If you're atteactive being a good person only ups your attractive level, everybody expects attractive people to be stuck up. Dont follow this chicks advise😂
@MyJourneyTo100kBe careful with that. You'll get them, just keep uploading content. Promoting your stuff on someone else's channel however is a bit lame
Actually never mind, I just read your description. But still, a lot of people get annoyed by these commenting channels, and in order to grow in that genre, your comments need to be more subtle than just "please follow me guys." Of course I'm not in that business so can't really talk, but I can tell you what people want to support, and they don't want to support someone mindlessly begging for subs. You need to be entertaining and relate to them first.
They are able to with therapy, but it's incredibly hard to go to therapy because, well, they genuinely think they're just better and can't do anything wrong, thus no need for therapy
My adoptive mother is a covert narcissist and that facet drives me absolutely batty. My best advice is when you know you're correct, just wait for it to play out naturally instead of wasting time arguing. Plus it's downright beautiful seeing them realize they're incorrect 😅😅😅
Actually she might be just little hardened, apart from her being on camera telling this a lot of what she says is true... people are extra cruel when they are jealous or see someone as a threat
@@sirenofdoom7033 i'm not saying it's impossible but most of the time it's not true. It's their insufferable personality that makes people hate them and they fail to realize it.
@@themeemqueen how do you know what is or is not most of the time when this is on person to person basis? I'm just pointing out the double standard ugly people can complain about people treating them like shit because they're ugly but if a pretty person complains about people treating them like shit all of a sudden it's wow what a narcissist she needs to shut up.
This is a bit old, younger people probably don't remember the "Don't hate me because I'm beautiful" commercial. Could look it up on here if you cared to. Except that now, it's not just a joke, it's an actual problem with narcissism. I seriously believe that tik tok should be banned, every year i believe it more strongly than ever.
As a person who did modelling for a little bit, I know that I am not ugly or something, it’s important to not humiliate yourself. However, even in models who did magazine’s covers I’ve never seen people this delusional. Probably because they’re surrounded by attractive people on daily basis and competition is wild. This kind of narcissism stems from social media only. Even if you’re pretty, there’s a lot of good looking people. And there’s a lot of average people with personalities so bright that they become the most beautiful in your eyes.
Yeah, that was a weird lesson for myself. Ended up doing some work for a few and I was surprised how much nicer they were than the supposed nice girls. We had a lot more in common since we were ultimately creative people trying to make it. But I never heard them call other girls ugly like the more homely ones tend to do when they meet someone new.
"average people with personalities so bright that they become the most beautiful" I've experienced this through voice alone. Video of karaoke but it's bad singing. The energy and fun so bright you wonder "how?" as she serenaded you with offkey screeching. lol
People often confuse kindness with naiveté, they're very different, being kind doesn't mean you are not aware enough to know how others treat you, being kind is treating those who treat you well with the respect they deserve, as to those who don't, just don't give them the time of day. Being naive means that you can't distinguish those who genuinely treat you well and those who are taking advantage of you
A girl can be a 10/10 but if they act like this girl, it immediately bumps them down to a 1/10 on a good day. Nobody wants to hang out with a narcissist that is in love with the mirror.
Whenever you run into people like this, just keep running. There's no reasoning with them. It's not like a video game where there's a speech check you can pass to make her realise that she's a narcissist and then she'll change for the better and be a real joy to be around.
Being a main character isn’t the issue - it’s the attitude they have. Personally, people SHOULD be the main character, in their lives. That doesn’t imply or is mutually exclusive to being an asshole,
@@XOChristianaNicole I understand you but by "main character" I mean someone who thinks they are better than everybody and that everybody else is a "peasant". I hope that helped:)
I find it funny that she says that she gets lots of looks from people when she enters the room. Has she ever considered that when there's a new thing in the environment that people tend to look twords it? People do it to me all the time, it's not because I'm pretty, it's because people want to know who is in the room with them.
I know! I explained this to a friend with social anxiety. When a person enters the room everyone glances up and looks then go on about their business. It’s a normal reaction. It does not mean the people who look at you are sizing up your appearance or overly thinking about you in any way.
It doesn't mean they're physically ugly, just a Fd up person. And being nice and kind doesn't mean your a good person either, in most cases the uncomfortable truth is what people need to hear in order to improve themselves..
People dont look at you when you walk into the room because you're pretty They're looking because you're the new presence in the room and we looking to see who you are
Its crazy how much a personality will physically change your looks magically to me. Ive met men i thought were unattractive and then i get to know them and start getting anxious that im nowhere near their league because of their personality making them a 10000 times more sexy
never ever deal with a narcissist, if you must, act like they don't exist, stare blankly when looking in their direction as if you are looking at the wall behind them.
This is genuinely the best thing to do. They hate when they cant effect/control your emotional states. A blank slate of a face drives them mentally crazy. They are hit with confusion and unnerving. Which leads to an internalized anger. When you know how narcissists functions they are easier to control than normal people are for them. When you live with one who is hellbent you learn that very quickly. If you want to survive them you do what you can. If that means manipulating them the same way theyve damaged and manipulated your family then thats what you do.
To not be able to recognize your own flaws and improve on them is so sad, I never thought of narcissism as being handicapping but now that I think about it, it’s essentially a state of arrested development 🤔
As someone who was raised in a family and largely by someone with diagnosed narcissistic personality disorder (as well as some undiagnosed, though, obviously such) - it, absolutely, is a state of arrested development.
From my understanding, Patrick Bateman as portrayed in the movie... is quite a bit different than Patrick Bateman from the book. Apparently, the ones behaving like Bateman from the movie aren't aware that in the book, he actually questions his own reality. Readers are supposed to walk away wondering if he did what he believes he did *or* if he made it all up in his own mind. The ending of the movie touched on that aspect a bit when he admitted to what he had done but everyone reacted as if he didn't say it.
Beautiful people should _never_ talk about it, let alone constantly! It’s very unattractive when someone thinks he or she is very handsome or pretty. It’s so conceited, just don’t mention it
goes for any advantage that you have without having Done something to achieve it actually. i dont think pride is inherently bad, but it has it's time and place, for when you put in an effort to make it to a goal. being pretty, being tall, even being effortlessly smart, all have value. but only if you put in Work, to be pretty, to be intelligent or skilled or altruistic, then it's your place to feel pride.
