My gosh, you are Heaven sent. This information is life saving Experiencing this frightening stalking, and have been for quite a while. But I didn't know it, because I was unconscious. Awakened this time last year. Thank God because I feel with my heart and soul, if I were still in the fog, I'd be dead. Just within the last six months. That's how serious this is.
Thank you Catherine! I'm glad this was helpful. Stalking is frightening when you are the recipient of it. But the stalker needs to understand, if possible, that this is a serious crime.
@@TherapistTamaraHill Hopefully the EPO will shutter him, but I'm not taking any chances. Always have to stay two steps ahead of this dangerously malicious man!
@@catherinewacker141 Stay whole. (I am in a similarly shitty position, except I am a migrant in the UK, where most people demonise women, migrants and the over-45s, so I haven't been able to do anything about it. Most people blindly assume that I am delusional. Because you really can't make this shit up. And when you talk about someone else's crazy behaviour, it makes people think you must be crazy. Which is akin to people concluding you must be a bank robber because you witnessed a bank robbery and describe what happened. Argh.)
Imagine 6 or so members of society stalking one person and thinking that that one person is the one in the wrong- and that they are somehow in the right, despite the obvious fact that they're stalking someone- happened to a client of mine.
I am experiencing this right now.. I have been getting stalked by a female that was a neighbor… I never had one bad interaction with her…never did anything wrong to her.. I moved and she still is stalking me.. she have ppl stalk me on my job everyday.. I think she has put a tracker on my car.. please pray for me😢
Some people are stalked, harassed and excessively monitored for intimidation, tempering and retaliation purposes etc. Stalking isn't always associated with a romantic interest. Hacking and other surveillance apparatuses allows people to torment victims and create all types of obscene narratives about them. It's sad, but things aren't always what they appear to be when dealing with this issue. You have to be vigilant and a critical thinker.
You do have to be vigilant and also wise in how you live your life. You may have to alter things a bit and that's not always "letting the stalker wi" ... it's beating him or her at their own game.
What about the stalkers that do know that what they're doing is wrong but still tries to see themselves as the victims? Like they don't care, but they try to victimize themselves for comfort?
It's for power and to make you feel crazy. The minute they get caught they stop caring and move on elsewhere. They don't really think they are the victim, they know you are compassionate.
My childhood friend developed schizophrenia and has been emailing me nonstop for 3 years straight. She believes we are lesbian lovers and has been planning our lives together. It's disturbing the say the least
I have been dealing with a real stalker that hacks into my devices, watches me day and night. Listens to phone calls. Everything you said about what they do I see every day. This has been so bad that I almost took my life. You tell others and say it is not happening when it is destroying you and your mental outlook. Help
Wow ! Sounds like what I’m going through I feel I’m on a surveillance camera anyone and everyone can watch or some type of day / night vision something and they eavesdrop on my conversations! Crazy but , true they are cruel soulless want my destruction ! They torment me do unimaginable things to me that only one that hates can do too other ! Very very disturbing and disgusting individuals gang thugs that have nothing better to do ! They don’t work are fixated on my life on destroying me ! Please me please someone?
They get great pleasure from causing fear in another person. Maybe they think that it gives their life meaning. They probably think that if they can't have someone's love or admiration, they'll take fear.
Thank you so much for these videos! I believe I’m being cyber stalked by a man I dated briefly 4 years ago. There is also someone who calls me from all sorts of numbers and when I answer they don’t say anything and just hang up. I let unknown calls go straight to voicemail now. It’s extremely disturbing but your videos are very helpful. Thanks again.
What about gang stalking, my stalkers act out of hatred and a sense of justifiable revenge. They threaten me, including death threats. Mock and humiliate me. It is someone/people I know but not some ex. Still, obsessive stalking behavior.
It's cyberstalking and it relates to drug use. When it's death threats report them so they are on record for crimes. These types of criminals use tactics,and do not understand how the law works. And are associated with trafficking in most cases. They use spyware at a low decibal rate,and thinking that it's a low decibal that they can get away with it. However there are ways to record them. And there are means it hacking. FBi knows cyber crimes well. These perpetrators have holes in their stories. Write things down in a notebook. And their speech patterns,will actually start to realize where they live,how many hours their awake ,what kind of ring is it, ect. How old are they? They will try to confuse you,but the patterns and routines of their criminal behaviors are there if you document. Do not let these cyber crime gangs let them harrass you ,and commit crimes. As a victim you do have to fight back. They think they can do what ever they want. In my case these criminals think they can commit heinus crimes,while using actual voice dubbs of fbi directors and law enforcement in their crimes.And then state" Come and get us FBI". I've learned in my case that it's older young adults,with what sounds like teenagers. And they mention consistency in petifile mediators one member of the ring consistency,and it's more than" High on cyber"" Hack everything" it's exploitation of minors and sexual miscoduct. Report them,and just in case something happens. Death threats and bodily threat is seruis. If it's death threating something is already bad has happened. The perputrators could result in something worse. The female in my ring went after my ears,and mentioned body parts, studying Fecal matter, and " Baseball bat" " Murder" " Compare myself to Charles Manson" and that's terrifying on purpouse with full intent,and someone who is mentally not meant to be in society. Take care make sure to report them.
