Before You Quit Your Job, Watch This.
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- Опубликовано: 6 июн 2024
- The Great Resignation is here and everyone is quitting their jobs. But before you quit your job, watch this. Quitting might be the wrong move.
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0:00 Is This What You Want?
0:27 Why I'm Worried About You Guys
1:33 The Privileges I Had Before I Quit My Job
2:54 1st Sign You Should Quit Your Job
5:06 2nd Sign You Should Quit Your Job
6:56 I Didn't Want This...
7:53 Before I Quit, I Did This 1st
9:47 Before I Quit, I Did This 2nd
11:03 I Did This 3rd & 4th and My Final Advice
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I'm gonna quit breathing air
It was a good video mane
@@jarred333Boss thank you sir!
You know it’s time to quit when you spend your day off dreading going back to work.
Thiss!
I worked as a Technical Support Job and yesterday was my last working day. Everyday of the job was full of anxiety and depression and thank goodness I quit that disgusting job.
And don't want to go to sleep cause u don't want your weekend to end
@@brendaechols5929 You nailed it.
@@radeonblue1816 im a tech support in verizon in the philippines and im just trying to enjoy it. but its toxic if your gonna let it be toxic every job is toxic in my opinion haha
I quit my job several times a day.
(in my mind)
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 We are friends
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@@sakura0291 Lol Yes! So do I! I'm watching this right now instead of working because I quit!...Until an email comes through with someone asking me for something...
Same 😂😂😂
hahaha- this comment is the precise reason i scroll down (and am disappointed 98% of the time)
"I dont want a fancy car, I dont want a big house... I just want time to live my life" -> Subscribed 😉
Unsub for this. I want a ferrari, porn star and an awesome house.
@@bigdisme5622 :v
@@penguinssos2244 Is my life now or never--I am not going live forever sounds like a song
Sometimes it's not about big house or fancy cars, but providing for one's own family, that forces people to endure the grind at work.
I quit my job 2 days ago and I’m thinking back to my fear based mentality... but I am happier than ever before. I’m excited for this new chapter in my life, I know I am going to be blessed & my future is full with abundance
Wishing you all the best out there
You will have a rude awakening one day.
@@piyush9775943294 why’d you think I quit my job ? Lol already happened
wish u all the best.
You got this girl
I did that, Quit my job at 29. Became an Entrepreneur & had some failures but eventually became very successful but more importantly I DID IT MY WAY!
What is your company?
What did you do? Don't tell me you yolo into shiba inu coins .
Following
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@@henrytep8884 That seems like the fad nowadays.
I can relate to all of this but I'll give a perspective from someone a little older. I'm 41 and I left my last position working for someone else back in my 20s. I saw your other video and your story is almost identical to my own. I started my career right out of college in an amazing position, at a great company. Five years into my career, I was sitting in a pointless weekly Monday morning status meeting and all I could think was "this is wasting my life." I got up, walked back to my desk and wrote my resignation. I started my business the next day.
But I was ready. I had savings. I had leads on contract work I could dive right into. I had a business plan I'd been working on for months. That was just the day I'd officially had enough.
I did have a marriage, a kid on the way, and a brand new home. But I was prepared. I always tell my friends about how prepared I was when they talk about quitting their jobs. But it's completely possible. I actually did it the exact same way my dad did. And my life as a kid was better because I had a dad who worked for himself and I wanted that same life for my kids. 13.5 years since I turned in that resignation and it's still going great.
That's important, that you are ready and with enough savings
I already have enough savings, but still hard to thinking about what could I do/make after quitting... I know I want to be my own boss 🥵
superbe story, thanks for sharing
I'm scared to start my own business
@@Native722 you are not scared to start your own business, you are scared to fail in the business!
It’s 2021, if your job isn’t giving you that satisfaction and fulfillment, time to move on. Life’s too short and unpredictable to stay in a job you’re not happy with 🤨🧐
100% agreed thank you
Covid has shown us exactly this. Almost 700,000 people whose lives were cut short.
