Haven't watched it yet but I also just started a garden and my own compost pile, what is Linz opinion on using urine for fertilizer? Seems intriguing to me but it's too weird to actually try for me.
I dont ever remember enjoying a podcast this much! I loved the energy in this video and how fun it was. I admire the relationship and understanding you two have with each other and knowing that its something ill have with my partner too feeks very exciting!
OH wow I had no idea she used to vlog, how interesting. Makes sense though, your right she is effortlessly pretty cool and so natural in front if the camera.
I think my only irritation (and a lot of content creators do this) is that she was going into a new phase of her life that everyone knows requires more dedication and attention, but she thought she could keep both going, or maybe she/they know it will affect it, they just think its better to not say anything to their audience because the audience wont like it. But it always bugs me when people claim or think that making a big change like that that theyve never done before isnt going to affect their ability to create or make RUclips videos. It kinda feels insulting in some ways or overconfident, because it's a change that a ton of people struggle with. And as much as I want to be included in that part of their life, I dont feel owed it. I just feel frustrated that people are making decisions based on the assumption they can balance both, when theres evidence that for most people they cant. And that can be a good thing, it can mean they are challenged, are going to experience a lot of growth from it, and for college or something similar that's the point. I miss it, but I'm still salty that I can point to specific instances "that's not something you can balance" and its been waved off, and then it turned out to be true. But better that than try to balance tasks you realize you cant hold up.
Melissa Roszkowski I love watching her stories because it’s a more real time version of the vlogs. Hopefully it continues to be a good experience for her and she keeps them up :)
@@TheXxzdarkstarzxx she said that when she was started the family vlogs, she'd already gone throuhh the newborn stage with trey. after having carter and trying to raise him as a newborn in vlogs she couldn't handle all the backseat parenting saying she was doing everything "wrong". she left for her mental health
Yes! I agree! When I am stressed and very in my own head, I am not interested. Doesn't mean I don't think my husband is sexy as hell, I'm just not in the mood.
Im like-.- with my woman because of this... Could be i thought my assets would increase it more but i do believe her that her bit down there just doesnt like to work lol... But i do doubt myself maybe im just not funny enough, only because the rest i know ive got and it does sorta bite at me time here time there... if you get what i mean. And i guess overtime i feel its turning me.. into the average male mentality.
the first thing Phil says to his wife after sexy times. "You've just been filled in. As always, I'm Phillip Defranco. I love your face. I hope to see you tomorrow!"
One of the points that really helped me with my body dysmorphia: No matter what weight/size your are, you are someone else's goal weight In moments where I felt too disgusting to wear something or do something, that would really help knowing I wouldn't see someone larger than me in that light
But not everyone wants to lose weight? Something that's helped me with it is surrounding myself with happy fat folks enjoying their bodies without the motivation of weight loss via social media. But to each their own!
@@katieanderson4364 we all know this, this is advice for people with similar experiences of body dysmorphia to me, not for everyone, especially people who are already happy in their shape.
Doing things together like gardening also helps the relationship because it can provide an avenue for Linz's love language. You have the opportunity to give her words of affirmation be seeing her doing something that she has learned a lot about. You have the opportunity to provide acts of service through the shared activity of gardening. Y'all are great. Loved this video. It felt like a honest conversation from two people in a relationship.
@@shoogur3920 pretty sure they were just talking about the one example and that one example is about the woman if it was talking about his hobbies it would be about him
Ive never had or wanted a romantic relationship (I'm aromantic and Asexual) so im looking at this conversation very much outside the rosy glasses of love and a partner, as i see my friends struggle with due to expectations within what a relationship is, and it was SO refreshing to see two people talk to each other as two separate people, not as an entity where you cant question the other person without questioning the relationship or the validity or like.. 'if you ask me this you cant really love me or you think we dont work deep down' Thank you for being vulnerable and putting it out there~
For me this is what a relationship ship is, friends who openly care about each other and are vulnerable around each other, your friends sound like teenagers
@@PropheticShadeZ thing is, if all through your teens thats how your relationships have been, *when* are you taught that its supposed to be like this? There is no switch inside ppl that goes 'okay x years old now im an adult all my baggage is dealt with and im 100% handling things at the best of my abilities'..no. i told a friend about this podcast and through talking she told me about a friend of hers shes known since they were teens and is now 40, shes never been single in thst time, and she just divorced her second husband and its not been two weeks and shes got a new-old boyfriend that was just meant to be.. and i just wondered, does she even know herself if shes never been single for almost 30 years? Just bouncing around relationships.. Also dont hate on teenagers, for them it *IS* the worst/best/most x y z thing thats happened to them, everything is fresh and raw and full of hormones and new feelings and i hate how mean we are to them, this schrödingers teenager: based on how the adult interacting with them is feeling the teenager is either 'practically an adult' or 'still just a child' ..