@@joshuamontgomery2298 that too, but i dont think thats the point anyway. like. i think with any of those narcissistic posts, if you resort to saying Anything about the person's looks, it almost kind of validates their point ? that people can't help but make social hierarchy largely influenced by looks. like it Can be read as if saying if they Were actually that beautiful, then their behaviour would be justified. point is that it's irrelevant. whether you are attractive or ugly, you are not above anyone. she could be otherworldly beautiful, and she'd still be a piece of shit, so why mention her looks at all i guess is my point
First you say I simply can't ever say it, then you say I can't even think it. Seriously? Make up your mind. You also say this like it's an objective view that everyone holds. Believe it or not, some people hold the opposite thought. For example, I personally like it when someone knows they're good looking, or mentions it jokingly when relevant.
I am an extremely unattractive man and the best things I ever done in my life was serve. Volunteered at shelters, church and helped with community cleanups. Did these things for myself and not external validation. My pastor told me that how I treat people displays I was home trained, how dogs or animals respond to me shows I have a good heart, and how babies react to me shows I display a good soul. I just help people where I can and just live as an example to others and myself.
@@sunnie734 In a sense. A dog can tell if a person has good vibes or not, and with babies if they look and smile it's a sign. Old wives tale or something, but it was mentioned by a few people I know.
Hey buddy, let me clear something for you ...this won't guarantee you anything In life..... But that doesn't matter. What you are doing good sir is the best human you can be. Even if your life on earth was horrible you will be blessed with eternity in heaven. Never stop being the kindest you you can be. Who knows? Maybe life will In a snap go perfect for your, Mabye it won't. But you never should stop being a good person. Take care lad you are a true role model.
I get called beautiful everyday by various people. I also got called ugly half my childhood . Nomatter what,i make a conscious effort to be kind to people . Blessings come ur way when ur simply a genuinely kind person
As a girl myself who's met girls like this: I don't care if you're an actual super model (girl or guy), if you act the way this girl advises then you instantly become hideous and I lose all respect for you. Everyone carries beauty in their own way, and what's physically attractive to one won't be for another. Even if you think you're unattractive, kindness, confidence and an overall good personality will do wonders
As I am someone who was blessed with beauty. IIm 63 now, but I my younger years, I always had to be especially nice so I could fit in and have friendships and good working relationships with colleagues. It doesn’t matter what your physical attributes are, “ pretty is as pretty does” as I was always taught remains true. You do not weaponize your beauty or use it to place yourself above anyone.
This reminds me of when a lady on a reality show that I watch said "im the alpha and youre at the bottom of the food chain". Ma'am, we are not in the animal kingdom, like relax, eat your damn fries.
As someone who has been married for 15 years, I can assure you she will never attract a quality partner. A doormat, simp, soy-boy, etc. is the best she will ever achieve.
@@ZomboidMania ikr!! If this is what she is willing to say OUT LOUD in front of the WHOLE INTERNET, I'm scared of what she thinks inside her head!!!! :0
She could hang with the kardashians and not stand out. Not sure I would cassify as average. Whether the kardashians are the „epidome of beauty“ is debatable, but they ARE making BILIONS by being beautiful.
The trick to not being treated like shit while being nice is to know when people are walking all over you and being able to take a step back and before getting mad, having the conversation saying like you’re starting to become a little too disrespectful and crossing a line. I’m not gonna tell you twice, but you’re about to find out if you keep fucking around. And usually they stop at that point, but nobody wants to stay in your face and be rude more than people who are mad at you and nothing makes people madder at you than being a bitch to them. It takes two seconds to be nice and keep moving instead of trying to make both your day and their day worse by your fucking attitude.
I agree with setting boundaries when you notice someone walking over you. However, (just my personal opinion) I don’t believe one has to threaten someone to set a boundary. Especially in a workplace environment, it’d be best to ask the person if they have a minute to talk first then let them know that you’ve been noticing some behaviors from them that you’d like to discuss. Bring up some examples of what they’ve been doing and give suggestions on how you would like them to approach similar situations with you going forward without giving them a “or else” vibe while having the discussion. Because “or else” vibes can bring hostility into the work environment (or just any environment) which ultimately makes everyone uncomfortable. But, if the talk didn’t work or if one is nervous to have that talk, it’s always best to bring it up to a supervisor that one is comfortable with (and a supervisor that knows how to efficiently communicate without causing tension) to be a middle piece to the situation and defuse it. However, if you work for a shitty company with a shitty supervisor - this might not be an effective outlet & it should be time to look for a company that treats its employees better. [this reply was typed with having experience with workplace issues and feeling singled out at work by my peers, because my peers have their little friend group and with as many times as I have tried to be nice & join, they’ve been singling me out & making me the black sheep.. which is hurtful BUT I didn’t have to threaten them to get them to stop walking over me. I just went to my supervisor (who is very good with communication) and had our supervisor correct their behavior. There is no tension between my peers and I (but I do believe they gossip behind my back but that’s bc they gossip about a lot of people at work behind their back & gossip is out of my control so learning to let shit go that I can’t control is something I’m working on now.)
Some of these people on social Media I feel like growing up, we’re not taught self-awareness, or the concept on how other people perceive them. Otherwise, they wouldn’t be saying a bunch of this stupid nonsense on the Internet. That’s my take at least.
She doesn't realize that her problems aren't because she's pretty, it's because people are increasingly narcissistic and betray you for often minor personal benefits
I used to have a bully. one day I confronted him and he apologized and said he never though of it as bullying. it stopped after the confrontation. communication is key
sometimes you just have to look at the problem and have a genuine talk with them. if they act like buffoons then just wait for them to drop the act. they'll feel real stoopid for acting like that later
When I was her age girls and women came up to me and kissed me in public. Often in an alcohol accepting environment. And I got a complement after that, saying I was a hazard for single girls. I have even been draged into the ladies room by two girls. In a small town at a market a girl just came up to me with her friends and started to make out with me. These happenings didn't surface in my memory until now. Did I take advantage of these girls, no. Did it get to my head, obviously not. Did it make me behave as an narcissistic troll, no. Did I in any way use this or what-ever for my own selfish urges, no. Did I brag about it, just a little bit after it happend but mostly because I was shocked. Do I help random people who need help, yes. Have I gone beyond what is seen as just "giving a helping hand", yes. Have I broken up fights that didn't consern me, yes. Would I give a stranger the shirt of my back, yes. And yet I'm despised, hated and loathed, funny how that work...