Couldn't have said that better. These jobs don't pay, or appreciate their employees that's why so many are rage quitting, and I am going to be one of those people in 2022.
starving to death and being homeless isnt very fullfilling either.
@@1sexysportsfan that's BS...notice how every other disease suddenly ended? Tool of the MSM, even at 700K it's 18 people per day per state...more likely to die of shark attack, 1 in a million..smoking and "legal drugs" kill 2400 a day...so stfu with your lame numbers
I want to quit everyday because it seems like every company I worked for(especially the current one) hired or has the worst upper management, and I wonder how some of these companies started with such disorganization.
yeah management is super important in the happiness of a company. there's a quote that says “employees don’t quit their job, they quit their boss,”
Yes to this a thousand times! I feel your pain. Hang in there until we have a new direction.
Start going to interviews and do shadowing and then you might have an idea what you looking for!😃
i relate to this strongly. i quit my job two weeks ago. i worked at walmart, and the store i was in was very disorganized and it had poor management. they even wanted to take me out of the position i signed up for to another position, work more hours without any pay raise. i felt like i was getting drained mentally and when i quit, my family was like ‘what happened? why do you always quit your jobs?’ and i could NEVER find somebody who understands how i feel. i don’t know if it’s because people are so fixated on survival that my decision to them seems irrational… or if this is me seeing the truth for what it is and deciding what’s best for me!
@@VincentChan one of the truest idioms since Corporate America started w/o question.
“It could always be better” that’s a powerful statement
I quit a few weeks ago my job of 8 years . . I made about 21$ hour but it was a very physical job… highly replaceable… started doing Uber I was matching the pay with less hours worked with just working in peak hours so now I can pursue a career in personal training y’all wish me luck 🍀
How's it going
Good luck! : )
Good luck! Hope its going well! Stay strong!
Good luck wish you well 🤙🏿
@@itsDjjayy pretty good got certified and I have 6 clients so far my goal is to give the 6 clients great results while trying to a acquire 4 more
I quit my job July 15th. Best business career decision I have ever made.
What?
That's awesome. How come?
Good
that's awesome david! What are you up to nowadays?
@@VincentChan Currently taking the summer off. I have a lot of offers but for now I am going to take my time before entertaining a new opportunity. I'm in no Rush and the way things have been its best to make a good calculated decision before I jump into a new adventure best thing for me right now is to just take my time. My field is Sales and I can bring the business to the table I just want to make sure my future.moves are with the right company.
OMG the toxic impact... exactly what I felt in my last job. It's like it turned me into a beast lol. Guysss other reasons can be reconsidered, BUT NOT A TOXIC JOB THAT AFFECTS YOUR MENTAL HEALTH, PLEASE QUIT!!!!
I hear you. The constant anxiety, the dread in opening emails, accounting for every minute of your day... its soul sucking
🥳🥳🥳 I was in one .. and thought it was no longer toxic because all those created that inviroment left . But after I quit 🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️I realized it was just bad .
That's where I'm at. At first I told myself the changes were just temporary and that things would improve. 18 months later and my mental health has only deteriorated. Not to mention my life was filled with all kinds of personal goals and dreams that I put on pause to focus on getting through a difficult patch at work. I'm beginning to realise that I haven't put those goals on hold, I've thrown them away.
@@bandobandit353 feel you. I have recently changed my spending habits and started saving up that cushion. I am so scared of failure it’s crippling but I feel like if I keep doing this toxic job I’ll just get a heart attack at 24 or something. Only thing keeping me going is the thought of leaving prepared and quoting at the right timing…. I should have done it ages ago.
I don't know if I'm the toxic one, or my job is anymore.
Balancing gratitude without settling is definitely a helpful tool for the journey.
Totally agree!
