I can tell You the difference between Polish Girls and British Girls. Polish girls cook meals as good as their mothers. British girls drink as much as their fathers.
janka has lost his touch after years of marriage, can't blame him, wonder how he would interact with her in his prime. i think this girl thinks she knows alot, but she is mistaken.
Paul Janka was so patient with Kezia. He knows a lot more than her and isn’t afraid to tell it like it is, oh and he’s a successful MALE PUA, so men can relate to him more.
Pretty interesting conversation. I'm a Canadian and I've been living in London for almost 10 years. Had quite the limited luck with any English women. And what you say is absolutely right. At places like Kensington Roof Gardens, ladies will straight up ask "where do you live?" If you fumble around and say "Wandsworth" or "Lambeth", you're not having any more interaction. So yeah.. absolutely true. English women seem to like English men and that's about it.. But then again, there is so many amazing people in London, so no need to focus in any one direction.
So another way to say, if you go to england, leave british women alone because it´s not worth it? After watching this video and reading the comments it sounds like they´re kind of dumb and arrogant at the same time: Explosive mix!
Useful video. I just wish that next time, please allow the man to finish his thoughts. It seemed like you were steering his answers by continuously interrupting him.
+MrWise to be fair, she was shutting down the pickup artist side of him. Alot of that kind of stuff is not exactly nice, bullshitting should never be necessary
My only experience with British girls was the two weeks I spent visiting Scotland. I found women there to basically be silent, unsmiling, dour looking sorts. Basically every single one had a giant wall of "Don't talk to me, I don't want to talk to anyone, I'd rather stare at the ground" around them. In the US you can at least usually come up with something to get them smiling, talking, whatever even if it's just to say they're not interested. True, I was just there for a couple of weeks, and I did have a good time, but I was left wondering exactly how baby Scots are made considering nobody seems interested in meeting or talking to anyone they don't already know. Come to think of it I don't remember seeing a single baby when I was there. Hmmm..
+CapAnson12345 I think Kezia and the guy covered this with their tribal description of British girls. It is easy here in America cause we live here and have a lot in common with each other. In other words, we can relate to each other. There, when you open your mouth or even they spot different mannerisms in body language, they know that you are not from there and like Kezia said, the tribal barriers kick in.
They do that to UK guys too! Thats partly why the native population is declining. If they think you are better looking than them, better educated etc, they will think "Why is he talking to me?". If they think you arent as good looking as them or less educated than them they think "Ughh, why is he talking to me?".
(From personal experience) when it comes to attraction, there isn't much difference between UK and US girls. They tend to become attracted to impolite, creative, aloof; the push and pull, indecisive types (that's me). French and Italian I think are more about money and/or fashion or status. My theory is the cultures have a different definition of status. Like UK/US link artistic abilities to status where as French, Italian, etc link status to actual money. US women tend to get loud or become freakishly awkward yet aggressive, where they walk up to me with this giant smile with a loud "HI!", and this is on the Upper East Side New York types so they're usually conservative. British chicks are aggressive in a more dart-like way. Like they'd say hi and I'd say hi and then continue to talk to my buddy again. Then they'd do something like ask me for my name, where I live, what I like to do, what I'm up to this weekend - they do random questions until it gets me into a flow of the conversation (if that makes sense). Both types of chicks do hardcore flirty eyes though
It's funny how the expression "taking a piss" is more or less exclusively a British term. Americans tend to be unfamiliar with it. Instead, Americans usually say stuff like "I'm just giving you shit" or "just fu@#ing with you or "I'm breaking your balls"
So right! the point that she has made in 9:26, it is very true. I know, they are talking about the English world/communities but I could tell you that in the Spanish world is the same. I knew that because I was born in Ecuador, a SouthAmerican country but I've raised in Spain ,a European country. Because of being in middle of two cultures you are able to see differences, and you're human, you compare And it happens as she says in the video
oh my GOD you speak about finding her little girl side , he speaks about using the natural geography of the place... this seem really interesting and more meaningful and powerful ways for connection May GOD Helps me to not forget such unique advices. Investing on special persons for themselves is better than any cheaper seduction. thank you very much kezi , ma bella , my sista, my lovely teacher and my sexy mermaid. I hope for you blessings and long term success
Kezia...what I thought was interesting...was that Paul did a lot of repeating your words back to you ,even if he didn't seem to agree with you , seem to create great comunication
I'll give you 3 ways you could get a girl (some might work and some...not so much) 1) go to the gym 2) be honest about what you want (you could be direct or indirect) 3) bullshit your way to it... simple
+david odimayo not really...that's called bulking if you eat regularly and exercise vigorously you won't bulk or shred you will simply tone (which is what I do...I have nice bis and tris yet my stomach is such a let down...I just can't ever get abs even if I try my best to shred)
German and English Humor are actually very similar IMO, I'm fucking German and I love the English humor. Ricky Gervais, anyone? Sarcastic, dark, if these arent attributes that remind of Germans I dont know what are.