They don't understand no, I've tried several times, at one point my stalker looked me dead In in my eye and asked me to FAKE like I liked him and we were in a relationship!! Here we are 3 tears later, they still don't get it!
Thanks so much! I know someone who has had psychotic delusions & when I mention therapy they’re flatout not interested. What to do when the person is clearly harming their chances of living a normal life?
Protect your EVERYTHING such as: changing passwords on everything Change your phone number(s) Alert close friends and family members of the stalker and ask them to never engage with the creep Save ALL documentation of contact from the lunatic keeping a digital paper trail Never engage the lunatic Keep your eyes and ears open paying attention to your environment Try and NOT be afraid of the creep because there are really BAD alternatives and measures that you can take, but those things could cause YOU more harm than you expect Keep going on with your life Seek guidance from Támara or someone with her knowledge, skill set and board certified Try and seek inner peace and happiness regardless to all of the horror and... Live well
This is the sad part, I'm dealing with a psyco stalker. I said to him hundred of times leave me of alone, I don't want nothing from you. And told me that that's not true. He even told me I'm the pshyco even though it's him who's engaging in an unwanted conversation with an account I couldn't block yet. It's a really sick situation.
I keep waiting for it to be over so that someday maybe I can have some sort of semblance of being able to heal and move on but they persist it's like they won't be happy until I'm dead
Stop yourself and focus control cpstd if you can. Focus on gaining self control. It's really sad ,sickly,that these types of stalkers target medical conditions,disabilities,and ethnicities. Focus ,ground yourself, and know that you can call a holiness, or report them.
Thank you for the knowledge and insight. We need to talk about healthy boundaries and healthy relationships after being stalked. It changes you completely when you have been stalked, hunted or the sort. I have so much more empathy for celebrities and the lives that they lead. It can't be easy nor fun to have your whole life under a camera.
Absolutely! You're welcome and thank you for watching. You are right. It isn't easy to be in the open spotlight. You never know who may push things way to far.
Sorry I don’t care about celebrities who have money and resources . My stalker has isolated me and messed up my job and stopped my family helping me financially . I’m stuck . But my guests will never be down again
This helped me because I experienced this from someone at work recently. At first he seemed desperate for friends but then behavior started getting really strange for lack of a better word.
I watched one of your videos and subscribed immediately you are very articulate and of course beautiful. do you have any video where are you talk about personalities that are attracted to or draw from stalkers for some women that’s all they attract for some reason.
Thank you ☺and welcome to the channel!! I don't know if I have a specific video like this but here are a few that may answer that question: intimacy stalkers ruclips.net/video/zOoizPogTOs/видео.html trauma stalkers ruclips.net/video/e7zoZYiqW70/видео.html There' a ton of other videos on my channel around this topic. I will consider doing a specific video on this in the future!
I would suggest reaching out for help. Any stalking or obsessive behaviors could lead to legal challenges as well as long-term charges. I suggest reaching out for help and possibly getting a really good psychotherapist who understands these topics.
I thought people were to lazy to stalk nowadays. lol. I'm not making light of it, but I'm being serious. Is this still a problem today? I haven't heard of anyone stalking as of lately. I could be wrong though.
Unfortunately, they are not. On a very serious note, stalkers stalk no matter what and despite the modernity of times. Cyber stalking seems to be the most common in today's world including "social media stalking," "catfishing," etc.
I am such a person. I believe what drove me to stalking was automatic thoughts i had as reactions, as well as forming false narratives of jealousy inside my head. I broke into the fb account of her, by sim swapping her phone and routing her reset text to my phone after i used a data scraper to mine her email in a fb group. I searched and read all of her messages. What drove me to do this was a desire of control. I also used my abilities to launch attacks on any males i percieved to be a threat. She was very understanding and its crazy she had the patience to deal with what i did, she even stayed patient and eventually worked with me and was there for me everyday and showed me how i was obsessed and how my mental worked and i eventually stopped doing it and made it up to her over the years... The guilt hurts to this day.
