Woohoo, finally I get to be alone and I don't have to make any excuses!"
My life didn't change at all pre vs. post covid....
My life didn't change really....Fewer people driving was a plus.
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💯 😁😁😁
that's the spirit !
Infj is the most balanced yin/ yang; both masculine and femine; logical & emotional--like 2 people in 1 body.
So true. Thanks!
INFJ: understands everyone else but themselves.
Signs I exhibit,
I stare up alot, mostly at birds , clouds and trees.
I'm very careful where I step, as to avoid stepping on insects or little lizards and such. Not so much when I'm in a hurry.
I admire architecture. The thought and planning of construction more than the physical appeal.
I despise standing in lines and would rather be the last in a building or train, than to stand in a line.
I tend to stare at people when they are reacting to a situation.
Recently I have been wearing sun glasses in crowded places and feel naked without my Bluetooth ear pieces.
I'm always attracted to animals and will converse with them when I think no one is watching.
I get very passionate when speaking about injustices that I perceive to be.
But I may not be INFJ, just a really weird individual.
I hope you're having a really good day and if not, DON'T GIVE UP. You really don't know what could be around the corner.
Thank you.
Oh yeah, I'm very polite, at first.
I hope you have a wonderful day as well ^_^
Have ya gotten a response from the animals yet?
uh, felt like i was reading my life, either we're both weird or both INFJs
Wait! Talking to animals makes you weird? Whom ever thinks is weird they are the weird ones. Lol. Guess I’m super super weird cause I even talk to the trees and flowers and etc. Anything with energy and life. I think they can feel my energy and sometimes I feel theirs. I love being weird I guess.
I relate to everything, I even want to be an architect
Your not weird your could very well be an infj.
This is the best advice I can give anyone who is an INFJ empath. Things are getting really crazy out there. I know that I have had a very rough life from beginning to now. I’m 49. My daughter is an empath my mother is an empath and I’m pretty sure my grandpa was too. If you are an empath, please protect yourself right now. You can’t help everybody and you are not responsible for feeling everybody’s pain. You have a right to put yourself first and given the fact that we are literally watching the world burn down around us…….
Thanks. I needed that. I am so disgusted with the world and so sad for the people who are suffering. And I feel so alone because I just can’t participate in most shallow rituals of our shallow society nor do I want to be a depressing wet blanket, so I just avoid people as much as possible. I wish I could join a monastery and spend my life in quiet contemplation.
I have thought of being a monk after my husband died.
It's both a blessing and a curse, I have so much in my shoulders and no one to lean on. It's not like I need them all the time but when the need comes they're never there. They believe I'll figure it out
No one will ever know an INFJ suffers, but an INFJ is always acutely aware of when others are :)
This is the first time I've ever heard "And he, unfortunately lost the war." in regards to Hitler. Lmaooo! 🤣 Also "The problem was that Hitler took that little bit too far." Bruh! I'm rolling on the floor!
I meant unfortunately as in his desire to achieve his dreams was thwarted, less so about the war XD
@@brianon4049 I know, I just thought it was strangely phrased which made it verry funny
I think that’s how we should approach history, we INFJs see things from other people’s perspective. And that’s how everyone should do, that’s the only way to understand history as it is, without judging it’s people by our common universal moral standards.
@@lolatolqinjonova3569 Maturity is the ability to see things from other's perspectives, but people don't because in no way does it benefit them
If only they realized the truth...
@Flora Braswell Who are you even talking to? I tried to apply it to all the comments but it didn't make sense for any of them..
Oh, edit: Also, idk why a hi five was in order..
I've watched a few Hitler's speeches and the half of his magic was mainly about walking in, smiling at people, welcoming them, showing his interest, and then he started his "Neining".
Thank you so much for this ☺️I’m a natural born Empath /INFJ and your right life is damn hard being one ! I’m so lonely as no one understands me and I can’t find love ( been a while now ) and I crave it . I make my men feel like on top of the world but being single my theory is no one is good enough for me. I also can be over caring and yet evil to the core ! X
In my experience, it is better to be single than lonely - if it is meant to be then the universe will find a way, and if not, then you have eternity to find the loyal companion within to be with ^-^
So true! Much better to be single than lonely!!