Any girls taking advice from this lady, instantly cease. I only got 1 minute in and .. way to demoralization someone. Instead of being like “oh this guy USED to be really popular. So when did you reach your peak?” Wtf how is that sexy coming from a girl. How hard is it to say “Paul Janka has been an idol in the pick-up scene/dating community for over a decade. A well experience blah blah”. She obviously doesn’t know how to talk to men.
I hate people say British women are not attractive. British beauty is different from other countries. Some of the women are tend to have these classy looking appearences. British women isn't always about plastic surgery and boob jobs but there are a few who do it but mostly they look good naturally. A lot of the hottest female celebrities are British and usually dominate those list of the sexiest women the world.
Kezia sounds annoying and loves hearing herself talk. She's supposedly conducting an interview and yet seems to be doing most of the talking. As for not being a "defeatist" Are you kidding me? Paul Janka is right, Why would I waste my time on an attention whore who is single minded upon getting into the movie industry and is using people? Trying to game her would literally be faking it on my end as it is not someone worthy of my pursuit. Why waste each other's time? This whole humor thing doesn't apply to all situations and following Kezia advice in that regard would be like creating a facade.
The 1st Decent Video of hers I've come across. Still dealin' with running Game, but it actually addressing the Social Differences which truly matter. You can't just get any Woman.
British humor formally bonds from adjectives and sarcasm to form a witted structures of logic statements. Intellect is a great way to expand this form humor. Although, women thoughts have backslided men minds (or imprisoned them) into believeing that we must convey ourselves into their every need; it remains necessary that men recall their essential requirements and responsibilities to keep their partners satisfied. Hmph.
This girl has got it, the issue I see is that guys will take this info and use it to put her down (disrespectfully) instead of seeing her as a scared or anxious woman, with multi fascist looking to make something of herself. I think she needs to be careful on how she says, "put down" because that's not what she needs, she needs someone to investigate her heart, her inner desires and why she has them.
*English girls. I'm amazed that Kezia (who is English) couldn't get the title right. It's not helpful to confuse the listener like this. Scottish and Welsh girls are even MORE different, and this clip is about English girls.
Instant respect to Kezia for shutting down the guy immediately when he suggested bullshitting. It shows you wont compromise on what you stand for and teach men to be real. I love it!
+Kezia noble And we spotted you calling him a defeatist when he simply didn't want to be used as stepping stone for a budding Hollywood actress. That's not defeatism, that's exercising self respect.
Well, wherever I go, british humour is known to be dumb! Nobody could laugh at a british joke, unless if it were to please the speaker! And... Never listen to a girl if we speak of pick up lines.. they are not men :) Respect to Janka!
Kezia, you interrupted him when he was about to describe the german mating dance! What about german girls? Can you do an interview on that . This guy is gild. Thank you!
I remember the "Carry on Nurse" series. Is that an example of the sophisticated British wit? How about "Mr. Bean"? What about "Monty Python"? And then there's the British Music Hall tradition. Yeah, I now see what you mean. You Brits are really sophisticated...in their own minds
+QUABLEDISTOCFICKLEPO Mr Bean is not witty in the slightest, and we dont pretend that it is. Monty Python is, its satire plain and simple. The carry on films are again just slapstick, more american humor than british wit. But if you actually look at some other examples of classic british comedy you will get the idea, things like blackadder, dads army, faulty towers to an extent.