@@galli0 The idea that someone needs to be single for some prolonged period of time to "know themselves" is silly. Self-awareness is not a function of relationship status, it's a function of emotional maturity. More often than not, it's the important people in our lives who facilitate emotional growth, both directly and indirectly. The reason some serial monogamist have issues and/or seem to lack self-awareness is not because they've been in relationships but because the partners they've chosen have inhibited or even been detrimental to their growth. Linz is a case in point: she's been with Phil since she was 17, and they've both grown a ton, together and as individuals.
As people are forming serious relationships in early adulthood they often don’t have fully formed self-identities. They see their romantic partner as part of their own identity rather than outside of it.
@@galli0 You asked " if all through your teens thats how your relationships have been, when are you taught that its supposed to be like this? " Ideally, you are supposed to learn this from your parents at a young age. Whether your want it or not, your parents are the first example of a relationship is. If they have a dysfunctional or broken relationship, it can be hard to see any relationship in a healthy way when you grow up...
I genuinely enjoy watching two adults navigate a relationship as healthy and as human as you two do. Thank you for sharing that. It really is something to aspire to.
Get a timer for the garden hose so you don't overfill the pool. Works well for gardening too. Just get the cheap one that you just twist like old timers used to be before digtal.
Because it is a good name and can be sold for a lot of money if someone really needs it. Good investment. Same as linkshole. Everything that can be used for a porn site is expensive.
my husband and I have been together 12 years. love binging tv shows, he only watches hip hop podcasts and movies and completely refuses to watch any shows with me. But from day one of our relationship we found what we both love to do..... shopping! He loves shopping, for clothes, at the mall, thrift stores, yard sales, we went shopping for our second date in 2008 and never looked back lol 😆 we get so excited when we find a really good deal! Lol it’s sweet and doesn’t get old.
I love how Lindsay answers for Phil and exclaims that she's amazing, and almost in the same breath explains her struggle with mental health. Her sense of humour is so entertaining but her honesty is refreshing. I 100% see how you two are a team. I also love how you both WANT to spend time together. It's adorable.
Your wife is amazing. Her story of how she feels and deals with things is so similar to my own feelings. It was great and refreshing to have a perspective I could really relate to.
"You throw yourself 100% into temporary endeavours in the hopes that it will have a long term benefit" and that's on ADHD combined with perfectionism and anxiety and feeling like you always have to be achieving. Maybe I'm projecting. Love ya Linz
Linz is such a treat. It’s just pure magic between her and Phil. She’s just 1000% herself and I love it so much I love following her. And it’s always great to see how Phil tends to open up more with her in the room. I love it all🥰.
I'm sure that she is crazy busy with mom life, but you should do these chats more often. It's awesome to see how open and honest you are with eachother and as someone who has been watching your videos for 10+ years its awesome to see how your relationship has grown.
Ended up pausing the video at each question and going through them with my husband as well while we watched. Brought up some interesting stuff and we really enjoyed it! Great episode, would LOVE to see more of this, you and Linz.
“The fact that I thought about ‘who would struggle more in a divorce’ yesterday has no relevance to the fact that I’m not wearing my ring. Phil won’t let me divorce him because I will take all his money.”
Lindsey! I missed you so much! I relate to gardening helping my depression! When I got sober, I needed an outlet to help with depression, and I couldn't help but smile for you! Welcome aboard! I get the same joy when my partner comes outside and trims with me. I've been a fan for 11 years, and you two have become my role models! Love you both, stay strong!
I just love Lindsay. I used to watch her ages ago and I don’t know why I stopped (probably because I had a baby!) She’s just so down to earth and up front - relatable in such an effortless way, you can tell she’s not trying, she’s speaking the honest truth and I think a lot of mothers can relate to what she’s saying. She just says it how it is. Loved this!
Gonna be honest. This podcast really helped me get through my anxiety attack today. Thank you Linz and Phil for this. Hoping you guys can do this more often.
I'm so with Lindsey on the movie thing. It's hard for me to feel engaged enough in a movie in order to actually enjoy it and finish it. Maybe I just dont pick good movies but yeah I'd much rather watch a series
Thank you guys. I appreciate what you do Phil and what you bring to the audience. I am grateful for how honest and smart you are Linz. Love hearing your perspective. That’s all. I’m just grateful.
1:00:00 my heart ache knowing that Phil feels held back by his weight 💔 I’m recovering from bulimia (gained 40 lbs in the process) so I know what it’s like to not feel like a professional because you don’t think that you look like a professional 💔 It’s hard to truly believe that it doesn’t matter.
@@attesmatte most don't, but that's always an insecurity he's carried. Like he's big, but his weight is so evenly distributed, you can't tell. You can just see that he's big, but you never think, omg he's fat.