I know that I'm ugly. Like really ugly and honestly, I hate it when pretty people think they won everything. Ok, we get it! you indeed are pretty but I don't have to stand up from my subway seat to give it to you just because you are prettier than me.
@@leftysr2stupid354 nah it legit happened. I did give up my seat. I looked a bit haggard that day because I came back from a 4 day camp, probably why she assumed I was homeless.
@@yunyun5118 hahaha why would a good looking person wanna sit in a homeless persons seat? And why the hell would you just give up your seat?? That's not right, stand up for your rights!
I consider being an attractive person but I would never go out my way to be mean and unkind…. I actually get I’m too friendly and I’m flirty- while I’m just being nice!!! But to actually be malicious?!???! Not on my bingo card.
My dad is just like her, he thinks everyones out to get him and everyone is always thinking about HIM and everyone is always trying to play mind games and undermine him, hes always tryna tell me how to "play the game" and its all manipulative bullshit, im really getting sick of it, last week i said "what if i dont want to play" and that comment went completely over his head, it was like just the idea of living life normally is an alien concept to him
Yeah they are giving in and boosting her ego to shut down the conversation asap. She isn’t the level of attractive that gets a free pass to be shitty… at least not with a messy bun, hoodie, no make up, and a mediocre filter. When you are average you can be a show stopper when you put in extra physical effort and dress up, if you know how to do it. But you also have to put in effort personally. Why? Because one brush with the flu got you looking like Gollum. So you need people who don’t give a shit how you look on your best and worst days. It’s true that bad people may treat you better when they perceive you as attractive. But I’m talking more ‘people who usually ignore you or bully you are all the sudden acting like you are friends.’ I’m not an asshole to them. I just act like I am as boring as possible. One word answers. Showing no excitement that they chose to talk to me. Not really engaging, and walking away as soon as I can. That is what I would do with this woman. It’s not jealousy or whatever. It’s an authentic lack of being impressed.
Being kind gets you walked on at times, sometimes more often then other. If you somehow don’t know people like this, listen to some Reddit stories. The amount of doormats out there make me so happy to be the way I am. I’m not an a$$hole unless I have to be. But I will be one.
She's describing the thought process of all narcissists when they receive even the kindest most constructive criticism. It's not because you're pretty. It's because you're allergic to accountability.
She does know that beauty doesn't last and it's not you, you makes you your kindness KNOWLEDGE, hard work but what I do know? I'm 60 and 40 years ago I was pretty but I had a good life because I was a nurse not because I was "pretty"
When she sais "it doesnt matter if you r kind" its actually true when it comes to first attraction unfortunately. First people see looks, only then comes kindness and other stuff
Pegasus, it is noticeable how people look at you based off your attractiveness, I lost 100lbs and the difference in how literally everyone looked at and interacted with me was insane and disheartening. That is the world but yeah this b is wild
I mean yeah there will be people who occasionally try to tear you down because your attractive. I’ve experienced that. But 99% of them I’ve run into online and their insults are WEAK
Actually being a decent person helped me out when I needed someone to drive me to the hospital. Nobody does that for an asshole that gets tolerated for being attractive.
I've known people who had to deal with narcissists, it's honestly sad how people are willing to side with the narcissist even when they are wrong and I've also seen how narcissists have destroyed people's lives in the worst ways possible.
Was raised by a narcissist and it was miserable. Once I became teenager she verbally abused me, so I have seen how they destroy lives as well. I wouldn't wish it on anyone
Narcissism is usually formed from insecurity. If you really take the time to talk to these people and learn their background, you'll find out they they didnt have the best life growing up and felt insecure about their physical or emotional traits. Of course there's the chance that you're born with it, but as I said, its usually formed from negative lifestyle.
As someone raised in a family with diagnosed NPD.. Narcissists, generally, won’t admit to having a poor upbringing - unless they know it’s going to get them sympathy points, and act in their benefit. Yes, you are correct it does come from insecurity, and most often - a poor upbringing. However, a narcissistic person (unless they hit rock bottom and are forced to do the work) is only going to bring forth their insecurities and flaws, as a means of manipulation - not as a means of vulnerability and openness, the willingness to connect. However, with my research, I believe narcissism has been bred into western society, en masse, since the end of WWII (if One were to research how a narcissistic personality is made, and the type of abuse that causes it - it can be seen all throughout our societal progression, since that time). Also, narcissistic abuse is nearly identical to SRA - satanic ritual abuse. Which, again, can be seen all over media and pop-culture. Sure, genetics plays a roll - though, epi-genetics are just as important. And in this day and age, NPD isn’t solely from an abusive upbringing - it is learned through social media and pop culture, at this point.
So....there's no cure to my condition? I'll just grow into a full out narcissist! I'm gonna become worse and be hated by everyone? I want to be saved. I don't want to be a narcissist!
@@XOChristianaNicole Since when did Satanism and Narcissism go together? Last time I remember Anton Lavey made Laveyan Satanism as something for the anti-christ because he had distaste for christ, sure there were satanic imagery before that but satanism wasn't prevalent before that: only satanic panic. You may be onto something with social media and music, I'll give you that but the satanism part confuses me
@@johnwethekylow I'm not really sure what this means either lol, lot of satanists are chill. Have a satanic neighbor myself and he's the kindest dude I know! Feeds homeless cats every week I'm pretty sure.
