Mother In Law DEMANDS To Wear Wedding Dress To OWN SON'S WEDDING - REACTION
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- Mother In Law DEMANDS To Wear Wedding Dress To OWN SON'S WEDDING - REACTION
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Yeah that's... no good taste. I mean, I get that you got the sponsor but I would leave it at a one-time fail.
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I read an article about a bride who actually requested that everyone wear their own wedding dresses so they'd have a chance to wear them more than once in their lifetime. She assured them that it was okay, and that she'd still stand out, but didn't reveal what her dress would look like. She wore a red dress and definitely stood out among all the white, and it made for really nice pictures and a thoughtful gesture. Loved this idea! FMIL can suck it though. 😠
Ooooo that’s cool!
That is I think the best idea I've ever heard. As someone who has fretted over ever picking out a wedding dress because the idea of wearing white just scares the crap out of me, I may have to steal this lol
That is sooo awesome... I think this bride should pick a coloured dress too since she now knws wht the mil is planning.. or w a white dress with coloured embroidery or something with some bling. she would definitely stand out!!
@@rileyallen489 I look washed out af in white, so I wore a dress that had a red panel down the middle of the dress and some pretty, simple gold embroidery. (It was also one of the few plus size options at the local prom/bridal store, and wasn't expensive off-the-rack, either.) If you find that dresses that aren't white just don't look right for your big day, this is another option.
It is a very nice idea... If you have guests that got already married, are still together without any traumas or whatever and still have their white wedding dress while the few left out are not wearing something in the color that you picked for your own dress.
Sue's reaction was literally "How dare you let the world see that I'm giant walking asshole. Only YOU were supposed see that. "
That's usually how entitled assholes react when you expose them.
that part made me laugh
Exactly. I picked up on that as well. Shes like "YOU made me look like an asshole!!" And I would have replied "No...you did that all on your own." What a piece of work. I feel for this bride.
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I didn’t see that she actually posted it on Facebook. It looked like it was a text message from all parties. And also, she already had her future husbands full support. I don’t know, maybe I missed something.
The way her fiancé wrote to his mother made me feel better about this whole situation, shows that he got balls to draw a line even though being a mama's boy - NOT a lot of mama's boys can do that...
if he’d defended his mother, I would’ve voted “run. break off the engagement and call off the wedding”
Yes, but the fact that one option was to cancel the wedding and only go on with the honeymoon... Maybe they could'nt afford it without the mother's help, he should of suggest to cancel everything, let's get married with few people, even sooner and then go on our honeymoon. In the mother (inlaw)'s teeth, now she will never see any of her children's wedding. lol!
There is a difference between loving your parents and being mommy's boy
Yep, even after she "embarrassed her on the Facebook!"
I am a mamas boy, not gonna hide it. I love my mom and she is a amazing person. But there is a diffrence with being a mamas boy and being a "mamas boy and husband "😂
If this is how the Mom is for their wedding, imagine how insufferable she’ll be for everything else; children, birthdays, holidays. I honestly wouldnt even invite her
I wouldn’t marry her son. You marry, you marry the family. Love is not enough, not for that.
@@vh4478 much better idea
@@vh4478 exactly. I may stay in a relationship with the son, but marry him ?! Oh hell nah
Unless he's ready to kick his mom out of his life, I won't
I married into a family like that! Absolute freaking nightmare!!!
Literally the only fights I've had... hair pulling, hitting... was with her!
Divorced but still not over.
I would consider inviting her as I'd feel bad for not doing so. My reason would be that it sounds like she's old considering she thinks this is the only wedding for a child of hers that she'll be at. I can fully understand why people wouldn't invite her and I would support that decision as she's being a major asshole - I just couldn't bring myself to do it if she is indeed old.
I was so relieved when the fiancé stuck up for her. I was worried he’d side with the mother.
My husband always sided with his mother, that’s why I left him about 6 weeks ago and I can honestly say it’s the best decision I’ve ever made. I’m so happy now
@@rocketdolly69 and i'm happy for you❤️
@@rocketdolly69 my ex did that too, we broke up I simply did not fit into that family. I always did something wrong.
Did not part on bad terms though just didnt work out
Yeah esp when she started off calling her a skank straight out the gate like wtf lady
Held my breath😷
If my MIL called me a skank she's not coming to the wedding. The end.
Exactly!!!! Fk that, just that first text alone I would say "if you're going to talk to me like that and refuse to wear a different dress, then you are not invited to share OUR special day"
100%
@@danielleking262 Except she would pull some kind of drama the day of the wedding to interrupt the happy event. A car wreck, being hospitalized, feign a suicide attempt. She sounds like she might have borderline personality disorder to me
Just don't tell her when or where. Or let her do her own thing since she's "paying for more than half". You can have a small ceremony with people you actually like, and then whatever weird shindig she wants to throw.
She's already flexing the "I'm paying for it so I get to say what happens", so just back off and let her do a thing. Have your own, nicer and small ceremony but don't tell her. That way you can be happy and she can look like an idiot.
@@Birdbike719 How about you don't stereotype BPD or speculate on someone else's mental state.
