"Stained glass windows in my mind" packs a lot of meaning into a single line: -that stuff about how John Mayer used to live in an abandoned church when he dated her -Stained glass windows are broken but beautiful. They're not solid glass. They'll never be whole again. That doesn't devalue them--in fact, that's the appeal of them. But maybe to some it's a shame that the glass had to be broken and stained at all. -Stained glass windows tend to show pictures, often of Bible stories or Biblical figures in churches. I picture this line as the stained glass windows in Taylor's mind depicting memories of her relationship. They hold her memories. They feel as Significant(TM) and Impactful(TM) as Bible stories. -bolsters the religious/faith theme throughout the song because I associate stained glass windows with churches -stained glass = colors = light gets colored as it shines through the window = nothing is lit "properly," but is colored by the pictures; if they're pictures of the memories, then the memories are coloring her mind (emotional state? outlook? decision-making? personality? values?)
I think the biggest distinction to be made between a Swiftie and the type of fan of Taylor Swift that you are, Jason, is the sense of ownership. Swifties tend to do a lot more projection and have a lot more expectations about Swift. The people who treat Taylor less like a favorite artist and more like a long distance best friend, that's the Swiftie. Her music is great, her public persona is really exceptional, her performances are top notch, and I think her devotion to the fans is admirable. But that doesn't make her anyone's friend or confidante.
I agree with everything you said about some Swifties, but I have been a Swiftie for 17 years and have many family and friends who are also Swifties but we do not judge Taylor's dating or personal life. We care for her deeply and want her to be happy but we don't write ugly comments about her or do tik toks about her being so horrible for dating a certain someone. We believe in her and trust that she knows what's right for herself, it's none of her fan's business. But we are definitely Swifties. We listen to her every day, go to every concert, and her music means everything to us. The fans you're talking about are not well. They think Taylor belongs to them and she has to run her life a certain way or they act like children complaining and threatening to stop listening to her. We need a new name for them and it wouldn't be flattering! I understand what your saying though but please know that all Swifties are not alike, I think the majority of us know to not cross certain lines when it comes to celebrities, entertainers, singers, etc.
I saw this thing in response to the bridge of you're losing me and it said : "Can Joe fight? Turns out he doesn't want to." I swear that shit hit so hard I was about to cry also the "Do something babe say something, lose something babe risk something." lyric reminds me of the "Fight with me, fight for me." scene from Queen Charlotte (if you haven't watched it do, its really good).
1. Nice hairstyle, you look good!! 2. Thanks for this small deep dive of great sad songs 🥲 3. Taylor announced she's coming to Mexico for the first time 🥳 ahhh!!! 4. See you on the next video for you favorite album ❤
Hair looks great! In my opinion.You're Losing Me is a top TS song from her whole catalogue. I'm glad you could join us in hearing it for the first time. You're now current in the fandom and experiencing Taylor in real time. More good times ahead for you as Speak Now Taylor's Version drops in a month.
your losing me feels like a grownup version of the way i loved you to me. instead of focusing on what used to be and how you miss it, you focus on how your falling out of love and how ur just not right for each other anymore. also any chance of going to the taylor concert? or is that a dream long gone rn
Love the haircut! I just loved watching your journey discovering taylor and appreciating her for what she is: a great lyricist and overall artist. But thank you for not having any judgement
But as a side note give me back my girlhood lyrics might be something women can relate to but it not only refers to virginity but also innocence and things that come with it. Unfortunately a lot of us have been used by an older man and more than one thing was stolen from us. I think that's why it hits so much
For YOYOK in the chorus she was saying "I searched the party of better bodies" and in the bridge she was "hosting parties" and "starving her body". It's like she got what she wanted in both her career and I suppose the body she wanted but at what cost?
I hard core relate to would’ve could’ve should’ve bc I dated someone older. I feel like it’s really deeper than how you interpreted. Maybe you just need to experience it to truly understand it?? But I literally sob whenever that song plays especially the bridge. “I fight with you in my sleep” literally waking up crying from nightmares of them. “If clarity’s in death then why won’t this die” literally not being able to let it go no matter how much time passes because it killed me. “Give me back my girlhood it was mine first” dating an older man as a young girl really screws you up. They completely ruin your innocence and perception of love. Like taylor and other girls that age should’ve NEVER gone through that trauma and emotional manipulation 😭😭 anyways that’s my interpretation of the song.