It’s normal when someone (anyone) walks in to anyplace. This girl is average at best- and that’s not a bad thing. What attracts people is your aura, the way you make people feel when they speak to you and most importantly, how they feel after the conversation is over with you. ❤❤❤
SHE IS 100% CORRECT!!!!!! I'm 50 now and fat so this doesn't fit me anymore but back in the day I was almost always the hottest chick in whatever room I was in (not bragging, just a fact). Long blonde hair, grey eyes DDD chest (38-26-37). From the time my boobs started coming in (3rd grade) ALL FEMALES HATED ME, including my mother and older sister. And I have always been the kind of person who would go out of my way to do nice things for people.My mother used to say I had a "Brady Bunch mentality", meaning i was very idealistic and believed everyone was good. The way other females treated me turned me into a bitch in my early 20's. Like it or not, woman are haters when it comes to other females. So many females wanted to fight me as a teenager because of the way their boyfriends looked at me, even tho I had zero interest in their boyfriends. I don't know if I would say you have to be a total bitch but you definitely need to grow a thick skin because other women will definitely come for you.
“Being a good person is not helping you”- a bad person 2024
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they're just trying to cope because they're literally incapable of being kind with that narcissistic personality
In Netherlands we say "een brutaal mens heeft de halve wereld", or "A rude person has half the world"
It is not meant positive btw.
In not hiding im a good person when i know myself as evil.
It's literally helping _other people..._
If you're atteactive being a good person only ups your attractive level, everybody expects attractive people to be stuck up. Dont follow this chicks advise😂
Being humble is a virtue. People on TikTok forget about that
They (people like this young "lady") only know virtue signalling, no real virtue @@sofsterlobster4434
@MyJourneyTo100kBe careful with that. You'll get them, just keep uploading content. Promoting your stuff on someone else's channel however is a bit lame
Actually never mind, I just read your description. But still, a lot of people get annoyed by these commenting channels, and in order to grow in that genre, your comments need to be more subtle than just "please follow me guys." Of course I'm not in that business so can't really talk, but I can tell you what people want to support, and they don't want to support someone mindlessly begging for subs. You need to be entertaining and relate to them first.
I mean most people are bitches nowadays whether they’re good looking or not. So this is a moot point now
The sadest thing is, narcissists are not able to see their own faults/errors. It is always someone else's fault.
Well, that's why they're called narcissists.
So true!!! My husband never takes accountability
They are able to with therapy, but it's incredibly hard to go to therapy because, well, they genuinely think they're just better and can't do anything wrong, thus no need for therapy
My adoptive mother is a covert narcissist and that facet drives me absolutely batty. My best advice is when you know you're correct, just wait for it to play out naturally instead of wasting time arguing. Plus it's downright beautiful seeing them realize they're incorrect 😅😅😅
@@Noo-My-Only-Weakness-Dying unfortunately, when someone has a true personality defect, even therapy wouldn't do much to help anyway.
"I know I'm pretty by people react when I enter a room."
People when she enters a room:
"Oh f***, who invited the ahole!"
That happens to me when I accidentally put on two different shoes. 😅
😂😂😂
dry humour is pathetic..
more like "ah shit, who invited that used asshole here?!"
Exactly.
She's so insecure that she rejects people before they'd even have a chance to reject her
Actually she might be just little hardened, apart from her being on camera telling this a lot of what she says is true... people are extra cruel when they are jealous or see someone as a threat
She's got that high school mentality lmfao
That's usually one glaring trait. Shit runs while at the work place too.
Jr. High!
@@nikvolt8298 I'm from Australia so I don't know exactly how old you'd be in jr high but it still checks out.
agreed@@Nodm8
@@Nodm8
Usually between 12-14 here in the U.S.
I love how delusional narcissists are. They see that someone dislikes them and they're like "They hate me because I am so good looking!"
doesnt mean its not true
@@sirenofdoom7033 i'm not saying it's impossible but most of the time it's not true. It's their insufferable personality that makes people hate them and they fail to realize it.
@@themeemqueen how do you know what is or is not most of the time when this is on person to person basis? I'm just pointing out the double standard ugly people can complain about people treating them like shit because they're ugly but if a pretty person complains about people treating them like shit all of a sudden it's wow what a narcissist she needs to shut up.
@@themeemqueen it's everyone else putting so much worth into pretty people.
This is a bit old, younger people probably don't remember the "Don't hate me because I'm beautiful" commercial. Could look it up on here if you cared to. Except that now, it's not just a joke, it's an actual problem with narcissism. I seriously believe that tik tok should be banned, every year i believe it more strongly than ever.
As a person who did modelling for a little bit, I know that I am not ugly or something, it’s important to not humiliate yourself. However, even in models who did magazine’s covers I’ve never seen people this delusional. Probably because they’re surrounded by attractive people on daily basis and competition is wild. This kind of narcissism stems from social media only.
Even if you’re pretty, there’s a lot of good looking people. And there’s a lot of average people with personalities so bright that they become the most beautiful in your eyes.
Yeah, that was a weird lesson for myself. Ended up doing some work for a few and I was surprised how much nicer they were than the supposed nice girls. We had a lot more in common since we were ultimately creative people trying to make it. But I never heard them call other girls ugly like the more homely ones tend to do when they meet someone new.
"average people with personalities so bright that they become the most beautiful" I've experienced this through voice alone. Video of karaoke but it's bad singing. The energy and fun so bright you wonder "how?" as she serenaded you with offkey screeching. lol
She isn't even that good looking. Its crazy
People often confuse kindness with naiveté, they're very different, being kind doesn't mean you are not aware enough to know how others treat you, being kind is treating those who treat you well with the respect they deserve, as to those who don't, just don't give them the time of day. Being naive means that you can't distinguish those who genuinely treat you well and those who are taking advantage of you
Well stated.
100%
A girl can be a 10/10 but if they act like this girl, it immediately bumps them down to a 1/10 on a good day. Nobody wants to hang out with a narcissist that is in love with the mirror.
Cope more..
@@leftysr2stupid354 schizo post
@@leftysr2stupid354 Simp more..
@@leftysr2stupid354bruh
Nah people are very understanding when a good looking person isn't nice.
Whenever you run into people like this, just keep running. There's no reasoning with them. It's not like a video game where there's a speech check you can pass to make her realise that she's a narcissist and then she'll change for the better and be a real joy to be around.
lmao the 1st sentence was funny
Lmao jerry from undertale acts nicer than this girl and he s even more nice looking than her
yuppppppp
Look, the attitude is translating to the brain driving you see everyday as well...