Most stalkers are not psychotic at all, and whilst they may have some cognitive-dissonance about how their behavior is inappropriate, they are well aware of their actions, and the resultant problems with the law and the distress they can cause, resulting in shame, self-hatred and suicidal ideation, but the cycle repeats itself, such is the cycle of psychological distress their minds have which can be hidden within for years until this feeling of rejection and loss occurs. Most have had some form of relationship with the object of their stalking which includes at least one intimate episode.
Some have obsessed about you for decades without your awareness. And when made aware and you are not interested, the stalking that you know of begins, despite you ignoring every attempt to contact you
They need to form attachments to you to feed their obsession. Be it themselves or through others. They need the feed to feel power. Its a game. No one that has any self respect for themselves behaves this way. And if you behave this way you dont love yourself. So no, this is not love. It is a delusion. And they become more persistent and aggressive from rejection. This behaviour is not "good"☠️🎯
The stalking I'm experiencing has to do with the Land, Indigenous Whenua, by a generation of sexually abused who use genealogy as a tool to hide their fear of facing the reality of how to actually deal with the problems so many people suffer from, Administration even at urban levels does more harm than help from what I've learned about myself and the experiences I have finally been able to work & sort out over the decades ❤️💛💚☯️☮️
Yep this is happening to me currently. I have told him to leave me alone or else it will not just be an issue between him and I. I hope he can move on before the legal stuff or hospitalization stuff happens.
I know they don’t think they are ever wrong because they’ve been doing it to me since 2018, it’s only gotten worse and only stop when I do something to make them panic for themselves! In Watertown, NY… this is a huge problem!!! They have made several women either kill themselves or just murdered them and blamed their significant other but it’s been them… These weirdos get off on hurting others… They work among the professionals in this city… scary right? It’s real. You would think that they would stop, but they are not well.
What about the damage they cause the community? My 2 stalkers have caused havoc. They have been working together for years. I want peace and I want them out of my life. What makes it worse they are getting help from the authorities and the community to stalk
They do cause a lot of drama and damage to the surrounding community. That's why stalkers need serious consequences. This is not a joke and unfortunately the world doesn't quite see if that way.
My stalker is an outcast . He thinks by making me one we can be together . He’s an outcast by nature I’m an outcast Becaue he lies manipulated and stalked so we aren’t the same . He wanted break me down and make me so desperate and confused but I understood everything and that’s what Mia my power
Excellent video! Can some of these symptoms overlap? For instance, can a narcissist and a person who has psychosis both have grandiosity? Also, can a person be a narcissist and a sociopath/psychopath? Can a person be a malignant or toxic narcissist and sociopath/psychopath? Can a person be a narcissist and have psychosis behavior?
I'd say yes! To all of those questions! Why? Because I've had to deal with it "all" from just one guy! I just want this nightmare to be over but, he's never going to stop.
Its worse than terrible. I am an addiction to them. They will burn the city down to get hold of me. I tried my upmost to put a stop to it over 10years ago
Also beware of stalkers loop. My stalker used a commodity and set me up. Then forced a debt on someone and its out of control. Her idea was to buy me to pay off the debt she created. Hence she is getting help to stalk me from the police and everyone
I've been being stalked for two years. He's been charged and pled guilty to 2 aggravated stalking counts. for both, he's got ten months. He will be out. He will be back. I am terrified of him..
It varies! Most don't stop and must be jailed but that's only for a short time. Some stalk and get tired and go away. So it really depends on how unstable the individual is and how needy they are to be accepted by the stalked.
@@TherapistTamaraHill Doesn't this mean that society fails to meet the healthcare needs of large groups of people who feel like outcasts and are desperately looking for a sense of connection? Rejecting them is not going to make them board a rocket for Pluto and leave planet Earth. There is still a huge gap between the knowledge about brain-based conditions including natural neurodiversity and the knowledge related to the rest of the body and many healthcare professionals propagate stigmas, which is not helpful either.
Was stalked by a former patient. He made threats including that he would kill me and came near my residence. I had 7 incidents of flat tires all nails except the last was a razor in the 18 months before the threats. At the times, I thought the flat tires were coincidences altho once I wondered if someone had placed them. Now I am wondering about whether the stalker did these in the parking lot after leaving appointments. I had presumed that he was an antisocial autistic man but looking back on it, seems like psychopathic traits as well. The restraining order is about to expire and I don’t know what will happen. I had to spend considerable money on self-defense equipment and legal. In a way I do feel sorry for him and his parents that are scared of him as well. Does anyone know whether car tires are a target of stalkers? Is this a bad predictive sign? Are restraining orders usually sufficient?
