I bet you meant not a comment about you, but this is your best "appearance". You are more likeable and natural than you are all dressed up and in control in your other videos. Also nice smile, I am not sure how easy could be to get used to new facial expressions, but this is one of the things I got from the video. If I like your smile so much to make a difference, I may change my expressions to something even more appealing from my extra appealing self.
I have to say this video is spot-on. I'm happily long-term 'attached', but getting interested in the psychology of game and learning the basics from as many online resources as I can find has definitely positively improved my day to day life. I don't use it for pulling, just to enrich my social interactions. I'm way more confident, more 'Alpha' and generally having more fun in a social context than I did before. Thanks for the vids, you definitely know your shit.
just wanted to say how much this one video has helped me relise things i never had or new of, which has led me to relise my problems that i can now work on. thanks for showing me this :)
Great interview and video in a pleasant setting full of useful information. Kezia allowed her guest to speak without constantly interrupting, which is so common these days. She guided her guest and made the interview flow smoothly. Very enjoyable. She is the true queen of England. Thanks for all your help. -michigan
I just wanted to say, in case you did not know, Mark has something there about Jimmy Stewart. You might not know Jimmy Stewart volunteered for the US Army Air Corps in World War II, putting his move star career on hold. He was a B-24 pilot flying many combat missions out of England and elsewhere. He rose from private to full colonel during the war, while earning two distinguished flying crosses and the French Croix de Guerre. After WW II, he remained in the USAF reserve, ultimately becoming a Brigadier General. He was considered the third most striking Hollywood leading men after Clark Gable and Humphrey Bogart. He was just tremendous.
Framing, brilliant. (newly single here, sorry for so many comments). I've actually been practicing with people at work, I didn't know that I was "framing," I just knew I needed to adjust my public persona, and get my identity out there (where before it didn't matter so much). We wear hearing protection at work and are, for the most part, incredibly busy for the shift, we only have the opportunity for quick interactions. I've started engaging in those small opportunities (where I never had before). It is true that you get what you give. I recently started greeting people. I smile and wave and wish them all good morning or good evening as we change shifts and I was amazed at how responsive they've all been! I used to think they were all grumpy and sour. Literally, almost to the person, NONE of them are grumpy or sour. Their faces light up when they see me now. they have even started to wave at me first, and greet me with a smile. I realize this IS ME just VENTING on your comments section now BUUUUUUT, my point is; I've carried this in to my normal life now. I say hello to the cute cashier, I make a joke with her (mostly about the groceries I'm buying), I say hello to EVERYONE on the street that I pass by now, especially if she's a pretty girl. I make eye contact, I stand tall, I'm not afraid to be me! It's just because I practiced at work, then found that most people will not respond unkindly if you are genuine. Most (all) people will be happy to speak with you! If you ask that gorgeous girl at the grocery store what the best brand of spice to buy is, she will TOTALLY engage with you. Smile, be kind, don't pretend ... but ALSO don't prepare for failure :)
Wow, that really puts a clear focus on the interactions between us all, in and out of "game" mode. It had been my principal default approach, but more vaguely so, without realizing the value & importance of this interaction. And doesn't it make a more meaningful life, even if this isn't leveraged in the deeper relationship aspect, just getting our butts out of "stranger mode" and have pleasant, and perhaps meaningful interactions with the souls who share our planet? Kezia, you are tops, very engaging & entertaining videos.
There is a lot of truth about having the energy / frame of mind / body language to confirm the image / vibe you project around you. Women are better than men at picking this up. The other side is when you do have their attention you need to have the frame that you value yourself. So, if she is disrespectful have a polite and clear comment that she has stepped over the line and has excluded herself. You need to have clear boundaries of behaviour, your time is valuable too, not just hers. That is one thing CEOs and other high position men project well. That their time is valuable so do not waste it. Men need to learn to have this frame of thinking.
I think the most important ''frame'' is to be real. Just show yourself and go for a chat. Most men are scared of being rejected and think that this is a bad thing. I don't think this is true, you are just giving it a chance. Sometimes it pays of and sometimes it doesn't. Love and attraction has to work both ways.
Good advice. You look great in this video Kezia. I think I like the more casual, dressed down look on you than the evening attire. You look natural and relaxed. Cool shades too. Mark comes across very well. He doesn't have your classic GQ looks but he is totally confident in himself. I can see how women would be attracted to guys like him. This is a good video. Really like it.
super-like it! very good concepts. and now I am convinced even more of what I thought to myself already: it´s important to be able to approach anytime. will work on that. and your outfit is very cool, Kezia.
