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Hello. I'm torn or conflicted in MBTI. I believe I'm a INFJ. Tthough no one since my awaking and research has been military. I wanted to fight defend or kill for my love of country and Ideallogue. This sounds terrible but I specifically joined the infantry to drop bad guy's. 97-2006 Alpha extroverted dominate world of the Marine Corp. I feel as if I'm not INFJ because I was a ferocious tenacious empathetic leader and infantryman. I really didn't want to be a leader or go to schools. My intuition carrying my ass. My leadership roles keeping me from trouble as much as they could. I liked leadership because it's freedom. 2002 OIF/OEF I then realized I didn't want anyone to get hurt. I couldn't so easily make decisions no more. Fuc&ing empathy breaking my heart with the unknowns wounds coming. These days medically retired since 2006 I have conflict. Not about a bad order given. A man killed or brothers shredded and numb. More of my children and my emotional intensity. My history valid. Thousand regrets and a million mistakes. I turned 43 on the 29th and guess what? I still bleed fight and die for America and her great allies. My Ideallogue has not changed regardless of now I know terrorists laugh just like Marines. I like to bow hunt but have passed up shots. It's just not in me to hurt anyone or anything anymore. I like the gear and dressing up and even the hunt. The kill seems unwarranted and violent. I don't eat that stuff and it's simply not fun. Ending if you know anything military related to INFJ preach it. Please truly. The INFJ label is the only label I've felt fine with in life. I hated with great passion being called Marine enlisted. I find it hard to believe I'm so alone in these posts. Everyone is friendly but seemed to be afraid to touch my weird military minded posts. Shred me please. I won't eat ur children if you hate me. Just want to grow and be comfortable. Goodluck with this. Semper Fi love light open roads
@@joshuaforbus5853 In my experience, its a common trait for an INFJ to end up in the military or some other body that has a protecting agenda. Most likely because we responded to someone's interest in our abilities that fitted these bodies. When an infj takes an interest in something, we are the best at it, and this doesn't go unnoticed by recruiting minds. And so, to get caught up in scenarios where we find ourselves in the middle of conflict ( which initself is one of those paradoxes for an infj) we get a wake up call. I realy feel where you're coming from brother, I realy do..
10. They refuse to be controlled. 9. Extremely selective / they know their worth. 8. They dominate the room 7. They don't care about what others say. 6. They don't need anything from anyone. 5. They're extremely curious. 4. They don't tolerate anybody who ruins their peace and solitude. 3. They're so hard to reach. 2. They don't follow anyone's rules. 1. They're very competitive (against themselves, not other people).
I think the hardest thing about being an sigma INFJ is that people tend to think you are showing off rather than just simply being yourself, I hated having to hold back as a child in order to "fit in". I know minions. I know.
I used to be sent out of the room do that a teacher could teach a class in peace ss I would blurt out answers before she could blink. I would turn up at the principals office and be given a job delivering papers to other classes , or sent to help out in a grd. 1 or 2 class It was fun. I often hot myself sent out. Classes were very boring and we were in an enriched, progressive educational environment. Can't imagine a normal class. Actually I can . In gr. 9 O was in one for one day. Thank goodness our VP was my Mom's cousin. He moved me immediately. I thought I would suffocate as the pace was so very slow. Lovely sweet people and teachers but one felt like they were swimming in molasses. No place for any type of INFJ.
@@heatherloffelmann3547 ya i was thinking always about many things misdiagnosed with adhd but i ended up helping out the class or tutoring students my own age or older. It was okay though i liked helping and still do :)
Good to know I was not the only one. It was weird. People really just found us strange but cheerful so keep us busy. Seems their better angles were in charge.
@@heatherloffelmann3547 They are all more than willing to hang back and watch as you do all the work too. throw in a picture memory into the mix and your nothing but a know it all :0 Fun times fun times:)
@@kiplaroy9664 right you are but to keep things moving, stepping in too help ment that we all benefited in the end. Remember teaching the other kids in the class in gr 8 how to sightsing so they could pass the music course. There are little tricks that make it easy . You just have to let the info out. Also, it sounded more in tune when we al had to sing together for the inspector and the whole group got one mark. Method in my madness!
The most "dangerous" part about me is that I always put too high expectations on myself. Which in turn has caused A LOT of procrastination and anxiety.
Being an infj sigma, on the spiritual path has taught me alot about my self, this can also relate to the spiritual realm with similarities, it's really facinating. Stay safe everyone☺️
Ahhh.. the observant sigma INFJ. They answer to no one, listen to every word, watch every move, and check every behavior and know all the kinks in your armour. Crossing a sigma can be a self-destructive suicide.
I’m not entirely sure if I’m a Sigma INFJ. I was frequently attacked and bullied as a kid, so much so that I started trying to hide my apathetic and masculine instincts. Can someone relate?
This comment is the best so far!!! I’m acutely observant I watch, listen, feel everything around me ….environment & people alike. I noticed things 99% of people don’t & I will know you better than you’ll ever know yourself just by my observation!
@@braydenwolf7116being a infj Sigma sometime takes time. By learning through obstacles and difficulties perfecting and observant on each move. If you ever gone through any PTSD , bullying. Just compare you and younger version .
@@braydenwolf7116 it takes time for an infj to become a sigma i was only able to find my true self after getting dropped in high school and living in complete despair for a year all by myself
That's not you. You're on some video reassuring yourself. If you were really that great you wouldn't have time to look up videos on strangers reassuring you. 🤡🤡🤡
lol it’s true because I don’t really care for like board games or games in general I will purposely lose the game just so I don’t have to play and I remember I knew a few people who would get upset with me that I wasn’t competitive with other people. they have no idea the mental gymnastics I do competing with my past and future self
Being a sigma infj and an addict with mental health issues because of post-traumatic stress it has been a crazy ride figuring out who I am. But being who I am as a sigma infj I have been able to overcome things by myself that most people would have died. I thank God that I am the way I am ❤️
I can't help but find the beautiful thing as well as the dark negative crazy stuff. As I get older I understand there's a reason for both. My character defects that are my worst are what were there to save me when nothing else was other than God. Gave me strength ❤️🌻
Extremely good presentation, man. I finally feel like I have a home. We are rare, and life does not make an easy road for us, we have to struggle to escape from the mental and behavioural slavery which is fed to us. Thanks for doing these videos, they're very much what I need to hear.
I get that feeling of finally having a home. We are indeed highly self-aware individuals, which helps to have better common sense (something rare nowadays).
Dangerous because I know I rub people wrong. But their reasons are faulty. So therefore I have to be ready to defend myself against their unfounded attacks. Be they verbal or physical or spiritual. I get attacked a lot. So now I'm an accomplished martial artist, in various styles. And an excellent marksman. Plus my skills in expression are second to none. Combined with a will made of pure steel. I'm perfectly equipped to deal with the unrefined. I love peace but I won't allow myself to be destroyed by a lesser entity.
@@hugmc blessings to you. I've been in positions where I couldn't protect myself physically. I'm a brain cancer survivor. I had to have emergency brain surgery 12 hours straight. Wide awake. Afterwards my enemies were emboldened. Though weakened that's when I had to lean on my mental capabilities. Power of persuasion and influence. I don't fain to understand your situation, but I've found that when we lose one ability another becomes stronger. I'd love to discuss what you have discovered. Your time on earth alone surpasses my own. I'm sure you have a wealth of knowledge.
Yeah, it's a little funny that I pity myself for still having a soft spot in my heart for those who hurt me😆....this is why when I get angry, I need to let it all go or it will destroy me internally...cuz after that, I can feel good and slowly starts to be loving again...in fact, I pity so much my former friend that I miss them when they hadn't lost their sanity yet because of a guy😕
@@sabrinawanderer7560 no sweetie, you sound quite healthy to me. We can't control how people treat us. But we do have to protect ourselves from people who hurt us because they don't understand us completely. That dosen't mean we don't love them. It's actually the opposite. We love them and understand that we can only deal with them in small doses. I'd make sure I had a safe place to recharge. And don't be so hard on yourself. You have a lot of love in your heart. That's a wonderful thing. The world needs exactly what you have.
It's called being goal oriented , some must acquire this skill but to a Sigma it comes natural. It is truly the biggest difference between us an others ,we crave independency and enjoy it's rewards whilst most rely on outside influence to achieve peace of mind
It's so silly when people try to compete with me, they never seem to realize I don't even notice their existence because I am always at war with my past self. I usually try to exit the scene before they make that realization as it tends to damage their ego. But it never had anything to do with them. I won't lie I do love playing daft and keeping my skill sets hidden so I can knock people off balance when they challenge me. I'm just a guy after all nothing to see.
