The best and quickest way to self love is by reading and studying the word of God. Until you know and understand the width the length the depth the height and the magnitude of Love he has for you. It is then, you will never accept anything less from yourself or anyone else. That's when I discovered self Love 😊
Yessssss, you're very right. Find yourself and know your worth simply by knowing who you are in Christ and the Bible is the best and only place to do that.
I remember when I made this decision, too! I noticed that some of my ex's just came from no where! Meaning, a couple of them I hadn't heard from in months. So, I 🙏 and asked God to reveal their motives and ran across Bro. Tony's video on: Why Men Come Back? I was absolutely blowwwn away, but I Worshipped God for revealing The Truth. I thanked ex's for reaching out. I was kind, but I immediately cut the conversations!
This is the season I'm in right now in my life and let me just say it's been extremely difficult! It hurts but I'm fighting my way through one day at a time.
Sometimes women can give away so much of themseves in a relationship and it leads to so much resentment. In general a man will still keep his hobbies, friends and goals in a relationship. I have been guilty of placing a lot of my happiness on how a relationship is going. I now dress well for me, have my own hobbies and keep all the dreams and goals i have for myself no matter the state of my relationships. That way i never feel like i have missed out or put anything on hold. If a relationship ends at least i have achieved all my goals and personal targets i have set for myself that year. Pamper yourself, achieve your dreams no matter how small.
I have been happily single for over 2 years because I have standards that I feel that are fair because I continually work on myself to be the best version of me and I would like someone with those same values. I am 50 and I do eat right, exercise, I am spiritual, God fearing, and I dont drink, smoke or do drugs because I love myself too much so I will not settle for less
What encouraging words- I am 48 just starting my single life and am learning about myself - it's nice to know there are other women out there that are my age and happily single
@@bestmekimb And there are all types of women out there. I have been single since I was 31 and spent most of the rest of the years not in a relationship. And I mean most of those years. Today I'm sixty and how do I feel ? I love the person that I see. I lived my life being independent and my heart is just overflowing with Thanksgiving unto the Lord for the journey. There all kinds out there.
This is so factual.. i started my self healing and loving me more and no longer people pleasing and setting more standards and boundaries . It does cause people to question if something's wrong with me now but it doesn't bother me because for years i allow people to use me and i jump and did alot for friends and family , i look back and decided i want better for myself and i,m healing and feeling better about myself and not going to lower my standards again..
I so needed to hear this. Right now I Have this guy I’ve been dating over a month he isn’t consistent with my my standards that’s required so therefore I need to let him go... Thanks for all you do your videos Has help me with dating life/situation ships ❤️
Thank you, Mr. Tony Gaskins for your encouraging motivation words. I believe GOD sent you to encourage people who will take your advice. I know your family want you to take a break, but listen to GOD; I believe God, The Son of God & The Holy Ghost is speaking through you. AMEN
I know my values and worth and i already have new standards i made a lot positive good changes for myself im not perfect but God is helping me to be a better me every day i love and respect me. Thank you God. I know what i want and i deserve better im not wasting my time or settling for less from no men. I learned my past relationships mistakes. Im still learning and growing and studying God's words. Im so proud of myself focusing on God myself and my health getting better. God bless everyone dont waste your time and dont settle for less it not worth it love and respect yourselves and enjoy life. Thank you God and tony great advice on time.👍👍👏👏🙏☺🙏
I hit the like before I listen, I know you coming with something to grow on. Update: I needed this confirmation. Been getting back to loving me for the past year. People after saying I'm mean, what's wrong with me? Nothings wrong, I'm getting me together and I've deducted many out of the equation.
Thanks Tony I really needed to hear this! I put myself back after having a family at 18 now I'm 22 with 2 kids and a baby momma I forgot what I wanted to do in life or even my past happiness because I was so focused on making my family happy even if I had to sacrifice my own.
Well feel into a situationship and rewatching my breakup playlist that I send too all my girlfriends I gotta stick too my standards I refuse too keep going thru this thanks uncle tony for always reminding me not too settle!!!!!