And THIS, right here folks, is why my Fiance and I have been saving like crazy to pay for our own wedding next month. We did not want anyone else to try call the shots or use it against us later.
I cannot even imagine someone pays for our wedding.. We saved money and had the best wedding we ever wanted with only closest people and our both mamas of course :)
How did you're wedding go. 💑
Yep. Us 17 years ago last May.
Been NC with my parents for almost a decade now after they tried to ruin our marriage…been a relief ever since. Sad at times for the situation, but much more peaceful.
We have our own crap to work out without having them add more.
We also pulled away from hubby’s family as they got too “nice” with their “suggestions” and if you didnt follow them you were the bad people. They would change plans last minute that caused us trouble and also have advice they gave us we know didnt work for them (hubby’s other 2 siblings not married and joined at the hip to mommy).
My MiL wants me to “be nice” and just do what she wants but my kids are my kids and just because I am at your house does not mean hubby and I become children and change our family rules and you are in charge. MiL is a big emotional enabler too. Hubby has had to learn what is encouragement and what is co-dependent enabling… he either hates all of it or wants all of it depending on how he feels.
Its been hard but NC my family and limited contact with his has gotten us thru the fog to FINALLY work on what our family is going to be like!
I actually successfully convinced my best friend to dodge her own controlling psycho mother by eloping at the local courthouse wearing exactly what she wanted to wear instead of what her mom was trying to guilt her into. It was just the two of them, they took some Polaroid selfies and attached one to each of the notices they sent out afterward letting everyone know they'd already tied the knot. She was SO much happier for it, and I'm just glad she mustered up the strength to give that one big shove so she could have the nice quiet wedding of her dreams. 🖤
YOU r n awesome friend!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️
My daughter’s friend eloped. I knew it was happening because my daughter borrowed my car. The photos look so happy and twenty years and three kids later, they are still happy together. Do your own thing and don’t be forced into a big event if it isn’t your thing.
I love it when narcissists say, “How dare you expose me! YOU made me look bad!” Um no, you made yourself look bad by your deplorable behavior. If you don’t want people to think you’re a horrible person then don’t act like one. Your loved ones are not obligated to protect you from the natural consequences of your own behavior.
Exactly 👏🏽
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Oh ABSOLUTELY. Narcissists convince themselves they are victims when they get exposed. Sick!!
PREACH
That "everyone wear a wedding dress" idea is actually genius!!
even the guys🤣
@@originalpackage 🤣🤣🤣 OMG - Had the exact same response before reading yours 😆😆
But who could afford that?? Every single guest (or female guest) is going to have to wear a wedding dress?? That just makes it a big inconvenience for the rest of the guests just to stick it to the horrible mother.
@@danielleking262 or just white dresses. Some wedding dresses people wear are pretty simple, just satin and a simple overall design - that wouldn't be too costly.
And the bride can go all out on her non-white dress as much as she wants. She could go for a dress inspired by elves in fantasy stories or something, make it really unique compared to a traditional white wedding dress.
@@darth-imperius i thought the same. Actual wedding dress would be too expensive, but simple white dress is totally affordable. And while everyone wears white, the bride could go on an extra vibrant color like purple or red, which suit weddings too
I love how she said that
“…this is the only wedding of my children that I will be a part of.”
There are 2 people that can make that decision and you just called one of them a skank!🧐
when she said I felt that implied she's gonna just drop any time soon. How old must the grooms siblings be if she's not gonna be around for their weddings
The groom is an absolute keeper! I love that he had such a loving relationship with his mother, yet he defended his fiancée instead of her. That’s a true husband right there!
Mom saying "Don't ruin this day for me" is crazy 🤯 That's what the bride & groom should be saying & it would actually make sense
Yeah
None of it makes sense. It's ONE day and even people who had things go wrong went on to live their lives.
THe only way they ever get any peace is if they move to an undisclosed location.
I can just hear the groom's voice....Yeah she's terrible..BUT SHE'S MY MOM!!!!!"
I took it as a slip of the tongue to her real agenda- just like any entitled narcissistic MIL pulling this, she wants to leech limelight off someone else's wedding to relive her own "special day". Good thing there are many genius ways of putting narcissists like that in their place, like the "everyone dresses like a bride/groom" theme someone suggested.
Couldn't agree more. I'd lose my mind if I had a mother-in-law like that. I'd be drawing a heavy line in the sand right after I lost my mind, too...
Honestly when the bride said that her husband to be is a momma's boy I was like ,,oof a momma's boy, no girl drop that and run for the hills" but then, I was proven wrong, he was completely on the side of his bride and even called his mother out on her bs, I feel bad for jumping to a conclusion about him now and I have nothing but mad respect for the groom.
Yeah it's hard to break away from controlling parents. I admire him too.
Glad for her he was not so entangled in the mom's evil web to turn his back on his bride
but got on it right away..best luck to them
I get the feeling he was tough over text but the minute they'd be in person he'd revert to Momma's Boy and try to appease her.
@@Tamara-ju3lh
Indeed, it takes a lot of strength to break away from that
@@felinemoonchild
Yeah the entitledness is through the roof
I love how the bride says it's "our day," not just "MY day." This MIL is absolutely INSANE!!!!!!
