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Brian On
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Hi I'm Brian! I'm a positive mindset coach to help people overcome bad emotional and logical thought habits.
I can help you to:
- Identify emotional trauma triggers from your childhood that influence how you behave
- Understand your own personal needs instead of pushing them away, and the truth behind what your true identity is before society influenced your behavior
- Come up with strategies to cope when you are having impulsive, unwanted thoughts, which are any thoughts that do not empower you - aim to bring you down into a state of low vibration, which is felt as emotions like guilt, sadness, anger, a need to rush
- Remember that you are not your thoughts, that you are a separate entity from them and that you don't always have to listen to what they say or try to influence you to act in ways that aren't aligned with who you are
- Put yourself first, even when feelings of guilt arise when you do so
I can help you to:
- Identify emotional trauma triggers from your childhood that influence how you behave
- Understand your own personal needs instead of pushing them away, and the truth behind what your true identity is before society influenced your behavior
- Come up with strategies to cope when you are having impulsive, unwanted thoughts, which are any thoughts that do not empower you - aim to bring you down into a state of low vibration, which is felt as emotions like guilt, sadness, anger, a need to rush
- Remember that you are not your thoughts, that you are a separate entity from them and that you don't always have to listen to what they say or try to influence you to act in ways that aren't aligned with who you are
- Put yourself first, even when feelings of guilt arise when you do so
False Identities Are Linked To Your Environment
When you get away from everything that defines you, you are able to discover your true authentic self. This is why it's important to get out into nature, where there is nothing that can influence you as to what your societal life is about. By giving yourself space, you can step away from the shackles of everything that holds you down and defines you, allowing your true unlimited being to rise to the surface.
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"Should I Push Through This Challenge Or Surrender And Give Up?"
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Insistence on an outcome is the greatest reason for exhaustion. When the universe puts up barriers in your way, those barriers are trying to get you to go in a different direction. However, our belief system has wired us to believe that those barriers are meant to be overcome. "Plow through them with all your might! Come out the other side a changed man!" Through my own personal life, that was ...
Is Money The Most Important Thing In Society?
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People often think that money is the most important thing to go after in society. However, people often fail to recognize that money can only be obtained through certain means - the trading of one's time, one's freedom, one's safety, one's ability to compromise. As a result, money is derived from our own personal power. What we are willing to trade in exchange for it. When you realize that with...
Listening To Your Body And Preparing For The Changes That Are Coming
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When You Wake Up Early, This is What The Universe Is Telling You
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We've all experienced those mornings in life where we wake up way earlier than usual. Looking outside, the sun is just starting to come up over the horizon, signaling the sunrise of a new day. As we squint out towards the beautiful beginnings of a new day, we must make a choice - go back to sleep or go for an early morning walk? In times like these, sometimes we are just too awestruck by the ri...
Your Feelings Are Telling You To Slow Down
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The People Around You Are Your Manifestations In Physical Form
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People love to start arguments with others on the internet. Doing so makes their ego feel superior, and can sometimes be prevalent even in real life. Here's an INFJ's perspective of how to psychologically dissect what a person says in order to gain insight into what emotions they are trying to avoid feeling. 𝗩𝗶𝘀𝗶𝘁 𝗠𝘆 𝗪𝗲𝗯𝘀𝗶𝘁𝗲 brianoncounseling.weebly.com/ 𝗝𝗼𝗶𝗻 𝗢𝘂𝗿 𝗶𝘀𝗰𝗼𝗿𝗱 𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗺𝘂𝗻𝗶𝘁𝘆 ☯️ discord....
