Why You SHOULDN’T Try to Be Your CHILD’S BEST FRIEND

Did you know that around 70% of parents believe being their child's friend is essential to their relationship? Sounds great, right? But here’s the shocking truth: studies show that kids who have parents who act like friends often struggle more with discipline and respect. In fact, a study from the American Psychological Association found that children with authoritative parents (those who set rules and expectations) perform better in school and have fewer behavioral problems.
As a parent, it’s tempting to want to be your child’s best friend. You want them to feel close to you and come to you with their problems. But aiming for friendship can actually backfire. Instead of nurturing a strong bond, it can create confusion and chaos. Children need parents who guide them, not just those who make them laugh.
In this video, we’ll dive into why being a friend isn’t the best approach to parenting. We’ll explore strategies to set boundaries, build respect, and raise resilient kids. Get ready to discover how you can strengthen your relationship with your child while still being the authority they need. By the end, you’ll see why parenting isn’t about being cool; it’s about being a confident leader in your child’s life.