'stained glass windows in my mind' in wcs is also a reference to john mayers old apartment when he was dating taylor, which was like a renovated church that had stained glass windows
Dude I love these videos, these have kept me entertained for so long and after her album breakdowns are done I hope you continue making taylor swift videos!
gotta love your videos, you’re so funny ! (my heartbreak story in taylor songs: treacherous,illicit affairs, august & mr perfectly fine, you’re welcome) btw how’s the search for tickets going ? you HAVE to see her
As your fan ever since your first TS video (I even watched the non-related TS videos), I have to say, what a glow up! Nice hairstyle lol I can feel that my favorite album of all time, the album that even TS said was her baby, is coming next week!! Is it? Hahaha
these 3 songs you picked for this writer's workshop damn..,, what a painful trio wth bar after bar for real also btw sheeeeeeeeeesh the new look is fire 🔥
loved the vid, as per usual! hearing you’re losing me for the first time felt like i was being stabbed over and over. even her simple song writing packs a punch, like the “say something babe, risk something” all those. they’re so simple but also so like wow. cant wait for more content!
yes i very much enjoyed watching you die thank you very much actually i dont have much to say cause i basically agreed with everything you said here, i have very similar reactions to taylors lyrics. after hearing "youre losing me" for the first time i.. had an internal breakdown and listened to it 13 more times staring at the wall. so yeah. im absolutely fine with them breaking up btw. absolutely. also i still think youre a swiftie and your arguments havent changed my mind im sorry lmaoo but i just dont think its a matter of being a swiftie, just a different type of person *shrugs* i would tell you my heartbreak stories but i would have to write an essay and well nobody wants to read that, lets just say i used to relate a lot to all too well and this is me trying at the same time
The "stained glass windows in my mind" line can be Interpreted in a lot of ways. I kind of see it as she is looking back on the relationship and remembering what happened. A stained glass window is made up of a bunch of broken pieces and put back together to make something beautiful. Taylor had to put back together her broken heart to see clearly and realize what lessons it had taught her. I also should note that john mayor was living in an old church when they were dating.
I feel like we are kindreds decades removed. I, too, not a Swiftie but have to admire her genius. Good haircut 👍. Have to check out “your losing me” now. Another great segment. PS. Just listened… Damn 😢
I enjoyed tho your feelings about the lyrics. don't be too hard on yourself! I love your vids!!! Nice haircut too btwwww The first time I watched you, you had like 800 subscribers i thinkkk...??? and you had 1 video for Tswift and wow you really know so much about her now lololol WHICH I LOVE AND RESPECT.
you’re losing me is the most depressing stuff ever bro. I was surprised to see that you made a whole video of the three writers workshops tho u were just really tryna torture yourself with that trio of songs man. excited for red episode! hope you get to go to the eras tour!
Sometimes she would say “her” instead of “me” like in the bridge “who only wanted you to see her” like she’s referring to a different personality. Kinda referencing mirrorball saying that she has a different personality for each person. Idk this is only a theory but who knows 🤷♀️
“The jokes weren’t funny; I took the money” I feel like this refers to the publicity: talk shows, award shows, radio interviews. “Saved me from boredom” is not that she dated him ONLY bc she was bored. He had an interview where he mentioned she was on set drawing or something and she seemed so young. Ewwww
yeah it's never great to be on opposite side of the break up too its sad man it felt too personal like a page in her notebook but yeah ig all of us were wondering how it ended so she gave us this absolute heart break of a song
the"we loved this room because of the light" line might refer to Cornelia Street and like her house there cause there was a room with a huge stained glass window as a wall letting in all the light. and also joe and taylor loved sad songs referring to the "how long can we be a sad song" line. she's sick for making this song
Losing her girlhood in Would've Could've Should've means losing her virginity to him or losing her innocence. That line affects women in a significant way when they hear it! There are even videos showing reactions from women when they hear that line! It's an amazingly well-written and performed song.