Oh my. This is tough to say the least. I've been there and it's such a delicate situation because the person is a patient. They have rights and laws that protect them --- and, if the patient is a psychiatric patient, things get more complicated. Do you hospitalize? Do you admit against their will? Do you contact their family against all confidentiality laws? It gets so much worse. I'm so sorry you have to go through this. The only way to protect yourself is to stay out of the social media sphere, keep a low profile, avoid places that are heavy traffic locations if you can, and don't answer or respond to odd or anonymous calls. To your question, I think restraining orders are just there to put things into writing. It can go in their medical chart if you have access to that. I wish you the best.
That's a good question. So let me break this up a bit. Some research suggests that those with psychotic disorders, like schiozophrenia, are less likely to act out violently than someone who doesn't have this kind of disorder. However, some research also suggests that if the individual is psychotic and is having an active episode of hearing voices, seeing things, believing things that are not true, and is in an agitated state, it is likely that they could act out. The individual who began to stalk me not only had schizophrenia and was in an active state of psychosis, but also acted out against the police violently including their spouse. They threatned me for providing treatment to the children and the children reporting child abuse to me over the course of multiple sessions. The hospital (after I admitted them against their will) and a trip to jail were the only things that stopped this madness.
I have a stalker that obsessed over a high school photo. Includes putting it in my photo album! After Ive ripped them up. They also call my job so I can be fired and talk about my past exes!
Do all stalkers have some sort of mental illness to begin with & why do most stalkers end up hurting or killing the one they are stalking? What happens is the stalker finally gets whatever he wants from the person theyre stalking?
I am being stalked by my neighbor!! I never did one thing to her.. all I would do was say hi.. and be a friendly neighbor and mind my business.. I started noticing that she was stalking me.. coming to my job.. blocking me.. parking her car right behind mines.. I moved.. and she still stalking me.. she has ppl following me.. I think she put a tracker on my car.. every where I would go she would pop up or will be arriving home the same time as me.. I recently found out she has a mental illness.. she is bipolar and paranoid 🤯 I don’t know how she is tracking my every move.. please I need help!! Can someone please give some information on what to do.. 😢
This ring I never met them at all ect. I was targeted by a predator,who has friends. These perpetrators in my case decided to hack security systems to spotlight and out everything,and have gone to different geographic locations. They planned to hack speakers," Camera hacking" businesses. And purpously put spyware stragically,and purchased multipule evidence. Along with using wifi,batteries,when my neighbors cars turn on. It's fabbing and hi tech survielance. That's highly illegal for awhile now. Time is catching up with some of them,and it's so many crimes at this point. Some are so high in this ring they are in pschosis. Document everything.
Hi Tamara, I spoked to you a while ago, I asked for your email address, to discuss my situation, as a victim of gang stalking online, stalked physically, by a Narcissist. Could I have your email details again please? Thanks
My gosh, you are Heaven sent. This information is life saving Experiencing this frightening stalking, and have been for quite a while. But I didn't know it, because I was unconscious. Awakened this time last year. Thank God because I feel with my heart and soul, if I were still in the fog, I'd be dead. Just within the last six months. That's how serious this is.
Thank you Catherine! I'm glad this was helpful.
Stalking is frightening when you are the recipient of it. But the stalker needs to understand, if possible, that this is a serious crime.
@@TherapistTamaraHill Hopefully the EPO will shutter him, but I'm not taking any chances. Always have to stay two steps ahead of this dangerously malicious man!
Yes, absolutely.
@@catherinewacker141 Stay whole. (I am in a similarly shitty position, except I am a migrant in the UK, where most people demonise women, migrants and the over-45s, so I haven't been able to do anything about it. Most people blindly assume that I am delusional. Because you really can't make this shit up. And when you talk about someone else's crazy behaviour, it makes people think you must be crazy. Which is akin to people concluding you must be a bank robber because you witnessed a bank robbery and describe what happened. Argh.)
how are you doing now all the best for the future i hope you are in a much better place
They use their trauma as excuse. Hurt people hurt people? no. Evil people hurt people. Period.
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true!
Then there is very few who arent..
Facts!
They hide behind it like an armour
Stalkers are sick
Yup.... idk how or why anybody would be so worried about someone else lol
Imagine 6 or so members of society stalking one person and thinking that that one person is the one in the wrong- and that they are somehow in the right, despite the obvious fact that they're stalking someone- happened to a client of mine.
True........it's really crazy
Ex-ac-tly
Happens more than u think.
I am experiencing this right now.. I have been getting stalked by a female that was a neighbor… I never had one bad interaction with her…never did anything wrong to her.. I moved and she still is stalking me.. she have ppl stalk me on my job everyday.. I think she has put a tracker on my car.. please pray for me😢
Some people are stalked, harassed and excessively monitored for intimidation, tempering and retaliation purposes etc. Stalking isn't always associated with a romantic interest. Hacking and other surveillance apparatuses allows people to torment victims and create all types of obscene narratives about them. It's sad, but things aren't always what they appear to be when dealing with this issue. You have to be vigilant and a critical thinker.