If you know anything about pick up, this interview sucks because you can tell she likes Paul J, she getting turned on and testing him. She screwing up the interview,could be a badass interview between them both....
11:50 - and that's why I'll be taking Kezia's 7 day program. Most dating/pick-up coaches on RUclips have a certain "sleaze" factor. I won't be a part of it. I trust Kezia to give me good solid advice without resorting to "con-artistry" tactics.
I disagree with him when I was a student I had considerable daily success meeting English women....but I wasn't hitting on them in a crass way I wanted to get to know them and was interested in them and treated them with respect....I understand their humour since I was in English schools when I was young (I am American). I think that the English girls probably sensed that he was a cold hearted predator who had no interest in them as human beings.
you want to show the two things that you touch twice kenzia .do not show i love you...............................................................................
Ok... I was being defensive about this video and subject matter, but I've just fallen in love with her simply because she mentioned 'Red Dwarf'! I'm instantly sold.
I can tell You the difference between Polish Girls and British Girls. Polish girls cook meals as good as their mothers. British girls drink as much as their fathers.
Good one.
Piotrek L. True story....
Lololol
10 seconds of Paul's advice is more valuable than 10 minutes of Kezia's babbling. Had to put it out there.
You can tell that girl has an ego that works against her & Paul has an ego that works for him
janka has lost his touch after years of marriage, can't blame him, wonder how he would interact with her in his prime. i think this girl thinks she knows alot, but she is mistaken.
James Daniel Smith true
Paul is one of the legends! !! NY is hard to play!
thank you so much miss kezia ☺
+youcef belhadj You are more than welcome!
STEJTHEGREATEST I am sorry I did not understand you
Paul Janka was so patient with Kezia. He knows a lot more than her and isn’t afraid to tell it like it is, oh and he’s a successful MALE PUA, so men can relate to him more.
What is she on
Pretty interesting conversation. I'm a Canadian and I've been living in London for almost 10 years. Had quite the limited luck with any English women. And what you say is absolutely right. At places like Kensington Roof Gardens, ladies will straight up ask "where do you live?" If you fumble around and say "Wandsworth" or "Lambeth", you're not having any more interaction. So yeah.. absolutely true. English women seem to like English men and that's about it.. But then again, there is so many amazing people in London, so no need to focus in any one direction.
So another way to say, if you go to england, leave british women alone because it´s not worth it? After watching this video and reading the comments it sounds like they´re kind of dumb and arrogant at the same time: Explosive mix!
Are those poor areas?
what people don't notice is how janka conducts,keeps himself a very clean look,like his looking through you
Thank you. informative and re-enforcing.
Useful video. I just wish that next time, please allow the man to finish his thoughts. It seemed like you were steering his answers by continuously interrupting him.
+MrWise to be fair, she was shutting down the pickup artist side of him. Alot of that kind of stuff is not exactly nice, bullshitting should never be necessary
very good video any tips on meeting women in England though please
Janka is a special one. Massive value in his ebook and videos. Very good guy indeed.
Paul Janka is spitting fire Kezia is a novice.
Paul is a natural and Kezia in more a technician
You don’t listen to fish when trying to catch fish. You listen to the fisherman.
My only experience with British girls was the two weeks I spent visiting Scotland. I found women there to basically be silent, unsmiling, dour looking sorts. Basically every single one had a giant wall of "Don't talk to me, I don't want to talk to anyone, I'd rather stare at the ground" around them. In the US you can at least usually come up with something to get them smiling, talking, whatever even if it's just to say they're not interested. True, I was just there for a couple of weeks, and I did have a good time, but I was left wondering exactly how baby Scots are made considering nobody seems interested in meeting or talking to anyone they don't already know. Come to think of it I don't remember seeing a single baby when I was there. Hmmm..