Hey,This is Tonya, Again,I'm in Therapy Now, And I Learned,From my Therapist, That,You Have to give yourself, Permission,To be Happy,I'm At the Point,In my Life, Where,I could care Less What Someone Else Thinks, Thank you,So Much,!!!!😅😅,😆😘My,Powers,Are back, Stronger Than Ever,The Stronger,You Get,The Weaker,Toxic People, Become!!!😊
I loved how you said make standards for yourself!! I think a long the way I lost my standards on how I should treat myself and how others should treat me 🙏🏾
I have learned so much from this video...THANK YOU......It opened my viewpoint on so many levels in all of my relationships. I am seventy and still open to learning about relationships. I will listen to this video over and over. Often I give away my power and I want to get better emotionally.
This is my favorite video of yours so far! This was right on time & provides me confirmation that I am on the right path to manifesting what I need and desire in my life. I have been really focusing on loving myself, letting go, falling back on people and situations that are not serving my purpose. Never realized how growth could be so painful but I'm finding myself less affected and its easier walking away than what it used to be, I'm okay when things don't turn out how I hoped, I just learn and keep moving forward. Thank you! 💙💯
I never really understood what self love was or how to start setting standards until i came across your videos. Thank you so much. This is especially helpful because i grew up without a father so again thank you.
Wow! I really needed to see this. I'm now facing the facts that I have an anger issue and it's really bad. I don't even have a cool down method when I get upset. It's straight to 100. Praying for God to heal and deliver that in me. I have pushed away the only man I've ever been in love with due to my reactions from overthinking. You are truly heaven sent ~ Be blessed
Tony I just want to say God bless you I really enjoyed listening to you on RUclips. I just started listening to you this year. I wish I had met you years ago I've been divorced twice and I've been just living for the Lord and being alone and trying to heal and God is doing that and I'm grateful that I have the opportunity to listen and to learn from you continue to do the work that God has called you to do because you're reaching many hearts God bless you
🙏🏾 thank you very much for your support in change. You also let GOD use you in word of WISDOM. I hear it… gives me a new look on how to love myself… especially in GODS WORD. Keep changing lives with the gift 🎁 GOD has given you brother. GOD bless you.
Thank you Tony. This was straight and to the point. Much needed motivation, tips, and advice. I will begin to put these to use today. Be blessed my brother. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
I actually have just joined your group and I'm loving it. All that I've seen so far is exactly what I'm needing to hear especially this particular lesson. So thank u.. I look forward to much more.
So true re-wiring is hard but it needs to happen . Otherwise you are being taken advantage. It’s important to set standards and boundaries. Some people brake them but , I keep a distance. It’s important to set standards for everyone in your life . I’ve allowed these things to happen . I let go a job that was toxic last November with false promises made toxic narc bosses . I agree overall set new standards to be treated as you should .
Thank you tony for advices you give I was at my lowest and you’re videos helped me out so much blessings happy Mother’s Day to you’re wife have a nice day stay safe 🔥
Self-love is the #1 thing - I appreciate the video! I discuss the same idea in the last video in my channel, from a parenting context. I hope videos like ours really inspire people to prioritize self-love!
The best and quickest way to self love is by reading and studying the word of God. Until you know and understand the width the length the depth the height and the magnitude of Love he has for you. It is then, you will never accept anything less from yourself or anyone else. That's when I discovered self Love 😊
Yessssss, you're very right. Find yourself and know your worth simply by knowing who you are in Christ and the Bible is the best and only place to do that.
Amen he is righteous
💯💯💯 GOD is love.
💯💯💯
Christ if this was it, I'd be there with my Bible Belt southern Baptist upbringing
I just told my friend this today. I’m no longer settling. No matter how long it takes
Great decision I wish you well 💯💖💖💖💖💖 Same here.
Rae Rae thank you
@@latayiahicks2924 💯💖💖💖
Be blessed. Your videos are really educating me. Thank you.