You do have to be vigilant and also wise in how you live your life. You may have to alter things a bit and that's not always "letting the stalker wi" ... it's beating him or her at their own game.
ppl stalking me for so many years it's getting bad.
Some people build a whole reality around somebody else life with a obsession this stuff be real
I never understood these behaviors. Thank you for this. Very sick.
You're welcome! Thanks for watching
It is ridiculous.... they are demon possessed lol there isn't enough time in the world to be so obsessed with someone else, other than yourself..
What about the stalkers that do know that what they're doing is wrong but still tries to see themselves as the victims? Like they don't care, but they try to victimize themselves for comfort?
It's for power and to make you feel crazy. The minute they get caught they stop caring and move on elsewhere. They don't really think they are the victim, they know you are compassionate.
exactly!! that is exactly like how the stalker is to me. complete looney tunes!
Stalkers live in a inverted reality where they think they're the good guys and you're the bad guys when the opposite is true
Everything about stalking is this. It opposes reality. Normal people see reality.
My childhood friend developed schizophrenia and has been emailing me nonstop for 3 years straight. She believes we are lesbian lovers and has been planning our lives together. It's disturbing the say the least
Any luck with your stalker?
Brianna? Have you talked with her family and made it clear you don’t wish to be contacted in this way?
And asked for them to oversee that she stops?
This is different - she has schizophrenia
Why didn’t you reroute to spam?
You don't develop schizophrenia.
I have been dealing with a real stalker that hacks into my devices, watches me day and night. Listens to phone calls. Everything you said about what they do I see every day. This has been so bad that I almost took my life. You tell others and say it is not happening when it is destroying you and your mental outlook. Help
Wow ! Sounds like what I’m going through I feel I’m on a surveillance camera anyone and everyone can watch or some type of day / night vision something and they eavesdrop on my conversations! Crazy but , true they are cruel soulless want my destruction ! They torment me do unimaginable things to me that only one that hates can do too other ! Very very disturbing and disgusting individuals gang thugs that have nothing better to do ! They don’t work are fixated on my life on destroying me ! Please me please someone?
They get great pleasure from causing fear in another person. Maybe they think that it gives their life meaning. They probably think that if they can't have someone's love or admiration, they'll take fear.
Thank you so much for these videos! I believe I’m being cyber stalked by a man I dated briefly 4 years ago. There is also someone who calls me from all sorts of numbers and when I answer they don’t say anything and just hang up. I let unknown calls go straight to voicemail now. It’s extremely disturbing but your videos are very helpful. Thanks again.
Thank you!! And you're welcome.
This is disturbing to say the least. No one deserves their right to lofe and freedom of choice taken by a stalker.
What about gang stalking, my stalkers act out of hatred and a sense of justifiable revenge. They threaten me, including death threats. Mock and humiliate me. It is someone/people I know but not some ex. Still, obsessive stalking behavior.
It's cyberstalking and it relates to drug use. When it's death threats report them so they are on record for crimes. These types of criminals use tactics,and do not understand how the law works. And are associated with trafficking in most cases. They use spyware at a low decibal rate,and thinking that it's a low decibal that they can get away with it. However there are ways to record them. And there are means it hacking. FBi knows cyber crimes well. These perpetrators have holes in their stories. Write things down in a notebook. And their speech patterns,will actually start to realize where they live,how many hours their awake ,what kind of ring is it, ect. How old are they? They will try to confuse you,but the patterns and routines of their criminal behaviors are there if you document. Do not let these cyber crime gangs let them harrass you ,and commit crimes. As a victim you do have to fight back. They think they can do what ever they want. In my case these criminals think they can commit heinus crimes,while using actual voice dubbs of fbi directors and law enforcement in their crimes.And then state" Come and get us FBI". I've learned in my case that it's older young adults,with what sounds like teenagers. And they mention consistency in petifile mediators one member of the ring consistency,and it's more than" High on cyber"" Hack everything" it's exploitation of minors and sexual miscoduct. Report them,and just in case something happens. Death threats and bodily threat is seruis. If it's death threating something is already bad has happened. The perputrators could result in something worse. The female in my ring went after my ears,and mentioned body parts, studying Fecal matter, and " Baseball bat" " Murder" " Compare myself to Charles Manson" and that's terrifying on purpouse with full intent,and someone who is mentally not meant to be in society. Take care make sure to report them.
Just say no. They are not well, its up to them to understand that and realise what they are doing is wrong and move on
This 🥺🥲
I’m stalker and that make me sad 😔
They don't understand no, I've tried several times, at one point my stalker looked me dead In in my eye and asked me to FAKE like I liked him and we were in a relationship!! Here we are 3 tears later, they still don't get it!