+CapAnson12345 I think Kezia and the guy covered this with their tribal description of British girls. It is easy here in America cause we live here and have a lot in common with each other. In other words, we can relate to each other. There, when you open your mouth or even they spot different mannerisms in body language, they know that you are not from there and like Kezia said, the tribal barriers kick in.
They do that to UK guys too! Thats partly why the native population is declining. If they think you are better looking than them, better educated etc, they will think "Why is he talking to me?". If they think you arent as good looking as them or less educated than them they think "Ughh, why is he talking to me?".
Wow, both of them are right! I really enjoy this vlog!
I dont know what the people of the internet are saying but Kezia Noble is spot on.
The only tip you need is be yourself, be confident, if they dont like you for you then they are not right for you.
Then got are with the wrong person
Paul Janka is a Very Intelligent, he should write a book
his written several...
Airon Rodrigues where? I can't find them on Amazon
Search 'Gettin laid in NYC'
What she says about British humor is spot on.
(From personal experience) when it comes to attraction, there isn't much difference between UK and US girls. They tend to become attracted to impolite, creative, aloof; the push and pull, indecisive types (that's me). French and Italian I think are more about money and/or fashion or status. My theory is the cultures have a different definition of status. Like UK/US link artistic abilities to status where as French, Italian, etc link status to actual money. US women tend to get loud or become freakishly awkward yet aggressive, where they walk up to me with this giant smile with a loud "HI!", and this is on the Upper East Side New York types so they're usually conservative. British chicks are aggressive in a more dart-like way. Like they'd say hi and I'd say hi and then continue to talk to my buddy again. Then they'd do something like ask me for my name, where I live, what I like to do, what I'm up to this weekend - they do random questions until it gets me into a flow of the conversation (if that makes sense). Both types of chicks do hardcore flirty eyes though
It's funny how the expression "taking a piss" is more or less exclusively a British term. Americans tend to be unfamiliar with it. Instead, Americans usually say stuff like "I'm just giving you shit" or "just fu@#ing with you or "I'm breaking your balls"
So right! the point that she has made in 9:26, it is very true.
I know, they are talking about the English world/communities but I could tell you that in the Spanish world is the same. I knew that because I was born in Ecuador, a SouthAmerican country but I've raised in Spain ,a European country.
Because of being in middle of two cultures you are able to see differences, and you're human, you compare
And it happens as she says in the video
Didn't expect this to turn into an enjoyable sociology lecture.
Tribal? Wow learned something new today! August 11, 2023. USA.
You dont ask a fish how to catch a fish you ask a fisherman dont ask women for dating advice thats what they think not wat they respond to
oh my GOD
you speak about finding her little girl side , he speaks about using the natural geography of the place...
this seem really interesting and more meaningful and powerful ways for connection
May GOD Helps me to not forget such unique advices. Investing on special persons for themselves is better than any cheaper seduction.
thank you very much kezi , ma bella , my sista, my lovely teacher and my sexy mermaid. I hope for you blessings and long term success
it doesnt work. I tried it all!
Clear,
Merci K,
TVG
Kezia...what I thought was interesting...was that Paul did a lot of repeating your words back to you ,even if he didn't seem to agree with you , seem to create great comunication
nice interview, kezia
My british ex used to always always say "are you trying to take the piss out of me?" I am very antagonistic all the time. It clicked for sure.
pick up only works if your good looking. pick up just gives you the ability to handle rejection better. it's a numbers game when it comes pua.
I'll give you 3 ways you could get a girl (some might work and some...not so much)
1) go to the gym
2) be honest about what you want (you could be direct or indirect)
3) bullshit your way to it... simple
+Amr Al Your body is affected by 70% diet and 30% exercise. So if you go to the gym and eat like a pig. People will still be fat.
+Amr Al 1) MONEY
2) MONEY
3) MONEY
+Jonny P
And More
MONEY
MONEY
MONEY
+david odimayo not really...that's called bulking if you eat regularly and exercise vigorously you won't bulk or shred you will simply tone (which is what I do...I have nice bis and tris yet my stomach is such a let down...I just can't ever get abs even if I try my best to shred)
+Jonny P that falls under the category number three more bullshit ^^
Hey welcome to my video, I disagree with what you're saying and I'm gong to talk over you the entire video. Cheers!