I remember when I made this decision, too! I noticed that some of my ex's just came from no where! Meaning, a couple of them I hadn't heard from in months. So, I 🙏 and asked God to reveal their motives and ran across Bro. Tony's video on: Why Men Come Back? I was absolutely blowwwn away, but I Worshipped God for revealing The Truth. I thanked ex's for reaching out. I was kind, but I immediately cut the conversations!
Listening to this while killing it at the gym!!!
I need to do that 🤔💕💖
This is the season I'm in right now in my life and let me just say it's been extremely difficult! It hurts but I'm fighting my way through one day at a time.
felisha u will make it hold on to Jesus
God love you!!
Same here
Sometimes women can give away so much of themseves in a relationship and it leads to so much resentment. In general a man will still keep his hobbies, friends and goals in a relationship. I have been guilty of placing a lot of my happiness on how a relationship is going. I now dress well for me, have my own hobbies and keep all the dreams and goals i have for myself no matter the state of my relationships. That way i never feel like i have missed out or put anything on hold. If a relationship ends at least i have achieved all my goals and personal targets i have set for myself that year. Pamper yourself, achieve your dreams no matter how small.
I have been happily single for over 2 years because I have standards that I feel that are fair because I continually work on myself to be the best version of me and I would like someone with those same values. I am 50 and I do eat right, exercise, I am spiritual, God fearing, and I dont drink, smoke or do drugs because I love myself too much so I will not settle for less
Faye Smith : Amen! you are blessed you set a really great example . God Bless you . 🥰
What encouraging words- I am 48 just starting my single life and am learning about myself - it's nice to know there are other women out there that are my age and happily single
bestmekimb : hi yes, ur not alone! 😊I’m same age 48 and single ! I pray the lord sends us good relationships in due time .
@@bestmekimb And there are all types of women out there.
I have been single since I was 31 and spent most of the rest of the years not in a relationship.
And I mean most of those years. Today I'm sixty and how do I feel ?
I love the person that I see. I lived my life being independent and my heart is just overflowing with Thanksgiving unto the Lord for the journey.
There all kinds out there.
Toxic people hate standard. It's easy to let them go once you have standards.
"Dont settle because the clock is ticking! Self love does not settle out of frustration, fear, doubt, scarcity, or lack."
My church is doing an entire series on spiritual warfare & boundaries! I love how having standards flows to every area of your life. 💖🙏🏾
I miss church 😞
Amen, Sis
Tips from the video incase you don’t remember.
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 thanks I needed this reminder
Self Love and Self Care the process I’m in right now. Thanks for the encouragement.
This is so factual.. i started my self healing and loving me more and no longer people pleasing and setting more standards and boundaries . It does cause people to question if something's wrong with me now but it doesn't bother me because for years i allow people to use me and i jump and did alot for friends and family , i look back and decided i want better for myself and i,m healing and feeling better about myself and not going to lower my standards again..
I so needed to hear this. Right now I
Have this guy I’ve been dating over a
month he isn’t consistent with my
my standards that’s required so
therefore I need to let him go...
Thanks for all you do your videos
Has help me with dating life/situation
ships ❤️
Loving myself is accepting myself as I am, but also doing my best in all aspects of my life. No settling for me. I'll just wait it out.
Love yourself first always!
Thank you, Mr. Tony Gaskins for your encouraging motivation words. I believe GOD sent you to encourage people who will take your advice. I know your family want you to take a break, but listen to GOD; I believe God, The Son of God & The Holy Ghost is speaking through you. AMEN
Everyone wants true love until they realize that it begins by loving YOURSELF truly! - Sharon Benjamin ❤
Loving yourself be still and know God,By knowing thyself.
This is right on time....