Hmm.. Prob shouldn’t type him but if he existed, he was human and imperfect. IMHO :)
This is so me. When I'm in a relationship with someone, I make him feel like he's king, but then suddenly I can also just leave him point blank with no explanation.
Can I just take the time to say how much I appreciate the fact you talked about Hitler. I studied Hitler (& Germany for the interwar/war years) in History and I've read a couple of books on him as well and felt like I actually understood him - and that scared me. I am in no way a tyrant nor a malicious person but a lot of Hitler's traits are almost relatable, he's the epitomy of when an INFJ turns too dark. Of course he is one of the worst people in history but I can't help but understand him, and I think only an INFJ would. It's a sensitive topic and only INFJs would be mature enough to talk about. But THANK YOU!!
Appreciate your comment and your willingness to delve deeper!
I feel as though INFJ's are the only(?) personality type that's actually willing to dive off the deep end into the depths of the darkness that awaits them. Compared to other types, they simply just steer clear of it and never really examine what's underneath, which can lead to a lot of repressed issues and trauma later on in their lives.
We don't know for sure what made Hitler turn to the dark side. But we can learn from history and hopefully, avoid going down that same route!
Personality types doe's not prevent you from having mental illness or breakdown.
To be able to see everything as it really is, not a strong human trait.
Todays society seems to be more concerned with what people might think of them, being politically correct and virtue signalling.
Real self-improvement /awareness and acknowledging there is a darker side to us rearly get to surface.
Can we really evolve if we can't see our flaws and weaknesses?
@@onnik-k7584 We cannot - that's why society hasn't yet, but we're getting there :)
Yes!! I completely agree with you. I don't agree with Hitler, but I do understand where he was coming from. I'm also afraid to say this things cause people tend to think that if we understand that means we agree, and that's not the case at all.
How can you decide if something is worthy for you if you don't fully understand it? Plus how can you be sure you are not recreating the same exact storyline if you don't fully and deeply know it?
Unfortunately this way to process things make us really easy to access by psychopaths, sociopaths and narcissists too...
Oh man, spot on! Probably the best and most accurate description of an INFJ
Thank you for breaking through the emotional stereotyping. Unfortunately, we've lost the ability
to be objective. You have demonstrated the paradox well.
We've never had it to begin with. Objectivity per se is an illusion, unachievable by humans at least.
Our ability to think in big pictures, can shift our empathy off in a way. It makes us look at it through concepts. But that same subject can make us empathize so much when we tune in on a 'small picture' perspective again
I knew I used my hands a lot when I explain things. After you referring to tied hands, I realize now I always do it. Great video, I am now subscribing. The way you iterate is very similar to my own. I would say you have great potential to fill an unfulfilled niche in this community. Listening or reading to what other INFJs have to say is a mix of relieving, empowering, and enlightening
Thank you for your support my friend! Glad to have you with us 😊
Thanks bro , agree to certain points .keep on sharing more videos. 🙏
'"He unfortunately lost the war" 😂😂😂
Very accurate feedback. I didn't know body language is an infj characteristic. Thanks. Great video.
Lol...yes, I usually use my power altruistically. However, I have used it manipulatively. I told my competitive sister that I love a very expensive handbag that I cannot afford knowing that would cause her to buy it just to have something I want and I knew she would get bored of it and soon lend or give the bag to me. My sister is very easy to mess with.
Are you sure she won't read this comment XD
@@brianon4049 Yup...nifj is also a master of deception and keeping secrets, remember? She doesn't even know my RUclips alias "Vanessa" nor has any clue about MBTI.
Ohh no your good lol I believe that we are great manipulators I believe in a good way just to get what we need from a situation if that makes sense
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Hmm....
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Thank you so much, great in-depth advice.
After a soul crushing, controlling relationship, I no longer care about others needs over my own. It taught me to be selfish and put myself first.