Telling us about how you're a sigma only told us about why you're not a sigma. And with a touch of bitterness and entitlement, too. I'm thinking borderline Delta-Beta.
That's explains WHY I never ask anyone for help. I don't ask for anything from anyone. No matter how hard it gets. And yes, I can easily dismissed anyone who I feel it's a waste of my time. Thanks for sharing your knowledge and this video. And definitely don't care of what other people thinks of me. I keep my circle of friends to the bare minimum. 1 or 2. I don't have time to waste on people and their NONSENSE. I'm very choosy when it comes to people. I don't trust a lot of them.
Being a Sigma INFJ myself, I am still my own worst enemy surrounded by enemies. Because of my intellect and thirst for knowledge with my intuition automatically finding answers to just about any problem, I am a target for all others.
@@feezthedeal6704 all I can say is just keep focusing on being the True/Authentic you. All come and go but those who choose to stay, the extremely few that they are will love you and hopefully be curious enough to satisfy your needs as much as you satisfy your loved ones.My mother died of brain cancer a year ago and was the only one to understand me(she was also infj). But yes, I do feel as if things happen without our “conscious control” almost as if there another part of us at play not subconsciously but just something different, otherworldly especially not in the physical world. I’m just trying to share a lil of my perspective or my truth to you to hopefully give you the insight you need cause I just made the realization today that despite being to myself but not necessarily alone all my life, I’ve always stayed true to me without knowing in many situations growing up and I absolutely love myself for that after realizing.
Hello there. I am just now learning about "personalities" . After going through a difficult time I'm trying to figure myself out. Can you explain what a " infj" is please
Wish I knew more about INFJs when I was in the military. My only friends that push my comfort zone are my wingmen. I have always tried to be a better person then I was the day before. Keep up the great work.
@@johnroybal933 I will it did help me a lot with the job I had, lots of Trouble shooting. Looking back the one time being one helped me to shine when I was still in, my 1st Sargent came to me for a task he needed done in 30 mins. Had it done and exceeded his expectations. Probably my favorite coin In my collection.
I spent my whole life knowing that I was very different even thinking I came from another planet then I discovered I am a sigma INFJ. I don't feel so alone anymore ♥️
Yes my freedom and personal space is my own heaven and anyone who tries to control me because of their own insecurities and selfish interests will be shown the door 🚪
Damn ! ... an other one 💯 ... this quite shocked me, when I started to recognize myself in these points. So grateful for this channel 🙏 ... really helping me to accept my place in this world, in the way I am ... and slowly I am able to accept that I don't need to take it as a curse in some moments. It became much easy to flow constructively between different states of being . And I start to accept it as my reality . 🙏
As a sigma infj, I’ve encountered alpha types before. Instantly, their is respect that goes both ways. There’s a knowing that both embody powerful energies that demand respect. The only difference is that one is un-aware and the other is self-aware. One leads in front of his people, one leads behind his people. One can gather bold and courageous men, one can gather the entire nation if it wanted too. One fuels motivation with fearlessness and courageousness and bravery/dignity, one fuels motivation with empathy, hopefulness, self-awareness/integrity. Both very strong leaders, but completely different perceptions. Your men are strong in body, strength and mind. My men are strong in body, heart and soul. The mind can break, but the heart can never break because it is it’s truth. This is probably why sigmas don’t lead and let others do it. They wait until they have a vision or encountered with injustice. I see sigmas like MLK and Hitler.
Thanks for the video and for some of comments to. That was my missing link. I feel much more complete now. I have to say that I respect some rules, the ones I believe are just. Thank you again, it means a lot to me.
I am definitely a Signa INFJ and have ONLY been with my husband and that’s been for 22 years. He is confident and doesn’t need me hovering and I am creative, thinker, quiet most of the time. I accept my weirdness and wouldn’t have it any other way and challenge the world’s judgement system. Good listener. Hospice nurse. Very few close friends. Rarely open up. Could stay home all the time. Curious about everything and insomniac.
This is so me I was just having a talk with my homie and I told him as a believer of God I see myself maturing more instead of changing in becoming righteous and living a holy life cause at the end of the day as humans we are sinners and we have flaws and I constantly express my flaws and show and give my heart to God cause I know at the end of the day I'm not doing right but always walking humbly amongst his presence and God honors a person who is honest with themselves, with others and even him man us INFJs can be rebellious but we're honest with ourselves as a whole with our positives and negatives
It's so hard as an INFJ sigma because I'm always doing stuff on my own and always trying to do better than I did before, when people think I won't do something I prove them wrong instantly. When someone disrupts my peace and balance I have no problem cutting them out. It's so hard to ask for help most times and normally I have to think on it before I do anything.
I watch these infj videos and before leaving a comment- I usually scroll down and that very thought--- usually conveyed as well or maybe with more eloquence--- has already been expressed... Its amazing. ... apparently this is a pattern when a room full of infj's from across the world respond to the same information ...
Me reading through these comments: wow, these are my people 😌. It’s comforting knowing that there are indeed people who exist with similar thoughts and ideals. Especially growing up being titled as “weird”, “too different”, and “unemotional”. It can get very lonely and boring.
Right? I feel like i have no friends. Watching this video makes me feel less alone for sure, but i need to be social with like minded people. Which is fucked cuz none of us really like to socialize. The common people always suck.
I used to wish a teacher would just be quiet and let me read the lesson. If I had the book, I'd already read it. Sitting still and listening was torture. I go with the story in my mind, and get in trouble for day dreaming. Sometimes I'd get accused if cheating for acing tests. I'd be standing there with years in my eyes saying no, I just read the book. I had a few wonderful teachers who saw it though. Bless them forever.
All points are true at the highest level in my life. I'm extremely curious. People always said to me " what a great question". Whenever I wake up in the middle of the night and can't go back to sleep I would keep searching on the subject I left before going to be. It looks weird to people because you can find me searching about animals, food,places,or theories at 3,4 am. I also like to question people's motivations to make them realize how superficial they are in the case I'm sure they are. This comes from the idea of not following the crowd. I really don't mind standing alone by myself. I'm very confident to sit alone in a row of a room with 300 people. I'm very comfortable going to the theater by myself. I'm so weird and happy with it.
This was kind of scary. I knew I wasn't a classic Alpha but also knew I was the polar opposite of a Beta. To me being an Alpha meant running a race that someone else had constructed to win a prize that meant nothing to me. Virtually every bullet point in this presentation mirrored my own path. I did not know such a category (Sigma INFJ) existed and I still reject that any external classification can sum up my own personal journey or status (which may even make me more of what this video suggests ironically). However if I was to explain to someone what I am, this video is scarily close. I'm not dangerous, I'm a supporting loving person, however yes, if someone's core philosophy runs so counter to my own core values that it's unassailable, I will simply end all contact. I don't let anyone dictate to me my own self worth. Plenty of people have come after me physically mentally and professionally and usually sooner or later if they are persistent enough they will take me down. But here's the key. I almost never initiate the aggression. it's not worth my time. It's better to simply disregard and remove that person from your life. But here's the caution you need with someone like me. If despite all that, you still insist on coming after me (essentially making it personal), you won't make it out either. My advice is, don't. It won't end well for you.
Ok, peepeepoopoo 😐… Sure. “Dangerous” is a dramatic way of describing us and is basically a clickbait title. yes, we are somewhat pretentious, but that comes from seeing the world with a completely different perspective than 99% of other people on earth. So no, it wouldn’t really make sense to you and that’s okay. You have your own valid perspectives and opinions, which may or may not be better, worse, or different. But why even watch a video about a personality that is different from your own, and then immediately or dismiss it because it’s not what you think, feel, or believe. Of course it’s different. It’s not you. Literally, the most famous, infamous, and world changing people were this exact personality type. Everyone I’ve ever met has told me that they don’t know anyone else like me, and that can be traumatic through childhood but it is welcomed as an adult. Although sometimes as an adult you still want to just fit in, while simultaneously knowing that you never will, at least not in a conventional or traditional sense of the word. So why not try to learn and understand instead of trolling and attacking something that you don’t get.