Seriously annoying isn't it.
Get over yourself Kezia. Give me a real woman any day of the week.
The way he cut you off at 8:22 though XD
This girl interviews someone and proceeds to talk more and try to correct him on things 🤦
Is that Borat?
German and English Humor are actually very similar IMO, I'm fucking German and I love the English humor. Ricky Gervais, anyone? Sarcastic, dark, if these arent attributes that remind of Germans I dont know what are.
Any girls taking advice from this lady, instantly cease. I only got 1 minute in and .. way to demoralization someone. Instead of being like “oh this guy USED to be really popular. So when did you reach your peak?” Wtf how is that sexy coming from a girl. How hard is it to say “Paul Janka has been an idol in the pick-up scene/dating community for over a decade. A well experience blah blah”. She obviously doesn’t know how to talk to men.
That Harvey Weinstein reference😂😂😂
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I LIKE YOUR HAIRS KEZIA. BRUNETTE SUITS YOU BEST
I hate people say British women are not attractive. British beauty is different from other countries. Some of the women are tend to have these classy looking appearences. British women isn't always about plastic surgery and boob jobs but there are a few who do it but mostly they look good naturally. A lot of the hottest female celebrities are British and usually dominate those list of the sexiest women the world.
I'm turning Paul Janka into a meme.
Kezia sounds annoying and loves hearing herself talk. She's supposedly conducting an interview and yet seems to be doing most of the talking. As for not being a "defeatist" Are you kidding me? Paul Janka is right, Why would I waste my time on an attention whore who is single minded upon getting into the movie industry and is using people? Trying to game her would literally be faking it on my end as it is not someone worthy of my pursuit. Why waste each other's time? This whole humor thing doesn't apply to all situations and following Kezia advice in that regard would be like creating a facade.
My god what a beautiful women,WOW.
Denmark and The Netherland has much the same humor as Britain. just FYI
The 1st Decent Video of hers I've come across. Still dealin' with running Game, but it actually addressing the Social Differences which truly matter. You can't just get any Woman.
Kezia, let the poor guy speak...
12:16 wtf kind of answer was she looking for. He gave the best answer to not waste your time with those women
I came here to see the differences and not the "tricks" to "pick-up"
Just be authentic and sincere with a woman and you'll get very far.
rocksandturtles And what is your definition of “very far?”
British humor formally bonds from adjectives and sarcasm to form a witted structures of logic statements. Intellect is a great way to expand this form humor. Although, women thoughts have backslided men minds (or imprisoned them) into believeing that we must convey ourselves into their every need; it remains necessary that men recall their essential requirements and responsibilities to keep their partners satisfied. Hmph.
This paragraph slightly remains grammatically incorrect.
😢😂
Oh praise the wisdom!! ✨🙏✨
This girl has got it, the issue I see is that guys will take this info and use it to put her down (disrespectfully) instead of seeing her as a scared or anxious woman, with multi fascist looking to make something of herself.
I think she needs to be careful on how she says, "put down" because that's not what she needs, she needs someone to investigate her heart, her inner desires and why she has them.
Us Canadians love British Humour.
Monty Python!
As a kid, I loved a show called "Some Mothers Do Have 'Em"... Hilarious.
The difference between East Coast /MidWest and West Coast girls is so noticeable..... I miss my West Coast ladies :(
*English girls. I'm amazed that Kezia (who is English) couldn't get the title right. It's not helpful to confuse the listener like this. Scottish and Welsh girls are even MORE different, and this clip is about English girls.
My Advice regarding transitioning, is if you tread it like it doesn't exist and just keep on talking then you'll be fine.
good interview kezia you should do a collaboration with RSDTyler orJulien Blanc
Instant respect to Kezia for shutting down the guy immediately when he suggested bullshitting. It shows you wont compromise on what you stand for and teach men to be real. I love it!
+Kaytlin Mills Glad you spotted that!