I love this video! Mark is so knowledgable and it shows he's very good at what he does. I love the message that consistency is the key. You gotta keep your skills, game, personality, whatever sharp with constant practice.
Good stuff, Kezia! I like how you and your team get down to the facts while having a little fun. I'm bummed you were wearing sun glasses, your eye makeup is just mesmerizing. When are you coming to USA east coast?
Mark J is an amazing instructor. If I could've spent the entire week with him, I would have. All the instructors were great though. Matt, Dan, Sam and Mark J were my favourites.
Hi Kezia the park is a great place to be at ease the lighting was just right you both looked very good BUT you have got to fix your sunglasses they are a little low on the right side, just bend the right arm down a bit, I hope you don't mind my mentioning it I have been A Forensic Photographer for many years and I see everything, I must agree with Mark don't let time stop your game slow down, she may be the one. Thank you again for showing me how to see myself
Kezia. Important question. What if your working in an environment where you need to be Profesional around others, but you want to flirt with a woman. I work in ER at a hospital and it's really hard to engage in flirting infront of other people.
Comparing Sainsburys and Walmart? Tesco is more like Walmart (or Asda for that matter), Sainsburys is way more upscale than Walmart, not Whole foods, but not that far away...
Excellent & helpful to let us see a very attractive real girl (Kezia, who is one of those) in a real environment, not a stiff indoors, in addition to giving us the simple yet unknown(!) revelation.
Kezia thought a lot of the American people watching this video won't have have heard of Sainsburys before. It must be a British supermarket chain that doesn't crop up anywhere in America. So she was just explaining what it is.
Preparing for failure is bad imo. of course you should know that rejection can happen anytime but if you have that in mind all the time, it can be a bad mindset.
I loved the atmosphere of the video, such a beautiful day, loved the setting with the path you were walking on, gave me a feeling that interaction with women is a journey, a oath to be g connected, the flowers, trees, birds, grass, and other people showed me how we can connect to creation and to each other through nature. However, I don't get any practical examples from this video, more theory and general abstract thinking, would love to see a practical examples in action. Also, do you look at the MBTI personality types when considering how to interact with women. I am an INFP/ INFJ and more of a 1-1 type person, I don't like crowds, clubs, or busy areas. I prefer the quiet solitude and setting of a park. Everything for me is feeling based, perception based, I'm like in the 4% of people that have this and I am a very rare man as most men do NOT SEE women, deep in their soul like I do. But I unfortunately find that women dislike or are turned off by my feelings and perception based personality because I am able to express my feelings confidently, I'm in touch with my SOUL, and they don't like me SEEing through them so easy, not that I tell them this, I just feel it, know it intuitively, but they consistantly seem to turn away from me even though I am genuine and confident. I often wonder if they are insecure or immature about their own feelings or don't see me as a challenge to fix, I'm already secure in me and don't need them to fix me, I just want to connect deeply with them, which they do not want to do, and I never push them or force them into the connection, so it's frustrating for me as an INFP/INFJ to establish a basic connection with women in this day and age. Have women been brainwashed through bad boy experiences that don't work or go bad, so they force themselves into thinking that's all there is, so when a great guy like myself comes along they have no clue what to do? Love your video, very positive vibe, would love to meet Kezia and connect with you, get a feeling for who you are in your soul, not just what you show on your Vids for business.
Hi Kezia when you crossed your arms, i thought you could be a bit introverted but i remembered that i know you better from your channel ;) also possible that you just did not feel very comfortable at that moment. thank's for this video have a great day
Im married, we have five children together. There are a lot of testing times with the children and more often than not we get so stressed that we end up fighting a lot taking it out on each other. Despite how much we love each other it can feel awful and at times we struggle. Do you have any advice to bring back some of the positive that we once had? It can be very tough because obviously we get little time as just a couple and getting out alone is near impossible and doesnt happen often.
Sneak outside after the kids are sleeping and just chill man... Don't even have to say anything just breath you know or go for a little midnight stroll, that's just what I would do.
I also feel like that is also a build up of sexual tension that cannot be expressed in front of five children so it comes out as arguing. Could be wrong tho never been married.
I have been watching hours and hours of PUA videos and a couple few scores of approaches and this time/consistency angle is very helpful. Time is the enemy and consistently ply your craft. Thanks. Kezia I would like to marry you for a couple days.
one thing I'd love to see is your lessons put into play. you could flim one of your top students applying your techniques and subtitle-or point out- what technique he is using. I understand your advice but I'm more visual and would love to see how these all look when you apply them. Another good video would be a "heckle" video. In this type of video you could on propose give your students a negative reaction to thier pick up line, approach etc. and then we can see how they flip it back around. you are a beautiful woman after all and the ultimate challange.