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INFJs are logically very mature. I think they are logically smarter than INTPs if they are debating on same subject. INFJs just don't like to turn a friendly debate to aggressive arguments. They leave if they see the conversation going wrong way. INTP usually don't. ~ENTJ
Yeah, you are all rude. Not a misconception. get Therapy
What he is saying in the beginning is really concerning the enneagram type, and does not apply to all INTJs. The type 1 on INTJ and INFJ is justice oriented and action oriented. In truth, Batman has been written some different ways by different authors. He has been written as both INTJ 1w9 and even INFJ 1w2. But I will not mention Adam West's version and George Clooney's version as I found both to be quite campy. The differences between the INTJ and INFJ Batman are subtle, but they are different. If you watch the beginning seasons of Batman: The Animated Series, his character was very much an INFJ 1w2 in my view. With the change of art during the later seasons, the character was made more edgier, and they altered him into an INTJ 1w9. You will notice that in the early seasons, he had a lot of natural empathy and is very good at reading people. He is strongly concerned with people's behavior, beliefs, motivations...etc... INFJs are people detectives, while INTJs are more systems oriented. Bruce was less concerned about the well being of his parents corporation, and more concerned about the nature of good and evil, the human experience in his city. In the first couple seasons, you can tell that Batman is no stoic, and he is sensitive. He also engages in social mirroring, which is something which is something INFJ do more naturally, and INTJ are typically against as they see this as being inauthentic, yet INFJs do this in order to see who people really are. It's perhaps a little hypocritical, but INFJs do care about this sort of thing. We observe a lot and ask a lot of questions. There was also some debate regarding his enneagram type, sometimes being typed as a 5 due to him being research oriented, however Batman is a type 1. He doesn't live for research, but utilizes it for his top priorities which are in alignment with the type 1 enneagram. Both INTJ and INFJ can be shut ins, or a bit of isolationists, who spend so much time alone that they neglect their maintain their personal lives and external relationships. Both need to some time alone to rejuvenate their energy, as engaging with people can be taxing, as we got into over-analyze mode. The type 1 enneagram is concerned with moral perfection, so applied to an INTJ and INFJ, this would like similar. INTJ and INFJs have a lot in common, but I see the INFJ as being in the middle between an ENFJ and an INTJ. We are still somewhat people connected though largely being shut ins. It's an odd complex. The human condition strongly appeals to us, generally more than it would the INTJ, that largely prefers not to engage so much. I spend a lot of time on subreddit pages that have different MBTI types. INTJs tend to largely have a view of misanthropy towards people. Most are self-seeking, while INFJs are known to ignore their own personal lives for everyone else. INTJs are largely also more stoic (think Severus Snape). They don't like to wear their feelings on their sleeves. The only exception I have run into would be a 4 enneagram with INTJ (according to the INTJs on subreddit at least). The 4 is not Batman's enneagram. The feelings of Batman are clearly visible and seen, as is his empathy. I am not making the claim that Batman is only INFJ, because he has been written as other types, but I would make the claim that his mission makes the most sense with an INFJ personality type 1w2 or 1w9. Batman's sensitivity towards people was very revealing in the early episodes of The Batman Animated Series, but when they made him INTJ, you really start to notice how his underlings would have relational issues with him, especially the ENFJ character (Dick Grayson/Robin). An INFJ Batman and ENFJ Robin would work best together. The type 1 Batman would still be a perfectionist, but be more considerate of people's feelings and needs. To understand people better would make this a very good asset to have for Batman. My conviction is that INFJ Batman is the best version. The savior complex really goes in line with the nature of Jesus also, a real historical person who spent His life on saving people, neglecting his own personal life. I don't know too many INTJs that would neglect their own personal lives for people. funkymbtifiction.tumblr.com/post/187625763031/batman-the-animated-series-bruce-wayne-infj
People keep talking about the INFJ dark side, but I don't think I really have one. I might experience righteous anger when people do horrible things, or when I experience any form of evil or injustice... But I'm never going to want to hurt a person, or do something evil or wrong myself. I have very deep and very severe childhood trauma. My life has been very hard, very sad, very lonely... I've been misunderstood, misjudged, hated... I've experienced the worst kinds of evils. And I mean the worst. Gangs, cults, criminal organisations, kidnapping, slavery, rape, murder, human trafficking, torture... I've had friends murdered by people who I also thought were friends... Even right after someone killed my friend, I still loved her and tried to help her to see why it was wrong, and teach her to be the best version of herself... Because I could still see the good in her. And my love is unconditional and always forever... But even after all of that, I will never want to hurt a person or cause any kind of pain or harm to others. I want to make the world a better place for everybody, by spreading only love, peace, fairness, equality, and harmony. I want to create a world where only love exists. A world without evil. I will never understand, or accept, any evil or injustice. Life has been horrible to me, definitely more than most... But I am still good, and always will be. I get that different people are at different levels in their journeys, and I respect different beliefs and different opinions, but not when those beliefs and opinions are harmful to the world, and to other people. If someone thinks it's okay to hurt other people, I'm not just going to sit back and wait for them to figure it out. I can't let evil exist. It's a complicated paradox. I always love people, even those who do wrong. I always understand both sides and try to understand what made a person do what they did... But if what they did is evil, I just can't accept that. We need everyone to understand that we are all one, and that peace and love is the only thing that makes sense.