At work, many of us are forced to be around people we would not let in our circle if we had a choice. That’s the main reason working at a company can suck. IMO. I long for freedom from this, and am trying to figure out how to how to retire early.
Exactly!!!!
Have you considered homesteading?
@@themiddleclasstaxslave651 um. What’s that?
@@perkyb1213 :) …. It’s your ticket out of the rat race. Buy a piece of land in a state that has loose homesteading laws, and you live off the land. You can still have WiFi, etc but you are basically debt free. You build your own house, get your water supply, grow your own food, have minimal financial bills,
And enjoy time with nature, your spouse, family. You don’t need to work a job to make X amount of $. You could skip the college route entirely if you are this type of person. I’m just about there myself but I’m a keep going a bit longer. If I was 18’again, I would do this from the get go.
Facts
The reason why I wanted to quit my job in hopefully less than 8 years is because I wanna be the owner of my time. When I work for a company/organisation, it feels like I sold the ownership of my time. And I wanted it back ^^
Same
Same
Yep! 100% agreed
🥺🤗🤗🤗 I'm glad to see others feel the same
Same and I'm nearly thinking of it rn
You have to carefully assess yourself. This is my weekly topic for my own subscribers. Career. One thing that can really bring a person into depression is 40 hours a week of hating their job. The job is literally almost half of the waking life. The problem many people have is that they have a craving for security. The person will tolerate being unhappy if that is their normality. People would rather have secure bitterness than the fear of stepping off the cliff. The fact is that you can change your career anytime. At 40 or 50. I once knew a car salesman of 30 years who did really well but started to hate his job--so became a nurse at 57. He is now a travel contractor. His friends told him he would be 57 by the time he got licensed as an RN. He told them he would be 57 anyway. So he will now spend the next ten years doing something he likes instead of something he hates. But you have to decide if it is life on the sea you hate or just that ship you're traveling on. In other words--do you hate your trade or just the company you're at? But whatever you aren't happy with you must change and continue to advance yourself. Hope this helps someone---Charles.
He would be 57 anyway..
Wow..perfectly said..
I'm 58 now..time to move on for myself!
Thank you for this perspective! Really needed this today!
@@lorrainebazydola816 And you always can----Charles
@@samphanhsoxayachanh5180 Keep being great----Charles
9:20 Distinction between running from and running toward, focus energy on what you are running toward. This is the pearl of this video. Brilliant.
I want to quit my job for one simple reason. I’m tired of feeling like the struggle that younger me went through to get this far was a waste.
I promised myself it would be better and I’m determined to keep my promise
🙏🏼🙏🏼
I want to quit my job for mostly the same reasons as you did. I feel like my job serves no purpose. I'm not accomplishing anything, moving toward anything, and I feel no passion for my job. Everyday I get to work I spent 8 hours doing menial work, sending template emails to clients, making coffee, and planning meetings. Being in lockdown the past few months has made me realise how much I love spending time with my family and having time for myself instead of being at work from dawn til dusk. Life is too short to do something you're not passionate about just for the money right?
OMG this is exactly word to word how I feel after the lockdown.i don't have enough time to spend with my family,including my parents. I feel no passion and not adding any skills
Never quit your job.
Tell them that you no longer need their services and just leave
Job: "Ahem! *cough cough* We need you to put in two weeks before will let you go. You should know this already. We will give you a bad review for future employers." lmfao
ngl i got this feeling when ppl do put in 2 weeks, that gives them an in to make their lives more miserable.
I hope this new endeavor works out for you. A lot of the things you talked about really made sense to me. I was laid off from my job after 33 years in corporate America. I was lucky enough to leave with a severance package that allowed me to take a step back to consider my next move. I have quickly realized that I should have left the company several years prior to the layoff. After 10 months at home feeling frustrated while trying to get a home business off the ground you are making some really good points. I will continue to watch your videos for inspiration and guidance as I too move along this dark, scary new path. Thank you!