There's a show on snapchat called phone swap where strangers on blind dates can just look through each other's phones. ANYTHING is free game to look through. It kind of reminded me of what Linz was talking about with the tiktok dating show
OMG I feel Linz with the gardening point! I started to make sourdough bread, I made my starter from scratch and I make bread almost everyday and it has helped with my depression and dealing with everything else going on right now soooo much! Everybody should start a hobby where they need to be very hands on!
That’s the best thing about being married, always knowing your spouse has your back and you having theirs. Good, bad, ugly. Really love hearing both of you guys talk and would love if Linz could be on a podcast even if it’s once every other month or so. 💚
Was I in the middle of something? Yes. Yes I was. Did I stop what I was doing in order to watch this? Yes. Yes I did. Do I pick this over what I was doing? Yes. Yes I do. ❤️❤️❤️
I love Linz! She's such a cool mama! Miss her vlogs but I understand why she stopped doing them. I think she could make a online talk show similar to the Red table talk of Jada. She needs a platform! 👑
You guys are utterly beautiful together, it sounds weird but I’ve been following the vlogs/shows/podcast for years... maybe more then a decade. Seeing you guys put in the work and make things work has been so amazing, especially for those of us who didn’t grow up with a strong relationship role model. Keep up the good work, you’re both doing so well.
Thank you so much for acknowledging how hard it is for us moms working from home right now. I'm a single mom, working full time from home, had to homeschool...it has been a nightmare! You guys are awesome. This was lovely to watch.
Loved seeing Lindsay on the podcast! Used to watch all of the Defranco's family vlogs and the work vlogs as well, so this was a nice conversation to listen to. Also wanted to say that I really appreciated Lindsay talking about her breakdown recently. Been feeling really off during these troubling times, and knowing that another person feels so strongly empathetic that it caused them some stress made me feel better about my own anxiety. It made me realize that my own anxiety and empathetic stress is a more legit thing that I was trying to repress. Thank you guys!
I want to say thank you so much to your wife for her analogy of the spoons. I have spent my life with chronic pain and illness and it is so hard to explain to friends and family how that feels, and that analogy was incredibly helpful because it really felt like someone understands.
If I could, I’d just like to say - how infinitely wonderful it is to watch and listen to you both interacting with each other. Much love, and much respect to you both.
I respect and appreciate both of you SO much. I find this entire conversation so important and necessary! The vulnerability, the realness, it’s all so comforting and amazing. You guys are truly great and I’m so thankful for both of you!
Oh my good lord thank you so much Lindsay for the candle trick I have never been able to get my niece to take a breath when she’s crying and it really has helped so much her being able to calm herself down from some apocalyptic tantrums
I really enjoyed this one Phil. I find it not only extremely entertaining, but also informative and educational to listen to you and Lindsay’s conversations. You both obviously are actively working on your relationship (the only way to sustain a long term relationship), and you provide a wonderful example of cooperation and compromise. On top of that you both very clearly love and enjoy each other’s company and that’s just fun to experience period. Here to me hoping for me podcasts with her!🤞🏽🤞🏽😁
I fucking love watching you and Linz just talk. I love hearing the two of you talk about your journey to becoming happier, healthier people, and doing it as a team.
The conversation around 14:00 is so relatable. I think a healthy relationship has that ebb and flow. One person takes a turn being the supportive one and then it switches later on. This can also be unhealthy if we're too dependent on each other. But I totally understand what they're saying.
Love love love that they are opening about smoking weed. People are so judgmental about parents smoking but yet nothing is said when parents crack open a beer or pour a glass of wine when their kids go to bed. I'm so glad when people are open about it because it needs to be normalized!
The key being "when they go to bed". If you're like stoned out of your mind or you're smoking around your kids then that's more unhealthy than like cracking a beer.
Smoking is always bad for your lungs, it doesn’t matter if it’s weed or tobacco. Alcohol is also bad, but if you drink a small amount is quite safe for you body, because your liver manages to break it down. There is no amount if smoking that doesn’t damage your lungs. So, no, smoking anything should not be normalized, because it’s bad for your health.
I just want to say I cried through most of this. You guys are relationship goals for sure. I have been watching y'all for so long now. Just a breath of fresh air. Obviously not perfect but learning, growing, and continuing to have each other's back is the key. Much love guys -Brit
I've never had a truly healthy relationship in my life. This whole thing was like an epiphany for me, I know there some editing (or I assume) and some "in font of the camera" persona, but holy fuck the love and respect comes through all that. So, thanks, for showing me what's possible.
Man, I wish I were stuck in a house with my partner during this pandemic. Stress and anxiety increase my libido because my body's just like "Do the thing that makes us feel good!!!" all day every day. I finally got to see him a few days ago and just the stress of not getting any made us both just cry and cuddle and then fall asleep hahaha
Please please please do more of these, it would be cool if you did an episode with your wife on a quarterly basis. It’s great getting to know you better and I think your wife is my spirit animal. You guys are awesome.