It is a tough road, I think a lot of INFJ's are faced with challenges that others would have given up or succumbed to Much love to you and your journey ❤🧸
@brianon4049 Haha.. yes, that is definitely true. I've unfortunately known people who have killed themselves for far less. Not to belittle anyone's feelings or take away from their struggles. It's just that, I've never met anyone who has gone through as much as I have, and come out of it without becoming a completely different person. Most are turned into monsters, which unfortunately includes people I used to be close to. I stay good no matter what pains and hardships I face. Which definitely doesn't make my life in this world any easier. Even so, I just can't be selfish and change who I am for the worse, even for my own protection. If the only way for me to stop getting hurt was to hurt others - or stop helping them and caring about them - I just can't do that. I'd stay miserable forever if that was the only way to make others happy. I just don't think that's the way things should be. Those of us who make others happy, and make the world a better place, should be welcomed and loved, and protected by others just as we do for them. I find it confusing and saddening that those of us who are "too" good, are the ones who are hurt, hated, and alone. What a backwards world we live in. That's why I won't change to fit in with this world. I'm going to make the world change to where loving others is the norm, not hurting them.
Your video helped me understand where I'm at with someone. The title of this video says it all. Thank you for communicating on this title.
Very accurate
Haha, typical ENTP behavior, but also the fact that only one other video of this guy has more views (most likely because of the jesus - hitler Thumbnail) than the ENTP Video. We just love to hear any opinion of every single youtuber out there making ENTP Videos, because we are great, and especially if some guy finds 1 little never said but perfectly matching ENTP behavior, we just love it, because we are great!
Sorry this all seems quite shallow, insulated/repressed simple and boring. Isfj goals are family and material things?
Excellent 🦉
1:16 *NO!* Elon Musk is first and foremost trying to get popular. *He doesn't give a shit about science.* He only cares about the *cult* of science and technology, which is extremely different from the scientific *discipline.* True scientists are extremely different from him and aren't so motivated by the same things (money, fame, influence, political power…) *TRYING TO COLONIZE MARS ISN'T FUNDAMENTALLY LOGICAL, IT'S POLITICAL.* Seriously, I'm more than fed up with this silly confusion between science and capitalist entrepreneurship. Elon is no more a scientist than I am a train driver.
Thanks for your tree-like existence. What a soothing video about precious trees 💚
Wow that’s so true Infp here
I suggest you do further reading, especially in cognitive functions as it's clear you only see a small, and incorrect, part of the picture.
Love seeing real INFJs doing videos about INFJs 😂
This is funny bc as an entp I always described my smile as evil and having hawk eyes without even knowing this is a regular thing
These videos are dumb
He cant be infj
Well spoken 🙏
😂😂there is this guy I like and I wonder if he's entp. Wth You made me laugh😂 He looks exactly like that
It sounds plausible that balancing the Male and Female might in part explain why we are mostly comfortable being alone most of the time. Like Eve was taken from Adam, before he was whole and likewise following on, most people are searching and mirroring what is missing from them and searching for ?
Unless I call you first, please don’t call me. I obviously don’t feel like talking if I don’t call you😭
Oh snap....the smile....I do that to seem more human...because I realize my normal face may be RBF
I'm an introvert. I hate attention but don't wanna be lonely.
Althought being a non-confrontational person its always difficult in this material world in fact, but definitely is lighter. Thanks for the video
What thing I do know, is that as a kid I was significantly quieter that I am now; and used to lock myself in my room a lot. Part of it was because I was condition to be more chatty, albeit I know I am a deep introvert.
Yes bro. Glad to see the notifacation bell go off.
I think emotions/feelings are the ways the brain deal with things when the brain doesn't have enough thinking power to deal with them. For INTPs, they have enough thinking power, therefore the feeling/emotion part is repressed or goes behind the curtain, so that these departments are not often used.
I don't think Bill Gates is an INTP, and this is mostly because he is an evil fuck. He is probably an INTJ or ENTJ.
He seems like an I to me.
Very insightful. As an INFJ myself I have an INFP close friend and while I definitely feel at times that we could develop something further between us I do see her lack of exterior awareness sometimes as a difficult challenge along with her being a bit obliviously selfish at times towards me. Naturally as an INFJ I want her to remain her authentic self but when it does come up in conversation without me initiating it I tend to "open the floodgates" of a solution to a problem I've seen her dealing with for quite some time but didn't want to appear controlling or invalidate her approach to said problem. She'll often react very extreme and emotionally-charged to a single negative experience with something in her life, whether that is drinking, horror movies or gaming just to name a few but fail to find a middle ground of balance and maturity which is usually something I would likely do in her shoes. When the topics come up in conversation she is receptive to my ideas however but I know I have to be patient with her initially because I know that to offer my perspective too soon could come across as almost selfish from her point of view. I've learnt to listen first, validate her decisions even if I don't personally agree or understand them and then when it comes up naturally in conversation later down the track she usually appreciates my insights.