I’ve been wanting to quit my job for awhile now but I’m still holding to it thinking that maybe it’s just temporary feeling or I’m being too emotional but after listened to u I have every signs that u mention. Now I’m taking the risk management seriously and hoping I can quit by end of this year. Wish me luck 🙂
@S T Hello! Its been 6 months. How is it coming along. Did you make the big leap?
Yea did you
I hope you are free now!
hope you're free now!
due to the pandemic, I lost my job and was forced to do business, I thought it was the end for me due to financial problems, but after sometime my business grew and as of today I already have 3 branches of it. The lesson is that, at first we thought that we lose something big but then we realize without losing something we cant gain something which is destined for us to be better.
Wow ,, your story is very inspiring
hey just quit my job. I think youtube’s algorithm sensed it and lead me to your videos. Scared but excited for the new path I’m going to make for myself.
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Ive been looking for a new job, I work at mcdonalds and get treated like shit all day from customers and managers every day and they constantly switch me from morning and night shifts and always call me in on my days off and all for minimal wage. i just got yelled at by a manager for clarifying a customers order which pushed me to look for a new job, every night after my shift i just feel like ima start crying.
Keep going you will get to a better place.
Get out of that job! I felt a heavy negative feeling just reading how you’re treated at your job. Jobs nowadays are a dime a dozen! What good is the money if you’re miserable earning it. I’d rather be poor and happy.
Just read your comment and decided to leave with you my best wishes. Hope your life is all better now, friend.
Hope you didn't stay. My daughter worked at MacDonald and was treated poorly. Please quit! She is in a better job! Never tolerate being mistreated. Nice people get taken advantage of but find a good ones who would appreciate you!
Update its been 2 yrs..how's it going for you?
Oh my god, I have that exact same bad habit you talk about at 6:00, my wife is constantly catching me and saying "what are you sighing about now?!". I feel like you're my twin, in every aspect lol. Saw your "Quit my $120,000 job" video and came to this one after. It's funny how the timing of it worked, because I JUST did most if not all of these things right before coming across your channel. It's great to watch these videos shortly afterward, which reinforce my thoughts and decisions :)
U don’t have a wife
@@levelup2014 lol, k
I do that sigh as well, lol
Great quality content! Not everyone can just quit. Proper planning and Need that 12 months safety net first is required
100% agreed, gotta do proper planning first
I quit my job 3 weeks ago.. and it was the best move I did.!
Your right when you say it drains all your energy.. now I'm happy working for my self.. it's one step closer to freedom!
That's awesome! What are you working on now
what do you do now? If you don’t mind me asking?
What do you do now if you don’t mind me asking?
You're getting really good with the comedic writing man, love the growth! Had some great moments in here. Great content as well. Might not quit tomorrow, but it's coming
thank you so much :) hope i got a few chuckles from you
Not looking to quit anytime soon - I love my job but want to say I'm glad to have stumbled upon your channel. You have a new follower! I follow a lot of personal finance/credit card channels and your channel has a different feel than others - in a good way! Working toward financial freedom!
New subscriber and I'm on a Vincent marathon. LOVE your channel! Funny, how I just watched "I quit my $120,000.00 job" and now I'm watching this. I'm working at a corporate world and I can vouch everything you said Xs 100. I am trying to strategize my resignation. People leave management NOT their job. I work at one of the most toxic workplaces where abuse of power is rewarded. Management constantly schedule unnecessary ZOOM meetings just to keep their jobs.
Man, the part where you mentioned how you realized that your work environment / work is toxic … I resonate so hard with that.