I disagree with you Kezia on the 5 minute thing. I workout in a gym and i get stalked and asked out. Girls either want my fb or number. I am not even good looking. Time have changed :)
This video really made me a laugh. Kezia claims she doesn't like Matrix while because of dark glasses looks like woman version of Morpheus showing Neo real world :))
Kezia your videos are really great! And it is interesting to hear the opinion of the best female dating-coach. I have one question. Do you think it is okay to go intentionally out (e.g. for an hour) to approach women? Thanks Kezia!
Do you you really need her to answer that? Of course it's ok, in fact it should be encouraged. That's how you build your confidence with women. The more women you approach or approach you and start talking to you the more confident you'll become talking with a woman, any woman, hot or not. With everything in life, no matter what you do, it takes practice.
jetliFAN Because some coaches say you can approach girls when you´re on your way to work, for shopping etc. and not only to go out to approach girls. Which pages in Kezias book are about approach anxiety and rejection?
bull2037 What are you afraid of? Rejection? It's a part of life. Failure is a part of life. Everyone gets rejected. Why are you painting this picture to yourself that a girl is scary to approach? Trust me when I say this, once you approach this girl and start talking to her, the 2nd conversation will be much easier. You'll have this weight lifted off your shoulder and you'll really think "what was I so afraid of, this went better than I expected". Here's what I did. There was this girl working at my local pharmacy I really liked. I didn't want to mess it up obviously. So I went to coffee shops, parks, anywhere outside where I can meet girls and just started conversations with them so I can practice on them so my nervousness and fear of rejection eases. The first few girls I approached, I had moments of dullness, not knowing what to say after like 2 minutes, I got rejected a few times but I don't care because they're just practice. Don't try to be someone you're not, don't lie, be yourself and you'll be fine. Be witty and be funny. If you can make a girl laugh WITH you and not AT you then you'll be fine.
+jetliFAN Thanks for your long answer. I am 39 and we have a lot of young students here. I think that i am too old and will be rejected and don't approach than.
bull2037 Too old? No such thing as "too old". You're as young as you feel. If you think you're too old now and you keep saying "i'll do it later". You're not getting any younger, you'll only get older. Then when you're 45 you'll be saying "i'm too old now, should have done this when I was 39 and young". Never too old to fall in love. Love doesn't care about time or age, you just need to find the right person. Remember rejection is a part of life, everyone experiences it. You will never get good and comfortable at approaching and talking to a woman if you don't try. Remember if you get rejected by 1 there's still 1 million+ women to try again with. Just try.
What do you think? Are customers off limits? Kezia, I haven’t heard you mention anything on this. I have always thought, YES. But, I work in a retail clothes (mens &womens) shop. On the odd occasion it seems that some female customers could be flirting with me. From time-to-time I've had female customers not stop talking to me and/or throw me a cheeky smile. I've even had female customers throw me a cheeky smile when their boyfriend isn’t looking! Are these situations worth pursuing, or is it better to just leave it?
The truth is, it's all down to the politics of your work environment. Some places are very relaxed, some are not. No problem chatting to people, but if you're working at a place where one bit of unwelcome flirtation could lead to a complaint and then you getting fired, it really isn't worth it.
Preparing for failure causes anxiety. Prepare for success. If that chick doesn't like you, then you will succeed with another. If that chick does like you, then you WON'T KNOW what do do with yourself when you succeed.
So this girl in my class today comes up to me asking if I want to study with her in the library because she thinks I seem to look like I understand the material. I was too shy to approach her but I'm glad she approached me because she's hot. So we're sitting in the library with the textbook on the table and she pulls out a Victoria secret catalog and she is just looking through it while i'm sitting there quietly not saying anything. She points to a black see through thong, turns to me and asks if I like it. Then before I can say anything (because i'm shocked she asked) she says "do you think i'd look good in it"? Before I can even answer, she's like "forget it", and we continue with the studying but she's very uninterested in the studying and just texts the entire time. I was thrown off completely, I didn't expect this. Call me stupid, but is this a hint that she wanted a one night stand with me? Did I blow it completely by being shocked and not knowing what to say? I'll see her Thursday. what do I say? Yea, lets have sex? Lets get drinks after you finish with your classes? What do I say?
8:30 "The things I want to see in someone I just met include... calm, relaxed... energetic..." What? lmao. There was good information in the video, I enjoyed it. I think there's a bit of fluff that could be worked on. It should be more straight-forward here's the information.
