That quote speaks volumes “If you look for love it will elude you. If you become love it will surround you.” That quote is enough on its own. Keep being awesome Tony!
When you chase love it will repel from you when you become love it will surround you ......Alack of sepf love is the root cause of all suffering in this universe.. You're enough !!!!!! You're whole and complete you don't need No one to complete you !!!
I didn't love myself for a long time and the biggest part of my self hatred was a lack of direction and purpose. I knew what I was passionate about but not how to get there which caused me to be ashamed of myself and this is the main reason I constantly attracted men that had no plan for their purpose either and I tried to make myself feel like I had a purpose by making those men and their dreams my purpose. Now that I have opened my eyes and ears to see the road God has illuminated for me and hear the directions he has given me, I am no longer seeking external direction, purpose, or validation through conformity and people pleasing. I am solid in my own path and purpose now, praise the Lord!! Be blessed Tony!
@@viewly390 When I left my husband and I was literally afraid to leave my parents house I sat down and took a good look at all of my relationships and how I presented in them, I always knew the setup but I never knew why, I was the strong one in all my relationships and I hated it. So I got back in therapy and read Dr. Phil's book Life code and I realized I was chasing purpose on others while ignoring my own because I didn't believe i could do it on one hand and my God ordained self said it's yours. At moment God showed me i was doubleminded and a doubleminded person is unstable in everything they do. He also told me that he set before me that day life and blessings or death and destruction then told me to choose. That day i choose life and blessings and then the path to it was shown to me and within a week I had written my 4 year plan. The most amazing thing was the vision he showed of me being shackled on a prison cell beaten and battered with him standing there with my release papers and me being released, walking to him to get the papers and handing them back to him. I then walked myself back into the cell and started yelling for the guards to do their worst. He showed me that he stood there holding out my release papers year after year, he stood there giving me glimpses of my real life every time my eyes were healed enough to open and see for just a little while before I succumbed to sweet music of complacency, he stood there and waited for that day that was coming when he knew I would be ready to choose life, when I would be ready to stop the self inflicted punishment, when I would be ready to choose life and blessings, the day I would get my P.H.D(Past Having Doubts). All I could do was cry tears of joy and gratitude for his unimaginable patience with me. If you are struggling I hope this helps.
You are a blessing & I see love. I intuitively felt the clarity of your message & realize I’m living too comfortably. 😬🤭❤️thank you, thank you, thank you! @TonyGaskins & @SeeLove
That's all it took... Oh my high and almighty God I love myself so much I'm basically in tears,,,, at this point I don't know what to do myself I don't want to know what to do with myself I'm going to let God tell me what to do with myself I am so done... Do you know I'm trying to figure out how to walk away but preserve his spirit because he tried to do his best that he knew how to and his brokenness and I understand that he didn't have enough to tell me that I'm not the woman he desired but I'm the placeholder because he has been broken as well and I'm sensitive to the spirit... I hold no grudges I have no retaliation... But in wisdom I know to handle things in the spirit and I'm really trying to come to terms with trying to make the next steps through seeking God I'm afraid that... I know you talk about walking off and leaving a guy but I do believe in walking off and leaving and prosperity and a person spirit so that they will grow and that I can grow from the experience we both gain something from what we've been through and I'm thankful for what I've been through which makes me be a better person a god brings him back around he shows me that's him fine but I'm not going to be looking I'm not going to be chasing I'm not doing that I actually found me and your videos I haven't learned how to work this RUclips thing yet but I find you to be valuable I find you to be informative both I find you to be spirit-led I find you to have the love of god... On Christ you have helped me more than I can ever think... I wish I could figure out how you have live conversations so I can be in that I want to be in that number as the old Christian gospel song says. And I thank you, I love your wife for allowing you to do this and I know also I have a calling on my life in ministry and I knew that this particular incident right here will give me a testimony and not a test-aphony..please tell me how I'm supposed to be able to get in on these lives and when they're available cuz I know if you have it on Sunday or Monday anytime I ask that guy in a scene and send an angel before me so that I can attend and be there Tony I love you so much I love your wife for being the conduit for you to be able to flow freely without being inhibited because of jealousy or thinking that you might cheat I think you for being the godly Man to be honest about your feelings and how things happen so we can see and helping the spirit flow so that we can find our mates to do the will of God in the name of Jesus hallelujah thank you Jesus and amen
Hey Tony I tell young girls all the time and even my daughter u have to speak things into existence!!! It's already yours after u ask God for it!!! It's 2020 ladies and we are claiming our BLESSINGS!!!!🙋🙋🙋👐👐👐
Finally a person who gets it when it comes to earning degrees. A degree has nothing to do with true desire and passion to serve a purpose that is ordained by the Creator. Thanks Tony for this. I have 3 degrees...but my purpose is far greater!
I told somebody about themselves and first response was "I have this and this education". Book smarts do not equal common sense AT ALL. Sometimes it's just more bills and loans.
I am so full of Self Love and it’s showing in every area of my life. Thank you Jesus and counseling, he did it for me. This type of peace feels amazing. I’ve come from a very adventurous past, so finally i can love me for me. I pray every man and woman experience it.
@@TripleBlsdNHlyFvrdhey love, i invested in therapy for years, started my fitness journey and dedicated a entire year to myself. wrote a book, re-branded my business and started traveling. exited any relationships, whether friends or family, that were toxic and no longer served me. showed up everyday as the best woman i want to be and held myself accountable. no excuses and no slacking off!
Love.....self love comes in so many levels. I learned that some areas I need more work on. Childhood traumas, judgement from family etc etc. When anyone feels attacked I have realized there is a pain. So I try my best not to go back in forth. As much as I have good intentions, some will always read things the way they feel inside. It takes a gift to deal with ppl who you don't know where they are damaged. Keep helping Tony, your tolerance is built for helping the world.