“we look at all too well, we look at… her other songs”
ah yes, he knows what he’s talking about
yes i do :)
This is proof everyone can be made a swiftie in less than a year. Btw I just- you’re losing me made me an ocean of tears 😭😭
it's so sadddddd
The album really went from all they keep askin' me is if I'm gonna be your bride to and i wouldnt marry me either a pathological people pleaser 😭
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Now that Paper rings line hits different 😢
@@milevkit hits diffrent
"Stained glass windows in my mind" packs a lot of meaning into a single line:
-that stuff about how John Mayer used to live in an abandoned church when he dated her
-Stained glass windows are broken but beautiful. They're not solid glass. They'll never be whole again. That doesn't devalue them--in fact, that's the appeal of them. But maybe to some it's a shame that the glass had to be broken and stained at all.
-Stained glass windows tend to show pictures, often of Bible stories or Biblical figures in churches. I picture this line as the stained glass windows in Taylor's mind depicting memories of her relationship. They hold her memories. They feel as Significant(TM) and Impactful(TM) as Bible stories.
-bolsters the religious/faith theme throughout the song because I associate stained glass windows with churches
-stained glass = colors = light gets colored as it shines through the window = nothing is lit "properly," but is colored by the pictures; if they're pictures of the memories, then the memories are coloring her mind (emotional state? outlook? decision-making? personality? values?)
I think the biggest distinction to be made between a Swiftie and the type of fan of Taylor Swift that you are, Jason, is the sense of ownership. Swifties tend to do a lot more projection and have a lot more expectations about Swift. The people who treat Taylor less like a favorite artist and more like a long distance best friend, that's the Swiftie. Her music is great, her public persona is really exceptional, her performances are top notch, and I think her devotion to the fans is admirable. But that doesn't make her anyone's friend or confidante.
I agree with everything you said about some Swifties, but I have been a Swiftie for 17 years and have many family and friends who are also Swifties but we do not judge Taylor's dating or personal life. We care for her deeply and want her to be happy but we don't write ugly comments about her or do tik toks about her being so horrible for dating a certain someone. We believe in her and trust that she knows what's right for herself, it's none of her fan's business. But we are definitely Swifties. We listen to her every day, go to every concert, and her music means everything to us. The fans you're talking about are not well. They think Taylor belongs to them and she has to run her life a certain way or they act like children complaining and threatening to stop listening to her. We need a new name for them and it wouldn't be flattering! I understand what your saying though but please know that all Swifties are not alike, I think the majority of us know to not cross certain lines when it comes to celebrities, entertainers, singers, etc.
i get tht lol
THE I WOULDENT MARRY ME EITHER LINE BROKE ME
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I saw this thing in response to the bridge of you're losing me and it said : "Can Joe fight? Turns out he doesn't want to." I swear that shit hit so hard I was about to cry also the "Do something babe say something, lose something babe risk something." lyric reminds me of the "Fight with me, fight for me." scene from Queen Charlotte (if you haven't watched it do, its really good).
damnnn 😭 thanks for the rec
I feel like she didn’t put You’re Losing Me on the album’s track 5 because it would’ve probably given us mass depression 🥲
makes sense lol
Taylor swift queen
Real
this taylor swift series is the best
glad u like it :)))
1. Nice hairstyle, you look good!!
2. Thanks for this small deep dive of great sad songs 🥲
3. Taylor announced she's coming to Mexico for the first time 🥳 ahhh!!!
4. See you on the next video for you favorite album ❤
1. thank u :)
2. ur very welcome
3. i saw w sabrina!! thts dope
4. see u next week :)
Hair looks great!
In my opinion.You're Losing Me is a top TS song from her whole catalogue. I'm glad you could join us in hearing it for the first time. You're now current in the fandom and experiencing Taylor in real time. More good times ahead for you as Speak Now Taylor's Version drops in a month.
thank u :) and yeahhh im caught up :)
Haha the difference in expression between before and after listening to you’re losing me. Also love the new hair cut. Great vid once again :)
it destroyed me man and thank u :)
I'll never get tired of this series, I love seeing your music breakdowns. I see taylor next week and I'm so excited!
thank u! and congrats hope u enjoy :)))
your losing me feels like a grownup version of the way i loved you to me. instead of focusing on what used to be and how you miss it, you focus on how your falling out of love and how ur just not right for each other anymore.
also any chance of going to the taylor concert? or is that a dream long gone rn
i can see that. and unfortunately it's not looking great lol but i'll talk more about it in next weeks vid
Can’t wait for your lyric breakdown. Love your work ❤
thank u :))
Love the haircut! I just loved watching your journey discovering taylor and appreciating her for what she is: a great lyricist and overall artist. But thank you for not having any judgement
But as a side note give me back my girlhood lyrics might be something women can relate to but it not only refers to virginity but also innocence and things that come with it. Unfortunately a lot of us have been used by an older man and more than one thing was stolen from us. I think that's why it hits so much
totally makes sense and i'm glad u enjoyed!