What was confusing? I simply mean that I want people to be calm, relaxed and energetic, therefore I need to exude these exact qualities in an approach. It's a core principle.
You can't be calm/relaxed and energetic. If you have someone smoke a bowl of weed and then give them caffeine pills, they are not going to have a good time. As for the second part, you could just say something like "Practice being confident and polite everywhere you go so you are comfortable doing it within seconds with an opportunity arises." It doesn't take nearly 15 minutes to impart that message.
Of course you can. Energetic doesn't mean frenetic, intense, etc, it just refers to being alive in your interaction. That can easily be matched with calmness. It's how you direct your energy. I have taught this for a long time, and the truth is buzzwords are useless. That type of quick advice has no effect on anyone. Examples, analogies, are very useful for people to picture these things in their own life. If you prefer things to be more concise, that entirely your view, and I respect that.
markonlife I agree that "relaxed and alive" are both qualities that are desired in day game. My perspective when I hear "energetic" is excited, slightly crazy, upbeat, fast, etc. But now I could see that energetic could have different meanings depending on how people used the word around you.
Following you on your dating advice video for sometime now and needless to say.I'm pleased You deserve an A plus. Mind If I ask you, can you do this technique to a guy that you want to seduce him?
reading thru some comments here for once.. I have to say, I admire Kezia's ability to put up with / seemingly-not-be-bothered with some of the bullshit which a lot of people write here. (I hope this is not eating away from your energy / determination / ability to keep up your good work; I am sure the people with the dumbest comments have the greatest inferiority (or other) complexes. (shud you one day feel excess energy left over, perhaps u cud start a secondary life coaching avenue for females: how to become better able to take idiot males in their stride..?!)
Had to re-upload this because RUclips shortened the first version- leave a comment if you like it ;-)
I wanna bend you over the park bench, that's what I got out of it.
Thanks for the videos and advice.
Not all of us are Trolls.
Same here haha
I bet you meant not a comment about you, but this is your best "appearance". You are more likeable and natural than you are all dressed up and in control in your other videos. Also nice smile, I am not sure how easy could be to get used to new facial expressions, but this is one of the things I got from the video. If I like your smile so much to make a difference, I may change my expressions to something even more appealing from my extra appealing self.
who is richard burten , post his wiki link . @ kezia- noble.
anyways you look awesome and intellectual.
I have to say this video is spot-on. I'm happily long-term 'attached', but getting interested in the psychology of game and learning the basics from as many online resources as I can find has definitely positively improved my day to day life. I don't use it for pulling, just to enrich my social interactions. I'm way more confident, more 'Alpha' and generally having more fun in a social context than I did before. Thanks for the vids, you definitely know your shit.
just wanted to say how much this one video has helped me relise things i never had or new of, which has led me to relise my problems that i can now work on. thanks for showing me this :)
Great interview and video in a pleasant setting full of useful information. Kezia allowed her guest to speak without constantly interrupting, which is so common these days. She guided her guest and made the interview flow smoothly. Very enjoyable. She is the true queen of England. Thanks for all your help. -michigan
I just wanted to say, in case you did not know, Mark has something there about Jimmy Stewart. You might not know Jimmy Stewart volunteered for the US Army Air Corps in World War II, putting his move star career on hold. He was a B-24 pilot flying many combat missions out of England and elsewhere. He rose from private to full colonel during the war, while earning two distinguished flying crosses and the French Croix de Guerre. After WW II, he remained in the USAF reserve, ultimately becoming a Brigadier General. He was considered the third most striking Hollywood leading men after Clark Gable and Humphrey Bogart. He was just tremendous.
#2 Best Movie To Put On When You Got A Girl In Your Apartment: CRAZY, STUPID, LOVE.
I was going to blow off this video but decided to give it a watch. I'm glad I did, thanks Kezia.
Out of all the videos I've seen of you, Kezia, this is the one in which you look astonishing beautiful, so natural..