I do know people like this who will offer a gift or pay for something only with ulterior motives like this. I think it's horribly ingenuine.
Because it is “our day”!!! Its hubby’s wedding day as much as mine.
Wedding day is the START of life together not the end of freedom. Attitude is a major changer for success or failure.
The “everyone wear a wedding dress” idea for the first time made me realise how I would like my wedding. I would like all the female guests to wear white wedding dresses, and I would be wearing a crimson red wedding dress, obviously standing out against all the white. It would be so beautiful 😍
That is nearly exactly what my friend did, only she (reasonably) did not order people to buy expensive Wedding dresses, but everything white was okay, even white T-Shirts combined with white jeans, it had just to be pure white.
Lol like the lady from the article that's been going around wedding subs for forever
It’s funny how Sue Accused OP for “making her look bad on FB” when she did that all on her own XD
That's how it is with these kinds of people, the blame is always on someone else.
"ThAt'S oUt Of CoNtExT"
not me looking up what op is in this context
You mean THE Facebook hahahaha
Imagine talking to the bride about her own wedding like "You will NOT ruin this for me" 🤦
And calling her all those awful names!! That's what got me the most. I've seen so many entitled people saying "wow you're so selfish, you're going to ruin this for me" etc. etc. But wow, to text her own (soon to be) daughter-in-law and call her those names is beyond appalling to me!!!
This is close to what I will have yo experience just not the name calling
@@danielleking262 My husband and I eloped to Vegas because of our mom's and their fake religious outrage, this year we'll celebrate our 27th anniversary. As far as Mom's saying horrific things. 20 years ago my, then 11 yr old nephew, was spending the weekend with us and we were playing a game. My SIL had called that morning to say that the MIL had called off work because she wasn't feeling well, which was very unusual. I called my MIL to ask her how she was feeling and got my head ripped off for being nosey. Come to find out she actually called off to bail my BIL out of jail. A few hours later she called and asked to talk to me, I told my husband to tell her I was busy with my nephew. She then proceeded to call me horrible names and say that my hooha must be made out of gold because my husband does whatever I tell him to do. Which is SO NOT TRUE! I stopped speaking to her and refused to go visit her with my husband. A couple of months later he came home crying after visiting her upset about the rift. I sent her a card that read that I would never forgive or forget what she said, but for my husband's sake I would be polite. 20 years later and I am still just polite to her.
As a person with a similar mother, I am so glad my husband did not choose to “run far away” because of her. If I kowtowed to her, it would be different, but I don’t and it wouldn’t be right to punish me for her personality.
This tho! Like the son obviously told his mother off, and stood by his fiance. So why ditch him when he is obviously not acting blind and is willing to stand up to his mother? So bc people have shitty parents, they should be punished as well... there's a difference between setting boundaries from toxic parents in law, and ditching you SO bc of them solely... like if he took his mother's side, I'd agree to ditch him - but he didn't, so why leave him? Sure, many stressful holidays, kid-related shit etc etc, but also.. your man is by your side, ready to take on that fight... my dad's mom is a nightmare, and he knows. (Not this type tho, just really... classist and judgmental, traditional... but would never do this tho). So we all unite whenever she tries to oull her shit... don't punish someone for the actions of their parents. It all depends on how they deal with those actions, as they can only control their own responses and not their parents' actions...
I agree, that makes a HUGE difference. I would sit down and have a conversation with the fiance and straight up ask if he's willing to go no contact with the mother. If he is, then okay. Because a hard line, deal breaker for me would be having to deal with that kind of psycho. If he wasn't willing to go no contact, then yeah, I'd run.
I agree 100% with this! As long as they stand up for their partner then they shouldn't be punished for their family being assholes.
Kowtowed??
@@UnicornzRreal92 bow down.. it's a Chinese term 'kowtow' like bowing down to show respect to ur elders .
These stories make me sooooo glad my future mil has ALWAYS treated me like a daughter. Always introduces me that way. Her friends are always extremely kind! I’m could not be luckier!!
This is what you do. Let her wear the dress then “accidentally” spill multiple drinks and food all over the dress before the wedding starts
Better yet..feed the flower girl and little ringbearer LOADS of pizza and Big Red soda and tell them to go bounce on MIL's lap until they barf ALL over her!
I was thinking the same thing. Have a friend "accidentally" spill a glass of red wine at the beginning.
@@sunflowerbaby1853 Not bad, do in conjunction with my idea (see above). Everyone is in white and she is in wet stained white! I swear this could be a rom com! Someone write it, PLEASE!
@@kmar3326 😁
@@kimberlypatton9634 lol
So, the mom forced the reception and then boasts she is paying for more than half… she forced a gift on them. Then says how they are only paying half the wedding??? If there was no big expensive reception, they would prob pay for it all without her. Ugh mind games. Narcissist!
Gets to call herself generous when her real motivations were to have some leverage to make demands, and to humiliate the bride's family as "poor."
That’s exactly why my husband and I eloped 😂 told the family a day after. We had an amazing day , it was our day and drama free 👍🏻
We drove from IL to Vegas to get married. We called our mom's from Nebraska to tell them, my mom cried and his didn't gaf. This year we'll celebrate our 27th anniversary.