First person to hit the walking contradiction part . Of the INFJ life . I often go back and forth with giving a crap about people and just wanting everything to go away (for me to be in my own space ) for awhile .
According to spirituality, one cannot appreciate what they have without occasionally immersing themselves in the opposite.
Perhaps that's why we walk the grey zone between worlds
This one is amazing! 💯
I'm an INFJ girl. And I could relate almost everything you said LOL
Excellent summary! Takes one to know one...❤️🙏🏼
Thank you for the post!! You’re wonderful
No u ^-^
Great video! Thanks
Thanks for watching :D
Great job, well worded. Nice choice of words on Hitler, and really awesome on the "lie but for good reason" i also do that but dont feel bad because its not to hurt or to help me but make sure one gets the desired point because its so hard to choose all the correct words when i think in such abstract form. Really good job 👌👏👏
That's so precise. Two in one. Now I see why I have been struggling with my own paradox! And now I feel really sorry for the ones who have to deal with me. If I have to fight my own duality, poor everyone else!
Everyone to an extent has a duality - INFJs are just more aware of it (and IMO the most likely to realize and balance it out) :D
Thank you, this video is so helpful :)
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Hilarious.... when an infj goes bad, you get Adolf Hitler 🤣
I've been fighting off the dark side my whole life and try my best to follow the light
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Well spoken I see I'm not alone glad to know you guys are alive
We are alive and well - huddled in our own tiny caves watching the world pass us by ^_^
(You can find more of us in the Discord :D )
Subscribed also bro. Thanks again.
this was one of a handful of videos that actually grabbed and kept my full attention lol
Love seeing real INFJs doing videos about INFJs 😂
I'm over 50 years old and always had these issues. Im so happy to find out why.
73 ans, même chose.
wow that was so spot on yes i loved it
I so agree with everything you stated.
You know face reveals? This is a personality type reveal, and it's way better
UwU
No lies were told in this video....👍
i love this insight...
Animated. You Sir nailed this. 😳☠️
Good video.
Very good summary of an INFJ.
Also, your video just helped me realize something... I’m not going to be able to make an impact on the world with my face buried in YT. I am going to get back out there in the realm of psychotherapy and pound the pavement one person at a time because there is a whole population of other types that can be helped that would never come across typology. Thank you for sparking my fire.
I used to think really clever people were always the odd and geeky sort. Being an INFJ, I was not quite like that, being more human-connected but also distant in a different way. Now I know about MBTI, so much makes sense now which previously didn’t. It’s not as simple, as many say/think, that we simply ‘are what we are, love on!’
NO, for an INFJ especially, typology allows much greater self-knowledge which is sooo powerful. It’s truly one of the greatest gifts an INFJ could obtain. In particular, it can help us find our path much quicker in life.
🤦🏾me to life: "how did i get myself into this?" What, did i get myself into?🤦🏾
I can’t get enough of the infj observation & conversation below... all of you are so beautiful and unique! The universe loves us for enduring the dark to make sense of it all for human kind. Go team infj! I love you guys
We love you as well ^_^
@@brianon4049 The cover photo.... you talked a lot about hitler but nothing of Jesus... why did you place his photo there next to hitlers? just curious
@@skywalker5thwrld Many people think he's an INFJ as well - I wanted to showcase the dual polarity of the INFJ and how one can become either one :)
@@brianon4049 oh that is so beautiful! I'm in love with your mind... where have you heard Jesus is an infj? I think that would be 100% correct I just am VERY curious where you may have heard of this fact...
YES! A combination of every other type! Long before I did MBTI I took tests that showed me as almost equal in every area and it disappointed me because I couldn't label myself when everyone else could,lol. Now I get it and, also, really can see almost any perspective about any given thing....but regardless, still know which is the *right* thing to do, lol.
One of usssss
This video is a masterpiece, i always found scaring how i could always understand everyone point of view no matter how evil they can be, of course i don't but i understand why they think the way they do. There's so much i'd love to say but i think this video said pretty much everything. Keep up the good work!
Proud of being an INFJ even though it can be a curse sometimes
Being able to understand people regardless of why they do something - such a trait is known as being enlightened in Eastern cultures :)
Be proud of how open minded you are!