Framing, brilliant. (newly single here, sorry for so many comments). I've actually been practicing with people at work, I didn't know that I was "framing," I just knew I needed to adjust my public persona, and get my identity out there (where before it didn't matter so much). We wear hearing protection at work and are, for the most part, incredibly busy for the shift, we only have the opportunity for quick interactions. I've started engaging in those small opportunities (where I never had before). It is true that you get what you give. I recently started greeting people. I smile and wave and wish them all good morning or good evening as we change shifts and I was amazed at how responsive they've all been! I used to think they were all grumpy and sour. Literally, almost to the person, NONE of them are grumpy or sour. Their faces light up when they see me now. they have even started to wave at me first, and greet me with a smile. I realize this IS ME just VENTING on your comments section now BUUUUUUT, my point is; I've carried this in to my normal life now. I say hello to the cute cashier, I make a joke with her (mostly about the groceries I'm buying), I say hello to EVERYONE on the street that I pass by now, especially if she's a pretty girl. I make eye contact, I stand tall, I'm not afraid to be me! It's just because I practiced at work, then found that most people will not respond unkindly if you are genuine. Most (all) people will be happy to speak with you! If you ask that gorgeous girl at the grocery store what the best brand of spice to buy is, she will TOTALLY engage with you. Smile, be kind, don't pretend ... but ALSO don't prepare for failure :)
Wow, that really puts a clear focus on the interactions between us all, in and out of "game" mode. It had been my principal default approach, but more vaguely so, without realizing the value & importance of this interaction. And doesn't it make a more meaningful life, even if this isn't leveraged in the deeper relationship aspect, just getting our butts out of "stranger mode" and have pleasant, and perhaps meaningful interactions with the souls who share our planet? Kezia, you are tops, very engaging & entertaining videos.
this was a great video. I've been working on my game for about a year now and this really helped shift some things into perspective
Great to hear!
Best video so far Kezia
Kezia's most candid video yet.
There is a lot of truth about having the energy / frame of mind / body language to confirm the image / vibe you project around you. Women are better than men at picking this up. The other side is when you do have their attention you need to have the frame that you value yourself. So, if she is disrespectful have a polite and clear comment that she has stepped over the line and has excluded herself. You need to have clear boundaries of behaviour, your time is valuable too, not just hers.
That is one thing CEOs and other high position men project well. That their time is valuable so do not waste it. Men need to learn to have this frame of thinking.
Great points!
I think the most important ''frame'' is to be real. Just show yourself and go for a chat. Most men are scared of being rejected and think that this is a bad thing. I don't think this is true, you are just giving it a chance. Sometimes it pays of and sometimes it doesn't. Love and attraction has to work both ways.
+hoiiiii1000 Also very good points!
true... that's why i always work with my inner self and my energy
Really liked your video on this Kezia. Lots of great info and going to start applying it. But still doing your bootcamps soon I hope.
Good advice. You look great in this video Kezia. I think I like the more casual, dressed down look on you than the evening attire. You look natural and relaxed. Cool shades too. Mark comes across very well. He doesn't have your classic GQ looks but he is totally confident in himself. I can see how women would be attracted to guys like him. This is a good video. Really like it.
Thanks Kevin, appreciate your comments!
"Be what you want to get back"- Some of the best advice you'll ever hear folks!
super-like it! very good concepts. and now I am convinced even more of what I thought to myself already: it´s important to be able to approach anytime. will work on that. and your outfit is very cool, Kezia.
Love Kezia's sense of humour. And the fact that she won't pay £3.20 for a coffee.
For sure I won't
You probably won't pay because you are mooching off a guy... Am I right?
I love this video! Mark is so knowledgable and it shows he's very good at what he does. I love the message that consistency is the key. You gotta keep your skills, game, personality, whatever sharp with constant practice.
Great to hear your warm feedback!
Thank you!
Good stuff, Kezia! I like how you and your team get down to the facts while having a little fun. I'm bummed you were wearing sun glasses, your eye makeup is just mesmerizing.
When are you coming to USA east coast?
0:20 my answer was genghas Khan.
Great reason for Day Game
Mark J is an amazing instructor. If I could've spent the entire week with him, I would have.
All the instructors were great though.
Matt, Dan, Sam and Mark J were my favourites.
Thanks dude! Much appreciated.
Anyone know Kezia noble nationality? Love the aviators.
Can you explain the game that we should play
Love to hear some work-specific day game tips. How to approach people in an office setting.
Hi Kezia the park is a great place to be at ease the lighting was just right you both looked very good BUT you have got to fix your sunglasses they are a little low on the right side, just bend the right arm down a bit, I hope you don't mind my mentioning it I have been A Forensic Photographer for many years and I see everything, I must agree with Mark don't let time stop your game slow down, she may be the one. Thank you again for showing me how to see myself
Kezia. Important question. What if your working in an environment where you need to be Profesional around others, but you want to flirt with a woman. I work in ER at a hospital and it's really hard to engage in flirting infront of other people.
Kezia, What cities in the states are the classes available.
Las vegas
Comparing Sainsburys and Walmart? Tesco is more like Walmart (or Asda for that matter), Sainsburys is way more upscale than Walmart, not Whole foods, but not that far away...