For YOYOK in the chorus she was saying "I searched the party of better bodies" and in the bridge she was "hosting parties" and "starving her body".
It's like she got what she wanted in both her career and I suppose the body she wanted but at what cost?
damnnn
I hard core relate to would’ve could’ve should’ve bc I dated someone older. I feel like it’s really deeper than how you interpreted. Maybe you just need to experience it to truly understand it?? But I literally sob whenever that song plays especially the bridge. “I fight with you in my sleep” literally waking up crying from nightmares of them. “If clarity’s in death then why won’t this die” literally not being able to let it go no matter how much time passes because it killed me. “Give me back my girlhood it was mine first” dating an older man as a young girl really screws you up. They completely ruin your innocence and perception of love. Like taylor and other girls that age should’ve NEVER gone through that trauma and emotional manipulation 😭😭 anyways that’s my interpretation of the song.
yea i totally get tht! i think in my vid i was just chilling too much to get really deep into it but ur totally right
I am so pumped for the red video that is the best T Swift album and no one can convince me otherwise and I am so excited to fangirl together 😂
couldn't agree more
While I'm not the type of person that cries over music, you're losing me definitely made me sad.
same :(
'stained glass windows in my mind' in wcs is also a reference to john mayers old apartment when he was dating taylor, which was like a renovated church that had stained glass windows
woahhh lol
Dude I love these videos, these have kept me entertained for so long and after her album breakdowns are done I hope you continue making taylor swift videos!
no more weekly taylor vids after the series is over but let's be real im prob never gonna stop lol
gotta love your videos, you’re so funny ! (my heartbreak story in taylor songs: treacherous,illicit affairs, august & mr perfectly fine, you’re welcome) btw how’s the search for tickets going ? you HAVE to see her
As your fan ever since your first TS video (I even watched the non-related TS videos), I have to say, what a glow up! Nice hairstyle lol
I can feel that my favorite album of all time, the album that even TS said was her baby, is coming next week!! Is it? Hahaha
thank u thank u and if that album is red then yes :)
a whole video on my fave part of the era's saga, J'ADORE!!!!!!
lmaoo
these 3 songs you picked for this writer's workshop damn..,, what a painful trio wth bar after bar for real
also btw
sheeeeeeeeeesh the new look is fire 🔥
haha thank u and yea i was rlly just tryna torture myself wasn't i
loved the vid, as per usual!
hearing you’re losing me for the first time felt like i was being stabbed over and over. even her simple song writing packs a punch, like the “say something babe, risk something” all those. they’re so simple but also so like wow.
cant wait for more content!
totally agree lol and glad u liked it
okaaaayyy king love the haircut!! anyways i've been obsessed with you're losing me.. can't believe she would keep that masterpiece off streaming
frrr it's actually a travesty that it's not on spotify
yes i very much enjoyed watching you die thank you very much
actually i dont have much to say cause i basically agreed with everything you said here, i have very similar reactions to taylors lyrics. after hearing "youre losing me" for the first time i.. had an internal breakdown and listened to it 13 more times staring at the wall. so yeah. im absolutely fine with them breaking up btw. absolutely.
also i still think youre a swiftie and your arguments havent changed my mind im sorry lmaoo but i just dont think its a matter of being a swiftie, just a different type of person *shrugs*
i would tell you my heartbreak stories but i would have to write an essay and well nobody wants to read that, lets just say i used to relate a lot to all too well and this is me trying at the same time
(......the moral from this comment is never believe me when i say i dont have much to say)
lol u have a fair point ig being a swiftie is just liking her stuff and thank u!!!
God i love lyric analysis.
(Another great vid dude
glad u enjoyed!!