Everything’s he says is really true. Also I read one of articles says they can be both practical and theoretical.
Dude! A long time ago one of my supervisors told me to stop moving my hands while I talked and I literally couldn't think of anything to say!
Trippy.
Thanks for your video.
Shalom.
Peace and love to you my friend!
Loved it! I’ve read a lot about Hitler. I’m convinced he was an ESTJ. Not sure why he’s typed as INFJ.
Also, my favorite quote, and could be the INFJ motto: “Do I contradict myself? Very well, then I contradict myself. I am large. I contain multitudes.” Walt Whitman
Spot on!!!! I love to go out for lunch or brunch or dinner... but I do love to break the ice with servers by making a joke. Keeping the engery light.. for my comfort I think.. my spouse hates it. But you are so right! I wish I had a real group to join.
As an INFJ, to avoid being drained too often i have learned to say "no" to people who wants my help. I help people who needs my help.
“Unfortunately? lost”
Never known that gesture thing, wow. Thanks! And how did you discover that?
Used myself as a test subject 😃
Thank you ❤️
1:25 sooo true, this whole thing! Was brought about me yesterday when being with 5 friends, and I was talking with a banana in my hand and it cought the Se and Ne-doms attention and it became a "fun thing" LOL. I always do that. Can NOT not do it!
Great video man! =)
I too like to use banana's as well to help me speak! =)
@@brianon4049 Hahahha
Thank you 😊
No u 😊
It all depends how people treat us or if we are tired, drained and need space to recharge ❤️
Hello fellow INFJ! Thanks for sharing. Yes...yes yes..
How strange to find these traits you speak of which are so pertaining to me and i had NO clue!!! Used to be always in a clueless cycle of people pleasing, energy drained, seeking solitude...at my older age, i have started putting real effort to analysing my own self. But i shudder to think of INFJ Hitler! Can an INFJ really go that far? But thanks for your analysis....
Wow, you’ve absolutely nailed my newfound position on Hitler, which is something I understandably cannot share with anyone I know. I’m also half Ashkenazi, which makes my ideas even more taboo, I guess. Seeing how America will do absolutely anything to control the narrative, and therefore the world, makes what you said, and what I agree with, not a big stretch. But we’ve experienced 80 years of thought control regarding WW2, and considering most people aren’t capable of nuance in the way we are, I understand why they can’t see it from this perspective.
"Tell a lie, tell it long enough and the people will believe it." - A.H
I think many people don't want to acknowledge such a perspective because they've been told what to believe for so long. To see another perspective would be to admit they were wrong, which our ego's prevent us from doing 🙂
I’m an INFJ-T from Singapore … nice to encounter your video
Singapore is a nice country :D
That’s pretty crazy because like I will go through many videos and be disturbed and annoyed by them however when it’s a infJ I am automatically just glued and appreciate watching their videos. Yes I’m an entp
Saying hello to you my fellow infj brotherin from Texas 👋 hope you have a great day 😃
Hope you have a great day too, partner :D
WOW... I really use my hands and head while talking, didn't know why I couldn't stop that, and my friends told that I make a lot of facial expressions while talking, like I'm acting out what I say😄🙈 (I really ❤ deep conversations).Lately I found out I'm an INFJ and sigma female, well, that explains🤭😋💚
I always thought I didn't move when speaking to others (I always wasn't a fan when seeing others move a lot when speaking) but I recorded a video of myself doing presentation and I was so shocked. Moving my hands around was one thing but i looked like i was talking to them with my head being somewhere else, in another world😂 I understand the comment people say how we look inside and try to convey what we are trying to say in are head. I see it now.
My teacher got annoyed like really really annoyed with how long it took me to answer a really simple question. Id try to think but because the questions were so suddenly asked and tricky to prosses as quickly as she wanted. I forget all thoughts and went blank every time. It confused her because my work written down is nearly perfect.
We understand everyone but no one understands us so we don't socialise much 🤣😂
As an INTJ I admire ability of INFJs to be visionary and bridge the gap between empathy and logic.