Hey kazia,......how to handle the question "may I know U" while approaching
Excellent & helpful to let us see a very attractive real girl (Kezia, who is one of those) in a real environment, not a stiff indoors, in addition to giving us the simple yet unknown(!) revelation.
What was that part about Sainsbury's, didn't quite get that...drama pause?
Kezia thought a lot of the American people watching this video won't have have heard of Sainsburys before. It must be a British supermarket chain that doesn't crop up anywhere in America. So she was just explaining what it is.
Preparing for failure is bad imo. of course you should know that rejection can happen anytime but if you have that in mind all the time, it can be a bad mindset.
Do you have classes in Bulgaria?
Kezia is so cool.
I loved the atmosphere of the video, such a beautiful day, loved the setting with the path you were walking on, gave me a feeling that interaction with women is a journey, a oath to be g connected, the flowers, trees, birds, grass, and other people showed me how we can connect to creation and to each other through nature. However, I don't get any practical examples from this video, more theory and general abstract thinking, would love to see a practical examples in action. Also, do you look at the MBTI personality types when considering how to interact with women. I am an INFP/ INFJ and more of a 1-1 type person, I don't like crowds, clubs, or busy areas. I prefer the quiet solitude and setting of a park. Everything for me is feeling based, perception based, I'm like in the 4% of people that have this and I am a very rare man as most men do NOT SEE women, deep in their soul like I do. But I unfortunately find that women dislike or are turned off by my feelings and perception based personality because I am able to express my feelings confidently, I'm in touch with my SOUL, and they don't like me SEEing through them so easy, not that I tell them this, I just feel it, know it intuitively, but they consistantly seem to turn away from me even though I am genuine and confident. I often wonder if they are insecure or immature about their own feelings or don't see me as a challenge to fix, I'm already secure in me and don't need them to fix me, I just want to connect deeply with them, which they do not want to do, and I never push them or force them into the connection, so it's frustrating for me as an INFP/INFJ to establish a basic connection with women in this day and age. Have women been brainwashed through bad boy experiences that don't work or go bad, so they force themselves into thinking that's all there is, so when a great guy like myself comes along they have no clue what to do? Love your video, very positive vibe, would love to meet Kezia and connect with you, get a feeling for who you are in your soul, not just what you show on your Vids for business.
Kezia has so much credibility behind her advice. Makes for useful info.
Hi Kezia
when you crossed your arms, i thought you could be a bit introverted but i remembered that i know you better from your channel ;)
also possible that you just did not feel very comfortable at that moment.
thank's for this video
have a great day
Im married, we have five children together. There are a lot of testing times with the children and more often than not we get so stressed that we end up fighting a lot taking it out on each other. Despite how much we love each other it can feel awful and at times we struggle. Do you have any advice to bring back some of the positive that we once had? It can be very tough because obviously we get little time as just a couple and getting out alone is near impossible and doesnt happen often.
Sneak outside after the kids are sleeping and just chill man... Don't even have to say anything just breath you know or go for a little midnight stroll, that's just what I would do.
I also feel like that is also a build up of sexual tension that cannot be expressed in front of five children so it comes out as arguing. Could be wrong tho never been married.
Outdoors?! In the daytime? This is an historical first!
Kezia, I was beginning to think you were a vampire.
This is really good. I need to get a dog
More effective than an Aston Martin
+Kezia noble unless you name your dawg Aston Martin :-p
A proper size dog works. At least the size of a Lab. And please no beauty dog. It should be able to be workhorse as well
also daygame usually are different kind of women then night game.
0:11 MY MIND JUMPED TO AMERICAN PSYCHO sorry Kezia - i'll become better
Oh my god. What species are these dogs? Im not a dog person but these guys are cute AF!
E. Flynn yes the modern world of machine noise everywhere leaves the face much less, back then they had smooth faces
I have been watching hours and hours of PUA videos and a couple few scores of approaches and this time/consistency angle is very helpful. Time is the enemy and consistently ply your craft. Thanks. Kezia I would like to marry you for a couple days.
I can't find the youtube channel of "Mark J", does he even own one? Maybe you can post it in the description Kezia... for us? :-)
I don't have a separate dating channel. My personal channel is called "markonlife", but it has different content.
Hahaha.. that's cool man.. I too am a Mass Effect fan! :-D
Dimitrios Vegeta Best franchise ever!!
one thing I'd love to see is your lessons put into play. you could flim one of your top students applying your techniques and subtitle-or point out- what technique he is using. I understand your advice but I'm more visual and would love to see how these all look when you apply them. Another good video would be a "heckle" video. In this type of video you could on propose give your students a negative reaction to thier pick up line, approach etc. and then we can see how they flip it back around. you are a beautiful woman after all and the ultimate challange.