I'm unhealthy INFJ it's really painful when I was in 7th grade I withdraw away from people and started doing a lot of activity that interest me, till my mom thought theirs something wrong with me for not going out and play with other kids.
Im a sigma, I think in the last 2 years those behaviours have been showing up, and I think this happend with time, I mean we tend to upgrade ourselves to be better and the same time we built walls to not be hurt, so with time we learn that be so sentimental on what others feels and continiously be sufering because of the world is not worthy, we know that not so many people can see what we see, so in order to live a better life we can cut out all the shit that is not worth in this world, sometimes the world itself as society present us isnt worthy, so I think is our way to find another path to live. Additional to this if the people that have a social title above us like bosses, familiars or politicians doesnt have the sigth, the abillities, the intelligence to make right desicions that affect us, we tent to not follow them but confront their autority in order to benefit all of us.
Yea David,what you say is so very true, most people are like a (copy and paste version of everyone else ) L.OL. all this appeal to authority yield to authority I've no time for that, we know what works for us and we hit our targets whatever we set our minds on, 😂😂a fellow INFj tribe 💕
And for no reason do I mean that becoming a sigma is a negative thing, or that it makes you a better INFJ. What I mean is that it can be a natural process that we INFJs can get to by discovering ourselves in relation to the world. Absorbing the emotions of everyone around us can be one of our Achilles heel or our greatest virtue, a weakness or a goal to improve, at first when we are young INFJs we can even feel pride in deciphering feelings of others pretending that we can help them to change, to heal them from the situations they cannot see. I learned one thing, and that is I am not God, that it is not healthy for me to absorb and be responsible for others, we are not super human, so I decided that no matter how hard it was, I was not going to take responsibility for others feelings, and Don't get me wrong INFJs are not narcissists and for this very reason that we are emotional to make this decision I think it is the hardest thing we deal with as INFJs. But we have to be happy, right? I understood that I am as common as everyone else and that it was an air of greatness to pretend that I can protect other people or even help them with their feelings, not only that, by leaving other people to Dealing with their own emotions helps them to be strong and to discover themselves. I have learned in recent years through the eyes of other INFJs more blessed, gifted and with a broader vision than mine, and I must say that I have been able to find a balance in my life, learn from a more experienced INFJ that you can reach. to more advanced conclusions and find the why of things? (Like Uchiha clan when one member pass their eye to another, that vision becomes more powerful, and the new individual master and give that eye a new purpose and abillity!) It does not matter if you are a sigma or a young INFJ, there are things that you must let go of even if they hurt and that is absorbing emotions, believe me you will continue to be a good human being, there is no way that evil will triumph over us. Imagine yourself meditating in a zen position, around you there is a protective bubble, which isolates you from the feelings of others, the feelings scream at you at the edge of the bubble full of agony, talk to them and explain them that you should be happy and that you understand them but you cant let them in, that you also suffer and that just like you can find a solution and calm for your own, the calm will also come to them and the answer they need from the right person(their owner). I managed to see the future through the most blessed INFJ I have ever known "Canserbero" and it is a unique and indescribable experience, we tend to believe that our vision is unique and unaltered and we do not listen to other INFJs, it is more we do not even want to see what they have to say, But today I tell you with my calm heart if you can see through a blessed do it, it will take less years for you to reach your balance, to calm your hearth. PS: Anger and indignation with the world will always be present in us hahaha this is not a fairy tale, only that you will know which fights are worth it. It is not worth dying for something that is not worth it. Life is always the most important thing, do not die in vain in this world, the only important mission is to enjoy and decipher this life.
@@davidarguedas5735 you are so very right In everything you say,definitely I think the older I got the better, I did have s lot of encouragement from my Dad, he was way ahead of his time, very self sufficient.but always nurtured in people the gifts they had and would spend time with them, he was very Empathetic towards.people, and a.wise mentor, a lot of people loved him, he was always humble, I think us INfjs improve with age and geting through hard situations, I get a lot of insight through my dreams, it's like I connect and recharge and attain knowledge while I'm asleep, it gets into the right compartments, if that makes sense,l.o.l.,any how .we must move onward, no matter what's going on in the world, and always re.assure ourselves with that inner voice as our greatest gift,.have a great weekend 🤗🤗💗
I didn't intend to be this way. But childhood abuse and my inexplicable desire to know why people do what they do started me on this path. Then, events occurred to further distance myself from society: Reiki, remote viewing, access to past lives, and connections with ghosts. These toggles were all flipped before the Schwarzenegger of divergences- my NDE. The feeling of being in this world, but not of it, allows me to be both the actor and director of my own life story. I often wonder how we would all treat each other if we had that perspective. To that end, I try to be a metaphysical Johnny Appleseed. Share what I've learned and move on. Perhaps this is why the Sigma INFJ [male and female] are here now... to be a force multiplier / change agent, who operates outside the constraints of social hierarchy, and is invested in the process but detached to the outcome?
I have shamed quite a number of people who think otherwise about me...i'm the type of person who intentionally bring out the worst in me or show my vulnerability because it's only in this way can my ever watchful eyes see the true colors of people around me. It is sad sometimes and fun other times. Nonetheless, I crave for genuine people now. I badly needed a friend whom I can lean on during my struggles in life. I crave and yearn for that one true soul who can love me especially when I hit rock bottom and not someone who despise and leave me when I'm not shining anymore. I swear, I can move mountains once I am able to meet that one true soul who can bring out the best in me.
Same here.. ...more than anyone could possibly know..except you of course because you feel the same way. Here's to us both on our quest to finding that 1 of a kind true blue that gets us like no other.
I am so glad yall made a Sigma INFJ video... cause we are rare as rare can be. And no one gets it lmao not even other INFJ types 🤣🤣😅😅😅😅 With that being said. Sigmas will learn you and let you hurt yourself by dropping the floor on your ego. Bringing you back to reality.... then cutting you off forever. Cold is an understatement. Its not that sigmas are dangerous. We just understand on a deeper level how predictable people are. Everyone does the same thing... in knowing that, you move different. Amazing video today.
I love the comments sections of INFJ videos… always the longest comments of any personality type. I’ll keep this short, but still, it’s probably longer than the average comment;) Great Video.
When I did the 16personalities test, it gave me INTJ but I can relate to a lot of these things. I do talk very little, we have a lunch group in office where these guys talk a lot during lunchtime, esp office politics whereas I mind my own business reading something in phone or doing something else. When I weigh in, everyone listens and they know my words have value. Another thing is both inner peace and independence. I got married 2 years ago, arranged marriage as part of my culture. She is a control freak and she wanted things to be her way, very emotional and dramatic and manipulative. I just ignored and left her to her own designs. She is frustrated that I don't care nor do I bother to fight with her, which is what she wanted. In the meantime, this corona came and we were in different places due to some reasons. This distance and my nonchalance drove her crazy whereas I was in peace in her absence. The most irritating thing for a wife is to see her husband be happy in her absence. Long story short, we are filing for divorce. While she, like a pendulum, swinging between divorce and working it out, I have made my lines clear. If you want to be under my roof, follow my rules else move on. No loss for me. And I am not hurt by divorce as many including my parents expected me to be. This revealed the depth of my personality to myself and even scared me a little bit. But I know I can manage..
When I got to a place of near self actualization, I realized I can be the most powerful person in the room, even when I'm not saying a word. The chains of societal and social expectations were broken. You want to be in my life and experience the valuable benefits of being my friend? You play by my rules, which involve being a kind and genuine person who doesn't play games.
3:36 HAHAH why are telling all of our secrets ?? Actually, now I know why I want people to leave me alone, honestly being this personality type is funny and this channel is a blessing Thank you !
The rarest personality on the planet...! And I’ve learned to be exactly okay with that It scares me how easy I can disconnect from absolutely everything but then that’s where I’m most comfortable- as long as I have myself I’m completely okay.
An almost perfect description of us. Since starting to work full time at the age of 14yrs old my life mottos been "I don't follow standards or trends.... I set them. The underlying behavioral and character traits described here are what IMHO psychologically equate (in terms of my professional temperament) to the Kiersey Professional Temperament Sorter profile/classification of being of a "Rational Inventor/Rational Mastermind temperament. Thank you for posting this article as it's the first time I've been able to explain where my professional mindset originates. Many Thanks!
Back in days when I didn't know I was an INFJ I always felt frustrated because I thought I was a weird person for many reasons and no ones understood me and They always wanted me to explain everything about what I think, feel etc. I thought I was the only one with this weird personality, however now that I know I'm a INFJ, I'm so glad to know there are more people like me.