Tony kills me with the, "OHhhhhh!" He is too funny! But on another note, he is a Blessing to society......And many thanks to his beautiful Wife and children for selflessly, sharing "Tony Gaskins" with the world......
peggy ONeal I’m here for the knowledge and all the OHhhhhh’s. I laugh each and every time because it sounds prettt accurate as to what the lady in the comment ( his voice) be saying.
God is definitely using you because you are speaking on what I woke up thinking about. I love myself and I am determined to live my best life because I have done the work on.myself to get to this point in my life. Change is difficult but it's worth it.!Thank you
This video had me crying like a baby. If you knew what I prayed about this morning you would understand. Thank you you are truly a God send. God spoke to me through your word today!!
This is a fantastic video. My father always said you are a Corporation. Create your job, be a business. My father worked for Ford Motor on the assembly line. He walked away from Ford Motor to start and owned a transportation business from ground up. He had many clients and thrived successfully. He didnt have a high school diploma nor college degree. You are what you think. Shift your mindset. Anything is possible, if you truly believe in yourself. Love this so much!
A degree is homage to our ancestors who were punished for attempting to read. It is a testament to one's discipline and a heightened standard for our heirs. A declaration of the power of a mind. My degree itself is a dream come true bc I have a passion for learning &expectations of self. I don't judge people who don't have theirs; I see people as their actions. Technology now (thankfully) makes it possible to be successful w/o a degree.
Listening to this I broke down in tears. I’m so ready to live the life I want and envision. It’s something in me that still harbors a lot of resentment from family, friends, past love. But I’m ready to push through until I become love. You are truly anointed Tony. I’m so glad God is using you.
I didn't love myself for a long time. I was sexually abused as a kid and my teen year's. And when I felt inlove. The man I love and trusted abusive me for year's. And he use to say bad things to me and tell me all the time. I was worthless and no man will never love me. Since my dad was in prison, and I was only 2 year's old and he passed away in prison, when I was 8 year's old I was always looking for a father figure and love. Now I'm finally working on self love for 2020. I feel so happy in my own skin. And God have been good to me. And thank u Tony Gaskins for all the video's u share with the world. You're truly a blessing. Have a great day you and your family. God bless u
Had this talk with my supervisor (who is white) a while back..I can talk proper English & I can write it well, but Ebonics is a part of my culture and it’s nothing to be ashamed of so ppl can get over it(.) Ppl understand exactly wt ur saying bcuz they know exactly which words to try to correct u with. It’s their way of feeling powerful or better than u in that moment. It temporarily boosts their fragile egos. Speaking with slang does not mean I’m uneducated, dumb, etc..but u can think that if u want to. Ppl who underestimate me always end up looking like the real fool in the end.
I didn't always love myself either, but when you get into the word of God and develop a true relationship with him you'll realize his Love for you is indescribable, undeserving, and unchanging. I have to love myself and others like God loves me despite my flaws. He is the way and his way is perfect. Thank you Lord.
When we look to others for love and validation we are let down. God confirmed and validated us through creation. We are a part of a Royal Priesthood, a Chosen People created for Purpose. Self love starts with Self, not some... one...else.
Tony this is my struggle -> loving myself. I have to totally love myself first before loving someone else. I'm well put together but at times I have doubts. No one understands me. I know it's mental, past trauma, society and etc. What I do is usually step back and reevaluate myself and know GOD created me in his eyes. I'm learning to love me -> Working hard on becoming Love. Thanks for all you do! I need this TODAY & EVERYDAY. Be BLESSED 🤗
I’ve been at 2 events Oprah was at & I thought to myself (well, I was shocked at first) then I thought I’m here for a reason & I believe God was showing me a glimpse of great things to come...
You telling your story has changed my trajectory on a lot of things. My mom moved us from California to Mississippi when I was 9 & now you can tell by the way I talk that I am from the south. I always thought I should talk in a certain manner, but it's hard because for 1, it's not your real self and 2, you have to be careful with all of your words. (Who got time for that) The only people that get embraced for talking country is people from New Orleans. People really do judge you based off how your words come out. I also appreciate you not using flattery, enticements, etc when you talk because I look at women and men who do that in their videos and I'm like God whenever I start doing videos, I wanna tell your message and get off, I don't got time for the extra. Sidenote: My identity use to be in degrees. I thought a degree meant rich, intelligent, you will never want again, etc. I'm thankful for my degree in Social Work because God is still using that to take me to my destination, but he showed me something different when I found myself degree'd and unemployed, degree'd and broke. Since 2015, I've never looked at college the same & don't let me get on student loans 🤦🏽♀️. Education is okay, but God don't want us bound and limiting him.
✊✊✊👏👏👏👏👏👏 I used to be in and out of college from 2011-2016 I got suspended twice but God! I was on probation countless times and he still showed up for me! I wanted to be a counselor in spite of my personal shortcomings. I did not understand back then but now I know what held me back. Money was always an issue and it still is but my faith in Jesus Christ and the mighty blessing that is this channel open my eyes when I listen to these videos, daily! I say all this to say, I have so many gifts I need to be utilized but I have to pray to have patience and perseverance. Thank you, Tony for your persistent Ministry and its impact in my life! I can't wait to see how I will make the desires of my heart come true. Please continue to keep God in every message because it's clear that when you put him first in your life amazing things begin to happen.
All theses confirmations videos keep coming back to back. Definitely been looking within lately instead of keep shifting blame started looking at the pattern of the type of people I’ve been attracting. Needing to pinpoint what deep rooted issue I need to uproot and heal from. Thanks Tony Gaskin for allowing God to use you as an vessel! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I’ve started listening to your videos while working out now too. It’s funny because I truly always felt like I needed bass in my ear to get through my squats and now find myself listening to Tony and just coasting through my workouts. Knowledge is wealth.