Great video
Thanks for the feedback
Kezia noble no problem
I disagree with you Kezia on the 5 minute thing. I workout in a gym and i get stalked and asked out. Girls either want my fb or number. I am not even good looking. Time have changed :)
You look amazing Kezia love you new look,I got a dog like yours.
Do you guy's have your own marketing team?
This video really made me a laugh. Kezia claims she doesn't like Matrix while because of dark glasses looks like woman version of Morpheus showing Neo real world :))
Kezia your videos are really great! And it is interesting to hear the opinion of the best female dating-coach. I have one question. Do you think it is okay to go intentionally out (e.g. for an hour) to approach women?
Thanks Kezia!
Do you you really need her to answer that? Of course it's ok, in fact it should be encouraged. That's how you build your confidence with women. The more women you approach or approach you and start talking to you the more confident you'll become talking with a woman, any woman, hot or not. With everything in life, no matter what you do, it takes practice.
jetliFAN
Because some coaches say you can approach girls when you´re on your way to work, for shopping etc. and not only to go out to approach girls.
Which pages in Kezias book are about approach anxiety and rejection?
bull2037 What are you afraid of? Rejection? It's a part of life. Failure is a part of life. Everyone gets rejected. Why are you painting this picture to yourself that a girl is scary to approach? Trust me when I say this, once you approach this girl and start talking to her, the 2nd conversation will be much easier. You'll have this weight lifted off your shoulder and you'll really think "what was I so afraid of, this went better than I expected".
Here's what I did. There was this girl working at my local pharmacy I really liked. I didn't want to mess it up obviously. So I went to coffee shops, parks, anywhere outside where I can meet girls and just started conversations with them so I can practice on them so my nervousness and fear of rejection eases. The first few girls I approached, I had moments of dullness, not knowing what to say after like 2 minutes, I got rejected a few times but I don't care because they're just practice.
Don't try to be someone you're not, don't lie, be yourself and you'll be fine. Be witty and be funny. If you can make a girl laugh WITH you and not AT you then you'll be fine.
+jetliFAN
Thanks for your long answer. I am 39 and we have a lot of young students here. I think that i am too old and will be rejected and don't approach than.
bull2037 Too old? No such thing as "too old". You're as young as you feel. If you think you're too old now and you keep saying "i'll do it later". You're not getting any younger, you'll only get older. Then when you're 45 you'll be saying "i'm too old now, should have done this when I was 39 and young".
Never too old to fall in love. Love doesn't care about time or age, you just need to find the right person.
Remember rejection is a part of life, everyone experiences it. You will never get good and comfortable at approaching and talking to a woman if you don't try. Remember if you get rejected by 1 there's still 1 million+ women to try again with. Just try.
Noooo! Best movie...Grease...its a sure thing! Best pickup line..."Didn't we go to different high schools together?"
Does this guy have infields?
What do you think? Are customers off limits? Kezia, I haven’t heard you mention anything on this.
I have always thought, YES. But, I work in a retail clothes (mens &womens) shop. On the odd occasion it seems that some female customers could be flirting with me. From time-to-time I've had female customers not stop talking to me and/or throw me a cheeky smile. I've even had female customers throw me a cheeky smile when their boyfriend isn’t looking!
Are these situations worth pursuing, or is it better to just leave it?
The truth is, it's all down to the politics of your work environment. Some places are very relaxed, some are not. No problem chatting to people, but if you're working at a place where one bit of unwelcome flirtation could lead to a complaint and then you getting fired, it really isn't worth it.
Nice video guys
Isnt it funny that I am subscribed to you.
You did the cold shower video.
hah : )
Many thanks Mike.
I like your puppies.
Preparing for failure causes anxiety. Prepare for success. If that chick doesn't like you, then you will succeed with another. If that chick does like you, then you WON'T KNOW what do do with yourself when you succeed.
awesome the boots
Lol, Kezia, you actually have no idea how much you're missing from the matrix movies... especially for someone who studies psychology / philosophy
her videos actually contain quite a bit of psychology
what do you mean by pseudo psychology?
I smell hurt pride. With a dash of spite.
Interesting, you didn't deny spitefulness.
i need you to come to Dallas
We run regular bootcamps in Dallas
You aren't that former candidate, are you ;)
I feel like some of my friends distancing themselves from me and I want to try and chabge that.