I know my values and worth and i already have new standards i made a lot positive good changes for myself im not perfect but God is helping me to be a better me every day i love and respect me. Thank you God. I know what i want and i deserve better im not wasting my time or settling for less from no men. I learned my past relationships mistakes. Im still learning and growing and studying God's words. Im so proud of myself focusing on God myself and my health getting better. God bless everyone dont waste your time and dont settle for less it not worth it love and respect yourselves and enjoy life. Thank you God and tony great advice on time.👍👍👏👏🙏☺🙏
I hit the like before I listen, I know you coming with something to grow on.
Update: I needed this confirmation. Been getting back to loving me for the past year. People after saying I'm mean, what's wrong with me? Nothings wrong, I'm getting me together and I've deducted many out of the equation.
It’s so important to do the WORK! Self work is the best work! I could watch this video all day! Amen and amen! 🙏🏾
Self love is the highest form of love. T.G
Thanks Tony I really needed to hear this! I put myself back after having a family at 18 now I'm 22 with 2 kids and a baby momma I forgot what I wanted to do in life or even my past happiness because I was so focused on making my family happy even if I had to sacrifice my own.
Well feel into a situationship and rewatching my breakup playlist that I send too all my girlfriends I gotta stick too my standards I refuse too keep going thru this thanks uncle tony for always reminding me not too settle!!!!!
Hey,This is Tonya, Again,I'm in Therapy Now, And I Learned,From my Therapist, That,You Have to give yourself, Permission,To be Happy,I'm At the Point,In my Life, Where,I could care Less What Someone Else Thinks, Thank you,So Much,!!!!😅😅,😆😘My,Powers,Are back, Stronger Than Ever,The Stronger,You Get,The Weaker,Toxic People, Become!!!😊
I just love your energy you are so right about everything. Thank you for this lesson 🤍
I loved how you said make standards for yourself!! I think a long the way I lost my standards on how I should treat myself and how others should treat me 🙏🏾
Thank you for confirming what I’ve been questioning myself about.
I had problems with receiving!!! Set new standards 💪
I’m here because my mom told me to love myself so I’m here :)
I have learned so much from this video...THANK YOU......It opened my viewpoint on so many levels in all of my relationships. I am seventy and still open to learning
about relationships. I will listen to this video over and over. Often I give away my power and I want to get better emotionally.
Keep up the good work.....
Amen!!! Yes, I've started focusing on my happiness again....so long overdue!
Thank you for this video ! I am Current working on self love ! I will not settle for less than I deserve ! This is so helpful !!!
Yes Sir..thanks for these words of WISDOM...& unfortunately you have to teach people how to treat you❤️✌🏾
Boundaries ☺️
This is my favorite video of yours so far! This was right on time & provides me confirmation that I am on the right path to manifesting what I need and desire in my life. I have been really focusing on loving myself, letting go, falling back on people and situations that are not serving my purpose. Never realized how growth could be so painful but I'm finding myself less affected and its easier walking away than what it used to be, I'm okay when things don't turn out how I hoped, I just learn and keep moving forward. Thank you! 💙💯
Literally took out a pen and paper and wrote notes! Thank you!
I never really understood what self love was or how to start setting standards until i came across your videos. Thank you so much. This is especially helpful because i grew up without a father so again thank you.
In this season it's Me, Myself and Yashua. I can truly say that im happy and im healing, I have a great peace over my life and im truly blessed!
My friend, this was what i needed to hear at when i needed to hear it.
Thank You
Thank you Tony. Real helpful info precisely communicated. Keep it up 🙏🏽💪🏾
Be blessed ❤
Wow! I really needed to see this. I'm now facing the facts that I have an anger issue and it's really bad. I don't even have a cool down method when I get upset. It's straight to 100. Praying for God to heal and deliver that in me. I have pushed away the only man I've ever been in love with due to my reactions from overthinking. You are truly heaven sent ~ Be blessed
THANK YOU TONY! Amen. God bless you!
Tony I just want to say God bless you I really enjoyed listening to you on RUclips. I just started listening to you this year. I wish I had met you years ago I've been divorced twice and I've been just living for the Lord and being alone and trying to heal and God is doing that and I'm grateful that I have the opportunity to listen and to learn from you continue to do the work that God has called you to do because you're reaching many hearts God bless you
No more disrespect from myself 1st n others. Moving forward 2020 spoiling me!