If that's how she is about the wedding, imagine how she would be about any kids they had!?! Hard pass. Run. Run far, run fast.
At least found the sound if it, she was pretty old, so the kids thing might've worked out okay.
Why punishing their love? She doesn't deserve that. Ignore her, he allready stands for his loved one.
That would be playing right into MIL's hands. She wants her to leave, so she can keep her son to herself. MIL basically said that!
The MIL is obviously heinous, but seeing her fiance stand his ground, (and stand with his future wife) tells me that he's not a "momma's boy." When you marry a person, you're NOT marrying his family. I wish people would stop saying that. My inlaws have been HORRIBLE from day one. I married him anyway. 19 years ago. They are simply allowed a tiny role in our lives now. Stop telling her to walk away from a great man that has her back 💯 and obviously loves her. He has already chosen HER over his mother.
Let's hope so.
I agree!! If she really is wanting to marry him and he's on her side more than the mother's, then it shows he's got her back and always will and they'll just have to come to an agreement on how to deal with her (whether less contact or less visits or whatever it comes to)
Agree one hundred percent. It’s unfair to nice people with horrible family members to say that.
Yeah, I thought it was unfair that she said that about her fiance. At least on this occasion he sounds like a supportive partner and a great husband material. I hope these two work it out.
24 Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh.
gen 2:24
as he should be doing.
I'd love to see her changing the colors and everyone wears white or wedding dresses except for the bride. :D
Edit: Not my idea, someone already suggested this in the video.
I would definitely do that tbh 😂😂
Yeah, they should all dress in white, wedding or wedding-like dresses and the bride should wear purple or some other color 😂😂😂
that's a cute idea, i imagine something like dark blue would look elegant and bring attention among white clothing wearing crowd.
i would just let her out of the guests lists.. she can come to the wedding, she just couldn't enter the place lol
Agree that's what I thought, bride wears red or multicolor dress and everyone else wears wedding dress and tux.
My wedding took place last week and my mother-in-law did wear WHITE - at least not a real wedding dress but a cocktail one. 😂 I had been trying so hard to avoid this and I was so kind to her by explaining how everyone will be wearing blue, etc... but she insisted and her son (my husband) was okay with that, so I couldn't do anything. The best part is that I didn't even notice her on the day itself. I was so happy and glowing - marrying the love of my life and being surrounded by my family and best friends was so much more important. ❤ If any other future bride is going through this, don't stress too much about it. Whatever your future MIL wears, she couldn't ever ruin this day for you, unless you let her. 🤗
Ordinarily, I'd advise running a mile from this wedding, but I like the husband-to-be. He didn't make any excuses for his mother's behavior and called her on it. Future MIL sounds like a nightmare, anyway, so the couple should go ahead and have exactly the wedding that suits them and if that means minus reception or minus his mother, then so be it. What would they be missing?
Oh my gosh, this mother is horrible... Unfortunately she can easily ruin their marrige with her degree of engagement if her son does not draw a clear border... This is crazy!
It seems he is drawing line here. Good for him.
It was honestly comforting here though that the son knew his fiancé’s worth and wouldn’t let his mother treat her that’s at. In a way, the situation seems a blessing in disguise, both the Mil and son have shown their true colors, one good and one bad.
None of these "cluck cluck" comments on this video from the women here (except of course the two before me!) give this guy any credit for being a normal decent stand up human being taking many immediate supportive actions to protect the feelings and wishes of one woman he loves by hurting another woman he loves because it is the right thing to do. (and the insanity was not hereditary... ).
Yeah he did great, it's totally not an easy situation for any of them but he stood strong and didn't allow the mother to engage into their relationship to that degree...
@@heidikickhouse- I wrote that comment before watching the whole video and it's just a general statement about what unfortunately can happen in such a situation... No blame on him at all. Apart from that as I said I wrote this before I saw his reaction and my comment anyway refers to the behavior of the mother and not his... So I don't really see a problem here. And even tough he stood up this time doesn't also mean he can do it forever if his mother continues to behave that way and the case doesn't settle, which of course I hope will and everybody shall be fine! Btw I saw a lot of positive comments about the groom, so I can't agree with your statement about nobody giving him any credit.
My ex MiL was like this, her son was an only child & spoiled. The wedding was “her” day. When we had children she thought she had more claim to them than my parents as “they had other grandchildren”…not the reason we divorced, but certainly didn’t help!
My mother treated my Dad's funeral as "her day".
I don't have anything to do with her any more.
@@TheSnowdogsShorts funeral??? Oh my god I'm so sorry for you! Sad to say but she's an horrible mother and human, hopefully you're run from her and you're better without her.
Best luck for the next 🤞(for you and the lady in the comment before you)
@@TheSnowdogsShorts exactly this is currently happening in my family. My granddad died recently and my grandma is making the upcoming funeral all about her... The whole family is so pissed off already.
@@TheSnowdogsShorts don’t get me started on funerals! My SiL was a nightmare at my 2nd husbands funeral, I know he was her brother, but jeez she needed all the attention.