So this girl in my class today comes up to me asking if I want to study with her in the library because she thinks I seem to look like I understand the material. I was too shy to approach her but I'm glad she approached me because she's hot. So we're sitting in the library with the textbook on the table and she pulls out a Victoria secret catalog and she is just looking through it while i'm sitting there quietly not saying anything. She points to a black see through thong, turns to me and asks if I like it. Then before I can say anything (because i'm shocked she asked) she says "do you think i'd look good in it"? Before I can even answer, she's like "forget it", and we continue with the studying but she's very uninterested in the studying and just texts the entire time. I was thrown off completely, I didn't expect this. Call me stupid, but is this a hint that she wanted a one night stand with me? Did I blow it completely by being shocked and not knowing what to say? I'll see her Thursday. what do I say? Yea, lets have sex? Lets get drinks after you finish with your classes? What do I say?
Great video! :)
I will just bring my two Chihuahuas to play with your dogs. Lots of confidence and truth is all you need.
Teach me how to get at YOU Kezia. ;-)
How tall is Kezia?
5ft5
hey Kezia...what does it mean when a woman tell a man " U R A GAY" or "R U HOMOSEXUAL"....how to handle this.......?
Walk away she's trying to hurt you.
maybe you look weak
Where is that school? :)))))))))))))))))
You should come to Belgium :p
Could you please tell me from where both of you get your very nice cloths?
Comon to ignore this msgs, I'm desperate to buy some for me and my GF
3:15 I learned so much of the next 10 sec of that :O
Richard Burton had a mesmerizing seductive voice. Like “War of the Worlds”. Musical adaptation by Jeff Wayne, Featuring Justin Hayward.
i don't except it but I'm always failing.. but I'm not your typical guy. i don't want to say my issues here.
Jimmy Stewart?
2:58 hrvatska reperzentacija trenira, trkaci vec stigli u englesko
A wild Crobat appeared.
8:30 "The things I want to see in someone I just met include... calm, relaxed... energetic..."
What? lmao.
There was good information in the video, I enjoyed it. I think there's a bit of fluff that could be worked on. It should be more straight-forward here's the information.
What was confusing? I simply mean that I want people to be calm, relaxed and energetic, therefore I need to exude these exact qualities in an approach. It's a core principle.
You can't be calm/relaxed and energetic. If you have someone smoke a bowl of weed and then give them caffeine pills, they are not going to have a good time.
As for the second part, you could just say something like "Practice being confident and polite everywhere you go so you are comfortable doing it within seconds with an opportunity arises." It doesn't take nearly 15 minutes to impart that message.
Of course you can. Energetic doesn't mean frenetic, intense, etc, it just refers to being alive in your interaction. That can easily be matched with calmness. It's how you direct your energy.
I have taught this for a long time, and the truth is buzzwords are useless. That type of quick advice has no effect on anyone. Examples, analogies, are very useful for people to picture these things in their own life. If you prefer things to be more concise, that entirely your view, and I respect that.
markonlife I agree that "relaxed and alive" are both qualities that are desired in day game. My perspective when I hear "energetic" is excited, slightly crazy, upbeat, fast, etc. But now I could see that energetic could have different meanings depending on how people used the word around you.
I would go to London to take a boot camp on attracting Kezia. I've watched most of her dad's and Tbh, it's hard to stop staring lol.
Following you on your dating advice video for sometime now and needless to say.I'm pleased You deserve an A plus. Mind If I ask you, can you do this technique to a guy that you want to seduce him?
One of the few male instructors that Kezia’s not attracted to
"You don't sweat much for a fat bird". Moistens my gusset every time.
million likes.
kezia you look smashing
Thank you xx
reading thru some comments here for once.. I have to say, I admire Kezia's ability to put up with / seemingly-not-be-bothered with some of the bullshit which a lot of people write here. (I hope this is not eating away from your energy / determination / ability to keep up your good work; I am sure the people with the dumbest comments have the greatest inferiority (or other) complexes. (shud you one day feel excess energy left over, perhaps u cud start a secondary life coaching avenue for females: how to become better able to take idiot males in their stride..?!)
Richard Burton, hands down.
You get exactly what you give? Sometimes the polar opposite too. Whatever. :)
Richard Burton was da man!!!
Hi Kezia
second question : 50 shades of grey
70K VIEWS.? HIT THE THUMBS UP PEOPLE
But surely if you say "You look beautiful" to a girl they have heard that before?
They've heard everything before. It's how you say it. Communication is 70% non-verbal.
Oh ok
u got my like
How to be more consistent - DAY GAME
Never say "You are beautiful". That's a really bad idea.
LMAO!
Yo kezia help ya boy out
5 min's and you gave up on the Matrix!? This is an automatic 2 point deduction.
That mom at the 11 minute mark had a body on her