Jung himself most likely was an INFJ, so was Dostoevsky. And so were Hitler and Manson
In all of them it can be seen how NiFeTi stack could be used for understanding and connecting psychology and feelings to a logical structure.
Jung and Dostoevsky used that to write great works on human nature.
Hitler to lead the nation. And Manson to lead a cult
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Im an infj guy, we took something weird and made it weirder. There are more girls than guys..theres slight differences. But lots of similarities.
Oh also im Gen Xer, we are very concerned about how others feel. We feel deeply hurt deeper. We lnow the pain and really do want others to feel it. So we internalize it. Its what we do f*** hit*er
You probably think you’re unique but you’re a majority. Other countries are purposely building a stoic and masculine based society. Americans are making emotional men, not ready for war.
What does gen xer mean?
@@nimrarashid552 people born between 1970-1984. But Google to make sure about the dates. The Generation after Boomers, before Millennials.
Yes! Having guests or just in a conversion I want other person to feel comfortable.
“He unfortunately lost the war” holy crap dude.
Thank you so much for the video..i found out i am INFJ a few days ago..i always thought i was strange.but now i know its a gift.....ps change battery on smoke alarm.il be amazed if im rite about that noise.
If there is something what I would really wish for , then for change it would be nice to someone understands me the way I understand others. 💙
And I found very helpful walking on the beach or in a forest whenever I need to recharge my energy. Being at home doesn't help me too much, being around people is very exhausting most of the times . 🌞
Nature is an INFJs best friend :)
Essaye la méditation, ça me réussit bien.
@@octobre4623 Thank you for your advice 💙! Merry Christmas 🎄! 😇
I am very independent and intuitive and balanced my feminine and my masculine and I am a master when it comes to communicating and influence but I am an introvert I stay in mostly all the time but when I do get out I get attention and then I have to race back home lol I feel everything and everyone and if it doesn't feel right oh no I am just learning to transmute that energy
My Nan is very closed minded, it grates me. She looks down on people a lot, like people with addiction problems or mental health and says things like, 'Well, youve either got an addictive personality or you aint!', while swigging her vodka. Yeh, like life and people are THAT simple Nan. 😑
Also to explain the care about people don’t care about people in a different way as another infj.
We care about people in general, but individually we know everyone is human and no one is perfect. So individually we’re not really fond of getting close.
How is your head line in your palm ? Large and straight ? Are you Pisces ascendant ?
this is like judging a character by the temple gates they have entered from.
I was able to make my class not show up on Halloween without realizing I had manipulated them. I simply asked the class by a show of hands who was planning to not be there on Halloween. The 4 or 5 who didn't raise their hand said why not? And so we had Halloween nite free! 😂😝👍
idk why am i crying LOL but finally someone who understands me !:) i badly want to send this to my family, i never understand myself and this video just describe me, earlier me and my sister got into a fight we fought cuz she said she hates mom (the sentence is not rlly that at all but something like that) and i said something like uh i forgot but they said im too empathic, but not in a good way she said her feelings dont matter to me but its not true though. i cried cuz when shes abt to vent im always there to listen, then she said her feelings dont matter to me :/ i started crying. im just seeing it thru different perspectives like what my mom thinks in that time and what she thinks too. i honestly hate being an infj but i always watch things like this cuz its the only thing that understands me, i just wish people can read my mind. im only 13 yrs old and i love mbti/psychology it just describes my life and anything :D i subscribed i love ur videos ur so cool ^^
Thank you for your kind words Maria!
INFJs are typically more mature than their peers at a young age, thus, don't feel bad about your ability to see things from others perspectives - it takes time for others to catch up ;)
Nobody has understood me in 57 years ,....I'm 62 years old now. LOL !
Hang in there kid , look on the bright, you won't have to share the snacks and drinks with the other people on movie night. LOL !
@@kuangtien3980 this made my day!!! tysm! and sorry for that :( i wish u the best in ur life :D
The gesture thing is absolutely true. When I was in 8th grade my classmates used to pick on me because of that. They said it annoys them and told me not to talk at all to stop it lmao. Today yeah I still do it but learned that its not some stupid movements and actually a way of expressing.