Be Blessed
Thank you virtual life coach! 🏆💛
**The best virtual life coach..I am so grateful I was directed to TG.
🙏🏾 thank you very much for your support in change. You also let GOD use you in word of WISDOM. I hear it… gives me a new look on how to love myself… especially in GODS WORD. Keep changing lives with the gift 🎁 GOD has given you brother. GOD bless you.
You’re Awesome! Thank you for this. 💕💥
This message is LIFE‼️ I sooooo needed to hear this‼️ May the lord continue to bless you and tour family Tony!
Thank you Tony. This was straight and to the point. Much needed motivation, tips, and advice. I will begin to put these to use today. Be blessed my brother. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
I needed to hear this. Perfect timing More women should be listening to this message. So many are trapped in not self-loving..
Yes!!! Be blessed
I actually have just joined your group and I'm loving it. All that I've seen so far is exactly what I'm needing to hear especially this particular lesson. So thank u.. I look forward to much more.
So true re-wiring is hard but it needs to happen . Otherwise you are being taken advantage. It’s important to set standards and boundaries. Some people brake them but , I keep a distance.
It’s important to set standards for everyone in your life . I’ve allowed these things to happen . I let go a job that was toxic last November with false promises made toxic narc bosses .
I agree overall set new standards to be treated as you should .
Learning to love myself.
WATCHING THIS 💯👑☁️🕊♥️
Tony.. God used you to send me this rhema word it's so timely. I got to play this message again.
Amen 🔥! There are many devices in a man's heart; nevertheless the counsel of the Lord , that shall stand.
Proverbs 19:21 KJV. Be Blessed 🙏
Thank You Tony!!! Your like a big brother to me.
This is a great "inner-view message! 💯 Thanks Tony 🙏🏾
Yeah, it's a process. I needed and appreciate this video 🙏💯
Thank you tony for advices you give I was at my lowest and you’re videos helped me out so much blessings happy Mother’s Day to you’re wife have a nice day stay safe 🔥
Wise
Be blessed tony amen
I hate I had to learn this later in life. :-(
Your alive so it's not to late! but I feel u on time wasted you can't retrieve back. but going foward you can avoid all the bull.
Oh my God !!! Yet another ah ha moment !! Thank you 🙏
I'm going to forward this video to my husband. Thank you 😊
Tonyyyyyyy... you’re the best❣️
Ur amazing Tony really enjoy ur channel God bless u
Be blessed bro 😊thank you
Thank you for this message
So true it hurts
I personally feel that more than self love ,it is more important to be comfortable with yourself .
Thank you for this!!!❤️🙋🏽♀️👍🏽
Thanks again. This is phenomenal wisdom. 🦋💙
Thank you Tony this was a message I so desperately needed
Thank you for the message. I needed that.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽needed this video! This was right on time!
Well said, Tony!!!! Love this message! ❤️
Perfectly said. Beautiful :)
Thank you beautiful massage.
Your videos are always positive and uplifting. Thx for doing what God has called you to do
This helped me alot 🙏🏽
Thankyou Mr Tony gaskins great explanation. Listening and thinking more deeply and understand. Every sentence.
Cause go trougth struggle and pain ,hurt.yes love myself. And revalue my standard.
I love this . I realized this a few yrs now 💎💎
Be blessed
Thankyou so much
Awesome message !
The blessed Tribe 🙏
LOVE THIS VIDEO❤
Very wise 🙏🏽
I love this a lot of these tips will stick with me till I die. Thanks 💕!!! Btw your handsome.
New standards: Win-Win..Don't compromise 😎
nikki diamond set standards that you are applying to yourself
Thank you!
Thank you.
5:09 yes
Self-love is the #1 thing - I appreciate the video! I discuss the same idea in the last video in my channel, from a parenting context. I hope videos like ours really inspire people to prioritize self-love!