It’s been so fun watching you (and Linz!) from the beginning. Seeing your guys’ relationship flourish over the years, despite the stumbling blocks we all face from time to time, has been so wonderful. Thanks for sharing your luges with us!
You have to love how comfortable the conversation is, shows that serious communication they have had as a couple. I feel that they fit well together because of their insecurities are different but they both have empathy and compassion and wanting to grow as people. No couple is perfect but the ones who last have that ease of honesty, to be able to support each other but point out our flaws. Sure am not the only fan who would love to spend a saturday with the family and enjoy the insane love they share.
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This was a fun one. Can't wait to see the comments... heh.
Haven't watched it yet but I also just started a garden and my own compost pile, what is Linz opinion on using urine for fertilizer? Seems intriguing to me but it's too weird to actually try for me.
what car did you get Phil
New shirt: "All Aboard Mother F*cker!"
I dont ever remember enjoying a podcast this much! I loved the energy in this video and how fun it was. I admire the relationship and understanding you two have with each other and knowing that its something ill have with my partner too feeks very exciting!
Also, my ranking, favorite guests. Number ONE: Linz. Number TWO: Rhett and Link. Number THREE: Cristine and Ben.
"here's the unfortunate thing about my memory - I don't remember."
-my life
Sarah Koerner i need this as a shirt
17:58
@@p1votalm0ments i second that
I so relate. And would also 100% buy merch based off this quote.
Phil - "I see 21-24 your olds as babies"
Me, 24 and drinking a caprisun - "that's not fair, I'm an adult"
Annnnnnd it's not showing up on the channel page. AGH! Well, hope you and enjoy and share with your friends if you can.
Can't find the song on your tik tok that Lindsey doesn't like.
Agreed. I wanted to see if I have the same feeling about it.
@@britlilbit the song is called haha.
It’s because you said the s word in the title!!
Joe exotic stan account, I listened to it. It’s creepy lol
Can Lindsey be a guest every few months? Other than your son she is is one of my favorites.
Bianca H I’ve seen this three times now. Completely agree. Great chemistry for the podcast!
this just reminds me why i liked her vlogs so much when i was a teenager with no kids lol, Linz is just effortlessly cool
I miss her vlogs too! But I can see how much she needed to leave it, and I'd rather they be happy.
OH wow I had no idea she used to vlog, how interesting. Makes sense though, your right she is effortlessly pretty cool and so natural in front if the camera.
I miss her vlogs too! But she’s really active on Instagram stories :)
agreed!!
I think my only irritation (and a lot of content creators do this) is that she was going into a new phase of her life that everyone knows requires more dedication and attention, but she thought she could keep both going, or maybe she/they know it will affect it, they just think its better to not say anything to their audience because the audience wont like it.
But it always bugs me when people claim or think that making a big change like that that theyve never done before isnt going to affect their ability to create or make RUclips videos. It kinda feels insulting in some ways or overconfident, because it's a change that a ton of people struggle with. And as much as I want to be included in that part of their life, I dont feel owed it. I just feel frustrated that people are making decisions based on the assumption they can balance both, when theres evidence that for most people they cant. And that can be a good thing, it can mean they are challenged, are going to experience a lot of growth from it, and for college or something similar that's the point. I miss it, but I'm still salty that I can point to specific instances "that's not something you can balance" and its been waved off, and then it turned out to be true.
But better that than try to balance tasks you realize you cant hold up.
I really miss seeing Lindsay on RUclips. I get it, but I miss how much the family vlogs helped while I was pregnant
Melissa Roszkowski I love watching her stories because it’s a more real time version of the vlogs. Hopefully it continues to be a good experience for her and she keeps them up :)
Why did she stop
@@TheXxzdarkstarzxx she said that when she was started the family vlogs, she'd already gone throuhh the newborn stage with trey. after having carter and trying to raise him as a newborn in vlogs she couldn't handle all the backseat parenting saying she was doing everything "wrong". she left for her mental health
@@kaciwells5868 unfortunatly thats why we cant have nice things.
She does a lot of similar stuff on her instagram stories now!
I am OBSESSED with Linz's curliness. I have been watching her IG journey with her hair, but in action its so CUTE!!
100% agree! Watching her embrace her natural curl inspired me to do the same
Her hair color looks amazing also.
She inspired me to do the same over quarantine
I also stopped straightening my hair during quarantine and my hair look less dead lol
Ngl I was like “where’s your mf freckles!?” ‘cause she did such a good job w/ her hair.
I never understood why some people give Linz so much hate. She is literally the kindest, sweetest, most loyal, honest, real person....EVER. 💙
I friggin love that Phil still flirts with his wife as if they are in their first month of dating.🤗🤗🤗
This is how all marriages should be 💕
It’s really hot to see
Linz: "All women have different sex drives and it has nothing to do with the man"
Me: "YEEESSSSS GIRLFRIEND!!! PEACH!
princess peach, or the fruit peach?