@@TheSnowdogsShorts good for you for going no contact ...Never reward
someone like that with your time and energy they suck the life of everyone around.
My mom worked at a bridal shop for about 20 years before I was born and always tells me stories of demanding brides. mothers, etc. I can't get over how many people in this world can't let someone else have their special day lol. She never saw anything quite to this extreme I don't think! I *need* updates on this, girl
Why is no one talking about how that mil lowkey put down the rest of her children? "They'll never get married in my lifetime"? Like dayum woman
that's what i was thinking i was like they're either really young or she just roasted tf outta them
@@mollykaye8949 What's interesting about the scenario that they might be really young is ... if she already "knows" that she'll die in the next 10 or 20 years and her other children are still young, that would mean she had them when she was around 60 ish. Or maybe 50 ish if she doesn't expect them to marry before the age of 30.
@@mollykaye8949 she could also have an illness, or her other kids are against marriage for some reason, or they’re just serial dating and she doesn’t see them settling down anytime soon… Many possible reasons, but yeah, my first assumption was that she had the other children when she was older.
Respect to the bride.. staying respectful after how her mother in law treated her.. i would have lost my sh*t honestly
In truth, I agree. And bless her fiancé. He sounds like a stand up guy.
"Husband son"
When the mom psychologically makes her son her husband.
Glad my husband has relatively healthy relationships with his parents.
well they say that a woman raises her son to be the type of man she'd want to marry. Some just take it waaay too far.
AKA emotional incest. It’s so scary how common it is for mothers to do this 🙃🙃🙃
@@myacct8304 well it's possible to do it in a healthy manner - it's not always something gross. (Raise a boy, not emotional incest obviously haha.) I have a great (close) relationship with my 36y/o son, I raised him basically alone and worked hard to instill certain values that I thought were important, so I get the sentiment about raising a man with values you value. But I clearly understand boundaries and healthy relationships. I adore his wife and luckily she adores me too. But I get your point, I do know several mothers whose relationships with their adult boys are IMO, somewhat problematic.
I'm so happy that my bfs mom just doesn't care about us enough to do that kind of shit, btw she's usually not friendly, but she likes me a lot and I reciprocate, not so sure about my mother tho... She's able to pull up shit like that
@@MotherMantiss oh! My original comment was actually directed at the OP, but you're completely right! There are healthy ways for women to raise boys :)
I have to say that I can't even fathom what she's dealing with, because I had the dearest, sweetest, and most loving mother-in-law anyone could ask for!
"Make everyone wear a wedding dress" .. me over here actually planning my future wedding! letting everybody turn up in white and have a black wedding dress of my own. HA!
Ok, hear me out: My eldest son is getting married in October. I told my soon to be DIL and her family that I might show up in an inflatable T-Rex costume. They laughed, but mention it any time wedding details are brought up. I might just have to buy an inflatable T-Rex costume, and I’m not mad about it. 😂
Lmao it's epic ! 😂
Now you have to do it lol
Soooo... did you do it?😃
did ya do it????
Honestly I wouldn't even be mad if someone did that if I get married one day xD
Did u do it???
They're not even legally married yet and the mother in law is already being annoying. Imagine the next few years... Yikes.
Decades?!
Time to go no contact.
My ex MIL was something as well. I was married for 20 years. I got P.A.’d and when I called his mom for help, she said “what did you do?” Shes one of those you just have to hope she does better the next time around.
Imagine when kids come along! Yikes.
Mine started the moment she met me. Good thing I love her son is all I can say.
My father's parents were an awful lot like the people in this video. My grandma tried to invite all of her friends to what was basically the German version of a Bachelorette/Bachelor pre-wedding party, as well as the wedding reception itself. She also DISINVITED people my mother actually wanted there (in my mom's name, of course), tried to control every aspect of place, decor and whatnot, and made my parents miss their own wedding reception because she took literal hours taking pictures of them. The pictures are pretty funny, btw, at first it was this beautiful couple happy and in love, and after then it slowly turns to them glaring at the photographer - in about a hundred or so pictures included in her final album. As soon as my brother and I entered the picture, she completely lost it. It was always HER grandkids, that needed to see HER friends, (without the parents being involved). After a completely traumatic and almost lethal birth for both mother and child, her first comment to my mother was that she should better not let that be an excuse for not having a second baby. She also disinvited her own mother to the baptism and told her it was my parents' choice to not have her there. Needless to say, my parents broke off contact to them on multiple occasions.
Okay I just have to say the bride handled this situation AMAZINGLY!! Like I am so shocked that she was able to so calmly and articulately message the mom. The messages she sent to the mom were completely reasonable and she worded everything so kindly. She literally did a phenomenal job dealing with this crazy ass woman . And I’m so glad her fiancé stuck up to his mother to support her. I’m sure they will make a beautiful couple.
I really hope later on you can do a follow up on this story.... I'm emotionally invested in this now.
Yes, YES, YES PLEASE!
I knoooooooow
Right?! I so want to know!!
I love the idea of All Guests wear a wedding dress. LOL Everyone can go to second hand stores - the gaudier the better. LOVE IT!