This was very good this video, you hit all the targets we are very much us and don't need to change to fit in, we have our own Standards and beliefs that have proven to work for us ,💗💗💗💗🙉💯
My husband and I are both sigma INFJs. I think this is the best way we could be truly fulfilled in a marriage because we are so similar. All of these points describe us very well, only some qualities have been weakened depending on the childhood challenges that we each experienced.
I have seen how my mom react to her friend. She helps them when they have food shortage even when those friend are far but she cannot tolerate when they spoke negatively to the person she loves most. My mom love a person but the person had no choice to go back to his country. And then our country is lockdown. No international travel is allowed. She assist him in such ways that other people envy of those relationship. At first she tries to response nicely to her friend. She said, she understand that the person tries to protect her but she prefer to stay and belief that she will be able to reunite with her loved one even though it will takes time but the person keep saying that it was not ok to see how faithful mom and love in far distance never work. Mom already become like volcano going to burst. She still patience until she suddenly block and delete the person number from her list. Even though she block the person, she still post the food to the person because she understand the person situation.
Most people take my kindness as weakness and try to teach me childish things. My heart signals my senses to choose the direction and it is the right direction and thanks GOD for that.
(1)I definitely REFUSE to be controlled by anyone. Ever. (2)Very selective, it feels good to associate with the "self-aware, wise and humble", I mean, who wants otherwise?(3)When we mind our own business during the noise, they`ll listen to us during the silence, only we`ll sum up everything in one word. Meeting over.(4)We cannot be without dreams/ambitions and such things require calm, peace of mind. (5)Meaningful connections; once that is out of the window, nothing else matters, not our history not our investments. (6)Ignorance and INFJs don`t go in the same column, knowledge is good. (7)As an INFJ, do you have friends who can`t respect personal space? No. (8)If we don`t think what we`re doing is important enough, we won`t do it. So why would anyone stop us when we decide to do something? (9)No dream is too impossible to achieve, once the eyes are set on it.
Thanks for all the comments guys, i am glad i have discovered who i am as i have always been the outsider and still be able to achieve, i can easily dominate a room and seek solitude , yes all what is said in the presentation and comments are very true, Lindsey
How do I manifest my strengths in daily life ? I walk the straight path, look to the good and bad of both sides and absorb those lessons to improve. It is a very simple method in a complex world when you figure it out.
This presentation is an "Ace-tight" depiction of my personality, character, and lifestyle. If I didn't know any better, I would have thought the speaker was my next-door neighbor taking notes on my lifestyle for years. Great video! Thanks for uploading!
The part that really resonated with me most is where INFJs sigma are mostly self employed and independent. That. Is. Just. Me! I hate being controlled and at the mercy of my employers, sometimes there is a change of schedule by my former boss and I hated it, I can't have my alone moments even during breaks sometimes because there's something they want done by me specifically because I do things well... Now I'm self employed and I also get contracts with strict rules, the peace is really divine! Still looking forward to a lot of traveling and learning! Thanks for this video.
First time hearing about sigma INFJ, and scary that most of these are close to what I have done. Many things are explained here and spot-on, I kinda feel goosebumps
You astound me. Ben & Jerry has Nothing on you. Back on track - Working on goals more than you think. Healthy relationship with a like minded person. Can’t help being curious.
Watching this after I committed one of the biggest mistakes ever for myself and others while attempting to move forward....and it's somewhat comforting, despite the effect of my actions and the fluctuations between that of that pesky third letter in the Myers-Briggs hierarchy. Rock on y'all
Personally, I think we need to stop concentrating on these titles that say "dangerous" "rare" "intimidating"..it makes us sound like we are placing ourselves on a pedastal .That's the very thing we stand against.
I am actually a combination of Sigma, INFJ and Aquarian all at once. This is all true, and I am impressed you combined the 2 it's the first hearing a combination of a sigma INFJ
As an 'INFJ'; i have no friends.. people seem to 'tolerate' me; knowing i am 'favored'- but none meet my definition of an actual friend- though i more than surpass theirs.. it sucks at times and is lonely; but life had brought me here after 30+years of my hard work. So ive learned to never forsake the 'salf' as that is what sets me aside from those of ill repute/intent. It is my teue source of protection.
thank you thank you thank you!!!! I shall wield this power with love and heart. Also I wanna anti hack cyber terrorism and I have all the certs. But nobody wants to pay me 108k a year to design new ways of blocking hackers.... Ive already wrote the code and have the stuff ready. Of course I wont tell any companies this. Cause I want them to choose me beause of my personality+skillz. Not because I own code that would make them billions of dollars.
Once my parents took me to a psycho clinic because I've started a side hustle because I wanted earn more money and learn more about business. They said to the psychiatrist, that they should give me medication to forget my attitude and live a "normal" life. Everyone in my family failed for transforming me.😂😂😂😂
So I'm a simga male introverted infj Empath. Many people around seem to always be threatened by my presence, even though I do or say nothing. It took me years to figure out what was going on. I know now...
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Hello. I'm torn or conflicted in MBTI. I believe I'm a INFJ. Tthough no one since my awaking and research has been military. I wanted to fight defend or kill for my love of country and Ideallogue. This sounds terrible but I specifically joined the infantry to drop bad guy's. 97-2006 Alpha extroverted dominate world of the Marine Corp. I feel as if I'm not INFJ because I was a ferocious tenacious empathetic leader and infantryman. I really didn't want to be a leader or go to schools. My intuition carrying my ass. My leadership roles keeping me from trouble as much as they could. I liked leadership because it's freedom. 2002 OIF/OEF I then realized I didn't want anyone to get hurt. I couldn't so easily make decisions no more. Fuc&ing empathy breaking my heart with the unknowns wounds coming. These days medically retired since 2006 I have conflict. Not about a bad order given. A man killed or brothers shredded and numb. More of my children and my emotional intensity. My history valid. Thousand regrets and a million mistakes. I turned 43 on the 29th and guess what? I still bleed fight and die for America and her great allies. My Ideallogue has not changed regardless of now I know terrorists laugh just like Marines. I like to bow hunt but have passed up shots. It's just not in me to hurt anyone or anything anymore. I like the gear and dressing up and even the hunt. The kill seems unwarranted and violent. I don't eat that stuff and it's simply not fun. Ending if you know anything military related to INFJ preach it. Please truly. The INFJ label is the only label I've felt fine with in life. I hated with great passion being called Marine enlisted. I find it hard to believe I'm so alone in these posts. Everyone is friendly but seemed to be afraid to touch my weird military minded posts. Shred me please. I won't eat ur children if you hate me. Just want to grow and be comfortable. Goodluck with this. Semper Fi love light open roads
@@joshuaforbus5853 In my experience, its a common trait for an INFJ to end up in the military or some other body that has a protecting agenda. Most likely because we responded to someone's interest in our abilities that fitted these bodies. When an infj takes an interest in something, we are the best at it, and this doesn't go unnoticed by recruiting minds. And so, to get caught up in scenarios where we find ourselves in the middle of conflict ( which initself is one of those paradoxes for an infj) we get a wake up call. I realy feel where you're coming from brother, I realy do..
Alpha = ESTJ , EN TJ , ESTP
Beta = ESFJ , ENFJ , ENTP, ESFP
Delta = ISTJ , ISFJ
Gamma = INFP , ENFP
Omega = ISFP , INFJ
Sigma = INTJ , INTP , ISTP
@@infjforever-river-sal. Thank you very much. I needed validation and some comfort. Be safe my friend
@@joshuaforbus5853 🙂
10. They refuse to be controlled.
9. Extremely selective / they know their worth.
8. They dominate the room
7. They don't care about what others say.
6. They don't need anything from anyone.
5. They're extremely curious.
4. They don't tolerate anybody who ruins their peace and solitude.
3. They're so hard to reach.
2. They don't follow anyone's rules.
1. They're very competitive (against themselves, not other people).
Unless they are blackmailed
@Ruvane Friebus What methods??
99.5% true
We're walking and talking paradoxes of ourselves. Careful though. We're known to steal someone's soul if you push us to far. I'm kidding! Kind of...
@@5p4rk3r : Spoken like a true INFJ. Our dark humor is priceless. Well Played Sir. Well Played.