Been through the same situation in 2019, glad I saved something and quit that toxic job. Although 2020 was difficult and seemed like I made a bad decision or wrong timing, but feels much better now. The longer it takes you to realize the fact that corporates are renting out your lives and you are nothing more than what you contribute, the more painful it gets.
this channel and this guy are different refreshing and new to me. You are a golden boy dude im learning a lot from you rn and it is so valuable. THANKS SO MUCH! You give me hope
Everything you said was me the last 6 years. I luckily saved money and quit my job this year. I was depressed, almost burned out, didn't want to talk about work, the work environment was and still is toxic and just my coworkers were awesome. I was thinking about quitting for one year, so definitely nobody should do it without being sure. Thanks for your awesome videos. ❤️ And I'm definitely running towards being a successful, self employed artist. I also do not need fancy things. I want time and live. ❤️
That's why u have a ABCD plan in place
That's so great you were able to save enough money to quit! Curious if you found another job/work stream or were able to retire completely with the savings?
@@nikkian9254 I didn't retire completely (the money would have lasted for 2 years, so enough time for me to heal) but I only work part-time now and this is the best solution for me. But I am saving money again for the future and in case I need it again. I can work on my passion (art) and still have the safety of getting money each month. Feels good currently 😊
This resonates with me on such a deep level!! Not only am I doing the sighs but I’ve also moved to migraines due to work. This video was much needed
I want to quit my job because i have other passions in life. I want to spend more time with my family and i want to travel more with my family.
With my passion of photography i also want to help other people, thats why i started a YT channel about photography. I hope this will grow so big that i can quit my "normal" job. i don’t want to be dependent from somebody else to get food on the table for my family.
Wow I really loved this video. You articulated everything so well with examples from your own life. I've been feeling so drained and burnt out for the past year and I can relate to everything you said. Being an MBA grad I have everything I want, and yet I just spent all my time stressing about work and treating everything and everyone around me in a shitty way, which is very unlike me. I don't want to live like that anymore. I've now watched several of your videos in a row and you've gained a new subscriber in me. Keep it up and can't wait to watch all your future videos.
MBA - wow ppl keep asking me to further study 📖
Thank you Niru! welcome to the family
Start a youtube channel :)
Tomorrow’s my last day at work been sitting on quitting for a couple months, I’ve got money Saved up and I’m going to school. Was pretty nervous about it but excited to see what comes next. Really like your videos and what you’re trying to do, good luck to you and everyone who decides to do the same!
Howz life been bro ?? Do u regret the decision cz i jst took a similar one and would like to know ur opinion
You’re awesome. Doing us proud brother 👊🏻
My last day is this Friday September 3rd. Been working in the same field/company for 17 years. I'm done with my job , like he said in the video I don't hate my coworkers or the employer etc.. but I AM DONE. It's time to move on to better things an not just the same old routine anymore.
What's your plan
@@itsDjjayy my plan is to not go back into the work trap as i once fell deeply into, Take care of me For once , enjoy being a father an enjoy life. Embrace every single moment, even the hardest painful ones, because those are the lessons of life. Take care my friend.
I needed this so much. I have been working with the same company for 7 years. I work as an online English teacher . And within those 7 years, I have been shouted at and cursed at by my students. I told management about it and they did nothing. They said that students will either like you or not and that I should never take it personally.
I came to a point wherein I forced myself to work, making matters worse. I cried myself to sleep and I developed work anxiety.
Thank you for being the voice I wanted to hear these years. Now I'm sending applications to different companies. Anxious to start again but I need this. I have to do this for myself.
Planning to move back in with my mom for the time being to save money and stop renting for the time being until I can financially support myself again.
How can students curse at teachers? 🥺 The experience might have been horrible
I hope you are now in a better working environment
That red bull flip was too smooth 😂
LOL thank you
This is so good that i didn’t even notice i already finished the whole video. Nodding my head to everything you are saying .
Hahaha thank you raymond
Really loved and enjoyed the discussion on running away vs. running towards something. (:
I like how you have that perception in mind...the way you share to everyone how to have that financial freedom..very inspirational..