So glad you can visualize my screenplay!
I have two sons and I can't think of any reason that would compel me to want to wear my wedding dress to their future weddings (if they decide to get married).
I just happen to be watching this right after their planned date and really need to know what happened. Waiting for this MIL to show up again
She's the type of MIL that would find where your secret event is being held AND STILL SHOW UP IN THAT DRESS
She'd be kicked out
What is the deal with MILs wanting to relive their own weddings? Like was that the only good day of their life before or since? That's horribly sadm
Especially when there are so many gorgeous mother of the groom outfits out there!
It probably sucked and they're trying to get the one they really wanted bc their own mom was overbearing for theirs 😂
the generational trauma is real
My MIL told me that her MIL dominated what she could and couldn't do in her wedding, so she could vicariously have her dream wedding, so now it was her turn to have what she wanted in a wedding at mine.
Never occurred to her the upset she felt makes this wrong, "it's just the way it works"
“Oops!”
Spills a mega pint of red wine down momma’s white wedding gown.
Finally! A Momma's boy who stood up to his mother and defended his fiance!
"How could you make me look so BAD?"
By accurately quoting you...
Awesome comeback!
ugh, the immense relief i felt upon seeing the fiancee's response... so many women engaged to these men who show their inability to have their partner's back vs their parents... that shit ain't gonna changed after you're married.
Lol, I feel the sincerity in her voice when hawking Raid.
Love that the son stood up for his bride to be.
Ok this one is MESSED UP guys.
Way too messed up 💀
And we're so here for it
And we will always laugh at it
On this dreadful day 20 years ago thousands of lives were lost to a tragic attack, it affected the entire world. People who weren't even born before September 11th 2001 know the tragedy and how many lives were lost. I think today we should take a step back and be thankful for life and remember those innocent souls that went to work, not knowing that would be their final commute to work, and for some seeing their spouses and children for the final time before losing their life to some evil, demonic, beings. #20yearslater #20yearanniversary #20yearsago
(Love you charlotte :D)
the guy stood up to his mom and set a boundary, hopefully he kept to it and blocked his delusional mother from the wedding.
And if it means he loses a big inheritance or something (assuming she's as wealthy as she seems), I'd far rather have less money and a loving supportive spouse. Those are precious rarities.
They’re getting married in 2022. It hasn’t happened yet
Oh yeah, once you do the all white wedding after the real one - move, move far away. Don’t tell her where you moved.
I think the Best Man's main job should be running interference for them to keep the old bat out of the way. She starts getting loud, escort her out. She fights, get her arrested and hauled away. Horrible woman.
Now I want to go to an all wedding dress wedding! It sounds fun! ✨
Props to the first guy. I thought he would stand up for his mom since he was a mamas boy. Good for him! I also like how they tried to scribble out the brides name(Melissa)😂
That's a great response from fiance though. EVERY happy marriage has to decide on a few things, and how to deal with the crazy people in a family is one of those things. Being united together about it is the most important.
Oh my God, everyone wear a wedding dress that is so fun 🤩 I would absolutely love that!
The attitude of the fiancé and the girl is just so admirable I can't even! ❤ Love them! I literally fist pumped the air at his response!
The obsession family has over weddings that ain’t theirs is the reason I will never host a wedding if my partner and I happen to decide to get married .
I'd RUN for the hills, no matter how much I love the guy.
@@winniethepooht5776 Exactly what I told myself 20 yrs ago, endured her shit for 12 yrs before realizing I have to get myself (and him) out of that situation. Turns out he was so used to it, he couldn't make a move, I couldn't not make one, so I left breaking my own and his heart. The bitch is still alive and well, but so am I.
@@winniethepooht5776 Actually she is marry her and is setting herself up for a lifetime of drama and pain.
Just some friendly advice. Never date or marry a mamma's boy. That never ends well. She will control everything in your life starting from the outfits you wear to your kids names. Trust me.
I was with one. We never got married 👏🏾❤️ his mom and sister are terrible people
That’s not true. My oldest is a total mama’s boy. His was with his gf for 6 years and I loved her like the daughter I never had. I’ll admit I didn’t like her in the beginning but she loved my son and that’s all I cared about. PS she used to tell him “you can’t even pick out a shirt w/o your mom” lol
I feel that. Walked on them spooning on the couch.
YES SO TRUE!! Never EVER marry a controlling mama's boy!!!
My husband is a momma and nanny's (grandma) boy, he isn't like this, and while my mil is difficult and pessimistic, she'd be the first to smack him if he ever disrespected me as his wife, his grandma is a total gem and I love her, I love them both, but his mom is just hard to like, she's a Debbie downer and an Eeyore lol
I appreciate the nod to Greek theatre. As someone who’s resume consists of roles in plays written by Greek dudes it made me very happy.
She needs to recruit one of the bridesmaids to “accidentally” spill red wine all over the mil just before the wedding starts 🥰✨
Show me your parent hasn't worked through their trauma, without showing me your parent hasn't worked through their trauma...
The main problem with the wedding is that Mother can threaten to back out of paying at any time up until the wedding. OP and fiancé should scale things way back to what they (and bride’s family) can afford, then they can tell Mother to go chase herself if she’s going to act up.