Ironic how the best speakers in the world incorporate gestures to make themselves more enticing - ignore your classmates!
Definitely don't feel as an infj to kill anyone. This might have been too long and the smoke batteries needs changed 😆 however I do like a great team around me and I am a leader. Capricorn too. Learning still about infj... my therapist is helping me... because I didn't even know personality types existed.
I tried to post a comment here about Hitler, but it appears that youtube automatically censored it.
I wonder what the comment was
I agree we can identify with all of the MBTI
Literally could not have described me better😩
I' m all of the things you said...i speak slower and pause a lot...so what it takes someone else 30 secs to say it takes me a min and a half lol...
Thank you for this my fellow INFJer😌
Yet if we were to type it it would take only a fraction of that time :D
- From one INFJ to another
@@brianon4049 truth lol
It depends for me, I can speak very fast when I'm talking about something I've thought a lot about and formed an opinion
@@homersimpson3127 yeah i think we're pretty swift when we know exactly what and how we want to say
Fire alarm batteries need to be replaced. Otherwise great video
Lol, was gonna say the same.
Hi Brian. I am an INFJ too. I am not sure who made the determination that Hitler was an INFJ: I really believe a better fit would be the ENTJ. Like that terrible chef that scares people on tv. I read that he is an ENTJ. I heard it said that he said “ I may be a jerk but at least I am an efficient jerk”. Wouldn’t that be a better fit for Hitler? I read the ENTJ are called the Commander. That is what Hitler was.
Agreed
We don't lie though, if we say it, we believe it.
I’m starting to use Fi more often, even tho I’m a Fe user
infj functions as if everyone is infj! that's how they operate normally. it's their gift and their curse in this greedy competitive world we live! 😉🔥
He was able to do this-
By being, the ultimate narcopath.
His MASK, was what made him capable, of “connecting with others”… incapable of genuine empathy/sympathy..
Other than that-great explanation
If you believe that part of being a narcissist is having an elevated sense of self, then how could Hitler be one? He offed himself. A sociopath definitely wouldn’t do that. Look at the state the world is in right now. It’s not good. Hitler probably saw it coming, and wanted to do whatever he felt necessary to prevent getting to where we are now.
Audio really yyyyyy loow. But great video
I have a question if hello was a iron of Jay one of the 16 rarest personality on Earth And they are empathetic to the highest how Hitler became a duchbag?
If an INFJ turns to their shadow, most likely it is because they are simply fed up
INFJs are hyper aware of how their actions and words will affect others around them, however, other people do not reciprocate the same capabilities.
This leads to the INFJ always making sure they are making others feel comfortable but no one doing the same for them - it is like an INFJ choosing not to punch someone in the face yet everyone else they meet punches the INFJ in the face - eventually the INFJ will ask "Why exactly am I holding back when I am the only one suffering yet no one else seems to face retribution for their actions?"