Hi Vincent. I’ve been watching your channel for a little while and I just want to say your videos are great. I love how it’s progressing. The b roll, the editing, the wit to keep it interesting, and the smooth transition into suggesting another video of yours to watch at the end (genius). I see you hitting a million for sure. Keep it up 😊
I completely relate to the "sighs" scene. The _Heavy Sighs_ remix made me subscribe instantly. Quickest sub of my youtube "life"
Doing meaningful work, yes, that is the reason I went into my career. I have gone so far away from that goal in my current job. I am definitely doing something about this.
I believe in you!
this is THE MOST relatable video ever - man, u spoke my mind. ive no words. let me sit in silence and ponder on my life now..
thank you for watching!
it is nice to hear how you always honor your parents in your videos! well done, and great advices!
I just found your channel, and I have to say, having left my dream job due to overwhelming mismanagement I became drained and passionless.
I slowly recovered and realize that people always have the worse case scenario view of me leaving a good job after job hunting for over a year.
Time passes and I accepted that I need a better job that respects and values my expertise.
Alright Vincent, you've convinced me. I'm quitting my job.
The intro is great. 😂 Water was definitely a better option, lol.
I think so too haha
That’s an amazing metric. Piece of advice. “Are you running away from something or towards something?” This is a succinct way to sum up the concept I realized recently in the past few weeks. I thought of it as Identifying your PRIORITY, and making decisions towards it. But really it’s the same thing as running towards something.
the hero that we didn't know we needed but glad we got!
Your mad funny son! Thank you for making everything relatable and actionable in such a practical way.
This just autoplayed on my RUclips. I realised long ago (when I was 15 and did 2 weeks work experience in an office after which I vowed I would never work in an office again) that I hate being employed and have been avoiding having full time jobs for other people for years. I really enjoyed how you present all this info - you are so entertaining! My life mantra is similar; keep your standards high and your expectations low. (+Multiple income streams are the key!)
Yes Vincent mental health is also very important
Also a professional quitter here as I just quit my job last Tuesday, feeling so liberated now
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For whatever reason, this video is recommended to me. Everything resonated with me, especially the toxic part. I caught myself waking up angry because of work, I start raising my voice and speak very fast every time I talk about work. I think it's time to leave, but that fear of not having a steady income is making it difficult.
Brooooooo! This video was awesome! The “sigh” beat was so good. Hahaha. I just quit my 9-5 job due to my creativity and happiness being sucked out like a dementor. Stoked for the future and loving your channel. Get it!
So good. This resonates with me on many levels, thank you for this content.
Thank you colton
love this type of mindset, I have zero interest in climbing the corprate ladder too,everything is superficial in the corprate world, risk managment is key if you want to free yourself diversify income is the best way.
Holy crap you hit the nail on the head about the heavy sighs and irritability right after work lol
Yeah and then some guy behind me honks at the cars in front of me losing his temper. And I'm like why do I drive an hour to work in this snob town, which happens to also be my hometown lol?!
OMG! I always do the heavy sighs. Now I know why. I also do alot of deep breaths to help me calm down and keep me from jumping across the room and slapping my boss.
I hate it- I need to vent this. I don't think I can take it anymore at what was supposed to be the "dream" position- I finally got a full time job as a Media Marketing Coordinator at an animal organization- PERFECT for an animal lover and creative person like me, right?....At first, I was SO excited and ready to learn and improve my skills. What really ended up happening was a disorganized mess, crappy communication, and a workload meant for an entire team is composed of TWO people. From start to finish. I finally realized how badly it's affecting me because of the physical signs like losing weight, hot flashes, heart palpitations, uncontrollable shaking, and more that I couldn't shoo away or ignore. Even visiting my parents noticed how frail and terrible I looked and were so upset to see me like that. I work so hard even worrying about my work outside of paid hours, getting calls and emails when I'm supposed to be off...I don't think there's room for compromise- I'm taking the risk and lining up a new job (scary) and once that happens, I'm gone.
I quit my job and my mental health and life has gotten better. There’s so much out there!