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Yes! I agree! When I am stressed and very in my own head, I am not interested. Doesn't mean I don't think my husband is sexy as hell, I'm just not in the mood.
You want her to turn into a fruit?
Im like-.- with my woman because of this... Could be i thought my assets would increase it more but i do believe her that her bit down there just doesnt like to work lol... But i do doubt myself maybe im just not funny enough, only because the rest i know ive got and it does sorta bite at me time here time there... if you get what i mean. And i guess overtime i feel its turning me.. into the average male mentality.
Even talking to his wife. Phil is still “podcast phill”
Or maybe that's just how he is
Even in his podcast Phil is still her husband Phil! 😂
Pretty sure this is just his personality 🤦🏻♀️
Sounds like a teenage girl
@@TKUA11 what
Lindsay trying to convince us that she is still fun, is the most mom thing ever.. 😂😂😂 💕 I do the same thing.
the first thing Phil says to his wife after sexy times.
"You've just been filled in. As always, I'm Phillip Defranco. I love your face. I hope to see you tomorrow!"
should be "You've just been filled up"
ADAMA 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. I don’t know why this is so funny to me but I can’t stop laughing 😂😂😂😂😂😂👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
You just been Phil’d in
Lol is this so cute😂🥰
One of the points that really helped me with my body dysmorphia:
No matter what weight/size your are, you are someone else's goal weight
In moments where I felt too disgusting to wear something or do something, that would really help knowing I wouldn't see someone larger than me in that light
I didn't know I needed this but idid
OMG WHAT. My mind just literally exploded with this.
But not everyone wants to lose weight? Something that's helped me with it is surrounding myself with happy fat folks enjoying their bodies without the motivation of weight loss via social media.
But to each their own!
@@katieanderson4364 we all know this, this is advice for people with similar experiences of body dysmorphia to me, not for everyone, especially people who are already happy in their shape.
Doing things together like gardening also helps the relationship because it can provide an avenue for Linz's love language. You have the opportunity to give her words of affirmation be seeing her doing something that she has learned a lot about. You have the opportunity to provide acts of service through the shared activity of gardening.
Y'all are great. Loved this video. It felt like a honest conversation from two people in a relationship.
Well said! I really got a lot out of this comment!
Sounds like your definition of love is just appreciating the woman. Period.
Iqra Chattha well cherishing the one you love is sometimes just appreciating the things they do.
@@shoogur3920 pretty sure they were just talking about the one example and that one example is about the woman if it was talking about his hobbies it would be about him
Ive never had or wanted a romantic relationship (I'm aromantic and Asexual) so im looking at this conversation very much outside the rosy glasses of love and a partner, as i see my friends struggle with due to expectations within what a relationship is, and it was SO refreshing to see two people talk to each other as two separate people, not as an entity where you cant question the other person without questioning the relationship or the validity or like.. 'if you ask me this you cant really love me or you think we dont work deep down'
Thank you for being vulnerable and putting it out there~
For me this is what a relationship ship is, friends who openly care about each other and are vulnerable around each other, your friends sound like teenagers
@@PropheticShadeZ thing is, if all through your teens thats how your relationships have been, *when* are you taught that its supposed to be like this?
There is no switch inside ppl that goes 'okay x years old now im an adult all my baggage is dealt with and im 100% handling things at the best of my abilities'..no.
i told a friend about this podcast and through talking she told me about a friend of hers shes known since they were teens and is now 40, shes never been single in thst time, and she just divorced her second husband and its not been two weeks and shes got a new-old boyfriend that was just meant to be.. and i just wondered, does she even know herself if shes never been single for almost 30 years? Just bouncing around relationships..
Also dont hate on teenagers, for them it *IS* the worst/best/most x y z thing thats happened to them, everything is fresh and raw and full of hormones and new feelings and i hate how mean we are to them, this schrödingers teenager: based on how the adult interacting with them is feeling the teenager is either 'practically an adult' or 'still just a child' ..
@@galli0 The idea that someone needs to be single for some prolonged period of time to "know themselves" is silly. Self-awareness is not a function of relationship status, it's a function of emotional maturity. More often than not, it's the important people in our lives who facilitate emotional growth, both directly and indirectly. The reason some serial monogamist have issues and/or seem to lack self-awareness is not because they've been in relationships but because the partners they've chosen have inhibited or even been detrimental to their growth. Linz is a case in point: she's been with Phil since she was 17, and they've both grown a ton, together and as individuals.
As people are forming serious relationships in early adulthood they often don’t have fully formed self-identities. They see their romantic partner as part of their own identity rather than outside of it.
@@galli0 You asked " if all through your teens thats how your relationships have been, when are you taught that its supposed to be like this? "
Ideally, you are supposed to learn this from your parents at a young age. Whether your want it or not, your parents are the first example of a relationship is. If they have a dysfunctional or broken relationship, it can be hard to see any relationship in a healthy way when you grow up...