I think the hardest thing about being an sigma INFJ is that people tend to think you are showing off rather than just simply being yourself, I hated having to hold back as a child in order to "fit in". I know minions. I know.
I used to be sent out of the room do that a teacher could teach a class in peace ss I would blurt out answers before she could blink. I would turn up at the principals office and be given a job delivering papers to other classes , or sent to help out in a grd. 1 or 2 class
It was fun. I often hot myself sent out. Classes were very boring and we were in an enriched, progressive educational environment. Can't imagine a normal class. Actually I can . In gr. 9 O was in one for one day. Thank goodness our VP was my Mom's cousin. He moved me immediately. I thought I would suffocate as the pace was so very slow. Lovely sweet people and teachers but one felt like they were swimming in molasses. No place for any type of INFJ.
@@heatherloffelmann3547 ya i was thinking always about many things misdiagnosed with adhd but i ended up helping out the class or tutoring students my own age or older. It was okay though i liked helping and still do :)
Good to know I was not the only one. It was weird. People really just found us strange but cheerful so keep us busy. Seems their better angles were in charge.
@@heatherloffelmann3547 They are all more than willing to hang back and watch as you do all the work too. throw in a picture memory into the mix and your nothing but a know it all :0 Fun times fun times:)
@@kiplaroy9664 right you are but to keep things moving, stepping in too help ment that we all benefited in the end. Remember teaching the other kids in the class in gr 8 how to sightsing so they could pass the music course. There are little tricks that make it easy . You just have to let the info out. Also, it sounded more in tune when we al had to sing together for the inspector and the whole group got one mark. Method in my madness!
100% spot on. I find extroverted alphas annoying af.
Yeeeessssss......
Likewise 😒
Hahaha yeah they get on my nerves as well.
The one who speak , doesnt know. The one who know, doesnt speak 👊
That's probably because you've not opened up to many, or have been unlucky in the past, you can find good in anyone
YOU are self-aware, wise, and humble.
Ditto.
❤️
Amen Brethren
thankyou.
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The most "dangerous" part about me is that I always put too high expectations on myself. Which in turn has caused A LOT of procrastination and anxiety.
Omg yes!
Same 🥲
Generally, yes. I do not know what other people think I'm going to do to them or why. 🤷♀️
Being an infj sigma, on the spiritual path has taught me alot about my self, this can also relate to the spiritual realm with similarities, it's really facinating. Stay safe everyone☺️
Started off meditating, shutting my thoughts and boom I've grown so much as I look back.
@@jbmz I relate :) more power and love to you
@@lisaa23581 thank you for your kind words right back at you ✊🏽
you're crazy. Serious.
Why is this dangerous? Nothing but compliments for me. This means we have a spine and are very strong people and open and honest! Thank you 🙇♀️
Ahhh.. the observant sigma INFJ. They answer to no one, listen to every word, watch every move, and check every behavior and know all the kinks in your armour. Crossing a sigma can be a self-destructive suicide.
YES!
I’m not entirely sure if I’m a Sigma INFJ. I was frequently attacked and bullied as a kid, so much so that I started trying to hide my apathetic and masculine instincts. Can someone relate?
This comment is the best so far!!! I’m acutely observant I watch, listen, feel everything around me ….environment & people alike. I noticed things 99% of people don’t & I will know you better than you’ll ever know yourself just by my observation!
@@braydenwolf7116being a infj Sigma sometime takes time. By learning through obstacles and difficulties perfecting and observant on each move. If you ever gone through any PTSD , bullying. Just compare you and younger version .
@@braydenwolf7116 it takes time for an infj to become a sigma i was only able to find my true self after getting dropped in high school and living in complete despair for a year all by myself
Key factor, competing against ourselves. I don't care about competition. KEY
Exactly. It’s so hard for people to get this. I want to be better than who I was yesterday.
That's not you. You're on some video reassuring yourself. If you were really that great you wouldn't have time to look up videos on strangers reassuring you. 🤡🤡🤡
@@willdeleon7853 Will Deleon Will you keep dropping such Knowledge or Will you not.
That part! It’s my life, I’m here to become the best version of myself
lol it’s true because I don’t really care for like board games or games in general I will purposely lose the game just so I don’t have to play and I remember I knew a few people who would get upset with me that I wasn’t competitive with other people. they have no idea the mental gymnastics I do competing with my past and future self
Being a sigma infj and an addict with mental health issues because of post-traumatic stress it has been a crazy ride figuring out who I am. But being who I am as a sigma infj I have been able to overcome things by myself that most people would have died. I thank God that I am the way I am ❤️
Same
same, but with depression
@@Grandpa98 same dude. Being emotional , broken but yet we rise. Always perfecting ourselfs. I am thankful being me.
I hear you.
I can't help but find the beautiful thing as well as the dark negative crazy stuff. As I get older I understand there's a reason for both. My character defects that are my worst are what were there to save me when nothing else was other than God. Gave me strength ❤️🌻
Extremely good presentation, man. I finally feel like I have a home. We are rare, and life does not make an easy road for us, we have to struggle to escape from the mental and behavioural slavery which is fed to us. Thanks for doing these videos, they're very much what I need to hear.
I get that feeling of finally having a home. We are indeed highly self-aware individuals, which helps to have better common sense (something rare nowadays).
Dangerous because I know I rub people wrong. But their reasons are faulty. So therefore I have to be ready to defend myself against their unfounded attacks. Be they verbal or physical or spiritual. I get attacked a lot. So now I'm an accomplished martial artist, in various styles. And an excellent marksman. Plus my skills in expression are second to none. Combined with a will made of pure steel. I'm perfectly equipped to deal with the unrefined. I love peace but I won't allow myself to be destroyed by a lesser entity.
You’re so lucky you can defend your self . I am 60 INFJ and disabled 👍
@@hugmc blessings to you. I've been in positions where I couldn't protect myself physically. I'm a brain cancer survivor. I had to have emergency brain surgery 12 hours straight. Wide awake. Afterwards my enemies were emboldened. Though weakened that's when I had to lean on my mental capabilities. Power of persuasion and influence. I don't fain to understand your situation, but I've found that when we lose one ability another becomes stronger. I'd love to discuss what you have discovered. Your time on earth alone surpasses my own. I'm sure you have a wealth of knowledge.
Yeah, it's a little funny that I pity myself for still having a soft spot in my heart for those who hurt me😆....this is why when I get angry, I need to let it all go or it will destroy me internally...cuz after that, I can feel good and slowly starts to be loving again...in fact, I pity so much my former friend that I miss them when they hadn't lost their sanity yet because of a guy😕
@@sabrinawanderer7560 no sweetie, you sound quite healthy to me. We can't control how people treat us. But we do have to protect ourselves from people who hurt us because they don't understand us completely. That dosen't mean we don't love them. It's actually the opposite. We love them and understand that we can only deal with them in small doses. I'd make sure I had a safe place to recharge. And don't be so hard on yourself. You have a lot of love in your heart. That's a wonderful thing. The world needs exactly what you have.
@@fazblakk997 this made me cry you know😭...let time heals my woundedness and thank you for your healthy comment.😃
It's called being goal oriented , some must acquire this skill but to a Sigma it comes natural.
It is truly the biggest difference between us an others ,we crave independency and enjoy it's rewards whilst most rely on outside influence to achieve peace of mind
It's so silly when people try to compete with me, they never seem to realize I don't even notice their existence because I am always at war with my past self. I usually try to exit the scene before they make that realization as it tends to damage their ego. But it never had anything to do with them.
I won't lie I do love playing daft and keeping my skill sets hidden so I can knock people off balance when they challenge me. I'm just a guy after all nothing to see.
🎯👋💕 exactly. Keeping my skills silent has saved my ass more than once.
"always at war with my past self" Exceptionally well said.
😂😂😂 so you do compete with people then?
🧢
Telling us about how you're a sigma only told us about why you're not a sigma. And with a touch of bitterness and entitlement, too. I'm thinking borderline Delta-Beta.
As an INFJ that is like this just want to say these things are not easy for us to do but we do it because it best for us and peace of mind
So true❣❣💕
That's explains WHY I never ask anyone for help. I don't ask for anything from anyone. No matter how hard it gets. And yes, I can easily dismissed anyone who I feel it's a waste of my time. Thanks for sharing your knowledge and this video. And definitely don't care of what other people thinks of me. I keep my circle of friends to the bare minimum. 1 or 2. I don't have time to waste on people and their NONSENSE. I'm very choosy when it comes to people. I don't trust a lot of them.