@@iqkira8837 you'll get over it, be strong 💪 but don't bother someone who doesn't want to be bothered, put yourself in their shoes
I have a stalker on Twitter and he is just like this! He calls his ideas "confirmations"
They're even stealing from my mailbox now
Thanks so much! I know someone who has had psychotic delusions & when I mention therapy they’re flatout not interested. What to do when the person is clearly harming their chances of living a normal life?
Protect your EVERYTHING such as:
changing passwords on everything
Change your phone number(s)
Alert close friends and family members of the stalker and ask them to never engage with the creep
Save ALL documentation of contact from the lunatic keeping a digital paper trail
Never engage the lunatic
Keep your eyes and ears open paying attention to your environment
Try and NOT be afraid of the creep because there are really BAD alternatives and measures that you can take, but those things could cause YOU more harm than you expect
Keep going on with your life
Seek guidance from Támara or someone with her knowledge, skill set and board certified
Try and seek inner peace and happiness regardless to all of the horror and...
Live well
Dealing with psychotic stalkers sucks I've been dealing with them for about 3 years easily
This is the sad part, I'm dealing with a psyco stalker. I said to him hundred of times leave me of alone, I don't want nothing from you. And told me that that's not true. He even told me I'm the pshyco even though it's him who's engaging in an unwanted conversation with an account I couldn't block yet. It's a really sick situation.
Get a restraining order and cameras and anything else !
When dealing with a psychotic stalker, any tips for the victim to avoid or treat c-PTSD?
I keep waiting for it to be over so that someday maybe I can have some sort of semblance of being able to heal and move on but they persist it's like they won't be happy until I'm dead
Stop yourself and focus control cpstd if you can. Focus on gaining self control. It's really sad ,sickly,that these types of stalkers target medical conditions,disabilities,and ethnicities.
Focus ,ground yourself, and know that you can call a holiness, or report them.
Omg the compulsion is so accurate they have to play out that obsession
Thank you for the knowledge and insight. We need to talk about healthy boundaries and healthy relationships after being stalked. It changes you completely when you have been stalked, hunted or the sort. I have so much more empathy for celebrities and the lives that they lead. It can't be easy nor fun to have your whole life under a camera.
Absolutely! You're welcome and thank you for watching.
You are right. It isn't easy to be in the open spotlight. You never know who may push things way to far.
Yes it's inhumane like when people put an animal in a cage and keep them there
Sorry I don’t care about celebrities who have money and resources . My stalker has isolated me and messed up my job and stopped my family helping me financially . I’m stuck . But my guests will never be down again
This helped me because I experienced this from someone at work recently. At first he seemed desperate for friends but then behavior started getting really strange for lack of a better word.
I'm glad this was helpful. This is a tough experience indeed. I have both personal and professional experience with this and it isn't easy to manage.
Obsession Then Comes Over Reactions Then Comes Problems Then Fingers Pointing For Who Going To Be Accountable Stalkers Never Think They Wrong
I watched one of your videos and subscribed immediately you are very articulate and of course beautiful. do you have any video where are you talk about personalities that are attracted to or draw from stalkers for some women that’s all they attract for some reason.
Thank you ☺and welcome to the channel!!
I don't know if I have a specific video like this but here are a few that may answer that question:
intimacy stalkers ruclips.net/video/zOoizPogTOs/видео.html
trauma stalkers ruclips.net/video/e7zoZYiqW70/видео.html
There' a ton of other videos on my channel around this topic. I will consider doing a specific video on this in the future!
this describes me perfectly :( i know i need help because everyday is a battle and i dont even feel like living anymore
I would suggest reaching out for help. Any stalking or obsessive behaviors could lead to legal challenges as well as long-term charges. I suggest reaching out for help and possibly getting a really good psychotherapist who understands these topics.
I hope you have gotten help,before something bad happens.
Have you ever heard of stalkers with psychotic symptoms? Have you experienced such a person?
I thought people were to lazy to stalk nowadays. lol. I'm not making light of it, but I'm being serious. Is this still a problem today? I haven't heard of anyone stalking as of lately. I could be wrong though.
Unfortunately, they are not. On a very serious note, stalkers stalk no matter what and despite the modernity of times. Cyber stalking seems to be the most common in today's world including "social media stalking," "catfishing," etc.
@@TherapistTamaraHill I'm unfamiliar with these. I mean I've heard of them, but I have to do more research. Thank you for the information!
Absolutely. Not many people have! I might talk about these topics in the future.