I also love the all-the-wedding dresses idea! It would really be fun to see the decades represented that way as this couple begins their story together.
See my screen play all through this comment section. Really, someone please write this f**ker!! I don’t have much money, but I will back it!!!
I would agree with this advice but one hitch: my dad bragged/complained about paying for my wedding (also a narcissist) to anyone who would listen and he DIDNT SPEND A SINGLE PENNY. He literally only contributed some invitations he found in a storage unit he cleaned out (found that out after the fact) and proceeded to take home what was left of my cake and some dishes of leftovers deliberately saved by my caterer so I wouldn’t have to cook when I returned from my honeymoon. So whether or not they ACTUALLY pay won’t stop them from being a total nightmare… actual leverage just is convenient 🤣💁🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Agreed !
Have the Bridesmaids buy a goodwill wedding dress and all wear it to the reception that would be hilarious.
My grandfather and grandmother did crap like this all the time to my mother....it destroyed their marriage, caused so much personal pain to my sister and I, and continued to cause hell for my father until finally both of them died. I've never seen so many happy people at a funeral before....and to this day, no one has anything nice to say about either one of them. If I were that woman, I'd call off the engagement and the relationship, nothing is worth this hell. Nothing. My aunt is still married, but they moved to the other side of the country, and even then my cousins and uncle were still damaged and their marriage almost ended. It's not worth it, and there is no "avoiding it" unless maybe you move to another country and cut ties completely.
The more I watch this channel the more I love my mother in law. I have the world’s best in-laws and I know my wife would feel the same if my parents were still alive.
Happy for you! Treasure that and let them know it as much as you can while you still can. 😊
My husband married into this kind of family and 12 years later I am so happy he did! He still thinks I am worth all of the garbage they throw at him and working on building our lives together amidst the adversity has made us rock solid. Perfect timing this video came the day before my anniversary. (Even he is surprised neither of our mothers tried this😂)
This, of course is how the the movie ends.
Actually, everyone wearing a wedding dress would be amazing. I've said to my stb mother in law before that it'd be super fun that once most of my friends are married, to go out dancing in our dresses with our hubbies in tuxes and get a limo and just... it'd be fun! Can you imagine being a random person at a venue and all these women walk in wearing wedding dresses? lol
I just read an article on this story because coming back to old videos I was curious to what happened and if the bride went through with the wedding.
Apparently this bride got dumped a DAY AFTER their wedding. Because the jealous MIL made her son choose between his bride or his mother. And he chose his mother. It shocked me.
I hope so much better for this bride. Nobody deserves this from their in laws no less their spouses.
Yasss for the hubby standing up for his soon to be wife ! XoxoX not to mention bride to be stayed extremely calm and collected while MIL was being extremely rude to her!
Imagine the children they might have? "But it's MY son's kids, therefore...." yikes.
i am APPALLED!!! I would straight up uninvite her and have security outside so she cant get in. Also, how rude that she doesnt believe her other kids will get married omg!
CHARLOTTE!!!!!(in your accent) you're reactions are the ones I truly look forward to and skank, (btw I'm doing laundry and listening) is where I dropped my laundry basket to see your face and fall dead on the floor!!! Just stop it so I could go through a SINGLE video without dying!!!! 😂
After binging HOURS of Char's content my only wish is to erase my memory of what I've seen and rewatch it again
Same. I’m almost out of videos 😭
Me too. I binged over the last 3 weeks and now I wait for my daily dose. Sigh. This one was so short...but wildly scary.
😂😂😂😂
I binged as well. I think I'm addicted! So glad I found this channel. It makes my day every day! Love it and all the voices and faces.
I binged all her videos in one day a few months ago, and was sad I no more to watch. 😂
You say to her: «Sue, wow, your dress is amazing, I would be honoured to wear it on our wedding day, the day I will marry your darling son Mark. If she accepts, you take and keep her dress ... meanwhile, you’re going to buy yourself the wedding dress of your dreams. And on the wedding day, you wear your wonderful dress and you are assured that she will not arrive wearing her own because you have hidden it, in a wardrobe somewhere.»😏
This is my pick! Perfect!
That is the dictionary definition of fighting words, that classist abusive tirade that FMIL sent to that poor bride. Love that burn her son gave!
Oh man I was worried Mark would be on his mother’s side thank god he knew the truth!
I'd get everyone to wear a wedding dress, not tell her, and I'd wear like a red
/Black dress to still stand out 🤣🤣
I thought this too. Have a small “real” wedding the week before with the wedding party, (in their gowns and tuxes) your close family and friends. And the best party or just a great restaurant or home cooked meal (probably better food and more fun) you can afford. You might think that this is the BEST WEDDING DAY ever - you have the people who really love you and an intimate memory, BUT NO, THE BEST IS YET TO COME! The day of the wedding, make sure everyone you can trust is wearing an old wedding gown or white dress or suit (extra points for any man willing to go to Goodwill for a wedding gown or white dress to wear). With luck the officiant (who actually married you the week before) is a woman in on the joke and she too is in her wedding dress. All your wedding party is in white and you wear a fabulous gown in any other color. I really like the idea of fairy princess with flowers all over and maybe really sweet wings and a gold crown. I want pictures!