When that happens,the INFJ becomes A.H 🙂
I'm having a really hard time understanding my cognitive functions. I do a lot of self-talk where I analyze myself but still can't figure out if I'm ENFJ or INFJ. I have always been convinced that I am ENFJ but since I met my roommate (a real ENFJ) I started to have many doubts. From the official test the result has always been INFP but both my friends and I absolutely do not believe in this result. I have many INFP friends and have nothing to do with them. When I am with them I am sure of my being ENFJ but when I am with other personalities ... I have my doubts. Now, I need someone to help me, so if anyone could help to understand me I would be eternally grateful. Let's start with the explanation: I am very good at socializing and pleasing people but I am almost never the first to take the first step and I struggle to maintain long-term relationships. I am lazy and I need to spend most of my time alone, away from everyone. On the contrary, when I am in company I can be the soul of the party. I am very moody and my energies tend not to be constant. For my friends, I'm the first person they think they can turn to if they need to talk or need advice in general. I have an innate ability to calm people down with a few words. No matter who they are, I always know what to say when it comes to calming or empathizing someone. Very often my empathy focuses on understanding the other person's point of view, rather than absorbing their feelings. People tend to open up about their life and their fears right away, even if they don't know me. I am good at listening and I am very diplomatic when dealing with other people. But I can be VERY loud, naughty and shameless if I feel like it at the time or if I'm surrounded by shy or calm people. While in the midst of extremely noisy people I could behave relatively calmly. My friends define myself as a perfect cross between logic and feeling. I have a very strong moral ethic, almost as a protagonist of some anime haha. I can't say no. I do everything to help those in front of me, also putting my needs aside often. It makes me feel good but in the long run it exhausts me and I start to harbor a grudge against people because I don't have the feeling that my commitment is understood or reciprocated. I have a fetish of embarrassing people. Being a person without any kind of taboos I like to see people's reactions when I tease them about what their taboos or limits are. Of course I never do that about those things that could hurt the person in front of me. I have always had an inferiority complex. I feel stupid and struggle to open up and trust people. I always have a feeling that they will use that information about me to categorize me into something I don't reflect in. I don't know if I have explained myself correctly. I hate categories. I don't like people telling me what to do or the thought that they think I'm doing something because it was recommended to me by them. But I get mad if others don't listen to my advice ahaha. As confident as I am in my sexuality, people call myself either a lesbian or a bisexual. I'm not a tomboy but I'm not very feminine either. I would define myself as a person exactly halfway between masculine and feminine energy. In short, these two energies coexist in me in very balanced manias. And apparently for people that should define your sexuality. Never heard of anything more discriminatory. I am a freak of order and cleanliness but in my life I am not a meticulous organizer and I tend to procrastinate anything, until there is no more time left. Analyzing everything I have done in the past: I can almost everything. In the sense, I have tried many things (never completed) and in retrospect I was good at everything I did. There was always a superior or an expert who told me about how much potential I had and objectively today I realize that I have wasted many opportunities for growth and the discovery of my potential, but my inferiority complex has never helped me. So today I'm a failure trying to graduate in painting and who doesn't do shit. But nevertheless I have had many opportunities in the past to get somewhere. Now stop. That's okay. If anyone has had enough patience to read this far ... thank you. PS: Someone help me understand my cognitive functions, fuck haha
PS: Sorry for my english, I'm italian and I wrote all this with google translator... because I'm lazy 😝✌🏻
You are most likely INFJ 🙂
Well if you really want to know the answer I suggest researching MBTI and cognitive functions in depth for yourself.
Particularly aspirational functions, polr functions.
Read about other infjs and types which have similar traits( enfj, intp etc)
Eventually you will learn so much about yourself and people it will be worth your time many times over
Thing is.. there are other facets to a person than personality.. for instance, I'm an INFJ with a 52% Feeling 48%Thinking function.. but I'm also a Choleric76% Melancholic 24% regarding my temperament.
I am a Questioner ( using Gretchen Rubin's 4 tendencies test). And so you can have an INFJ who is a Melancholic-Phlegmatic temperament or Mel-Chol etc.. or an INFJ who is an Obliger or a Rebel. I think these other combinations also explains why INFJ types differ from person to person.
I agree - a person's background will determine their other facets besides just MBTI and is in most cases the most accurate
For an overall picture though I like to use MBTI since a persons background is unique to them and it's difficult to account for everything that goes on
In explaining the trajectory of Hitler's life you demonstrated a very prominent INFJ trait, which was to acknowledge Hitler's positive contributions and not just going straight for the "morally congruent repulsion to his war crimes. Its not that his malevolence and pathological ideations are given pass. Its more of fundamental standard of approach that INFJs use as a frame work that's grounded in the bitter truths. its the bitter truths that will serve as our anchor for morality as well as the formwork that's used for casting more consistent and intellectually honest postulations.
Bitter truths are difficult to swallow let alone acknowledge
It is far easier to simply pretend they do not exist and to enjoy one's life without their pretense - what most people do not understand that INFJ's seem to have grasped is that life is worth living because it's bittersweet :)
Can you make a how to spot infp? Thank you
I'll see what I can do :)