I’m a ‘black’ speech therapist thank you for the information about slavery and learning/reading the language. I’m going to use that one in conversation with parents thank u again
I’m building a God-made business as an evangelist tool and this video summed up in words what sets me apart from my class mates that all were willing to start at national minimum wage and climb a ladder that leads to more bondage.. thank you for perfectly summing up in to words who I am which is a child of God who believes in the power of the creator within her 👏🏾👏🏾
I'm working towards it. I have my degree in management and I get compliments all the time on how amazing I am. So in do time I will be managing my own business being an amazing Life Coach. Time out for building others company and they get all the credit. I'm coming TG. Be blessed 💫
Amen Tony! Schools should have class's that teach what you are teaching! It should be a must take class not an elective class like wood class etc.... Most children are not being taught this stuff at home. Thank you for taking your time to help other's who can't afford coaching etc. God bless you!
Ill never forget this day, sophomore year in high school I had to sit with the counselor because they was worried about my grades (one class but that was because they used to steal my hmw) they ask me “what do you wanna be when you grow up?” I said a chemist, they laughed at me. He (assistant principal) said “you can’t do that if your grades are like this, how would you understand the stuff?” But he said it in a way that insulted my intelligence. I thought about that for the longest. I was great in science, math was something I was okay with but the teachers didn’t teach it right (kids way of learning can be different) lecturing in math class made me lose focus compare to history or science. This math teacher gave me hope, he took me out of regular class and this other teacher taught it slowly and more visuals. My grades improved but that self confidence was still low. I left that school and did online instead. I had to leave that environment and heal myself, I learned so many skills I didn’t know I can do. I cared about my mental health once I graduated I told myself “is it best to go to college right away even tho I got accepted to 3 colleges I wanted to go?” I had to take a break from school, took a year break. Now I’m looking for better colleges that is known for their science degrees. Lately I’ve been doing things I used to tell myself I couldn’t do and it really boost my confidence and made me love myself. I have so many skills that a lot of young adults my age don’t really think about that’s beneficial
I never comment on youtube videos, but I had to say thanks, because I really needed these very words today! I’m in the process of healing from a broken relationship and your videos are not only helping me, they are transformational! God took me to your channel and I feel him working on me through you! God bless 🙏🏼
This video here is GOLD!! God is definitely using you to bring the message through to the ones that want to grow and listen. Your vision, humility and selflessness will continue to keep you and your family blessed! Thank you for the depth you provide and the substance you speak from! Be blessed 🙏🏽
This was one of the most profound and empowering videos that I’ve watched thus far. This was the decision I made two years ago that I needed to put in the work to become the person I want to marry. I’m still growing however I’m at the point where I can sit back and enjoy the love I have within me without seeking outside validation from others
Currently in our series of “God Calling” at church this month. THIS hit the spot. Powerful. every single word I felt and imprinted into my brain. I’m first gen Latina, following God has been the best thing for me. BUT listening to him is the best I have ever done for myself. THANK YOU!
Come on Tony.....this right here is the absolute TRURTH and it relates to everything you speak on daily...I hope y'all get this. Yesssssssss......the MINDSET is the key to everything....
Hello Tony. I have been listening to your youtube videos for about 6 months. I have been working on my 3 B’s. I just signed up for your certified life coach academy. I have been listening to you and feel we share similar values and I appreciate your honesty and integrity. You have helped me so much, I am really excited. Thank you for all you do, and God Bless you and your family
I wasn't taught about loving myself.... I was taught, love others don't be selfish.... get rid of pride... BUT, I needed to grow as the best me possible....
Wow Tony I didnot love myself because of the way I talked about myself. I did think everyone was looking at my flaws and judging me. I would always look down and not in the person eyes hoping that they would not see me or noticed my flaws. My grandmother use to always say look up and stop looking down. I’m going to really start to work on me… thanks Tony🙌🏼
OMG this message hits home! First time on this channel and YES to everything you’ve said Tony. I’m 34yrs old now and been married for 6 years, it took me marriage, on and off relationships with both my parents, lost friendships, housewifery, unemployment, leaving religion and motherhood to actually love myself! I never knew loving oneself was easy and actually fun! I’m kind and loving towards myself and always treat myself with honesty and praises! Thank you so much ❤️🙏🏾!
I’m sure your Ancestors are looking at you and your journey with pure joy. Thank you for sharing your life’s story, the story of your lineage and it’s strength. Great inspiring video✨ we are all our Ancestors wildest dreams.. the power of our mind and what we affirm really is life changing. Thank you for this channel 🙏🏾
You are killing the game Tony!!!!!!! We are not victims...victory and victimhood can't occupy the same space! Please keep doing exactly what God is telling you to do!
Oh my goodness I’ve always wanted to ask you if you tried to changed your accent on your older videos/podcast videos. We love your accent !!! Thank you for sharing !!!
Day 3 of watching your videos & I had no choice but to be able to witness the full perks.. You're worth so much more than what it cost.. Healing is priceless.. I'm at my worst yet most beautiful point in life & you'll never ever know how much you're helping me in this much needed process 😔🤞🏻
Tony Gaskins: 1.) YOU - and your lovely accent - are your ancestors wildest dreams come TRUE!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 2.) God BLESS you and all those attached to you! 🤗❤️🙏🏾💖 3.) THANK YOU for yet another EXCEPTIONAL video!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I often get told that my chill face looks like I’m “mad” although I’m just working and focused. Men love to tell me to smile & others ask me if I’m okay, but once I open my mouth to speak I’m kind & smiling. 🤷🏽♀️ Have any of you ladies or men encountered this constructive criticism or observation??
yes i get that all the time and it's disheartening to say the least, i even tried to look in the mirror to see what others see but of course i don't recognize anything, i'll be fine and nothing's wrong with me and just like you said i'm just focused on what i may be doing at that time. I try to make myself smile more often but it feels fake and i'm not fake or phony, although i do smile when i'm with my friends and family or some co-workers on my job but yes i experience that quite often
I have a resting or serious face. Ive got told plenty of times oh ur so serious, u need to smile, ur mean etc.. at one point it really effected me and I began to become really insecure It felt like ppl would judge me on how I look meanwhile Im really jst chill, laid back and quiet. I also did some self evaluation because it would be numerous of ppl saying the same thing so i thought maybe theres some truth to it. So now, im learning to smile more and to just love and be myself despite what ppl think of me
I literally enjoy ever video that Tony shares. But I think this one right here was the ABSOLUTE BEST! So life changing if you're willing to implement it. I'ma have to make it rain in the next live. God bless you!!!