They belong to the Bizzaro world.
She likes herself enough for all of us
Therefore, we don't even need to like ourselves. She's got it covered.
She think she's the main character
in a new game+
She erroneously thinks she's a decent person
@@CamCam-mq6ji true
Being a main character isn’t the issue - it’s the attitude they have.
Personally, people SHOULD be the main character, in their lives.
That doesn’t imply or is mutually exclusive to being an asshole,
@@XOChristianaNicole I understand you but by "main character" I mean someone who thinks they are better than everybody and that everybody else is a "peasant". I hope that helped:)
I find it funny that she says that she gets lots of looks from people when she enters the room. Has she ever considered that when there's a new thing in the environment that people tend to look twords it? People do it to me all the time, it's not because I'm pretty, it's because people want to know who is in the room with them.
I know! I explained this to a friend with social anxiety. When a person enters the room everyone glances up and looks then go on about their business. It’s a normal reaction. It does not mean the people who look at you are sizing up your appearance or overly thinking about you in any way.
Maybe that person doesn’t desire your gaze. And if you don’t care, your opinion doesn’t matter anyway.
Wait those words…they are the words of one who is not consumed by brainrot! TheEthreal is in his/her right mind!
nuh uh. she likes herself therefore there's at least one person that likes her 🥺🥺🥺
yeah, but she likes herself wayyyytoo much :)
How do we know she's a person? She could be an alien infiltrating society to remove our brain cells
LMAO, how can it ever get that bad..
Get this woman off my screen.
yes please. i hate her face
But she’s so beautiful tho 😂
What's your Genshin Uid?
Resinless behavior
getalife@@BluCarnage
Being nice and kind, does add beauty to a person and being rude, makes them look ugly, or maybe that's just me?
No, I feel the same. People who are objectively 'attractive' but act rude, are automatically ugly. I can't call them pretty.
It doesn't mean they're physically ugly, just a Fd up person. And being nice and kind doesn't mean your a good person either, in most cases the uncomfortable truth is what people need to hear in order to improve themselves..
Imagine if her boss seeing this. Her job title (if she even has a REAL one) is fucked!
I understand, this can involve facial expressions too. A mean person makes any face sour. Vise versa
People dont look at you when you walk into the room because you're pretty
They're looking because you're the new presence in the room and we looking to see who you are
She makes it sound really hard to be pretty. I'm glad I'm ugly
Me, too!! 😂
We team ugly stick together...ill bring cookies for the potluck
I’m sure neither one of you are “ugly”. Just like she isn’t some enchanting beauty. She looks like every other young lady her age, at least imo.
🤣🤣🤣
Its crazy how much a personality will physically change your looks magically to me. Ive met men i thought were unattractive and then i get to know them and start getting anxious that im nowhere near their league because of their personality making them a 10000 times more sexy
Physical beauty doesn’t last long, quality of character is timeless.
never ever deal with a narcissist, if you must, act like they don't exist, stare blankly when looking in their direction as if you are looking at the wall behind them.
To play devil's advocate - I'd say that kind of makes you sound like a mild psychopath.
@@rigelb9025 I am, still I would not mess with a narcissist
@@mikecustoms Seems fair.
This is genuinely the best thing to do. They hate when they cant effect/control your emotional states. A blank slate of a face drives them mentally crazy. They are hit with confusion and unnerving. Which leads to an internalized anger. When you know how narcissists functions they are easier to control than normal people are for them. When you live with one who is hellbent you learn that very quickly. If you want to survive them you do what you can. If that means manipulating them the same way theyve damaged and manipulated your family then thats what you do.
To not be able to recognize your own flaws and improve on them is so sad, I never thought of narcissism as being handicapping but now that I think about it, it’s essentially a state of arrested development 🤔
As someone who was raised in a family and largely by someone with diagnosed narcissistic personality disorder (as well as some undiagnosed, though, obviously such) - it, absolutely, is a state of arrested development.
Well how do you fix that?
Precisely.
aint no way chicks still actin like this and wondering why they still single🤣
They'll still be clueless about it at 60+
The amount of girls running around on the Internet acting like Patrick Bateman is wild.
there’s way more men lmaoo they all suck. why do people feel the need to act like horrible fictional people
It’s because of simps that their heads are so big, but for so many it’s just copium.
Patrick bateman should start running around on tik tok to show them the real deal
From my understanding, Patrick Bateman as portrayed in the movie... is quite a bit different than Patrick Bateman from the book. Apparently, the ones behaving like Bateman from the movie aren't aware that in the book, he actually questions his own reality. Readers are supposed to walk away wondering if he did what he believes he did *or* if he made it all up in his own mind. The ending of the movie touched on that aspect a bit when he admitted to what he had done but everyone reacted as if he didn't say it.
Crazy thing is that I see girls that are as attractive as she is ALL the time (malls, parties, weddings, etc) lol
Beautiful people should _never_ talk about it, let alone constantly! It’s very unattractive when someone thinks he or she is very handsome or pretty. It’s so conceited, just don’t mention it
goes for any advantage that you have without having Done something to achieve it actually. i dont think pride is inherently bad, but it has it's time and place, for when you put in an effort to make it to a goal. being pretty, being tall, even being effortlessly smart, all have value. but only if you put in Work, to be pretty, to be intelligent or skilled or altruistic, then it's your place to feel pride.
She is average, not sure why she seems to think she's all that.
@@joshuamontgomery2298 that too, but i dont think thats the point anyway. like. i think with any of those narcissistic posts, if you resort to saying Anything about the person's looks, it almost kind of validates their point ? that people can't help but make social hierarchy largely influenced by looks. like it Can be read as if saying if they Were actually that beautiful, then their behaviour would be justified. point is that it's irrelevant. whether you are attractive or ugly, you are not above anyone. she could be otherworldly beautiful, and she'd still be a piece of shit, so why mention her looks at all i guess is my point
@@joshuamontgomery2298 She's not a 5, let's be real.
First you say I simply can't ever say it, then you say I can't even think it. Seriously? Make up your mind.
You also say this like it's an objective view that everyone holds. Believe it or not, some people hold the opposite thought.
For example, I personally like it when someone knows they're good looking, or mentions it jokingly when relevant.
