Paul is one of the few PUA’s who was a natural that ended up semi famous and teaching this stuff. Most of these other guys were mostly losers/introverts who had to work hard to get women and get better at game. This is why Paul ended up having a “normal” life and chose to settle down
I’m glad Paul’s doing great. Met up with him for the first time in 2012 when he just moved to London. Never got an opportunity to meet again since then.
Hadn't seen or heard anything to do with this guy since I watched a video seminar of him from...late 2000s? Early 2010s? Around there I guess. I barely recognize him. it's interesting to see a guy like this transition to something more stable and meaningful. What happened to Roosh V was cartoonish and cringey, but Paula is way more reasonable and level-headed.
Interesting. I think folks, you have to Remember Paul was very well educated, possibly wealthy family. My life has been a bit up and down. It's hard to really plan in the way Paul suggests. Careers, money is more fluid, especially if you aren't being head hunted by silicon valley. As he says who has the time, the exact situation to pursue women. There's a few girls I regret not settling down with. I suppose, for me, more or less the best it gets but part of me was still looking over the horizon. You never know where things will end up. If you have the "perfect" situation, can you hold on to it? There's divorce, drifting apart and so on. My cousin has I think four kids now, I'm single 50 same age as my cousin. I think his family life does bring him pleasure in a way but he constantly looks tired and stressed and so on. You don't know as well if your kids will come to hate you etc. I speak to many men whose kids never talk to them so it's not some panacea to happiness. So really you pay one way or another: if you pursue freedom then you risk loneliness. I know deeply what Paul is saying, as I live it. But I also find I'm sharper in the things I'm interested in. I can go deeply into learning Spanish, cooking or fixing the house. I've learnt so much just having to do it for myself, alone. So I think all this stuff is a balance.
Paul is one of the few PUA’s who was a natural that ended up semi famous and teaching this stuff. Most of these other guys were mostly losers/introverts who had to work hard to get women and get better at game. This is why Paul ended up having a “normal” life and chose to settle down
Paul is a legend.
I’m glad Paul’s doing great. Met up with him for the first time in 2012 when he just moved to London. Never got an opportunity to meet again since then.
Paul is a cool kid!!
I enjoyed this! Great video.
Great insight would love to see him again
Wonderful!
Hadn't seen or heard anything to do with this guy since I watched a video seminar of him from...late 2000s? Early 2010s? Around there I guess. I barely recognize him. it's interesting to see a guy like this transition to something more stable and meaningful. What happened to Roosh V was cartoonish and cringey, but Paula is way more reasonable and level-headed.
Paul Janka and Kenneth Play will make great interview!
Interesting. I think folks, you have to Remember Paul was very well educated, possibly wealthy family. My life has been a bit up and down. It's hard to really plan in the way Paul suggests. Careers, money is more fluid, especially if you aren't being head hunted by silicon valley. As he says who has the time, the exact situation to pursue women. There's a few girls I regret not settling down with. I suppose, for me, more or less the best it gets but part of me was still looking over the horizon. You never know where things will end up. If you have the "perfect" situation, can you hold on to it? There's divorce, drifting apart and so on. My cousin has I think four kids now, I'm single 50 same age as my cousin. I think his family life does bring him pleasure in a way but he constantly looks tired and stressed and so on. You don't know as well if your kids will come to hate you etc. I speak to many men whose kids never talk to them so it's not some panacea to happiness. So really you pay one way or another: if you pursue freedom then you risk loneliness. I know deeply what Paul is saying, as I live it. But I also find I'm sharper in the things I'm interested in. I can go deeply into learning Spanish, cooking or fixing the house. I've learnt so much just having to do it for myself, alone. So I think all this stuff is a balance.