Tony you have definitely spoke "Truth To Power" on so many different levels in this video. I have felt bad for so many years because I never went to college to earn a degree. At one time I felt like my trials and struggles were due to me not earning a degree> as if this was some sort of payback> I no longer think from that mindset because I've become aware that having a degree does not necessarily guarantee you "The Ultimate Success" I have begun to seek my purpose in life and I am working on that theory of "Becoming Love To Attract Love" Thank You for this message Tony and Stay Blessed♡♡
Harvard needs to give you an Honourary MBA because you have earned it 10 fold. You have done the work. You have gained the knowledge. And now the student has become the teacher. You just did it in the classroom of life 🙏.
I walked in love and was fooled by narcissists who “Mirrored” MY LOVE and they were totally faking! When you fall in love with a narcissist you fall in love with yourself
The 10% of the brain you were talking about came from Earl Nightingales “The Strangest Secret” I have listened to it several times, it’s a powerful message. One time I listened to it everyday for 30 days straight. I also enjoy listening to Emmanuel “Jim Rohan” too. Be blessed
Thank you for bringing up limitations and mindset. It’s something that I’ve been working on. I sometimes feel a certain type of way since I am in a predominantly white area. The feeling of being overlooked and not taken seriously can be overwhelming. At the same time, thinking a certain way has prevented me from growing. That’s on me. Thank you for blessing us with your words this morning. We all have to work on something. Being self aware is the beginning. Be blessed!
I have come to discover that the acceptance for LOVE of self is embracing God’s total and complete Love of me despite me! Flaws and all...love is allowing room for error and still ♥️ Forgiveness is a crucial component to the fulfillment of Love as well!
I have become one of the Coaches on MyMentor.life. Thank you so much for blessing people like myself to be on your platform and use the gifts that God has placed in my Heart! You are Truly A God sent and a definition of a Blessing being a blessing to Everyone. GOD BLESS YOU❤
So on point with this message!! If only everyone knew the power of self love and believing in themselves!! Lord the world would be so much better!! Thanks Tony, keep ‘em coming! I’m listening brotha!!
Tony ur videos, ur gift, ur ministry has set me free in the area of heart healing..... Especially concerning relationship so I send positive vibes, blessings, & appreciation to you my brother!!!! Pls keep on in the wisdom of God 🙏 Aishia
Amen thanks be to God great sermon Tony!!! God owns us all and everything man created because he created our minds and bodies the door God opens for you NO MAN CAN CLOSE!!! What's for u is for u and God has a purpose for all of our lives we just have to believe it!!!
🗣"If you dont become what you're looking for, You Wont Attract It!!"🙌🏽❤
Demetria Calvin yes 🙌🏾
And if you are unhappy in your current state you will attract someone that is happy with your unhappiness and they will keep you there.
@@Mirror_My_Ambition I felt that!
TYEECE MARSHALL hush up and keep on talking you ain’t wrong .. I needed that thank you
@@Mirror_My_Ambition girl what a word🙌
That quote speaks volumes “If you look for love it will elude you. If you become love it will surround you.” That quote is enough on its own. Keep being awesome Tony!
When you chase love it will repel from you when you become love it will surround you ......Alack of sepf love is the root cause of all suffering in this universe.. You're enough !!!!!! You're whole and complete you don't need No one to complete you !!!
If its what you believe ....
Preach. I was clicking my fingers when he said.
I didn't love myself for a long time and the biggest part of my self hatred was a lack of direction and purpose. I knew what I was passionate about but not how to get there which caused me to be ashamed of myself and this is the main reason I constantly attracted men that had no plan for their purpose either and I tried to make myself feel like I had a purpose by making those men and their dreams my purpose. Now that I have opened my eyes and ears to see the road God has illuminated for me and hear the directions he has given me, I am no longer seeking external direction, purpose, or validation through conformity and people pleasing. I am solid in my own path and purpose now, praise the Lord!! Be blessed Tony!
See Love wow congrats....how did you come to the realization? What was the turning point?
@@viewly390 When I left my husband and I was literally afraid to leave my parents house I sat down and took a good look at all of my relationships and how I presented in them, I always knew the setup but I never knew why, I was the strong one in all my relationships and I hated it. So I got back in therapy and read Dr. Phil's book Life code and I realized I was chasing purpose on others while ignoring my own because I didn't believe i could do it on one hand and my God ordained self said it's yours. At moment God showed me i was doubleminded and a doubleminded person is unstable in everything they do. He also told me that he set before me that day life and blessings or death and destruction then told me to choose. That day i choose life and blessings and then the path to it was shown to me and within a week I had written my 4 year plan. The most amazing thing was the vision he showed of me being shackled on a prison cell beaten and battered with him standing there with my release papers and me being released, walking to him to get the papers and handing them back to him. I then walked myself back into the cell and started yelling for the guards to do their worst. He showed me that he stood there holding out my release papers year after year, he stood there giving me glimpses of my real life every time my eyes were healed enough to open and see for just a little while before I succumbed to sweet music of complacency, he stood there and waited for that day that was coming when he knew I would be ready to choose life, when I would be ready to stop the self inflicted punishment, when I would be ready to choose life and blessings, the day I would get my P.H.D(Past Having Doubts). All I could do was cry tears of joy and gratitude for his unimaginable patience with me. If you are struggling I hope this helps.
See Love Your testimony is definitely my inspiration!!!! Wow!! ❤️❤️❤️
You are a blessing & I see love. I intuitively felt the clarity of your message & realize I’m living too comfortably. 😬🤭❤️thank you, thank you, thank you! @TonyGaskins & @SeeLove
I want this for myself ❤
I'm learning to love myself more and more everyday, it is a daily grind and I'm I'm believing God.
💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜 AMEN!!
Seriously a grind!
That's all it took... Oh my high and almighty God I love myself so much I'm basically in tears,,,, at this point I don't know what to do myself I don't want to know what to do with myself I'm going to let God tell me what to do with myself I am so done... Do you know I'm trying to figure out how to walk away but preserve his spirit because he tried to do his best that he knew how to and his brokenness and I understand that he didn't have enough to tell me that I'm not the woman he desired but I'm the placeholder because he has been broken as well and I'm sensitive to the spirit... I hold no grudges I have no retaliation... But in wisdom I know to handle things in the spirit and I'm really trying to come to terms with trying to make the next steps through seeking God I'm afraid that... I know you talk about walking off and leaving a guy but I do believe in walking off and leaving and prosperity and a person spirit so that they will grow and that I can grow from the experience we both gain something from what we've been through and I'm thankful for what I've been through which makes me be a better person a god brings him back around he shows me that's him fine but I'm not going to be looking I'm not going to be chasing I'm not doing that I actually found me and your videos I haven't learned how to work this RUclips thing yet but I find you to be valuable I find you to be informative both I find you to be spirit-led I find you to have the love of god... On Christ you have helped me more than I can ever think... I wish I could figure out how you have live conversations so I can be in that I want to be in that number as the old Christian gospel song says. And I thank you, I love your wife for allowing you to do this and I know also I have a calling on my life in ministry and I knew that this particular incident right here will give me a testimony and not a test-aphony..please tell me how I'm supposed to be able to get in on these lives and when they're available cuz I know if you have it on Sunday or Monday anytime I ask that guy in a scene and send an angel before me so that I can attend and be there Tony I love you so much I love your wife for being the conduit for you to be able to flow freely without being inhibited because of jealousy or thinking that you might cheat I think you for being the godly Man to be honest about your feelings and how things happen so we can see and helping the spirit flow so that we can find our mates to do the will of God in the name of Jesus hallelujah thank you Jesus and amen
Hey Tony I tell young girls all the time and even my daughter u have to speak things into existence!!! It's already yours after u ask God for it!!! It's 2020 ladies and we are claiming our BLESSINGS!!!!🙋🙋🙋👐👐👐
Beauty B daniels 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
Amen
Amen
Finally a person who gets it when it comes to earning degrees. A degree has nothing to do with true desire and passion to serve a purpose that is ordained by the Creator. Thanks Tony for this. I have 3 degrees...but my purpose is far greater!
I told somebody about themselves and first response was "I have this and this education". Book smarts do not equal common sense AT ALL. Sometimes it's just more bills and loans.
@@honeys.9579 No truer words have been spoken. Plus it's what you do with the degree that matters more.
I am so full of Self Love and it’s showing in every area of my life. Thank you Jesus and counseling, he did it for me. This type of peace feels amazing. I’ve come from a very adventurous past, so finally i can love me for me. I pray every man and woman experience it.
What process and steps did you take to get to this point of self love? Thanks for your response.
TiffanyB TV “...adventurous path...” love it!
@@TripleBlsdNHlyFvrdhey love, i invested in therapy for years, started my fitness journey and dedicated a entire year to myself. wrote a book, re-branded my business and started traveling. exited any relationships, whether friends or family, that were toxic and no longer served me. showed up everyday as the best woman i want to be and held myself accountable. no excuses and no slacking off!
So happy for you...we must pray others get to this point
God bless you
Fear of failure is crippling and it disguise itself had self hatred 🤯🤯
Come on GG Pebbles!!!! 👏
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My 2020 pledge to myself....Attract what you Expect. Reflect what you Desire. Become what you Result. Mirror what you Desire.!!!!!!
2020 mantra:
I will not try to love others to life by consequently sentencing myself to death and disempowerment.
Well said
“ The TRUTH requires CHANGE.” 👏🏽🙏🏽👏🏽
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Love.....self love comes in so many levels. I learned that some areas I need more work on. Childhood traumas, judgement from family etc etc. When anyone feels attacked I have realized there is a pain. So I try my best not to go back in forth. As much as I have good intentions, some will always read things the way they feel inside. It takes a gift to deal with ppl who you don't know where they are damaged. Keep helping Tony, your tolerance is built for helping the world.
“I want to become the blessing instead of looking for blessings” wow what Tony said hit me
Tony kills me with the, "OHhhhhh!"
He is too funny! But on another note, he is a Blessing to society......And many thanks to his beautiful Wife and children for selflessly, sharing "Tony Gaskins" with the world......
peggy ONeal I’m here for the knowledge and all the OHhhhhh’s. I laugh each and every time because it sounds prettt accurate as to what the lady in the comment ( his voice) be saying.
@@menaRN2011 yes indeed, he adds so much humor to his teaching.......Point blank Periooodt!
Yesssss! That “Ohhhhh” takes me out every time!!🤣🤣
God is definitely using you because you are speaking on what I woke up thinking about. I love myself and I am determined to live my best life because I have done the work on.myself to get to this point in my life. Change is difficult but it's worth it.!Thank you
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This video had me crying like a baby. If you knew what I prayed about this morning you would understand. Thank you you are truly a God send. God spoke to me through your word today!!
Ain't He Faithful?! Stay encouraged and keep Shining!
This is a fantastic video. My father always said you are a Corporation. Create your job, be a business. My father worked for Ford Motor on the assembly line. He walked away from Ford Motor to start and owned a transportation business from ground up. He had many clients and thrived successfully. He didnt have a high school diploma nor college degree. You are what you think. Shift your mindset. Anything is possible, if you truly believe in yourself. Love this so much!
