5 HACKS For AUTISM And School REFUSAL (School Phobia)
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- Опубликовано: 10 сен 2024
- This is how to help children with autism and school phobias.
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School can be a very difficult challenging and confusing place for people on the autism spectrum, This is why I have created this list of things that can definitely help with anyone facing these challenges.
Understand what triggers
- Create a list of scary vs non-scary tasks or places in the school
- Colour subjects on a chart: green = good, red = bad and amber = ok
- Create a worry book write down all issues in the book, also try personalise it with their topic of interest.
Crate strategies for home use to calm anxiety and relax
- This like going for A walk
- Building Lego
- Or scheduled quiet time in their room where they are safe
Communicate with the school directly
- Contact the SENco at the school and make the aware of the issues
- Find out what has been done so far to accommodate the needs of the child
- Consult with the direct line of staff who deal with your child day to day and discuss what strategies they are using
- Simply ask your child what support they feel they need
Adjustments
- You could look at having quiet time during the school day in a quiet room
- Using ear defenders outside in the play ground
- A later start and early finish time to avoid busy school traffic
- Using reward systems to help meet targets (check out my link for charts)
- Older students may like to use apps to help with anxiety
Home school
This may be a choice for some people depending on your level of comfort.
Always remember if you are going from home school to mainstream school, include a time of a reintegration period. Prep well.
LINKS:
SeattleChildrens - Autism 202: But I Don't Wanna go to School! Strategies for Addressing School Avoidance (2018): • But I Don't Wanna go t...
Autism Awareness Australia - Top tips for managing school refusal: • Top tips for managing ...
I used to breakdown crying before school every morning. I tried to make myself throw up so I wouldn’t have to go in. I’d even try and convince the school nurse to send me home but she wouldn’t. I ended up being homeschooled for a year because my mental health got so bad. Being outside of the school environment really helped me. I did well in the last 2 years when I decided to go back.
Thank you for sharing. My daughter is struggling this too. I’m so worried for her and want her to feel safe while learning. Home schooling might be the answer.
I´m autistic and I wrote an ebook about my school time (still in german but english will come soon): Der Bildungswahnsinn und Ich
Nice! I'm currently working writing a book myself.
I am a Spanish-native speaker and I write my journal in English, my second language.
I also had a school phobia
I used to cry everyday for hours and that lasted for 6 years and then I was moving to secondary school by which at 13 I was diagnosed autistic ...
The teachers would chase me around the school because I’d run in fear and I ended up self harming
So I became homeschooled which really helped me self regulate
My dr thinks my child could possibly be autistic. Im not so worried about it after watching your videos. I will do anything to make his life easier/better and love him more than I could ever imagine. Part of me thinks it might have come from me. Ive never been diagnosed as such, but ive always felt out of place...like an alien looking in at the humans. My dad was the same way. We were both very smart and made good lives for ourselves. I cant imagine any less for my kiddo. Thank you for all the videos!
You're son is amazing whether he is autistic or not. If he is, it's nothing to be scared about. Being autistic can be pretty cool!
@@renbaker5124 Join the Autistic Party!
Hey Dan,
I'm close to 50 years old i live in the US and i feel i am autistic. I did some research for one of my kids worried about ADHD and i came across an article on ADHD/Autism. After reading about autism it explained a lot of things i had gone through all of my life. I am working on getting an official diagnosis until then self diagnosis is where i'm at. School freaked me out when i was a kid. I loved learning in school but couldn't handle going. I wound up quitting school all together in the 8th grade. School was so rigid when i was young, i wish i had the kind of teachers and understanding that is available today. I might have finished school and gone on to college. I still love to learn and obsess on subjects that interest me and try to absorb as much information as is available. I want to thank you for thr videos you make they are helping me on this journey to understand myself. Also i really enjoy listening to your band! Music helps me to get through tough times. Thanks again for what you do!
In my autistic world all autistic students have a good life! I´m the autistic god! Pray to me!
I did most these hacks to help me with college before the pandemic and it helps
Switched back to home school in HS and was able to finish school a year early. SOOOOO much better than public school. School was horrific for my social anxiety. My kids still want to go though, as some courses aren’t available from home. :/
We ordered Brillia after my hubs saw this on your last video. We hope it’ll help me and our daughter.
My son learns best at school. At home he's all over the room and can get violent.
In our coming autistic state autistic students will have a good school and study time. :) Long live the autistic party! We are the people! Join us!
I had horrible schoolphobia in middle school but loved learning. I wasn’t diagnosed with autism yet at the time which made it worse because no one understood. I was diagnosed with OCD already though. I ended up being pulled out and did online school from the middle of the 7th grade school year till a couple months into 9th grade. I go to a choice school that has kids with different learning/social differences. It’s mainstream and a lot of kids have autism and/or other disorders such as anxiety, depression, ADHD, PTSD. I love my school how and am thriving. My teachers are awesome and very accommodating. I can be myself there without being being ashamed (I know I shouldn’t be anyways) and I have an IEP but also it’s kinda just the school in general is an IEP in a lot of ways.
Amazing! Do you mind telling what the school was? I’m in the Philly PA area. It sounds like something my daughter could benefit from.
This is wonderful with lots of tips. Could you tailor one for College students (online & in classroom)
Thank you so much for this! Also 1 minute ago wow!
Where i live (this makes my blood boil) the schools i attended here were horrible to kids/teens who had autism or had adhd/add. The schools would just put everyone who had a learning disability, adhd/add, autism, severe mental disabilities in a class. The kids were pretty much sentenced to solitude never getting to interact with the rest of the school which i get for sensory overload but still it was like they were kept from the rest of us like outcasts. It just always bugged me cause i knew some of the autistic kids and kids with adhd/add and they were incredibly smart and were getting no real education just pretty much babysat. Now as a mother ive been talking with parents with kids that have those things ive mentioned and been contacting the schools urging them to create classes that are specialized so kids can actually get an education.