Being a Sigma INFJ myself, I am still my own worst enemy surrounded by enemies. Because of my intellect and thirst for knowledge with my intuition automatically finding answers to just about any problem, I am a target for all others.
Facts bruh 💯🙏
I though I was alone
Lmao cringe
...♠️...
At least you know, you're not the only one ✊🏾...
@@feezthedeal6704 all I can say is just keep focusing on being the True/Authentic you. All come and go but those who choose to stay, the extremely few that they are will love you and hopefully be curious enough to satisfy your needs as much as you satisfy your loved ones.My mother died of brain cancer a year ago and was the only one to understand me(she was also infj). But yes, I do feel as if things happen without our “conscious control” almost as if there another part of us at play not subconsciously but just something different, otherworldly especially not in the physical world. I’m just trying to share a lil of my perspective or my truth to you to hopefully give you the insight you need cause I just made the realization today that despite being to myself but not necessarily alone all my life, I’ve always stayed true to me without knowing in many situations growing up and I absolutely love myself for that after realizing.
Competing with your ideal self. I’ve played that game a lot, but never verbalized it that way. Well said.
This is terrifyingly accurate. I knew I was an INFJ but I recently found out about the sigma archetype. WOW
It’s pretty interesting..but also draining..it’s hard building ever lasting relationships. I don’t even understand myself how would others?
Hello there. I am just now learning about "personalities" . After going through a difficult time I'm trying to figure myself out. Can you explain what a " infj" is please
@@joshuacruz9805introvert intuitive feeling judging
Wish I knew more about INFJs when I was in the military. My only friends that push my comfort zone are my wingmen. I have always tried to be a better person then I was the day before.
Keep up the great work.
I’m right there with you! It sucks being an INFJ in the military lol.
@@johnroybal933 I will it did help me a lot with the job I had, lots of Trouble shooting. Looking back the one time being one helped me to shine when I was still in, my 1st Sargent came to me for a task he needed done in 30 mins. Had it done and exceeded his expectations. Probably my favorite coin In my collection.
Alpha = ESTJ , EN TJ , ESTP
Beta = ESFJ , ENFJ , ENTP, ESFP
Delta = ISTJ , ISFJ
Gamma = INFP , ENFP
Omega = ISFP , INFJ
Sigma = INTJ , INTP , ISTP
Omega ? OMG ! The end .
I spent my whole life knowing that I was very different even thinking I came from another planet then I discovered I am a sigma INFJ. I don't feel so alone anymore ♥️
We're all alone together here. 😂
They said I'm a loose canon, but they're wrong.
I'm a loose sniper.
“They’re curiosity always keeps them awake at night”
Literally facts 🙃
Yes my freedom and personal space is my own heaven and anyone who tries to control me because of their own insecurities and selfish interests will be shown the door 🚪
Damn ! ... an other one 💯 ... this quite shocked me, when I started to recognize myself in these points. So grateful for this channel 🙏 ... really helping me to accept my place in this world, in the way I am ... and slowly I am able to accept that I don't need to take it as a curse in some moments. It became much easy to flow constructively between different states of being . And I start to accept it as my reality . 🙏
Yes❣❣❣
🤡🤡🤡if you need some video to tell you, you're probably not.
I can relate all, I just searched the correlation between infj and sigma, suddenly this video is appeared
Numerology might be of interest to you. Pythagoras, Nikola Tesla, these should help give you more insight.
Smart dude. This was like sitting and listening 2 a description of myself.
As a sigma infj, I’ve encountered alpha types before. Instantly, their is respect that goes both ways. There’s a knowing that both embody powerful energies that demand respect. The only difference is that one is un-aware and the other is self-aware. One leads in front of his people, one leads behind his people. One can gather bold and courageous men, one can gather the entire nation if it wanted too. One fuels motivation with fearlessness and courageousness and bravery/dignity, one fuels motivation with empathy, hopefulness, self-awareness/integrity. Both very strong leaders, but completely different perceptions. Your men are strong in body, strength and mind. My men are strong in body, heart and soul. The mind can break, but the heart can never break because it is it’s truth. This is probably why sigmas don’t lead and let others do it. They wait until they have a vision or encountered with injustice. I see sigmas like MLK and Hitler.
Thanks for the video and for some of comments to. That was my missing link. I feel much more complete now. I have to say that I respect some rules, the ones I believe are just. Thank you again, it means a lot to me.
Same here. 👋🥰
I desperately needed that video,learning more about being a sigma infj💥
I am definitely a Signa INFJ and have ONLY been with my husband and that’s been for 22 years. He is confident and doesn’t need me hovering and I am creative, thinker, quiet most of the time. I accept my weirdness and wouldn’t have it any other way and challenge the world’s judgement system. Good listener. Hospice nurse. Very few close friends. Rarely open up. Could stay home all the time. Curious about everything and insomniac.
Often chalked a lot of the solitude stuff and internal thinking, people watching to being an only child 🤷🏼♀️
I cried when I heard this video and is exactly me. Thank you.
This is so me I was just having a talk with my homie and I told him as a believer of God I see myself maturing more instead of changing in becoming righteous and living a holy life cause at the end of the day as humans we are sinners and we have flaws and I constantly express my flaws and show and give my heart to God cause I know at the end of the day I'm not doing right but always walking humbly amongst his presence and God honors a person who is honest with themselves, with others and even him man us INFJs can be rebellious but we're honest with ourselves as a whole with our positives and negatives
It's so hard as an INFJ sigma because I'm always doing stuff on my own and always trying to do better than I did before, when people think I won't do something I prove them wrong instantly. When someone disrupts my peace and balance I have no problem cutting them out. It's so hard to ask for help most times and normally I have to think on it before I do anything.
I watch these infj videos and before leaving a comment- I usually scroll down and that very thought--- usually conveyed as well or maybe with more eloquence--- has already been expressed...
Its amazing.
... apparently this is a pattern when a room full of infj's from across the world respond to the same information ...
Me reading through these comments: wow, these are my people 😌. It’s comforting knowing that there are indeed people who exist with similar thoughts and ideals. Especially growing up being titled as “weird”, “too different”, and “unemotional”. It can get very lonely and boring.
Right? I feel like i have no friends. Watching this video makes me feel less alone for sure, but i need to be social with like minded people.
Which is fucked cuz none of us really like to socialize. The common people always suck.
@@Docnomania it’s our double edged sword 😂🥲
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I used to wish a teacher would just be quiet and let me read the lesson. If I had the book, I'd already read it. Sitting still and listening was torture. I go with the story in my mind, and get in trouble for day dreaming. Sometimes I'd get accused if cheating for acing tests. I'd be standing there with years in my eyes saying no, I just read the book. I had a few wonderful teachers who saw it though. Bless them forever.
All points are true at the highest level in my life. I'm extremely curious. People always said to me " what a great question". Whenever I wake up in the middle of the night and can't go back to sleep I would keep searching on the subject I left before going to be. It looks weird to people because you can find me searching about animals, food,places,or theories at 3,4 am. I also like to question people's motivations to make them realize how superficial they are in the case I'm sure they are. This comes from the idea of not following the crowd. I really don't mind standing alone by myself. I'm very confident to sit alone in a row of a room with 300 people. I'm very comfortable going to the theater by myself. I'm so weird and happy with it.
#2 I never adjust anything to "blend in".
I acknowledge differences. But I don't "adjust" myself to anyone.
Everything else, 100% accurate.
This was kind of scary. I knew I wasn't a classic Alpha but also knew I was the polar opposite of a Beta. To me being an Alpha meant running a race that someone else had constructed to win a prize that meant nothing to me. Virtually every bullet point in this presentation mirrored my own path. I did not know such a category (Sigma INFJ) existed and I still reject that any external classification can sum up my own personal journey or status (which may even make me more of what this video suggests ironically). However if I was to explain to someone what I am, this video is scarily close. I'm not dangerous, I'm a supporting loving person, however yes, if someone's core philosophy runs so counter to my own core values that it's unassailable, I will simply end all contact. I don't let anyone dictate to me my own self worth. Plenty of people have come after me physically mentally and professionally and usually sooner or later if they are persistent enough they will take me down. But here's the key. I almost never initiate the aggression. it's not worth my time. It's better to simply disregard and remove that person from your life. But here's the caution you need with someone like me. If despite all that, you still insist on coming after me (essentially making it personal), you won't make it out either. My advice is, don't. It won't end well for you.