Tony said "I don't even have a certificate, and you just took my course" 👏🏽
A degree is homage to our ancestors who were punished for attempting to read. It is a testament to one's discipline and a heightened standard for our heirs. A declaration of the power of a mind. My degree itself is a dream come true bc I have a passion for learning &expectations of self. I don't judge people who don't have theirs; I see people as their actions. Technology now (thankfully) makes it possible to be successful w/o a degree.
I walk away from people when they want to fight or be confrontational.
You are a gift Tony. Ty. You're giving many people the education their parents never gave them.
Listening to this I broke down in tears. I’m so ready to live the life I want and envision. It’s something in me that still harbors a lot of resentment from family, friends, past love. But I’m ready to push through until I become love.
You are truly anointed Tony. I’m so glad God is using you.
I didn't love myself for a long time. I was sexually abused as a kid and my teen year's. And when I felt inlove. The man I love and trusted abusive me for year's. And he use to say bad things to me and tell me all the time. I was worthless and no man will never love me. Since my dad was in prison, and I was only 2 year's old and he passed away in prison, when I was 8 year's old I was always looking for a father figure and love. Now I'm finally working on self love for 2020. I feel so happy in my own skin. And God have been good to me. And thank u Tony Gaskins for all the video's u share with the world. You're truly a blessing. Have a great day you and your family. God bless u
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❤️ sending u love
Everyone wants true love until they realize that it begins by loving YOURSELF truly! - Sharon Benjamin ❤
“If you can become love, you can attract love.” Very powerful message & video 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
“I am a manifestation of what my people tried to become” that was powerful to me. Love that, now a daily reminder for me.
Mr. Gaskins Please talk about Self Esteem. How to raise it, fill the void, how it applies to your life; etc!
Shift your mindset..Become Love... Be Blessed!!
Had this talk with my supervisor (who is white) a while back..I can talk proper English & I can write it well, but Ebonics is a part of my culture and it’s nothing to be ashamed of so ppl can get over it(.) Ppl understand exactly wt ur saying bcuz they know exactly which words to try to correct u with. It’s their way of feeling powerful or better than u in that moment. It temporarily boosts their fragile egos. Speaking with slang does not mean I’m uneducated, dumb, etc..but u can think that if u want to. Ppl who underestimate me always end up looking like the real fool in the end.
I didn't always love myself either, but when you get into the word of God and develop a true relationship with him you'll realize his Love for you is indescribable, undeserving, and unchanging. I have to love myself and others like God loves me despite my flaws. He is the way and his way is perfect. Thank you Lord.
i 'agree' Tony.... Be the person God made you to be. Discover your gifts. God has given us all talents and believe in yourself. Blessings.
When we look to others for love and validation we are let down. God confirmed and validated us through creation. We are a part of a Royal Priesthood, a Chosen People created for Purpose. Self love starts with Self, not some... one...else.
Yesss tony a degree is just a piece of papper!!! It does not validate anyone👏👏 That's right 💯💯
Greetings! Could you please share with me the differences in colors pertaining to "The Blessed Tribe" symbol next to your name??
I love to hear you speak. Your mindset is so abundant. It’s really contagious. Be blessed!
I love the way you talk. You accent is so charming.
Tony this is my struggle -> loving myself. I have to totally love myself first before loving someone else. I'm well put together but at times I have doubts. No one understands me. I know it's mental, past trauma, society and etc. What I do is usually step back and reevaluate myself and know GOD created me in his eyes. I'm learning to love me -> Working hard on becoming Love. Thanks for all you do! I need this TODAY & EVERYDAY.
Be BLESSED 🤗
I understand❤
I was just teary eyed feeling low right now and started listening to this it honestly really helped thank you 🙏🏼 😊
I’ve been at 2 events Oprah was at & I thought to myself (well, I was shocked at first) then I thought I’m here for a reason & I believe God was showing me a glimpse of great things to come...
You telling your story has changed my trajectory on a lot of things. My mom moved us from California to Mississippi when I was 9 & now you can tell by the way I talk that I am from the south. I always thought I should talk in a certain manner, but it's hard because for 1, it's not your real self and 2, you have to be careful with all of your words. (Who got time for that) The only people that get embraced for talking country is people from New Orleans. People really do judge you based off how your words come out. I also appreciate you not using flattery, enticements, etc when you talk because I look at women and men who do that in their videos and I'm like God whenever I start doing videos, I wanna tell your message and get off, I don't got time for the extra.
Sidenote: My identity use to be in degrees. I thought a degree meant rich, intelligent, you will never want again, etc. I'm thankful for my degree in Social Work because God is still using that to take me to my destination, but he showed me something different when I found myself degree'd and unemployed, degree'd and broke. Since 2015, I've never looked at college the same & don't let me get on student loans 🤦🏽♀️. Education is okay, but God don't want us bound and limiting him.
✊✊✊👏👏👏👏👏👏 I used to be in and out of college from 2011-2016 I got suspended twice but God! I was on probation countless times and he still showed up for me! I wanted to be a counselor in spite of my personal shortcomings. I did not understand back then but now I know what held me back. Money was always an issue and it still is but my faith in Jesus Christ and the mighty blessing that is this channel open my eyes when I listen to these videos, daily! I say all this to say, I have so many gifts I need to be utilized but I have to pray to have patience and perseverance. Thank you, Tony for your persistent Ministry and its impact in my life! I can't wait to see how I will make the desires of my heart come true. Please continue to keep God in every message because it's clear that when you put him first in your life amazing things begin to happen.
All theses confirmations videos keep coming back to back. Definitely been looking within lately instead of keep shifting blame started looking at the pattern of the type of people I’ve been attracting. Needing to pinpoint what deep rooted issue I need to uproot and heal from. Thanks Tony Gaskin for allowing God to use you as an vessel! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
"Somebody Happened To Me"...now that's a word straight from God!!! Let the church say Amen...🙏🏾🙌🏾👏🏾
I’ve started listening to your videos while working out now too. It’s funny because I truly always felt like I needed bass in my ear to get through my squats and now find myself listening to Tony and just coasting through my workouts. Knowledge is wealth.