I would love a deeper dive but this was fun too hahaha also I heard the ending and I’m excited!
yea i honestly just wanted to make a more chill video before next weeks lol
The "stained glass windows in my mind" line can be Interpreted in a lot of ways. I kind of see it as she is looking back on the relationship and remembering what happened. A stained glass window is made up of a bunch of broken pieces and put back together to make something beautiful. Taylor had to put back together her broken heart to see clearly and realize what lessons it had taught her. I also should note that john mayor was living in an old church when they were dating.
I DONT KNOW WHAT IM GOING TO DO WHEN YOUR TAYLOR VIDEOS ARE OVER. THEY ARE KEEPING ME ALIVE.
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I love your videos, there always so light hearted and a fun time.
thank u i'm glad u like them :)
I think Taylor owns the writers workshop at this point.
frrr
your new cut is good. it somehow makes you look younger and older at the same time. just like a Taylor swift song.
wow ty lol
your hair looks so much better omg
lmao tyy
I'm a full blown swiftie but I also love John Mayer.. he's an AMAZING guitarist and slow dancing in a burning room is a masterpiece ❤
ikr he's so good lol
Nice lyrics? No you mean heart destroying, beautiful and genius lyrics
lmao
COMMENTING AGAIN CUZ I HOPE U GO TO THE ERAS TOURRRR
ooooo red is next week slay
thank u!!
YES A WRITER'S WORKSHOP! also i at the start i was like "who the fuck is that" but nice hair lol
and yes, i'm still sobbing from you're losing me 😭
lmao frrr it's so sad
YESSS YOU’RE LOSING ME REACTIONNNNNNN
So glad you loved it i literally had to pause it every line
it just keeps hitting 😪
"stop milking taylor swift for content" NONO KEEP POSTING TAYLOR-
lmao let's be real i'll probably never stop
@@jasonpaulkim btw which album is next 👿👿
When is the Conan Gray video coming out I’m ready for it 🤩🤩
soon enough lol
0:43 what do you mean you have 1 album left? What about Red, Fearless and Debut?
only doing one more unfortunately :(
@@jasonpaulkim ohhh ok, I was confused. I’m assuming you’re doing Red lol.
Btw have you listened to Non-Album Taylor songs? Crazier, Safe and Sound, Beautiful Ghost, Renegade, Beautiful Eyes, etc.!
a few for sure but not all of them :/
I’m so glad you finally listened to it
me too 😥
I feel like we are kindreds decades removed. I, too, not a Swiftie but have to admire her genius. Good haircut 👍. Have to check out “your losing me” now. Another great segment. PS. Just listened… Damn 😢
glad u enjoyed!! and i know right!! it's so sad
fun fact: Clarity is a John Mayer song from 2003 essentially about generalized anxiety disorder. A lot of his songs are basically about that lol
interesting
now you gotta watch miss americana (i forgot if you did or didnt) right after you done with debut
i did actually lol check out my taylor swift rabbit hole vid
the 'stained glass windows in my mind' is a reference to the church that John had as his house *i believe* which is so heartbreaking
I enjoyed tho your feelings about the lyrics. don't be too hard on yourself! I love your vids!!! Nice haircut too btwwww
The first time I watched you, you had like 800 subscribers i thinkkk...??? and you had 1 video for Tswift and wow you really know so much about her now lololol WHICH I LOVE AND RESPECT.
haha thank u! and yea it's been a long journey since then going deeper into the taylor swift rabbit hole lol
I love your vids and keep up the great work :)
(also btw you technically have 3 albums left......)
yea but i'm prob not doing all of them :(
you’re losing me is the most depressing stuff ever bro. I was surprised to see that you made a whole video of the three writers workshops tho
u were just really tryna torture yourself with that trio of songs man. excited for red episode! hope you get to go to the eras tour!
yea i clearly love being in pain 🥲 lol
Ur hair looks so good!
thanks bro
love the hair
thanks man
Sometimes she would say “her” instead of “me” like in the bridge “who only wanted you to see her” like she’s referring to a different personality. Kinda referencing mirrorball saying that she has a different personality for each person. Idk this is only a theory but who knows 🤷♀️
yea tht kinda makes sense
yayyy you listened to your losing me!!