Bro I have the exact opposite problem as you, I stay for a really long time at a job. I have been at the same job that pays crappy by the way for 10 years, and I feel like I am stuck in a rut that I cannot get out of. I have a very strong desire to go elsewhere as the pay sucks, the benefits suck, and management sucks. I have been looking for a few weeks now, and will continue to look as I have a degree in Network Management, and would love to do that for sure!! I have never wanted to leave somewhere more than where I work right now!! I think I have a huge amount of fear to leave mainly because I have been there for so long, but I am very unhappy and have to leave for a much better opportunity very soon! So to all of the people out there who are unhappy with your job, don't be stupid like me and stay for years, find a better opportunity and pursue it with everything you have! Great video by the way!!
I quit my job last week and I feel satisfied with my mental peace. Now I can learn what I wanted to. I'm also a college student and I feel you in this video.
I feel college is a waste if you're not planning on being a doctor, scientist, psychiatrist, bio engineering stem Field, lawyer ect....
@@itsDjjayy Agree. I studied design in college and feel like it was unnecessary. I could have learned design online in less than 4 years. I should've gotten a science degree to make it more worth it.
@@itsDjjayy Agreed. Started my career at 19, at 21 I'm now changing jobs and making 60k. Everyone around me has degrees but I hardly got out of highschool.
Glad you made this follow up video sharing more realistic wisdom…I did quit my managerial job 3 times with 3 Fortune 500 companies even though I loved my jobs. First time was got married n had to move where my husband was getting trained. Second time quit to move to where I want to spend the rest of my life in beautiful San Diego after living 4 yrs in cooooold Rochester. Third time I quit to have more time to raise my kids while start my own business, be my own boss which was a dream I always had in the back of my mind. I always been frugal n hard working n a people person . I used the money we saved to buy my first apartment building in 1984 , then another then another. I create nice comfortable dwelling suitable to my tenants, take good care of them . In 37 yrs met a few bad apples but generally very rewarding mentally financially n gave me time to raise my two great kids with a husband with busy career and richly rewarded on my own right… I’m still frugal n hard working at 70 … your advices are all very wise for those ready to take the plunge or jump ship into a more rewarding life. Best wishes to you and your viewers who are contemplating career move.
Oh my God I cannot relate to this more. This is so on point.
I did it. Boss was shocked but life is too short to not follow your dreams! Working in something I'm actually interested in now and I'm so excited for what's to come!
I left the Army after 5 years of service. The first 3 years were pretty good. I had good community, good learning experiences, and I felt like I had a purpose, sort of. The last 2 years however, were what you described. Toxic workplace that wrecked my mental health, toxic leadership that wrecked the community (everyone looking out for their own best interest instead of the good of the group), shifting away from structured and purposeful work to more degrading, meaningless details wrecking my basic desire to apply myself. It made me realize that decent pay and benefits are worthless if my mental health is in the ditch and I'm never happy. Decent pay and benefits are well and good if you can be happy, but it's more important to be happy, even if you have to sacrifice your buying power.
Great tips. Risk management is super important before you take any final decisions like quitting your job 👍
Thank you for sharing your experiences. They help so much
I hear you loud and clear.
Quitting tomorrow morning!
Thanks so much for the tips , ive been wanting to quit but I’m terrified since it’s my only stream of income
Thank you for sharing Vincent. Very helpful video.
What an authentic dude, love it
The reason I want to quit my job is I’m not getting paid respectable amount. I know mentality of this company is. “Who do you think you are?”
"Are you walking away or towards something?" - what a powerful question!
put a smile on my face Mr. Chan. thank you.
I am new here but love the way you talk, edit, make jokes.... I think i love you. I love you. So glad I found this channel!! Keep it up.
I do not say this often but...this is GOOD video!
I quit in April 2021. One downside of quitting has been daily activity structure without external pressure. In many ways I am institutionalized to let the work determine the day. Without it I have not been as productive on my own
Dude, I love your channel, do not stop what you're doing. You are amazing. Thanks for all the advice you give!
thank you so much sara!!