I've never felt so understood in my life. I literally had almost an exact same situation happen to me like your snail situation.
This is so offensive and you should be cancelled 🤣🤣🤣
For me, the true golden pair will always be the refinement.
Thanks Brian, with the Seasons changing I am going through & sensing the energy shifts. We'll be here as long as YT allows us to, do what's best for you Here's to your healing going as smooth as can be 🙏🏿 ☝🏿 ⚕️ 🍊 🍵
could you talk a little bit about astral dimension / projection in your next video please?
wow 😮 thanks man.
Great video! 🎉
Just after making this video, I spent the next 3 days in bed recovering from a common cold/flu illness - fever, sore throat, chills, occasional headache, low energy. Ironic how things occur at just the right time eh?
Feel better!
Gordon is an ESTJ
Dude, just admit, you are afraid to make a phone call
I'm an extrovert but I feel this exact way
ENFP's loose smile is our tight smirk
Yes. Peace be with you as well. Interesting topic. I must say, I did this and did not do well enough for the others and received severe hatred. It’s so sickening. I do wish I managed it all more successfully. Great topics.
Those people have been told their entire lives to live by a set of rules and beliefs - deep down they want to be free as well, they just don't know how and are projecting those emotions onto those that are brave enough to do so Stay in the light my friend
I just love your energy. Keep bringing the light my guy 🤙🏽💫
Thank you for your support Malik ❤️ Truth be told I thought this topic might go over people's heads haha
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I think "haha" may work only with English speaking people. In other cultures it could be different expression based on the slang or other factors in particular languages. I often use "хех" (heh) or "ахах" for example with unfamiliar people and "лол"/"кек" (lol/kek) with close friends, it's something that was borrowed from them once and stuck to me I guess.
I like to think about it this way -- I'm 33 years old. Got my first cellphone at 18, but even that was on a very limited family plan. I couldn't call/text whenever I wanted until I was in my 20s. For most of my life, a phone was a thing that lived on the wall of your house. If you were even just downstairs doing laundry, you didn't answer. The moment you walked out your door, whether you were going to the store or just to your own backyard, you were totally out of contact. You'd have an answering machine, which was often in the bedroom because people would check the message before bed. The expected response time to an unplanned phone call was 2-3 business days. Now the expected response time is SECONDS! And texting...we had IMs when i was growing up, but you both had to be on the PC and logged in. You both had to agree to receive messages. Now people text any time day or night and some people get seriously upset if you take more than ten minutes to reply. The problem is largely one of expectations. And it changes so much more than just the phone calls. Hanging out with friends used to be about routines and plans. You'd all go to the same bar every Friday night or you'd run into each other and discuss doing something next week...now you get a phone call like "hey wanna go to a festival in an hour?" and I'm like "dude, I was planning what I was gonna do today LAST WEEK, get your freakin' life together!" And then there's work...work is the main reason I *never* answer my phone anymore. You'll get a call asking you to come in...which used to mean a few hours notice to pick up a whole shift and get some overtime pay. But now it's ten minutes notice to login from home "for twenty minutes" which becomes an hour and then three. Unpaid. You can't have a routine anymore. It's not allowed. You have to be willing to drop everything and do what someone else demands of you all day every day unless you want to just live in isolation forever. For people who like their routines, cellphones are the destroyer of worlds -- or at least of days.
I compromised my freedom my whole life, and got to the height of basically free to be, only to let it all fall away. To begin again. And regrets from my inaction at the height of total freedom. I hope it’s comprehensible.
Did those regrets lead to you trading that freedom for something?
@@brianon4049 not really. Somehow, I felt trapped in a way and not useful nor worthy. And isolated. I just, didn’t make it work for myself. I let it all crumble. I was frozen. So I did then move away, I had no other choice. I moved to a coastal town and begin again. And into old career I detest. I really cannot explain myself. I just wish I’d felt satisfied & content. But yet also that was kind of boring. Anyway, I do enjoy listening to your insights on this channel. So thank you for sharing. It’s beautiful.
@@chilloften That feeling of "I'm not being useful" is most likely a belief system to examine. You said it influenced you to move away and start anew, only for you to find yourself back at square one - that's what the emotion will continually make you repeat until you examine it and heal it. Once you do, you'll realize nothing outside of you needed to change, just that emotion needed to be healed. Then you'll feel whole again :) This video might also help you: ruclips.net/video/dZ5PRYRks5w/видео.html
Very nice content i like your example with hitler
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Enjoyed indeed.
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