+Kezia noble And we spotted you calling him a defeatist when he simply didn't want to be used as stepping stone for a budding Hollywood actress. That's not defeatism, that's exercising self respect.
paul janka is a prophet!!
Well, wherever I go, british humour is known to be dumb! Nobody could laugh at a british joke, unless if it were to please the speaker! And... Never listen to a girl if we speak of pick up lines.. they are not men :) Respect to Janka!
Yes he makes a profit.
omfg Kezia, yes! I'm from New Zealand and our humour is exactly the same, taking the piss! No one ever understands hahahahahha
Im british and date Argentine woman, barely knowing any spanish at all. i take the piss, they love it! all woman do.
Good job Kezia ;)
Kezia, you interrupted him when he was about to describe the german mating dance! What about german girls? Can you do an interview on that . This guy is gild. Thank you!
Haha that sounds exactly like my sense of humour to a tee
Funny how she avoids making eye contact with Paul.
Humour. Basically chick logic for Money.
"When you want to catch a fish......"
Do one on Togolese girls.
You should do a podcast orskype session with Scotty or Chris from goodlookingloser. These guys don't bullshit and are not "PUAs"
I think we lost the classic Paul for good,sad moment for pua community
I remember the "Carry on Nurse" series. Is that an example of the sophisticated British wit? How about "Mr. Bean"? What about "Monty Python"? And then there's the British Music Hall tradition. Yeah, I now see what you mean. You Brits are really sophisticated...in their own minds
+QUABLEDISTOCFICKLEPO Mr Bean is not witty in the slightest, and we dont pretend that it is. Monty Python is, its satire plain and simple. The carry on films are again just slapstick, more american humor than british wit. But if you actually look at some other examples of classic british comedy you will get the idea, things like blackadder, dads army, faulty towers to an extent.
That's a VERY provocative title. I was hoping for a ripping pillow fight in skimpy nighties.
It something else. Ask me if you want to know. And the answer is not dirty.
If you know anything about pick up, this interview sucks because you can tell she likes Paul J, she getting turned on and testing him. She screwing up the interview,could be a badass interview between them both....
"Tribal" sounds more neoliberal, than "class"
Paul looking like Joaquin Phoenix from Her
is funny how she tries to hide she's nervous, even more so, cause she's subtly flirting with him, send him signs and stuff, rather cringy
20.58 he's like "where did it come from, what hit me? " Kezia not fair to play with a married man, hey Kezia?
20.58 freeze. Kezia "...played you. Bit disappointed there...."
eyy girl, your shoes are incorrectly tied, i know how to do it in a magical way, can i show you?
he said woman when I read woman
Tom Torero level --------------- then everyone else.
11:50 - and that's why I'll be taking Kezia's 7 day program. Most dating/pick-up coaches on RUclips have a certain "sleaze" factor. I won't be a part of it. I trust Kezia to give me good solid advice without resorting to "con-artistry" tactics.
this guy`s head is huge! bigger than mine...
I disagree with him when I was a student I had considerable daily success meeting English women....but I wasn't hitting on them in a crass way I wanted to get to know them and was interested in them and treated them with respect....I understand their humour since I was in English schools when I was young (I am American). I think that the English girls probably sensed that he was a cold hearted predator who had no interest in them as human beings.
you want to show the two things that you touch twice kenzia .do not show i love you...............................................................................
Mention of Harvey Weinstein is unfortunate.
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I was always an anglophile D
Nah. Buying a girls attention is definitely not alpha
In the US the woman have a better chance finding the right guy because she fallows the bank. The average guy is screwed here.
Damnn he Got so old now
Ok... I was being defensive about this video and subject matter, but I've just fallen in love with her simply because she mentioned 'Red Dwarf'! I'm instantly sold.
@15:11 So you've always had a thing about younger guys. That's hot. You're melting my ice cream. 🍦😰 Just how young do you like them? 😉
America is not a class based system. HAHAHAHAHAHAHA.
I'm a fan of Janka but he's a white man who went to Harvard. Of course he'd say that lol.
Class would be rich vs. middle class vs. poor, not geographic area.
a little too much mascara
Good grief!!! It would scare me to hit on British girls!😅