Ok, peepeepoopoo 😐… Sure. “Dangerous” is a dramatic way of describing us and is basically a clickbait title. yes, we are somewhat pretentious, but that comes from seeing the world with a completely different perspective than 99% of other people on earth. So no, it wouldn’t really make sense to you and that’s okay. You have your own valid perspectives and opinions, which may or may not be better, worse, or different. But why even watch a video about a personality that is different from your own, and then immediately or dismiss it because it’s not what you think, feel, or believe. Of course it’s different. It’s not you. Literally, the most famous, infamous, and world changing people were this exact personality type. Everyone I’ve ever met has told me that they don’t know anyone else like me, and that can be traumatic through childhood but it is welcomed as an adult. Although sometimes as an adult you still want to just fit in, while simultaneously knowing that you never will, at least not in a conventional or traditional sense of the word. So why not try to learn and understand instead of trolling and attacking something that you don’t get.
@@peepeepoopoo2749 hi Delta type!
This is so me! I knew I didn’t have an alpha personality but I definitely wasn’t a beta. Sigmas are the best of both worlds.
I'm unhealthy INFJ it's really painful when I was in 7th grade I withdraw away from people and started doing a lot of activity that interest me, till my mom thought theirs something wrong with me for not going out and play with other kids.
How the F does this describe myself so accurately.... I am astounded.
Im a sigma, I think in the last 2 years those behaviours have been showing up, and I think this happend with time, I mean we tend to upgrade ourselves to be better and the same time we built walls to not be hurt, so with time we learn that be so sentimental on what others feels and continiously be sufering because of the world is not worthy, we know that not so many people can see what we see, so in order to live a better life we can cut out all the shit that is not worth in this world, sometimes the world itself as society present us isnt worthy, so I think is our way to find another path to live.
Additional to this if the people that have a social title above us like bosses, familiars or politicians doesnt have the sigth, the abillities, the intelligence to make right desicions that affect us, we tent to not follow them but confront their autority in order to benefit all of us.
Thanks for the comment.
Yea David,what you say is so very true, most people are like a (copy and paste version of everyone else ) L.OL. all this appeal to authority yield to authority I've no time for that, we know what works for us and we hit our targets whatever we set our minds on, 😂😂a fellow INFj tribe 💕
And for no reason do I mean that becoming a sigma is a negative thing, or that it makes you a better INFJ.
What I mean is that it can be a natural process that we INFJs can get to by discovering ourselves in relation to the world.
Absorbing the emotions of everyone around us can be one of our Achilles heel or our greatest virtue, a weakness or a goal to improve, at first when we are young INFJs we can even feel pride in deciphering feelings of others pretending that we can help them to change, to heal them from the situations they cannot see.
I learned one thing, and that is I am not God, that it is not healthy for me to absorb and be responsible for others, we are not super human, so I decided that no matter how hard it was, I was not going to take responsibility for others feelings, and Don't get me wrong INFJs are not narcissists and for this very reason that we are emotional to make this decision I think it is the hardest thing we deal with as INFJs.
But we have to be happy, right? I understood that I am as common as everyone else and that it was an air of greatness to pretend that I can protect other people or even help them with their feelings, not only that, by leaving other people to Dealing with their own emotions helps them to be strong and to discover themselves.
I have learned in recent years through the eyes of other INFJs more blessed, gifted and with a broader vision than mine, and I must say that I have been able to find a balance in my life, learn from a more experienced INFJ that you can reach. to more advanced conclusions and find the why of things? (Like Uchiha clan when one member pass their eye to another, that vision becomes more powerful, and the new individual master and give that eye a new purpose and abillity!)
It does not matter if you are a sigma or a young INFJ, there are things that you must let go of even if they hurt and that is absorbing emotions, believe me you will continue to be a good human being, there is no way that evil will triumph over us.
Imagine yourself meditating in a zen position, around you there is a protective bubble, which isolates you from the feelings of others, the feelings scream at you at the edge of the bubble full of agony, talk to them and explain them that you should be happy and that you understand them but you cant let them in, that you also suffer and that just like you can find a solution and calm for your own, the calm will also come to them and the answer they need from the right person(their owner).
I managed to see the future through the most blessed INFJ I have ever known "Canserbero" and it is a unique and indescribable experience, we tend to believe that our vision is unique and unaltered and we do not listen to other INFJs, it is more we do not even want to see what they have to say, But today I tell you with my calm heart if you can see through a blessed do it, it will take less years for you to reach your balance, to calm your hearth.
PS: Anger and indignation with the world will always be present in us hahaha this is not a fairy tale, only that you will know which fights are worth it.
It is not worth dying for something that is not worth it. Life is always the most important thing, do not die in vain in this world, the only important mission is to enjoy and decipher this life.
@@davidarguedas5735 you are so very right In everything you say,definitely I think the older I got the better, I did have s lot of encouragement from my Dad, he was way ahead of his time, very self sufficient.but always nurtured in people the gifts they had and would spend time with them, he was very Empathetic towards.people, and a.wise mentor, a lot of people loved him, he was always humble, I think us INfjs improve with age and geting through hard situations, I get a lot of insight through my dreams, it's like I connect and recharge and attain knowledge while I'm asleep, it gets into the right compartments, if that makes sense,l.o.l.,any how .we must move onward, no matter what's going on in the world, and always re.assure ourselves with that inner voice as our greatest gift,.have a great weekend 🤗🤗💗
I didn't intend to be this way. But childhood abuse and my inexplicable desire to know why people do what they do started me on this path. Then, events occurred to further distance myself from society: Reiki, remote viewing, access to past lives, and connections with ghosts. These toggles were all flipped before the Schwarzenegger of divergences- my NDE. The feeling of being in this world, but not of it, allows me to be both the actor and director of my own life story. I often wonder how we would all treat each other if we had that perspective. To that end, I try to be a metaphysical Johnny Appleseed. Share what I've learned and move on. Perhaps this is why the Sigma INFJ [male and female] are here now... to be a force multiplier / change agent, who operates outside the constraints of social hierarchy, and is invested in the process but detached to the outcome?
A whole lotta facts shared with this video…👍🏾
This is terrifyingly too accurate.
I find pre and post day meditation very handy and use the emotions and feelings to guid my manifestations
I think we are difficult people to handle.
I have shamed quite a number of people who think otherwise about me...i'm the type of person who intentionally bring out the worst in me or show my vulnerability because it's only in this way can my ever watchful eyes see the true colors of people around me. It is sad sometimes and fun other times. Nonetheless, I crave for genuine people now. I badly needed a friend whom I can lean on during my struggles in life. I crave and yearn for that one true soul who can love me especially when I hit rock bottom and not someone who despise and leave me when I'm not shining anymore. I swear, I can move mountains once I am able to meet that one true soul who can bring out the best in me.
Same here..
...more than anyone could possibly know..except you of course because you feel the same way.
Here's to us both on our quest to finding that 1 of a kind true blue that gets us like no other.
Do you have money bro, lol
I am so glad yall made a Sigma INFJ video... cause we are rare as rare can be. And no one gets it lmao not even other INFJ types
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With that being said. Sigmas will learn you and let you hurt yourself by dropping the floor on your ego. Bringing you back to reality.... then cutting you off forever. Cold is an understatement.
Its not that sigmas are dangerous. We just understand on a deeper level how predictable people are. Everyone does the same thing... in knowing that, you move different.
Amazing video today.
Thanks for the comment.I couldn't have said it better.
@@alvaropablo4688 😁
Wow. If I thought you could not be more accurate. I feel this is me!!
Wow! If so what is your goal ( just for curiosity )
@@kababudas4157 create a center for abused humans and animals
Thanks for trying to help these rare birds .
This is me, I didn't even know I thought there was just INFJ, thank you for this video!
I love the comments sections of INFJ videos… always the longest comments of any personality type. I’ll keep this short, but still, it’s probably longer than the average comment;) Great Video.
Spot on most of this like i have seen in other clips too.
Heard competitive and dismissed it until it was elaborated as competitive against themselves and yep, everything is spot on
As a sigma INFJ, this is soo on point. This is the best description I have heard to describe me as INFJ. 🎯
Thank you, well put together.