I am such a person. I believe what drove me to stalking was automatic thoughts i had as reactions, as well as forming false narratives of jealousy inside my head. I broke into the fb account of her, by sim swapping her phone and routing her reset text to my phone after i used a data scraper to mine her email in a fb group. I searched and read all of her messages. What drove me to do this was a desire of control. I also used my abilities to launch attacks on any males i percieved to be a threat. She was very understanding and its crazy she had the patience to deal with what i did, she even stayed patient and eventually worked with me and was there for me everyday and showed me how i was obsessed and how my mental worked and i eventually stopped doing it and made it up to her over the years... The guilt hurts to this day.
Thank you for all your insight. It’s seriously helpful & not spoken about enough.
You are so welcome! And thank you!
Most stalkers are not psychotic at all, and whilst they may have some cognitive-dissonance about how their behavior is inappropriate, they are well aware of their actions, and the resultant problems with the law and the distress they can cause, resulting in shame, self-hatred and suicidal ideation, but the cycle repeats itself, such is the cycle of psychological distress their minds have which can be hidden within for years until this feeling of rejection and loss occurs. Most have had some form of relationship with the object of their stalking which includes at least one intimate episode.
Some have obsessed about you for decades without your awareness. And when made aware and you are not interested, the stalking that you know of begins, despite you ignoring every attempt to contact you
They need to form attachments to you to feed their obsession. Be it themselves or through others. They need the feed to feel power. Its a game. No one that has any self respect for themselves behaves this way. And if you behave this way you dont love yourself. So no, this is not love. It is a delusion. And they become more persistent and aggressive from rejection. This behaviour is not "good"☠️🎯
Thank you so much for making these videos.
My pleasure! You're welcome. Thanks for watching!!
I believe theyre mostly are self- aware. Yes.
The stalking I'm experiencing has to do with the Land, Indigenous Whenua, by a generation of sexually abused who use genealogy as a tool to hide their fear of facing the reality of how to actually deal with the problems so many people suffer from, Administration even at urban levels does more harm than help from what I've learned about myself and the experiences I have finally been able to work & sort out over the decades ❤️💛💚☯️☮️
Yep this is happening to me currently. I have told him to leave me alone or else it will not just be an issue between him and I. I hope he can move on before the legal stuff or hospitalization stuff happens.
I'm sorry. This is tough.
This is so helpful, this is just like my stalker.
I know they don’t think they are ever wrong because they’ve been doing it to me since 2018, it’s only gotten worse and only stop when I do something to make them panic for themselves! In Watertown, NY… this is a huge problem!!! They have made several women either kill themselves or just murdered them and blamed their significant other but it’s been them… These weirdos get off on hurting others… They work among the professionals in this city… scary right? It’s real.
You would think that they would stop, but they are not well.
What's bad is you start stalking them to make sure you are safe especially if they copy your posts....it's all really weird.
Thanks!
You're welcome! Thank you for the superchat!
Aren't all stalkers have cluster b personality
My stalker has it in his head. Just because we are both single we are made for each other....
This reminds me of a gay guy I know he wanted to date me so badly he convinced himself I was gay and just didn't know it yet was disturbing
Oh no. That's tough to say the lest. Something was clearly wrong here.
What about the damage they cause the community?
My 2 stalkers have caused havoc. They have been working together for years.
I want peace and I want them out of my life. What makes it worse they are getting help from the authorities and the community to stalk
They do cause a lot of drama and damage to the surrounding community. That's why stalkers need serious consequences. This is not a joke and unfortunately the world doesn't quite see if that way.
My stalker is an outcast . He thinks by making me one we can be together . He’s an outcast by nature I’m an outcast Becaue he lies manipulated and stalked so we aren’t the same . He wanted break me down and make me so desperate and confused but I understood everything and that’s what Mia my power
Excellent video! Can some of these symptoms overlap? For instance, can a narcissist and a person who has psychosis both have grandiosity? Also, can a person be a narcissist and a sociopath/psychopath? Can a person be a malignant or toxic narcissist and sociopath/psychopath? Can a person be a narcissist and have psychosis behavior?
I'd say yes! To all of those questions! Why? Because I've had to deal with it "all" from just one guy! I just want this nightmare to be over but, he's never going to stop.
Thats a good question.
This is what happened to me from powerful gang stalking
I'm sorry. This is terrible.
Its worse than terrible. I am an addiction to them. They will burn the city down to get hold of me. I tried my upmost to put a stop to it over 10years ago
Also beware of stalkers loop. My stalker used a commodity and set me up. Then forced a debt on someone and its out of control. Her idea was to buy me to pay off the debt she created. Hence she is getting help to stalk me from the police and everyone
I've been being stalked for two years. He's been charged and pled guilty to 2 aggravated stalking counts. for both, he's got ten months. He will be out. He will be back. I am terrified of him..