I am an extremely unattractive man and the best things I ever done in my life was serve. Volunteered at shelters, church and helped with community cleanups. Did these things for myself and not external validation. My pastor told me that how I treat people displays I was home trained, how dogs or animals respond to me shows I have a good heart, and how babies react to me shows I display a good soul. I just help people where I can and just live as an example to others and myself.
Lol
@@SapienSafari- Unnecessary.
You must be friend’s with the woman in the video.
All that work is truly wonderful, but how babies and animals react to you has nothing to do with the kind of person you are.
@@sunnie734 In a sense. A dog can tell if a person has good vibes or not, and with babies if they look and smile it's a sign. Old wives tale or something, but it was mentioned by a few people I know.
Hey buddy, let me clear something for you ...this won't guarantee you anything In life.....
But that doesn't matter. What you are doing good sir is the best human you can be. Even if your life on earth was horrible you will be blessed with eternity in heaven. Never stop being the kindest you you can be. Who knows? Maybe life will In a snap go perfect for your, Mabye it won't. But you never should stop being a good person. Take care lad you are a true role model.
There are people who think that being kind is the same as being doormat, which is wrong as they are two different things
"They hate me because I'm so pretty and it has nothing to do with how terrible of a person I am!" - delusional people.
I get called beautiful everyday by various people. I also got called ugly half my childhood . Nomatter what,i make a conscious effort to be kind to people . Blessings come ur way when ur simply a genuinely kind person
Well you are very beautiful! You are a child of God! What could be more beautiful than that other than the Lord Himself? ❤
As a girl myself who's met girls like this: I don't care if you're an actual super model (girl or guy), if you act the way this girl advises then you instantly become hideous and I lose all respect for you. Everyone carries beauty in their own way, and what's physically attractive to one won't be for another. Even if you think you're unattractive, kindness, confidence and an overall good personality will do wonders
Princess Diana had money power and a whole monarchy but what made her most beautiful of all was she was a genuine, kind person
As I am someone who was blessed with beauty. IIm 63 now, but I my younger years, I always had to be especially nice so I could fit in and have friendships and good working relationships with colleagues. It doesn’t matter what your physical attributes are, “ pretty is as pretty does” as I was always taught remains true. You do not weaponize your beauty or use it to place yourself above anyone.
This narcissist needs a big reality check and needs to get off the internet. Spreading this kind of info is dangerous 😳.
This reminds me of when a lady on a reality show that I watch said "im the alpha and youre at the bottom of the food chain". Ma'am, we are not in the animal kingdom, like relax, eat your damn fries.
If she wanna be in the animal kingdom, just have her eat raw meat. Salmonella will get to her
3:20 oh boy that line aged like milk
i just came to comment the same thing)))
I hope I never see or hear her again.
This girls already on the game over screen. But she won't realise it till she's 55 😂😂
She won't ever realize it
It doesn’t matter how beautiful on the outside you are, if your personality is disgustingly ugly, you will be ugly on the outside to people also.
As someone who has been married for 15 years, I can assure you she will never attract a quality partner. A doormat, simp, soy-boy, etc. is the best she will ever achieve.
Absolutely, honestly i feel sorry for whichever guy is desperate enough to get with her, also i hope your marriage is going well 🙏
Well said lad! quite proud of you chap! You and your wife have a wonderful day
I’d they’re that shallow, oh well
@@ZomboidMania ikr!! If this is what she is willing to say OUT LOUD in front of the WHOLE INTERNET, I'm scared of what she thinks inside her head!!!! :0
The fact that she has to try to be kind… it says a lot about her mindset.
Why does she think she is so damn gorgeous? Sure, she is pretty, but in a very average way, nothing special, nothing interesting
Simps and social media.
exactly
Perfect example of average 5
She could hang with the kardashians and not stand out. Not sure I would cassify as average.
Whether the kardashians are the „epidome of beauty“ is debatable, but they ARE making BILIONS by being beautiful.
@@sarahtaavettithe Kardashians are not pretty. They look like blow up dolls
The trick to not being treated like shit while being nice is to know when people are walking all over you and being able to take a step back and before getting mad, having the conversation saying like you’re starting to become a little too disrespectful and crossing a line. I’m not gonna tell you twice, but you’re about to find out if you keep fucking around. And usually they stop at that point, but nobody wants to stay in your face and be rude more than people who are mad at you and nothing makes people madder at you than being a bitch to them. It takes two seconds to be nice and keep moving instead of trying to make both your day and their day worse by your fucking attitude.
I agree with setting boundaries when you notice someone walking over you. However, (just my personal opinion) I don’t believe one has to threaten someone to set a boundary. Especially in a workplace environment, it’d be best to ask the person if they have a minute to talk first then let them know that you’ve been noticing some behaviors from them that you’d like to discuss. Bring up some examples of what they’ve been doing and give suggestions on how you would like them to approach similar situations with you going forward without giving them a “or else” vibe while having the discussion. Because “or else” vibes can bring hostility into the work environment (or just any environment) which ultimately makes everyone uncomfortable. But, if the talk didn’t work or if one is nervous to have that talk, it’s always best to bring it up to a supervisor that one is comfortable with (and a supervisor that knows how to efficiently communicate without causing tension) to be a middle piece to the situation and defuse it. However, if you work for a shitty company with a shitty supervisor - this might not be an effective outlet & it should be time to look for a company that treats its employees better. [this reply was typed with having experience with workplace issues and feeling singled out at work by my peers, because my peers have their little friend group and with as many times as I have tried to be nice & join, they’ve been singling me out & making me the black sheep.. which is hurtful BUT I didn’t have to threaten them to get them to stop walking over me. I just went to my supervisor (who is very good with communication) and had our supervisor correct their behavior. There is no tension between my peers and I (but I do believe they gossip behind my back but that’s bc they gossip about a lot of people at work behind their back & gossip is out of my control so learning to let shit go that I can’t control is something I’m working on now.)
Some of these people on social Media I feel like growing up, we’re not taught self-awareness, or the concept on how other people perceive them. Otherwise, they wouldn’t be saying a bunch of this stupid nonsense on the Internet. That’s my take at least.