I’m a ‘black’ speech therapist thank you for the information about slavery and learning/reading the language. I’m going to use that one in conversation with parents thank u again
I’m building a God-made business as an evangelist tool and this video summed up in words what sets me apart from my class mates that all were willing to start at national minimum wage and climb a ladder that leads to more bondage.. thank you for perfectly summing up in to words who I am which is a child of God who believes in the power of the creator within her 👏🏾👏🏾
I'm working towards it. I have my degree in management and I get compliments all the time on how amazing I am. So in do time I will be managing my own business being an amazing Life Coach. Time out for building others company and they get all the credit. I'm coming TG. Be blessed 💫
Amen Tony! Schools should have class's that teach what you are teaching! It should be a must take class not an elective class like wood class etc.... Most children are not being taught this stuff at home. Thank you for taking your time to help other's who can't afford coaching etc. God bless you!
Ill never forget this day, sophomore year in high school I had to sit with the counselor because they was worried about my grades (one class but that was because they used to steal my hmw) they ask me “what do you wanna be when you grow up?” I said a chemist, they laughed at me. He (assistant principal) said “you can’t do that if your grades are like this, how would you understand the stuff?” But he said it in a way that insulted my intelligence. I thought about that for the longest. I was great in science, math was something I was okay with but the teachers didn’t teach it right (kids way of learning can be different) lecturing in math class made me lose focus compare to history or science. This math teacher gave me hope, he took me out of regular class and this other teacher taught it slowly and more visuals. My grades improved but that self confidence was still low. I left that school and did online instead. I had to leave that environment and heal myself, I learned so many skills I didn’t know I can do. I cared about my mental health once I graduated I told myself “is it best to go to college right away even tho I got accepted to 3 colleges I wanted to go?” I had to take a break from school, took a year break. Now I’m looking for better colleges that is known for their science degrees. Lately I’ve been doing things I used to tell myself I couldn’t do and it really boost my confidence and made me love myself. I have so many skills that a lot of young adults my age don’t really think about that’s beneficial
I never comment on youtube videos, but I had to say thanks, because I really needed these very words today! I’m in the process of healing from a broken relationship and your videos are not only helping me, they are transformational! God took me to your channel and I feel him working on me through you! God bless 🙏🏼
Preach🗣🗣🗣 You are talking to me. Thank you for being a blessing 🙏🏾🙏🏾
This video here is GOLD!! God is definitely using you to bring the message through to the ones that want to grow and listen. Your vision, humility and selflessness will continue to keep you and your family blessed! Thank you for the depth you provide and the substance you speak from! Be blessed 🙏🏽
This was one of the most profound and empowering videos that I’ve watched thus far. This was the decision I made two years ago that I needed to put in the work to become the person I want to marry. I’m still growing however I’m at the point where I can sit back and enjoy the love I have within me without seeking outside validation from others
This video was "SURGERY", no "ANESTHESIA" & it "HURT", nevertheless it taught me to not "COVET" other people lives.
When you chase love it will elude you when you become love it will surround you .....
Currently in our series of “God Calling” at church this month. THIS hit the spot. Powerful. every single word I felt and imprinted into my brain. I’m first gen Latina, following God has been the best thing for me. BUT listening to him is the best I have ever done for myself.
THANK YOU!
I hear you Tony but you didn’t have to come for my trap music while I do cardio! 😂😂
Come on Tony.....this right here is the absolute TRURTH and it relates to everything you speak on daily...I hope y'all get this.
Yesssssssss......the MINDSET is the key to everything....
Hello Tony. I have been listening to your youtube videos for about 6 months. I have been working on my 3 B’s. I just signed up for your certified life coach academy. I have been listening to you and feel we share similar values and I appreciate your honesty and integrity. You have helped me so much, I am really excited. Thank you for all you do, and God Bless you and your family
Clicked liked even before watching😁
Very inspiring to people who want to be in a relationship that's a healthy and rewarding.
Women need to realize that they will always be the flower
I wasn't taught about loving myself.... I was taught, love others don't be selfish.... get rid of pride... BUT, I needed to grow as the best me possible....
I most definitely love myself with selflove amen!!! Btw...Good morning Bigbro Tony& Heya Blessed Tribe
Yesss Sunday Sermon 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
This man is healing generational issues. Thank you
This message is so freeing. I am being healed as I listen to this. God bless you.
Wow Tony I didnot love myself because of the way I talked about myself. I did think everyone was looking at my flaws and judging me. I would always look down and not in the person eyes hoping that they would not see me or noticed my flaws. My grandmother use to always say look up and stop looking down. I’m going to really start to work on me… thanks Tony🙌🏼
OMG this message hits home! First time on this channel and YES to everything you’ve said Tony. I’m 34yrs old now and been married for 6 years, it took me marriage, on and off relationships with both my parents, lost friendships, housewifery, unemployment, leaving religion and motherhood to actually love myself! I never knew loving oneself was easy and actually fun! I’m kind and loving towards myself and always treat myself with honesty and praises! Thank you so much ❤️🙏🏾!
Yes!! I will begin to speak more life into myself! Thanks
I listen to your videos when I workout! Yes sirrrr...
Me too
Same here
I’m sure your Ancestors are looking at you and your journey with pure joy. Thank you for sharing your life’s story, the story of your lineage and it’s strength. Great inspiring video✨ we are all our Ancestors wildest dreams.. the power of our mind and what we affirm really is life changing. Thank you for this channel 🙏🏾
Working on my “three B’s” everyday! Everything I’m learning from you, I am applying to my life, and it is working! Thank you for your wisdom!
You are killing the game Tony!!!!!!! We are not victims...victory and victimhood can't occupy the same space! Please keep doing exactly what God is telling you to do!
Oh my goodness I’ve always wanted to ask you if you tried to changed your accent on your older videos/podcast videos. We love your accent !!! Thank you for sharing !!!