I didn't realize how much I missed Linz doing vlogs until now.
I genuinely enjoy watching two adults navigate a relationship as healthy and as human as you two do. Thank you for sharing that. It really is something to aspire to.
Get a timer for the garden hose so you don't overfill the pool. Works well for gardening too. Just get the cheap one that you just twist like old timers used to be before digtal.
Or use a timer on your phone.
they actually got coronaswinging.com to redirect to the "A Conversation With..." anchor page. Well played.
The new "linkshole.com"
here i was hoping me and my wife could find a good time and bam redirected to the pod cast we already listed to
WoW
That’s amazing😂😂
Because it is a good name and can be sold for a lot of money if someone really needs it. Good investment. Same as linkshole. Everything that can be used for a porn site is expensive.
my husband and I have been together 12 years. love binging tv shows, he only watches hip hop podcasts and movies and completely refuses to watch any shows with me. But from day one of our relationship we found what we both love to do..... shopping! He loves shopping, for clothes, at the mall, thrift stores, yard sales, we went shopping for our second date in 2008 and never looked back lol 😆 we get so excited when we find a really good deal! Lol it’s sweet and doesn’t get old.
I love that you both don't pretend to be the perfect couple. You guys have a genuine relationship and work to keep it. It's so refreshing to see.
Lindz: "Your best flaw is your FACE"
Oof Lol 😂🔥
Omg I just got to that part she is hilarious!
I love how Lindsay answers for Phil and exclaims that she's amazing, and almost in the same breath explains her struggle with mental health. Her sense of humour is so entertaining but her honesty is refreshing. I 100% see how you two are a team.
I also love how you both WANT to spend time together. It's adorable.
I miss her videos so much! I totally understand why she retired her channel but god, I just love her 👏🏻
Your wife is amazing. Her story of how she feels and deals with things is so similar to my own feelings. It was great and refreshing to have a perspective I could really relate to.
Me too!
Metoo!!
Wow. Me too.
I love them... that's it. Just think they are great humans.
"You throw yourself 100% into temporary endeavours in the hopes that it will have a long term benefit" and that's on ADHD combined with perfectionism and anxiety and feeling like you always have to be achieving. Maybe I'm projecting. Love ya Linz
I’m going to need a Humbler in Chief tee shirt
Yep same!
Okay, I'm ten minutes in. The palms aren't that bad. You're good, girl.
Lol if you saw her insta stories they were real bad😂
I saw this comment before the video started and got incredibly confused.
The podcast host is not Phil anymore. His humbler in chief is showing how she runs this sh*t
#LinzDeFrancoshouldhost
I loved "the humbler in chief" title.
@@captain26 im going to start using that now
I love that he lets her be in charge like that’s real love
This is the cutest thing I've ever seen. Phil is such a happy person around Lindsay :)
Linz is such a treat. It’s just pure magic between her and Phil. She’s just 1000% herself and I love it so much I love following her. And it’s always great to see how Phil tends to open up more with her in the room. I love it all🥰.
Linz: I have veto power
... few minutes later ...
Phil: name 5 things you love about me
Linz: that’s a lot, let’s do 3
So funny!
What game are you guys playing? I need this game lol
I'm sure that she is crazy busy with mom life, but you should do these chats more often. It's awesome to see how open and honest you are with eachother and as someone who has been watching your videos for 10+ years its awesome to see how your relationship has grown.
Ended up pausing the video at each question and going through them with my husband as well while we watched. Brought up some interesting stuff and we really enjoyed it! Great episode, would LOVE to see more of this, you and Linz.
Your wife is speaking truth. I resonant so much with her right now.
Linz: "Ideally for me me would be 2-3 times a week..."
Phil: "Why's that?"
Linz: "I think that's enough."
“I wear a fanny pack now”
That’s so my vibe!!!
Love Linz
If it works, why not. I don't judge. : )
"Be the main character in your own life" best life advice
“The fact that I thought about ‘who would struggle more in a divorce’ yesterday has no relevance to the fact that I’m not wearing my ring. Phil won’t let me divorce him because I will take all his money.”
Linz is literally one of the best and most relatable humans
I love Linz and Phils chemistry. You can tell they truly love one another and care about eachothers life journey.
Lindsey! I missed you so much! I relate to gardening helping my depression! When I got sober, I needed an outlet to help with depression, and I couldn't help but smile for you! Welcome aboard! I get the same joy when my partner comes outside and trims with me. I've been a fan for 11 years, and you two have become my role models! Love you both, stay strong!
Relationship goals!! That eb and flow you feel your relationship has is freaking love. Man...y’all are amazing.
okay but a Room Raiders where you just search through someone's social media is a GENIUS idea
Can your wife be on every episode? I want to be couple friends with you guys. lol
I just love Lindsay. I used to watch her ages ago and I don’t know why I stopped (probably because I had a baby!) She’s just so down to earth and up front - relatable in such an effortless way, you can tell she’s not trying, she’s speaking the honest truth and I think a lot of mothers can relate to what she’s saying. She just says it how it is. Loved this!