Oh it's a great take, that would otherwise be shut down by sickos by her.
This is purely a female problem. Males are getting more grounded in reality and females are completely out of their minds nowadays
She's so delulu
She doesn't realize that her problems aren't because she's pretty, it's because people are increasingly narcissistic and betray you for often minor personal benefits
I used to have a bully. one day I confronted him and he apologized and said he never though of it as bullying. it stopped after the confrontation. communication is key
sometimes you just have to look at the problem and have a genuine talk with them. if they act like buffoons then just wait for them to drop the act. they'll feel real stoopid for acting like that later
My bully apologized to me too :)
what did he think he was doing? "just joking around"? "just having some fun"? that's what they all say when confronted.
Yeah, it's a another problem when you do tell them off, but they keep doing it anyways.
r/thathappened
When I was her age girls and women came up to me and kissed me in public. Often in an alcohol accepting environment. And I got a complement after that, saying I was a hazard for single girls. I have even been draged into the ladies room by two girls. In a small town at a market a girl just came up to me with her friends and started to make out with me.
These happenings didn't surface in my memory until now. Did I take advantage of these girls, no. Did it get to my head, obviously not. Did it make me behave as an narcissistic troll, no. Did I in any way use this or what-ever for my own selfish urges, no. Did I brag about it, just a little bit after it happend but mostly because I was shocked.
Do I help random people who need help, yes. Have I gone beyond what is seen as just "giving a helping hand", yes. Have I broken up fights that didn't consern me, yes. Would I give a stranger the shirt of my back, yes.
And yet I'm despised, hated and loathed, funny how that work...
What the lady is saying is somewhat true but Pegasus’s target demographic is the complete opposite of hers.
This woman was told " you dont gotta be an asshole because your pretty" and that was the basis for this whole video 😂😂 what a narcissist
I know that I'm ugly. Like really ugly and honestly, I hate it when pretty people think they won everything. Ok, we get it! you indeed are pretty but I don't have to stand up from my subway seat to give it to you just because you are prettier than me.
Who TF is trying to take your seat..? If that happens take a video and call it out, but I think you might be exaggerating.
Your kindness makes you more pretty than you realize.
METAPHOR
@@leftysr2stupid354 nah it legit happened. I did give up my seat. I looked a bit haggard that day because I came back from a 4 day camp, probably why she assumed I was homeless.
@@yunyun5118 hahaha why would a good looking person wanna sit in a homeless persons seat? And why the hell would you just give up your seat?? That's not right, stand up for your rights!
There's a difference between being a good person and not letting people walk over you, both of which have nothing to do with how you loooooooook, crap
Whoever raised this girl needs to be locked up ASAP LOL!!
Just my opinion.. She isn't "pretty" she is on the a average.
May someone should tell her the truth?
You get what you give. Own what you are willing to accept. YOU teach people how to treat you. love, Gen X
I consider being an attractive person but I would never go out my way to be mean and unkind…. I actually get I’m too friendly and I’m flirty- while I’m just being nice!!! But to actually be malicious?!???!
Not on my bingo card.
It's nice to be important.
But
It's more important to be nice
It’s crazy that 6’s act like 9’s these days. Delusional.
She's more like a 7 but yeah, still way off
That’s no 6 - pretty average - 5
@@Sar-ahG you're about the same level as her you know?
Ouch. That makes me a 1 or in the negatives . So depressing, but used to it at least.
@@lucialuciferion6720hit the gym
I don't know if she's trolling to provoke people but she seems pretty serious about it. I just can't believe people like this exists
Yepp, she seems pretty. And serious.
My dad is just like her, he thinks everyones out to get him and everyone is always thinking about HIM and everyone is always trying to play mind games and undermine him, hes always tryna tell me how to "play the game" and its all manipulative bullshit, im really getting sick of it, last week i said "what if i dont want to play" and that comment went completely over his head, it was like just the idea of living life normally is an alien concept to him
She's a 6 at best, and ppl prob treat her better cause they can't stand to be around her, and she'll forever be alome
Yeah they are giving in and boosting her ego to shut down the conversation asap. She isn’t the level of attractive that gets a free pass to be shitty… at least not with a messy bun, hoodie, no make up, and a mediocre filter. When you are average you can be a show stopper when you put in extra physical effort and dress up, if you know how to do it. But you also have to put in effort personally. Why? Because one brush with the flu got you looking like Gollum. So you need people who don’t give a shit how you look on your best and worst days. It’s true that bad people may treat you better when they perceive you as attractive. But I’m talking more ‘people who usually ignore you or bully you are all the sudden acting like you are friends.’ I’m not an asshole to them. I just act like I am as boring as possible. One word answers. Showing no excitement that they chose to talk to me. Not really engaging, and walking away as soon as I can. That is what I would do with this woman. It’s not jealousy or whatever. It’s an authentic lack of being impressed.
There are many narcissists in this world and society. Too many actually
Being kind gets you walked on at times, sometimes more often then other. If you somehow don’t know people like this, listen to some Reddit stories. The amount of doormats out there make me so happy to be the way I am. I’m not an a$$hole unless I have to be. But I will be one.
She's gonna hit the wall a lot sooner than she realizes
She's projecting. She's describing the very personality and insecurities she's displaying.
Spot on
@@lullabygully4621 She should work in a movie theater or something.
"Remaining kind, remaining a good person, is not helping you"
yes that is the point, its about helping the people you care about, duh.
She is in her lovely "I am sooo pretty and your want to be me" bubble. 🙄🙄🙄That bubble will pop one day💯💯💯💯
Well , she was a 5. Before she opened her mouth 🙄
And looks don’t last forever but kindness does!
She's not even a looker. What is wrong with this woman.
The 2020s is the decade of the mids. I swear, the unwarranted narcissism is out of control.
I am still waiting for everybody to figure out that what makes a person beautiful is having a beautiful soul.
No good person is this hung up on how to make other people think about them as much as they already think about themselves
"It's frightful that people who are so ignorant should have so much influence."
-George Orwell
She's describing the thought process of all narcissists when they receive even the kindest most constructive criticism. It's not because you're pretty. It's because you're allergic to accountability.
Ooh, that's a good one!