it's so sad :(
@@jasonpaulkim ik, definitely the saddest song shes written
New JasonPaulKim vid yey
woooooo
“just visualize me shrugging rn” *proceeds to edit in shrug* 👌
that was a late game decision lol
i loveeee your new hairstyle you look so fresh
thanks dawg 😎
first! excited to watch
wooooo
Your losing me is so sad
Why does all her music have to speak so deeply to my current situation. EVERY SINGLE FREAKING TIME 😂💔😭
bro 😭
“The jokes weren’t funny; I took the money” I feel like this refers to the publicity: talk shows, award shows, radio interviews. “Saved me from boredom” is not that she dated him ONLY bc she was bored. He had an interview where he mentioned she was on set drawing or something and she seemed so young. Ewwww
ohhhhhh makes sense so in that particular setting he saved her from boredom
Abt the swiftie thing, i got your back buddy. 😀
:))) thanks bro
Honestly…… best song off of midnights
(P.s. excited for red!)
Wait what about fearless and debut albums? Are you going to react to those?
unfortunately not :( but maybe at some point
his reaction to carrie killed me 😭😭
Ally Seehan made an excellent video on wouldve couldve shouldve i would def check it out
🫡 copy that
yeah it's never great to be on opposite side of the break up too its sad man it felt too personal like a page in her notebook but yeah ig all of us were wondering how it ended so she gave us this absolute heart break of a song
exactly 😪
the you're losing me reaction was so me
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New haircut got me kickin my feet fr
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Have you watched the miss Americana documentary? If you haven’t I would love to see your reaction to it plsssss
check out my taylor swift rabbit hole video
did you hear about her announcing latin american dates for the eras tour?
yea with sabrina thts kinda fire
the"we loved this room because of the light" line might refer to Cornelia Street and like her house there cause there was a room with a huge stained glass window as a wall letting in all the light. and also joe and taylor loved sad songs referring to the "how long can we be a sad song" line. she's sick for making this song
damn...lol
Would've Could've Should've and You're Losing Me are her two saddest songs 😭😭😭💔💔💔
frrrrr 🥲
You said you have one album left, arent there two left? Amazing new cut!
there's a few left but i'm not doing all of them lol
@@jasonpaulkim Lol
R u gonna do debut & fearless?
i may make vids on them later down the line but for this particular series no unfortunately
What lyrics website do you use? It seems really interesting.
it's just genius lyrics lol
bangs suit u better but ur hair still looks good
noted lol
You need to do both of Lewis capaldis albums they are at least an 8
I couldn’t tell if it was you in the thumbnail I’m too used to the bowl cut
my b lol
NEW HAIR CUT GO OFFFF
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What website you using for lyric analysis
genius lol
Ypu have one album left? 😭 What about debut
his hair looks so good😭
thanks bruh
when you start breaking down kendrick or tyler lyrics your mind is gonna collapse
kendrick lamid
I’m just like you- I’m a fan of her work and I’ve gone down the rabbit hole but I’m not a swiftie
You have three Taylor swift albums left red debut fearless
i'm not doing all of them for the series 🤷🏻♂️
@@jasonpaulkim why?
bro wym you only have one more album to go? you have three my guy! self-titled, fearless and red, right?
i'm not doing all of them unfortunately :(
you have debut, fearless, and red left buddy
not doing all the albums unfortunately lol
0:40 so no fearless & debut????? Tbh im fine with that.
Edit: no there is not gonna be a fearless debut episode which I'm still fine with
i love u
ily too
"and I only have one album left"
Wait what? What about Red, Fearless and self titled?
only doing one more :(
@@jasonpaulkim fairs self titled is forgettable but pls do fearless 😭
taylor announced latin american tour dates today, jason is always at the scene of taylor swift news
lol wooooo
I thought he still needed to do debut, fearless, and red?
i'm not doing all the albums unfortunately :(
What website is he using for the lyrics
genius :)
Losing her girlhood in Would've Could've Should've means losing her virginity to him or losing her innocence. That line affects women in a significant way when they hear it! There are even videos showing reactions from women when they hear that line! It's an amazingly well-written and performed song.
as a woman i don't personally feel the entire weight of it but it's a bar for a sure
@@jasonpaulkim you mean as a man 😂
BRING THE BOWL CUT BACK
the bowl cut is dead...