Day 3 of watching your videos & I had no choice but to be able to witness the full perks.. You're worth so much more than what it cost.. Healing is priceless.. I'm at my worst yet most beautiful point in life & you'll never ever know how much you're helping me in this much needed process 😔🤞🏻
VERY POWERFUL MESSAGE . BE BLESSED 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Tony Gaskins: 1.) YOU - and your lovely accent - are your ancestors wildest dreams come TRUE!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
2.) God BLESS you and all those attached to you! 🤗❤️🙏🏾💖
3.) THANK YOU for yet another EXCEPTIONAL video!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I often get told that my chill face looks like I’m “mad” although I’m just working and focused. Men love to tell me to smile & others ask me if I’m okay, but once I open my mouth to speak I’m kind & smiling. 🤷🏽♀️
Have any of you ladies or men encountered this constructive criticism or observation??
yes i get that all the time and it's disheartening to say the least, i even tried to look in the mirror to see what others see but of course i don't recognize anything, i'll be fine and nothing's wrong with me and just like you said i'm just focused on what i may be doing at that time. I try to make myself smile more often but it feels fake and i'm not fake or phony, although i do smile when i'm with my friends and family or some co-workers on my job but yes i experience that quite often
I’m always told I look mad all the time and to smile but I’m working on my resting face
I have a resting or serious face. Ive got told plenty of times oh ur so serious, u need to smile, ur mean etc.. at one point it really effected me and I began to become really insecure It felt like ppl would judge me on how I look meanwhile Im really jst chill, laid back and quiet. I also did some self evaluation because it would be numerous of ppl saying the same thing so i thought maybe theres some truth to it. So now, im learning to smile more and to just love and be myself despite what ppl think of me
Yes I’ve been told that many times. It’s annoying. I try now to smile when I walk past people.
LC Jones thank you for your reply! I smile all the time lol but I just don’t walk around with one plastered on my face 24/7 lol
I literally enjoy ever video that Tony shares. But I think this one right here was the ABSOLUTE BEST! So life changing if you're willing to implement it. I'ma have to make it rain in the next live. God bless you!!!
You keep being you Tony. Your authentic self communicates brilliantly.
Tony you have definitely spoke "Truth To Power" on so many different levels in this video. I have felt bad for so many years because I never went to college to earn a degree. At one time I felt like my trials and struggles were due to me not earning a degree> as if this was some sort of payback> I no longer think from that mindset because I've become aware that having a degree does not necessarily guarantee you "The Ultimate Success" I have begun to seek my purpose in life and I am working on that theory of "Becoming Love To Attract Love" Thank You for this message Tony and Stay Blessed♡♡
The brokenness and level of self hate in alot of us women is what damages us. May God renew us all. Be blessed.
Harvard needs to give you an Honourary MBA because you have earned it 10 fold. You have done the work. You have gained the knowledge. And now the student has become the teacher. You just did it in the classroom of life 🙏.
I walked in love and was fooled by narcissists who “Mirrored” MY LOVE and they were totally faking! When you fall in love with a narcissist you fall in love with yourself
The 10% of the brain you were talking about came from Earl Nightingales “The Strangest Secret” I have listened to it several times, it’s a powerful message. One time I listened to it everyday for 30 days straight. I also enjoy listening to Emmanuel “Jim Rohan” too. Be blessed
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Honey S. Your welcome😊
Thank you for bringing up limitations and mindset. It’s something that I’ve been working on. I sometimes feel a certain type of way since I am in a predominantly white area. The feeling of being overlooked and not taken seriously can be overwhelming. At the same time, thinking a certain way has prevented me from growing. That’s on me. Thank you for blessing us with your words this morning. We all have to work on something. Being self aware is the beginning. Be blessed!
POWERFUL!! Addressing the ROOT cause is the only way to liberation!! Breaking chains.
I have come to discover that the acceptance for LOVE of self is embracing God’s total and complete Love of me despite me! Flaws and all...love is allowing room for error and still ♥️ Forgiveness is a crucial component to the fulfillment of Love as well!
Wow your so open and right and I have never heard anyone speak this truth until now!!! I sent this to my Sons!!!
Thank you I definitely needed to watch this video 2x! This was very helpful to me💪🏿
🙏🏿Be Blessed🙏🏿.
I have become one of the Coaches on MyMentor.life. Thank you so much for blessing people like myself to be on your platform and use the gifts that God has placed in my Heart! You are Truly A God sent and a definition of a Blessing being a blessing to Everyone. GOD BLESS YOU❤
Blessed Tribe! In doing the work one must work on themselves! Great Video , Positive, Encouraging, and Motivational.
I’m in tears, I feel validated... my ex came into my life and now that he’s left. His horrible messages remain.
Oh wow!!! I was just talking to one of my friends yesterday about this very thing!!! U have to be what u wanna attract👍👍👍
GOD BLESS U TONY!! I’m going to the 5:00 service tonight but I love your message
You are such a blessing to the world. ❤ Your light is shining so bright for the Lord! I want to please him, too! He is so good!
So on point with this message!! If only everyone knew the power of self love and believing in themselves!! Lord the world would be so much better!! Thanks Tony, keep ‘em coming! I’m listening brotha!!
Tony ur videos, ur gift, ur ministry has set me free in the area of heart healing..... Especially concerning relationship so I send positive vibes, blessings, & appreciation to you my brother!!!! Pls keep on in the wisdom of God 🙏
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Be blessed, I think this video just radically changed my whole life!!!🤔
Amen thanks be to God great sermon Tony!!! God owns us all and everything man created because he created our minds and bodies the door God opens for you NO MAN CAN CLOSE!!! What's for u is for u and God has a purpose for all of our lives we just have to believe it!!!
Preach!
All I heard in my head was Michael Jackson's song "Man in the mirror" 🎶 may he rest in peace
The main reason why I listen is BC of your accent. Reminds me of my relatives; my folks are from Mississippi but I’m from Michigan. I 💜 that!!!!