Gonna be honest. This podcast really helped me get through my anxiety attack today. Thank you Linz and Phil for this. Hoping you guys can do this more often.
I NEED more Linz in my life, she's so kind, honest, real and open about everything. I love her!!!
I'm so with Lindsey on the movie thing. It's hard for me to feel engaged enough in a movie in order to actually enjoy it and finish it. Maybe I just dont pick good movies but yeah I'd much rather watch a series
I’ve never read a comment I related more to 😂
You know recently, I've noticed I have been preferring television over movies but I didn't really know why but the way she described it was perfect!
1:07:25 Picturing Phil stomping around shouting "Its my money I can do what I want!" has me dead
I have witnessed more healthy communication in this podcast than in my entire childhood. Thanks guys!
Thank you guys. I appreciate what you do Phil and what you bring to the audience. I am grateful for how honest and smart you are Linz. Love hearing your perspective. That’s all. I’m just grateful.
"You seemed really excited"
"I probably was"
ded.
You should interview Mamrie Hart next!
Yes!! I would love to learn more about her as a person not just a character yk
1:00:00 my heart ache knowing that Phil feels held back by his weight 💔
I’m recovering from bulimia (gained 40 lbs in the process) so I know what it’s like to not feel like a professional because you don’t think that you look like a professional 💔
It’s hard to truly believe that it doesn’t matter.
That made me so sad... Is he even that big?? 😳 I don't see it when he's behind the mic...
@@attesmatte most don't, but that's always an insecurity he's carried. Like he's big, but his weight is so evenly distributed, you can't tell. You can just see that he's big, but you never think, omg he's fat.
@@Masenken
I'm so sorry he carries that insecurity with him. He seem to be such a kind hearted man! ❤️
I just want to say I miss Lindsey's vlogs. Like their relationship is so meaningful and real. Love her
There's a show on snapchat called phone swap where strangers on blind dates can just look through each other's phones. ANYTHING is free game to look through. It kind of reminded me of what Linz was talking about with the tiktok dating show
I love that show but tbh there is a LOT of dumb people on there😂😂😂
OMG I feel Linz with the gardening point! I started to make sourdough bread, I made my starter from scratch and I make bread almost everyday and it has helped with my depression and dealing with everything else going on right now soooo much! Everybody should start a hobby where they need to be very hands on!
That’s the best thing about being married, always knowing your spouse has your back and you having theirs. Good, bad, ugly. Really love hearing both of you guys talk and would love if Linz could be on a podcast even if it’s once every other month or so. 💚
Was I in the middle of something? Yes. Yes I was. Did I stop what I was doing in order to watch this? Yes. Yes I did. Do I pick this over what I was doing? Yes. Yes I do. ❤️❤️❤️
I love Linz! She's such a cool mama! Miss her vlogs but I understand why she stopped doing them. I think she could make a online talk show similar to the Red table talk of Jada. She needs a platform! 👑
Phil: "Everyone loves Phil"
Everyone: Sorry Phil but we love Lindsay!!! 😍😘
You guys are utterly beautiful together, it sounds weird but I’ve been following the vlogs/shows/podcast for years... maybe more then a decade. Seeing you guys put in the work and make things work has been so amazing, especially for those of us who didn’t grow up with a strong relationship role model. Keep up the good work, you’re both doing so well.
When Trey actually looks like an exact half of Lindsey and an exact half of Phil. 😄
Thank you so much for acknowledging how hard it is for us moms working from home right now. I'm a single mom, working full time from home, had to homeschool...it has been a nightmare! You guys are awesome. This was lovely to watch.
Every night my spouse and I walk thru the garden, and he pulls weeds here and there and it’s so freaking sweet.
Loved seeing Lindsay on the podcast! Used to watch all of the Defranco's family vlogs and the work vlogs as well, so this was a nice conversation to listen to. Also wanted to say that I really appreciated Lindsay talking about her breakdown recently. Been feeling really off during these troubling times, and knowing that another person feels so strongly empathetic that it caused them some stress made me feel better about my own anxiety. It made me realize that my own anxiety and empathetic stress is a more legit thing that I was trying to repress. Thank you guys!
She's obviously the Obi-Wan in the relationship
Hello there
General Kenobi
I love Linz so much and see myself in her. She's always a MOOD. Love you both together!
Trey looks so so much like his mom.
I want to say thank you so much to your wife for her analogy of the spoons. I have spent my life with chronic pain and illness and it is so hard to explain to friends and family how that feels, and that analogy was incredibly helpful because it really felt like someone understands.
I miss defranco fam 😭😭😭😭 I loved seeing Linz all the time. Even though I follow her on insta it’s not enough
Also I am as broken as Linz. I’m part of the 20%
Yesssss so true . She was so amazing . I learnt so much from her.
