This is so good. I'm a natural strategist who is always thinking of the next steps so I find I must fight impatience and the "intention." filter. Also, working on not thinking ahead of what I'm going to say.
I am listening with an attitude of skepticism because I was expecting to hear about the skills Counsellors use to be active listeners. What I got was a tool to reflect on the listening process. I guess through this reflection I can grow in an unexpected way.
Hi Dr. Grace, it's nice to learn that you able to categorize listening as composing of filter and focus. I know basically that one should have focus to understand the speaker. Regarding the filter here are my inputs based on what I have learned before. They said when you want to comprehend what is being talk about: never formulate a question early while someone is talking, shutoff the mind on the initial perception and listen intently to focus in order to comprehend the meat of the discussion. I agree on your filters which reminds me: Values - probably, this is related also to what my father said before that people talks for their own advantage. Culture - or certain groups (friends, family etc.) Because these people are being closed to each other they can easily relate, each time they talk about a previous event of their experiences. Language - I remember the terminologies being used by Engineering, Doctors and Information Technology (like me) when they don't want others to understand what they are talking about. Attitude - I call this " having a reservation, bias or closed mind". I remember myself when we are talking about politician or politics. If it doesn't conform with my views, whether I understand or not, I instally disagree. Intention - I loss interest or my listening shutoff if the discussion doesn't serve my expectation or objective. Thank you very much once again for enlightening me.
Hi Dr. Lee. I'm so glad I found your channel. I am a domestic violence facilitator, and I'm on the subject of active listening. Will definitely be sharing your video in class.
You are helping me on how to improve communication skills. Everything starts from me, to be confidence in what i say and to be focused Thank you very much. I am in Senior Admin position and i believe this is helpful for me.
I'm atonished by your video. It's something totally different from what I expected. The approach based on tools, strategy and suggested paths was a great surprise. I do feel that I learned from you. Congratulations for your work! And thanks for sharing! 🙏🏿
You are A very Stronger Women and have great Knowledge , am fine when I listen your Communication Methods and I Love the Way you Communicate , love u . Asnakech From Ethiopia
The greatest filter for me right now is the fact that I need to watch this video along with others for an assignment and write a response for it in less than an hour lmao
You have the ability to activate your active listening skills. In fact, when you truly reflect on it, you have been a natural with active listening in certain arenas of your life. The goal is to transmute those to the arenas of your life that you wish to empower.
When i talk with my manager, i often times we do not really hear each other well since our intentions are not honestly being aligned.. how do I fix this?
Thank Dr. Lee! Question: to comprehend and retain what’s being said, (because we hear too many words), do we focus on the subject, adverbs, adjectives, etc? Thanks again!
Thank you Dr Grace! For me, the filter would be attitude. It would be what was being said and how I perceive it. Does what I perceive to be the same meaning as what the person was trying to express? :D
got both your v ideo about love your talking ...except time for individ coach...hope you got som to calm you meantime i subscribed immediately....and restarting selg dev on this will let yiu know
Setting your intention is the first step to achieving your goals. I encourage you to submit your application and book a call with my team. Hope to see you on the inside!
Easy, have a boxer friend who is wearing headphones and is willing to knock you out upon entering a trance and carry you out of the scenario. Hypnotist should be punched as well.
This is so good. I'm a natural strategist who is always thinking of the next steps so I find I must fight impatience and the "intention." filter. Also, working on not thinking ahead of what I'm going to say.
People are listening to the filter of their own culture and values. Love this doc!
I appreciate you sharing your takeaway from this topic. Welcome to my channel, Ivy!
I am listening with an attitude of skepticism because I was expecting to hear about the skills Counsellors use to be active listeners. What I got was a tool to reflect on the listening process. I guess through this reflection I can grow in an unexpected way.
Hi Dr. Grace, it's nice to learn that you able to categorize listening as composing of filter and focus. I know basically that one should have focus to understand the speaker.
Regarding the filter here are my inputs based on what I have learned before. They said when you want to comprehend what is being talk about: never formulate a question early while someone is talking, shutoff the mind on the initial perception and listen intently to focus in order to comprehend the meat of the discussion.
I agree on your filters which reminds me:
Values - probably, this is related also to what my father said before that people talks for their own advantage.
Culture - or certain groups (friends, family etc.) Because these people are being closed to each other they can easily relate, each time they talk about a previous event of their experiences.
Language - I remember the terminologies being used by Engineering, Doctors and Information Technology (like me) when they don't want others to understand what they are talking about.
Attitude - I call this " having a reservation, bias or closed mind". I remember myself when we are talking about politician or politics. If it doesn't conform with my views, whether I understand or not, I instally disagree.