Where do you live? I once found a school online (when doing research for a story that I'm writing) that seemed exactly like that and I was like "So if the kid is pretty smart but only communicates in a way that doesn't involve verbalising or sign language you're keeping it in a class that won't teach you that much apart from maybe basic life skills...?? How does that make sense when they can communicate effectively in other ways and understand you pretty clearly??"
@@Larry_Stylinson central California valley. And exactly, they only got some very basic life skills. And i live in a low income district so the schools always blame it on that but literally they were kept away and just babysat its so frustrating
You help me keep up the fight for my son to be assessed. Your story is just like you're telling me my son's story, thus far. Thanks for all the information 👍
I will try this with my 14 year old . She is non verbal and gets anxiety getting to school. She has become aggressive and injured herself. I have attempted to contact special education directors and teachers and they just don’t care
Really good advice. I’m gonna do all the steps since my son has problems going to school quite often. Some lessons like music and gymclass is almost hopeless. He just doesn’t attend. He plays electric guitar but he can’t stand when people are off key or the instrument are untuned.
Ughhh I have to go back to college and it's a mess!
They ignore everything I ask for and even if I have to go somewhere or if I need a straight up rundown of what to do.
I know right
Please make a college version addition, I can use some help on concentrating in college
Finally I video that makes sense. Thank you for the tips and help ❤
I wish i knew these hacks when i went to school in the 80's i missed a lot of school i hated it teachers were bullies
Brillia? I think I will follow you on your journey in taking it & see your opinion on it.
I never really have luck on anything that is all natural but hey I would give it a try😃👍
It’s going good so far I feel :)
Love this. Thank you!
My son hates going to school. I have tried to tell him that school is essential but that doesn't change his opinion. I don't know why. Having him open up to me is helpful when it happens.
The reward chart is how I got my daughter though kindergarten before schools closed because of covid
My 12 yrs old scared to come back to school for 6 months already because he became afraid of people and to be touched including me(( . Nothing works to get him back to school. When he is nervous he starts to scratch his body. Any suggestion ? Thank you
What is aspergers syndrome and what is adhd and Also what is anxiety and dyslexia and what are ear defenders
I’m confused by your question.
Asperger’s syndrome was an old diagnosis term for autism but now it’s just part of the autism spectrum. ADHD stands for attention deficit hyperactivity disorder and it affects people’s attention span and hyperactivity. Anxiety is the constant feeling of fear and nervousness. Dyslexia is a condition which affects peoples reading, writing and spelling skills and ear defenders are what people wear to stop loud noises coming into your ear. They look a bit like headphones. I hope I answered your question!
@@75maxdv35 bless your patience
My child just only turned 5, any tips for younger children. He is in half day in prek and tells us he doesn't want to go to school and the teachers struggle to get him to get off the bus.
Idk if you have done something but can you please do a video about how to do something simple, that doesn't have many steps, that your brain doesn't want to do (for me it's the first thing of showering (undressing)) and getting your brain to do it?
I have a bad problem with not wanting to shower and I tried saying I'll have a reaward or how I'll feel afterwards but my brain refuses to do it. It's starting to get to me and I don't know what to do-
I hated school! The other kids were so loud and mean and could not keep their hands to themselves. I would miss the bus on purpose too. At one point I refused to go back to school and my parents found me a Private Christian School. I went through 2 of those too before I graduated. That helped a little but it was still tough. I've bounced from job to job too and haven't worked in years. I still live at home.
What was that noise at 2:37?
Me dropping my Brillia tablets haha
Hi. This looks good. Thanks. Do you have a video on Priming to help with Transition Anxiety , using visuals such as Dr. Temple Grandin's 'Pilot's Checklist '. Coping with planned and unplanned changes
Also doesn’t help with our condensed “quadmasters” this year with Covid. My daughter was failing her geography, main problem was the teacher hadn’t even gotten her IEP, and because the quadmaster is so short the course is nearly over and she’s only getting help now to get her missing assignments in. So maddening. Even her IEP is not very useful as it only covers a couple areas because of her ADHD, as we can’t get her ASD assessment done till summer (also thanks to Covid, and the fact that the local children’s mental health source basically shut me down when I asked them to assess her, so we have to travel to get this basic need met.) and of course, the school won’t accommodate unless it’s diagnosed professionally. 🙄😡 The ND kids are loosing out even more during Covid and no one seems to actually care or have anything to help in place.
My dad called me a baby for having this
And My parents call me a psycho and weak for having this
If yiu try to buy Brillia there is no option outside the US on the booking form. Where an you buy it in the UK?
That's weird cos Dan has a really strong British accent so I assumed his links would be UK too
for the algorithm
Dan I find your content really helpful but I struggle with your very verbose delivery. If you could see your way to putting a summary in the description I will still engage, let the vid run, comment etc but I really struggle to filter the info out of the stream of words. Please?
Same. I actually notice that for me it's really bad when someone has ADHD and talks faster than what I'm used to. I know someone who rambles so fast that my brain can't keep up anymore and at one point goes "That's still English, right?!? HELP!" and I'm just getting overwhelmed by it and need breaks away from them to cool down again.
@@Larry_Stylinson I’m not sure if this will help but you can slow down RUclips videos by pressing the three dots on the top right hand corner of the video and then press playback speed, then you can slow it down 😊
I try to convince my parents to keep me at home by faking sick. It doesn’t work.
I think you lost all credibility when you started hawking homeopathic medicine... please don't do that again