Samuel Soundararaj right? She’s just amazing. Definitely one of my fav people to come from RUclips
I am also part of the 20%. I am so broken...
What is the 20%?
This is easily the best podcast I've ever watched. Lindsey and Phil together were really fun to watch
I love this but I also feel like I walked in on a couple's therapy session and I shouldn't be here. But hell, yeah I'm gonna listen to the end. Lol
If I could, I’d just like to say - how infinitely wonderful it is to watch and listen to you both interacting with each other. Much love, and much respect to you both.
This was teased way too early. Been waiting for DAYS!
I respect and appreciate both of you SO much. I find this entire conversation so important and necessary! The vulnerability, the realness, it’s all so comforting and amazing. You guys are truly great and I’m so thankful for both of you!
Finally ive been waiting all day
I feel bad for you
Same bro
Oh my good lord thank you so much Lindsay for the candle trick I have never been able to get my niece to take a breath when she’s crying and it really has helped so much her being able to calm herself down from some apocalyptic tantrums
"you have so many things wrong with you"...I have never related to someone so much 😂😂
I really enjoyed this one Phil. I find it not only extremely entertaining, but also informative and educational to listen to you and Lindsay’s conversations. You both obviously are actively working on your relationship (the only way to sustain a long term relationship), and you provide a wonderful example of cooperation and compromise. On top of that you both very clearly love and enjoy each other’s company and that’s just fun to experience period. Here to me hoping for me podcasts with her!🤞🏽🤞🏽😁
being able to help my partner is one of the ways that i get pulled out of my bad times.
I fucking love watching you and Linz just talk. I love hearing the two of you talk about your journey to becoming happier, healthier people, and doing it as a team.
The spoons! Linz, you totally explained how I feel! I've never heard that analogy before. That fits so well.
The conversation around 14:00 is so relatable. I think a healthy relationship has that ebb and flow. One person takes a turn being the supportive one and then it switches later on. This can also be unhealthy if we're too dependent on each other. But I totally understand what they're saying.
Love love love that they are opening about smoking weed. People are so judgmental about parents smoking but yet nothing is said when parents crack open a beer or pour a glass of wine when their kids go to bed. I'm so glad when people are open about it because it needs to be normalized!
Society so weird about that,The former will kill you if over consume but latter as Katy William " Will make you hungry, happy and sleepy "
Society so weird about that,The former will kill you if over consume but latter as Katy William " Will make you hungry, happy and sleepy "
The key being "when they go to bed". If you're like stoned out of your mind or you're smoking around your kids then that's more unhealthy than like cracking a beer.
@HouseMDaddict exactly!! Weed can be toxic too if used excessively
Smoking is always bad for your lungs, it doesn’t matter if it’s weed or tobacco. Alcohol is also bad, but if you drink a small amount is quite safe for you body, because your liver manages to break it down. There is no amount if smoking that doesn’t damage your lungs. So, no, smoking anything should not be normalized, because it’s bad for your health.
Linz is legit one of my favourite people to follow. She really is so well versed and I aspire to have one iota of her grit and honesty!
I just want to say I cried through most of this. You guys are relationship goals for sure. I have been watching y'all for so long now. Just a breath of fresh air. Obviously not perfect but learning, growing, and continuing to have each other's back is the key. Much love guys -Brit
I love the way they openly communicate with each other about the issues in their own relationship
I've never had a truly healthy relationship in my life. This whole thing was like an epiphany for me, I know there some editing (or I assume) and some "in font of the camera" persona, but holy fuck the love and respect comes through all that. So, thanks, for showing me what's possible.
I truly appreciate your ability to communicate with each other. Been a fan since the Atlanta days & watching you two grow is heart warming.
Man, I wish I were stuck in a house with my partner during this pandemic. Stress and anxiety increase my libido because my body's just like "Do the thing that makes us feel good!!!" all day every day. I finally got to see him a few days ago and just the stress of not getting any made us both just cry and cuddle and then fall asleep hahaha
Please please please do more of these, it would be cool if you did an episode with your wife on a quarterly basis. It’s great getting to know you better and I think your wife is my spirit animal. You guys are awesome.
Her shirt is the mission statement for the video....
Her way or The Highway...hahahahaha
It’s been so fun watching you (and Linz!) from the beginning. Seeing your guys’ relationship flourish over the years, despite the stumbling blocks we all face from time to time, has been so wonderful. Thanks for sharing your luges with us!
"I'm still fun" every mom ever.... lol
I felt that in my soul
You have to love how comfortable the conversation is, shows that serious communication they have had as a couple. I feel that they fit well together because of their insecurities are different but they both have empathy and compassion and wanting to grow as people. No couple is perfect but the ones who last have that ease of honesty, to be able to support each other but point out our flaws. Sure am not the only fan who would love to spend a saturday with the family and enjoy the insane love they share.