When I did the 16personalities test, it gave me INTJ but I can relate to a lot of these things. I do talk very little, we have a lunch group in office where these guys talk a lot during lunchtime, esp office politics whereas I mind my own business reading something in phone or doing something else. When I weigh in, everyone listens and they know my words have value. Another thing is both inner peace and independence. I got married 2 years ago, arranged marriage as part of my culture. She is a control freak and she wanted things to be her way, very emotional and dramatic and manipulative. I just ignored and left her to her own designs. She is frustrated that I don't care nor do I bother to fight with her, which is what she wanted. In the meantime, this corona came and we were in different places due to some reasons. This distance and my nonchalance drove her crazy whereas I was in peace in her absence. The most irritating thing for a wife is to see her husband be happy in her absence. Long story short, we are filing for divorce. While she, like a pendulum, swinging between divorce and working it out, I have made my lines clear. If you want to be under my roof, follow my rules else move on. No loss for me. And I am not hurt by divorce as many including my parents expected me to be. This revealed the depth of my personality to myself and even scared me a little bit. But I know I can manage..
When I got to a place of near self actualization, I realized I can be the most powerful person in the room, even when I'm not saying a word. The chains of societal and social expectations were broken. You want to be in my life and experience the valuable benefits of being my friend? You play by my rules, which involve being a kind and genuine person who doesn't play games.
3:36 HAHAH why are telling all of our secrets ?? Actually, now I know why I want people to leave me alone, honestly being this personality type is funny and this channel is a blessing Thank you !
As a Sigma INFJ ,i have decided having another human as partner is a waste
Needed to hear this ... accurate description of me ... I lean more on my Ti than Fe hence the characteristics
The rarest personality on the planet...!
And I’ve learned to be exactly okay with that
It scares me how easy I can disconnect from absolutely everything but then that’s where I’m most comfortable- as long as I have myself I’m completely okay.
how many of us in the world :)?
Thanks so much...finally i found myself...all this time i keep on thinking why im acting like this...so im one of sigma infj✌....im glad to knew that🙏
An almost perfect description of us. Since starting to work full time at the age of 14yrs old my life mottos been "I don't follow standards or trends.... I set them.
The underlying behavioral and character traits described here are what IMHO psychologically equate (in terms of my professional temperament) to the Kiersey Professional Temperament Sorter profile/classification of being of a "Rational Inventor/Rational Mastermind temperament.
Thank you for posting this article as it's the first time I've been able to explain where my professional mindset originates.
Many Thanks!
Back in days when I didn't know I was an INFJ I always felt frustrated because I thought I was a weird person for many reasons and no ones understood me and They always wanted me to explain everything about what I think, feel etc.
I thought I was the only one with this weird personality, however now that I know I'm a INFJ, I'm so glad to know there are more people like me.
This was very good this video, you hit all the targets we are very much us and don't need to change to fit in, we have our own Standards and beliefs that have proven to work for us ,💗💗💗💗🙉💯
My husband and I are both sigma INFJs. I think this is the best way we could be truly fulfilled in a marriage because we are so similar. All of these points describe us very well, only some qualities have been weakened depending on the childhood challenges that we each experienced.
Great presentation
I have seen how my mom react to her friend. She helps them when they have food shortage even when those friend are far but she cannot tolerate when they spoke negatively to the person she loves most. My mom love a person but the person had no choice to go back to his country. And then our country is lockdown. No international travel is allowed. She assist him in such ways that other people envy of those relationship. At first she tries to response nicely to her friend. She said, she understand that the person tries to protect her but she prefer to stay and belief that she will be able to reunite with her loved one even though it will takes time but the person keep saying that it was not ok to see how faithful mom and love in far distance never work. Mom already become like volcano going to burst. She still patience until she suddenly block and delete the person number from her list. Even though she block the person, she still post the food to the person because she understand the person situation.
Most people take my kindness as weakness and try to teach me childish things. My heart signals my senses to choose the direction and it is the right direction and thanks GOD for that.
(1)I definitely REFUSE to be controlled by anyone. Ever. (2)Very selective, it feels good to associate with the "self-aware, wise and humble", I mean, who wants otherwise?(3)When we mind our own business during the noise, they`ll listen to us during the silence, only we`ll sum up everything in one word. Meeting over.(4)We cannot be without dreams/ambitions and such things require calm, peace of mind. (5)Meaningful connections; once that is out of the window, nothing else matters, not our history not our investments. (6)Ignorance and INFJs don`t go in the same column, knowledge is good. (7)As an INFJ, do you have friends who can`t respect personal space? No. (8)If we don`t think what we`re doing is important enough, we won`t do it. So why would anyone stop us when we decide to do something? (9)No dream is too impossible to achieve, once the eyes are set on it.
I am definitely a sigma infj...i never knew there was a name for people like me i thought i was just a little different.
Thanks for all the comments guys, i am glad i have discovered who i am as i have always been the outsider and still be able to achieve, i can easily dominate a room and seek solitude , yes all what is said in the presentation and comments are very true, Lindsey
How do I manifest my strengths in daily life ? I walk the straight path, look to the good and bad of both sides and absorb those lessons to improve.
It is a very simple method in a complex world when you figure it out.
This explains me so much. Thank you
Ur vision of Us is Byootafull for Ever,,,,,,,,,,, Thank You So Much,,: )
This presentation is an "Ace-tight" depiction of my personality, character, and lifestyle. If I didn't know any better, I would have thought the speaker was my next-door neighbor taking notes on my lifestyle for years. Great video! Thanks for uploading!
Ace tight....🖤
The part that really resonated with me most is where INFJs sigma are mostly self employed and independent. That. Is. Just. Me! I hate being controlled and at the mercy of my employers, sometimes there is a change of schedule by my former boss and I hated it, I can't have my alone moments even during breaks sometimes because there's something they want done by me specifically because I do things well... Now I'm self employed and I also get contracts with strict rules, the peace is really divine! Still looking forward to a lot of traveling and learning! Thanks for this video.
First time hearing about sigma INFJ, and scary that most of these are close to what I have done. Many things are explained here and spot-on, I kinda feel goosebumps
Your videos are seriously impressive. The most accurate and well-articulated explanations of an INFJ.
I love all of you INFJs. Keep your head up, trust your intuition, and never ever, ever, be ashamed. Our time is almost here.
I do not and never have let anyone dictate anything in my life
# 4 is of the utmost importance.
You astound me. Ben & Jerry has Nothing on you. Back on track - Working on goals more than you think. Healthy relationship with a like minded person. Can’t help being curious.
Watching this after I committed one of the biggest mistakes ever for myself and others while attempting to move forward....and it's somewhat comforting, despite the effect of my actions and the fluctuations between that of that pesky third letter in the Myers-Briggs hierarchy. Rock on y'all
Personally, I think we need to stop concentrating on these titles that say "dangerous" "rare" "intimidating"..it makes us sound like we are placing ourselves on a pedastal .That's the very thing we stand against.
I am actually a combination of Sigma, INFJ and Aquarian all at once. This is all true, and I am impressed you combined the 2 it's the first hearing a combination of a sigma INFJ
Add Tauren and Chinese metal ox to this deadly combo for tenacity cubed. Lol
wow I'm extremely like this from start to finish...
As an 'INFJ'; i have no friends.. people seem to 'tolerate' me; knowing i am 'favored'- but none meet my definition of an actual friend- though i more than surpass theirs.. it sucks at times and is lonely; but life had brought me here after 30+years of my hard work. So ive learned to never forsake the 'salf' as that is what sets me aside from those of ill repute/intent. It is my teue source of protection.
thank you thank you thank you!!!! I shall wield this power with love and heart. Also I wanna anti hack cyber terrorism and I have all the certs. But nobody wants to pay me 108k a year to design new ways of blocking hackers.... Ive already wrote the code and have the stuff ready. Of course I wont tell any companies this. Cause I want them to choose me beause of my personality+skillz. Not because I own code that would make them billions of dollars.
Once my parents took me to a psycho clinic because I've started a side hustle because I wanted earn more money and learn more about business. They said to the psychiatrist, that they should give me medication to forget my attitude and live a "normal" life.
Everyone in my family failed for transforming me.😂😂😂😂
Wisdom and knowledge are definitely necessary
So I'm a simga male introverted infj Empath. Many people around seem to always be threatened by my presence, even though I do or say nothing. It took me years to figure out what was going on. I know now...
Thank you
I even refused to be at both of my parent’s death beds because even there they would still continue to try and control me.
Just learned about this personality type. Explains a lot!
This is me, thanks for this video