She does know that beauty doesn't last and it's not you, you makes you your kindness KNOWLEDGE, hard work but what I do know? I'm 60 and 40 years ago I was pretty but I had a good life because I was a nurse not because I was "pretty"
So a 5 is considered pretty? She looks basic.
Being sure everybody is thinking bad stuff about you behind your back is called paranoia...
if bird of a feather, then any acting as her friends probably are just like her and saying bad things behind her back
When she sais "it doesnt matter if you r kind" its actually true when it comes to first attraction unfortunately. First people see looks, only then comes kindness and other stuff
There's a saying, humble yourself before getting 'humbled'
When an NPC tries to be main character. I'm sure plenty of chads ran through that.
Pegasus, it is noticeable how people look at you based off your attractiveness, I lost 100lbs and the difference in how literally everyone looked at and interacted with me was insane and disheartening. That is the world but yeah this b is wild
I must be hot as hell, I’ve walked into rooms and sometimes it goes completely quiet!
I mean yeah there will be people who occasionally try to tear you down because your attractive. I’ve experienced that. But 99% of them I’ve run into online and their insults are WEAK
Welp! I'm not gonna let my children use TikTok anytime soon (or ever)
Good idea!
that's good!!!! :)
Actually being a decent person helped me out when I needed someone to drive me to the hospital. Nobody does that for an asshole that gets tolerated for being attractive.
I'm the most humble person in the world. Nobody is more humble than me
eh
true
Social media has made regular women feel like they are super models, pathetic
I've known people who had to deal with narcissists, it's honestly sad how people are willing to side with the narcissist even when they are wrong and I've also seen how narcissists have destroyed people's lives in the worst ways possible.
Was raised by a narcissist and it was miserable. Once I became teenager she verbally abused me, so I have seen how they destroy lives as well. I wouldn't wish it on anyone
Yeah, when you disagree, they never forget.
*When she walks into a room*
Everyone: Oh God not her again
Her: I'm so pretty
she’s attractive but nothing all that special. maybe a 7 out of 10.
Nah, she's a 3
Over the entire world she is a 4 maybe a 5 on her best day.
Nothing special at all, she's not ugly (on the outside) but she's not somebody that would stand out in a crowd either.
take off the makeup and camera filters and its a 5, and even if she was a 10, this type of behaviour isnt acceptable
i agree.
I still prefer to be kind to others and that way to earn respect, why does she think she can give advice ?
Narcissism is usually formed from insecurity. If you really take the time to talk to these people and learn their background, you'll find out they they didnt have the best life growing up and felt insecure about their physical or emotional traits. Of course there's the chance that you're born with it, but as I said, its usually formed from negative lifestyle.
As someone raised in a family with diagnosed NPD..
Narcissists, generally, won’t admit to having a poor upbringing - unless they know it’s going to get them sympathy points, and act in their benefit.
Yes, you are correct it does come from insecurity, and most often - a poor upbringing.
However, a narcissistic person (unless they hit rock bottom and are forced to do the work) is only going to bring forth their insecurities and flaws, as a means of manipulation - not as a means of vulnerability and openness, the willingness to connect.
However, with my research, I believe narcissism has been bred into western society, en masse, since the end of WWII (if One were to research how a narcissistic personality is made, and the type of abuse that causes it - it can be seen all throughout our societal progression, since that time).
Also, narcissistic abuse is nearly identical to SRA - satanic ritual abuse.
Which, again, can be seen all over media and pop-culture.
Sure, genetics plays a roll - though, epi-genetics are just as important.
And in this day and age, NPD isn’t solely from an abusive upbringing - it is learned through social media and pop culture, at this point.
Is this SRA literal? Or a term for something?@@XOChristianaNicole
So....there's no cure to my condition? I'll just grow into a full out narcissist! I'm gonna become worse and be hated by everyone? I want to be saved. I don't want to be a narcissist!
@@XOChristianaNicole Since when did Satanism and Narcissism go together? Last time I remember Anton Lavey made Laveyan Satanism as something for the anti-christ because he had distaste for christ, sure there were satanic imagery before that but satanism wasn't prevalent before that: only satanic panic. You may be onto something with social media and music, I'll give you that but the satanism part confuses me
@@johnwethekylow I'm not really sure what this means either lol, lot of satanists are chill. Have a satanic neighbor myself and he's the kindest dude I know! Feeds homeless cats every week I'm pretty sure.
It’s normal when someone (anyone) walks in to anyplace. This girl is average at best- and that’s not a bad thing. What attracts people is your aura, the way you make people feel when they speak to you and most importantly, how they feel after the conversation is over with you. ❤❤❤
This girl so so basic and thinks she is so special 😂
The only appropriate response to a young child calling you pretty is to turn it around and compliment them on their flower shoes and pony tails.
crazy to think her video has over 700k likes...
Dont be suprised. We are evolving but backwards 🤣
2:06
This is why treat others the way you want to be treated is the golden rule...
True words of wisdom coming from a child with virtually no life experience, thanks but i'll pass!
I found the hater..
@@leftysr2stupid354 not following stupid advice = hate, got ya dude!
@@sebastiengoulet360 who you calling a child? Her or pegasus??
@@leftysr2stupid354 her...
@@leftysr2stupid354 Her...
That attitude is using your looks to manipulate others regarding your character.
Pretty privilege? She looks the same as every other girl I walk by xD
SHE IS 100% CORRECT!!!!!! I'm 50 now and fat so this doesn't fit me anymore but back in the day I was almost always the hottest chick in whatever room I was in (not bragging, just a fact). Long blonde hair, grey eyes DDD chest (38-26-37). From the time my boobs started coming in (3rd grade) ALL FEMALES HATED ME, including my mother and older sister. And I have always been the kind of person who would go out of my way to do nice things for people.My mother used to say I had a "Brady Bunch mentality", meaning i was very idealistic and believed everyone was good. The way other females treated me turned me into a bitch in my early 20's. Like it or not, woman are haters when it comes to other females. So many females wanted to fight me as a teenager because of the way their boyfriends looked at me, even tho I had zero interest in their boyfriends. I don't know if I would say you have to be a total bitch but you definitely need to grow a thick skin because other women will definitely come for you.
3:23 look how time move