@@kmar3326 yessssss!!! This all this!! It would be perfect! The look on her face would be priceless, I would get a photographer dedicated to capturing her every move on the day so I didn't miss a thing 🤣
My heart goes out to this woman. I can def sympathize with her. My MiL didn’t try to sabotage our wedding , but threw a mini tantrum when she wasn’t the first one to see our daughter literally 5 minutes after she was BORN, and she got mad at our daughter (who was 8 months old at the time) when she was cooing at my sister-in-law’s wedding!
I laugh out loud when u say ,"bad word for female dog." xD
MY GODS!! This makes me appreciate my partners mum sooooo much. In the past my ex's families have been absolutely horrible and one was so nasty to me i nearly had a breakdown completely. My partner now though, his mum is the most lovely, accepting and kind hearted woman i've ever met. I'm a lot to deal with because I am disabled and suffer from mental illness, that to an outsider may look as though i'm very rude (not attending events or visiting and spending a lot of time actually in bed sick) but she is so understanding and accepting and shows me nothing but love, his whole family does in fact. I actually can't wait to be their daughter in law.
At least this time the son/fiancé is on his future bride’s side and not his mother’s - which is awesome but extremely rare (usually _mama’s boy_ sons try to justify their mother’s BS).
Personally I’d recommend the future bride to run away faster than light (because if her fiancé’s mother behaves like that when the marriage is over an year away, once they’re married she’s gonna be literally hell on earth), but at the very least they should not invite the bi*ch and leave her out of the wedding if she doesn’t pick another dress.
It doesn't always stay like that though. Soon as the faintest crack appears in the marriage. And they do in every marriage. Monster in law swoops in. Takes a pic axe to those cracks
Seeing as the mother thinks it's the only wedding of one of her children she will see in her lifetime, she better behave herself or she will not experience any of them.
@@adamkay8507 Considering how the son yelled at his mother, I couldn’t disagree more either.
@@k.stewart007 But in those cases the first crack is usually the son agreeing with his mother - and what happens here is the opposite.
@@LucienSabre for now yes. But there will come a time when wife and hubby have a disagreement. Mummy will probably feel like she has to be involved and inject her poison when hubby is most vulnerable and already a little upset with wifey. A few years of chipping away highlighting and twisting every mistake wife makes while ignoring all his flaws.
One more reason why I prefer courthouse weddings. Lol.
We did both - courthouse elopement, then a small church wedding for the families. I once threatened to have 2 more ceremonies of some sort so I could have an anniversary every quarter, but it was too much effort. :)
I loove the idea of secretly telling everyone except the MIL that the dress code is now a brides dress bonanza. The MIL would be fuming. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
That's the bad thing about accepting money from people, they feel entitled to treat you like their own you
If they don’t already have kids just imagine how she would be when they do! She’d either treat those kids like crap or act like they were actually hers! 😳🙄😂😂
Experience speaking: both options. Depending on her mood in that moment 🙄 why my in laws haven't seen our Child in over a year? I Wonder... 😂🤷♀️
So impressed with how supportive the fiancé was and how civilized the bride-to-be’s responses were. Just let Sue wear the dress and look like an idiot (and lessen future credibility), everyone in white but bride, or elope. Some people love their drama!
You’ve seen my screenplay! I’ll sue!
I am impressed her fiancé stood up for her that well, with how it was starting it sounded like he was going to be non confrontational but he put his foot down on the abuse. Hope this story has a happy ending!
I've heard of a similar story where the Mil insisted on wearing a white wedding dress to her son's wedding, so, the bride asked her brides maids to wear white dresses while she chose a pink wedding dress for herself which made her stand out from the bridal party.
I feel like I would uninvite any family member who tried this...it's the couple's day and there are certain things that need to be respected. Proud of the future hubs though for standing up to his mom. I LOVE these wedding videos lol...so much tasty drama...it's totally crah crah.
Something tells me the mother would do everything she can to crash that wedding anyway. They better have it inside where someone can guard all the doors, smh
Charlotte matches her flamingo she is now a potato flamingo 🦩
A FLATATO
For some reason my brain switched that around as flaming potato 😂😂😂😂
@@datgaydangernoodle1315 Or a poflato :P
Potingo
Pomingo !
I’ve been binge watching your videos for weeks now. I wish they were longer, i love them so much. The laughing and eye rolling is endless❤😂
Love the idea of everyone wearing a wedding dress! But me being me, I'd end up wearing slippers and a bath robe!
This makes me so grateful for my future MIL who I know will only quietly offer help and support all our wedding choices next year. She's a star ⭐
@@kendallcaminiti-hess2243 We're lucky!
I found the PERFECT dress to go to a wedding as a guest. The only color left in my size was an IVORY color that looked straight up white. I thought… I’ll dye it! I almost bought it to dye it. The wedding ended up being canceled due to Covid. They went to the courthouse and will have a reception later. But no way in hell was I wearing a white-ish dress.
To the bride: RUN!!!!