They also, will turn the table's
i have a stalker, does a stalker ever stop?
How long do a stalker normally stalk? Do they ever move on?
It varies! Most don't stop and must be jailed but that's only for a short time. Some stalk and get tired and go away. So it really depends on how unstable the individual is and how needy they are to be accepted by the stalked.
@@TherapistTamaraHill Doesn't this mean that society fails to meet the healthcare needs of large groups of people who feel like outcasts and are desperately looking for a sense of connection?
Rejecting them is not going to make them board a rocket for Pluto and leave planet Earth.
There is still a huge gap between the knowledge about brain-based conditions including natural neurodiversity and the knowledge related to the rest of the body and many healthcare professionals propagate stigmas, which is not helpful either.
Was stalked by a former patient. He made threats including that he would kill me and came near my residence. I had 7 incidents of flat tires all nails except the last was a razor in the 18 months before the threats. At the times, I thought the flat tires were coincidences altho once I wondered if someone had placed them. Now I am wondering about whether the stalker did these in the parking lot after leaving appointments. I had presumed that he was an antisocial autistic man but looking back on it, seems like psychopathic traits as well. The restraining order is about to expire and I don’t know what will happen. I had to spend considerable money on self-defense equipment and legal. In a way I do feel sorry for him and his parents that are scared of him as well. Does anyone know whether car tires are a target of stalkers? Is this a bad predictive sign? Are restraining orders usually sufficient?
Oh my. This is tough to say the least. I've been there and it's such a delicate situation because the person is a patient. They have rights and laws that protect them --- and, if the patient is a psychiatric patient, things get more complicated. Do you hospitalize? Do you admit against their will? Do you contact their family against all confidentiality laws? It gets so much worse. I'm so sorry you have to go through this. The only way to protect yourself is to stay out of the social media sphere, keep a low profile, avoid places that are heavy traffic locations if you can, and don't answer or respond to odd or anonymous calls.
To your question, I think restraining orders are just there to put things into writing. It can go in their medical chart if you have access to that. I wish you the best.
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How many of these people kill you if you don't go along with what they want
That's a good question. So let me break this up a bit.
Some research suggests that those with psychotic disorders, like schiozophrenia, are less likely to act out violently than someone who doesn't have this kind of disorder.
However, some research also suggests that if the individual is psychotic and is having an active episode of hearing voices, seeing things, believing things that are not true, and is in an agitated state, it is likely that they could act out.
The individual who began to stalk me not only had schizophrenia and was in an active state of psychosis, but also acted out against the police violently including their spouse. They threatned me for providing treatment to the children and the children reporting child abuse to me over the course of multiple sessions. The hospital (after I admitted them against their will) and a trip to jail were the only things that stopped this madness.
I have a stalker that obsessed over a high school photo. Includes putting it in my photo album! After Ive ripped them up. They also call my job so I can be fired and talk about my past exes!
I can only imagine how frustrating this may be. I would certainly block any and all avenues this person may have to you -- including online.
Ma'am where do I start?
I need help.
Do all stalkers have some sort of mental illness to begin with & why do most stalkers end up hurting or killing the one they are stalking? What happens is the stalker finally gets whatever he wants from the person theyre stalking?
I'm not interested stalker you need to move on.
I am being stalked by my neighbor!! I never did one thing to her.. all I would do was say hi.. and be a friendly neighbor and mind my business.. I started noticing that she was stalking me.. coming to my job.. blocking me.. parking her car right behind mines.. I moved.. and she still stalking me.. she has ppl following me.. I think she put a tracker on my car.. every where I would go she would pop up or will be arriving home the same time as me.. I recently found out she has a mental illness.. she is bipolar and paranoid 🤯 I don’t know how she is tracking my every move.. please I need help!! Can someone please give some information on what to do.. 😢
This ring I never met them at all ect. I was targeted by a predator,who has friends. These perpetrators in my case decided to hack security systems to spotlight and out everything,and have gone to different geographic locations. They planned to hack speakers," Camera hacking" businesses. And purpously put spyware stragically,and purchased multipule evidence. Along with using wifi,batteries,when my neighbors cars turn on. It's fabbing and hi tech survielance. That's highly illegal for awhile now. Time is catching up with some of them,and it's so many crimes at this point. Some are so high in this ring they are in pschosis. Document everything.
Would that be a stalker who thinks like they're doing the right thing like they're stalking someone for a reason or something
Stay away from me stalker
Hi Tamara, I spoked to you a while ago, I asked for your email address, to discuss my situation, as a victim of gang stalking online, stalked physically, by a Narcissist. Could I have your email details again please?
Thanks
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