Intention - I loss interest or my listening shutoff if the discussion doesn't serve my expectation or objective.
Thank you very much once again for enlightening me.
Hi Dr. Lee. I'm so glad I found your channel. I am a domestic violence facilitator, and I'm on the subject of active listening. Will definitely be sharing your video in class.
Thank you Dr. Lee. I love your passion in explaining and teaching.
You are helping me on how to improve communication skills. Everything starts from me, to be confidence in what i say and to be focused Thank you very much.
I am in Senior Admin position and i believe this is helpful for me.
Well said. This is amazing. Thank you. Be blessed
Excellent content, so helpful to self realizing to how we can achieve great communication with others and with ourselves.
Listening prevent failures in work and in life....thank you ,dr. Lee....
What a breakthrough! My obstacle is my values, and culture. Any tips on how to improve? Thank you so much
Thank you Dr.Lee. This clip is so useful particularly on people who love to improve their communication.😊
I'm atonished by your video. It's something totally different from what I expected. The approach based on tools, strategy and suggested paths was a great surprise. I do feel that I learned from you. Congratulations for your work! And thanks for sharing! 🙏🏿
Thank you Dr Lee for this important information.
Thank you for your generous teaching.
You're awesome!! Thank you so much! I'm a new subscriber!😀
That question that was asked is literally what I’m going through right now .
Much needed info ❣️thank you Dr Lee
Thank you Grace.
1. Filter: Value, Culture, Language, Attitude, and intention
2. Focus on only key points
Excellent video! Thank you!!
All what you said is important
Attitude filter, I should be aware of. Thanks for pointing it Lee!
Thanks for the wonderful video. I'd say, it's also true that 'where intention is attention follows naturally'
Great takeaway, Vivek. Glad to have you here!
you're nice. Thanks for the video
Where your Attention goes, your intentions foĺlow. The fifth filter is my best. Its the one i usually use
great takeaways, Renae. I'm curious what did you mean by this? ''the fifth filter is my best''
You are A very Stronger Women and have great Knowledge , am fine when I listen your Communication Methods and I Love the Way you Communicate , love u . Asnakech From Ethiopia
Hello, Asnakech and welcome to my channel! I am very happy to see your comment. I hope my videos are helpful and you can continue watching.
Thank you. Subscribed.
I appreciate you. Welcome to my channel!
Thanks cor your help. Focus for me.
You blessed me with your teaching.
It's a blessing to have you here!
The greatest filter for me right now is the fact that I need to watch this video along with others for an assignment and write a response for it in less than an hour lmao
Thank you Dr Lee. I have a question. Is possible what people has the active listening skill disable? And how can I start UP?
You have the ability to activate your active listening skills. In fact, when you truly reflect on it, you have been a natural with active listening in certain arenas of your life. The goal is to transmute those to the arenas of your life that you wish to empower.
Thank you very much❤️🌹
I like the background music which sounds intelligent
Biggest filter for me is 'intention'
When i talk with my manager, i often times we do not really hear each other well since our intentions are not honestly being aligned.. how do I fix this?
Focus would be my 1st active listening struggle. Intention would be 2nd.
I would say intentions.
Thank Dr. Lee! Question: to comprehend and retain what’s being said, (because we hear too many words), do we focus on the subject, adverbs, adjectives, etc? Thanks again!
Thank you Dr Grace! For me, the filter would be attitude. It would be what was being said and how I perceive it. Does what I perceive to be the same meaning as what the person was trying to express? :D
got both your v ideo about love your talking ...except time for individ coach...hope you got som to calm you meantime i subscribed immediately....and restarting selg dev on this will let yiu know
Glad to see you here, Federico. Welcome to my channel!
How do you work with people who are not active listeners?
Hi Doctor Lee I am interested in your executive coach program but am concerned about the cost of it!
Finance Controller/GA manager/CPA in NYC
Setting your intention is the first step to achieving your goals. I encourage you to submit your application and book a call with my team. Hope to see you on the inside!
intentional filter!
Attitude I think
How can we practice less talk?
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I would like to apply
"Listening" to you just now I had an ah-ha moment. I realized I take everything too personally. How do I change this?
What if people are trying to do hypnosis and by listening, you give more focus to their abuse? What then?
Easy, have a boxer friend who is wearing headphones and is willing to knock you out upon entering a trance and carry you out of the scenario. Hypnotist should be punched as well.
If you know how hypnosis works you won’t be hypnotized. Pay attention to your emotions
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My native language filter
Attention
Hi Dr Lee, do you cater outside your country? I'm interested. Thank you.
In short, yes, but it is also dependent on situation and right fit!
How would this relate social awareness
Intentions 🤔🤔🤔
Intention
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