This is inspiring, I really feel like Ive reached a dead end at my work place. I don't learn anything anymore, the only time I learn is after work, with my own research. I am in IT, and I have been searching the web for something new and nothing excites me and at the moment and it worries me. I want to grow, be free in terms of time and make some money while Im at it of course 😉. Im not crazy about money but I would want better financial freedom. I feel this has point me in the right direction.
I'm quitting my job. In order to pursue my real estate career full-time. I've been trying to juggle a full-time job and do real estate. But it's to much. I'm a good worker. And being a good worker always comes with more responsibilities. Then management starts to depend on you more. And they want you to work more. So it takes time away from me building my business. It's time to go all in.
Omg 🙏 I felt this, they always shitting on the best employees
@@solodondolo5890 me rn
Have you quit yet?
Nope. I was about to. But they allowed me to hire a person to work the weekends. So I'm going to wait until I have my 6-8 months of bills saved. Then I'm out. How's your progress going?
@@caddymac3 That's a solid plan. My wife and I just have been trying to be more discipline with sticking with a budget to cut down on debt so we can eventually build an emergency account. While that's going, am working on additional earnings outside of the 9-5. Gotta get out of this rat race. It's all consistency and discipline. We'll get there brotha..
Thanks for your insights, dude. Like you, I just want to wake up on a Monday morning without dreading to go to work, or basically just have a good Sunday night's sleep without anxiety which keeps me awake all night just thinking that work week is coming and I'll be facing my toxic boss and colleagues.
that’s me this morning. Barely slept
@@PS-lv1mr what's your nature of work?
@@higherpurpose1212 Programming. I came to the conclusion that I don’t mind the job itself, it’s just the commute and sitting in a cubicle all day. So I’m looking for fully remote roles right now.
What a great video! Thank you so much for sharing your personal experience, I've really gotten some really good insights for my current situation.
I’ve been loving your channel! Congrats on making this shift in your life. Exceptional content!
Thanks ! I'll introduce you to something new , write me directly via whasapp messenger .
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Running from Vs running toward was critical for me. I stuck it out until I had a plan of where to go to. I changed my career direction significantly, gained greater work life balance. I am so much happier.
APPRECIATE YOUR "REAL AND RESPONSIBLE" DELIVERY OF YOUR MESSAGE!
I just love your videos. Learning so much. And your personality is awesome 🌹
Great advice Vincent. 😄
Love your content even though I’m retired at age 59. I can relate only because I retired earlier this year and felt guilty because I chose to retire during a time when many people are losing their jobs or not doing well . Like yours, it was a great corporate job with great pay and benefits but it was soulless and no longer gratifying. I love your humor and style, keep it up. One criticism, check your spelling.
Don't feel guilty about retiring. Doing that opens up a job opportunity for someone else! Besides, where is it written in a stone that you need to work your whole life until you die?
My savings technique: first I saved for things I wanted but once I saved enough I'd move the goalpost. Then I saved for freedom, enough to replace something if it broke, then I saved to buy back my time and give myself breathing room to make my own decisions about my life. Money for rent, food, school for the kids etc. We saved enough that we can quit (my wife did and is employed again) or move overseas towards new opportunities. Most of the money I spent was done trying to make myself feel better about my work so I saved to buy back my own peace of mind and freedom. :)
Beautiful content Vincent. Keep it coming.
Okay first of all I was anxious with you and that Red Bull 😭😭😭. I just knew it was going to explode everywhere. Plus they taste GROSS shaken up 🤢.
Anyway, I appreciate this video and your honesty. So many people have the wrong impression of quitting a job not realizing the aftermath of doing so. I think you accurately expressed the behind-the-scenes work you put in to be able to do so. Most people do not do that and expect to up and quit because they feel like it. Awesome video, tfs!!!